Happy birthday!!! I’m glad it helped, if even just a little. Celebrate that you made it here and remember….we may not look 20 anymore but damn, we’re so much smarter. You couldn’t pay my enough to go back there 😝
Happy Birthday! I'm turning 50 next week and this was really helpful! I'm single, and feeling that freedom that you're talking about, re-invention, confidence in myself! I just started a UA-cam channel and moved to Mexico...a complete restart. Thanks for the great video and I hope you're having a great day.
I’m only 32 still trying to figure out life but I’m so happy to have found this page. It’s nice to see people being positive about aging. I feel that I’m gonna be like that.
Ok question, does some of this apply to you? Because for example i am 32 and i really dont care what people think and i do my make up and wear what i want for me! How about you
55 last week. It is by far the best time of my life. I’m definitely more comfortable in my own skin than ever before. The kids are raised and we are not not struggling financially anymore. All of these things have lead to the greatest time in our 30+ year marriage. It’s like we are 25 again but fifty thousand times better. I would not trade places with 25 year old me or 25 year old anyone, for all the money in the world. 50 f--in rocks.
I needed this! I'm already 51, about to be 52 soon and I freaked out about turning 50. These past couple years have been a real eye opener, I truly dress for ME and I love my style. I truly don't give a crap about what others think anymore and I've become much more outspoken and assertive. However, here lately I've been feeling invisible...l don't get the attention that I used to from men. That's been hard for me lately for some reason. On the one hand I do value my independence, I have a great career, cool kids who are pretty well adjusted considering they are children of divorce. But on the other hand, I'm getting really scared I'll be alone the rest of my life and I'm not sure I've prepared myself well for that very real possiblity. :-(
I do understand how you feel. I was lucky and found love again just a few years ago but honestly thought it wouldn't happen for me. I just tried to make the most with what I had and bam! You never know how or when it might strike. So enjoy the small things as much as you can 😉
I can 100 percent relate to everything you said here ...immjust turned 50 last year in March of 2022 and I got highly depressed for some reason ..I think it's because I realize that my life is over half over and now that my daughter is on her own I now have the stress of taking care of my elderly mother and I'm having health issues as well and I'm also having horrible menopause symptoms through all of this and I have also noticed recently even though it seems a bit trivial ..I was always a head turner and I always got attention from men but no so much anymore and it's just another reminder that I'm getting older and no longer as attractive as I once was and that's very depressing so I just am under so much stress now that I can't enjoy being 50 but I'm trying to have a more positive mindset but it's really hard so trust me I get everything you are going through..
I'm currently 47 and I think about this every day. I was actually happy to turn 40 - I hope I feel the same about turning 50 because it does sound awesome.
My only advice....try to identify and celebrate the positive things. That's what this video was about. I'm just about to turn 52 and I'm loving it. Truly
The best things I've noticed since turning 50 Tired most of the time Also leg, back, neck or joint pain Sleep early wake up early Happy to not go out at all except for work, groceries and laundry.
Omg. I looked up why am I so freaked out that I just turned 50….you popped up and man you are awesome and just so spot on !!! Thank you as I don’t feel 50 either. Really I’m blonde I’m cute and sassy and just want to live how I feel thinking my 30s were my best but my 50s have just begun and I was so scared vs excited and to see you and listen to you thank you!! You have a new subscriber!!! Thanks for sharing 🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀
A belated Happy Birthday Mary 🎂💐🥳🥂I hope you had a smashing time. I’m a new subscriber who is delighted to have found your UA-cam channel. You are a breath of fresh air and I love your philosophy of skincare coming first. I’m turning 60 😳in July and I agree that with age comes freedom. Though I am shocked at seeing this birthday creep up, I’m grateful for my health, my loved ones and the amazing life I have ❤️and feeling strong and self confident as the years go by!
Thank you so much for the kind words ☺️ The birthday was a huge success (lots of bubbles and Mexican food!). If there are any particular things you'd like me to do a video on, let me know!
