Wife Wants a Divorce! What Should I Do? 5 POWERFUL Ways to Change Her Mind & Save Your Marriage

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  • WIFE WANTS A DIVORCE! WHAT SHOULD I DO? 5 POWERFUL THINGS YOU CAN DO TO CHANGE HER MIND & SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE
    If you find that your wife wants a divorce, what should you do? If your wife wants a divorce and you’re wondering how you can change her mind and how you can save your marriage, then this video is for you.
    When your wife wants a divorce but you don’t, that can be a scary and difficult moment and you might be saying to yourself -- so my wife wants a divorce, what do I do? what next?
    In this video, I am going to show you the 5 productive things you can do when your wife wants a divorce and how you can begin the journey of changing her mind and winning her back when your wife wants a divorce out of nowhere.
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  • @GeoffreySetiawan
    @GeoffreySetiawan  4 роки тому +19

    Hey guys hope this was helpful! Leave me a comment with your thoughts?
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    • @inserter400
      @inserter400 3 роки тому

      HOW PROVEN IS YOUR THEORY ? HOW MUCH RESEARCH ? ONE MORE THING PLEASE , COULD YOU TALK MUCH SLOWER SO WE AN TAKE IN WHAT YOUR SAYING THANK YOU GEOFFREY

    • @GeoffreySetiawan
      @GeoffreySetiawan  3 роки тому

      ​@@inserter400 If your definition of proof is the ability of a theory to be replicated over and over again in real-life tests, and proven to be successful, then it's extremely proven. Go check out my personal FB profile to see the many testimonials & success stories. :)

    • @GeoffreySetiawan
      @GeoffreySetiawan  3 роки тому

      @@inserter400 Haha, and noted ;)

    • @pedrorodriguez5020
      @pedrorodriguez5020 2 роки тому +1

      What video can explain when wife or spouse wants out of relationship but still has sexual relations with you.

    • @cg1232
      @cg1232 4 місяці тому

      ​@@GeoffreySetiawan do these changes help after she had affair?

  • @phillipgiwu9683
    @phillipgiwu9683 3 роки тому +41

    She doesn't see a bright future with me because she feels that I have hurt her feelings in the past and doesn't want to experience such trauma again

    • @joshuanofsinger860
      @joshuanofsinger860 3 роки тому +11

      I’m in the same exact situation

    • @savtheman19
      @savtheman19 3 роки тому +8

      Cant believe it , I am in the exact same situation

    • @jontonal3150
      @jontonal3150 3 роки тому +5

      Same brother

    • @jeandutoit7127
      @jeandutoit7127 3 роки тому +4

      Same man. Really hard.

    • @panedole
      @panedole 3 роки тому +2

      This was great, I have been researching "how to win back wife after separation" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you heard people talk about - Jenaniel Forgiveness Blueprint - (Have a quick look on google cant remember the place now ) ? Ive heard some amazing things about it and my brother in law got excellent results with it.

  • @JT-mq1jk
    @JT-mq1jk 2 роки тому +8

    Dear Lord, I need you right now more than ever. I feel so little and insecure due to the fact that my wife wants a divorce and nothing to do with me. I have struggled with alcohol and addictions my whole life and I never meant for her to see it or for it to be a problem the way it has. I would give anything to have my baby back as she was happy and just to see her smile gives me goosebumps thinking about it. I love my wife with all of my heart and Soul. I wish shit was different and that I could have changed sooner. I need a miracle right about now and it doesn't seem like it's happening. I'm frustrated because my wife thinks I'm repeating this cycle of things that made her turn away from me in the first place but I know it is different this time around only because I can feel the change and feel the difference in my heart beat and walk and evey movement of my being. I just wish she could feel what I feel for 1 second and maybe just maybe, she'll put the brakes on the divorce and listen and see what my soul is screaming. All these videos say the same thing, don't overreact when she says divorce to you but how can I not? I just need a miracle please. Amen

    • @gregcoleman9677
      @gregcoleman9677 Рік тому

      Stop participating in your sins. You have to stop doing all those things first and foremost.

    • @timotahowhitehawk3756
      @timotahowhitehawk3756 Рік тому

      Make those changes brother, create that safety & Trust for your woman ~ then maybe she will come back. Give her a reason to come back home. You will have to Re-create Trust, Safety, and Change before she will fill safe to come back home. I used to drink badly, and I Met God thru Jesus Christ, and He took the desire for me to drink alcohol. I was delivered from the devil's brew, but submitting my will to God's will and Accepting Jesus as my Lord and Savior, then He helped me to change the man I was to a New man. God's Speed brother!

