Social media and all them dating apps ruined relationships, these days your a swipe away from being replaced! Nobody likes working through problems and facing adversity, they want the quick fix and that’s the problem.
According to one of her talks, you decide that you marry when you decide you can’t do better and want to delete the dating apps lol She also talks about how there’s definitely also the paradox of choice. It’s easier to choose one of two, but not one of thousands
I love that > we stop looking at ourselves and only focus on the other person, and the problems we see in thm. As a single person I see this alot when talking with my coupled friends
What I see as a pattern in the work of relationships through having been watching Esther a lot is that when the host or questioning person is male, the conversation is about rationalizing and categorizing and trying to understand relationships. While when the other person is a woman it is more about the actual Living of relationships, the struggles, the conflicts, the hardship, through sharing personal stories and experiences. I prefer when the both being present. In this case the host does not show his own vulnerability yet only shows how well he is in understanding which is not adding to the convo unfortunately. Still Esther is gold and her work full of nuggets to collect for my own life.
She is so well thought and full of wisdom. It's hard to maintain relationships in these days (personal, professional, spiritual) but with the right tools in place it's possible to nurture them and keep the flame going for life.
She's so insightful and articulate about everything she says, her introduction lacks how paramount she is around her area of expertise and how much she is respected.
She is the most amazing speaker, thinker who brings all aspects of us together and how they interplay, right from biology, to evolution, to communities, cultures, beliefs, organisations, our shared and personal history and all of the little nuances that shape the interplay of our relatiinships. We truly need many many more thinkers, speakers like her, like Dr.Mate, Dick Scharwtz, Shefali Tsabary, who go on all levels of the ground to unearth our beautiful fascinating complexities.
“The vast majority of the world has never raised their children to do what’s right for them but what’s expected of them.” *Africa has left the chat. Asia would like to be removed from this narrative.*🥶
I absolutely love Impact Theory. I have an album in stores called, “ Faith Without Doubt;” currently working on my PhD, I work at Amazon, and have full custody of my six year old daughter, Livia, yet I have not reached my financial apex yet. I am trying to find out where am I going wrong.
Relationships have become mostly disappointing. The lack of willingness to be honest is just sad. I don't know is a good answer, rather than spinning up a bunch of lies to feel better about themselves. Trust is so difficult when it person is not able to show themselves
She’s amazing Tom, thanks for an amazing interview. FYI production adjustment for you or your crew. Your mic is in your main camera shot of yourself. Looks great framed but the camera focus is on the mic vs yourself. If want the mic to be seen use a boom and put it same distance as your body. Or if have a manual focus on that camera switch it to that and let it grab focus of your seating position and lock it there. At that point mic can be in on the shot for eye candy if that’s desired. Thanks Tom!
I'm a bisexual who is in a relationship with another bisexual, every time I visit her home I bring an offering, such as food or Italian soda or what she likes, and her dog too. You'd be surprised how well it works.
She’s awesome. Always love listening to her. On another note, you need to get Jordan Peterson on your show. Only then can you take it to another level.
Meet for a talk and speak your truth, even if your voice is shaking , as Ralph Smart said, and see / let the other person says their say, if they want. After months of hilding, i have to call my daughter and speak my truth witjout expevting nor asking nothing from her. It was good, she was surprised and said it was constructive. Now all is open. Much better than two silents apart. Much love
Could you have a special podcast on "How to love or rather survive... a relationship when separated by a Covid 19 travel ban". . Unmarried couples are still struggling to have some recognition and rights. It's nerve-wracking I don't know what to do or to which to turn to anymore. 😢❤️💔 . 🇫🇷🇺🇲 I miss my US boyfriend and his family so much 🥺 #LoveIsNotTourism #LoveIsEssential
I agree that communication is very important. I had a relationship with a girl and we had very good communication, but because our relationship partially moved into the friendship area (it was partially due to some long distance), she said it wasn't keeping the relationship. I highly value communication, being able to understand someone.
I wish I could have had my 18 year relationship analyzed by her when we were in crisis and it broke apart. I was very open to therapy but my partner was afraid and unfamiliar and resistant so the marriage went down the hole,,,although we remain good friends but in a surface lightweight more superficial arrangement. It’s hard to find a great therapist that both people like and trust, therapy and self introspection are hard and can be painful plus just a lot of work.
Thank you so much for this video. So many of our past traumas still linger in our new relationships unintentionally. Improvement begins with awareness.