Loved your video Mary! So glad you are enjoying this interesting stage of life. I am loving it too. It continues to get better. Sending lots of love and birthday blessings for your 50th year! Love you tons! Cheers girl and enjoy all that bubbly!🍾🎉❤️
Happy birthday dearest Mary!! It's such a blessing to be healthy, happy & have the opportunity to grow up while staying young. I don't think there is anything more beautiful than someone being content in who they are & relishing every step of the way. Rock on & enjoy those bubbles! Xx
I can't believe you're 50!?! I thought you were 40.. You look great (and wow, I look bad for 40! Lol). I hope I get to age where don't care what ppl think, I seem to have hit a time where I overthink, care and worry too much about other ppl.. And I'm So self conscious - mainly down to ageing.. So I can't imagine I'll ever be confident and that ageing won't suck all the life out of me! ❤️
You are so kind - thank you ☺️ . And you're not alone on the over-thinking thing. My best advice is take it one day at a time. Celebrate the small victories every day (and they're there, believe me). And when you have a bad day (and oh boy, do I have them), I always say....tomorrow's another a day. A fresh start. Hang in there
So far I am not convinced. Getting older is like becoming a ghost. No one sees you anymore and if they do they are either scared, bothered or annoyed. Grey hair, packing on weight, wrinkles, and living in poverty. Nothing to be excited about. I’m in Rishikesh far away from home and I feel totally alone. Also I have a cold. Tomorrow is my 50th birthday. Yay me.
Wishing you a belated happy birthday. I agree one hundred percent with everything you said about being in your 50's. At 53 I am happy and excited and ready for the next adventure that comes from living this amazing life. Best wishes to you. (BTW, very happy to have found your channel. I appreciate your content and the thought you put into your videos.)
Thank you so much!! And thank you for taking the time to get in touch. My 50s are waaaay better than I ever could have imagined when I was younger 🕺. If there are any particular videos you’d like to see, please do let me know!
I'm feeling silly and shallow sitting here crying. I look in the mirror and don't see the beautiful woman who used to look back at me. I always said it wouldn't bother me getting older as I've never been vain but today it's really knocked me. I know I've been on intense opioids for 15yrs, nearly died and battle with my disease every day and that will take it's toll. I know I'm lucky to still be alive. But I can't help missing who I used to be and what I looked like 😥💔 Ps I have severe endometriosis and had to have a hysterectomy at 37 without having children. I'm now nearly 51. How do I stop feeling so sad about getting older?😥💔
Tracy, I am so very sorry. Life is most definitely a difficult road with continuous ups and downs. May I ask...do you have someone to confide in? That is how I manage in difficult times. Not only my nearest and dearest but I'm a huge believer is objective support (i.e. therapy). My heart goes out to you. And I suspect you're way more badass than you think you are.
@@SkinObsessedMary aww thank you so much for your reply. I am blessed with the most amazing husband ever and he totally gets it. He is so understanding and says I'm way too hard on myself. He thinks I'm the most sexy woman he has ever seen lol. I have a fabulous 64yr best friend and we confide in each other and she has helped me a lot. I'm doing much better this week. Watched your videos and put my makeup on every day. Hubby has stocked me up with lots of face creams etc, some new makeup and sent me off for a full body massage. I really am blessed but sometimes you need a kick up the ass to realise it 💜💜💜💜💜🤪🤣
@@tracyfowler6955 You see, Mary was an objective source of support there. Thats all it takes sometimes to give ouselves a bit of a slap (in the best way). Good day to you and remember You're sorted, it's the other folk that havent got thier shit together haha xxx
Oh thanks for your video I'm 49, 50 only next year, and I absolutely HATE when people wind me up saying oh you will be 50 next year....as if I will need a wood stick 🙈 I feel young too and think I look good but that 50th brick wall is hard me HELPPPPPP
It's a tricky time, I know. I guess my advice is make a list (that's what prompted that video). What are the good things about being this age? What are the new freedoms? And then....do the things that make you feel young. I think my immaturity has saved me on this one 😉
Omg thank you. I’m 52 now and I still feel young. I hate it. I still love going to concerts like I mean heavy rock! I feel like the old one and I hate it. Would you still go? Thank you for this.