  • @dumpybear8664
    @dumpybear8664 2 роки тому +4

    Great info. Separating the outcome from my changes has opened up a new perspective. Relationships should not be reward based. ie... do something good to get something good. You do something good, because it is good. I don't know where I'll end up, but I'm not afraid anymore of any outcome. Speak your peace about what you would like the outcome to be but understand, and take responsibility for why it might not turn out the way you want. You can't be mad if you contributed to the mess. Then follow through. Do what you say you are going to do. I have messed that up so much in my marriage, that I definitely would have left me too. Not sure where you are Geoffrey, but I'd shake your hand if I could. You're doing great work and you should be proud.

  • @JDSbits01
    @JDSbits01 3 роки тому +12

    Your videos have been so therapeutic to me since my wife and I entered a very serious cross-road in our relationship. We've been married for going on nine years and several days ago, we had the initial talk of moving towards divorce and I've not been the same since. Your videos have been giving me a way to navigate all the feelings, thoughts, and experiences I'm having throughout this transition. I'm working on focusing on the process and I know I can succeed at that, after having transformed in a few other areas of life before. This one hits so much deeper though because we both love each other very much. Thanks for your great content brother!

    • @GeoffreySetiawan
      @GeoffreySetiawan  3 роки тому +1

      Awesome Jose! Glad I have been able to help you, albeit through the limited means of UA-cam right now! Love your support :)

    • @clayallen4354
      @clayallen4354 2 роки тому +2

      Jose how is it going? Did you reconcile?

    • @Luridmoirai
      @Luridmoirai 2 роки тому +1

      I would also like to know how is going for you.

  • @mohdnadzam557
    @mohdnadzam557 3 роки тому +14

    The 1st advice I took from you sir, my wife gave a positive response... Thank you sir

  • @Phoenix-lc7jv
    @Phoenix-lc7jv 4 роки тому +9

    “For how long do I have to keep doing this?” 🤣 Yes, that’s a sure sign that he isn’t serious about making permanent changes; he just wants to trick you. You can tell, cause they switch strategies pretty often. One week, they try to appease you. If you don’t go back to them, they try to guilt you into returning. If that doesn’t work, they turn accusatory. If that doesn’t work, they resort to subtle threats, and so on. Eventually, their impatience, anger, manipulation, and displays of power are back in full swing.

  • @Billwilderment
    @Billwilderment 4 роки тому +16

    Fantastic video! The thumbnail was straight to the point... You give so much free advice, its stellar!

  • @mh.m4653
    @mh.m4653 2 роки тому +1

    This was so good 😊🙏 thanks a lot.
    I am at the other side, but you explain my thoughts more than I cool do it.
    Genuine changes! The reason why you do this ist to better yourself not to get her back. Better yourself regardless of the outcome👍

  • @adamwoodie4029
    @adamwoodie4029 9 місяців тому +1

    Thanks for putting this stuff out for free.. unlike some other guys out here. It says a lot about who you are.

  • @joerivera2427
    @joerivera2427 2 роки тому +1

    Get out of my head! You’re entire video sounded like we’ve already talked. You hit on every issue I’m going through. Exactly! Never had that happen so I’m already very interested in learning more.

  • @stevo0311
    @stevo0311 2 роки тому +1

    This is great information for long-term relationships and marriages. There is so much info out there that might work for a short-term relationship (like the no contact rule) but can be damaging to long-term relationships and marriages.

    • @GeoffreySetiawan
      @GeoffreySetiawan  2 роки тому +1

      Hi NoneYa,
      Exactly, I realized this when I was going through my own struggles with my long-term relationship, this is the very reason that motivated me to start this business and channel. In an effort to help and save as many relationships as I could. Thank you for your comment and support.

