I'm a filipina 20 yrs old my fiance is 55. Sometimes he has this thought that I might look for younger guys. I would never do that because I love him so much. I don't care what other people think or say. I love him from the bottom of my heart.
I typically don't think about age gaps...My wife is also 32 and I am 59 right now. I have to admit though my wife is more mature then me..LOL. I am a bit of a clown at times. But I did request that my wife got her collage degree before we would marry. REASON : Lets be honest here,. while we have a 28 year age gap in all reality I will die before she will and I wanted to teach her the importance of being a strong independent woman. Meaning having an education, having a job. ( She is a collage level English teacher now ) learning to drive. Learning how to live and maintain come the day I am gone. I mean Filipinas don't typically remarry at a later age after the husband dies...so she needs to know how to make it on her own. The best think I can do is teach her now...I am not really planning for my future, but I do plan for hers
Kelly Fletcher,That so awesome what you did to her. You look at her future. My ex husband and me is 29 yrs ages gap. When we married I am 30 and he is 59. He won't let work or learn how to drive or go to school.But i break his rule.When he is at work. I ask my friend to teach me how to drive.He has no idea.He surprised when I show him driver license lol.I can't depend on him most especially we have 3 kids to taking care and we live paycheck to paycheck For breaking his rules our married turn to nightmare's. I' am Happy for you guys. God Bless you both.
To be honest yes Cecile looks younger than her age, but then again you do too Scott. As a couple you don't look that out of whack age wise. I've seen some super age gaps that make a person do a second take, but 20 years difference, especially at your ages doesn't seem unreasonable. In our relationship there's only 7 years which I guess is kind of uncommon in Philippine / Foreigner relationships. I do have some friends where their Filipino wives are much younger however and who seem to be doing quite well.
As a Filipina who was born and raised in the Philippines, I can say that in general, Filipinos don't really care about age gap relationships. It doesn't only happen to foreigners but for filipinos as well. My friends, both filipinos have20+ year age gap. My ex boyfriend was 15 years older than me. There's no judgement here in general.
Haha there's no tampo in America... I know that's not anything you post about but my ex was 6yrs younger than me but in her attitude she's like a 13 still but she's already 25 so some filipinas are not yet mature or ready to be in relationship maybe that is why the bigger age difference isn't so bad as maybe they need mature guidance even it's not told out loud it's maybe needed IDK...
I am 59, Roma is 35. We have never had any issues. We both agree on a guy in his 50,s dating someone who is 18 or a few years older is weird. But at the end of the day as long as you both love each other its ok. You can have issues in any age gap. Even if its 1 or 2 years difference.
Personally I do see a issue with age gap. Ppl in the states are more judgemental. For me (42) I'd like to meet someone in her 30's. Dont think I'd have the energy and/or anything in common with a 20 something. Then again it come down to maturity and other factors. You guys seem to be the perfect fit for each other. New sub btw. Greetings from Arizona
Hi,I’m watching from England,I’m your new subscriber,your video pop on UA-cam while I’m trying find something,it’s so interesting to watching and you two story about ages gaps relationship.
Hi guys from Canada. I just subscribed to your UA-cam channel as it just came through my feed and I am so excited for you guys as I feel so relatable and resonating with your relationship. I am in an LDR relationship with a Filipina and we met online on Christian Filipina in May 2023. We are 16 years in age gap and got engaged after 9 months of our relationship. I am 54 and my fiancé is 38 and I have to say that a 15 to 20 year age gap relationship is the best and perfect age gap relationship in every aspect of the relationship and life. Also from the different challenges and experiences you both have encountered in your relationship we have been through likewise concerning matters of mature communication and the disagreements, etceteras. Congratulations on your successful story and all the very best wishes to you both and your family. 🇨🇦🇵🇭👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Cecile and Scott... I am new to your channel and loved what I'veseensofar.. my wife and I live in Vegas... I am Filipino, she's American... I watch lots of UA-cam vloggers in relationships with Filipinas... have definitely seen extremely huge age gaps between the Filipinas and their foreign partners.... i would not consider you and Cecile to be in that same category even though you have stated that 20 years separate you two. You two look closer together in appearance, age-wise... this is not a knock on Cecile... she definitely looks mature for her age, whatever her age may be, and you look strikingly young. So, others may look at both of you strangely at times but I wouldn't put much on it. You guys look great together... perhaps others may look at you guys with a double take coz both of you are admittedly good looking.... just saying. Keep up the vlogs... looking forward to see your past and future videos
how can you age if your skin is always soaked in humidity and perspiration and oil from the muscles? if you manage to outgrew pimples and acnes without scars you're golden!