Are you kidding me?? I DEFINITELY still go out! I'm 51 but don't feel it (or act it, frankly). There's nothing I can't do, wear, drink or enjoy. It's only a number. I was out with friends on Friday night and happened to run into my 20-year old daughter and her friends at the same bar (18 is the legal age in Ireland btw) and we joined together. No one even noticed the age difference. Go have FUN!
I turned 50 last year October 22 2023, an it was like a light switch when I start feeling a lot slower an my short term memory seems to slip away an I'm bringing to think its from all the partying I did in the late 1980s into mid 1990s.. Smoked weed, an from 1990-92 ever other weekend we did LSD... But this much I'll say, I'm not doing too bad at 50, I'm not over weight still thin an able to work after having back trouble as a teenager an now I've had no problems since I was 21... Also at age 50 I find myself not putting up with bullshit anymore unlike my teens an 20s 30s even 40.. But now, it doesn't take much..
It's funny how much changed pretty much overnight. My brain fog is definitely getting worse (and I thought it couldn't GET any worse), but not giving a shit makes up for it 🤣
I’m turning 50 in December man I see what they mean once you turn 50 you don’t give a poot about nothing🤣🤣🤣 it’s like oh well🤷♀️ I’m so at peace and I’m not letting anyone come in to disturb it! I love my daisy dukes and I’m not letting them go because I’m turning 50🤣🤣🤣
I hate to sound like negative Nancy but I turned 50 in March of last year and I got highly depressed because it's the reality that my life is over half over and I'm now taking care of my elderly mother whose health has declined recently and now I'm also starting to have health related issues like diabetes and arthritis and I'm having horrible menopause symptoms during all of this so some things are good but some things are worse like now that my daughter is on her own I now am taking care of my elderly mother and I'm having financial problems as well as relationship problems and even though this is trivial..it's kind of depressing when most of my life I turned heads because I was very attractive but let's just say that doesn't really happen much anymore and I know it's trivial but it's just another reminder to myself that I'm getting Older and I have not done half of the things that I would like to have done and it's all just very depressing sometimes ...I guess I need to try to have a more positive mindset but it's really hard right now.
I am so sorry Cheryl. You're not alone. It might help if you find someone to talk to, someone objective. For me, a therapist always helps when I get anxious or down (and I've certainly been there too). I hope this is a possibly for you.
I'm 52, and I cry bullshite. When you're in your 50's, the end is far closer than the beginning....and it's also when people's health generally starts to fail. And from the perspective of a guy, our days of picking up women in their 20's and 30's is over----we look old, and that's because we are. When you get into your 50's, there's are no more pretensions of hanging onto your youth; those glory-filled halcyon days have sailed away with the evening breeze, only to be replaced with failing knees and high blood pressure. I have an intense dislike of optimism---only realism is accepted in my world.
Don’t know if either of you have started menopause- but that is a real game changer. Weight gain, joint pain, loss of muscle tone, it’s really taken a toll on me. I feel so dried up.
Just turned 50 myself. Thanks for the positivity you’re beautiful.
Happy birthday!! I hope you're enjoying this decade as much as I am (I'm 52 now).
Thank you so much for the kind words 😊
Just turned 50 at midnight. I was feeling very depressed but this video def helped. Thank you
Happy birthday!!! I’m glad it helped, if even just a little. Celebrate that you made it here and remember….we may not look 20 anymore but damn, we’re so much smarter. You couldn’t pay my enough to go back there 😝
Happy Birthday! I'm turning 50 next week and this was really helpful! I'm single, and feeling that freedom that you're talking about, re-invention, confidence in myself! I just started a UA-cam channel and moved to Mexico...a complete restart. Thanks for the great video and I hope you're having a great day.
