Dosti, Pyaar aur phir? - Harshita Gupta | Hindi Storytelling | Tape A Tale
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- Опубліковано 30 вер 2024
- Best friends to lovers is one of the most loved and desired tropes of all times, but what if you were better off as friends only, what would you do then?
In this Tape A Tale story "Dosti, Pyaar aur Phir?" Harshita Gupta narrates a bittersweet story about love, friendship and everything in between. She reminds us that sometimes things go wrong, and when they do, we must remember to stand by ourselves.
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Jabb kuch bhi hadd say ziada barh jaaye to Sehat k liye Haanikaarat hota hay😂♥
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It is true that line" kuch rishton ko behtar karne ke chakar me hum use barbaad kardete he"touching..❤❤
omyyyy god.... I was about to write thee samee commenttt... O myy!!
True ...try to avoid falling for your best friend -----> that's the most wrong decision of your life
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Same bhai
@@SampadaaSapkota huu same💫
The worst thing is if we make our best friend - our partner ..then after an emotional breakdown we can't find anyone to talk to share .we end up crying all alone. That's the most unhappy and cruel truth
Can’t relate more ♥️
Exactly 😅
Absolutely
True... reality.... I've done this mistake just 3 days ago🙂💔
The best thing is to make our partner to our best friend along...☺️
"Sometimes in order to make the relationship better, you end up ruining it"
Couldn't relate more
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Totally true🥲
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@Kese Ho Yarr yes people should get to experience sex earlier and transcend it so that they can focus on knowing themselves, their careers and the society. When they know what love is and don't think sex is part of love and don't establish marriage as lifelong partnership based on sex/sexual attraction, then they will be able to form meaningful relationships.
Exactly same happened in my life that "I was giving importance to everyone except myself". I ended up with disappointments and realised the wrong decisions I took because I was compromising with my life and myself. Thanks for writing this and presenting, it was so good to hear and has an impact for sure. 👍
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Same thing happened with me
The worst feeling is when you don't want to give up on someone but you know you have to.😌
True 🙂🙂
Sometimes There are so many hurdles which one can't afford to climb for you.
What may be right action on this?
Never ever fall in love with your best friend 🤐🤐
I'm not your hater but i have a girlfriend and she also has a best friend like you... She exchange things with him, shear things and time with him accept me... But mene apne Sare friends se duri bana li becouse the only best friend i have in my life is she... It really hurts 💔really.. Nahi ata muje ye tum ladkiyo ka so called best friend wala scene... We broked up we were together since 3 years use aik second bhi nahi laga "breck up" Bolne me.. Agar koi ladki is comment ko pad rahi hai or wo relationship me hai to samjo yaar app bande ko mat karo ye sab or ladka pad raha hai so bro sidha bolo muje bura lagta hai or agar nahi manti so please khud ko dur kar lo guys otherwise it'll really breck you from inside 💔
Very correctly said : the remote of ur happiness should be with you only
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How beautifully spoken, and how I could feel each and every sentence to the core.
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Either love or friendship , when become toxic , u have to take a decision of moving on , with a smile ...❤️❤️❤️ thank you di..🔥
But it's not easy for anyone 😂😂
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@@VIKASHKUMAR-uq6js yeahh actually😂
Everything is ok but wtf is ”with a smile”
@@amitsinghparmar3163 please don't mind bhaiya ,, i just wanted to say , that everyone deserves to be happy ,, and we should face every problem with a smile , its shows a positive attitude...👍 Nothing else.....
This is a masterpiece I heard today! I'm already going through this.. Thanks for encouraging.. I'll get stronger.. I'll be okay.. I'll end up being happy being myself.. 😊
More power to u ♥️
You are strong, you are okay and you are very happy being yourself ❤
You will heal soon dear
Gud luck
Bright future is waiting for u
the line "tum move on karna nii chate ho aur sath khush tum ho nii " exact situation with me
Same with me.
