I pray they get mercy because it's through an ignorant heart and not an evil one. I have a husband. Who fits the bill literally. And separation is a must may God protect every wife and husband undergoing spiritual deaths because of their spouse. Yet I don't want them to go to hell 😢 please Lord help everyone and your will be done. Protect, bless and strengthen all. To win this war against the darkness destroying your beloved creation. Send your mercy abundantly in these times for the love of many will wax cold and I pray the afflicted do not become hardened. Refresh us Lord. We love you and long for you and you are OUR HUSBAND. ISHI ❤
The relationship doesn’t start out this way. It’s shocking & blindsiding when the mask falls off & you see who the person really is. The person you love turns into a monster. I pray for everyone caught in this snare. God doesn’t want you to live that way. He loves you & he will rescue you.
God rescued me three months into my marriage. I used to cry and pray to God to help me and God let me husband walk out. I thank God now for rescuing me
This is so true! It shocks you because you know you're doing everything you can as a wife. The only way I found out what I was dealing with was when I reached out to a psychologist/counselor, and he told me my husband was a narcissist and I should leave him.
Hosea 2:16 “And it shall be at that day, saith the LORD, that thou shalt call me Ishi; and shalt call me no more Baali.” Ishi means husband. Isaiah 54:5-6 King James Version 5 👉For thy Maker is thine husband; the Lord of hosts is his name; and thy Redeemer the Holy One of Israel; The God of the whole earth shall he be called.👈 6 For 👉the Lord hath called thee as a woman forsaken and grieved in spirit, and a wife of youth, when thou wast refused, saith thy God.👈 We don't have to stay with a husband who doesn't love us like Jesus. That's the whole mystery of marriage. He is to be like Jesus is to the church. Did Jesus beat us? Or did He take it all on the chin for us? Does our husband do that or do we take it on the chin for him? Spiritually? Mentally? Physically? God hates divorce and a man who cover his garment (wife) with violence. Malachi 2:16 “For the LORD, the God of Israel, saith that he hateth putting away: 👉for one covereth violence with his garment👈, saith the LORD of hosts: therefore take heed to your spirit, that ye deal not treacherously.” God is against them doing that to their wife or for taking other women as the passage in malachi in context reads. The priests were offering their lip service to the Lord the same altar their refused and violated wives went to crying out to God. You think He valued anything that come out of the priests lips or blessed them after their wives covered the same altar they go to in tears because of their husband!!! Same thing in Peter 3.7 Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that 👉your prayers be not hindered👈" His prayers are hindered because of maltreatment towards his wife so to God that's a disgrace He will not hear them but He hears you and may He protects us all going through these evil woes.. Hallelujah to Jesus. The REAL husband. Ishi. ❤
Wives... Do not stay in these relationships! Run as fast as you can to the nearest lawyer. You can pray but pray from a distance. I know you are ashamed...believe me ... I know. You must get as far away from this toxic individual immediately. May The Lord give you the strength and the courage to do this. 💞
God will help you recover the years the locust has eaten. I ran away after 9 years. I took it to God in prayers because I know how he feels about divorce except due to infidelity and most narcissistic will be unfaithful. I had an out. Now I’m 3 years married to a wonderful Christian man who loves me. Has no narcissistic bone in his body. No ego. Just wants what is best for me and tells me he Lovelys me almost daily. The difference is night and day. My advice to men in this situation is to leave and stay celibate until God closes the door finally and opens another for you. Staying will cost you your sanity and if you’re not careful your salvation
@@tolubamidele1508 I agree that God will help recover what the locust has eaten however covenant marriage is marriage between a man and a woman who have never been married to anyone else previously and it is until death do you part. There is no such thing as having an out. We are not to divorce but in the event of us doing so we are to remain single and not remarry unless our covenant spouse is deceased. In Matthew 19:9 KJV it reads that a man who puts away his wife except for FORNICATION (which happens before marriage) and shall marry another commits adultery. Please study the Word and do not go by what others are saying. Although God doesn’t want you to divorce you can do so but you are remain unmarried if your covenant spouse is still alive. There are other scriptures that support this as well.
True..I left 1yr 9months in marriage..felt like 19yrs!! I praise God for blessing me with a son..my child was Gods way of giving me strength to get out earlyyy!!!...still healing and thriving each day❤
I have lived through this and it’s awful! 😢 Thank God, I’m no longer married to a manipulative husband, but I’m still healing after several years being divorced! This toxic treatment takes a huge toll on the body, mind, and emotions.
When we met, my husband said he was very spiritual and believed in God. I'm sick and tired of living in dread, fear and under constant threats and abuse. I AM READY TO GO. He doesn't want me to have anything of my own because he knows I will leave. I want funds to buy a home for myself and my animals so we are out from under living in fear of abuse. I HAVE asked GOD to make a way for ME TO HAVE MY OWN HOME, INCOME, FUNDS, where I can live in peace, comfort, joy, love and happiness.
I am 27 years into this crazy sick, so called, marriage. Jesus please help this stuck wife! Please God!!!! Help me out of this! I live in fear and dread! Please God....help me! AMEN!
Before I took a divorce step i realised its all about my health because i could hardly sleep everytime my feet were cold,i think my ex though i won't make it but God gives wisdom support ,i furnished my apartment with secondhands furnitures was not well paid at that time but i managed i was stress free never ever explained those traumatic times again@christbeliever4407
After 18 years I finally was saved from the abuse. It took me years but I finally got away. It’s night and day the difference in my life now in recovery! Blessings, keep praying 🙏 May you be released from bondage.
God will protect you from the evil serpent the narcissist I spent 38 years in in a Situationship, not a marriage. It cost me to declare my freedom. My kids, my house, my church, my friendships every earthly thing he could take away he did, but God remained in my heart and in my spirit, and with that I have rebuilt, a life of solitude, joy, and freedom to be who God created me to be. No one has the right to take that from you. God bless you, sister this too shall pass.❤
I lived this 35 years! My situation was so frustrating because my ex wore a mask of deceit. He pretended to be a Godly man. My church loved him. I was quiet because I felt helpless to explain this abusive dynamic I was living under. He made sure if I tried to speak out and tell anyone I would not be believed. I didn’t know that for years he had been telling members of the church how ungodly I was…….saying things like pray for her. This guaranteed no one would ever believe me, and he looked like a saint. Shame on me that I was so stupid. He was having affairs, taking our money for his hobby’s……which he said I would not allow. Lies! He even had the support of the church for his adultery, he said he was ministering to these women. I guess church for him was in motel 6! I am a blood bought, daughter of the King! But, I don’t trust other Christians at all. I no longer attend church. My church is on UA-cam.! I fear anyone who claims to be a Christian. Please don’t beat me up for speaking about this. I fear what you all will say about me. My spirit is totally broken even though I finally divorced him.
I agree with commenters that state narcissists do change. I have yet to witness or hear of such a phenomenon. I definitely do not know why these individuals persist. But one thing remains we must keep educating others and expose narcissists actions as best we can. What they do is absolutely destructive in every possible way. The victim’s suffers physically, mentally, emotionally, sexually, spiritually. The victim’s soul breaks and seeks God in order to escape the clutches of hell itself. I may sound like I’m exaggerating, but those who live with narcissistic husbands or WIVES know what I’m talking about.
