LEVEL UP Guide for Late Bloomers | Thrive in Your 20s, 30s and 40s!
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✨Hey fam! If you are a late bloomer, this video is for you! Are you looking to level up and thrive in your 20s, 30s, and 40s? In this empowering video, I dive into the journey of late bloomers and provide a comprehensive guide to help you unlock your full potential at any age! From setting meaningful goals to overcoming self-doubt and cultivating resilience, this video offers practical tips and strategies to navigate life's challenges and achieve success on your own timeline.
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I’ve been watching your content since 2011/2012. Mainly for hair content while you were in your PhD programme. I even remember your short lived UA-cam reality show with 2 other creators. I was married at 27, divorced at 35 and now I’m almost 39 at the final stage of my PhD (which started post divorce). I love that you kept all your videos up and to see your growth and happiness.
I am so proud of you!
Im very much the late bloomer:
age 31
no husband
no kids
financially scraping
But also grateful and content that God has allowed me several accomplishments! 🎉🎉🎉
Not late just taking my time and doing it God's way and in his timing ❤
That’s right!
Amen. God's Love and Blessings 🙌 ✝️ 💜.
I got my degree at 35, my first real job at 42.still single and wondering where to meet someone special.
Well done
This was made for me. Always late in everything.
Girl you are right in time!
Same here
I literally wanted you to talk about this but I was ashamed to even write it down as a request. Thank you so much for posting this video. I went on my first date when I was 26. Received my Bachelor’s degree at 28 and my Master’s degree at the age of 30. I’m now recovering from an abusive relationship, so who knows when I’ll open my heart to someone else again. I’m also in the process of starting my own business at 34. So this is just the encouragement I needed. Thank you love. Truly. ❤❤❤❤
You’re not alone for sure!!
Oh noooo. It's awful but understandable to hear shame in the request. We are so horrible to each other
Congratulations on all your achievements! You should be proud of yourself! One day, true love will knock at the door of your heart, but tale All the time you need and heal. Heal sister, so you don't bleed on the God given man you will be blessed with one day. Get the therapy, Cry, grieve, and take the lessons and be accountable on your end for you. We all make mistakes but we rise stronger and wiser after proper counsel. Blessings to you on your journey of healing ❤️🙏🏾
The best is ahead of you sis💪🏽👌🏽😘
You're never to old to be what you might have been!!! Love it... I'm definitely a late bloomer but I'm working towards my goals.
I just recently turned 40. I'm a single mother who has the desires of being married, have another child and obtain my master's degree.
Some days I feel like it’s never gonna happen but looking at videos like these help give hope
Thanks for the video , I’m 33 and I been trying to get out of this mindset that it’s too late it’s really been heavy on my heart but I’m pushing through holding myself accountable
same here. it's difficult when everyone around is married with kids
I'm a late bloomer and love your content. These videos give me hope.
Thank you!
@@BeautifulBrwnBabyDol You're welcome!
I'm a late bloomer also 🙏🏽
@@nicolewilliam3489 🙏
@@nicolewilliam3489 🙏
I know it’s cliché and ad nauseam but you really shouldn’t compare yourself to others. Mentally and emotionally I feel more prepared for an upgrade in my career and education now, not in my 20s or 30s. I find that people I know who had families in their 20s and 30s tell me ALL the TIME that they wish they waited and maybe didn’t have as many children. Plus, focused more on their education and careers. No answer or way is correct. Each of us have our own road to travel. Life lifes us in directions that are best for us at specific times. As long as we’re alive, there is always opportunity to switch things up.
This is soo uplifting
Thank you for posting this video and congrats for your marriage and precious baby! I sometimes feel so behind especially with romance, children etc. I am 36, single and have no children, but I have faith that it will happen sooner or later if God says the same. I got my Bachelor's and Master's degrees in my 20's but I had cancer at 27 which put a halt on everything else I had planned. I am now much healthier and I am happy in my career field. I just need to make myself available to dating, but I am an introvert lol.
Loving me at 52 and loving life. I have learn to stop comparing myself to friends and neighbors like I was saying they are thriving why I’m not ?So I decided to dedicated my life to loving Jesus fully and it’s amazing. I’m learning how to finance my earnings and take masterclass .Thank You
He just wanted some camera time too and blaming it on that beautiful baby, thats all.
Dr. Nina you are that girl!❤
I’m a mother & became one at 23. I will be 34 in May & definitely feel behind in certain areas, however, the growth that has happened to me while getting myself together has been tremendously encouraging & beautiful ❤.