@@bhawnajha7339 what happened with you
Mera ek frnd hai jise mujhe love ho gya, ye myne usko bol v diya but wo ye relationship ni rkhna chahta only friendship jo ab aukward hota ja rha hai
@@bhawnajha7339 ohh kya voh kisi k sath relationship m hai ya fir voh kisi relationship m nii aana chata hai
@@miss._.shayar mujhe ni pta , but kuch samjh hi ni aa rhi kya kre
Damn man ..this is soo much relatable..ryt frm 8 yrs of frndshp,giving up on dreams,anxiety attacks,fear of loosing😭😭
we try to become selfless or hate to become selfish being inspired by either any movie couple goals or our parents!!! boom then we loose ourselves
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I've been following this channel since three years and this is the best video that I came across. Every single word she said is damn relatable to me, specially that line "aisi toh mai hu hi nahi". Thank you for this video❤️
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❤Loved it❤. We always loose our own self just to have the fav person in our life who even don't care. We keep suffering, roaring inside and irony is nobody even gets to know about that.
It takes alot courage to loose own one seriously 💔and more to accept that they have already moved on its us who's yet crying over the people who don't understand our worth.
But once we finally move on everything changes. For the things we cried we smile now , it gives pleasure by thinking of all these. You smile by recalling the good memories, forgetting the bad ones. ❤
Here many are writing comments and speaking through hands just like me deep inside for someone 😂but as usual that someone doesn't care LOL
Yrr knhi aesa toh mhi hota ki hum uski itni care krte hain ki humein koi care ki jaroorat nhi hoti....or jb baad me hum unki care kum krne lgte hain toh hume ahsaas hota hai upni care ke liye tb yhi dimag me aata ho ki wo care nhi krte hammari........or yhi same chiz samne wale ke sath hoti ho😶
Your story is exactly the story of my life. I blocked him yesterday for rest of my life.. and this is my healing period running through.
"my happiest place turn out to be my darkest place" it was all good until I fall in love with my best friend. I lost both my childhood friend and lover. I wish I would never confess my feelings.
kash hum dost he rehe te.
Don't know where this words touched I had tears listening it ...I never made myself a priority maybe that is the reason I remained unhappy...! But as days changed I can proudly call myself as my first priority...love me❤️❤️
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Felt damn relatable, difficult to move on from friendships which were so great in the past but now are toxic
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Getting blocked from someone close to you is the worst thing that can happen to somebody. You blocked somebody, moved on,wrote a poetry and happily recited it. But what about the person who went through lot of mental stress and anxiety just thinking about why you blocked him. The best way is to directly tell him/her that you don't want to be friends with that person. This will cause only pain which is way better than pain and anxiety together.
So true!!!!!
But the saddest part is nobody else mentioned that
Fr👀💀😶🌫️
If there is an imbalance of effort in any relationship that's the signal...you must overcome the fear of losing him/her and make things clear.... Accept the truth and move on cause you just can't force them to love you.... Love yourself 😊❤️
Thank you harshita for this video , i guess i was waiting only to hear this words , just like your story i am dealing with a person like this, he wants me in his life but he never understands how i am feeling... Thank you again
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Never in my life I could relate to anything so much as I did to your story. I had the SAME story. Dosti pyaar aur phir sab khatam. Decision uska tha joh bahut dard deta hai. Aisa lag raha tha jaise meri story narrate ki jaa rahi ho except for the fact that he left me. Those memories I had with him haunts me so much and the reality that he left me broken still is a nightmare. I too was ready to sacrifice everything to just keep him with me. I loved him infinitely but the saddest part is I still do.
That is not saddest part ..... coz that is love can't be ignored or forget or can't be vanished ....it really take toooooo much time to unlove someone... .... if we get love .... we r in heaven if don't..... we can experience hell before death. ......... ( i was never in love with someone but I know )
One of the best poetry,after Priya Malik's, "Mujhe pyaar nehi,ishq chahiye.."🔥💌❤️❄️
Ur grand children will love u the most😅❤
Hehe :p
girls' bestfriend, the most abused person in the world 🤣🤣🤣
BTW loved this story ❤️
The most important thing is you found yourself..💫
To everyone:
Jab mile thodi fursat
Khud se karle mohabbat! ❤️
And your happiness is in your hands..you can be alone but not incomplete.#loveyourself #selflove🤍
You don't know who have a crush on you who is dreaming about getting you 😏.