Dearest Sister just like Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego. All stood in the burning fiery furance. I too like you had walked and stood among. The narcissist beast of evil. Not only will you survive but also conquer the narcissist abusers. God, your prayers, and the Holy Spirit will heal your wounds. Bless your 💜 into God's graceful & peace fulfill delivered into a new glorious life.
Yes God is burning all the impurities from the lies of the narcissistic the he led you to believe and polishing you and purifying you, God see you God is rebuilding you and He in the fire with you. GOD is the fourth man😂
These videos have been coming to me, not by UA-cam algorithm, but rather through God's devine Holy Spirit working to comfort and restore!! God is good!!
This type of marriage what can I say, it changed me. It did bring me closer to God which is the best thing. However, it was total and utter hell to have someone treat me so horribly. I mean he wanted me dead it was pure evil. My brain was not the same coming out. I am still healing almost 4 years post divorce. It was my biggest mistake in life. I wish this on no one ever! ❤🙏🏾
@@StellaClements-ml3wb and you will get free too. Keep pressing into God and he will definitely set you free. It’s been a journey and the beautiful thing is God has showed me myself and areas that needed healing and deliverance within myself. It has catapulted my relationship with God to places I never thought possible m! I promise keep God first and he will work a miracle for you. ❤️🙏🏾💪🏾
This is exactly what I have gone thru plus him turning our daughter against me. Even 13 years later, I hear her say, Dad Said . He has passed and met his God. God knows the truth and this gives me peace.
Facts!! I was married to a narcissist for 30 years!! This video is very hard to listen to because it definitely speaks on everything i went through with my husband.😢 He was a terrible person. And i pray to God that i never encounter a narcissist every again.
This was just for me. I pray that You soften his heart Lord break the chains of bitterness, pride and self worship. That he may come to love as You intended. I pray for the courage to pursue healing and restoration for my soul. In Jesus name Amen.
@@estherdenisha6786they won't change unless they know God. Don't say they never change because once they know God they do. I have seen it. Power of words!
I’ve been in one of these marriages for 12 years but I’ve known him for 25 years. He wasn’t always this way. I’ve poured from an empty cup, crying and praying for years. I’ve invited him to church with me, so he can get delivered but he’s not putting in the work. All the crying and praying in the world only goes so far if that person doesn’t want to change. They have to want to help themselves and some just don’t. So, I had to set those boundaries and take my control back. I have my own work to do for God and have already promised him that I will go if I have to go by myself.
I'm doing the same thing. You can't make your husband change, they have to want to do it for themselves. I took my control back and loving me like Jesus says who I am and enjoying life with set boundaries and ain't no fun when the rabbit got the gun. Now he feels left out, the table has turn. I'm not begging, pleading, chasing noan to treat or love me. I'm God beloved child and fearfully and wonderfully made from God not man😅❤
I was married 24 yrs too long in this type of relationship ,i got sick and i ask God if he takes me out of that relationship i will serve him for the rest of my life and he did just that i only had God to depend on . I'm serving him and i got back my joy and peace of mind . Trust in God ,he sees and hear your cry. Bless
This is how my marriage is! Sadly I had to choose between the marriage and myself! I chose myself! God be with me heal me and I pray Lord you soften my husbands heart heal him and bless him! Sadly I had to file for divorce! I questioned my worth constantly! I pray my husband can truly come to Christ! God is my worth, God is my strength!
Joyce... My husband is still on the throne which belongs to God that nobody can speak to him. Its my prayer that God should change such type of husbands. My hope is in Jesus Christ
Please be sure you are praying for what God Wants you to do regarding this situation. God doesn’t always tell us to leave at the exact moment we desire to. Do what God says WHEN He says to do it. Blessings to all and stay focused on God!
Bless, however, if you have never been in this type of relationship, unfortunately, u can tell a woman to stay till God says leave. That doesn't make sense. The word of God is clear that this is not love or a spiritual partnership. Yes, we need to find strength to be able to either be able to kick him out or save money to get her own place. This is not an emotionally safe place to live. We lose who we are, we develop anxiety and depression , fear and the inability to see how God sees us suffering in this. Weight gain or loss this is not something to stay in. I stayed in due to fear 14 years marriage, within 10 years of feeling unworthy and unloved, and didn't understand why. 3 children later. Thr last 5 years I had counselling, which showed me it wasn't me. Then another 1 year to tell him to leave. I am still healing and finding who I am again. I believe God will never say stay or wait. He says trust Me. I will love u and lead u. He will find away through and out.
@@rhuleg09 Respectfully, you do not personally know me so to insinuate that I have never been in a narcissistic relationship simply because I stated to be sure God has told you to move before actually moving is ridiculous. Second, God’s thoughts are not our thoughts as well as His timing-however one would have to be studying the Word and have a relationship with Him to truly understand that much. While being with a narcissist in any type of relationship is difficult the one thing that’s been the best for me is how close I’ve come to the Lord. Everything you mentioned above-the mental abuse and loss of self and so on is all spiritual. Why do you think all the narcs-male and female-act the same???? It’s spiritual. And God is spirit. See, you are speaking from a place of high emotion-‘ this is not an emotionally safe place’ while God sees the picture -including our pain-in it’s entirety. When emotions run high, we don’t make the best decisions as people. As I said previously, you have zero idea of what I have been through/and may be still going through and I will not be divulging my business just to prove that, either.
@@rhuleg09 The issue with what you have stated, ‘I believe God would never say stay or wait’ is that’s what YOU believe. You are not yielding to what He is saying. What he says is not what we believe. He thinks differently and on a level we could never comprehend. Of course, if you are in danger physically or anything you should leave to keep from being harmed. Our thoughts are not His thoughts. Also, just because I am not on this platform airing out what I have gone through or are going through doesn’t mean I haven’t faced narcissism. It just means YOU don’t know about it and that’s the way I prefer to keep it. You sound highly emotional which is not a bad thing necessarily however when we make moves during an emotional state we can sometimes make the wrong move or make a move at the wrong time. All the best to you.
@@1980shamekawell, you have a good point only you are giving an open advice without knowing what the sufferer is going through. 13 years and I wish the people around me had supported me to leave when I told them I wanted to. Unfortunately, I am from a part of the world where it is not easy to just get a divorce because you know you should leave. You have to be dying before your family that are seeing you dying will support you and may still use a failed marriage against you later. This is the 13th year and it is even more difficult to leave despite the abuse and undervalue. And I know God will pay me on the shoulder when I walk away. People who go through abuse know what is right for them. They only are mostly not empowered to make those choices. If you cannot help them make that decision to divorce, at least make them feel supported with whatever decision they choose to take. By the way, the way society is quick to dissuade a woman from divorce, wait on God, be patient more than the society corrects a man abusing a woman. If we focus more in upbringing our boys maybe, just maybe we will have less abusive men.
A covert narc is the worst type of person . . . The worst . . . The very worst . . . No way you can heal in the same space you have been abused , no way . . . You have to leave and let God deal with him . .. .one must know when its time to walk away . . .
@philomenajoseph-welsh1377 I pray for him when the Spirit leads me , not so that we can get back together but because I know that it is not God's desire to see anyone perish . . .
I've been divorced from narc over 30 years. When thinking back, the signs were always there, but I didn't know it because so many men where like this, so I just thought it was a "man-thing". Throughout the 20+ years of being with him, it only because worse with aging. I woke up one day and said I wanted out and wanted out, now! I took the steps to get out, fighting his nastiness the whole way, for years after, too. He lost a good wife and his children, too. I told him this, many years later. His response was, "I didn't lose anything." Guess that tells all there is to tell about that crud!
