"Break-Up Hi Toh Hai" - Vanika Sangtani | Tape A Tale | Hindi | Kahaaniya Showcase
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- Опубліковано 27 тра 2022
- Have you ever cried over a breakup and been told that "it's just a break up ya! Move on!" or have you ever been in a situation where your pain felt too small to others? They thought it's not worth wasting time on?
In this Tape A Tale story, 'Break-up Hi Toh Hai', Vanika talks about the same situation she had gone through. It was not easy for her to move on, forget him, and just be ok. She tried hard and still could not simply move on. People kept telling her that she lived has through much tougher situations and she needn't spend so much time crying over a boy but it wasn't easy for her. Living through all this she had a realisation that is a lesson for all of us. She shares that with us in this story. Watch this story and share it with someone who might need it today.
Venue: Venue credits: Experimental Theatre, National Centre for the Performing Arts (NCPA), Mumbai
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Me too same here
She said right," We should cry and feel our pain but just in our own arms." And I felt that 🥺🙂❤️
I agree with uh sister 🥺❤️
Me to
Right yr after cheated it's like everything is finished n heart tells fire the whole world 🥺
No words 🥺
Yes now I am feeling one one word of it
Vanika, thank you so much for putting my feelings into words. I recently went through a breakup and I've been feeling the exact same way. 3 years of being together, 2 years in a live - in, 1 year long distance during covid. It's not so easy to let go. It's even worse when that person is not just a romantic partner but also your bestfriend. The last 3-4 months I constantly had this gut feeling that it's coming to an end. I cried every single day, even on days when we didn't fight. I had constant anxiety. I stopped doing the things that I love. Stopped eating proper meals because I wouldn't feel hungry because my stomach constantly churned. And after you're with a person for so long, you only recognise yourself with them. When they're gone, it's not just that person that leaves, but the person that YOU were with them also leaves. You feel shattered, lonely, incomplete and healing is not an overnight process. It takes weeks, months, years even. Because it also triggers things that happened in your past relationships and you feel so many things at once that you just feel numb. I could not share about our fights with my friends because they would just say things like "toxic ho raha hai, chod do". Par itna asaan to nahi hota na. Jiske saath poori life plan karo, ek future dekho, use itni jaldi bhula dena, nai zindagi banana, asaan to nahi hai na? Aur baat yahan asaan mushkil ki hoti, to jis insaan ko apni poori duniya, apni poori khushi, apna sab kuch mana tha, usko khud se hi dur hote dekhna, uska pyaar roz thoda thoda kam hote dekhne se to asaan hi tha na alag ho jana? Ant me to usne kaha tha ki Palak, kuch nai pata hota. Kya pata aage jaake destiny hume fir mila de? Hum fir saath ho jae? This time we'll be better people, better partners. That hope. That hope killed me. Isse accha to usne seedha bol diya hota ki nai hai ab pyaar. Chod do mujhe, dur chali jao. It's hardly been a month since we decided to part ways and expects me to still be friends with him not realising how hard it is for me to not love him. The face that I held every single morning and the lips that I kissed so gently, the arms that held me tight everytime I broke down into pieces, the very heavy leg that rested on mine every night we cuddled to sleep. Gone. Not mine to touch anymore. Those hands not mine to hold anymore. Those eyes not mine to stare into anymore.
Your words helped me get the closure that I could not get from him. I don't know if you'll ever read this, or if anyone will ever read this, but if you're goinf through a similar situation, I'm sending lots of love and warm hugs your way. I hope you heal and become the best version of yourself. I want to tell you that, "This, too shall pass". Stay strong. Aur yaad rakhna, jo pyaar use diya hai, wo khud ko deke dekho. You need it more than them. Trust me.
You're a very strong girl💕
♥️♥️
You are really strong i don't know how you managed till now 5-6 years relationship tum kaise jhel rahi ho tumhi samjh sakti ho
Yr aise logon ka jab Mann bhar jata hai to seedha seedha Hume batate nahin ki ab hume tumse baat nahin karni bas hamare emotions se khelte rehte hain aur hume koi sidha jawab nahin dete
More strength to you!
World's best story teller award goes to Vanika Sangtani 😍😍😍😍😍😍
❤❤❤❤
How old is she?