Smile baby smile ☺you matters .
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I do
@@twinklejain7966 Sorry. i did not get you.😶
@@arpitamishra7000 ☺☺it was just a happiness quote of my channel .
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Sry if you find something wrong by my side .
@@twinklejain7966 Ohh..Thank you.. 😀..No there's nothing wrong in this..I will surely visit your channel..actually I also write.💜..
1. Change the person(in this case, him, taking a stand)
2. Change your expectations (expecting just friendship)
3. Set boundaries(we can just be friends and nothing more , getting that clear in your head)
4. Say goodbye
In essence, Choose your happiness, your peace.
You're such a realistic person, Bravo dude 🤝🏻✨
Eak bar apka best friend boyfriend ban jata ha or agar wo rista nahi chaos to firse pahla jasa rista banna to namunkin ha😩sab kahata ha dosti wala pyaar bahut cute hota ha lakin koi kya jane sabsa jada dard v dost pyaar banka jub x banta ha tab hota ha na tab dosti rahati ha ha pyaar rahata ha to sirf dosti ki mithi yaada
Aur barish
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"Zindgi ki Remote samne wale ko de dete hai" and Yes Now You can Control My Happiness" .........
Every Broken heart Can relate this ✨🙂
I lost also my best friend 🙂❤️
With her I had a magical relation 🌻
Don't worry
You'll be fine
Super 😘😘😙😘😘😙😘😘💓🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗❣💙💝💝💜💜💗💗💞💞💕Love yourself
But ek question h hum dosti ya pyar m apne aap kisi se connect ho jate h or Sach m itne jyada ho jate h ki kud ko bhul Jate to kud ko kabhi bhi nahi bulna chahiye
Pr jb koi heart close person dur jata h na to esa lgta h jaise zindagi ab khatm itna easily nahi ho Pata smile karna because hum Bhutt kuch contribute karte h ek connection m or humesha ye sochte h ki ye kabhi na tute us mazigical connection ke tutne ka dar Bhutt jyada hota h kabhi kabhi lgta h ki usi life m bafis chale jaye or wo life bs wahi tk ruk jaye
Zindagi m kabhi kisi ki dosti n tute khuda ye dua h aap se 💓💞💞💞💓💓💕💗💗💜💜❣💙💙💝🙃💝😙😙😙💓💓😘😙💖💖💖💖😍😍😍😍😚😚😚😘💓💓🤗🤗🤗💓💜💙
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Best of luck for 200k on insta Harshita .
But every single guy want an understanding life partner like you👍😁💐.
@@sristidhungana8782 apna view likha hai apke eek poem ke comment mei dekhna thoda dhayaan dena
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Well i really love it kuch rishton ka na rehna jyada behtr hota h rehne se
Ahh . So true .
Lines and their meanings are heart touching and so true we really need to understand the difference between love and compromise with ourselves......you nailed it and the way you spoken- it's directly touched my ❤️
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Related 💯💯🥲😍one side Loneliness and the other side is magical ✨.
Such a strong personality ❤️!
And a great speaker..I was spellbound ✨.
5:22 exactly this was going same with me... Before 2 month's. I'm being happiest to sad person. My smile changed into tears .i was loss my self to love someone who even don't cares of my tears. Suddenly I realized this is not my chossy and attitude life... So I was decided to take next steps towards my self... To forgive him and to loss him. And guess what he was my male bestie...However and whenever I loss him and decided to being my self... To that attitude girl shalu.. And now I meet myself regularly...💓😊
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When something is totally relatable... u can understand each and every word...
Thank u for presenting it so beautifully...