We are NEVER late because God is always on time & knows what He is doing ❤.
Jeremiah 29:11 ❤
Look! God always knows!
@@BeautifulBrwnBabyDolamen ❤
I became a mother at 23 as well and was in a toxic abusive relationship with the father for my entire 20s. Once I freed myself from it I began a long healing journey but through the journey and as the years went on I was worried about if I would ever get a chance to experience real love, a stress free pregnancy(ies), marriage, a fruitful career, successful businesses, all of it! I’m now 37 and my career is flourishing, my businesses are growing, love has found me, I’ve lost over 100lbs…I’m just waiting on God to continue to guide this journey. I pray over my womb so that I can bare more children. I just give it all to God!! Thanks @@BeautifulBrwnBabyDol for this video💜💜💜😘😘😘 You journey is truly an inspiration 💜
That was cute Shaun coming in, 😂 that's your late blooming life!🥰 Loved this video so much needed info. thanks for sharing..❤
This is beautiful, and raising my kids who are also late bloomers, it can be hard to shield them from so many who judge. I really appreciate you so much! Slow but steady wins the race. I needed this today, sweet friend. Thank you!❤
This is beautiful!!!! Thank you for watching!
People tend to level out the more time goes by. Take your time, you will get there. Not late just on a different schedule.
I'm a late bloomer because of my mental health but I've learned to be resilient through changing my thinking and perspective. I felt bad about being 34 with no prospects of a husband but after viewing this video, I'm not ready cause I want to be financially secure by myself first and I don't want my student loans to come back cause they got discharged. Thank you so much for this video it helped me so much to stop feeling bad about my age
Thank you! I didn’t meet my husband until I was 38. We both would not have been ready for each other before that time.
Congratulations to you both
What a god sent video at 55 thank you.
I feel like I am a late bloomer across the board. I don’t know where to start!
I am a single mom at 22 years, I'm only a high school graduate, I don't have a job, I can't really work because of my son, I'm planning on furthering next year but I keep wondering how I would pay my fees and still cater for my son😢.
For now I run a crochet business at home, I just hope and pray God changes things for me, I still believe in miracles 100 percent.
I really don't know why I'm typing all this, but I just thought to share.
It's never too late for anything in life. Thanks for sharing this video.❤❤❤😊
Girl this is RIGHT on time!!!
Thank you so much for posting this video! It really spoke to me!!! I needed to hear this! Now it’s TIME to put it into ACTION!
All my life I've been a late bloomer. I am turning 38 in 24 days with no kids, husband or house (though not struggling financially but don't feel secure). Received my first degree at 25 and second degree at 28. Even after getting my degree, I applied to over 50 jobs and had to wait 1.5 years to get a decent job because I didn't have any experience. It's hard seeing others thriving while you're just surviving. I have always been to one to help others around me even to my own detriment. This video came right on but I am feeling a bit weary.
I actually don't look at you as a late bloomer. Looks fine to me lol. I would be considered a late bloomer, but I think the proper phrase is moving in our own personal journey at our own pace. Some of the people who "moved fast" or even at normal pace according to societal standards at a younger age in regards to dating/relationships are now older and living with regrets or thinking they missed out or divorcing and startin a new phase of their life. Maybe we are not "late" at all and others are moving too fast lol. I used to feel bad about not moving same as my peers but now Im living a life others look at with envy(which I dont like lol, we all got out lives to live!).
I can relate to alot of these comments. Giving all the Blessings to everyone
Thank you for this video, I need that because After losing my beloved husband of 19 years. I needed how to figure out how to set goals for just Me. After doing for someone so long it takes time to figure me out . Being a late bloomer at the great page of 59. She is so grateful for a small extended family that knows how to support when I need it most. Excellent content.
Thank you for the post! As a 35-year-old woman with no children. And currently in my doctoral program I got to the point and believe God is your time. Just get me ready I have my ob-gyn start asking when I am going to have children and my family. At 1 point it put me in a depression because I felt like I was getting it from all sides
Tell them to kindly stay out your business and that’s between you God and your future husband
Also, it’s ok if you don’t even want children!! You may want to be married and have children or not!! Remember it’s your choice, but just be sure that your future husband wants the exact same thing whatever that may be!!
