Mujhe Attention Chahiye - Vanika Sangtani | Hindi | Tape A Tale

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  • Опубліковано 18 тра 2023
  • TW: Suicide.
    Love. Attention. Care.
    Vanika is also just like you. Just like us. She also carved these things. After loving with her whole heart she couldn't bear not being loved back and so it led her on a path. A path that we only take when we do not love our own self! In this Tape A Tale story 'Mujhe Attention Chahiye ', Vanika Sangtani shares a very personal story, a piece of her heart and her childhood. It takes courage to be this vulnerable, and to choose to love yourself every single day.
    We hope this story makes you ask the "whys" too, without judging yourself.
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  • @suman8571
    @suman8571 Рік тому +785

    Jab aadteinn sahi waqt par badli nahi jaati na, toh voh jaturtein ban jaati h.

  • @tanisharathod3378
    @tanisharathod3378 Рік тому +352

    We proud of you ,Vanika ,who bravely accepts and acknowledge the mistakes on the public platform and becoming the genuine human, who want love, attention and care. Fabulous!!✨🌻

  • @VivekKumar0101
    @VivekKumar0101 Рік тому +282

    "There is nothing wrong with how you wear clothes, the shyness must be in eyes of those who are watching you with bad intentions."

    • @shrutigupta6114
      @shrutigupta6114 Рік тому +19

      Sir , I never thought I will see a person with exact thoughts of mine...... thanks for existing sir

    • @saikad728
      @saikad728 Рік тому +12

      Simple meaning:- "i know I'm doing something wrong but I really want to do this. I'm begging, please don't judge me"
      Lol

    • @smart-g-one
      @smart-g-one Рік тому +4

      Ab bologe humari behan ko bhi galat nazar se dekhte ho , aisi soch walo ko dub ke mar jana chahiye bhai , nazar bigad jati ye baat sach ho koi paidayasi rapiest nahi hota , we need best future best partner best persone who notice holistic promblem and solve it ! Billion ladko ki nazar kuch ladkiya nahi badal sakti , 🙏 i am really appreciate to exist, but don't act femest this universe is same for you and we ,aur ye bhi yaad rakho Bollywood wale ya movie wale sexiest kapde pahne he to wo movie attractive karne ke liye tum kapde pehn sakti , but koi chede to ulta jawab bhi de sakte but tume comments londe ke aayenge this is reality 🙏 that's why indian tradition wears are , they don't show sexiest they show you like a indian respectively women 🙏

    • @VivekKumar0101
      @VivekKumar0101 Рік тому +1

      @@smart-g-one Bhai kiske liye likh rahe ho wo bhi likh diya karo @smart-g-one

    • @VivekKumar0101
      @VivekKumar0101 Рік тому +3

      @@smart-g-one And if you are saying about Indian traditional wear, go and check jitne b rape case hue hai wo kisi kapde ke wajah se nhi balki kisi ki gandi soch aur gandi nazar ke karan hue hai... Ek 6 saal ki bachi ka rape ho gaya tha usne kon se bold kapde pehne the? Clothes never decide intentions jo insan galat niyat rakhta hai wahi galat hai. Aur mai feminist nahi ho Raha hu jo sach hai wo sach h! Dubb ke tumhe marna chahiye Bhai jo tum abhi b wahi soch rahe ho ki ladkiyon ke kapde k karan insan ki niyat kharab hoti hai!

  • @jyotikadam8459
    @jyotikadam8459 Рік тому +98

    Dear Vanika,
    It takes a lot of courage to speak about your wounds that you had face as an 8 year old child ...and congratulations for the new beginning

  • @tanisha08thakur30
    @tanisha08thakur30 Рік тому +69

    I just don't want this story to end ✨.
    Vanika always concludes it thatyou're not wrong if you're feeling what you're feeling. It's okay to feel what you feel just a need to acknowledge them 🌸🌼✨

  • @vikassom29
    @vikassom29 Рік тому +22

    Are Vanika tu to badi ho gayi hai re, I remember the curry you made in Whoopers Goa and fed everyone (at least I got my part even though I wasn't part of your batch); you are a great storyteller I was listening to you there as well and here again. So happy to meet you. Keep Doing this thing. Take care.