My husband did all of this, and I suffered trauma everlasting after he left and is now with and engaged to another woman, while still married to me, God knows my heart, and I never deserved it! ##Godknows #myhusband #johnnybennett #Bennettforlife #heusedme
That sounds like my story. We were married for almost 40 years. It's been 4 years since he left, and he has been married to the other woman for almost 2 years. I wish I knew this as I was broken down and thought I was the problem. But in the past year, I have grown so much closer to God.
I have asked the Lord to pave the way for me and deliver me from this toxic marriage I have suffered a long time now and being alienated from my children and family I thank God for this deliverance in Jesus Mighty Name Hallelujah
Me to and so many others are faced with the same challenge.trust in God fully dont allow doubt to creap in have faith and God will illuminate our path.we must remain hopeful and patient in the process.
Me as well, it's hard to get help .but keep trying and when you get it. Dnt go back. Because help is hard to get. So worth it. Instant Relief. Get a job if you can because sometimes situations kids etc. makes it hard.
Thank for knowing what a woman can go through by being married to a man that chooses to kill his wife’s heart, then tells her with no apology for her, but he acts like he’s actually doing her this favor to act like ‘ I’m so sorry for treating you like I have, “. He tells her, I was sick.” With no change on his part, ever. God took my narcissistics life. God is healing me now. Sir, how did you know how to tell us broken woman every woman like this has gone through. Thank you for other women that has gone thru what I’ve had for 44 years. 🙏. God put all your Godly words, I know. God bless you
So many years i just wanted to die. Now i have set boundaries. I chose to fight for his life when i could've let him die. God did a miracle, and he still needs restoration. It's so unfair but I'm trusting God to deliver him because financially I'm ruined on my own. I chose forgiveness. I chose life. Like the wife of your youth when she is forsaken, the Lord, my maker, shall be my husband. Isaiah 54. He shall make my battlements of rubies. God, heal these hearts! Deliver these men from evil like you did in 1 Samuel 10:9. Make all things new! Hear our cries! I love You, Papa God! Fight for your daughters.🔥♥️
I fought my way out of this Narcissistic nightmare. It has taken me 12 years to feel more whole. I am learning to receive God's love and love myself. Miles has helped me towards self empowerment but I do not expect much from Christians....they do understand the devistating empact on your body, soul and spirit.
This message is the very best that I have heard since I left over 30 years ago, even better than ANY of the therapist throughout the years ☝ ..ALL PRAISES TO THE MOST HIGH IN CHRIST!!! 🤣😇🙏 Thank you so much for your wisdom, Brother! 😞💝🙏
❤perfect piece. I belive in God for he has kept me thus far and unmask my Nack Husband for me after 12 years of all forms of abuse by him and his family. . A victim who now see through my husband recovering and secretly planning my exit or seperation after 12 years of pains, iam marraide but single with 2 kids from conception till date. I trust in God for he will make a way for me out, IJN Amen
I’ve been in a narcissistic relationship for over 30 years. I didn’t recognize it until just a few years ago as my thoughts on being a respectful and submissive wife were that I was to perform everything in my power to do whatever my husband wanted. If I went against my conscience I thought it was simply because my spirit was being contentious and I needed to correct myself. Add to this the fact the advice from Christian women is that as a woman I was not being submissive enough. I needed to be more meek and mild. If I overreacted it was my emotions and therefore it was, once again, up to me to correct myself. Once our children got to a point that they were seeing things for themselves and saying things that I had been thinking but thought I was wrong about, it was then that I started to realize just how much my husband was laying at my feet in terms of guilt and blame. I started researching what was going on and came upon the word Narcissist. I then started listening to UA-cam videos about this behavior and finally felt vindicated for the first time! It’s been hard to understand how to have proper reactions as a Christian wife to my husband’s demeanor. Now after all of this time I have FINALLY come across a Christian perspective. It’s also refreshing to hear how all the blame and responsibilities do not all fall at the wife’s feet. Thank you so much for making me feel valued for the first time in YEARS!!!
@ yes! This has definitely helped. I have wanted a Christian perspective on this and now I have found a source. Just found Kris Reece and have also listened to Dr. Les Carter
Thank you, I have endured 13 years of this type of relationship. Former ones may have had a touch of this. My seeking is to understand how I fall prey to these relationships. However that being said it took me 12 years to understand I was married to a narcissist and being an empath I was at his side being a support to my abusive dismissive husband. I lost almost all of me and with the fragment of myself God hath made me I clung to that word of him Over me and God has aluminum aged the truth and is reclaiming how I see how the Lord sees me and the continual work he is doing in me individually. Tha k you for this video!
Lord, I pray, in the name of Jesus that you will set your daughter free. I pray in the name of Jesus that she will be safe. I pray in the name of Jesus that you will give her freedom, dear Lord, give her peace of mind while she still in this situation, but release her dear Lord from this demonic unloving relationship in the name of Jesus amen and amen
You need to equip yourself even more. With 46 years marriage you could be my mother so maybe I’m not the best to advice but take my 2 cent for what it is worth. There are hundreds of thousands of women going through the same or have gone through the same as you and there are many online communities to get help. Especially with information. Get armed with info. Setting boundaries isn’t enough. I got out of a 9 years marriage and I’ve been telling women I know about narcissistic men and it’s helped a few.
He will always be, you taking awaybhis control, but he won't change. He will find different ways to hurt u more n more. I'm sorry u stayed so long. This is sad.❤
@tolubamidele1508 yep.im learning too.but I feel tired already.i came from different continent and he calls me names according to where I come from belittling
You described my narcissist Ex Husband fully he took so much from me for so long n was so cruel to me but God removed me from him i always love n loved helping people's he took everyone out of life i had to raise our kids alone i felt like was in a marriage alone im a empath n was brought up in church brought our kids up in church they are grown now n have kids
I am not married and never have been and thank you for sharing this video message with few or with many. Especially, those who are in this type of marriage relationship. Well enjoy your day and week. ✝️🙏🏾
I'm went through the same thing I filed for divorce their was cheating involved too, maybe now he can remain with his need for admiration on social media from other women...even if they had the most beautiful person on earth they still wouldn't be satisfied their very self centered individuals who only love "themselves " and no one else their not capable of loving a person they get bored every one is a tool to them for personal gain
I have been praying for so long for a change or an escape. I am still here in the cage and I am more tired than Ive ever been. I have abandoned hope. Please pray for me.
@@wilblissful I pray that God will make a way for you to escape & find freedom Sister, I'm in the same boat, & financially I can't support myself to move out. No one to stay with atm & like yourself, so tired. ❤️🙏
I try to have ‘defiant’ hope. Doing everything possible to let satan know that he’s messing with the wrong girl! I fast and pray once a week, I started doing flags and streamers in our church - praise is spiritual warfare. Spend lots of time reading the Bible and praying scripture. ‘I am clothed with strength and dignity. I can laugh at he says to come. I speak with wisdom and faithful instruction is on my tongue’/ Do not fear, I AM with you, I will strengthen and help you. I will uphold you with My righteous right hand.’/The Lord’s favor surrounds me as with a shield’/ He abundantly blesses me so that in all things, at all times I have all that I need’/ ‘Commit your way to the Lord, trust in Him and He will do this. He will make your righteous reward shine like the dawn, and your vindication like the noonday sun’. God is our witness - He fights for us! And one more ‘The Lord announces the Word, and the women who declare it, are a mighty throng!’ That’s us! I’d love to connect with everyone on here. Does anyone know a platform to do that? ❤
0:20: Marriages that consist of at least one narcissist never truly “thrive”, although they might seem to be successful for a short time. The narcissistic cannot disguise his true self for very long.