@Kese Ho Yarr Its not about marriage... its about when u got committed with ur best friend and slowly ur relationship becomes toxic bcz of different expectations ...
@Kese Ho Yarr yeah very true
Truly relatable.. 💔
I also gave the remote of my happiness to someone who just gave pain and i was going through exactly same situation ... but now i have realised ki hume uss insan ki khud se jada care nahi krni chahiye jise hmari ratti bhar bhi care na ho ❤ aise insan ke liye atleast khud depressed na rahe ... i also started having panic attacks but i think time is the greatest healer.
Loved it ❤️💔🥺
We deserve happiness too ❤️
Make yourself your 1st priority 💞
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Oh God, this is incredible!!
Well portrayed, Harshita Gupta!!
Team Tape A Tale, thank you for bringing such lovely stories which inspires and directs!!
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Each and every word felt like my story and my situation and surprisingly goa trip matched too....1❤
Stupid!
I also have a good friend but when she rejected or better say gave me the clarification, I broke for sometime but it didn't shake our friendship. And now we are more better friends and will be forever...
After listening 🎧 u i found all my questions answer and u are completely right .. this is done ..
Thank u ..
शायर वी अजीब तरह से इश्क़ फ़रमाते हैं ❤
आँसुओं को दावत पर बुलाते हैं और दर्द का जश्न मनाते हैं ❤
Bahut kch kamaal or kaam ka likha Harshita aapne 👌👌👌👌 can't conclude in few words but actually it's reality u spoke & amazingly told 👏👏👏👏 thanks for the new hope & motivation dear.
I'm really touched by her every line ✨✨💔💔
Really deserve like for story I don't know is it really happened with her or just imagination but dealing with situation was awesome...
Atlast Letting go is the only thing left 💖💯
Hum insaan jud hi jaate hai.... apani zindagi mai tutane ke baad...inn lineno ko sunane ke baad khud se jud hi jaate hai✨
Don't give your happiness remote to anyone!❤️
Exact same situation happened me...my bestie and I was in long distance friendship. Aur usme bhi hamne bhot acchi memories bana li thi ...lekin vaha pyaar la chakker...thanks for motivating me ... ✌️
From which standard aur class u are studying becz it will happen with me same
Pls reply
@@pragatigupta8686 am in college now ...but that time when I have long distance friendship I was in 12th standard
Every word is so much touching 👏 beautiful amazing related post,thanks it's very helpful for many girls and boys👍👍👍👍 that's like me 😘😘😘😘😘thnku so much dear
@Kese Ho Yarr itni English nhi aati 🙏🙏
Can relate almost all the lines... Got anxiety attacks while watching your video! And yes everybody says the just block them... Forgot them.. But it's not that esay as to think of it... If you genuinely care or love someone you just be happy in their happiness... But most of the people sacrifice their own happiness and get depressed... That's not the solution! You hve your own responsibility just stick to them prioritise your family at the top they are the only one who genuinely care for you without having any expectation from you... Just remember you can not be the lead role in everyone s life.. So be the main character of your own life and get ambitious and stick to your goals and make yourself and your family proud! ❤
This was necessary. It will help almost everyone 😃
Wah 1st comment😂
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Felt it so Bad...the situation is not same..but the lines.....
Touched... great keep going..
And thanks for giving me strength ...I know this is not me..and I will bring myself back I promise...
I wish u all the Strength ♥️
That exactly happened with me....when I listened this .....everything matched with my life...dk why
Dosti pyar or fir heartbreak 🙂
Harshita Gupta ❤ it is so raw and real 😍... Your words are full of magic as it is so relatable to most people....
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It's almost surreal to come to know that there are many people who are or have been going through the same thing that we experienced. Let's hope that things will be better as time passes! I encourage everyone to take small steps in this journey of recovery.
Ur whole story is just like mine... Damn relatable😅
I can relate each and every thing 🙂
Idk what should I do, just completely lost.
