Vanika, thank you so much for putting my feelings into words. I recently went through a breakup and I've been feeling the exact same way. 3 years of being together, 2 years in a live - in, 1 year long distance during covid. It's not so easy to let go. It's even worse when that person is not just a romantic partner but also your bestfriend. The last 3-4 months I constantly had this gut feeling that it's coming to an end. I cried every single day, even on days when we didn't fight. I had constant anxiety. I stopped doing the things that I love. Stopped eating proper meals because I wouldn't feel hungry because my stomach constantly churned. And after you're with a person for so long, you only recognise yourself with them. When they're gone, it's not just that person that leaves, but the person that YOU were with them also leaves. You feel shattered, lonely, incomplete and healing is not an overnight process. It takes weeks, months, years even. Because it also triggers things that happened in your past relationships and you feel so many things at once that you just feel numb. I could not share about our fights with my friends because they would just say things like "toxic ho raha hai, chod do". Par itna asaan to nahi hota na. Jiske saath poori life plan karo, ek future dekho, use itni jaldi bhula dena, nai zindagi banana, asaan to nahi hai na? Aur baat yahan asaan mushkil ki hoti, to jis insaan ko apni poori duniya, apni poori khushi, apna sab kuch mana tha, usko khud se hi dur hote dekhna, uska pyaar roz thoda thoda kam hote dekhne se to asaan hi tha na alag ho jana? Ant me to usne kaha tha ki Palak, kuch nai pata hota. Kya pata aage jaake destiny hume fir mila de? Hum fir saath ho jae? This time we'll be better people, better partners. That hope. That hope killed me. Isse accha to usne seedha bol diya hota ki nai hai ab pyaar. Chod do mujhe, dur chali jao. It's hardly been a month since we decided to part ways and expects me to still be friends with him not realising how hard it is for me to not love him. The face that I held every single morning and the lips that I kissed so gently, the arms that held me tight everytime I broke down into pieces, the very heavy leg that rested on mine every night we cuddled to sleep. Gone. Not mine to touch anymore. Those hands not mine to hold anymore. Those eyes not mine to stare into anymore. Your words helped me get the closure that I could not get from him. I don't know if you'll ever read this, or if anyone will ever read this, but if you're goinf through a similar situation, I'm sending lots of love and warm hugs your way. I hope you heal and become the best version of yourself. I want to tell you that, "This, too shall pass". Stay strong. Aur yaad rakhna, jo pyaar use diya hai, wo khud ko deke dekho. You need it more than them. Trust me.
Yr aise logon ka jab Mann bhar jata hai to seedha seedha Hume batate nahin ki ab hume tumse baat nahin karni bas hamare emotions se khelte rehte hain aur hume koi sidha jawab nahin dete
I was able to feel the pain in ur voice. Its been 5 months that he left me n I was embarrassed that I still cry over it so I dn't really tell any one but today m not embarrassed that I am crying. I m giving my self time to heal to feel the pain. The pain is beautiful too
Yes jab aap iss cheez se bahar aane lagte ho ekdum free sa feel hota hai jaise koi bojh utar Gaya ho jab hum accept kar lete hain tabhi hum iss sabse bahar nikal pate hain
Toh agli baar, sirf pyaar mein padna nahi hai, par pyaar mein badhna hai. Sing even when the world says you dont sing well, love yourself, hug yourself, you are only there for yourself😇❤️
So relatable ! It's so true that people often come up with saying it's just a break up, move on..stay busy , find another guy.. But rather it's so important to live that pain, feel every inch of it.. feel yourself and the other person's absence in your life. Just so you fall in love with yourself more in the end. :')
How people replace us from their life..?? One day we are everything, the next day we are nothing.... Some day they pray to get us, And another day they regret to love us... Time changes.. Views change.. People change.. It hurts, but it happens! 😔😢😢😢
Me watching this on the 2nd day of my breakup... lying in the bed , crying feeling my pain...then UA-cam show this notification..... I can see ur pain in ur words....I'm here ending a 4 yr toxic relationship.. He never loved me im realising that now..
It's totally okay to feel bad... See some movies nd whatever you want ye sub pass ho jayega... Lekin jo bhi ho rha bus use ye soch k jiyo.. Ki inke through hi hame nikalna hai..... I am still healing... Bus aisha hi hota hai ek ensan jo kabhi rahta hi nhi... Dusra usi k liye rota hai... I have seen so many cases sub shi hoga... Bus healing bhi isi k through hogi... Take it as challenge... Sub shi hoga...
Everytime I see her cry on stage, I always have a sudden urge to just hug her. As the eldest child of the family, I always wanted a big brother or sister. She is elder sister I'd love to cry with, talk with, and laugh with. The strongest elder sister I always wished for❤
I can feel the pain, those anxiety, numbness, pain in her voice, I don't want to look back but can't help it & it takes a lot of courage to recite such things
"Story, that has the power to make someone tear up, is the one which pierces through the heart." Saw you as a.little girl in MGPS, playing role of shinchan and look at you now, how far have you come. Spreading lovely smile everywhere. Loving, teaching, inspiring so many beings out here. Thank you for this, V. Lots of love and strength to you.❤️Rise and shine.
I could feel each word she spoke.....it's so important to accept that your pain is justified and it's okay to feel pain and grief....it's fresh it's just been 11days that I had the shayad phir iss janam mein mulakaat ho naa ho moment!
yaad uski roj aari h , frk itna h ki roj dukhi hota hu ki wo saath nahi or yaad aa rahi h , aaj khush hu ki dukhi hoke he sahi usse yaad krke km se km khud k pass toh rakha h.