@@mrs.kimcoleman5386 their no question I want children and I make it clear to anyone. I just will wait until God sees fit
@@86Kera 😉 thank you
Not Sean with the skin care tips 🤣🤣
let the man give his skincare tip lol
I'm so proud of you Nina as I have never got things easy but got them late. So yes it's okay to wait. I'm divorced with adult children & grandchildren. I'm very happy where I'm at hoping to leave a legacy for my family. You look very young and not a day over 30. Keep your family happy and strong.
i love this video and your content. Have been following you for years. Happy to see you're continuing to thrive :)
i just turned 26 in January and I’ve always felt like everything has happened for me a little later. i’ve never been in a relationship, just got my license this year, i still live at home, i don’t have a car yet, ive struggled with deciding on a career etc. everyone has been in my ear trying to rush my process and that made me feel like shit. this year is the first year that i deleted all my social media, cut off certain people, became celibate, got a therapist, and started focusing on my goals. i told myself that i would be selfish this year. THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO !!! I needed this 🩵
What a timely video! I was just talking to a friend about earlier. I feel like i'm the only single one of my friends.
I love to see it. Been following you since the very beginning.
Amen❤️🙏🏽 Great video and message…
Much appreciated Sis. 🙏🏿🙌🏿🥰
Sahun walking in was the FUNNIEST LOL and your reaction! I love it! God bless yall ❤
Thanks , Dr. Nina. I appreciate all of your recommendations.
Thank you, Dr. Nina. I really needed to hear this. You give me so much hope!!!
Hey girl! I’ve been watching you a long time! You stopped doing hair videos? Also congrats on your baby 🎉🎉🎉
Oh my goodness, I am cracking up over here at Mr. Shawn - she's seriously recording! You guys have such amazing energy, I just love it! By the way, I can totally relate as a late bloomer myself. Watching this has given me some insight and understanding about my journey. I don't feel like I need to rush and please others anymore, and it's so comforting to know that everything will happen in its own time. Thanks for sharing your experience!
This video enlightened me. I still battle with my wants of achieving a lifestyle of professionalism which is something far different from the life I've lived so far. I feel I'm over my head or maybe in denial. But the desire is so strong!
You have blessed me so much! Thank you Nina!
Do what you got to do to get to where you want to go is exactly what I needed to hear. I mean I knew it but to have someone tell me who not only I admire but someone see who is wise to hits differently for me. I am 22 days into leaving a toxic, borderline DV relationship and it’s been freeing but also burdening at the same time. I thought about giving up, I had thoughts of regret, I was low-key going towards hopeless. But apparently this is the healing stage and no one is going to get me where I want to be in life! I just have to do what i go to do to get to where I want to be! Thank you Dr. Nina! ❤
Hi my name is Louella I had a stroke 20 years ago I got married then I had a stroke now I'm ready to go on with my life and be happy play some things
LOL See I love how real this is!!! I needed this reminder. I am a late bloomer as well. I am learning how to be content in the season that I am in.
This was a great video! I’m a late bloomer when it comes to relationships. I was focused on school and getting a career that I really wanted. I’m stable in everything but that. Close to 40 with no marriage prospects and no children. I will say though, it’s very important to know the reasons why you “want” something. Sometimes I think about children and I’m like “do I really want them?” Most times I’m around them, I’m glad I can return them to their families….😂 I’m also in the education field so I see the affects of poor parenting all of the time. Anyway, thanks for sharing Nina! Thank Sean for the skincare tips!!! 😂
Your so inspirational!!!!!!!!!!! My goodness
Really enjoyed this video. Thanks
This information coming from a beautiful black women means so much more than you could ever know my soul feels and is seen. We love you. This came right on time. ❤️
Im literally tearing up watching this. This hit me on so many levels. Im turning 30 this year and feeling lost, as if I didn't accomplish anything and questioning when things will start happening for me like my peers. When in reality I accomplished a lot. Thank you so much for this video ❤
I hear you! I'm almost 31, and some days I feel the same way🙏🏾
@@tabithathewholistic Glad to know I'm not alone
@@simplysean1 Oh you're definitely not sis! Trust me 🙏🏾🥹
This is comforting. You encouraged me when you first starting with your hair growth and weight loss journey. Im literally a day one lol.
I already knew this deep down, but this is helpful, cause it isn't just me convincing myself. Ive lived for others and now its my time. Im finding myself at 39 and documenting the journey.
Im proud of myself. Better late... thank you!
Yes I definitely a late bloomer and I’m grateful to God for it because I’m now in a season of thriving 30s. I have learned how to thrive and proud of myself! I’ve been eat hungry your channel for years and love that you do you! We gotta do what’s best for us to thrive!
Its your husband disrupting our talk right when it was getting good good lol !!! So cute:)
When I say right on time!!! It’s so good to know I’m not the only one still doing things alone. I agree with you Nina several that seemed to be first in line for marriage, degrees, lifestyle don’t seem so happy now.