@@yashvi3448 27 maybe
Also abhash jhaa
When u realise she's been emotionally narrating this... 🙂.. She was choking on tears I guess... I hope she's fine🌸
Perhaps it's her talent. May be you noticed that she brings it to life ,whatever story she tells. "owesom story teller"
It's been 25 years and I am still in love with Mahadev. I know he is the only who will never leave me alone in every situation ❤
Vanika is my favourite story teller on this channel ✨❤️
Literally her words are emotion ✨❤️
Mine too🥺
@@sam7890hh 💙
@@sam7890hh 🥺🥹
Same ❤
Mine too
The way she is narrating the story ..
Is next level....always next level
The audience understood the assignment when they instantly joined in with the claps to her song at the end!
Yeah passed the vibe check
This was the video where she was not reciting what she had prepared but she was pouring her heart out. Vanika… you’re a gem✨
Mujhe harna nahi hai...mujhe nikal na hai is pain se ....yaar sab duaa karo mere liye...🙏😭😭😭😭😭
I can literally feel the pain she is telling about and the pain in her voice make the story more powerful ♥️♥️♥️
I was able to feel the pain in ur voice. Its been 5 months that he left me n I was embarrassed that I still cry over it so I dn't really tell any one but today m not embarrassed that I am crying. I m giving my self time to heal to feel the pain. The pain is beautiful too
I can feel you but i hope you will be fine vry soon❤️more energy to you
Yes jab aap iss cheez se bahar aane lagte ho ekdum free sa feel hota hai jaise koi bojh utar Gaya ho jab hum accept kar lete hain tabhi hum iss sabse bahar nikal pate hain
That last time when she sang it was so beautiful how the audience started to clap😘
Got Goosebumps after watching
how beautifully you expressed you emotions ❤️💝 and you are a great singer too💕
I can feel the pain, those anxiety, numbness, pain in her voice, I don't want to look back but can't help it & it takes a lot of courage to recite such things
The best part:- feel the pain, it is the pain which makes you feel strong 🤟🏻
So relatable ! It's so true that people often come up with saying it's just a break up, move on..stay busy , find another guy.. But rather it's so important to live that pain, feel every inch of it.. feel yourself and the other person's absence in your life. Just so you fall in love with yourself more in the end. :')
This line : "The difference is that the arms are now mine and I want to hug and cry"🙂.
You touched many hearts and gave courage to accept and deal with their pain through your acceptance power in life.You are a gem 💫
She was literally crying a lot from inside and a faded version was visible to us❤️ ..... loved the way she narrated her story🥺🥺
Her voice is quivering. It takes a lot of courage even to say what you feel and here she opened her heart out❤
How vanika held her tears back on the stage....explains ....all the pain with which she has gone through 🥺
How people replace us from their life..??
One day we are everything,
the next day we are nothing....
Some day they pray to get us,
And another day they regret to love us...
Time changes.. Views change.. People change..
It hurts, but it happens! 😔😢😢😢
Very well said
@@joondas8920 reality hai bhai 😞
Yes being forgotten by the person we can never forget actually hurts
These lines:
-feel the pain,dard ke sath jiyo,pain makes us stronger;💯🔥
My 2 year and 17 days relationship ended by her yesterday and I just want to say
Being addicted to someone is not a joke that shit harts a lot!! 😌💔
Thank u it was really needed...we really need to know that it's ohk to cry out for think that affect us...we are brave enough to deal with any situation...thank u for making me realise that i don't need to hide my pain...and should talk to myself about it
Couldn't stop crying! So beautifully expressed Vanika! 🥺👏♥️
The pain, the shiver in voice, the tears that hurt couldn't roll down to the cheeks. Ugh the grief this is just so painful 😭
“pyar me log padte hai par kuch log badhte hai" exactly 💯 true line..❤️🤞🏻
Yeah...thinking about moments spent with her, thinking about chats, talks and beautiful memories with her... crying alone is the best option. Automatically will start getting emotional letting her go. I felt that 🙂❣️
I just literally felt your pain. I understand it is very very difficult to say these things, but I love the way you handled yourself. I hope everyone will have the courage to accept and to live their pain and overcome it.
Every broken heart can feel this pain in her voice and can relate with own story 💔
You are so brave Vanika.. Keep it up. Lots of love & best wishes to you❤
जब आप destiny के नाम पर, बहुत कुछ खोकर आगे बढ़ते हो ना तब आपको खोने से ज्यादा डर उस destiny को पाने का लगता है l 💜 Heart touching line 💜
"Story, that has the power to make someone tear up, is the one which pierces through the heart."
Saw you as a.little girl in MGPS, playing role of shinchan and look at you now, how far have you come. Spreading lovely smile everywhere.
Loving, teaching, inspiring so many beings out here.
Thank you for this, V.
Lots of love and strength to you.❤️Rise and shine.