My ex is a narcissist - he twisted the churches view of man and wife// so that before we were even married I was not performing wifely duties pushing him to be closer to god/ pushing him to be a better person/ I wasn’t meeting his “needs” I did nothing right and what I did do wasn’t good enough (his words) he spewed hateful vitriol and lies at me, he hurt my children he was in our lives for almost 8 years and honestly. It’s been a month since and I’m still hurt damaged and trying to heal
I married into a "Catholic" family. There was no God in that family, just narcissists who compete with one another. Insecurities, control, and jealousy ruled them. I was miserable. Finally divorced them all three months ago, and I'm enjoying my peace.
@writer1985 Catholicism seems to write a blank check for narcissism, doesn't it? Imagine if they all went to confession with the same priest. It would be a wonder if his head didn't explode after a while! 😱🤯 Their version of 'love' most assuredly does cover a multitude of sins, but often in the most horrific way. There are many wonderful people who adhere to Catholicism, but the system is broken and Christianity in general seems to just breed narcissists, although not exclusively. Plenty to go around these days given our culture of the aggrandizement, hate and entitlement! 🤦🏼♀️
@@KhassiaK There are bad Catholics and bad Protestants, Jews and Muslims, because there are bad people everywhere. Take care when speaking against the only Church ever established by Jesus Christ, though.
My life..as I look back I feel so sorry for the old me..the old me who looked to her husband for EVERYTHING..The new me, the woman who knows who she is in Christ and who doesn’t need her husbands approval anymore! Being with him has actually made me cling to Christ even more..I didn’t know true love until I got to know Christ..I submit to God and God only..The Holy Spirit has done a work in me..I am healed❤❤
Just remember if life with this person is this painful, imagine how horrible your end might be in their presence.. We deserve to have our lives end surrounded by people that love us and provide peace..
Monsters want love too. I'm praying for one now and he is finding out that he has met a bigger player than he is. He had me take my pants and panties off and check them. I gladly obliged. The thing is, I very well could have picked up one just by walking outside and changing my pants. We don't think of that kind of ugly. He shaved so that I would be guilty if he found one. He had childhood wounding. He had a good heart he was just twisted. I still loved the good side of him and I PRAY for his miracle by JESUS.
The only answer for these situations is run for the hills. I was utterly tortured in a so called marriage like this. That is not a marriage. I could not have thought up the evil that was done to me in the name of God. Truly despicable
many advoces.when growing close toChrist pray also for a change in people, that Holy Spirit catch these sinful nature. Take care Nd pray for wise decisions.
I was abused for almost 19 years by my husband verbally and mentally...I am so glad I am still alive, all GLORY be GLORY belongs to God. I am leaving him next year in JESUS name.
Please pray for me. I’m in so much pain due to my husband’s abuse and infidelity. I’m trying to leave the marriage. It feels as though I won’t survive. I’m begging God for mercy.
These men will all have to stand before God and give account to how they treated their wife.
@@qesther1241 they sure will as well as the women. The women are out there as well. I’ve encountered them as « friends. »
AMEN and GOD is a GOD of justice. He will make him pay, he will reap what he sowed❤
EVERYONE will stand before God and give an account. Not just a narcissist.
We call on divine justice for all these beautiful women ✨️
I pray they get mercy because it's through an ignorant heart and not an evil one. I have a husband. Who fits the bill literally. And separation is a must may God protect every wife and husband undergoing spiritual deaths because of their spouse. Yet I don't want them to go to hell 😢 please Lord help everyone and your will be done. Protect, bless and strengthen all. To win this war against the darkness destroying your beloved creation. Send your mercy abundantly in these times for the love of many will wax cold and I pray the afflicted do not become hardened. Refresh us Lord. We love you and long for you and you are OUR HUSBAND. ISHI ❤
The relationship doesn’t start out this way. It’s shocking & blindsiding when the mask falls off & you see who the person really is. The person you love turns into a monster. I pray for everyone caught in this snare. God doesn’t want you to live that way. He loves you & he will rescue you.
Amen.
Took me 5 years when i learned this and another to actually tell him to leave. God is truly my redeemer. I am truly free.
God rescued me three months into my marriage. I used to cry and pray to God to help me and God let me husband walk out. I thank God now for rescuing me
Yup,and they flirt alot and then cheat
This is so true! It shocks you because you know you're doing everything you can as a wife. The only way I found out what I was dealing with was when I reached out to a psychologist/counselor, and he told me my husband was a narcissist and I should leave him.
He described it so well - I know , unfortunately -please run from any man that doesn’t treat you like the gift you are !
Amen Sister!
The 'Gift' indeed 🤍
11 years 😭 and still making feel unwanted. Only sees his daughter
Yes, it's absolutely horrific! Glad I'm out but getting out was another level of hell on earth. I wouldn't have survived without Jesus.
Hosea 2:16
“And it shall be at that day, saith the LORD, that thou shalt call me Ishi; and shalt call me no more Baali.”
Ishi means husband.
Isaiah 54:5-6
King James Version
5 👉For thy Maker is thine husband; the Lord of hosts is his name; and thy Redeemer the Holy One of Israel; The God of the whole earth shall he be called.👈
6 For 👉the Lord hath called thee as a woman forsaken and grieved in spirit, and a wife of youth, when thou wast refused, saith thy God.👈
We don't have to stay with a husband who doesn't love us like Jesus. That's the whole mystery of marriage. He is to be like Jesus is to the church. Did Jesus beat us? Or did He take it all on the chin for us? Does our husband do that or do we take it on the chin for him? Spiritually? Mentally? Physically?
God hates divorce and a man who cover his garment (wife) with violence.
Malachi 2:16
“For the LORD, the God of Israel, saith that he hateth putting away: 👉for one covereth violence with his garment👈, saith the LORD of hosts: therefore take heed to your spirit, that ye deal not treacherously.”
God is against them doing that to their wife or for taking other women as the passage in malachi in context reads.
The priests were offering their lip service to the Lord the same altar their refused and violated wives went to crying out to God. You think He valued anything that come out of the priests lips or blessed them after their wives covered the same altar they go to in tears because of their husband!!!
Same thing in Peter 3.7 Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that 👉your prayers be not hindered👈"
His prayers are hindered because of maltreatment towards his wife so to God that's a disgrace He will not hear them but He hears you and may He protects us all going through these evil woes..
Hallelujah to Jesus. The REAL husband.
Ishi. ❤
I’m living through this now. I’m regaining my confidence and letting God love me and defend me.
Same here! Living through this now and God is all I have. Suddenly loss my father in 2020 and my mother is gone as well so It’s just me and God.
DIVORCE HIM
GOD WILL PROVIDE
I am going through this right now
@@WealthyHealthy-jb8sb Be encouraged and don’t stay in the cycles. Pray everyday until you’re in the presence of God and obey Him.
I’m sorry you are all living through this. I can’t imagine the level of mental abuse. Always remember who GOD says you are!❤🙏🏻
Wives... Do not stay in these relationships! Run as fast as you can to the nearest lawyer. You can pray but pray from a distance. I know you are ashamed...believe me ... I know. You must get as far away from this toxic individual immediately.