Yeah...thinking about moments spent with her, thinking about chats, talks and beautiful memories with her... crying alone is the best option. Automatically will start getting emotional letting her go. I felt that 🙂❣️
I can see my younger version in her......... I just wanted to cry cry and cry....... And I cried for almost 2 years and then I realised that he just don't deserve me............and then I found the strongest version myself.....!!!! 😎😎
When she said :- jab aap destiny ke naam par bahot kuch kho kr aage badte ho na to aako khone se jada dar paane me lgta hai .......... I felt goosebumps 💕💕🥀like I felt in my skin and soul.
I cried the whole time... I am going through something very similar.. thank you for your words.. this crying session was much needed.. ❤️ more power to you and anyone who is going through "just a breakup"
Kahani sunte sunte Khudki Kahani ko Phirse ankho ke smne paya Mene! Goose bumps aa gye 🙂 Kya Kru kbhi socha bhi toh nhi tha na ki Kahani sunte sunte ek din hmari Adhuri Kahani title par jyega hmari Kahani ka! I don't know why I'm writing this but 🙂
I can connect with this story, I had breakup💔, but still unable to overcome the hangover, even tough the other person had moved on with other guy, as if nothing happened between us....
Its not easy, recently i too had a break up, u plead to that person, beg. None works, if they decide to leave you they will, sonner or later. Hard to accept but these is the reality,your daily routine fucks up, appetite chala jata hae.
I went 10 years back after watching this video. But the fact is it doesn't make me sade or cry because after a period of time and with the right person your emotions changed
Every Single line she spoke just felt right here in the heart 🥺❤ Vanika you're the best story teller🥰 The way you were narrating story just put tears in our eyes as well😭😭
I wanna say my story.. break up is the worst things..life chalti h par hmare pas life ka koi motive nhi hota.. kuch krne ka mn nhi krta.. neend aati nhi ..pr jb aa jati h to uthne ka mn nhi krta .. everyone wants to be Loved..but this generation is full of playboys and Playgirls.. who can play with your hearts... just wo soch bhi nhi skte that attachment hurts a lot..like u have lost him and can't get him back is the worst feeling u can ever have ...jb dil todna he hota h to dil se khud ko jodte kyu ho.. attraction aur pyar me difference smjh lo fir he pyar kro na ..aisa lgta h duniya khatam ho gyi h..apne ambition pe focus bhi nhi kr pate qki wo insan aapki Puri duniya bn jata h..and u want to enjoy your success with that person..itne sare sleepless nights..self doubts aata h break up k bad..why.. kyu aaye tum mere life me..i really loved u and my love was pure..kyu chora mujhe ye thought pr ki pyar sb mjak hota h .
Jo apne bola bilkul theek ha insaan tho chale jate ha lekin memories chor jate ha. And hame vo memories hi sabse jyada hurt karti ha sabse jyada rulati ha but kuch time baad sab kuch firse pehle jesa normal ho jata ha . Rehne ki adat pad jati h kyunki insaan chor ke jata ha zindagi nhi. Zindagi jeeni padti ha. And kisi ke jane se ham tut te nhi or strong bante ha ❤
Literally the pain is seeing not even in his eyes but in ever words hatsss of to the such a legend personality u not only teach us how to grew up but also how to embrace the pain ......❤️🥰
This hurts so bad. Cried while watching. Watched this before but now that I re-watch, I've experienced what she's saying. Loving with the intention of never leaving and getting cheated on, everything changes with one action. It still hurts to think about it, but maybe I've learnt to accept the pain.
Thank u it was really needed...we really need to know that it's ohk to cry out for think that affect us...we are brave enough to deal with any situation...thank u for making me realise that i don't need to hide my pain...and should talk to myself about it
In a world where everyone tells u to ignore your emotions, you are the only one who tells to feel our emotions. This video is really one of your best videos
Mai sochti thi mai akeli hu ....jise ye sab kuch hota hoga....khud ko alag feel karti thi kaise mai kisi ke liye ithna pain feel kar sakti hu ....lekin when I heard your story I can totally relate of your every word and and that sisk which you try to hold and control.......there are many more are gone through this .....but one things you said is true pain ko bhulne se ya chodne se nhi. ....bulki use jine se Kam hoga......dhire dhire hai sahi wo pain tumhe khush se pyar karna sikhayega kisi ajnabi kuch salo se jankar agar tum itna pyar kar sakti ho to socho agar khud ko Jan lo to kitna karne lagogi......be strong whoever go through this phase ....this time will also pass....