  • @KK-db9yo
    @KK-db9yo 8 місяців тому

    I like your videos and have been following you for some time. I think you give a lot of good perspective. I agree w introspection and working on providing emotional and psychological security. however what is your take on the best way to advise the other side when they are at fault or do you recommend that we ignore their issues and focus on ours? Just looking for perspective

  • @itsyaboisavor
    @itsyaboisavor 2 роки тому +1

    How do you know when things are really over? As my partner of 7 years has ended things and has said “i hear what you are saying but right now i cant, later down the track if we are meant to be we will find our way back if not that what will be will be” we will still be trying to live together as we just bought a home and both have no where to go. even so i still want to continue to better myself

  • @phillipgiwu9683
    @phillipgiwu9683 3 роки тому +4

    Please consider a video on intentional and unintentional things that can make or break your relationship

    • @GeoffreySetiawan
      @GeoffreySetiawan  3 роки тому +1

      I have a video on this that I think relates to what you're asking for: ua-cam.com/video/agXSduONEDw/v-deo.html

  • @matthewbarrett176
    @matthewbarrett176 2 роки тому

    Geoffrey speaks liquid gold...Until I found these videos I was doing everything wrong as he says. Now I have seen a massive change in my wife towards me

  • @jonathanjones3753
    @jonathanjones3753 2 роки тому

    Wow what a great video! I didn’t see the video of how to say or execute the 4 things you said there would be a link at the end of the info. Thanks! You said at 12:15 on how to express how you are bettering yourself thanks!!!

    • @GeoffreySetiawan
      @GeoffreySetiawan  2 роки тому

      Hi Jonathan Jones,
      This should be the video you are looking for. Thank you for you compliment and support.
      ua-cam.com/video/K6b6v-F_9I4/v-deo.html

    • @jasondinino9281
      @jasondinino9281 Рік тому

      @@GeoffreySetiawan hi just found your video, I just left our home after being in separate rooms for 3 years. She wants to be done because I'm inconsistent with help on things. Should I say I'm make changes even when she's distant and cold towards me ?

  • @genesebelius4466
    @genesebelius4466 2 роки тому +3

    I listened to this two times. Thanks so much.

    • @GeoffreySetiawan
      @GeoffreySetiawan  2 роки тому

      Love it, stay tuned because I have a very exciting content calendar ahead.

  • @jorgemarquezzepeda8179
    @jorgemarquezzepeda8179 3 роки тому

    You make a lot of sense. Unfortunately my wife is Narcissistic and is able to just disconnect 100% like turning off the light switch. I am trying some of these tips.. but it appears that I am dealing with a wall of ice

    • @GeoffreySetiawan
      @GeoffreySetiawan  3 роки тому

      Hi Jorge, check out this preview of how I teach my clients how to go about handling a partner who is stonewalling in their relationship.
      ua-cam.com/video/smYxeJn3yAc/v-deo.html

  • @johnh8780
    @johnh8780 4 роки тому +3

    Awesome video. I learned a lot when you focused on the importance of coming from a place of "want". "I want to make these changes regardless of the outcome". That's a great point. Being honest with the intention of making a genuine change. That will help me during my separation. Thanks Geoffrey, I'm very glad to have found your channel.

    • @GeoffreySetiawan
      @GeoffreySetiawan  4 роки тому

      Glad to have you here as well John!

    • @dominicarmour7076
      @dominicarmour7076 2 роки тому

      Thank You for Helping Me out With This Video! I'm gonna Use These Methods to bring Back my Marriage

    • @clayallen4354
      @clayallen4354 2 роки тому

      John how is your marriage today

    • @elizabethmaris6219
      @elizabethmaris6219 2 роки тому

      Hi my relationship is fixed back again
      my ex is back to me we loving and
      happily together, I got help from a
      man who brought us back together

    • @elizabethmaris6219
      @elizabethmaris6219 2 роки тому

      +190

  • @justinmet5785
    @justinmet5785 Рік тому

    I have been watching these videos for
    The past 3 nights now and every single one I have watched has hit home
    With me. I thought I understood the root cause as to why my wife wants to separate. But I do not, I am willing to learn and grow and better myself for the future. Regardless of outcome. Thanks so much Geoffrey for posting all
    These videos they are really opening my eyes to everything

    • @GeoffreySetiawan
      @GeoffreySetiawan  Рік тому

      Hi Justin Met,
      If you have not already, feel free to join me for my free 90 min master class to learn even more.
      relationshipsmastered.com/masterclass

  • @cchris50
    @cchris50 Рік тому

    Outstanding advice. Thank you.

  • @jeffreyvalentine9171
    @jeffreyvalentine9171 2 роки тому

    Thanks for your explanation about saving the marriage relationship , instead of eliminating it. I watched countless videos of a multitude of experts regarding “The Narcissist “ only to left with a sad feeling of hopelessness. I felt it was not a constructive avenue to solve a problem with marriage. I was thinking that why would I even consider listening to a video about saving a sinking ship called my marriage. Man I find that you brought a glimpse of hope. Thanks again.