May The Lord give you the strength and the courage to do this. 💞
💯% right!!!!!!! Couldn’t have said it better
God will help you recover the years the locust has eaten. I ran away after 9 years. I took it to God in prayers because I know how he feels about divorce except due to infidelity and most narcissistic will be unfaithful. I had an out. Now I’m 3 years married to a wonderful Christian man who loves me. Has no narcissistic bone in his body. No ego. Just wants what is best for me and tells me he Lovelys me almost daily. The difference is night and day. My advice to men in this situation is to leave and stay celibate until God closes the door finally and opens another for you. Staying will cost you your sanity and if you’re not careful your salvation
@@tolubamidele1508 I agree that God will help recover what the locust has eaten however covenant marriage is marriage between a man and a woman who have never been married to anyone else previously and it is until death do you part. There is no such thing as having an out. We are not to divorce but in the event of us doing so we are to remain single and not remarry unless our covenant spouse is deceased. In Matthew 19:9 KJV it reads that a man who puts away his wife except for FORNICATION (which happens before marriage) and shall marry another commits adultery. Please study the Word and do not go by what others are saying. Although God doesn’t want you to divorce you can do so but you are remain unmarried if your covenant spouse is still alive. There are other scriptures that support this as well.
True..I left 1yr 9months in marriage..felt like 19yrs!!
I praise God for blessing me with a son..my child was Gods way of giving me strength to get out earlyyy!!!...still healing and thriving each day❤
Amen & Amen❤ THANK You "JESUS"!!!!!!!!!
I have lived through this and it’s awful! 😢 Thank God, I’m no longer married to a manipulative husband, but I’m still healing after several years being divorced! This toxic treatment takes a huge toll on the body, mind, and emotions.
Keep going. Your healing does come. Mine did. I will be praying for you.
@ Thank you for the encouragement! 🙂
I am living through this right now..please pray for me and my three children. Thank you!
Me too. 😢😢
Same
When we met, my husband said he was very spiritual and believed in God. I'm sick and tired of living in dread, fear and under constant threats and abuse. I AM READY TO GO. He doesn't want me to have anything of my own because he knows I will leave. I want funds to buy a home for myself and my animals so we are out from under living in fear of abuse. I HAVE asked GOD to make a way for ME TO HAVE MY OWN HOME, INCOME, FUNDS, where I can live in peace, comfort, joy, love and happiness.
I am 27 years into this crazy sick, so called, marriage. Jesus please help this stuck wife! Please God!!!! Help me out of this! I live in fear and dread! Please God....help me! AMEN!
I feel you it will be well, God will deliver both of us sis ❤
It truly is difficult even with prayers.😢
Before I took a divorce step i realised its all about my health because i could hardly sleep everytime my feet were cold,i think my ex though i won't make it but God gives wisdom support ,i furnished my apartment with secondhands furnitures was not well paid at that time but i managed i was stress free never ever explained those traumatic times again@christbeliever4407
After 18 years I finally was saved from the abuse. It took me years but I finally got away. It’s night and day the difference in my life now in recovery! Blessings, keep praying 🙏 May you be released from bondage.
God will protect you from the evil serpent the narcissist I spent 38 years in in a Situationship, not a marriage. It cost me to declare my freedom. My kids, my house, my church, my friendships every earthly thing he could take away he did, but God remained in my heart and in my spirit, and with that I have rebuilt, a life of solitude, joy, and freedom to be who God created me to be. No one has the right to take that from you. God bless you, sister this too shall pass.❤
I lived this 35 years! My situation was so frustrating because my ex wore a mask of deceit. He pretended to be a Godly man. My church loved him. I was quiet because I felt helpless to explain this abusive dynamic I was living under. He made sure if I tried to speak out and tell anyone I would not be believed. I didn’t know that for years he had been telling members of the church how ungodly I was…….saying things like pray for her. This guaranteed no one would ever believe me, and he looked like a saint. Shame on me that I was so stupid. He was having affairs, taking our money for his hobby’s……which he said I would not allow. Lies! He even had the support of the church for his adultery, he said he was ministering to these women. I guess church for him was in motel 6! I am a blood bought, daughter of the King! But, I don’t trust other Christians at all. I no longer attend church. My church is on UA-cam.! I fear anyone who claims to be a Christian. Please don’t beat me up for speaking about this. I fear what you all will say about me. My spirit is totally broken even though I finally divorced him.
I believe you.
I believe you yoo. We stand with you. We're all gonna get through this. We're gonna win cause we're good women good daughters good mommas ❤️💪🌻🌞💕
So sorry my dear. I understand. A book that helped me is When Loving Him Is Hurting You put out by Focus on the Family.
I’m so sorry you were deceived by the church so badly and your husband. ❤️
I believe you. Mine is a covert too
I agree with commenters that state narcissists do change. I have yet to witness or hear of such a phenomenon. I definitely do not know why these individuals persist. But one thing remains we must keep educating others and expose narcissists actions as best we can. What they do is absolutely destructive in every possible way. The victim’s suffers physically, mentally, emotionally, sexually, spiritually. The victim’s soul breaks and seeks God in order to escape the clutches of hell itself. I may sound like I’m exaggerating, but those who live with narcissistic husbands or WIVES know what I’m talking about.
Your not exaggerating! I believe you 💯
I do
Thank you for this teaching! I'm a Christian counselor and I've been able to use this to help women in these Narcissistic relationships.
Dearest Sister just like
Shadrach, Meshach,
and Abednego.
All stood in the burning
fiery furance.
I too like you had
walked and stood
among.
The narcissist beast
of evil.
Not only will you survive
but also conquer the
narcissist abusers.
God, your prayers, and
the Holy Spirit will heal
your wounds. Bless your
💜 into God's graceful
& peace fulfill delivered
into a new glorious life.
Yes God is burning all the impurities from the lies of the narcissistic the he led you to believe and polishing you and purifying you, God see you God is rebuilding you and He in the fire with you. GOD is the fourth man😂
These videos have been coming to me, not by UA-cam algorithm, but rather through God's devine Holy Spirit working to comfort and restore!! God is good!!
Dr Myles is speaking the heart of God. May his soul rest in peace perfect peace.
This type of marriage what can I say, it changed me. It did bring me closer to God which is the best thing.
However, it was total and utter hell to have someone treat me so horribly. I mean he wanted me dead it was pure evil. My brain was not the same coming out. I am still healing almost 4 years post divorce. It was my biggest mistake in life. I wish this on no one ever! ❤🙏🏾
@genevas-grace I'm in the thick of it in my marriage today & I want out, its going to be difficult but God is on my side. I'm so glad you are free. ❤
Yes, I am 6 years post-divorce. When I draw near to Jesus Christ and His word, it is only then the Lord ever so gently heals my wounds.
@@StellaClements-ml3wb and you will get free too. Keep pressing into God and he will definitely set you free. It’s been a journey and the beautiful thing is God has showed me myself and areas that needed healing and deliverance within myself. It has catapulted my relationship with God to places I never thought possible m! I promise keep God first and he will work a miracle for you. ❤️🙏🏾💪🏾
@@msladydi123 Amen!!!!
This is exactly what I have gone thru plus him turning our daughter against me. Even 13 years later, I hear her say, Dad Said . He has passed and met his God. God knows the truth and this gives me peace.
