Joyce Maynard interview (1998)

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  • Joyce Maynard on her relationship with J.D. Salinger and her memoir, "A Home in the World."
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  • @ManufacturingIntellect
    @ManufacturingIntellect  7 років тому +2

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  • @juliet3827
    @juliet3827 6 років тому +35

    I have read this book, and it's really well written and interesting.

  • @elaineeike5363
    @elaineeike5363 4 роки тому +46

    She is very guarded in the interview and a bit coy. I have seen her later interviews and she was more forthcoming and confident. She got roasted by the literary elite for writing her book and it shows in this interview. Her book was very well written and it was a cautionary tale to all women caught in the clutches of a man with all the power in the relationship and who took no responsibility for the woman he led to believe could trust him.

    • @pam0626
      @pam0626 4 роки тому +4

      It’s amazing that only 20 years ago, Maynard received so much backlash for telling her story.

    • @gabe-po9yi
      @gabe-po9yi Рік тому +1

      Ah, okay. Thank you for explaining this. I was getting irritated with her reticence, because the interest in her book centers wholly on Salinger.

  • @MoniqueWagner-j7t
    @MoniqueWagner-j7t Рік тому +3

    I love Joyce Maynard 🎉🎉 she is BRILLIANT!!!! AMAZING! & INSPIRING to my core!! ❤
    Thank you Joyce!!!🎉

  • @dawndevine5831
    @dawndevine5831 5 років тому +30

    Powerful controlling men are hypnotic to woman broken by their fathers no matter how intelligent or privileged they are, or not.

  • @jggrimm
    @jggrimm 8 років тому +29

    A gracious, principled woman with a strong and clear mind. Truly extraordinary.

    • @advancedraymondology2914
      @advancedraymondology2914 6 років тому +1

      Gary Grimm That's either master-level sarcasm or you need a serious examination of your values. Maynard is human garbage.

  • @lechat8736
    @lechat8736 6 років тому +18

    Joyce Maynard, bravo!!!

  • @infoanalysis
    @infoanalysis 3 роки тому +15

    Of course the Irony it turns out is that good ole Charlie Rose was not too rosy himself. You would never know it he appears so sympathetic. There lies the danger of these characters.

    • @Jantonov1
      @Jantonov1 2 роки тому +4

      Nailed it. I would hope the literary world would treat her differently if she were to put the book out now.

    • @smkxodnwbwkdns8369
      @smkxodnwbwkdns8369 Рік тому +1

      Charlie doesn’t come across as sympathetic at all to me

    • @arricammarques1955
      @arricammarques1955 7 місяців тому

      Industry rife with reprobates, sadly.

  • @lauraharding3101
    @lauraharding3101 5 років тому +23

    Wow. Charlie conducts this whole interview as though this is not a case of abuse. He actually has the gall to drill her for inside info on Salinger. Jesus Christ how far we've come, thank God.

    • @roneen1000
      @roneen1000 4 роки тому +10

      Charlie Rose was subsequently found to be a sexual abuser of women. It explains a lot.

    • @allermenchenaufder
      @allermenchenaufder 2 роки тому +3

      Watching him in the 90's, always knew he was a jerk.

  • @jackiejns983
    @jackiejns983 8 років тому +38

    According to that documentary, Salinger said some horrible things to her. Probably did a number on her head for quite a while. She was only 19.

    • @Student____2025__1
      @Student____2025__1 5 років тому +1

      She just seems like a sIut who got with an older man and then got dumped. How any man could stand her annoying personality for more than 30 seconds is a mystery. She also has a weird frog face.

    • @diezpiedrasnegras1703
      @diezpiedrasnegras1703 4 роки тому +16

      HIGH FIVE Oh, sorry! This isn’t an incel forum! You must have wound up here by mistake! Please take your mysogyny with you!

    • @elaineeike5363
      @elaineeike5363 4 роки тому +4

      @@Student____2025__1 She was such a slut that she left the relationship still a virgin?

    • @elaineeike5363
      @elaineeike5363 4 роки тому +8

      Actually, Salinger was a scumbag to the 10th degree.