Thanks so much! Happy 50th to you too! How exciting to do something totally new. I'll check out your new channel. Best of luck 😘
I’m only 32 still trying to figure out life but I’m so happy to have found this page. It’s nice to see people being positive about aging. I feel that I’m gonna be like that.
Good for you! I believe staying positive results in positive things happening. And don't forget to enjoy the journey 😁
Ok question, does some of this apply to you? Because for example i am 32 and i really dont care what people think and i do my make up and wear what i want for me! How about you
55 last week. It is by far the best time of my life. I’m definitely more comfortable in my own skin than ever before. The kids are raised and we are not not struggling financially anymore. All of these things have lead to the greatest time in our 30+ year marriage. It’s like we are 25 again but fifty thousand times better. I would not trade places with 25 year old me or 25 year old anyone, for all the money in the world. 50 f--in rocks.
Me too! And I am SO glad to hear that 🕺
I needed this! I'm already 51, about to be 52 soon and I freaked out about turning 50. These past couple years have been a real eye opener, I truly dress for ME and I love my style. I truly don't give a crap about what others think anymore and I've become much more outspoken and assertive. However, here lately I've been feeling invisible...l don't get the attention that I used to from men. That's been hard for me lately for some reason. On the one hand I do value my independence, I have a great career, cool kids who are pretty well adjusted considering they are children of divorce. But on the other hand, I'm getting really scared I'll be alone the rest of my life and I'm not sure I've prepared myself well for that very real possiblity. :-(
I do understand how you feel. I was lucky and found love again just a few years ago but honestly thought it wouldn't happen for me. I just tried to make the most with what I had and bam! You never know how or when it might strike. So enjoy the small things as much as you can 😉
I can 100 percent relate to everything you said here ...immjust turned 50 last year in March of 2022 and I got highly depressed for some reason ..I think it's because I realize that my life is over half over and now that my daughter is on her own I now have the stress of taking care of my elderly mother and I'm having health issues as well and I'm also having horrible menopause symptoms through all of this and I have also noticed recently even though it seems a bit trivial ..I was always a head turner and I always got attention from men but no so much anymore and it's just another reminder that I'm getting older and no longer as attractive as I once was and that's very depressing so I just am under so much stress now that I can't enjoy being 50 but I'm trying to have a more positive mindset but it's really hard so trust me I get everything you are going through..
I wish I look as great as you and have as great an outlook when I reach 50!! Amazing! Happy belated Bday! 🥳🥳
Aww thank you so much!! 😊
I'm 50 right now. Birthday.. it feels like an energetic release and its empowering
I'm so thrilled to hear that! Happy birthday to you :)
I am turning 50 in a couple of days and this video is amazing! Thank you for shearing it.
Happy birthday! And thank you 😊
I truly believe my 50s are even better than the rest :)
Any big plans?
Gosh Mary I love your attitude! I turned 30 last year and I'm going to take inspiration from your approach. Much love from Italy ❤🎉
Ciao!
Getting older may have it downsides, but there are so many gifts that come along with it 🕺
I'm 50 and I am so jealous that 20 year olds have more years ahead than I do.
You couldn't pay me to go back to my 20s!
HAPPYYYYY 50TH🎂🥳 U LOOK AMAZING‼️ 29 4Eva here‼️🥳🎉🍻
Aww thank you so much!!
Thank you for this! Turning 50 Aug 30 and I needed another perspective.
Welcome to the club! I’m 51 now and I can tell you…it just gets better 🕺
Love this, I shared this in my 50s FB group, thanks, and happy birthday!!🎂
Thank you so much!
I'm currently 47 and I think about this every day. I was actually happy to turn 40 - I hope I feel the same about turning 50 because it does sound awesome.
My only advice....try to identify and celebrate the positive things. That's what this video was about. I'm just about to turn 52 and I'm loving it. Truly
The best things I've noticed since turning 50
Tired most of the time
Also leg, back, neck or joint pain
Sleep early wake up early
Happy to not go out at all except for work, groceries and laundry.
Yikes!