Marriage : Serving your spouse, thinking of their best interest. Imagine if BOTH spouses practiced exactly this? Both would be seen and loved and respected.
Two people can go into a relationship/marriage with this intention and think that they are doing it, but both could feel unseen or not respected. It's important that they are on the same page. I could marry you and I love oranges, so every day I give you an orange thinking "she's going to feel so loved by my actions". You could love apples and give me apples every day and think "she's going to feel so loved by my actions". But in reality, you could hate oranges and I could hate apples and every gesture of good-will is actually offensive to the other. That's why it's important for you and I to sit down and communicate with each other and explain our wants and needs as well. But you're right, I think people get complacent and an imbalance can grow in the relationship.
“Fluent in 9 languages” This woman... 🙌🏻 This is the best interviewer of hers. I love that he actively listens, paraphrases, etc. He doesn’t interject, change the subject etc. Kudos!!!
Esther is incredible. Her works and podcasts are pure gold - I truly believe that everyone in a relationship or thinking about entering a relationship, should educate themselves with her work. Relationships take continuous hardwork, y'all. Amazing 👏
Only 10 minutes in and I am so fascinated. I think this is the best of her interview's I've ever listened to. And that is a big compliment to Tom as an interviewer.
However if you have a partner who refuses to talk over problems then that can be a big problem. Another answer may be too try to create more happy times instead but I found the untackled issues just piled up on us.
Absolutely love Ester's concept to place two objects in your daily view.. One representing what you must leave behind and another representing what you mean to foster, and asking what you have done today about each.
@@Melly16yr10 I've been thinking about those lately and I think about how good it feels to have pride and lust for others and my life itself so I can't agree 🤷♀️
The beginning of a relationship with all the attention and curiosity is exciting but I also think people need to withdraw from one another at times. You may need to mooch about, to sulk for a while over hurts which feel too petty to bring to the light of day etc. The important thing is to not extend these withdrawal times for too long as they can be hurtful to your partner.
Esther Perel’s work is exceptional....I’ve watched and listened to every piece available....this interview was one of the most incredible...you both so articulately isolated different individuals experiences......please see me, please hear me, please respect me....thank you to both of you.
My partner often mistranslates what I say and even when I say immediately no that’s not what I said he just says that’s how I took it and I’m like but that’s not what I said so there’s no point being upset or angry but he won’t budge and I can’t resolve.
Im listening to this and feel she’s onto something really important at 13:00. A lot of us use the same words but the cultural context of the words are different. Words like sex, marriage, family, happiness, etc. Marriage meant something entirely different to my grandparents than it did for my parents who came together out of love more than parental expectations. Success and happiness for them is still very much tied to how well my sister and I do in life.
In case no one has told you today, Keep pushing through the heartache, lack of motivation & self doubt. When you feel lost, that’s the perfect opportunity to find a reroute. There’s so much you’re meant to do in this lifetime, don’t give up on it. Hope our channel helps you on your journey ✌
You have touched on an important issue. Many of us feel somewhat discouraged by life and may not have the confidence and energy that Esther has. Some people need to withdraw from one another at times.
Open, honest communication is a prerequisite of good sex. Without vulnerability in communication...sex will disappear between the two in the relationship.
Tom's questions are absolutely briliant. I'm in awe. I've read Esther Perel's books and listened to her speak so many times, but this conversation was very different. Thank you so much 🙏🏻
This is what makes Tom THE best interviewer! He has the unique ability to dive deep into someone's work and then to interview him/her in such a way that he gets all the golden nuggets in a very short time. I've listened to so many of Esther's interviews, podcasts, TED Talks, but this one is the best. I love her work and it certainly had a great impact on my own relationships. Thank you to you both!
@@ChantalFourie I couldn't agree more. He's one the best prepared hosts ever! If you get a chance listen to Tom Bilyeu on Mikhaila Peterson's podcast. Loved seeing Tom on a different side of the conversation.
Literally made me drop what I was doing to take notes. I was saving this one for the weekend and I’m beyond excited! What the two of you bring in these conversations is amazing.
ooo i am thrilled to know more about the card game Ester described towards the end of this talk, fantastic interview as usual Tom. Thank you for bringing Ester's wisdom.
Wow! What a great interview! This content is very helpful for my personal and professional relationships. I was so engrossed with the interview it seemed to last only 5 seconds.
Dating became a mess because such persons like this woman pretend they know it all and some insecure people think they should look for answers that somebody else should tell them.
