Dr. Umar & Lil Yachty Debate Over Who's To Blame For BBLs
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Momma Dee been on Bambi forever for no freaking reason!
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I was curious to know if she was referring to her relationship with her _mother._
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Looking and talking like Ava from Abbott Elementary.
I would get into trouble on. Purpose...to go to her office.
Which school 👀
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Bro she do 😂
I feel like Brad Cooper was being honest and I respect that deep down many fathers feel this
I really hope that's not true.
Dudes that immediately fall in love with the babies weird me out. I love my son and have from his inception. But he's a baby, I can't really understand him or bond with him. He's cute af and loves to play but until he's speaking and communicating, I can't really connect with him until that develops. I'm definitely and active father, but I know that I'm just not as equipped as my wife to deal with our son.
@@Super_Broly Honestly, it's kinda odd to hear a parent, whether it be mother or father say something like that out loud and believe it. Not saying that all fathers should be able to adequately care for a newborn on their own, but the notion that it's hard to connect with a child because they can't communicate is wild. But I guess everyone is different.
@TTJJCC a baby is comparable to an animal until it can talk
@@Super_Broly respect your honesty 💯 ppl nowadays are so fake especially on social media
😂😂😂Jess on one today!😂😂😂
Right 😂
Lol. I'm here 4 it
Somebody give her some pickles and baby powder the cravings getting to her lol
Here too. Those kids they have coming with beefs and crap like that they make me so sick as an adult over 25
My exact words! I’m like dang Jess! 😂
Not true, not all women even have a connection with their children. My connection with my kid was instant.
As soon as my first daughter was born and placed in my hands, I felt something drop on me from Heaven, like I received an anointing to raise her.
That’s exactly how I feel!!!! 😂😅
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Same here
It was the same. I knew I loved my children before they were here. I used to rub her stomach almost every night.
Facts! Might’ve been different if I had a son.. but my daughter had me locked in from day 1 - it’s an unexplainable feeling, best feeling in the world.
Charla saying "we need more body positivity" is the biggest troll ever!
As if he didn't clown Lil Mama for looking like Benjamin Button, or Forrest Whitaker's eye, or this whole "big back" nonsense. SMH😒
For real!! Just last week!!
Literally!
Jess skipping story’s that are headlines is so jess wit the mess ! 😂😂😂😂
Here’s the thing Dr. Umar isn’t saying: Black men are not telling these women to put their life on the line to get the BBL surgery. Women are getting BBL’s because THEY want to.
And what do THEY gain from BBL's? 🤔
cuz they want to compete - it's not for any particular one dude
@@geminiseason6901social media engagement
Ehhh, they're not telling them to get a BBL.. but they're also shaming them for their natural bodies.
Umar is a pandering bear. Dude has not been right since he has been caught with that stripper. Now Blame black men for everything
Jess was cooking this morning 😂😂😂😂 she had me laughing at work
Ngl nicki minaj did have an impact of bbl on women.
And the Kardashians?
@@carrington2949 Kardashians are more responsible of cosmetic surgeries
And Nicki did speak on how Wayne making fun of her body made her insecure and that’s when she decided to get shots. So it still comes back to a man lol
@@Jade-kz3jb I aint even a Nicki fan and even i know you just chopped & screwed what she said 🤦🏿♂️🤣😂🤣😭😭😭😭. Why on earth would you lie like this just to try & bash men??? Smh.... Nicki said she felt like she had to do it because she saw how the guys acted with women who had bbls......she NEVER said Wayne or anyone else shamed her for her body, knock it TF off lol 😏
Actually thats what she said in her interview with joe budden. sooooooooo what are you saying? @jayo208
Bradley cooper " I'm watching the thing more..." ain't no way brad called a baby a thing 💀
_*morph_
That was wild
He’s self centered
He was being honest. Maybe he just didn't bond right away. Maybe he didn't even know if he wanted the child. That is his experience.
@@darkangel4185 The comment is about Bradley calling his child a "thing", not about wanting her
😂😂”Shut up, Envy!”😂😂
Jess brought new life to the breakfast club and I love it😂😂😂😂😂
Yeah I stopped watching/following for a while. Then Jess was guest hosting; I started tuning in.
I disagree with Envy saying a father will never have a connection like a mom. Not every mom wants or pursues a connection with their child. My kids are my world...their mother is a weekend warrior. That statement he made doesn't apply across the board.
I think he means in a way that you were a host for that child for 9 months of your life. That’s just a different relationship period.