Omg. I looked up why am I so freaked out that I just turned 50….you popped up and man you are awesome and just so spot on !!! Thank you as I don’t feel 50 either. Really I’m blonde I’m cute and sassy and just want to live how I feel thinking my 30s were my best but my 50s have just begun and I was so scared vs excited and to see you and listen to you thank you!! You have a new subscriber!!! Thanks for sharing 🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀
Wow, I am so glad you liked it! I know it can be a daunting time for so many but keeping positive and celebrating the freedom is what worked for me 😁
A belated Happy Birthday Mary 🎂💐🥳🥂I hope you had a smashing time. I’m a new subscriber who is delighted to have found your UA-cam channel. You are a breath of fresh air and I love your philosophy of skincare coming first. I’m turning 60 😳in July and I agree that with age comes freedom. Though I am shocked at seeing this birthday creep up, I’m grateful for my health, my loved ones and the amazing life I have ❤️and feeling strong and self confident as the years go by!
Thank you so much for the kind words ☺️ The birthday was a huge success (lots of bubbles and Mexican food!). If there are any particular things you'd like me to do a video on, let me know!
Love your positive outlook baby girl. Happy Birthday!!🎈🎊🎁🎂
Thank you so much!! Miss you xx
Loved your video Mary! So glad you are enjoying this interesting stage of life. I am loving it too. It continues to get better. Sending lots of love and birthday blessings for your 50th year! Love you tons! Cheers girl and enjoy all that bubbly!🍾🎉❤️
Thank you so much Ann! Super excited....great times to come for sure 😘
Happy belated birthday, Mary 🍾 🎂 🥂 I just love your outlook on life 🙌🏼
Thanks so much ☺️
Happy birthday dearest Mary!! It's such a blessing to be healthy, happy & have the opportunity to grow up while staying young. I don't think there is anything more beautiful than someone being content in who they are & relishing every step of the way. Rock on & enjoy those bubbles! Xx
I could not have said it better myself! Cheers🥂
Aw man Marlize I didn’t realise it was you, you sweet thing! Maybe we should do drinks rather than dumbbells 😉
I can't believe you're 50!?! I thought you were 40.. You look great (and wow, I look bad for 40! Lol).
I hope I get to age where don't care what ppl think, I seem to have hit a time where I overthink, care and worry too much about other ppl.. And I'm So self conscious - mainly down to ageing.. So I can't imagine I'll ever be confident and that ageing won't suck all the life out of me! ❤️
You are so kind - thank you ☺️ . And you're not alone on the over-thinking thing. My best advice is take it one day at a time. Celebrate the small victories every day (and they're there, believe me). And when you have a bad day (and oh boy, do I have them), I always say....tomorrow's another a day. A fresh start. Hang in there
This is making me feel better about turning 50 in a month :)
Cecilie, let's make the most of our 50s together 🕺
@@SkinObsessedMary Yes, absolutely! Joining you in making our 50s great :)
So far I am not convinced. Getting older is like becoming a ghost. No one sees you anymore and if they do they are either scared, bothered or annoyed. Grey hair, packing on weight, wrinkles, and living in poverty. Nothing to be excited about. I’m in Rishikesh far away from home and I feel totally alone. Also I have a cold. Tomorrow is my 50th birthday. Yay me.
Renee I hope you were able to find some joy on your 50th birthday. I've been thinking about you...
Hello, I turned 50 today. Thanks for this lovely video and be well:)
Welcome to the club!! Happy birthday 🎉🥳
Very nice. Thanks I will be 50 February 4..
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!! I hope you have a fabulous day. I'll raise a toast of bubbles to you tonight ☺️
You Speak Facts! Welcome to Our Second Half! 😀💕
Thank you so much 🙏
What a great attitude to getting older. Nice lady. I love your American accent, and your top 💗🌸
Thanks so much ☺️
50 60 is so young there so much, time freedom and opportunities to life
You’re so right! I’m loving it
Happy Solar Return!!!! I turn 50 today! 7/18
Happy birthday - I hope you had a fab day!!!