Most of us stare at the things that are uncertain and can't be controlled and hope it changes. Certainty can be a feeling, so create certainty in the other areas of life and it will give you a stronger foundation to handle some uncertainty 🙌
Esther is ABSOLUTELY brilliant, it's MESMERIZING to me how she's able to break down SUCH complex concepts in a digestible way.. she's the hero relationships need
It's not just romantic relationships that this all applies to, but everything discussed in this vid is important to foster a good relationship with anyone in this world.
My simple way of communication explanation is that there are 2 types of people. Narcissist style with whom the word communication is one way and it is their way and then you have the second group who are willing to communicate and fix problems.
Pure laziness - thinking that the other person is not worthy of attention....Tensions in the world.. a whole list....complacency - you actually do not appreciate and respect - the other person anymore......
Her wisdom and clarity is insurmountable❣️ She is truly heaven-sent! ♥️
Did I hear well??? Fluent in 9 languages?? I was already amazed by Esther Perel, now I am even more amazed by her?
Social media and all them dating apps ruined relationships, these days your a swipe away from being replaced! Nobody likes working through problems and facing adversity, they want the quick fix and that’s the problem.
According to one of her talks, you decide that you marry when you decide you can’t do better and want to delete the dating apps lol
She also talks about how there’s definitely also the paradox of choice. It’s easier to choose one of two, but not one of thousands
If you're a swipe away from being replaced then you are doing something very wrong.
Seriously. I plan to delete all my social media and just leave on fb messenger.
Online is The Paradox Of Choice- Ted Talk
Be careful, watching this video is dangerous, you will fall in love with this wonderful woman
True, she is the epitome of a great person so much understand and compassion
Spectacular
Too late…love at first sight long time ago🤣
Hahaha
🤣
I love that > we stop looking at ourselves and only focus on the other person, and the problems we see in thm.
As a single person I see this alot when talking with my coupled friends
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I am so excited for this interview but I expected a longer talk. She is pure gold...
One of the very best relationship psychologists I’ve heard !! The ability to hold multiple perspectives and through varied cultural lenses is key.
She is so good with speaking and her words. It is her nine languages for sure that gives her that understanding. Truly remarkable
What I see as a pattern in the work of relationships through having been watching Esther a lot is that when the host or questioning person is male, the conversation is about rationalizing and categorizing and trying to understand relationships. While when the other person is a woman it is more about the actual Living of relationships, the struggles, the conflicts, the hardship, through sharing personal stories and experiences.
I prefer when the both being present. In this case the host does not show his own vulnerability yet only shows how well he is in understanding which is not adding to the convo unfortunately.
Still Esther is gold and her work full of nuggets to collect for my own life.
You have to bring her back for part 2!! Pleaseeeee
She is the bomb. Love her and how she understands, explains how to love another.
She is so well thought and full of wisdom. It's hard to maintain relationships in these days (personal, professional, spiritual) but with the right tools in place it's possible to nurture them and keep the flame going for life.
This is one of her best. I think the interviewer facilitated this. Thanks
"She has podcasts around this stuff" .. how about "She has multiple TED talks and books published around this stuff" ?
Yes, what happened to the amazing intros Tom used to do!?
Yeah, a missed opportunity
Yeah... C'mon Tom. Her work in relationship dynamics is groundbreaking. She deserves a solid introduction.
And then he got the name of her podcast wrong too... Esther is wonderful and articulate. Tom was irritating.
She's so insightful and articulate about everything she says, her introduction lacks how paramount she is around her area of expertise and how much she is respected.
She is the most amazing speaker, thinker who brings all aspects of us together and how they interplay, right from biology, to evolution, to communities, cultures, beliefs, organisations, our shared and personal history and all of the little nuances that shape the interplay of our relatiinships.
We truly need many many more thinkers, speakers like her, like Dr.Mate, Dick Scharwtz, Shefali Tsabary, who go on all levels of the ground to unearth our beautiful fascinating complexities.
She is brilliant.
Wish i learned this stuff when it mattered. I lost the love of my life to pure ignorance of this stuff
Same here.
I believe many have probably lost the love of their life due to ignorance of Relationships.
Great engagement here. Glad I listened in. Keep up the good work Tom
Thanks Esther Perel, really really interesting and deep stuff. Love it!!!
Another unambiguous conversation with Ester. 🙌🏻
She's just AWESOME seriously extra ordinary
“The vast majority of the world has never raised their children to do what’s right for them but what’s expected of them.” *Africa has left the chat. Asia would like to be removed from this narrative.*🥶
I think that we wilfully dismiss the red flags. We also expect WAY too much from other people.