Mom and dads are different so how will they have the same connection.. let’s use critical thinking skills
*TBF, **_extremely few_** statements apply across the board.*
The beauty- and disparity- of *LIFE.*
It takes two people to make a child because both people shape the child into the person they'll be when they grow up. Mothers and Fathers may have a different connection to their children, but the love, involvement, and proper exampling should be there.
No statement applies across the board.
SHOUTOUT TO BRADLEY FOR ACTUALLY BEING HONEST.
I fully understand where he's coming from I had my daughter at 17 years old and it took quite some time for me to connect with her I loved her naturally of course but it wasn't immediate like most parents and idk if my age played a role or not but people should have this conversation more often because it's very common and it doesn't make us bad parents
@nycgirltee a lot of women have some level of postpartum and don't connect at first.
No. Some things are best kept between yourself and a professional. Not all over the Internet for the child to read. People overshare way too much.
@@VinaTaurus88
I hear you, but it is beneficial to share such things. Looking out for children in essential, but *children are not the sole population of Earth. **_Adults_** need to be considered, as well.*
Sharing such things helps to validate the experience of others. It helps others to feel less alone, [less] abnormal, and to know the possibilities of that changing/evolving/getting to "the other side".
Guess what? It might help those same _children_ someday. Especially when _they_ become adults.
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@@BL3SSed-Bliss That is part of the reason why our world is in the shape it is now smh. "Adults need to be considered as well. Sharing such things helps to validate the experiences of others." 👀👀. Sad part is you dont know how ridiculous that statement is 🤦🏿♂️. So a father should consider the needs of STRANGERS at large over the necessary concern of his CHILD??? Tell me you aint fit to be a parent without telling me smh. Who cares about validating others??? That baby didnt ask to be here and certainly doesn't need their father running his paper thin lips about how she was an "it" who he didnt love until almost a yr of her life 🤦🏿♂️. I swear folk like you are SIMPLE!! No wonder all these kids are out here being neglected smh.....folk like you worried about the world instead of prioritizing your responsibilities smh.
Saying you didn’t love your child the first 8 months is insane
Yea some thoughts should just stay in our thoughts
Many black men don't love their kids at an early age which is why single parenting in the black community is so high. Bradley is just being honest until a lot of coward black men out there.
I get what he trying to say. I think it was worded horribly but literally your only connection to that baby before it's actually born is through the mother. I'm sure he loved the baby and would perform whatever duties required as the father but a man's love for his child grows as he actually gets to spend time with them. It's just different. He worded that horribly but I get what he was trying to say
@@draenation265 "I'm sure he loved the baby..." Why would you even say that when the man said HIMSELF he didnt love the baby till the 8th month?? Matter fact, I'm trippin 🤔🤦🏿♂️.....we'll take your word for it, after all you're "sure" 😉🙄😒
@@jayo208 i feel you but you know how these celebrities are. Everybody trying to sound interesting or profound and usually just end up sounding stupid. What he said was dumb and unnecessary. I personally do not believe that he didn't love his child until 8 months unless he was either absent or just a piece of shit. Which I also don't put past him. I just believe this conversation is much more nuanced than the clickbait "WHAT! HE DIDN'T LOVE HIS CHILD!?!" headline.
Please do the rumors like this everyday!!!! 😂😂
Most of the time it’s women making others feel bad for their bodies
When I heard someone say that women get their bodies done for other women and not men, I was blown away but felt that there was truth to that. They stay measuring themselves up against one another, which is sad.
@@ImaJiveTurkey 💯
100% facts. Women don't get dressed up for men at a club they do it to impress their girlfriends.
@ImaJiveTurkey So true. Most women secretly compete with one another. I'm a decent looking women with a decent body and I noticed all the critique I get from female co workers/ associates. They try to pick you apart when you look better than them.
@@jasmic38134🎯🎯 It’s both! Women who get BBLs do it for the attention of men and to eliminate competition with women. Now that so many women are getting them it’s defeating the point- I call it the Barbie factory cuz they get their bodies, faces, makeup, wigs etc all done the same. It definitely starts with men because men are the easiest to program. The media started to worship a certain body image, and indirectly marketed it to men. Men then loved it, women noticed and then got their bodies done. When the media decides natural bodies are the thing then lather rinse repeat. Individuality is always tea but you have to step out of the matrix to realize it. Now of course this applies to some and not all.