Same here. Dude i know how it feels My relationship was just of 4 months when she decided to leave coz she found someone better than me ,n if just these 4 months of togetherness can hurt me so much then i can understand what u r going through after 4 years of togetherness. This world is a place where we meet loyal people by luck ,it's too hard to find loyal people. We can't do anything about it. We just have to accept that they are gone n they r never gonna come back. N just remember u deserve better bro. Stay strong🤝🏻✨
I don't know how to tell this but....this is same as mine....the difference is our relationship was for 4 months and we didn't broke up right the next day of that beautiful memory of us...bt after that last day it was lockdown and that feeling was totally same....u already know that feeling 😅...lag ja gale was both of our fav song and I never thought that it will ever relate with me in such a way....in the same way as yours, our relationship had already died earlier...I just realised lately...when he said we are no more into it, I couldn't feel it...that night I thought I was dreaming something worst....then upto few days I used to think that may be he is preparing for any kind of surprise for my birthday...may b I went crazy or something but didn't accept it anyway....it was like I was in any kind of hangover for few days....after almost a month he burst out suddenly in a midnight and after listening to the complaints he had against me, just like U I got an anxiety attack too about which no one knows....it's been about a year now since we broke up but still tbh I'm not able to accept that we are not together anymore and he already moved on where I still cannot get over the night I got anxiety attack...as I'm very bad at expressing, he got many things very wrong about me and for the same I never told him about this....Yes I wrote it and left it in my notes....today I had to put a lot of guts to leave this comment here, with very very low chance that he will ever see it 🙂
"Baahen Gale Men Daal Ke Ham Ro Le Zaar-Zaar....... Aankhon Se Phir Ye Pyaar Ki Barasaat Ho Na Ho" ..... Bas baahen apni honi chahiye.... Aankhe to hamesha barasti rhti hai Just try to hug yourself and say you're strong so don't cry ✨🖤
Nhi shalu tu har nhi skti.....just see your parents are waiting for your success.....tu harne ke liye nhi udne ke liye born huyi h😭🤌 He broke me into million pieces......but yah it's just a break-up.....and I am very strong...😭💔🤌 Tysmmmmmm vanika your words good gives me strength 🫂❤️🫶
I am going through same phase mujhe kya hogya pta hi ni lgta pichle 1.5 saal se kya chl rha kuch pta hi ni lgta na koi baat krne wala kisse share kru felling aaisa lgta sb pa ke bhi sb kuch kho chuka hu 😭😭
वनिका मैंने आपकी बहुत सी कहानियाँ सुनी है.... और जितनी भी सुनी.... सभी मुझे बेहद अच्छी लगी... पर आपकी इस कहानी ने मुझे इमोशनल कर दिया यार....उस दर्द का एहसास करा दिया... जिस दर्द से आप गुज़री है या गुज़र रही है.... 😔
"After listening your poem/storytelling I got Goosebumps"....you might have heard a lot of time this comment. But for me After listening it, I was not able to stop my tears. I am commenting this after 35 min when my tears stopped. Amazing, connecting, feeling just wow
My story is a bit different, unlike every other relationship, we were very serious from the very beginning and it all started during covid, my confidence was down as i studied nothing in class 11 and teachers knew i was doing nothing suddenly i started feeling empty..........i started missing my old version who was good at things, in studies, in drawing, in violin but i was feeling that everything was lost i just wanted to regain myself and that was when she came in my life and in the beginning i lied to her about a achievement which was not mine ( i just wanted to feel comfortable, to feel secure out of that insecurity).....gradually in no time we were tooo attached and got connected emotionally, our project practicals came and we took admission to a tutor that was when the biggest mistake of my life came into effect, her mother asked my mother about that same old achievement and my mother denied resulting in that she attempted a suicide, which terrified me like hell.......i lied to her and made up things, but i always wanted to tell her the truth but feared losing her since then i stopped lying to her..............ever single moment of the 1 year we were together is like the closest thing to my heart.............i went to commit suicide when my mother called me and then i felt that my mother loved me soo much, i love her i love her i love her moree than anything .........at present she knows the truth and has left me telling that i faked everything,,,,,,,,,,,,,my love for her was never fake never ever, i walked miles to save money to give her present, i was awake nights when she was sick, felt the tension, the anxiety whenever she was sad about anything..........and just because of one lie, MY ENTIRE LIFE, MY TRUE LOVE, MY JAAN was lost......................BLOCKED FROM WHATSAPP, TELEGRAM, INSTAGRAM AND FROM HER MOTHER...............SHE NEVER REALIZED MY LOVE BUT IT WASNT HER FAULT IT WAS ME WHO WAS AT FAULT OUR NIGHT TALKS OUR HOLDING HANDS US ALSO BEING BEST FRIENDS OUR DEEP BOND OUR TRUST OUR MOMENT OF 1 YEAR WAS LOST IN JUST A SINGLE DAY BUT MY LOVE FOR HER WILL NEVER DIE
Some will say it's a nibba nibbi pyaar but it hurts no matter at what age..... in my case I don't even get any reason for break-up which makes me more depressed and broken it's been 2 years but still I'm there mentally
@@adityaverma8588 ya some say soo bro but love is love afterall and u know what brother it hurts very very very much.......kabhi kabhi to aisa lagta hai ki khudko harm karta rhu but then try to bring back my senses and it is very difficult
@@andrerussel7918 harming yourself is not the solution....you know you love her that's it you don't need any explanation to give to anyone because no matter how you explained,cry a person who feel betrayed will never understand you, your feeling
I can feel ur pain 🥺♥️......i also jst want to cry pr uski baahon mein.....i miss him more than anything else....he was the most beautiful thing in my life.....
Hi sister❤ maybe I can not feel your pain but can understand it. When we truly love someone we don't want them to leave at any cost, and we could do anything to be with them again. But, we cannot escape the reality that people do change. And we have to accept that, so we could move forward. I know it is quite easy for me to discuss these philosophical things, as I am not part of this pain, but I am telling you all this because it is the only way out! Gradually you will see that you are making progress. Don't suppress your emotions, feel them. Don't hate yourself in case you still miss them, we just can't forget everything, we are human. My only request is that don't cling to yourself in the past. The person you loved is no longer the same. The more you think about him in a certain way, the worse your mental health will get. If you want to cry, cry. If you want to scream, scream. Things will get better trust me. Sending prayers and love sister ❤
@@atuldwivedi3959 Thankyou soo much for sending all this. Means a lot to me... We all know everything but accepting the things take time. I can understand what u wrote.