This is the first video I've seen and its funny because he sounds like me on style lol! Im almost 40 and talking to a 23 year old Filipina so I guess I have worries of the age gap which she doesnt care. Did you ever wonder how did this beautiful Filipina pick me out of all these other guys she could pick??
@@Marker44 Thank you! Yes she has said a couple of times she has no problem with it because being an American like u said its not really the norm here! Ive watched quite a few of your videos today and thank you for the content its very helpful to understand differences in us and the Filipinas!
Age is just a number for you guys to be honest its not visible its probably because your both good looking and that compensated with the age issue like what the ancient said we fight , we laugh and we make love and one thing I notice your both calm judging with how you talked your both well educated probably with degrees they say there are 4 ways and only 4 ways we have contact with the world we are evaluated and classified by each of this 4 contacts what we do how we look what we say and how we say it this is what we call personality development people who gets older tends to neglect their body and appearance but that should not be personality development is a continues thing
We older men have to make more of an effort to be fashionable. We have to get our clothes tailored to have more of an modern fit. I had to accept that change is sometimes necessary to be relevant Get rid of the penny loafers…lol.
Did you just hit the Zelda sound effects 😅 Me and my filipina are 11.5 years exactly apart... I'm currently 39 she just turned 28 last month so it's not uncommon in the the Philippines. What I don't like is the 60+yrs dude with a 18yr pinay that's disgusting and shouldn't be allowed. Just be happy in the relationship and to hell with what others think or say I am fine with your age difference and mine with my filipina is perfectly fine also... Wish both y'all the best. Can I ask yall what is the going rate for a civil nothing added or fancy just the basic basic going prices papers from Manila to just the process in court and any fees tied to becoming legally married not including food or after party or pics or anything. Gonna be getting married after the turn of the year and ban lift in the Philippines been with my gf 3yrs 4 by the time were married, it's time already to tie that knot to her
Off the top of my head its very cheap. Just some different filing fees maybe totaling $100. A reception can be done pretty cheap also. Thanks for the comment! Good luck to you both! Congrats!
Lol! My husband said he wants to kick his own butt when I try to dress him to make him look younger 😄 sounds kind of like me and my husband. He’s a really good guy,too! I’m so bless to have him.
I do understand what you are saying about people watching you two because of the age gap. I may be one of those people on occasion. Guilty! :) But I watch the couples with benign intent, and just of curiosity, never judging. I guess most of the people who watch fall into the same category. Why should you care anyway, right.
Oh I don’t care about people say to me. I just do my own business. We all got judge with other people so who care. It doesn’t bother me that’s there problem not mine as long I don’t hurt anyone that’s all my concern. Same with me my husband we are conservative people because now a day is very liberal world it doesn’t matter if you are in the Philippines 🇵🇭. I grew up Catholic and my husband is Presbyterian but at the end we go to same Church in his Church is nota problem to both us is just religion because the most important to us we worship same God.
My GF is 18 years my junior. I try to change her dressing too. Way TO MUCH black 🙄🤦🏻♂️. I tell her honey wear more bright colors to match your personality 👍🏻. Great talk guys 🍻
51 and 32…. Doesn’t look bad together. I think once the woman is over 30 all best are off. I think when they are in their early 20’s with an older man it stands out more.