    • @GeoffreySetiawan
      @GeoffreySetiawan  2 роки тому

      Love it, I have plenty more videos surrounding this topic.

  • @bobbylee4774
    @bobbylee4774 2 роки тому +2

    What if she blocks me and I can't contact her? I'm working on myself and every other day its a different emotion. How can I reconcile things?

    • @hbjeff36
      @hbjeff36 2 роки тому

      Just keep working. If you would do anything for her in front of her, do it when she isn’t looking. Take care of something she’s asked forever

  • @NPPD16
    @NPPD16 Рік тому

    All of this is very useful info, but how do you implement or convey any of this to your wife is she's already moved out and refuses any contact with you? Which is my case.

  • @My_MeVolution
    @My_MeVolution 3 роки тому

    Hi, you mention in the video another video you were going to link about the 4 things you can say in greater detail, would you share this with me please?

    • @GeoffreySetiawan
      @GeoffreySetiawan  3 роки тому

      Hi Liam,
      Here is the video link... ua-cam.com/video/uy9H6gqsPno/v-deo.html
      If you’d like to learn more, you can begin by joining our free masterclass here.
      relationshipsmastered.com/masterclass
      At the end of this masterclass, you will also get some information on how you can submit your application for the program.
      And in case you’re curious as to how life-changing this program is, or how it is MILES beyond what other programs can offer, check out the links below!
      Client Review Videos:
      ua-cam.com/play/PLQ8tvyhQlPzsNm-vC_g_8SWGcJRngefgU.html

  • @richiesaul9073
    @richiesaul9073 4 роки тому +3

    Get to a point where I don’t have to use my “will” power!
    Make the changes permanent ... I am so in!
    I miss her but I am not ready to be her man .. she saw that .. she loves me and did this for us!
    Thank you Geoffrey , again!

  • @JasonJamesmusicuk
    @JasonJamesmusicuk 3 роки тому +2

    I did this with my partner. I said i accepted his decision and understand this is what he wants even if i don't. I told him I'm working on being able to communicate better and understand that ive not made it easy for him to open up to me and im working on myself to be the best me i can be for the future. We hugged and i told him my door is always open we can talk about anything not just us, even if its just work or other life stuff. I guess for now i concentrate on my controlling behaviour n the passband my communication skills and time will tell. ive got to find somewhere else to live and i guess my concern is that if i move out of town for financial reasons then we won't communicate at all anymore.

  • @Rips4Bob20
    @Rips4Bob20 2 роки тому +1

    Been a rough week for me. Have been so confused and shocked. I am trying everything I can to salvage my marriage with my wife. Seems as if she has already checked out. Not sure where to go from here. This video will help hopefully.

    • @GeoffreySetiawan
      @GeoffreySetiawan  2 роки тому

      Hi itsBOOFGANG,
      This situation reminds me of Liam when he was in the same position. Go check him out and see if you can relate to what he went trough in the beginning.
      ua-cam.com/video/LSs7y0s0gYg/v-deo.html

    • @clayallen4354
      @clayallen4354 2 роки тому

      How's it going today itsboofgang

  • @cscleghorn
    @cscleghorn 10 місяців тому

    How does she see these things once she says says she wants a divorce but is simultaneously not present in the relationship? I genuinely am working on making changes for me but I want to save us in the process but curious on how those changes will be noticed without the presence of your spouse.

  • @shirazally6193
    @shirazally6193 3 роки тому +1

    Great advice!

  • @philippelindsey5042
    @philippelindsey5042 3 роки тому

    Thank you 🙏 Thank you 🙏 I so needed this video to understand what is happening and what to do!

    • @GeoffreySetiawan
      @GeoffreySetiawan  3 роки тому

      Hi Philippe Lindsey,
      Check this one out too. This may give you even more insight on how to interpret things while trying to repair your relationship.
      ua-cam.com/video/esDN2K4efhY/v-deo.html

    • @agelinascott8197
      @agelinascott8197 2 роки тому

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  • @elciscopowell5674
    @elciscopowell5674 4 роки тому +8

    Another awesome video to end the week. Your tips and advice are so concise and true and reflects exactly what needs to happen for the mental shift to take place. If that mental shift doesn’t happen emotions will take over. Just have to be strong and confident and work on a mindset of want not need.👍

  • @genesebelius4466
    @genesebelius4466 2 роки тому

    Thanks so much.