I absolutely love Impact Theory. I have an album in stores called, “ Faith Without Doubt;” currently working on my PhD, I work at Amazon, and have full custody of my six year old daughter, Livia, yet I have not reached my financial apex yet. I am trying to find out where am I going wrong.
All the best dude god bless you and your daughter ❤❤
@@dubomlbng thank you so much
Your Awesome Micheal. Your financial goals will come. All the best to you and your daughter. Sending love from Canada.
Oops Michael. Missed spell.
@@tommit4959 thank you
Thank you so much for the gift of these wonderful ideas for my relationships.
Relationships have become mostly disappointing. The lack of willingness to be honest is just sad. I don't know is a good answer, rather than spinning up a bunch of lies to feel better about themselves. Trust is so difficult when it person is not able to show themselves
She’s amazing Tom, thanks for an amazing interview. FYI production adjustment for you or your crew. Your mic is in your main camera shot of yourself. Looks great framed but the camera focus is on the mic vs yourself. If want the mic to be seen use a boom and put it same distance as your body. Or if have a manual focus on that camera switch it to that and let it grab focus of your seating position and lock it there. At that point mic can be in on the shot for eye candy if that’s desired.
Thanks Tom!
you can't argue with Esther
What an amazing lady. subd to her podcasts.
I'm a bisexual who is in a relationship with another bisexual, every time I visit her home I bring an offering, such as food or Italian soda or what she likes, and her dog too. You'd be surprised how well it works.
Sounds like manipulation..just a thought
Great insights :)
My two favorite people i couldn't click fast enough
She’s awesome. Always love listening to her. On another note, you need to get Jordan Peterson on your show. Only then can you take it to another level.
9 languages , I'm seriously underutilizing myself
Thank you
What if the things that kill the relationship happens only a few times a year? Is that a sign that will happen more often?
How is the best way to go about having the conversation to reconcile again and do it right after a break/break up that neither of us wanted..
Meet for a talk and speak your truth, even if your voice is shaking , as Ralph Smart said, and see / let the other person says their say, if they want. After months of hilding, i have to call my daughter and speak my truth witjout expevting nor asking nothing from her. It was good, she was surprised and said it was constructive. Now all is open. Much better than two silents apart. Much love
Hi! What's the name of the author Tom mentioned in the interview? About compartmentalizing? I'm interested in reading it. Thanks!
Criticism, defensiveness, stonewalling, contempt .....horsemen of the apocalypse
Could you have a special podcast on "How to love or rather survive... a relationship when separated by a Covid 19 travel ban".
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Unmarried couples are still struggling to have some recognition and rights. It's nerve-wracking I don't know what to do or to which to turn to anymore. 😢❤️💔
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🇫🇷🇺🇲 I miss my US boyfriend and his family so much 🥺
#LoveIsNotTourism
#LoveIsEssential
Aah! I feel you! My fiance is in the Netherlands I'm in Ireland, it's so hard. Much love to you both 💝
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25:50
25:00
People fight over these things
1. Power and Control
2. Trust and closeness
3. Respect and integrity
Imagine the quality of your relationship and your life if you are with someone who communicates so effectively with you.
I agree that communication is very important. I had a relationship with a girl and we had very good communication, but because our relationship partially moved into the friendship area (it was partially due to some long distance), she said it wasn't keeping the relationship. I highly value communication, being able to understand someone.
I keep a great communication and feel that keeping interest to your partner and same for him,is important. Work as a team, not against each other.
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"The vast majority of the world has never raised their children to do what is right for them"... That hit hard👏
Definitely felt that one
But what’s expected from them… hit harder❤️
1:26
But what's right for them? At a young age - it's what parents think is right for them (ie their experiences and expectations?)
Bad parenting is alive and well in the USA
“Naming is framing.” 👏She has really great insight into relationships and individuals 💯
10 languages, Esther Perel is also fluent in Relationships lol
I wish I could have had my 18 year relationship analyzed by her when we were in crisis and it broke apart. I was very open to therapy but my partner was afraid and unfamiliar and resistant so the marriage went down the hole,,,although we remain good friends but in a surface lightweight more superficial arrangement. It’s hard to find a great therapist that both people like and trust, therapy and self introspection are hard and can be painful plus just a lot of work.