Every Single line she spoke just felt right here in the heart 🥺❤
Vanika you're the best story teller🥰
The way you were narrating story just put tears in our eyes as well😭😭
Not what we wanted to hear but what we all needed to hear!
"EMBRACE YOUR PAIN"
More power to you girl 👏
You just said what I feel right now... You just put my pain into words... Thanks for giving voice to the pain I feel..
Just bursting into tears after this!! ✨💗 Such a gem
I could feel each word she spoke.....it's so important to accept that your pain is justified and it's okay to feel pain and grief....it's fresh it's just been 11days that I had the shayad phir iss janam mein mulakaat ho naa ho moment!
Words cannot describe what I'm feeling rn🙃❤️
Just love to listen vanika❤️❤️💝
Don't have words to explain.... Amazing man...one of the best....hats off ❤️❤️❤️
She is the best storyteller I have ever heard.She makes you feel the story ♥️
You made me cry🥺 there is so much pain in your voice
It’s not just a story , it’s an emotion coming out through the story, and the way she expressed it was next level ♥️♥️♥️
This pain always on boys
Such a pure soul she is...much love ♥️
Her shaken words gaves me shiver and a slight pain in my heart...
Me watching this on the 2nd day of my breakup... lying in the bed , crying feeling my pain...then UA-cam show this notification..... I can see ur pain in ur words....I'm here ending a 4 yr toxic relationship..
He never loved me im realising that now..
Hyy you are strong just move on for your self for everybody who loves you 😃
It's not that much easy. When u r the only one who feels the pain in a relationship.
@@AN...94 I agree but jab usko tumhari koi fikar hi nahi to tum kyu uske liye ro
It's totally okay to feel bad... See some movies nd whatever you want ye sub pass ho jayega... Lekin jo bhi ho rha bus use ye soch k jiyo.. Ki inke through hi hame nikalna hai..... I am still healing... Bus aisha hi hota hai ek ensan jo kabhi rahta hi nhi... Dusra usi k liye rota hai... I have seen so many cases sub shi hoga... Bus healing bhi isi k through hogi... Take it as challenge... Sub shi hoga...
@@yashagrawal9308 bcz i was happy wt him... That's y I'm always try to keep this relationship even after so many hurts.. but now it's time to end
It's starts with my favourite song...and I can feel very word.. every line🖤" pain make us"🙃
I’ve never heard a piece as beautiful as this❤️
In a world where everyone tells u to ignore your emotions, you are the only one who tells to feel our emotions. This video is really one of your best videos
As always great vanika ❤️ lots of love to you
So phenomenal.....I couldn't believe she delivered it so beautifully n those teary eyed...though I can't relate to this break up concept but yes I do believe to live ones pain to emerge stronger...coz the more u hide ur pain from outside the weaker u turn inside....
Sahi kaha isliye koi share karne wala mil jata hai to aasani ho jati hai Varna bahut mushkil hota hai bahar nikalna
Beautiful.... Literally got tears out of eyess.. we know the pain what we have no one can understand.. that. ✨✨
Just can't put in words but someone who is going through this phase knows how difficult it is & i feel each & every word. Since the 1 word till last word i cried & i felt it.
Ur the best !!
Lots of love from Mumbai!!!
Goosebumpss❤❤ amazing
8:49 literally got goosebumps
Yes
Her each and every word is just so relatable 🤍🤍
That was really reallyyy Beautiful 🤌❤️
The wayy you narrated and expressed thiss, absolutely loveddd it!!!!
Literally the pain is seeing not even in his eyes but in ever words hatsss of to the such a legend personality u not only teach us how to grew up but also how to embrace the pain ......❤️🥰
I even couldn't express what I'm going through rn...i was literally crying throught the story.
Seems like we are sailing on the same boat rn 🤍
Yeah I'm sitting behing two of u... That makes 3 of us
@@rachnakhawas6425 yeah we are.......💔
@@abhichintu4454 ❤️
Me too..
How beautifully you expressed your feelings ❤️❤️ really touched me 💯💯
Wow, she’s amazing. You made me cry girl🥺
Idk why my eyes were wet hearing this. Lots of love to you Vanika. I always look upto you. Thank you 💖
Just abhi check kiya block ho chuka hu....jo kabhi kehti thi i never let you ....
yaad uski roj aari h , frk itna h ki roj dukhi hota hu ki wo saath nahi or yaad aa rahi h ,
aaj khush hu ki dukhi hoke he sahi usse yaad krke km se km khud k pass toh rakha h.