  • @sharas9769
    @sharas9769 Рік тому +36

    Bandi mai dum hai yaar,vanika becoming more and more good with hr work😊

  • @supriyasingh4915
    @supriyasingh4915 Рік тому +14

    Itni saaf baatein itne saaf dil se itne simple tarike se keh dii💓💓

  • @soumyashree509
    @soumyashree509 Рік тому +100

    Felt like my story being told in your words through your tongue. The only disambiguition being the absence of my mum, to hug and complain. You are so strong to discuss this on a public platform. To bring forth the darkest night of your life. And to acknowledge that its not the diseased but the disease and its cause that is to be blamed. It feels so heartwarming to see you doing so well in life. Keep doing whatever it is that you do❤

  • @HeeraMet
    @HeeraMet 11 місяців тому +13

    Gosh, that was really something else
    I'm so proud of what you have become from that 8 year girl
    Hope you live a life full of love, attention and care
    You deserve it

  • @prachisingh7353
    @prachisingh7353 Рік тому +23

    "Sach kahu toh love,attention aur care mujhe ab bhi chahiye aur hak hai Mera toh maang leti hu lekin uske liye mujhe ab pet me dard nhi hota" !!! 🥺
    And that's how she got out of her childhood fears and towards a life where she understands herself more 💓

  • @d.sahani9743
    @d.sahani9743 11 місяців тому +17

    Your courage to openly share your childhood mistakes and the journey to self-discovery is truly commendable. It takes strength and honesty to confront our past and grow from it. Your insightful line at 02:10 time stamp 'Jab bachpan ki jhoot pakde nahi jate to vo bachpan ki adatein ban jati hai aur jab vo adatein sahi waqt par badli nahi jati to vo jarooratein ban jati hai,' resonates deeply and serves as a powerful reminder of the importance of self-awareness and personal growth. Thank you for being an inspiration to others through your vulnerability and authenticity. Keep shining your light and making a positive impact on the world!

  • @rkvic1919
    @rkvic1919 Рік тому +9

    You're the bravest girl I've ever seen! Thank you so much and lots of admiration for sharing the story of your journey with us, way to go!

  • @prashupraa9393
    @prashupraa9393 Рік тому +8

    Literally i was waiting for vanika storytelling eagerly🤗😌
    ThanksTapeATale for bringing this to us❤

  • @dossieebee4508
    @dossieebee4508 Рік тому +21

    i literally cried :) and it was so relatable to some extent

  • @bristimondal8821
    @bristimondal8821 Рік тому +17

    I also did something like this in my childhood.. I don't know why... I felt that no one wants me... I felt that I'm not important to anyone and it's true 🙂

  • @rajshekhardixit2292
    @rajshekhardixit2292 Рік тому +9

    Vanika, you are an amazing person. You speak from heart and full truth. तुम्हारी हर कहानियां मेरा दिल जीत लेती हैं. सच कहूं, एक सुकून मिलता हैं.

  • @Mind_Care_Manthan
    @Mind_Care_Manthan 11 місяців тому +7

    Vanika I still have tears in my eyes after listening to your story,...... Because I also do such excuses many times to get attention from the ones I love......when you tell that it is related to the past....I also looked into my past and I got the reason......I also want to get out of this habit.......after hearing this story of yours......now I am also getting the power of love, care and attention rightfully.❤ Thank u so much 🥰

  • @srm8538
    @srm8538 Рік тому +11

    Great tale👌👍 and yes that's the power of theraphy. We often think therapy bahot costly h bas sunna toh hota h unnhe blah blah but a therapists is much more than that. This again really peaks my interest in studying psychology further..i hope im able to do it ❤

  • @shrutikhati5259
    @shrutikhati5259 Рік тому +17

    In the middle of the video i feel why i feel so relatable to you.... And i realised I should start loving myself and stop expecting things from people who are just temporary in my life!

  • @sharayutravels
    @sharayutravels 11 місяців тому +8

    Fan of this youngster since I watched her live. Very talented!!!

  • @muskitwinkle3352
    @muskitwinkle3352 Рік тому +6

    ❤️❤️heart touching & it's beautiful the way you presented !!!