Facts!! I was married to a narcissist for 30 years!! This video is very hard to listen to because it definitely speaks on everything i went through with my husband.😢 He was a terrible person. And i pray to God that i never encounter a narcissist every again.
This man must have known my husband! Every he said was spot on perfection of my marriage. I am asking God for a plan of exit!
O man the peace from the scripture God is near the broken hearted and he restoreths our souls. Bless you father 😢
This is one of the very best videos about being with a man with so many Narcisstic tendencies ever. Thank you❤ 🙏
Thank you God for protecting me 🙏🏻❤️
So many times I have tried to find words to explain and this man divinely explains so well
This was just for me. I pray that You soften his heart Lord break the chains of bitterness, pride and self worship. That he may come to love as You intended. I pray for the courage to pursue healing and restoration for my soul. In Jesus name Amen.
🙏🏽 Amen 🙏🏽 ❤❤❤
I pray for you to save yourself
They never change
@@estherdenisha6786they won't change unless they know God. Don't say they never change because once they know God they do. I have seen it. Power of words!
Amen
DIVORCE
HE WAS SENT BY SATAN
I’ve been in one of these marriages for 12 years but I’ve known him for 25 years. He wasn’t always this way. I’ve poured from an empty cup, crying and praying for years. I’ve invited him to church with me, so he can get delivered but he’s not putting in the work. All the crying and praying in the world only goes so far if that person doesn’t want to change. They have to want to help themselves and some just don’t. So, I had to set those boundaries and take my control back. I have my own work to do for God and have already promised him that I will go if I have to go by myself.
I'm doing the same thing. You can't make your husband change, they have to want to do it for themselves. I took my control back and loving me like Jesus says who I am and enjoying life with set boundaries and ain't no fun when the rabbit got the gun. Now he feels left out, the table has turn. I'm not begging, pleading, chasing noan to treat or love me. I'm God beloved child and fearfully and wonderfully made from God not man😅❤
@@TakaEchols So true what u have said. Boundaries are so important. If they dont respect them, they dont respect you.
@@StellaClements-ml3wband that is just facts!
I was married 24 yrs too long in this type of relationship ,i got sick and i ask God if he takes me out of that relationship i will serve him for the rest of my life and he did just that i only had God to depend on . I'm serving him and i got back my joy and peace of mind . Trust in God ,he sees and hear your cry. Bless
This is how my marriage is! Sadly I had to choose between the marriage and myself! I chose myself! God be with me heal me and I pray Lord you soften my husbands heart heal him and bless him! Sadly I had to file for divorce! I questioned my worth constantly! I pray my husband can truly come to Christ! God is my worth, God is my strength!
Joyce... My husband is still on the throne which belongs to God that nobody can speak to him. Its my prayer that God should change such type of husbands. My hope is in Jesus Christ
Please be sure you are praying for what God Wants you to do regarding this situation. God doesn’t always tell us to leave at the exact moment we desire to. Do what God says WHEN He says to do it. Blessings to all and stay focused on God!
Bless, however, if you have never been in this type of relationship, unfortunately, u can tell a woman to stay till God says leave. That doesn't make sense. The word of God is clear that this is not love or a spiritual partnership. Yes, we need to find strength to be able to either be able to kick him out or save money to get her own place. This is not an emotionally safe place to live. We lose who we are, we develop anxiety and depression , fear and the inability to see how God sees us suffering in this. Weight gain or loss this is not something to stay in. I stayed in due to fear 14 years marriage, within 10 years of feeling unworthy and unloved, and didn't understand why. 3 children later. Thr last 5 years I had counselling, which showed me it wasn't me. Then another 1 year to tell him to leave. I am still healing and finding who I am again.
I believe God will never say stay or wait. He says trust Me. I will love u and lead u. He will find away through and out.
@@rhuleg09 Respectfully, you do not personally know me so to insinuate that I have never been in a narcissistic relationship simply because I stated to be sure God has told you to move before actually moving is ridiculous. Second, God’s thoughts are not our thoughts as well as His timing-however one would have to be studying the Word and have a relationship with Him to truly understand that much. While being with a narcissist in any type of relationship is difficult the one thing that’s been the best for me is how close I’ve come to the Lord. Everything you mentioned above-the mental abuse and loss of self and so on is all spiritual. Why do you think all the narcs-male and female-act the same???? It’s spiritual. And God is spirit. See, you are speaking from a place of high emotion-‘ this is not an emotionally safe place’ while God sees the picture -including our pain-in it’s entirety. When emotions run high, we don’t make the best decisions as people. As I said previously, you have zero idea of what I have been through/and may be still going through and I will not be divulging my business just to prove that, either.
@@rhuleg09 The issue with what you have stated, ‘I believe God would never say stay or wait’ is that’s what YOU believe. You are not yielding to what He is saying. What he says is not what we believe. He thinks differently and on a level we could never comprehend. Of course, if you are in danger physically or anything you should leave to keep from being harmed. Our thoughts are not His thoughts.
Also, just because I am not on this platform airing out what I have gone through or are going through doesn’t mean I haven’t faced narcissism. It just means YOU don’t know about it and that’s the way I prefer to keep it. You sound highly emotional which is not a bad thing necessarily however when we make moves during an emotional state we can sometimes make the wrong move or make a move at the wrong time. All the best to you.
@@1980shamekawell, you have a good point only you are giving an open advice without knowing what the sufferer is going through. 13 years and I wish the people around me had supported me to leave when I told them I wanted to. Unfortunately, I am from a part of the world where it is not easy to just get a divorce because you know you should leave. You have to be dying before your family that are seeing you dying will support you and may still use a failed marriage against you later. This is the 13th year and it is even more difficult to leave despite the abuse and undervalue. And I know God will pay me on the shoulder when I walk away. People who go through abuse know what is right for them. They only are mostly not empowered to make those choices. If you cannot help them make that decision to divorce, at least make them feel supported with whatever decision they choose to take.
By the way, the way society is quick to dissuade a woman from divorce, wait on God, be patient more than the society corrects a man abusing a woman. If we focus more in upbringing our boys maybe, just maybe we will have less abusive men.
A covert narc is the worst type of person . . . The worst . . . The very worst . . . No way you can heal in the same space you have been abused , no way . . . You have to leave and let God deal with him . .. .one must know when its time to walk away . . .
That’s absolutely true,I pray and ask God for him to get healing and change and get DELIVERANCE .
There is nothing we can do .
@philomenajoseph-welsh1377 I pray for him when the Spirit leads me , not so that we can get back together but because I know that it is not God's desire to see anyone perish . . .
Amen
I've been divorced from narc over 30 years. When thinking back, the signs were always there, but I didn't know it because so many men where like this, so I just thought it was a "man-thing". Throughout the 20+ years of being with him, it only because worse with aging. I woke up one day and said I wanted out and wanted out, now! I took the steps to get out, fighting his nastiness the whole way, for years after, too. He lost a good wife and his children, too. I told him this, many years later. His response was, "I didn't lose anything." Guess that tells all there is to tell about that crud!
Thank you this one of the greatest videos I have seen on this subject.
My husband did all of this, and I suffered trauma everlasting after he left and is now with and engaged to another woman, while still married to me, God knows my heart, and I never deserved it! ##Godknows #myhusband #johnnybennett #Bennettforlife #heusedme
That sounds like my story. We were married for almost 40 years. It's been 4 years since he left, and he has been married to the other woman for almost 2 years. I wish I knew this as I was broken down and thought I was the problem. But in the past year, I have grown so much closer to God.