Jess bringing back real conversations back to radio. Finally someone who is not scared of “cancel culture”
That Bradley cooper thing the realest thing I’ve heard , I loved my child when she was first born but it def took some months to find that connection , I thought I was the only one..and I just found out that males also can postpartum depression..maybe that have something to do with it
I love natural bodies. There's a clip where woman are asked if men like BBL's better than natural bodies, and they all said yes, Bbl. Then they asked the men. All the men said natural bodies. Yes, it could have been edited, but that's the real sentiment amongst men.
Facts. Women wanna say we like BBLs but the ish looks weird. We like natural but they think that means we like fat women. Not the case. Go to the gym lose weight and you good. No need to go under the knife and even if you don’t lose weight men will like you. It’s social media. A lot of women are becoming mentally weak and want to live this fake life. So they get all these surgeries and of course avoid accountability by blaming us.
Can you remember the video title? I would love to watch it. Thanks in advance 🙏🏿
Absolutely love how Jess reacted to the headlines and what she wasn't going to entertain. That's fantastic 😂👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 Save us from some of the BS
Omg Bradley 😂😂 talking about “uhhhhhhhhhh” when people say they’ll die for their kids lmaooooo that took me outttt
Her being irritated with Momma Dee news 😂😂😂😂
I been raising my daughter alone for 10 years so I know first hand that some women definitely dont connect with their children. Also my mom told me to my face she didn't want me or my brother and was ready to give us up for adoption.
Charlemagne talking about body positivity after calling reesa teesa big backed is crazy. So hypocritical
As mom, I felt the same way towards my oldest kid when I had him. Mainly because I was battling PPD. The connection didn't really form until he was like 6 months. The love was there but I couldn't feel it fully due to the PPD. I battled with PDD for about a year. I'm so in love with all my kids now though.
4:27 real shit yachty 💯these women aren’t getting bbls to get a man they’re getting them so they can go to the club and the brunch on sundays with their girls and get attention
BE FR!!!!!!
@@princessdenise8659 AKA “I’m toxic”
@@LilHondaCivic808 Men complain about the issues they’ve created then call everyone else toxic wtf is wrong y’all?
@@princessdenise8659men created? So men force women to destroy their bodies? Cap. Women trying to compete with each other, and could really care less what a man wants. And to be honest it looks painful
@@j_artis_b facts
Somebody tell Terrance that even THE JOKER FROM BATMAN FEARED THE IRS🤣🤣🤣 You better run them they chips, you do NOT wanna be the next Wesley Snipes🤣😂
No dudes in mass amounts are saying, if you get a BBL I'll get with you...
Men in general have reacted and adjusted to the packages that are presented and in many ways it has been thrown wayyyyy outta balance. Many folks don't even want they God given teeth now, not just braces, we saying snatch all these joints out and give me the Ultra White Chicklets!
Stop being willfully obtuse. Dudes have always said "I like a woman with ass".
Crazy I have never ever ever ever met or heard a man in real life say this. Only in these comments and twitter
Not ONE Man said, “Go risk your life to get a BBL” and Women are saying “We do this for us, not Men” so its Women to blame, not Men. Why Men always indicted for Womens choices?
Because who else is there to blame? Women? Last I checked the people who are pushing all these beauty standards are other women.
@@tobiaslawrence8928 BINGO!!!!!!
JESS ALWAYS MAKE ME LAUGH WHEN SHE POINTS FOR THE CLIPS TO PLAY😂😂
Not all mothers have that instant connection with their children too. Many women have come out to express how they had to work to love their children after giving birth.
Exactly, I don't think people talk about that enough. They think parents automatically love their children just because they are supposed too, but some people don't need to be parents fr. Just cause you can have kids dont mean you should
JESS STANDIN ON BIDNESS TODAY 😂😂
u sound like TI Son, smh!!
I had a friend who admitted to feeling guilty for not really loving her baby in the first few months of the baby’s life. She used the analogy of “if our house was burning down I would totally save my other two kids first because I don’t really know that baby like that, but I know my other two kids and it would hurt more to lose them”. It sounds harsh as hell but she’s right. Also she was suffering from postpartum really bad. So don’t be quick to think that every woman, including women who are looking forward to their new baby, will instantly have a solid connection. But she is a 1000% a great mom to all of her kids. And that baby ended up being her little tick and barely want to the dad 😂. So…
It’s call “self esteem” for a reason Umar … and women will say they don’t do things for men … so that’s on them
I bet a lot of people feel like Bradley Cooper, they just don't want to get attacked and judged for it, exactly like these guys are doing here 🙄
Especially a lot of black men.
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Exactly this
I been rooting for Jess since day 1 and yall ate me up in these comments 😂😂 I’m so glad my good sis ain’t here to disappoint
Man my baby was a daddy girl from the time she was in the belly, her mom would fuss about how she would get excited when she would hear my voice and flip in her stomach.