Wishing you a belated happy birthday. I agree one hundred percent with everything you said about being in your 50's. At 53 I am happy and excited and ready for the next adventure that comes from living this amazing life. Best wishes to you. (BTW, very happy to have found your channel. I appreciate your content and the thought you put into your videos.)
Thank you so much!! And thank you for taking the time to get in touch. My 50s are waaaay better than I ever could have imagined when I was younger 🕺. If there are any particular videos you’d like to see, please do let me know!
I'm feeling silly and shallow sitting here crying. I look in the mirror and don't see the beautiful woman who used to look back at me. I always said it wouldn't bother me getting older as I've never been vain but today it's really knocked me. I know I've been on intense opioids for 15yrs, nearly died and battle with my disease every day and that will take it's toll. I know I'm lucky to still be alive. But I can't help missing who I used to be and what I looked like 😥💔
Ps I have severe endometriosis and had to have a hysterectomy at 37 without having children. I'm now nearly 51.
How do I stop feeling so sad about getting older?😥💔
Tracy, I am so very sorry. Life is most definitely a difficult road with continuous ups and downs. May I ask...do you have someone to confide in? That is how I manage in difficult times. Not only my nearest and dearest but I'm a huge believer is objective support (i.e. therapy). My heart goes out to you. And I suspect you're way more badass than you think you are.
@@SkinObsessedMary aww thank you so much for your reply. I am blessed with the most amazing husband ever and he totally gets it. He is so understanding and says I'm way too hard on myself. He thinks I'm the most sexy woman he has ever seen lol. I have a fabulous 64yr best friend and we confide in each other and she has helped me a lot. I'm doing much better this week. Watched your videos and put my makeup on every day. Hubby has stocked me up with lots of face creams etc, some new makeup and sent me off for a full body massage. I really am blessed but sometimes you need a kick up the ass to realise it 💜💜💜💜💜🤪🤣
@@tracyfowler6955 You see, Mary was an objective source of support there. Thats all it takes sometimes to give ouselves a bit of a slap (in the best way). Good day to you and remember You're sorted, it's the other folk that havent got thier shit together haha xxx
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!
Thank you 😘
Happy birthday! Enjoy all the bubbles! Love your videos!
Thank you so much!
Oh thanks for your video
I'm 49, 50 only next year, and I absolutely HATE when people wind me up saying oh you will be 50 next year....as if I will need a wood stick 🙈 I feel young too and think I look good but that 50th brick wall is hard me HELPPPPPP
It's a tricky time, I know. I guess my advice is make a list (that's what prompted that video). What are the good things about being this age? What are the new freedoms? And then....do the things that make you feel young. I think my immaturity has saved me on this one 😉
Screw "Influencer" u r my "inspirator". U do u honey. Happy Birthday xxx
😘🎉🕺
Thanks. I just turned 50
Happy birthday!!!
Omg thank you. I’m 52 now and I still feel young. I hate it. I still love going to concerts like I mean heavy rock! I feel like the old one and I hate it. Would you still go? Thank you for this.
Are you kidding me?? I DEFINITELY still go out! I'm 51 but don't feel it (or act it, frankly). There's nothing I can't do, wear, drink or enjoy. It's only a number. I was out with friends on Friday night and happened to run into my 20-year old daughter and her friends at the same bar (18 is the legal age in Ireland btw) and we joined together. No one even noticed the age difference. Go have FUN!
I turned 50 last year October 22 2023, an it was like a light switch when I start feeling a lot slower an my short term memory seems to slip away an I'm bringing to think its from all the partying I did in the late 1980s into mid 1990s.. Smoked weed, an from 1990-92 ever other weekend we did LSD... But this much I'll say, I'm not doing too bad at 50, I'm not over weight still thin an able to work after having back trouble as a teenager an now I've had no problems since I was 21... Also at age 50 I find myself not putting up with bullshit anymore unlike my teens an 20s 30s even 40.. But now, it doesn't take much..