    • @phantompunchmotorizedbikes1624
      @phantompunchmotorizedbikes1624 4 роки тому +1

      Nah he was an a-ok guy

  • @kahlodiego5299
    @kahlodiego5299 4 роки тому +7

    I think she was like the character Phoebe. Holden's little sister.

  • @fitzroymurray3202
    @fitzroymurray3202 6 років тому +23

    The interviewer sucks. His flow to keep her on the subject is terrible and the constant interruptions are annoying and needless.

    • @joanlynch5271
      @joanlynch5271 7 місяців тому

      She is nervous and doesn't want to talk about his or her personal issues.

  • @robin1234ism
    @robin1234ism 5 років тому +6

    he was not a sheep but she was his guinea

  • @gabe-po9yi
    @gabe-po9yi Рік тому +4

    Ms. Maynard is by no means a whiner and complainer, but Salinger obviously took her dreams away; firstly, the path with Yale and then as wife and mother of his children. He did the same with Jean Miller, only he dumped her after their first night together. I’m glad Joyce made the decision to go see him as a fully mature woman. It’s something she needed to do for herself and was damn well deserved.

  • @belleme861
    @belleme861 5 років тому +12

    she reminds me of meg ryan

  • @Burps___
    @Burps___ 8 років тому +8

    Why did Charlie take a goddam swipe at Joyce at 4:24 minutes? Did he find her a big goddam phony, like all the rest of those gals that keep all their kings in the back row?

    • @jackiejns983
      @jackiejns983 8 років тому +2

      What gals are those?

    • @AndySalinger33
      @AndySalinger33 7 років тому

      The girls I like best are the ones I never feel much like kidding.

    • @pam0626
      @pam0626 7 років тому +2

      Cool One It looks like he was swatting a fly.

    • @AndySalinger33
      @AndySalinger33 7 років тому +1

      jackie jones they're very rare birds, to be sure. But they do exist. There are only about 33 or so left.

    • @havefunbesafe
      @havefunbesafe Рік тому

      Chuck is a ghost face fly killer ….alpha interviewer. Who’s your daddy?

  • @mikemorrel8312
    @mikemorrel8312 3 роки тому +4

    He certainly did a number on her.

  • @stpat7614
    @stpat7614 4 роки тому +10

    Everybody keeps asking why Salinger became a recluse. Could it be because he was trying to keep his ephebophilia a secret?

    • @sohanmishra8025
      @sohanmishra8025 3 роки тому +1

      It was nothing to do with that. The guy had ptsd which wasn't even discovered then. Imagine having an illness that isn't even curable. He just didn't have anything to control his own brain. Ego,ego, ego.

    • @Jantonov1
      @Jantonov1 2 роки тому +1

      His generation didn't worry about that. Also, geniuses always got quite a lot of leeway with their sex lives.

  • @RichardKoenigsberg
    @RichardKoenigsberg 3 роки тому +4

    Great story!

  • @markmiller9579
    @markmiller9579 4 роки тому +6

    I read her account of their affair and got the impression that Jerry Salinger was jealous of her success at such a young age. Later on, she published a lot more books than he. Of course, neither one of her books achieved the worldwide influence of Cather In the Rye.

  • @harryhaller8076
    @harryhaller8076 8 років тому +6

    Jerome David benefited from no Facebook, snapshot, and cell phone. What if? Who would he be today?

  • @oc2538
    @oc2538 7 місяців тому +1

    This is interesting, and disturbing. Yes she was an adult but he definitely manipulated her. Whenever I meet an older man who is with a younger woman 10+ years younger I question why isn't he with a woman closer to his age.

  • @kaytigrant4527
    @kaytigrant4527 3 роки тому +2

    “What was Salinger hiding?” - umm did you read the book?

  •  2 роки тому +1

    I just finished her book. Despite the fact that she as a teenager was being adapted to Salinger's strict habits and that made sacrifices to stay with this older man, there were two big problems: 1) She simply couldn't make sex with him! (How wanted children?!) 2) He observed they were very different as he was like an obstacle between her and the promises of the world and the literary market, which the reclusive writer avoided and strongely advised against.