Vanika you are a soul to story, the poetry.. No doubt that it was so relatable, no doubt that this was emotional, but what I was feeling all through this with the shedding tears of mine that The little heart inside has so much courage to speak up to ventilate, not the smiles but the pain... Vanika i love you ❤️ Shayad shabd hi h but feeling h isme ✨ Keep growing this way ❤️
So phenomenal.....I couldn't believe she delivered it so beautifully n those teary eyed...though I can't relate to this break up concept but yes I do believe to live ones pain to emerge stronger...coz the more u hide ur pain from outside the weaker u turn inside....
Just can't put in words but someone who is going through this phase knows how difficult it is & i feel each & every word. Since the 1 word till last word i cried & i felt it. Ur the best !! Lots of love from Mumbai!!!
4th December 2022 she call me, and say I need brake for some time.... And 9th December 2022 she getting married to a doctor, which I get to know on 17th December when she came to college for exam.... Literally she don't even look at me and act like she doesn't know me.... We are in relationship since 30th January, 2020.... She don't even talk to me for the last time, which hurt me most.... I wish that she will never be happy in his life🙏💔
How do you always manage to make so emotional content? Hats off to you girl! :) On the brighter side, sometimes pain can give you content too 😂 & I really hope you're fine now ❤️😀
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Me too same here
She said right," We should cry and feel our pain but just in our own arms." And I felt that 🥺🙂❤️
I agree with uh sister 🥺❤️
Me to
Right yr after cheated it's like everything is finished n heart tells fire the whole world 🥺
No words 🥺
Yes now I am feeling one one word of it
Vanika, thank you so much for putting my feelings into words. I recently went through a breakup and I've been feeling the exact same way. 3 years of being together, 2 years in a live - in, 1 year long distance during covid. It's not so easy to let go. It's even worse when that person is not just a romantic partner but also your bestfriend. The last 3-4 months I constantly had this gut feeling that it's coming to an end. I cried every single day, even on days when we didn't fight. I had constant anxiety. I stopped doing the things that I love. Stopped eating proper meals because I wouldn't feel hungry because my stomach constantly churned. And after you're with a person for so long, you only recognise yourself with them. When they're gone, it's not just that person that leaves, but the person that YOU were with them also leaves. You feel shattered, lonely, incomplete and healing is not an overnight process. It takes weeks, months, years even. Because it also triggers things that happened in your past relationships and you feel so many things at once that you just feel numb. I could not share about our fights with my friends because they would just say things like "toxic ho raha hai, chod do". Par itna asaan to nahi hota na. Jiske saath poori life plan karo, ek future dekho, use itni jaldi bhula dena, nai zindagi banana, asaan to nahi hai na? Aur baat yahan asaan mushkil ki hoti, to jis insaan ko apni poori duniya, apni poori khushi, apna sab kuch mana tha, usko khud se hi dur hote dekhna, uska pyaar roz thoda thoda kam hote dekhne se to asaan hi tha na alag ho jana? Ant me to usne kaha tha ki Palak, kuch nai pata hota. Kya pata aage jaake destiny hume fir mila de? Hum fir saath ho jae? This time we'll be better people, better partners. That hope. That hope killed me. Isse accha to usne seedha bol diya hota ki nai hai ab pyaar. Chod do mujhe, dur chali jao. It's hardly been a month since we decided to part ways and expects me to still be friends with him not realising how hard it is for me to not love him. The face that I held every single morning and the lips that I kissed so gently, the arms that held me tight everytime I broke down into pieces, the very heavy leg that rested on mine every night we cuddled to sleep. Gone. Not mine to touch anymore. Those hands not mine to hold anymore. Those eyes not mine to stare into anymore.
Your words helped me get the closure that I could not get from him. I don't know if you'll ever read this, or if anyone will ever read this, but if you're goinf through a similar situation, I'm sending lots of love and warm hugs your way. I hope you heal and become the best version of yourself. I want to tell you that, "This, too shall pass". Stay strong. Aur yaad rakhna, jo pyaar use diya hai, wo khud ko deke dekho. You need it more than them. Trust me.
You're a very strong girl💕
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You are really strong i don't know how you managed till now 5-6 years relationship tum kaise jhel rahi ho tumhi samjh sakti ho
Yr aise logon ka jab Mann bhar jata hai to seedha seedha Hume batate nahin ki ab hume tumse baat nahin karni bas hamare emotions se khelte rehte hain aur hume koi sidha jawab nahin dete
More strength to you!
World's best story teller award goes to Vanika Sangtani 😍😍😍😍😍😍
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How old is she?
@@yashvi3448 27 maybe
Also abhash jhaa
When u realise she's been emotionally narrating this... 🙂.. She was choking on tears I guess... I hope she's fine🌸
Perhaps it's her talent. May be you noticed that she brings it to life ,whatever story she tells. "owesom story teller"
This was the video where she was not reciting what she had prepared but she was pouring her heart out. Vanika… you’re a gem✨
The way she is narrating the story ..
Is next level....always next level
The audience understood the assignment when they instantly joined in with the claps to her song at the end!