  • @808Affliction
    @808Affliction Рік тому

    Ok so it started off my communication skills (I would speak from upset/angry emotion and say things I didn’t mean) now she’s like idk what I want in life, I have a lot of baggage I need to solve on my own, idk if I’m ready for a marriage and I have goals that I wanted to do on my own. So I feel like she’s making all these things up. She needs to work on communication skills too. She still wants a divorce and I’m fighting for my marriage but I feel like she gave up

    • @GeoffreySetiawan
      @GeoffreySetiawan  Рік тому

      Hi Matty,
      Yes, often times we wait until the very last moment to work on things, when things are dire, when our partner has already checked out.
      This is very common. But come check out these stories of my clients who have come from hopeless situation to now lead very thriving relationships.
      ua-cam.com/play/PLQ8tvyhQlPzsNm-vC_g_8SWGcJRngefgU.html

  • @Drjainanubhav
    @Drjainanubhav Рік тому

    Great video. But I have a question.
    1. My wife is raising a point on my character. From her arguments, I am getting a sense that the points she is raising is looking at the situation in “glass half empty” way. And now she wants to separate.
    Should I just accept her point of view and be self derogatory and agree to her view point and promise to induce change in me ?

    • @GeoffreySetiawan
      @GeoffreySetiawan  Рік тому

      Hi Anubhav jain,
      With all due respect, I believe you are missing the point.
      Can we identify that there is room for growth regardless of how full our cups are?
      If the answer is yes, then why do we have to be self derogatory in order to say hey, yeah I can work on those things, I can improve.
      Imagine if for my business I said to my team. We made it! We are the best! We have more proof of success than any other relationship program on the market.
      If I took that approach would I continue to deliver better and more insightful advice on UA-cam, would we continue to deliver more value and faster results to our students, would we just stay stuck at where we are today?
      You tell me, you could see it from a different angle. Would love to hear your feedback.

  • @boriskarloff598
    @boriskarloff598 2 роки тому +1

    Geoffrey, my wife filed for divorce a week ago.
    She claims I'm distant and our only interactions were thru sex. I'm watching your excellent content and telling her I'm serious about changing for the better no matter what happens. Still meeting ap lot of resistance and she says 'its too late', not in my mindand I'm adamant. What do you think?

    • @GeoffreySetiawan
      @GeoffreySetiawan  2 роки тому +3

      Hi Boris Karloff,
      I will tell you that same thing I tell everyone. Don't focus on showing your partner changes (Sales & Marketing) focus instead on making the right, massive, and permanent changes.

  • @LahSouljacutzup
    @LahSouljacutzup Рік тому

    Just wanna share so maybe i can help someone else. She wanted to spend more time and for me to understand her. All I did was work, go to the gym, and play the game until it was time for bed. I didn't realize how much I started to block her out. She says she's not in love anymore. We have been working on it and now I love her more than ever, I just hope I can replace her feelings with better feelings than I've ever made her feel towards me. Please listen to her guys and understand her because you may think you don't need her, but it's gonna kill you when you're not next to her every night. Thanks for your videos.

  • @aimezmoi13
    @aimezmoi13 2 роки тому

    How much does it cost to get coached by you?

  • @loganromero5089
    @loganromero5089 3 роки тому

    Hi Geof, going through this now, is there a support number where I can get an advice from your team?

    • @GeoffreySetiawan
      @GeoffreySetiawan  3 роки тому

      Hi Logan,
      We currently do not have a support number available however...
      If you’d like to learn more, you can join our free masterclass here.
      relationshipsmastered.com/masterclass
      At the end of this masterclass, you will also get some information on how you can submit your application for the program.
      And in case you’re curious as to how life-changing this program is, or how it is MILES beyond what other programs can offer, check out the links below!
      Client Review Videos:
      ua-cam.com/play/PLQ8tvyhQlPzsNm-vC_g_8SWGcJRngefgU.html
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      drive.google.com/drive/folders/1Gp8UpRV9uMlFx763BfuQnEqN930FQb7b?usp=sharing

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      @agelinascott8197 2 роки тому

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  • @edwardhurbina9576
    @edwardhurbina9576 3 роки тому

    So wife had said and chose to be done! And put a restraining order after i failed all the first steps what do I do if i can't see or talk or contact at all

    • @GeoffreySetiawan
      @GeoffreySetiawan  3 роки тому

      Edward, this is the moment when you become the leader to make the massive changes in yourself. She will eventually see your changes. Won't happen overnight, but use this time to work on you... Just remember that emotions can and do change with time.