Don't worry that's God moving him out the way for u to have someone u deserve that other woman will leave him u will c
I have asked the Lord to pave the way for me and deliver me from this toxic marriage I have suffered a long time now and being alienated from my children and family I thank God for this deliverance in Jesus Mighty Name Hallelujah
@Maria-dl4he that's what God wants he's out of your because God loves u remember that sometimes God let's us go there so we know
👍
DIVORCE!!!!
SOME MEN CANNOT BE HELPED
GET OUT!!!!!
We hold on tight but, at some point it's becomes Torture 😮
I did. My ex was everything described.
Praying for freedom!🙏
Trust God and leave that bondage marriage. Trust God that God will release you from that bandage marriage.
I’m going through this, but I have no place to go
Me to and so many others are faced with the same challenge.trust in God fully dont allow doubt to creap in have faith and God will illuminate our path.we must remain hopeful and patient in the process.
Save ur money work two jobs.
Me as well, it's hard to get help .but keep trying and when you get it. Dnt go back. Because help is hard to get. So worth it. Instant Relief. Get a job if you can because sometimes situations kids etc. makes it hard.
@@601madwoman5wat if she can’t work due to childcare. If the husband isn’t willing to help it will be impossible
@@RobinMontayne I understand RobinMontayne, I understand all too well.
Thank you for your encouragement through scriptures! I’m experienced that completely by an evil narcissist ungodly husband, it’s hell on earth!
Thank for knowing what a woman can go through by being married to a man that chooses to kill his wife’s heart, then tells her with no apology for her, but he acts like he’s actually doing her this favor to act like ‘ I’m so sorry for treating you like I have, “. He tells her, I was sick.” With no change on his part, ever. God took my narcissistics life. God is healing me now. Sir, how did you know how to tell us broken woman every woman like this has gone through. Thank you for other women that has gone thru what I’ve had for 44 years. 🙏. God put all your Godly words, I know. God bless you
So many years i just wanted to die. Now i have set boundaries. I chose to fight for his life when i could've let him die. God did a miracle, and he still needs restoration. It's so unfair but I'm trusting God to deliver him because financially I'm ruined on my own. I chose forgiveness. I chose life. Like the wife of your youth when she is forsaken, the Lord, my maker, shall be my husband. Isaiah 54. He shall make my battlements of rubies. God, heal these hearts! Deliver these men from evil like you did in 1 Samuel 10:9. Make all things new! Hear our cries! I love You, Papa God! Fight for your daughters.🔥♥️
I needed to hear this. Thank you so much!
I fought my way out of this Narcissistic nightmare. It has taken me 12 years to feel more whole. I am learning to receive God's love and love myself. Miles has helped me towards self empowerment but I do not expect much from Christians....they do understand the devistating empact on your body, soul and spirit.
I never know the root of my problem husband , but thank God for these videos I will now frustrate him instead of him to frustrate me
💯🔥💯🔥👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
I receive God's comfortand affirmations daily 🙏 to remain sane in this demeaning, loveless ,faithless marriage, more like prison. 😊
This message is the very best that I have heard since I left over 30 years ago, even better than ANY of the therapist throughout the years ☝ ..ALL PRAISES TO THE MOST HIGH IN CHRIST!!! 🤣😇🙏
Thank you so much for your wisdom, Brother! 😞💝🙏
❤perfect piece. I belive in God for he has kept me thus far and unmask my Nack Husband for me after 12 years of all forms of abuse by him and his family. . A victim who now see through my husband recovering and secretly planning my exit or seperation after 12 years of pains, iam marraide but single with 2 kids from conception till date. I trust in God for he will make a way for me out, IJN Amen
God will make away.
GOD IS OUR SAVIOR. HE WILL DELIVER YOU.God set the captives free❤
I’ve been in a narcissistic relationship for over 30 years. I didn’t recognize it until just a few years ago as my thoughts on being a respectful and submissive wife were that I was to perform everything in my power to do whatever my husband wanted. If I went against my conscience I thought it was simply because my spirit was being contentious and I needed to correct myself. Add to this the fact the advice from Christian women is that as a woman I was not being submissive enough. I needed to be more meek and mild. If I overreacted it was my emotions and therefore it was, once again, up to me to correct myself. Once our children got to a point that they were seeing things for themselves and saying things that I had been thinking but thought I was wrong about, it was then that I started to realize just how much my husband was laying at my feet in terms of guilt and blame. I started researching what was going on and came upon the word Narcissist. I then started listening to UA-cam videos about this behavior and finally felt vindicated for the first time! It’s been hard to understand how to have proper reactions as a Christian wife to my husband’s demeanor. Now after all of this time I have FINALLY come across a Christian perspective. It’s also refreshing to hear how all the blame and responsibilities do not all fall at the wife’s feet. Thank you so much for making me feel valued for the first time in YEARS!!!
Sources of validation (especially from a Christian perspective) is so affirming. Even if you stay, you now know what you know, and you can’t unsee it
@ yes! This has definitely helped. I have wanted a Christian perspective on this and now I have found a source. Just found Kris Reece and have also listened to Dr. Les Carter
God is good all the time❤
Whats worse is the church that allows it.
It can definitely encourage it
WOW! This is a masterpiece! We need more God fearing mean teaching the men in the church!
Thank you, I have endured 13 years of this type of relationship. Former ones may have had a touch of this. My seeking is to understand how I fall prey to these relationships. However that being said it took me 12 years to understand I was married to a narcissist and being an empath I was at his side being a support to my abusive dismissive husband. I lost almost all of me and with the fragment of myself God hath made me I clung to that word of him
Over me and God has aluminum aged the truth and is reclaiming how I see how the Lord sees me and the continual work he is doing in me individually. Tha k you for this video!
THANK YOU JESUS FOR THIS
MESSAGE!!! I'M BELIEVING"GOD" TO TAKE ME THROUGH & OUT OF THIS!!! THANK YOU "JESUS"❤ THANK YOU "LORD"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
This was awesome and just what I needed. God is so good!
I was going through this
God is good.
Praying for my husband everyday
So God changed your narcissistic husband?
@@tlovesgreens8244I took this as she got out. They cannot change.
Need to pray for you,narcs don’t change!
Lord have mercy.
I'm going through this now, but i want to release from him.
Blessings to you. I did it and you can too.
Lord, I pray, in the name of Jesus that you will set your daughter free. I pray in the name of Jesus that she will be safe. I pray in the name of Jesus that you will give her freedom, dear Lord, give her peace of mind while she still in this situation, but release her dear Lord from this demonic unloving relationship in the name of Jesus amen and amen
SAME!! We will be free! Claim it, In the name of Jesus! Amen 🙏🏾
Ok, I claim it.
Me too!!!
I am in one for 45 years and still there,this is pain and torture
I have now set bonderies,he is very angry
I’m praying for you. ❤
You need to equip yourself even more. With 46 years marriage you could be my mother so maybe I’m not the best to advice but take my 2 cent for what it is worth. There are hundreds of thousands of women going through the same or have gone through the same as you and there are many online communities to get help. Especially with information. Get armed with info. Setting boundaries isn’t enough. I got out of a 9 years marriage and I’ve been telling women I know about narcissistic men and it’s helped a few.