Yeah passed the vibe check
Vanika is my favourite story teller on this channel ✨❤️
Literally her words are emotion ✨❤️
Mine too🥺
@@sam7890hh 💙
@@sam7890hh 🥺🥹
Same ❤
Mine too
I can literally feel the pain she is telling about and the pain in her voice make the story more powerful ♥️♥️♥️
I was able to feel the pain in ur voice. Its been 5 months that he left me n I was embarrassed that I still cry over it so I dn't really tell any one but today m not embarrassed that I am crying. I m giving my self time to heal to feel the pain. The pain is beautiful too
I can feel you but i hope you will be fine vry soon❤️more energy to you
Yes jab aap iss cheez se bahar aane lagte ho ekdum free sa feel hota hai jaise koi bojh utar Gaya ho jab hum accept kar lete hain tabhi hum iss sabse bahar nikal pate hain
जब आप destiny के नाम पर, बहुत कुछ खोकर आगे बढ़ते हो ना तब आपको खोने से ज्यादा डर उस destiny को पाने का लगता है l 💜 Heart touching line 💜
This line : "The difference is that the arms are now mine and I want to hug and cry"🙂.
She was literally crying a lot from inside and a faded version was visible to us❤️ ..... loved the way she narrated her story🥺🥺
“pyar me log padte hai par kuch log badhte hai" exactly 💯 true line..❤️🤞🏻
These lines:
-feel the pain,dard ke sath jiyo,pain makes us stronger;💯🔥
The best part:- feel the pain, it is the pain which makes you feel strong 🤟🏻
My 2 year and 17 days relationship ended by her yesterday and I just want to say
Being addicted to someone is not a joke that shit harts a lot!! 😌💔
Toh agli baar, sirf pyaar mein padna nahi hai, par pyaar mein badhna hai.
Sing even when the world says you dont sing well, love yourself, hug yourself, you are only there for yourself😇❤️
How vanika held her tears back on the stage....explains ....all the pain with which she has gone through 🥺
So relatable ! It's so true that people often come up with saying it's just a break up, move on..stay busy , find another guy.. But rather it's so important to live that pain, feel every inch of it.. feel yourself and the other person's absence in your life. Just so you fall in love with yourself more in the end. :')
That last time when she sang it was so beautiful how the audience started to clap😘
How people replace us from their life..??
One day we are everything,
the next day we are nothing....
Some day they pray to get us,
And another day they regret to love us...
Time changes.. Views change.. People change..
It hurts, but it happens! 😔😢😢😢
Very well said
@@joondas8920 reality hai bhai 😞
Yes being forgotten by the person we can never forget actually hurts
Me watching this on the 2nd day of my breakup... lying in the bed , crying feeling my pain...then UA-cam show this notification..... I can see ur pain in ur words....I'm here ending a 4 yr toxic relationship..
He never loved me im realising that now..
Hyy you are strong just move on for your self for everybody who loves you 😃
It's not that much easy. When u r the only one who feels the pain in a relationship.
@@AN...94 I agree but jab usko tumhari koi fikar hi nahi to tum kyu uske liye ro
It's totally okay to feel bad... See some movies nd whatever you want ye sub pass ho jayega... Lekin jo bhi ho rha bus use ye soch k jiyo.. Ki inke through hi hame nikalna hai..... I am still healing... Bus aisha hi hota hai ek ensan jo kabhi rahta hi nhi... Dusra usi k liye rota hai... I have seen so many cases sub shi hoga... Bus healing bhi isi k through hogi... Take it as challenge... Sub shi hoga...
@@yashagrawal9308 bcz i was happy wt him... That's y I'm always try to keep this relationship even after so many hurts.. but now it's time to end
It's have been 8 months completely..... Every day i think about that girl and cry
Her voice is quivering. It takes a lot of courage even to say what you feel and here she opened her heart out❤
Everytime I see her cry on stage, I always have a sudden urge to just hug her. As the eldest child of the family, I always wanted a big brother or sister. She is elder sister I'd love to cry with, talk with, and laugh with. The strongest elder sister I always wished for❤
I can feel the pain, those anxiety, numbness, pain in her voice, I don't want to look back but can't help it & it takes a lot of courage to recite such things
"Story, that has the power to make someone tear up, is the one which pierces through the heart."
Saw you as a.little girl in MGPS, playing role of shinchan and look at you now, how far have you come. Spreading lovely smile everywhere.
Loving, teaching, inspiring so many beings out here.
Thank you for this, V.
Lots of love and strength to you.❤️Rise and shine.
Mujhe harna nahi hai...mujhe nikal na hai is pain se ....yaar sab duaa karo mere liye...🙏😭😭😭😭😭
May god give u Lots of happiness
Nikl paye kya aap is pain se agar ha to please meri help bhi kr dijiye me bhi 3 year se try kr rhi hu
The pain, the shiver in voice, the tears that hurt couldn't roll down to the cheeks. Ugh the grief this is just so painful 😭
I even couldn't express what I'm going through rn...i was literally crying throught the story.
Seems like we are sailing on the same boat rn 🤍
Yeah I'm sitting behing two of u... That makes 3 of us
@@rachnakhawas6425 yeah we are.......💔
@@abhichintu4454 ❤️
Me too..
Start to end, my story. Didn't expect that day to be the last day to hug them like that.
Exactly it happens
I could feel each word she spoke.....it's so important to accept that your pain is justified and it's okay to feel pain and grief....it's fresh it's just been 11days that I had the shayad phir iss janam mein mulakaat ho naa ho moment!
Her falter voice is sufficient to see her pain🙂💔....