Thank you so much for this video. So many of our past traumas still linger in our new relationships unintentionally. Improvement begins with awareness.
Yes, we also are wrongly encouraged to look away from our pain, wounds when looking at them helps us heal.
Marriage : Serving your spouse, thinking of their best interest. Imagine if BOTH spouses practiced exactly this? Both would be seen and loved and respected.
Two people can go into a relationship/marriage with this intention and think that they are doing it, but both could feel unseen or not respected. It's important that they are on the same page.
I could marry you and I love oranges, so every day I give you an orange thinking "she's going to feel so loved by my actions". You could love apples and give me apples every day and think "she's going to feel so loved by my actions". But in reality, you could hate oranges and I could hate apples and every gesture of good-will is actually offensive to the other. That's why it's important for you and I to sit down and communicate with each other and explain our wants and needs as well.
But you're right, I think people get complacent and an imbalance can grow in the relationship.
There are 4 things that kill a relationship and you should look for from day one....
1. Contempt
2. Neglect
3. Stonewalling and
4. Disrespect
1.) Criticism
2.) Defensiveness
3.) Stonewalling
4.) Contempt
The four horsemen!
“Fluent in 9 languages”
This woman... 🙌🏻
This is the best interviewer of hers. I love that he actively listens, paraphrases, etc. He doesn’t interject, change the subject etc. Kudos!!!
At the end of the day, good communication always wins
Esther is incredible. Her works and podcasts are pure gold - I truly believe that everyone in a relationship or thinking about entering a relationship, should educate themselves with her work. Relationships take continuous hardwork, y'all. Amazing 👏
Only 10 minutes in and I am so fascinated. I think this is the best of her interview's I've ever listened to. And that is a big compliment to Tom as an interviewer.
Yes! I was proud of him for not cursing ones during this interview!
@@1maybeline lol his cursing is fine. I don’t know why people are so against curse words. It a language of passion.
It is so important to talk a lot and early about problems... the longer you avoid them, the bigger they get. Every couple learns that the hard way
However if you have a partner who refuses to talk over problems then that can be a big problem. Another answer may be too try to create more happy times instead but I found the untackled issues just piled up on us.
1) Power & control
2) Trust & closeness
3) Respect & Recognition- Am I seen? Do not distort my intention.
❤
This lady is one of the best communicators I have heard with regards to relationships
Agreed
Stephen right, so easy she dumbs it down so beautifully
True
This tells a lot about her indepth knowledge about the subject
Absolutely love Ester's concept to place two objects in your daily view.. One representing what you must leave behind and another representing what you mean to foster, and asking what you have done today about each.
Power, Trust, Respect, Integrity, Recognition, Understanding, Nurturing, Reaching out.....VS....Shaming, Criticism, Stonewalling, Contempt.
I'll also add the 7 deadly sins. Ego, Arrogance, Ignorance, Sloth, Lust and Envy
@@Melly16yr10 I've been thinking about those lately and I think about how good it feels to have pride and lust for others and my life itself so I can't agree 🤷♀️
She's the amazing aunt we all need. A national treasure:)
The beginning of a relationship with all the attention and curiosity is exciting but I also think people need to withdraw from one another at times. You may need to mooch about, to sulk for a while over hurts which feel too petty to bring to the light of day etc. The important thing is to not extend these withdrawal times for too long as they can be hurtful to your partner.
Esther Perel’s work is exceptional....I’ve watched and listened to every piece available....this interview was one of the most incredible...you both so articulately isolated different individuals experiences......please see me, please hear me, please respect me....thank you to both of you.
Change your thoughts - Change your life
My partner often mistranslates what I say and even when I say immediately no that’s not what I said he just says that’s how I took it and I’m like but that’s not what I said so there’s no point being upset or angry but he won’t budge and I can’t resolve.
4 Horsemen of the Relationship Apocalypse
1) Criticism
2) Neglect
3) Stonewalling
4) Contempt
Sorry. No. 2 is Defensiveness
So true. Meditation and self awareness and bodily awareness! Polyvagal theory too! Also perception understanding one's past/values/triggers/beliefs
LOVE Esther!!!!!!!!! I can hear Esther Perel and Brene Brown ALL Day!!!!!! They make such simple points but oh so right points!!!!!!!!
who's Brene Brown
How to avoid pitfalls that end relationships? Don't get into a relationship.
Please before you go replying...I'm kidding...maybe.