It is rlly difficult to move on frm friendship or frm that bond which used to be everything . We can't imagine to live without them even if they're hurting us or we are hurting ourselves somehow.... 🙂
Take a pause be selfish and look for your dreams, wishes.. if that person love u too then think accordingly otherwise it's a damn right decision to move on
@@yr5630 idk what to do nd wht not 🙃
I'm jst escaping my feelings from last 1 month 😅 even idk is it doing so is ok or not 😬 but ik tht if I think abt him even for a single min. I'm gonna mad
@@aayat5155 please here your parents and take decision right frendship keep whole life no problem but life partner is a family matter dear bhagwan bless you and give u some bold decision in ur life
"Wo remote kisi ko mat dena"~Harshita Gupta
It's so nicee,hits right in the feels thankyousomuch for this masterpiece needed this badlyy✨
U should be ur priority no one else.just believe in urself.
Probably the best line " i was choosing everyone else, except myself "
Same thing happened with me......Your story really helped me a lot..... Thank you so much di❤️
I hv done the same ... Choose myself rather than toxicity❤️
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Thank you so much, I have same friendship.
This is exact mirror of my feeling or what I m going through May be... thanks girl😊 ❤️ to make me realize of worth ..😍
Somewhere you proved me right... 🙂
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I thought I found my chanlder💓💓
Thanks for sharing this story, Harshita! . It gives the courage and strength to not give so much importance to that "special one". I would like to listen again and again.
Why it feels like ki ye meri hi kahani thi....all which I had gone through right now... N I did the same as u said in this vdo 😔🔥nicely narrated 👌💯
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This story is soo relatable to me, I felt she is telling my story to everyone.
☺🤞 I created mess, I took a stand, I healed my self. 🤞
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😂😂😂same thing happened with me 😂😂😂
Was going through same feeling...thank you @tapeatale for releasing it at the bestest time...😊
When we think we can make better for them for us that moment we started ruined everything 🍁..
The same condition I'm going through 😔😔😔😔😒😒 but after listening this I come to know that , my first priority must be "myself" 🙏🙏🙏
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Same same to same,I couldn't even imagine that me too face such types of things that teesmaar Khan line was so true for me soooooo turuuuuu❤️❤️
This video has changed my life completely I am also going with the same situation
More power to you. Nevertheless, your transition of euphoria to melody was spot on, it felt so natural.
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Story is very interested dii and this story based on reality
I'm in your situation right now nd I can't express my feelings to her... I was just feeling like listening to me but the last lines you said I swear it felt the best 🙏. Thanks a lot for these beautiful lines... Love you d❤️
Did u confess ?
Suffering with almost same thing 😪😪♥️you are amazing
@Kese Ho Yarr right ✅ true
You lost what was not yours, He lost what was only his...
That's osam...we should make first priority of our self first and don't fear to losing someone that was the first mistake when we did. Becouse when we fear to losing someone we loss our self first...so according to me don't except anything from anyone that is the most important thing how can we save our self to hurting.
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Life is so hard with love .....and life is very simple with self love😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
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I got goosebumps while watching this video 🥺😔 . Every lines are true yrr.
Relating from ’Me rahoon ya na rahoon ‘ to this
We people have come a long way
Stay strong Kings/Queens
Great content Harshi. So beautifully articulated.
Wish I had a time machine in past to fly & watch this video .Then I would have surely snatched the remote control from that so called "someone special" in my life and saved my precious 4years. God bless you dear. More power to your courage & spirit girl.🔥💪👐
🙃🙃🤗🤗
Alas. Unless you are a Superman and fly backwards around this earth at light speed, you are not getting any time back.
Thanks for helping me to come out of this mess with ur tale
I appreciate your efforts for comeback and stand for yourself ❤️😀 God bless ☺️☺️
The line that hit me " Nobody should have a power to control yours happiness " that I wish the always remember it .
Becz it is just happing with me also that my male frnd is becaming important for me more than aur friendship .. I will absolutely know what is happen with it when we will give more periority to someone . 🙁
Ans if I am correct pls