I feel it 🙃
Every broken heart can feel this pain in her voice and can relate with own story 💔
yaad uski roj aari h , frk itna h ki roj dukhi hota hu ki wo saath nahi or yaad aa rahi h ,
aaj khush hu ki dukhi hoke he sahi usse yaad krke km se km khud k pass toh rakha h.
Yeah...thinking about moments spent with her, thinking about chats, talks and beautiful memories with her... crying alone is the best option. Automatically will start getting emotional letting her go. I felt that 🙂❣️
Kya bola yr...... seriously after my Breakup mai iss video ko dekhkar bhut sukun mein aa gaya hoon.... thanks UA-cam for recommend this video
Got Goosebumps after watching
how beautifully you expressed you emotions ❤️💝 and you are a great singer too💕
Not what we wanted to hear but what we all needed to hear!
"EMBRACE YOUR PAIN"
More power to you girl 👏
I can see my younger version in her......... I just wanted to cry cry and cry....... And I cried for almost 2 years and then I realised that he just don't deserve me............and then I found the strongest version myself.....!!!! 😎😎
When she said :- jab aap destiny ke naam par bahot kuch kho kr aage badte ho na to aako khone se jada dar paane me lgta hai .......... I felt goosebumps 💕💕🥀like I felt in my skin and soul.
I cried the whole time... I am going through something very similar.. thank you for your words.. this crying session was much needed.. ❤️ more power to you and anyone who is going through "just a breakup"
More power to you too! 😊❤️
Everything will be ok 😍❤️god bles uh
It’s not just a story , it’s an emotion coming out through the story, and the way she expressed it was next level ♥️♥️♥️
This pain always on boys
Kahani sunte sunte Khudki Kahani ko Phirse ankho ke smne paya Mene! Goose bumps aa gye 🙂 Kya Kru kbhi socha bhi toh nhi tha na ki Kahani sunte sunte ek din hmari Adhuri Kahani title par jyega hmari Kahani ka! I don't know why I'm writing this but 🙂
I can connect with this story, I had breakup💔, but still unable to overcome the hangover, even tough the other person had moved on with other guy, as if nothing happened between us....
Didn't know Vanika ma'am is a great singer too😉❤️✨
Now you know na 🥺❤️
8:49 literally got goosebumps
Yes
Its not easy, recently i too had a break up, u plead to that person, beg. None works, if they decide to leave you they will, sonner or later. Hard to accept but these is the reality,your daily routine fucks up, appetite chala jata hae.
This is true that why we can't understand ourselve, we lost 😞
Breakup nothing, give fight your dreams, forgot breakup 🤗
I went 10 years back after watching this video. But the fact is it doesn't make me sade or cry because after a period of time and with the right person your emotions changed
Every Single line she spoke just felt right here in the heart 🥺❤
Vanika you're the best story teller🥰
The way you were narrating story just put tears in our eyes as well😭😭
Pyaar me kuch log padte h, aur mai pyaar me na sirf badhi hu balki heal bhi hui hu ❤❤
You made me cry🥺 there is so much pain in your voice
Friend, best friend, partner , go to person , my human diary, my support, my love ...all lost 💔 can't stop thinking about him 💔
Wada kiya tha usne nibhaya nhi ydd rahega zindagi bhr glti ki thi maine jo kabhi ni bhula paungi heartbroken 💔🥺🥺🥺
I wanna say my story.. break up is the worst things..life chalti h par hmare pas life ka koi motive nhi hota.. kuch krne ka mn nhi krta.. neend aati nhi ..pr jb aa jati h to uthne ka mn nhi krta .. everyone wants to be Loved..but this generation is full of playboys and Playgirls.. who can play with your hearts... just wo soch bhi nhi skte that attachment hurts a lot..like u have lost him and can't get him back is the worst feeling u can ever have ...jb dil todna he hota h to dil se khud ko jodte kyu ho.. attraction aur pyar me difference smjh lo fir he pyar kro na ..aisa lgta h duniya khatam ho gyi h..apne ambition pe focus bhi nhi kr pate qki wo insan aapki Puri duniya bn jata h..and u want to enjoy your success with that person..itne sare sleepless nights..self doubts aata h break up k bad..why.. kyu aaye tum mere life me..i really loved u and my love was pure..kyu chora mujhe ye thought pr ki pyar sb mjak hota h .
Going through😐
कुछ यादें बिना याद किए याद आ जाती है....अगर समझ गए तो प्यार सच्चा वाला किया है आपने❤️✨🙂
😔😔😔
Jo apne bola bilkul theek ha insaan tho chale jate ha lekin memories chor jate ha. And hame vo memories hi sabse jyada hurt karti ha sabse jyada rulati ha but kuch time baad sab kuch firse pehle jesa normal ho jata ha . Rehne ki adat pad jati h kyunki insaan chor ke jata ha zindagi nhi. Zindagi jeeni padti ha. And kisi ke jane se ham tut te nhi or strong bante ha ❤
Literally the pain is seeing not even in his eyes but in ever words hatsss of to the such a legend personality u not only teach us how to grew up but also how to embrace the pain ......❤️🥰
This hurts so bad. Cried while watching. Watched this before but now that I re-watch, I've experienced what she's saying. Loving with the intention of never leaving and getting cheated on, everything changes with one action. It still hurts to think about it, but maybe I've learnt to accept the pain.