Im listening to this and feel she’s onto something really important at 13:00. A lot of us use the same words but the cultural context of the words are different. Words like sex, marriage, family, happiness, etc. Marriage meant something entirely different to my grandparents than it did for my parents who came together out of love more than parental expectations. Success and happiness for them is still very much tied to how well my sister and I do in life.
In case no one has told you today, Keep pushing through the heartache, lack of motivation & self doubt. When you feel lost, that’s the perfect opportunity to find a reroute. There’s so much you’re meant to do in this lifetime, don’t give up on it. Hope our channel helps you on your journey ✌
You have touched on an important issue. Many of us feel somewhat discouraged by life and may not have the confidence and energy that Esther has. Some people need to withdraw from one another at times.
Tom did a superb job at this interview. Best Esther P interview on the internet to date.
Thoroughly agree!
She is incredible:)
💯 I love her too!! I learn so much from her. 💕💕💕
I could listen to her voice forever.
Open, honest communication is a prerequisite of good sex.
Without vulnerability in communication...sex will disappear between the two
in the relationship.
Tom's questions are absolutely briliant. I'm in awe.
I've read Esther Perel's books and listened to her speak so many times, but this conversation was very different. Thank you so much 🙏🏻
In my opinion, Tom is one of THE all time best interviewers. 👌🏼
This is what makes Tom THE best interviewer! He has the unique ability to dive deep into someone's work and then to interview him/her in such a way that he gets all the golden nuggets in a very short time. I've listened to so many of Esther's interviews, podcasts, TED Talks, but this one is the best. I love her work and it certainly had a great impact on my own relationships. Thank you to you both!
@@ChantalFourie I couldn't agree more. He's one the best prepared hosts ever!
If you get a chance listen to Tom Bilyeu on Mikhaila Peterson's podcast. Loved seeing Tom on a different side of the conversation.
Literally made me drop what I was doing to take notes. I was saving this one for the weekend and I’m beyond excited! What the two of you bring in these conversations is amazing.
And by the way, your introduction was not the same as the other guests! She is a genius and she deserves to be introduced better
ooo i am thrilled to know more about the card game Ester described towards the end of this talk, fantastic interview as usual Tom. Thank you for bringing Ester's wisdom.
This was so good. I'm going to spend my night writing a couple of letters instead of binging on another series. Absolutely loved this 💜
Wow! What a great interview! This content is very helpful for my personal and professional relationships. I was so engrossed with the interview it seemed to last only 5 seconds.
I wish this was longer. She is truly amazing at what she does🙂
Dating became a mess because such persons like this woman pretend they know it all and some insecure people think they should look for answers that somebody else should tell them.
This needed to be longer! I love this insight on relationships on any spectrum. Wonderful!
You can check out more on Lewis Howes's channel
2 of my favorite peeps! She makes intelligence seem so common place. Tom is still the best interview around! Do it again- soon please.
Most of us stare at the things that are uncertain and can't be controlled and hope it changes. Certainty can be a feeling, so create certainty in the other areas of life and it will give you a stronger foundation to handle some uncertainty 🙌
I LOOOOOVE HER!!! can we please have a part 2?
Esther is ABSOLUTELY brilliant, it's MESMERIZING to me how she's able to break down SUCH complex concepts in a digestible way.. she's the hero relationships need
32:35 I need to understand better the objects example....
Wow! So many tools handed out in this interview. Will definitely be looking into her work. She's amazing. Thanks for this golden nugget!!
OMG, can't wait for the card gaaaame😍😍
65% of startups fail because of the cofounders relationship. An astounding waste of economic resources!
It's not just romantic relationships that this all applies to, but everything discussed in this vid is important to foster a good relationship with anyone in this world.
Don't shack up before marriage & take it seriously. 🤷♀️
Wow, Esther really just shined in this interview.
My simple way of communication explanation is that there are 2 types of people. Narcissist style with whom the word communication is one way and it is their way and then you have the second group who are willing to communicate and fix problems.
Agreed
Great episode! That's why communication skills are so important! Thank you for this valuable information!
She needs to be invited to "Conversations with Tom". I'd love to hear you guys talk more.
Soooo much wisdom.
♥️
*I literally have to re-watch... !*
Pure laziness - thinking that the other person is not worthy of attention....Tensions in the world.. a whole list....complacency - you actually do not appreciate and respect - the other person anymore......
24:59 Three things we are really fighting about . Power/control , trust, recognition
She is Fabulous!! By far the best...highly skilful and inspiring. Very insightful interview