    • @elaineeike5363
      @elaineeike5363 Рік тому +1

      The sex part is true. While reading that part of the book I was surprised at the failed attempts at sex. Ironically, the lack of romance, foreplay, and physical passion between them was the real issue but Joyce blamed herself for the problem.

    •  Рік тому

      @@elaineeike5363 Yes...

  • @NikoTinbergen-n5i
    @NikoTinbergen-n5i 11 місяців тому +3

    She’s a good one. He should have held on to her. Sallinger wanted to mary Oona O’neill when she was 18 and he was 24. But Ms. O’neill married Charlie Chaplin when she was 18 and Chaplin was 54.

  • @clutchcarabelli8054
    @clutchcarabelli8054 3 роки тому +3

    She comes off as an absolute angel... I've lived with a lot of women and I must say they are all Absolute Angels. But I have since moved to living alone instead of cohabiting with these Absolute Angels. JD Salinger didn't learn this until later in life, his house was quit peaceful in the end though and mine is endlessly peaceful, Absolutely peaceful. 😎

    • @Jantonov1
      @Jantonov1 2 роки тому +1

      Living the dream, Clutch.

  •  2 роки тому +1

    !

  • @josee4283
    @josee4283 6 місяців тому

    "what is he trying to hide?"

  • @wlt5526
    @wlt5526 4 роки тому +5

    I am sorry what she been through but J.D. Salinger was also a human being. He wanted to recapture innocence after he lost his own innocence in the war. He interviewed young girls because he needed an inspiration like any artist. I don't believe he went for any younger girls. It was the that moment he observed about young girls and the chemistry he felt during the conversation with the young girls. It was a drive for his work. He wanted to understand the thinking of young girls for his works. Remember he was having writer block one time, it was the observational about the little children that saved him from the writer block. His mind was that intense. In order to disengage that kind of intensity of mind, he realized innocence from children helping him to write. That happened again after he returned from war. He was a very serious writer. But in the end he was a human being like us.

    • @MsDidi38
      @MsDidi38 3 роки тому +9

      no, he wanted to use her to drive his own talent and ego, in every way. Read her articles.

  • @steveconn
    @steveconn 8 років тому

    Fuck, I confused her with the daughter of Kerouac. Salinger's alright, I guess.

    • @jackiejns983
      @jackiejns983 8 років тому

      Yeah, Jan died in 1996, sadly.

  • @nirv
    @nirv 3 місяці тому

    22:41 - then get off the show you self promoting you know what.

  • @circine
    @circine 3 роки тому +3

    First. She much adores the sound of her voice when she talks. Second. She doesn't look as pure and innocent as she plays with her eyes looking at the dubious host. The truth is not being said.

    • @micah4242
      @micah4242 3 роки тому +7

      Her book is completely credible. She’s not claiming to be pure and innocent now-she was as a teenager and he was in his 50s!

    • @dd911
      @dd911 10 місяців тому

      She is being interviewed and that necessitates using her voice. I don’t get a sense she is even attempting to be pure and innocent and why would she? This is an interview…..she is choosing her words carefully at times and the reason isn’t all that difficult to understand if you actually listen to what she says. She is allowed some privacy of her own without someone like you feigning to know her motives or values.

    • @leftypaws1131
      @leftypaws1131 5 місяців тому

      You’re a moron LOL

  • @nigelmcclatchey4490
    @nigelmcclatchey4490 4 роки тому +3

    I like J.D. Salinger's short stories, but what a tedious woman! What a tedious interviewer!

  • @Michaelbos
    @Michaelbos 6 років тому +4

    Anything for a buck.

    • @elaineeike5363
      @elaineeike5363 4 роки тому +6

      I hope Maynard made a ton of money from the book!

    • @MsDidi38
      @MsDidi38 3 роки тому +3

      yeah, I'm sure she made loads of money being manipulated and used by a narcissist.

    • @wc8582
      @wc8582 3 роки тому +2

      @@MsDidi38 I know I feel so sorry for this woman. Lol

    • @ginnykirsch6798
      @ginnykirsch6798 5 місяців тому

      Charlie is envious of JD clearly