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  • @dewaynekinnard7361
    @dewaynekinnard7361 3 роки тому

    My question how too do your steps that I enjoy hearing but I work long hours and have small kids!

  • @renewyourmind1815
    @renewyourmind1815 3 роки тому +2

    My husband works in sales. Today when I shared that I didn't want this divorce, he started bringing up his wants like a true sales man.

    • @patricktucker2743
      @patricktucker2743 3 роки тому

      I just got my ex back. All thanks to dr Gbogbo..Came across him on one of these pages and he has been very helpful,am so grateful to him
      He helped me get my divorced wife back after a long breakup. I'm so happy to have my baby back. The doctor can help you also. write him on WhatsApp via +2 3 4 9 0 3 4 3 6 6 2 8

    • @savtheman19
      @savtheman19 3 роки тому

      That was a mistake , I am in sales also . I did the same and it didn't get me anywhere .

    • @elizabethmaris6219
      @elizabethmaris6219 2 роки тому

      Hi my relationship is fixed back again
      my ex is back to me we loving and
      happily together, I got help from a
      man who brought us back together..

    • @elizabethmaris6219
      @elizabethmaris6219 2 роки тому

      +190

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      @elizabethmaris6219 2 роки тому

      5919

  • @user-hd8wb2yf9l
    @user-hd8wb2yf9l 10 місяців тому

    My wife says she has grown and i havent. She is into excercising and says i have let myself go but when she tells me we are done, i am off to the other side facts!

  • @patrickmac8776
    @patrickmac8776 2 роки тому +1

    This is exactly what’s happening to me thank you so much for posting these videos it keeps me motivated in the changes that have come upon me in the last 30 days thank you again so much everything is appreciated

  • @Phoenix-lc7jv
    @Phoenix-lc7jv 4 роки тому +5

    Neediness in a man isn’t attractive to an emotionally mature woman. You don’t want to be his mamma. You want an equal partner-not a child nor a bully. You want to know that he wants this relationship, he wants you, and he wants to work on keeping both.

  • @2250056
    @2250056 2 роки тому +1

    The video doesn’t mention kids.
    How can one relate the same points if kids are involved ?

  • @FuryJDM
    @FuryJDM 3 роки тому

    Geoffrey just found your channel today. What if she doesn’t want to talk? Just give her “space?”
    I’m at a loss
    In the meantime....I scooped up a snowboard. Something she’s wanted to do. I started to finally move away from need and acting like I’m out and about doing things around town. I don’t know what to do. Please help

  • @benjaminl4524
    @benjaminl4524 Рік тому

    Thank you. What do you do when her and her entire family are playing the immature game of ghosting? Because nothing can be done with no communication

    • @GeoffreySetiawan
      @GeoffreySetiawan  Рік тому +1

      If her ENTIRE family is ghosting you...
      The last thing I would think about is "How do manufacture contact?"
      The first thing I would think about is to ask myself "What are the internal issues I need to work on and fix that made an ENTIRE FAMILY to want nothing to do with me..."
      I mean, I am trying to think about what it would take for my wife's family to ghost me - and it would take A LOT of bad behaviors.
      Hint: The most difficult people to deal with are those who have flaws, but choose to keep being in denial of them, choose to keep being unaware of them, and get defensive when hey are pointed out their flaws.

  • @SuperBigdude77
    @SuperBigdude77 2 роки тому +3

    If your wife wants a divorce. Usually her mind is already made up.

  • @jdnrotterdam2150
    @jdnrotterdam2150 Рік тому

    My wife is thinking about a divorce but if ask het why? Her response is I don’t know i don’t feeling it anymore.

  • @knight7se7en
    @knight7se7en Рік тому

    My wife is proposing a separation, but her recent correspondence with me all but assures me that she is heading towards filing for divorce. I can’t believe this is happening. I need help.

    • @GeoffreySetiawan
      @GeoffreySetiawan  Рік тому

      Hi Morpheus,
      Before you consider working with me directly. Be sure to check out more of my free content, by joining my free 90-min masterclass.
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  • @waynehill6684
    @waynehill6684 2 роки тому

    Where is video you spoke of 13 minutes in?

  • @bobaguiar1199
    @bobaguiar1199 3 роки тому

    When there is no contact between us and she won't say what it is that's the issue and has said she's given up a long time ago, isn't fair in trying to repair a relationship ,

    • @korndog81
      @korndog81 3 роки тому

      Same here, I just keep getting stonewalled. I'll just give her the space she needs and go from there. Stay strong brother.