This one is so much relatable🥺❤️ one of the best story till now❤️ vanika you're amazing❤️✨
I can connect with this story, I had breakup💔, but still unable to overcome the hangover, even tough the other person had moved on with other guy, as if nothing happened between us....
I cried the whole time... I am going through something very similar.. thank you for your words.. this crying session was much needed.. ❤️ more power to you and anyone who is going through "just a breakup"
More power to you too! 😊❤️
Everything will be ok 😍❤️god bles uh
I thought it was gonna be the same old story about breakup. But it was so so good that I almost cried ✨
The narration and the emotions 🌻✨
Her falter voice is sufficient to see her pain🙂💔....
I feel it 🙃
How do you always manage to make so emotional content? Hats off to you girl! :) On the brighter side, sometimes pain can give you content too 😂 & I really hope you're fine now ❤️😀
The best narration I have heard till now or maybe because it was too relatable. Such great words ✨
You just too purely outed everyone's emotion by just a tale ❤️🥺
she is 1000% feeling while telling✨ even i can feel it
Start to end, my story. Didn't expect that day to be the last day to hug them like that.
Exactly it happens
One of the best piece I've came across ♥️
I was waiting for her for so long...💗💗...this was one of the best story..i could feel the pain in her eyes...💖💖💖
This channel was suggested by my friend and she right this is the best storyteller channel❤️😭
Its so beautiful Vanika❤️much more strength to you !
The way she explained, it takes my heart ❤🔥🔥
Vanika you are a soul to story, the poetry.. No doubt that it was so relatable, no doubt that this was emotional, but what I was feeling all through this with the shedding tears of mine that
The little heart inside has so much courage to speak up to ventilate, not the smiles but the pain...
Vanika i love you ❤️
Shayad shabd hi h but feeling h isme ✨
Keep growing this way ❤️
Sahi kaha but patience rakho time ke sath dheere dheere sab thik hoga
This is true that why we can't understand ourselve, we lost 😞
Breakup nothing, give fight your dreams, forgot breakup 🤗
It's have been 8 months completely..... Every day i think about that girl and cry
It's been 3 years..and i still feel the same way u narrated!
Nice story❤
I don't know how to tell this but....this is same as mine....the difference is our relationship was for 4 months and we didn't broke up right the next day of that beautiful memory of us...bt after that last day it was lockdown and that feeling was totally same....u already know that feeling 😅...lag ja gale was both of our fav song and I never thought that it will ever relate with me in such a way....in the same way as yours, our relationship had already died earlier...I just realised lately...when he said we are no more into it, I couldn't feel it...that night I thought I was dreaming something worst....then upto few days I used to think that may be he is preparing for any kind of surprise for my birthday...may b I went crazy or something but didn't accept it anyway....it was like I was in any kind of hangover for few days....after almost a month he burst out suddenly in a midnight and after listening to the complaints he had against me, just like U I got an anxiety attack too about which no one knows....it's been about a year now since we broke up but still tbh I'm not able to accept that we are not together anymore and he already moved on where I still cannot get over the night I got anxiety attack...as I'm very bad at expressing, he got many things very wrong about me and for the same I never told him about this....Yes I wrote it and left it in my notes....today I had to put a lot of guts to leave this comment here, with very very low chance that he will ever see it 🙂
The loud applaud at the end says all !!❤
So muchhhh loveeee forrrr u girl, I can feel the emotions which u have explained here, we shouldn't ignore the pain if we feeling it doesn't matter how the world sees it, we have been through it, we have invested our selves who are the people to tell weather it's a thing to get anxiety or not, we are strong and more than enough to keep ourselves happyyyy....
Didn't know Vanika ma'am is a great singer too😉❤️✨
Now you know na 🥺❤️
masterpiece🤗💜
Not only beautifully penned but also beautifully delivered♥️
Thank you for making me understand that it's ok to feel this way and I'm not alone to go through this ✨
कुछ यादें बिना याद किए याद आ जाती है....अगर समझ गए तो प्यार सच्चा वाला किया है आपने❤️✨🙂
😔😔😔
Wada kiya tha usne nibhaya nhi ydd rahega zindagi bhr glti ki thi maine jo kabhi ni bhula paungi heartbroken 💔🥺🥺🥺
Literally you just said beautifully what I’m going through right now….
This is one of the most amazingly told a feeling which is soo hard to describe!!
I can see my younger version in her......... I just wanted to cry cry and cry....... And I cried for almost 2 years and then I realised that he just don't deserve me............and then I found the strongest version myself.....!!!! 😎😎