I have learned to take care of myself first and it’s okay to no answer the phone or be readily available to those that depend on you. Run your race and take your time your blessing is coming.
This is very sound advice! Thank you! ❤
Hey beautiful brwn baby Doll 😊👋
Such a blessing. Just when it was getting deep the husband walks in lol cute moment 💜✝️
I'm lata, late. Soon to be 56
This came at the right time. Thank you, sis!
I needed to see this video today. Thank you so much for always being so real all the time. You’re truly the very best!💕💕💕💕
Beautifully said ❤. Self Love first.
Your favorite late bloomer 😂😂😂 I love this❤
5:45 lol 😅awe Hunter said “I got a surprise for yallll” lol 😆
Thank you for sharing your stormy❤❤
Dr. Nina, I needed to hear that! Thank you so much. I'm a late bloomer as well. Now I have a husband (who's wonderful) and 3 children. We're both professionals and work fulltime. I honestly have zero time for myself. It's so hard to pencil myself in! There's ALWAYS something. Whether it be dinner, a basketball game, swim meet, homework help, elderly parent, trying to schedule date night or a PTA meeting, I am truly lost in the sauce! Oh, I didn't even mention the guilt. If something falls through I feel like the world's worse mother or wife! I'm aware that I'm the one putting all this pressure on myself. But I honestly don't know how to stop. 😩😩
Can I ask you how old you were when you met your husband and had your children? Take care from a late 33 year old late bloomer.
And had children in my late 30s!
Ooh am I 1st😊
Yes you are!
You and hubby are so cute 😅
Lmbo😅😅😅you two so cute
Love this! ❤
Wonderful info
ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL TESTIMONY THANKS for SHARING and being TRANSPARENT!👐👏❤💪💯
I'm hollin cuzzin!😂😂😂
I love the unexpected bloopers! That's so cool!
Letting the world really know what's real!❤
I trust 🙏🏽
God bless you sis! Thank God, and thank you! This was necessary for me right now. Keep allowing God to use you lady! All FACTS!
@BeautifulBrwnBabyDol I loved this video and I loved that you didn't edit when hubby walked in.. this was soo Beautiful ❤ thank you
I’ll be 33 in a couple weeks and I have nothing really going for me. I only have an associates degree that I got 6 years ago, in accounting. I worked as a cake decorator during school and I’m still working as one because I couldn’t find a job in the accounting field with no experience and no bachelors/ masters degree. No savings, no 401k, no bachelors degree, no career. I want to go back to school, I want to eventually to get my masters but I feel like I’m too old to achieve that now.
This was right on time thank you so much for this!!! I am indeed a late bloomer and this was exactly what I needed to hear, I was just praying and frustrated and now I feel like I have strategy!!! Thank you, thank you, thank you!!!!!
Shawn funny! That’s the second time is saw him walk in while you 🎥! Too funny. Beautiful Family 😊Wise Advice
Wow u just inspired me God's time is the best for those who believe in Him🙏👩❤️👨❤️
Thank you ❤
Hey Dr. Nina. I love your videos. Congratulations on the baby girl, she’s beautiful. I love you so much. You are a blessing. Can you please do a video on fear and procrastination
Back then they didn't want me, now I'm hot they all on me! Mike Jones who??? Love it Sis ❤
Thank you Nina! This video is right on time. I am graduating in May. And this has caused some reflection on my part. I am a late bloomer and I strongly feel that everything that is meant for me will come to me and I don't have to chase it. It took me a minute to learn to live for me but I got it now.
This video I will definitely be replaying. ✨️ So proud of you Nina. 😊
Golden information! Thank you for the laughs, for sharing your life with us, and for all the great offers - it is appreciated. Bless you and your beautiful family. Much love Dr. Nina 💗
Thank you ❤ i really needed this 🥺🥺🥺 i have been struggling about being 31 and not having a partner. Not being that economical stable but now i feel really to keep going, know myself and not comparing
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I’m glad you kept that part in with your husband . Too funny and cute ! Great video as always !
😂girl i can always count on you to be our big auntie ty love from Jamaica ❤😊 .... girl am proud of u being a new mom and being so consistent on here.
Thanks for speaking to my soul may God bless you
Yesss !!! Small changes lead to big changes 🙏🏽😊
I was quickly tickled at you almost passing out on your first kiss 😂
I just wanted to say that your family is absolutely beautiful ❤️. God bless you all!