It's funny how much changed pretty much overnight. My brain fog is definitely getting worse (and I thought it couldn't GET any worse), but not giving a shit makes up for it 🤣
Mom. When have you ever had a problem saying no?🤣
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I’m turning 50 in December man I see what they mean once you turn 50 you don’t give a poot about nothing🤣🤣🤣 it’s like oh well🤷♀️
I’m so at peace and I’m not letting anyone come in to disturb it! I love my daisy dukes and I’m not letting them go because I’m turning 50🤣🤣🤣
I love this!!! You're damn right - do what makes you happy and apologise to no one for it. Happy 50th!!
Happy Birthday Mary 🎈🎈🎈 !!! I agree SO much with you, it’s an amazing connected freeing place to be. Fun happy video thank you! So it’s March 7th?
Thank you so much! Yep Sunday it is 😉
@@SkinObsessedMary Sorr of fun coincidence, mine is tomorrow! Though I will say that half my building has a birthday in the next week! 🎊🎊
@@olinayoung6287 shut up!! Wow we’re bday twins. Have a fab, fab day 🎉🍾🌟
Best video yet! Guru Mary!
@@1glennbolton aw thanks Glenn 😘
I LOVE IT ❤️ How many 50 years olds can STILL GRATE CHEESE 🧀 with their ABS? I can I HAVE A 8 PACK!!! 😂😂. Just having fun!! SELAH 🙏⚖️🤲🏽
I am SO glad to hear you say that! And please....share your ab secrets 🙏
I hate to sound like negative Nancy but I turned 50 in March of last year and I got highly depressed because it's the reality that my life is over half over and I'm now taking care of my elderly mother whose health has declined recently and now I'm also starting to have health related issues like diabetes and arthritis and I'm having horrible menopause symptoms during all of this so some things are good but some things are worse like now that my daughter is on her own I now am taking care of my elderly mother and I'm having financial problems as well as relationship problems and even though this is trivial..it's kind of depressing when most of my life I turned heads because I was very attractive but let's just say that doesn't really happen much anymore and I know it's trivial but it's just another reminder to myself that I'm getting Older and I have not done half of the things that I would like to have done and it's all just very depressing sometimes ...I guess I need to try to have a more positive mindset but it's really hard right now.
I am so sorry Cheryl. You're not alone. It might help if you find someone to talk to, someone objective. For me, a therapist always helps when I get anxious or down (and I've certainly been there too). I hope this is a possibly for you.
Happy Birthday
Thank you 😊
I can see myself on a beach somewhere at 50
Take me there 🤣
3:14 you went from Irish back to American quick 😄
Ya it’s a weird one. My accent doesn’t know where it belongs 😜
i turn 50 few days go as well
Happy birthday!!!
50 is just that much closer to 70. Grrrrr
That's true....but I'm still having a ball 🕺
turning 18 more awesome than 50 life begins at 18 for me
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my turn.......it was just .....i dont know
Are you saying you just turned 50?
I'm 50 today. O_o
Happy birthday 🕺🍾✨
Im 22 but no way, you look 25!
Hahaha. I wish you could put that on my outgoing voice mail message! Thank you 😊
I'm 52, and I cry bullshite. When you're in your 50's, the end is far closer than the beginning....and it's also when people's health generally starts to fail. And from the perspective of a guy, our days of picking up women in their 20's and 30's is over----we look old, and that's because we are. When you get into your 50's, there's are no more pretensions of hanging onto your youth; those glory-filled halcyon days have sailed away with the evening breeze, only to be replaced with failing knees and high blood pressure. I have an intense dislike of optimism---only realism is accepted in my world.
That's fair enough. But I've always been a 'glass is half full' kinda gal 👍
Don’t know if either of you have started menopause- but that is a real game changer. Weight gain, joint pain, loss of muscle tone, it’s really taken a toll on me. I feel so dried up.
@@jennypenny8159 I'm a man, and I've already got enough health problems---if I start menopause, I'm really going to be concerned....
It is over 50 downhill
Sorry to hear that.