Thank u it was really needed...we really need to know that it's ohk to cry out for think that affect us...we are brave enough to deal with any situation...thank u for making me realise that i don't need to hide my pain...and should talk to myself about it
bhot khush kismat h vo log jo kuch bol pate h apne favor m hme toh ek trfa doshi bna diya ki tu hi glt
she is 1000% feeling while telling✨ even i can feel it
In a world where everyone tells u to ignore your emotions, you are the only one who tells to feel our emotions. This video is really one of your best videos
Couldn't stop crying! So beautifully expressed Vanika! 🥺👏♥️
Mai sochti thi mai akeli hu ....jise ye sab kuch hota hoga....khud ko alag feel karti thi kaise mai kisi ke liye ithna pain feel kar sakti hu ....lekin when I heard your story I can totally relate of your every word and and that sisk which you try to hold and control.......there are many more are gone through this .....but one things you said is true pain ko bhulne se ya chodne se nhi. ....bulki use jine se Kam hoga......dhire dhire hai sahi wo pain tumhe khush se pyar karna sikhayega kisi ajnabi kuch salo se jankar agar tum itna pyar kar sakti ho to socho agar khud ko Jan lo to kitna karne lagogi......be strong whoever go through this phase ....this time will also pass....
When she left me for someone after the 4years of relationship that day I feel what is the heart break and pain of heartbreaking
It hurts a lots 💔
Same here.
Dude i know how it feels
My relationship was just of 4 months when she decided to leave coz she found someone better than me ,n if just these 4 months of togetherness can hurt me so much then i can understand what u r going through after 4 years of togetherness.
This world is a place where we meet loyal people by luck ,it's too hard to find loyal people.
We can't do anything about it.
We just have to accept that they are gone n they r never gonna come back.
N just remember u deserve better bro.
Stay strong🤝🏻✨
We actually don't miss the person, we miss the good memories we has
I don't know how to tell this but....this is same as mine....the difference is our relationship was for 4 months and we didn't broke up right the next day of that beautiful memory of us...bt after that last day it was lockdown and that feeling was totally same....u already know that feeling 😅...lag ja gale was both of our fav song and I never thought that it will ever relate with me in such a way....in the same way as yours, our relationship had already died earlier...I just realised lately...when he said we are no more into it, I couldn't feel it...that night I thought I was dreaming something worst....then upto few days I used to think that may be he is preparing for any kind of surprise for my birthday...may b I went crazy or something but didn't accept it anyway....it was like I was in any kind of hangover for few days....after almost a month he burst out suddenly in a midnight and after listening to the complaints he had against me, just like U I got an anxiety attack too about which no one knows....it's been about a year now since we broke up but still tbh I'm not able to accept that we are not together anymore and he already moved on where I still cannot get over the night I got anxiety attack...as I'm very bad at expressing, he got many things very wrong about me and for the same I never told him about this....Yes I wrote it and left it in my notes....today I had to put a lot of guts to leave this comment here, with very very low chance that he will ever see it 🙂
"Baahen Gale Men Daal Ke Ham Ro Le Zaar-Zaar.......
Aankhon Se Phir Ye Pyaar Ki Barasaat Ho Na Ho" .....
Bas baahen apni honi chahiye....
Aankhe to hamesha barasti rhti hai
Just try to hug yourself and say you're strong so don't cry ✨🖤
You touched many hearts and gave courage to accept and deal with their pain through your acceptance power in life.You are a gem 💫
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Nhi shalu tu har nhi skti.....just see your parents are waiting for your success.....tu harne ke liye nhi udne ke liye born huyi h😭🤌
He broke me into million pieces......but yah it's just a break-up.....and I am very strong...😭💔🤌
Tysmmmmmm vanika your words good gives me strength 🫂❤️🫶
I am going through same phase mujhe kya hogya pta hi ni lgta pichle 1.5 saal se kya chl rha kuch pta hi ni lgta na koi baat krne wala kisse share kru felling aaisa lgta sb pa ke bhi sb kuch kho chuka hu 😭😭
log apne marze se aate h aur apne marzi se chalejate h😢
वनिका मैंने आपकी बहुत सी कहानियाँ सुनी है.... और जितनी भी सुनी.... सभी मुझे बेहद अच्छी लगी... पर आपकी इस कहानी ने मुझे इमोशनल कर दिया यार....उस दर्द का एहसास करा दिया... जिस दर्द से आप गुज़री है या गुज़र रही है.... 😔
Words cannot describe what I'm feeling rn🙃❤️
Just love to listen vanika❤️❤️💝
I can feel her pain in her voice ,i wish every person u love in life is loyal nd take stand for u
"After listening your poem/storytelling I got Goosebumps"....you might have heard a lot of time this comment.
But for me After listening it, I was not able to stop my tears. I am commenting this after 35 min when my tears stopped.