I've been looking at the videos how's the Philippines in different places and different areas I would love to go over there and find a beautiful wife to bring back to the United States I've already been married once and have two older kids and has grandchildren so I am looking for soulmate and Philippines and how kind loving and friendly they are and the way life is little simpler out in the Philippine from what I see the American women unfortunately are very spoiled and want to be spoiled I am just looking for a good woman that works hard like I do that would like to enjoy life I am a very Outdoors person and have a very young mind Adventure travel I am trying to schedule a time to go over to the Philippines for maybe a week or two weeks does she have any beautiful cousins or sisters I want to find a good woman in one of the province I don't want a city girl unless she is wifey material love kids and I enjoy life to the fullest thank you I enjoyed your video
@@God.sDaughter I married a Filipino that died at the age of 50 from cancer. She was just as beautiful as the day I married her. I have 7 Filipino/American kids. My 20 year old son looks like 17. My 18 year old daughter looks like 14. I will be gone before they ever begin to age. I would say that Asians have an advantage that the rest of the world would love to have.
My wife only 11 years younger I just shave off all gray hair no bird no more. Carhartt and Keys more my style. I did notice my wife not like my cloths it just come up missing.
My boyfriend from 🇺🇸 54 yrs old 💕💕and me I'm 23 but age doesn't matter when two people love each other 💗. New subscriber here 😊😊😍ingat kayo palagi 💗from 🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭
Hes like me .... so very blessed and has a STUNNNNNING bride that gets better every year !!!
I'm a filipina 20 yrs old my fiance is 55. Sometimes he has this thought that I might look for younger guys. I would never do that because I love him so much. I don't care what other people think or say. I love him from the bottom of my heart.
I think what hes feeling is normal but hopefully he will realize that your are here to stay.
I typically don't think about age gaps...My wife is also 32 and I am 59 right now. I have to admit though my wife is more mature then me..LOL. I am a bit of a clown at times. But I did request that my wife got her collage degree before we would marry. REASON : Lets be honest here,. while we have a 28 year age gap in all reality I will die before she will and I wanted to teach her the importance of being a strong independent woman. Meaning having an education, having a job. ( She is a collage level English teacher now ) learning to drive. Learning how to live and maintain come the day I am gone. I mean Filipinas don't typically remarry at a later age after the husband dies...so she needs to know how to make it on her own. The best think I can do is teach her now...I am not really planning for my future, but I do plan for hers
Thats great! Best of luck to you both!
respect genuine heart
Kelly Fletcher,That so awesome what you did to her. You look at her future. My ex husband and me is 29 yrs ages gap. When we married I am 30 and he is 59.
He won't let work or learn how to drive or go to school.But i break his rule.When he is at work. I ask my friend to teach me how to drive.He has no idea.He surprised when I show him driver license lol.I can't depend on him most especially we have 3 kids to taking care and we live paycheck to paycheck
For breaking his rules our married turn to nightmare's.
I' am Happy for you guys.
God Bless you both.
Wow😲😍😍
To be honest yes Cecile looks younger than her age, but then again you do too Scott. As a couple you don't look that out of whack age wise. I've seen some super age gaps that make a person do a second take, but 20 years difference, especially at your ages doesn't seem unreasonable.
In our relationship there's only 7 years which I guess is kind of uncommon in Philippine / Foreigner relationships. I do have some friends where their Filipino wives are much younger however and who seem to be doing quite well.
I would have never guessed you guys have a big age gap. All I see is Beautiful couple.
Thank you very much! Youre very kind.
You don't look 52 Mark, you handsome. Your lucky to have beautiful Pinay wife
She’s so beautiful! You’re both perfect together! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
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Great couple, wish you guys the best
Thank you!
Great video! Genuine, natural, uncut and unedited(for the most part) unlike other videos out there. I can tell you have a lot of patience.
Thank you very much! Glad you enjoyed it and thanks for watching!