  • @daminijoshi3409
    @daminijoshi3409 Рік тому +11

    You are a gem ❤️...you really nailed it 💕

  • @Fitandhappy21
    @Fitandhappy21 10 місяців тому +4

    This is truly inspiring and real thing. Brave girl. Kudos❤

  • @a7shwarya
    @a7shwarya Рік тому +3

    you are so strong vanika, always stay strong and stay blessed

  • @odd_onee
    @odd_onee Рік тому +9

    I hurt myself many times just to get attention, just because I feel I am neglected child since childhood. This is getting worse day by day. Thank you for this story. I would try to change myself too.

  • @mythoughts1481
    @mythoughts1481 Рік тому +3

    Thank you so much for telling me that I am not alone. Thank you for telling me not to think bad about myself.

  • @saisilpabijjala7046
    @saisilpabijjala7046 Рік тому +2

    KIsi ko badalna hai tho...kisi ko samajna hai...what a line !!

  • @moraevol
    @moraevol Рік тому +4

    Jab bachpan ki galtiyan sudhari nhi jaati to baad mein aadatein ban jaati hai"" 🙌🏻

  • @nandinib2209
    @nandinib2209 Рік тому +1

    That was so deep, and you have done a great job, that was so smooth as well as hard at the same time which is like impossible, touched me❤

  • @_thesofiyasiddiqui3726
    @_thesofiyasiddiqui3726 Рік тому +4

    Hatsssss offff to vanika diiii.. love you di. You are seriously so amazing..💓💓

  • @harshbhutada8169
    @harshbhutada8169 Рік тому +2

    Tbh one of the best video i have ever seen in my life 🤩

  • @ZOYAKHAN-15572
    @ZOYAKHAN-15572 Рік тому +3

    This is so pure and genuine ❤️

  • @trishashraddha362
    @trishashraddha362 Рік тому +4

    Jb insaan sbke rhte huye bhi akela mehsoos kre to vo ander se bhut tuta hua rhta h and uss time usko bss thodi si attention chahiye hoti h overcome krne ke liye ❤❤

  • @thisismansiiii
    @thisismansiiii 6 місяців тому +1

    Amazinggg tale vamika didi!!!! it's okay to feel what you feel just a need to acknowledge them 🌼✨this tale just win my heart!!! lots of love... 💗

  • @nysagupta5195
    @nysagupta5195 Рік тому +6

    Ufff... Vanika.. U always show some magic with your words... That everytime I listen you.. My heart melts..my eyes cry like a small child .. 💕🥺

  • @vinaykumarmalhotra6521
    @vinaykumarmalhotra6521 5 місяців тому

    Excellent vanika, understanding urself, ur inner turmoil and get direction is the trait of powerful individuals and u r one God bless u

  • @manisha8845
    @manisha8845 Рік тому +4

    Such a beautiful story 😇💙 and the way u told us vanika .... seriously i also want my loved ones attention but not at the cost of my mental peace ....thanku i need this now i m feeling better to listen uh becoz i was asking thinking that that's my problem that i m expecting something from my love ones but that's ok if they r not giving such that i m dieing to feel ....becoz i know and believe we can't get something from anyone if he or she isn't heartily give to us there love , attention , care or support . I m accepting that it's taking too time but i will do it soon 💙

  • @divya_sancheti04
    @divya_sancheti04 8 місяців тому +2

    U r very brave for accepting ur faults and making efforts to get better❤

  • @ananyagupta4690
    @ananyagupta4690 Рік тому +2

    Di... trust me.... you has inspired a lot of teenagers like me... i love you so muchhhh❤

  • @ishaagrawal6575
    @ishaagrawal6575 Рік тому +1

    I cried listening to every line... Each of your word is related to my life..

  • @study_inspo_s14
    @study_inspo_s14 8 місяців тому +6

    As a teenager Sometime I feel guilty 😶 for being such an attention seeker. I told so many lies for just attention 😭.