Amazing, connecting, feeling just wow
Why can't I crrrrryyyyy 😢 I want to cry but it seems impossible now. 💔
My story is a bit different, unlike every other relationship, we were very serious from the very beginning and it all started during covid, my confidence was down as i studied nothing in class 11 and teachers knew i was doing nothing suddenly i started feeling empty..........i started missing my old version who was good at things, in studies, in drawing, in violin but i was feeling that everything was lost i just wanted to regain myself and that was when she came in my life and in the beginning i lied to her about a achievement which was not mine ( i just wanted to feel comfortable, to feel secure out of that insecurity).....gradually in no time we were tooo attached and got connected emotionally, our project practicals came and we took admission to a tutor that was when the biggest mistake of my life came into effect, her mother asked my mother about that same old achievement and my mother denied resulting in that she attempted a suicide, which terrified me like hell.......i lied to her and made up things, but i always wanted to tell her the truth but feared losing her since then i stopped lying to her..............ever single moment of the 1 year we were together is like the closest thing to my heart.............i went to commit suicide when my mother called me and then i felt that my mother loved me soo much, i love her i love her i love her moree than anything .........at present she knows the truth and has left me telling that i faked everything,,,,,,,,,,,,,my love for her was never fake never ever, i walked miles to save money to give her present, i was awake nights when she was sick, felt the tension, the anxiety whenever she was sad about anything..........and just because of one lie, MY ENTIRE LIFE, MY TRUE LOVE, MY JAAN was lost......................BLOCKED FROM WHATSAPP, TELEGRAM, INSTAGRAM AND FROM HER MOTHER...............SHE NEVER REALIZED MY LOVE BUT IT WASNT HER FAULT IT WAS ME WHO WAS AT FAULT
OUR NIGHT TALKS
OUR HOLDING HANDS
US ALSO BEING BEST FRIENDS
OUR DEEP BOND
OUR TRUST
OUR MOMENT OF 1 YEAR WAS LOST IN JUST A SINGLE DAY
BUT MY LOVE FOR HER WILL NEVER DIE
Some will say it's a nibba nibbi pyaar but it hurts no matter at what age..... in my case I don't even get any reason for break-up which makes me more depressed and broken it's been 2 years but still I'm there mentally
@@adityaverma8588 ya some say soo bro but love is love afterall and u know what brother it hurts very very very much.......kabhi kabhi to aisa lagta hai ki khudko harm karta rhu but then try to bring back my senses and it is very difficult
@@andrerussel7918 harming yourself is not the solution....you know you love her that's it you don't need any explanation to give to anyone because no matter how you explained,cry a person who feel betrayed will never understand you, your feeling
@@adityaverma8588 u are right brother...
The good thing is my mother is by my side supporting me to overcome the emotional pain that I am enduring
I can understand your situation bro
I had a similar story I still love him but can see only his pics
I can feel ur pain 🥺♥️......i also jst want to cry pr uski baahon mein.....i miss him more than anything else....he was the most beautiful thing in my life.....
Hi sister❤ maybe I can not feel your pain but can understand it. When we truly love someone we don't want them to leave at any cost, and we could do anything to be with them again. But, we cannot escape the reality that people do change. And we have to accept that, so we could move forward. I know it is quite easy for me to discuss these philosophical things, as I am not part of this pain, but I am telling you all this because it is the only way out! Gradually you will see that you are making progress. Don't suppress your emotions, feel them. Don't hate yourself in case you still miss them, we just can't forget everything, we are human. My only request is that don't cling to yourself in the past. The person you loved is no longer the same. The more you think about him in a certain way, the worse your mental health will get. If you want to cry, cry. If you want to scream, scream. Things will get better trust me. Sending prayers and love sister ❤
@@atuldwivedi3959 Thankyou soo much for sending all this. Means a lot to me... We all know everything but accepting the things take time. I can understand what u wrote.
Idk why my eyes were wet hearing this. Lots of love to you Vanika. I always look upto you. Thank you 💖
Donot past your pain
Live your pain ❤
You are so brave Vanika.. Keep it up. Lots of love & best wishes to you❤
Her each and every word is just so relatable 🤍🤍
Vanika you are a soul to story, the poetry.. No doubt that it was so relatable, no doubt that this was emotional, but what I was feeling all through this with the shedding tears of mine that
The little heart inside has so much courage to speak up to ventilate, not the smiles but the pain...
Vanika i love you ❤️
Shayad shabd hi h but feeling h isme ✨
Keep growing this way ❤️
Sahi kaha but patience rakho time ke sath dheere dheere sab thik hoga
it feels the pain🫀...dil pathar nahi h... emotions pathar nhi h💔
This channel was suggested by my friend and she right this is the best storyteller channel❤️😭
The most pain i ever feel that you beg for a hug ,beg for love from that person but you know that will be never happened again.
It's starts with my favourite song...and I can feel very word.. every line🖤" pain make us"🙃
The Girl Nailed the Last Lines...!!!!! Bahain b meri hayn aur khud ko Galay laga k rona chahti hun... Awesome!!!!!!!
Her voice is enough to prove that... "IT WASN'T JUST A BREAKUP"... 🙂💔
Vanika never fails to make us feel emotions 💔
if you love someone never ever hurt them if you do then please realise as soon as possible that person is dieing in every second 🥺
So phenomenal.....I couldn't believe she delivered it so beautifully n those teary eyed...though I can't relate to this break up concept but yes I do believe to live ones pain to emerge stronger...coz the more u hide ur pain from outside the weaker u turn inside....
Sahi kaha isliye koi share karne wala mil jata hai to aasani ho jati hai Varna bahut mushkil hota hai bahar nikalna
Just can't put in words but someone who is going through this phase knows how difficult it is & i feel each & every word. Since the 1 word till last word i cried & i felt it.
Ur the best !!
Lots of love from Mumbai!!!
ये कितनी cute हैं यार
Love to her interpretation
Same energy same feeling 😅
4th December 2022 she call me, and say I need brake for some time....
And 9th December 2022 she getting married to a doctor, which I get to know on 17th December when she came to college for exam.... Literally she don't even look at me and act like she doesn't know me....
We are in relationship since 30th January, 2020.... She don't even talk to me for the last time, which hurt me most....
I wish that she will never be happy in his life🙏💔
How do you always manage to make so emotional content? Hats off to you girl! :) On the brighter side, sometimes pain can give you content too 😂 & I really hope you're fine now ❤️😀