    • @GeoffreySetiawan
      @GeoffreySetiawan  3 роки тому

      Hey Bob,
      She is not willing to have a conversation with you due to lack of trust and safety… She may have said in the past that she’s given up and there is no hope, but that’s her expression from an emotional place.
      Once you follow the right processes you will start to see the changes in her interaction and communication, but his takes time to build.
      The reality is that the focus should be on you becoming the best version of yourself to showcase a “new” you when contact occurs… Just remember that the current version of you will not re-attract her.
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  • @axdcpl2284
    @axdcpl2284 2 роки тому

    Every single time your videos are fucking amazing, where the fuck were you 2 years ago??? 😂 thanks for what you do. Ima be sending all my vets and marines over to your channel brother. A lot of vets(men in general even) need to hear the stuff your saying. God bless you friend.

    • @GeoffreySetiawan
      @GeoffreySetiawan  2 роки тому

      Hi AXD Cpl,
      Check out my clients who decided it was never too late to learn the right skills needed to have the relationship of their dreams.
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  • @jasonroland5213
    @jasonroland5213 2 роки тому

    Im at a lose here i feel hopeless anything will help anymore please can I get help?!

    • @GeoffreySetiawan
      @GeoffreySetiawan  2 роки тому

      Hi Jason,
      Check out my many clients that started off with that same hopeless feeling as you have.
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    • @jasonroland5213
      @jasonroland5213 2 роки тому

      @@GeoffreySetiawan I will try but I'm really starting to lose hope at this point she has said I have a month to get my head out my ass

  • @Brandonfunky
    @Brandonfunky 9 місяців тому

    The problem is she doesn't even let me talk but kept lashing out the pass over and over. Also i did apologies but she can't even realize what casue that arguments at the first place. She sometimes acts fine and understandable but then later on she turns into evil and lashs out and blame me.

  • @davidisaacs6692
    @davidisaacs6692 Рік тому

    there is a lot of "overlap" in your many youtube videos. Surely a lot of the info could be condensed into a few underlying memorable principles guidelines which would be more helpful. Many of the scenarios you describe are to produce a perfect man (who does not exist) with a high maintenance demanding wife or partner. In ALL relationships you love your partner even with some faults (otherwise they would not be human beings!!!).

  • @inserter400
    @inserter400 3 роки тому +1

    Geoffrey I thought the no contact rule was proven to work ??

  • @daphnemj5796
    @daphnemj5796 2 роки тому

    My God! This is how I feel. That nonchalant and indifferent, ignoring or failing to realize a problem exists is the worst.

    • @GeoffreySetiawan
      @GeoffreySetiawan  2 роки тому

      Daphne MJ, what was the most eye-opening part about this video that helped you realize this?

  • @kippbuford7836
    @kippbuford7836 2 роки тому

    What if she says she felt relived and stress free for wanting to be separated

    • @GeoffreySetiawan
      @GeoffreySetiawan  2 роки тому

      Hi Kipp Buford,
      Let me ask you, how would you feel if you have been caught in an emotional catch-22 for a very long time?
      If you are unfamiliar with what this is check out this video below.
      ua-cam.com/video/Ro0erwlS7q4/v-deo.html

  • @ps3email612
    @ps3email612 2 роки тому

    What to do when there is a negative influencer to wife when separated ? A jealous friend to wife who pushes her to divorce ?

    • @GeoffreySetiawan
      @GeoffreySetiawan  2 роки тому +1

      Hi PS3 Email,
      Nothing changes, the process remains the same. There are usually negative influencer when we try and change who we are. Do you know how many haters I get on a daily basis on some of the concepts and material that I publish? Does this change what I do? The answer is no. nor should you.

  • @JaqoBlaque
    @JaqoBlaque 3 роки тому

    14:12 I hope you’re right

  • @simonwoods3827
    @simonwoods3827 5 місяців тому

    I need to develop to be the person she truly wants

  • @irvingg.1437
    @irvingg.1437 3 роки тому

    So how do you deal with a narcissists?
    Also how do you change someone's mind when so much damage has been done.