  • @vibhutiprajapati2969
    @vibhutiprajapati2969 10 місяців тому +2

    Vanikaaa... You just awesome... Random hi ye video dekhi or.. It's totally Releted to me yr.. 😩❤🧿

  • @debomitachowdhury4231
    @debomitachowdhury4231 Рік тому +2

    Today I really need to hear this🌱... Thank you❤️

  • @babitarai9552
    @babitarai9552 10 місяців тому +2

    Thank you so much for sharing story daju your voice is painkiller of every my pain & sleeping tab for me. Your voice inspired in my activities😊

  • @harshit20251
    @harshit20251 Рік тому +3

    Wow Yrr So Soo Beautifully Narrated 😊
    Amazing Tales ❤️

  • @luvnadewan3887
    @luvnadewan3887 Рік тому +1

    Your stories and the art of your story telling is amazing ..

  • @Pinkchannel456
    @Pinkchannel456 Рік тому +5

    Muchhh needed❤❤❤

  • @funnyashu9360
    @funnyashu9360 Рік тому +4

    Vanika you are my favourite story teller
    God bless you sister 🙏🏻

  • @stebinable
    @stebinable Рік тому +4

    Really good video. The day everybody looks into self and realise the flaws in their own personality, people can change for the good. Thanks for this enlightenment

  • @sakshikumari.9423
    @sakshikumari.9423 Рік тому +1

    Aapne sahi kaha vanika dii...mujhe vi bahut dar lgti h ye baat ki mai jisse pyar kru or wo mujhe chhor ke chala jaye...ye line

  • @hp9358
    @hp9358 Рік тому +2

    U stories are really inspiring for me ... Thank you 🙏

  • @debotrisaha727
    @debotrisaha727 Рік тому +2

    This struck a chord ❤ Lots of love

  • @dibsmoney7839
    @dibsmoney7839 8 місяців тому +2

    Damn!❤ I wasn't expecting the twist

  • @sasirekhamsvl9504
    @sasirekhamsvl9504 Рік тому +3

    Loved the story telling.

  • @prachisingh7353
    @prachisingh7353 Рік тому +1

    Sending so much love to you Vanika 💕 it was a great decision to seek help

  • @salonigupta3226
    @salonigupta3226 Рік тому +5

    Loved it💗

  • @divinebelief
    @divinebelief Рік тому +6

    Vanika, I am short of words to appreciate you, but I am going to tell this story to all my students

  • @sahpathi-theclassmate
    @sahpathi-theclassmate Рік тому +1

    Mind blowing Vanika 🤗... Naratting way is wonderful 😊

  • @StreamRC
    @StreamRC 10 місяців тому +2

    It was beautiful from start to finish

  • @saaniyaduggal7785
    @saaniyaduggal7785 Рік тому +16

    Damn! This was so wholesome!! 💗 Loved every bit of it 🙌🏻

  • @Artistherapy21
    @Artistherapy21 6 місяців тому

    I cried the so hard from bottom of my heart in a first time in a while thank you so much it helped to understand and to learn so many things ❤

  • @aritradutta8778
    @aritradutta8778 5 місяців тому

    Really love your stories. Keep up the good work Vanika ❤

  • @marylitty7753
    @marylitty7753 Рік тому +4

    This is amazing ❤❤❤

  • @jyothiswaroop2964
    @jyothiswaroop2964 Рік тому +5

    You are a beautiful human being, Vanika ❤

  • @rainyday217
    @rainyday217 Рік тому +17

    i am from a village i went city for study when i was 13yrs old..i used to live alone and i was from village so i did not use to talk anyone especially with girl..i took care for myself and now im 22yrs old and still alone..and the only person who cares me is my mom❤

  • @Golden12395
    @Golden12395 Рік тому +4

    Loved it ❤️👏

  • @triggered_bhanu6942
    @triggered_bhanu6942 Рік тому +5

    why this video is relatable to me 😭😭

  • @paridhilulla7975
    @paridhilulla7975 Рік тому +2

    You go girl! ❤❤

  • @mdsirajuddin6508
    @mdsirajuddin6508 Місяць тому

    Khoobsurat k saath itni a6i storytelling 🤩😍

  • @anshilseth10
    @anshilseth10 Рік тому +3

    Loved this Vanika❤. Soo good💯

  • @user-fx4fo5lf7x
    @user-fx4fo5lf7x Рік тому +2

    vanika always rock...

  • @aakratiagarwal4061
    @aakratiagarwal4061 Рік тому +4

    More power to you!!