As a Filipina who was born and raised in the Philippines, I can say that in general, Filipinos don't really care about age gap relationships. It doesn't only happen to foreigners but for filipinos as well. My friends, both filipinos have20+ year age gap. My ex boyfriend was 15 years older than me. There's no judgement here in general.
Haha there's no tampo in America... I know that's not anything you post about but my ex was 6yrs younger than me but in her attitude she's like a 13 still but she's already 25 so some filipinas are not yet mature or ready to be in relationship maybe that is why the bigger age difference isn't so bad as maybe they need mature guidance even it's not told out loud it's maybe needed IDK...
Thanks for sharing your experience. Always good to add information from a Filipina. Thanks for watching!
Handsome & beautiful couple!Soohhh sweeett❤️
Thank you!
...nice couple...very entertaining...i enjoy watching your videos...God Bless...
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Mr. Mark your Filipina wife is really beautiful so I think many foreigners loves Filipina
I agree. Thank you!
Thank you Mr. Mark I watched your channel and it's nice
I am 59, Roma is 35. We have never had any issues. We both agree on a guy in his 50,s dating someone who is 18 or a few years older is weird. But at the end of the day as long as you both love each other its ok. You can have issues in any age gap. Even if its 1 or 2 years difference.
Well said John.
Personally I do see a issue with age gap. Ppl in the states are more judgemental. For me (42) I'd like to meet someone in her 30's. Dont think I'd have the energy and/or anything in common with a 20 something. Then again it come down to maturity and other factors. You guys seem to be the perfect fit for each other. New sub btw. Greetings from Arizona
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Hi,I’m watching from England,I’m your new subscriber,your video pop on UA-cam while I’m trying find something,it’s so interesting to watching and you two story about ages gaps relationship.
We're happy you found our channel! Hope you enjoy more of the videos.
Watching your video age doesn’t matter as long as you love each other. God bless
We agree with you! Thanks for watching!
With so many filipna and foreigner couple you two are the perfect couple i think.you age gap look like only couple years maybe 10 or less
Thank you for the compliments!
You can not others accept you. Just concentrate on making your life happy and not care what they say or feel. Good luck much happiness to you both.
I meant you can not make others accept you.
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Perfect Combination
Thank you sir and thanks for watching!
Who cares what other people think Scott.....your the lucky guy,smile from ear to ear.....
Hi guys from Canada. I just subscribed to your UA-cam channel as it just came through my feed and I am so excited for you guys as I feel so relatable and resonating with your relationship. I am in an LDR relationship with a Filipina and we met online on Christian Filipina in May 2023. We are 16 years in age gap and got engaged after 9 months of our relationship. I am 54 and my fiancé is 38 and I have to say that a 15 to 20 year age gap relationship is the best and perfect age gap relationship in every aspect of the relationship and life. Also from the different challenges and experiences you both have encountered in your relationship we have been through likewise concerning matters of mature communication and the disagreements, etceteras. Congratulations on your successful story and all the very best wishes to you both and your family. 🇨🇦🇵🇭👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Thank you very much! We're happy that you found us and welcome to our channel. Best wishes to you both as well!
@@Marker44 You’re welcome! Thank you!
Cecile and Scott... I am new to your channel and loved what I'veseensofar.. my wife and I live in Vegas... I am Filipino, she's American... I watch lots of UA-cam vloggers in relationships with Filipinas... have definitely seen extremely huge age gaps between the Filipinas and their foreign partners.... i would not consider you and Cecile to be in that same category even though you have stated that 20 years separate you two. You two look closer together in appearance, age-wise... this is not a knock on Cecile... she definitely looks mature for her age, whatever her age may be, and you look strikingly young. So, others may look at both of you strangely at times but I wouldn't put much on it. You guys look great together... perhaps others may look at you guys with a double take coz both of you are admittedly good looking.... just saying. Keep up the vlogs... looking forward to see your past and future videos
Thank you for the kind words Roger and happy to hear that you are enjoying the videos!
part of the reason is the population the average in PI is 20's
Youre right about that. Good point!