My 5 year old and my husband have been besties since the womb. He would lightly press on my belly and the baby would kick and they went like back and forth like buddies lol. When he was born it was like they finally found each other 🤣🤣
@@mwright0428 I ain't no girl 🤦🏿♂️
@@kinggodtravis sorry
@@mwright0428 you good 🤣🤣
Jess funny as haelll!! Her "filing " those headlines is some funny stuff!
Jess might be the best thing that has happened to the breakfast club in a long long time.
Let one of these black entertainers say the exact same words about their child like Bradley Cooper said about his. 😔🤦♂
Yeah...
Right?
Americans are way too consumed with celebrity gossip, I wish they (black Americans) would spend half the time on self growth, teaching their kids, education, creating balanced homes, creating wealth.........and get off this celebrity obsession and talk about what they say at every turn
@@123kymar wait, only black Americans should?
@@123kymarWe are doing that very thing and much more -you need to tune into that algorithm 👀 and get off this if you don’t like it.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I’m LMAO at Jess today. My exact thoughts.
How is CThaGod going to say we need body positivity and then turn around and make a big back joke
Exactly he perpetuates the same rhetoric that created an environment for this kind of body shaming.
That's what he does.
Does the shoe fit?
5:50 not them talking about Body positivity with the BIG Back stuff going on.
My connection with all 3 of my kids was instant.
Facts...
I’m so glad they added Jess she be having me dying laughing lol
It's tiresome when Dr Umar removes any agency from women's behaviour. Are women truly so aimless that their every negative action is dependent on what men do?
According to him…..yes. It’s actually quite pathetic.
Love Dr Umar. It’s about time we had a champion for the black woman!
I know exactly what Bradley Cooper is talking about. I had life changing panic and anxiety at 8 months when it hit me with my first kid. It's more about that being the time when there's feedback and it's not just about work work work.
Why is everyone forgetting that Nicki Minaj was the first to start it off… 😅
Because she wasn't. Lil kim was.
Maybe the most popular, definitely wasn't the 1st
Kim kardashian was really the trend setter😂
@@bunchielove6893 So all three of you have answered that it was women who started it, so how do us men get the blame? No man told Kim K to get a BBL, that was her mad mother
@@Blaqq44 So all three of you have answered that it was women who started it, so how do us men get the blame? No man told Kim K to get a BBL, that was her mad mother
This the most random shyt ever 😂
Thank you Jess for saying what I’m thinking today 😅😂
“Pay them..The MONEY” hahahaha Jess is fuckin hilarious
I thought women wear makeup, get bbls, plastic surgery, etc for themselves...they say they don't do it for men. But somehow men still gets the blame.
Pay attention. It's for both.
lol
Jess a fool! 🤣
Love the comedy with the news 😆
How do you tell women to love themselves today but just yesterday, y’all referred to another woman “big back”???? This is a genuine question.
Yall still on that big back thing? It's not that serious.
@@IllMatic97 🤣🤣🤣okay
That wasn't a woman that was a dude in a dress
Hey if you got a big back you should embrace it. Trust me someone will like it
@@j_artis_b you're correct. You're doing the Lord’s work for this comment ☺️. You don't like big backs??
Moms go through the same thing as Bradly cooper just described ALL THE TIME. Stop it.
Bruhhhh Jess is going in on this one 😂😂😂 love the energy she has now.
its kinda sad breakfast club doesn’t get any viral interviews anymore 😭the whole show just talks about other people’s viral interviews now lmao…#felloff
You do know the checks still cash right ?
It still started with one of the women in Jess's click wanting to be more attractive to men, then the rest copied. Umar is right.
But nobody told them to do that though.
This is like blaming women's high standards for the rise in men committing credit fraud.
Jess definitely is the reason I watch this show again, when yee left I didn’t think it would have that much of a impact on the show but having a women’s perspective is important for the flow of the show
3:45 we need to make more space for varying feelings, emotions & experiences than just the ones we relate to, approve of & are socially acceptable. Brad’s truth should NOT be dismissed bc there’s TONS of research to support his experience from fathers-especially 1st time dads. the world is SO much larger than what we personally feel, know & observe. EDUCATION everyone…education. 🙃
Jess is hilarious this morning 😂😅😂
Aint nobody got time for that.
I love fit and slim women . BBL’s will NEVER get me like that
The greatest roomer report ever lol She can read our minds about the BS topics they put in front of her. lol
Babeeeee!!!!! Jess is crackin me up!!!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
LMAO, Jess got me dying laughing in this clip.