  • @soubhagyalinku9447
    @soubhagyalinku9447 10 місяців тому

    Awsm storyyy. some people don't get rid of it

  • @tejshinde...4448
    @tejshinde...4448 Рік тому +5

    Your really very best diii
    Beautiful di 💕

  • @twinsoul5156
    @twinsoul5156 7 місяців тому

    I wish healing was this easy that one conversation one hug could resolve years of childhood trauma. It isn’t so. It’s a very long journey you have to be patient and persistent in snd show up for yourself every single time.

  • @rehanasultana994
    @rehanasultana994 Рік тому +5

    I wish I could share my feelings,my thoughts like you.
    Unfortunately I can't.
    When I am watching this video I feel like I am talking & sharing my feelings

    • @thunderemperor5704
      @thunderemperor5704 Рік тому

      I think you can 👍 , storytelling and articulating thoughts into words is like a skill one can learn.

  • @imshivam7219
    @imshivam7219 Рік тому +2

    I'm Speechless 😌❤

  • @ashtamirajaram6560
    @ashtamirajaram6560 Рік тому +3

    Amazing 💕

  • @akkisuryavanshi1369
    @akkisuryavanshi1369 Рік тому +3

    You are superb vanika ❤

  • @sureshlohar77
    @sureshlohar77 8 місяців тому +2

    Sometimes when we desperately want attention , when it is hardly needed and we dont get that than some people do this..and this was her childhood habits and at that time everyone is immature and want attention..
    But when we grow up we dont show that we are hurted and gather attention instead we just hurt ourselves really and in real , and we just keep it to ourselves..
    And its just a matter of maturity and how our parents treat us..if they give us attention when we need then asking for attention in wrong ways will never become a habit or need...

  • @its_prabhu143
    @its_prabhu143 11 днів тому

    Such a brave girl who is telling her childhood story 🥺❤

  • @aishwaryasimagination9284
    @aishwaryasimagination9284 2 місяці тому

    Wonderful Vanika..You are just awesome

  • @dearwinners6205
    @dearwinners6205 Рік тому +3

    Thank you dear ❤

  • @mridulasahani1922
    @mridulasahani1922 Рік тому +2

    More power to you girl 😊

  • @niyatimehra6880
    @niyatimehra6880 Рік тому +1

    This made me cry 🤍

  • @jaspreetkaur9831
    @jaspreetkaur9831 Рік тому +3

    U are just awesome ❤️❤️

  • @manalishadas2421
    @manalishadas2421 Рік тому +2

    It's beautiful vanika❤

  • @JasveerKaur-ni6iw
    @JasveerKaur-ni6iw Рік тому +2

    Today just because of you i got my answer... Why am i doing this to myself..? The fear scares but it haunts when it becomes true.. that is what i am suffering from but its okay sometimes not be okay... I know i will heal and recover soon...❤

  • @SMSacademy7
    @SMSacademy7 Рік тому +2

    To love someone first of all love yourself ❤️

  • @satyamshivamsundaram-shahed
    @satyamshivamsundaram-shahed 10 місяців тому +2

    BRAVO!! 👌👍👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @Akumaaruu
    @Akumaaruu Рік тому +3

    Vanika your words really belonging to Mee❤️‍🩹

  • @shahbazansari7522
    @shahbazansari7522 11 місяців тому +2

    Ya allah ❤️❤️❣️❣️ heart melt ❣️❣️

  • @NareshSharma-sj6fc
    @NareshSharma-sj6fc Рік тому

    Ufffff proud youuu ❤

  • @nimisha9997
    @nimisha9997 Рік тому +4

    I viewed it as to watch a standup comedy but watching it made me cry

  • @unerasefeelings9732
    @unerasefeelings9732 Рік тому +2

    Beautiful ❤

  • @asfiyakaunain546
    @asfiyakaunain546 Рік тому +2

    🤯 God bless my best friend ❤️

  • @jayashreeroychowdhury8061
    @jayashreeroychowdhury8061 Рік тому +2

    You are fabulous....Vanika❤❤❤

  • @mahmudulhassan3244
    @mahmudulhassan3244 9 місяців тому +1

    It's really nice contain everyone must see..

  • @rememberwhyyoustarted9120
    @rememberwhyyoustarted9120 Рік тому +1

    I want to hit the like button thousand times