You two look great together 😍
Thank you very much Mary Ann!
damn,.. shes pretty, does she have a sister or cousin as cute as she,..
No sister. Just a few cousins but I believe all are married. Thanks for the compliment. She appreciated it.
how can you age if your skin is always soaked in humidity and perspiration and oil from the muscles? if you manage to outgrew pimples and acnes without scars you're golden!
Thanks for watching!
You both look about the same age. Good genes sir
Thank you Steven, I appreciate the kind words. Thanks for watching!
Wonderful couple, I and my husband English husband have age gaps of 23 years and we love each other
Thank you and congrats to you guys!
Scott you are damn handsome... And your wife is adorable😍
Yes she is thank you!
An oldie but goodie
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Yes , it is normal for filipina to have or marry men as long she can have a nice life whether old or young men. That's the goal.
51 is not too old.You guys look good,conservative yes but loving.All the best
This is the first video I've seen and its funny because he sounds like me on style lol! Im almost 40 and talking to a 23 year old Filipina so I guess I have worries of the age gap which she doesnt care. Did you ever wonder how did this beautiful Filipina pick me out of all these other guys she could pick??
Most filipinas do not consider age gap an issue. Good luck to you Tray!
@@Marker44 Thank you! Yes she has said a couple of times she has no problem with it because being an American like u said its not really the norm here! Ive watched quite a few of your videos today and thank you for the content its very helpful to understand differences in us and the Filipinas!
We appreciate you watching!
Age is just a number for you guys to be honest its not visible its probably because your both good looking and that compensated with the age issue like what the ancient said we fight , we laugh and we make love and one thing I notice your both calm judging with how you talked your both well educated probably with degrees they say there are 4 ways and only 4 ways we have contact with the world we are evaluated and classified by each of this 4 contacts what we do how we look what we say and how we say it this is what we call personality development people who gets older tends to neglect their body and appearance but that should not be personality development is a continues thing
Thank you for commenting!
We older men have to make more of an effort to be fashionable. We have to get our clothes tailored to have more of an modern fit.
I had to accept that change is sometimes necessary to be relevant
Get rid of the penny loafers…lol.
Yeah lol. Ive had to make some changes in that department but its all good!
Did you just hit the Zelda sound effects 😅
Me and my filipina are 11.5 years exactly apart... I'm currently 39 she just turned 28 last month so it's not uncommon in the the Philippines. What I don't like is the 60+yrs dude with a 18yr pinay that's disgusting and shouldn't be allowed. Just be happy in the relationship and to hell with what others think or say I am fine with your age difference and mine with my filipina is perfectly fine also... Wish both y'all the best. Can I ask yall what is the going rate for a civil nothing added or fancy just the basic basic going prices papers from Manila to just the process in court and any fees tied to becoming legally married not including food or after party or pics or anything. Gonna be getting married after the turn of the year and ban lift in the Philippines been with my gf 3yrs 4 by the time were married, it's time already to tie that knot to her
Off the top of my head its very cheap. Just some different filing fees maybe totaling $100. A reception can be done pretty cheap also. Thanks for the comment! Good luck to you both! Congrats!
Lol! My husband said he wants to kick his own butt when I try to dress him to make him look younger 😄
sounds kind of like me and my husband. He’s a really good guy,too! I’m so bless to have him.
Congrats to you guys. Best of luck!
Age doesn’t matter as long you love each other and understand each other and happy 😊
Well said! I agree
Sweet couple,pblk nmn sissy tnx
Your handsome Po 😊
Thank you!
Dress code in the US is different from the PH.
I am 60 now and I am American and my live girlfriend/wife is 27
Wishing you two all the best! Take care and thanks for commenting and watching!
I do understand what you are saying about people watching you two because of the age gap. I may be one of those people on occasion. Guilty! :)
But I watch the couples with benign intent, and just of curiosity, never judging. I guess most of the people who watch fall into the same category.
Why should you care anyway, right.