@@michelec2848 thank you for praying for @nannyregis4015. I’ll pray for her, too. I wish I could do more.
He will always be, you taking awaybhis control, but he won't change. He will find different ways to hurt u more n more. I'm sorry u stayed so long. This is sad.❤
@tolubamidele1508 yep.im learning too.but I feel tired already.i came from different continent and he calls me names according to where I come from belittling
You described my narcissist Ex Husband fully he took so much from me for so long n was so cruel to me but God removed me from him i always love n loved helping people's he took everyone out of life i had to raise our kids alone i felt like was in a marriage alone im a empath n was brought up in church brought our kids up in church they are grown now n have kids
I am not married and never have been and thank you for sharing this video message with few or with many. Especially, those who are in this type of marriage relationship. Well enjoy your day and week. ✝️🙏🏾
Miles Monroe spoke to me many years ago. He said everything about you will be for the glory of God.
Bravo, excellent, spot on!! Thank you so much for speaking the truth so clearly and for offering encouragement.
I'm went through the same thing I filed for divorce their was cheating involved too, maybe now he can remain with his need for admiration on social media from other women...even if they had the most beautiful person on earth they still wouldn't be satisfied their very self centered individuals who only love "themselves " and no one else their not capable of loving a person they get bored every one is a tool to them for personal gain
@nenelife2656 The fact that they need supply from so many women all at once says a lot about how low their self-esteem really is, doesn't it? 🤔
Yeahbit does@@KhassiaK
I lived through this!!!!!!!!
AMEN AND AMEN. ✝️
Thankyou sooo much, thank you for sharing this
Oh God thank you,for this relieving truth....freedom
There is no other truth than this! Ah! Thank God for His faithful servant! God bless you, for sharing this undiluted truth.🙌❤️🙏
This is exactly how my marriage has been for the last 34 years
I have been praying for so long for a change or an escape. I am still here in the cage and I am more tired than Ive ever been. I have abandoned hope. Please pray for me.
@@wilblissful I pray that God will make a way for you to escape & find freedom Sister, I'm in the same boat, & financially I can't support myself to move out. No one to stay with atm & like yourself, so tired. ❤️🙏
I try to have ‘defiant’ hope. Doing everything possible to let satan know that he’s messing with the wrong girl! I fast and pray once a week, I started doing flags and streamers in our church - praise is spiritual warfare. Spend lots of time reading the Bible and praying scripture. ‘I am clothed with strength and dignity. I can laugh at he says to come. I speak with wisdom and faithful instruction is on my tongue’/ Do not fear, I AM with you, I will strengthen and help you. I will uphold you with My righteous right hand.’/The Lord’s favor surrounds me as with a shield’/ He abundantly blesses me so that in all things, at all times I have all that I need’/ ‘Commit your way to the Lord, trust in Him and He will do this. He will make your righteous reward shine like the dawn, and your vindication like the noonday sun’. God is our witness - He fights for us! And one more ‘The Lord announces the Word, and the women who declare it, are a mighty throng!’ That’s us! I’d love to connect with everyone on here. Does anyone know a platform to do that? ❤
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Hallelujah, glory to God in the Highest 🥳💃
This is great. Thank you 🙏
0:20: Marriages that consist of at least one narcissist never truly “thrive”, although they might seem to be successful for a short time. The narcissistic cannot disguise his true self for very long.
My ex is a narcissist - he twisted the churches view of man and wife// so that before we were even married I was not performing wifely duties pushing him to be closer to god/ pushing him to be a better person/ I wasn’t meeting his “needs” I did nothing right and what I did do wasn’t good enough (his words) he spewed hateful vitriol and lies at me, he hurt my children he was in our lives for almost 8 years and honestly. It’s been a month since and I’m still hurt damaged and trying to heal
Amen this is so true
I put my husband Chauncey Demond Taylor in GODs hands.
Truth
I married into a "Catholic" family. There was no God in that family, just narcissists who compete with one another. Insecurities, control, and jealousy ruled them. I was miserable. Finally divorced them all three months ago, and I'm enjoying my peace.
@writer1985 Catholicism seems to write a blank check for narcissism, doesn't it? Imagine if they all went to confession with the same priest. It would be a wonder if his head didn't explode after a while! 😱🤯 Their version of 'love' most assuredly does cover a multitude of sins, but often in the most horrific way. There are many wonderful people who adhere to Catholicism, but the system is broken and Christianity in general seems to just breed narcissists, although not exclusively. Plenty to go around these days given our culture of the aggrandizement, hate and entitlement! 🤦🏼♀️
@@KhassiaK There are bad Catholics and bad Protestants, Jews and Muslims, because there are bad people everywhere. Take care when speaking against the only Church ever established by Jesus Christ, though.
My life..as I look back I feel so sorry for the old me..the old me who looked to her husband for EVERYTHING..The new me, the woman who knows who she is in Christ and who doesn’t need her husbands approval anymore! Being with him has actually made me cling to Christ even more..I didn’t know true love until I got to know Christ..I submit to God and God only..The Holy Spirit has done a work in me..I am healed❤❤
Amen. Thanks for putting this up.
Amen🙏🙏. Thank you Lord❤️❤️
Everything that you are saying is true. Thankyou for letting God use you to speak to all that this was met to reach. May God Bless and keep you. ❤
This was very good!!!! I really enjoyed every word that was spoken!!
Just remember if life with this person is this painful, imagine how horrible your end might be in their presence.. We deserve to have our lives end surrounded by people that love us and provide peace..
Monsters want love too. I'm praying for one now and he is finding out that he has met a bigger player than he is. He had me take my pants and panties off and check them. I gladly obliged. The thing is, I very well could have picked up one just by walking outside and changing my pants. We don't think of that kind of ugly. He shaved so that I would be guilty if he found one.
He had childhood wounding. He had a good heart he was just twisted. I still loved the good side of him and I PRAY for his miracle by JESUS.
It is very hard and confusing esp when you have children but praise God He helped me through it ❤
Amen. Amen
Wow you are right on target. You described my ex husband to a tee.
Thank You for publishing this. Very helpful in making sense of trauma on the path of healing 🙏🏽❤️🦋
It happens to husbands too you know🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹
I am going through this , but I have no where to go at this time. However, I am doing everything in my power to get out
Please do.
I enjoy. I enjoy my first time watching your video. Keep doing what you’re doing.
AMEN AMEN 🙏, Thank you, BLESSINGS
The only answer for these situations is run for the hills. I was utterly tortured in a so called marriage like this. That is not a marriage. I could not have thought up the evil that was done to me in the name of God. Truly despicable
And then they don't want to let you go, even after you divorce them.
Thank you Jesus!!🙏❤️
Veeeery well said!
many advoces.when growing close toChrist pray also for a change in people, that Holy Spirit catch these sinful nature. Take care Nd pray for wise decisions.
Ty I really needed this ❤
I was abused for almost 19 years by my husband verbally and mentally...I am so glad I am still alive, all GLORY be GLORY belongs to God.
I am leaving him next year in JESUS name.
For me, it’s been my whole marriage and even before-not much joy with him. However, if I had to do over, I would to have my kids
Amen
You have described my father to a T. And as he gets older, he gets worse.
@13:00 present but never truly seen
Please pray for me. I’m in so much pain due to my husband’s abuse and infidelity. I’m trying to leave the marriage. It feels as though I won’t survive. I’m begging God for mercy.