    • @GeoffreySetiawan
      @GeoffreySetiawan  3 роки тому

      Hi Irving, this change starts from understanding the real reasons for her actions and learning the processes / methods of communication to artfully appeal to her emotions.
      If you’d like to learn more about it, you can begin by joining our free masterclass here.
      relationshipsmastered.com/masterclass
      At the end of this masterclass, you will also get some information on how you can submit your application for the program.
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    • @agelinascott8197
      @agelinascott8197 2 роки тому

      To fix your broken relationship I can recommend you to a problem solver

    • @agelinascott8197
      @agelinascott8197 2 роки тому

      +190

    • @agelinascott8197
      @agelinascott8197 2 роки тому

      5919

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      @agelinascott8197 2 роки тому

      3258

  • @riccijones3110
    @riccijones3110 3 роки тому +4

    I'm in the same boat as Phillip. I've hurt her with words, but it was to make her stop, not to hurt or belittle, and I did not see this at the time. Gotta grow up sometime. I want my wife, back PERIOD. We are not divorced yet, but it could happen at any given moment right now.

    • @jfkcollector8968
      @jfkcollector8968 3 роки тому +1

      I’m in the same boat! She moved out and said she wants a divorce, blocked me on everything and haven’t heard anything in 2 days. Hopefully time will heal all wounds! Stay strong and pray and hope, but in the mean time, work on yourself and better yourself! Even if she doesn’t come back, you changes will help the next relationship

    • @clayallen4354
      @clayallen4354 2 роки тому

      Hows it going boys

    • @clayallen4354
      @clayallen4354 2 роки тому

      @@jfkcollector8968 how's it going today with the marriage

    • @elizabethmaris6219
      @elizabethmaris6219 2 роки тому

      Hi my relationship is fixed back again
      my ex is back to me we loving and
      happily together, I got help from a
      man who brought us back together.

    • @elizabethmaris6219
      @elizabethmaris6219 2 роки тому

      +190

  • @patrickmartinez9299
    @patrickmartinez9299 3 роки тому +1

    I couldn't agree more with everything you have said in this video. I am currently deployed and my wife is thinking about leaving because I have lacked to show her the level of attention and care she needs. Now that we have talked about it for weeks I fully understand that I can do what I need to in order to better myself permanently and make our marriage work. Even though I have said almost everything in this video is seems like she still doesn't want to trust me I don't know what else I can do.

  • @cherylhlatshwayo3318
    @cherylhlatshwayo3318 9 місяців тому

    More men need this video 🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞.

  • @jasondinino9281
    @jasondinino9281 Рік тому

    I just moved out, because I've been our spare bedroom for 3 years. She wants a divorce because I'm not dependable and she can't rely on me

  • @michaelrangel7280
    @michaelrangel7280 3 роки тому

    What if I found out she seeing someone

    • @GeoffreySetiawan
      @GeoffreySetiawan  3 роки тому

      That's when you stay tuned to this Friday's video where I talk about this very topic. In the meant time enjoy this one.
      ua-cam.com/video/LWzTNuK9aJc/v-deo.html

  • @mg_kj
    @mg_kj Рік тому

    What if the wife is the one trying to save the relationship, and the husband is the one thats been saying divorce

  • @user-hd8wb2yf9l
    @user-hd8wb2yf9l 10 місяців тому

    mine wants to leave me after 25 years and 4 kids together, When it happens im out

  • @dustinhowkins9358
    @dustinhowkins9358 3 роки тому +4

    I need help I just want my family back

  • @starlamoss8783
    @starlamoss8783 3 роки тому +1

    Can women be a part of this?

  • @starcityrc3298
    @starcityrc3298 Рік тому +1

    Dear God, bring my Wife back home to me and my Children. I pray to you in Jesus Name.

    • @davyjones844
      @davyjones844 Рік тому

      There are thousends of women in the world why you want her back if she dont want to be with you. Go and find another girl🤌🏼

  • @healingmantra28
    @healingmantra28 2 роки тому

    orang indo ya?

    • @amelianoahmi714
      @amelianoahmi714 2 роки тому

      Hi my relationship is fixed back again
      my ex is back to me we loving and
      happily together, I got help from a
      man who brought us back together.

  • @MrBlackraven2488
    @MrBlackraven2488 2 роки тому +1

    Don’t ever beg a woman to stay.

  • @mystic_tacos
    @mystic_tacos 3 роки тому

    SHIT, she's already in a relationship...

    • @GeoffreySetiawan
      @GeoffreySetiawan  3 роки тому

      Hi Mystic,
      Once you have become the best version of yourself and mastered the right processes, it really doesn’t matter if she is already in a relationship. She will naturally gravitate towards the best person that can provide the safety and trust she needs.