Yeah it is something my wife notices more than me, but its not anything we think about much anymore.
People love to judge others. Instead of standing in front of the mirror and ask themselves first before judging others
I’m a Filipina and I’m 20 years old and my husband is 52 and I him so much and we’re trying for our first baby
Best wishes to you both!
Awww thank you
Oh I don’t care about people say to me. I just do my own business. We all got judge with other people so who care. It doesn’t bother me that’s there problem not mine as long I don’t hurt anyone that’s all my concern. Same with me my husband we are conservative people because now a day is very liberal world it doesn’t matter if you are in the Philippines 🇵🇭. I grew up Catholic and my husband is Presbyterian but at the end we go to same Church in his Church is nota problem to both us is just religion because the most important to us we worship same God.
Sounds like you guys have your priorities in order. Thanks for the comment.
My GF is 18 years my junior. I try to change her dressing too. Way TO MUCH black 🙄🤦🏻♂️. I tell her honey wear more bright colors to match your personality 👍🏻. Great talk guys 🍻
Thats a great way to put it! I like my wife to wear colorful outfits also. Thanks for watching!
My soon to be wife will be 33 in February I'll be 50 in April she's from one of the provinces that I can't pronounce from there
You need to learn how to pronounce that, Kenny! Lol Congrats to you both.
I'll have to drink a beer or two or three to pronounce it😁 it will sound better
51 and 32…. Doesn’t look bad together. I think once the woman is over 30 all best are off.
I think when they are in their early 20’s with an older man it stands out more.
I can agree with that Ty. Thanks for watching!
I've been looking at the videos how's the Philippines in different places and different areas I would love to go over there and find a beautiful wife to bring back to the United States I've already been married once and have two older kids and has grandchildren so I am looking for soulmate and Philippines and how kind loving and friendly they are and the way life is little simpler out in the Philippine from what I see the American women unfortunately are very spoiled and want to be spoiled I am just looking for a good woman that works hard like I do that would like to enjoy life I am a very Outdoors person and have a very young mind Adventure travel I am trying to schedule a time to go over to the Philippines for maybe a week or two weeks does she have any beautiful cousins or sisters I want to find a good woman in one of the province I don't want a city girl unless she is wifey material love kids and I enjoy life to the fullest thank you I enjoyed your video
Good luck in your search for a partner. Hope you find the type of person youre looking for. Thanks for watching! Take care
Asians have this gift of not ageing. Makes you look forward to the future 😉.
What do you mean “makes you look forward to the future?”
@@God.sDaughter I married a Filipino that died at the age of 50 from cancer. She was just as beautiful as the day I married her. I have 7 Filipino/American kids. My 20 year old son looks like 17. My 18 year old daughter looks like 14. I will be gone before they ever begin to age. I would say that Asians have an advantage that the rest of the world would love to have.
Don't care about what people say the ages gap.The most important things you both happy.
You look young sir. It doesn't show that you have 20 years gap
I really appreciate that. Thanks for the compliment!
How did you guys meet. On a dating site?
ua-cam.com/video/i_Ony7ITXh4/v-deo.html Yes we did. Heres a video of how we met.
Your lucky that your filpina let's you keep your face beard.
With out it you would look younger.
She agrees with me that I look better with it lol. Thanks for the comment!
My wife only 11 years younger I just shave off all gray hair no bird no more. Carhartt and Keys more my style. I did notice my wife not like my cloths it just come up missing.
Maybe shes doing a purge on some of your outfits lol. Take care and thanks for watching!
Neither one of you looks your age.
Thank you Lynn!
My boyfriend from 🇺🇸 54 yrs old 💕💕and me I'm 23 but age doesn't matter when two people love each other 💗.
New subscriber here 😊😊😍ingat kayo palagi 💗from 🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭
Well said and I agree. Good luck to you both! Thanks for the comment!
Dont put womens cream on ur face. Be a man. Put on old spice! He he
I use both lol
Is your wife single? ✌🏼😅😍
Wait. I will check....