Men been stated they do not like BBLs… just like everything else, BW don’t listen.
A lot of times its insecurities but also, y'all body shame and bully women for their natural bodies then criticize them for doing something about it.
💯💯💯 but no one wants to admit this. Some women feel pressured to have the body type that men and society and media deems attractive
No….people have preferences and maybe some woman need to be secure enough to know you will not be ever man’s first choice….women like taller men and there are surgeries to become taller….if I get surgery to increase my height and later regret/ suffer complications from it I can’t blame woman for that
@@Only1WithAnE they spent all week calling that TikTok lady "big back" but if she did something about it, they'd be the first one's saying women should "love themselves".
@jas1565 stop blaming men for every decision. Getting called a big back mean you should lose weight. If you immediately assume peoole telling you to get a bbl you just want a bbl anyway
@@brandonannisette6023 never said anything about preferences or being someone's "first choice". I didn't even specify men in my comment because both men and women do it. Sorry, but society as a whole will attack women for her back being too big, her butt being too flat or having a belly, treating women poorly simply because of how they look or their shape.. but then continue to shame them when they choose to get surgery and do something about it.
Lmaooo “which one”😂😂😂
That was full lisp mode CTG said “Smith” 😂…and who’s Turrance Howard 😂😂😂…funny stuff today 👍🏼
Why y’all acting like Bradley wrong for sharing his truth? 😂 yall telling him his experience don’t make sense 😂 y’all did the same thing when youngboy said what he said about fatherhood
Exactly
Dj Envy you are wearing my fav color purple looks good.
Good show!
the title and thumbnail for this upload is already hilarious.
That’s funny because most men prefer natural women, that are fine of course
Jess wasn’t with the foolishness lol I love it lol
I have a big back but I don’t want to be called “Big Back!” 🤦🏾♀️🤣
Envy at home looking like Wario
Jess with the Mess…her news is REAL 👍👍
Allegedly 😂😊
I didn’t have a connection with my son when he was first born but my daughter I was in love with since day one
yall tripping about the baby thing. stop saying most men, cause yall don't know most men. my daughter use to go crazy in her mom belly when she heard my voice. my wife use to say, the baby as calm all day until i cam home, from there i had a connection with my daughter. when she was delivered by C-section i held her first while they stitched my wife up and i stared in her eyes and cried at how beautiful she was and never left her side since. i loved and bonded with both my children from the womb. fed them pumped milk bath and all till this day they 8 and ten, if they dont see me by 6pm they calling daddy. my point is stop speaking for all men.
Dr.Umar where the school all he’s been doing on these podcasts is talk about everything but that school😢
Where’s your school?
He talked about the school multiple times during the interview
If u follow him then you would know the status of the school.
He talked about the school in the podcast.....if you ain't listen don't make false statements.
he done spent that money he not building that dan school
When jess said " bet you would to charlamagne" i laughed so hard.
She called him jada and his daughters boyfriend would be august 😂😂😂
Why do you think these men in certain communities are unaliving these women, after they find out the women are pregnant with their child? Most men don't want to pay child support and half of them don't have any desire to be a father.
When the biggest Troll says, "We need more positivity in black community" 😂😅😂😅😂😅😂😅😂😅.
Not Charlamagne trying to clean up the “Big Back” topic with a acronym 😂😂 “BBL =Big Back Love”
I had a connection with my son instantly, and it’s way stronger than his mother’s connection with him. She’s the one who had some awkwardness with him in the beginning
Literally any psychology book will verify Bradley cooper's and Charlemagnes thoughts. How the father feels about the mother in the first year or so is exactly how the dad feels about the child. It is why it is important for mothers to give dad and baby alone time to build a separate relationship out of her. Any parenting book will say this to you. The rule is Men do not have innate connections to new borns
.for a man to have an initially connection with the mother being the conduit is the exception
I beg the differ ctg, I'm a grandmother & the love I have for them is nothing short of love & bonding at first sight. Wish I could've had the little ones w/o the parents
It was different for me, I'm the eldest of 3 sisters and the connection we have with our Father is so amazing and to this day we feel that unconditional love from him. Love both my parents of course it's just a different connection for us.
Im with Terrance Howard on this
1:54 most fathers don’t connect right away. they get postpartum too
Jess is pregnant and doesn’t want to realize her baby daddy just playing the role for now. That’s the only reason she got upset about Bradley’s truth.
That's 1 hell of a title. I had to click 😂