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КОМЕНТАРІ • 2 тис.

  • @krullzs
    @krullzs 3 роки тому +3546

    Let's simplify this, the only reason she wants to come back is because she doesn't have better options.
    Women are not regretful beings,
    Women are opportunistic beings.

    • @MisterE1976
      @MisterE1976 3 роки тому +210

      So true the late great Patrice O'Neal said it best "Women aren't lovable,they're leavable."

    • @LimboTheory
      @LimboTheory 3 роки тому +107

      But you gotta let them say it cause when we do then we're sexist lol

    • @Flrare2Dare
      @Flrare2Dare 3 роки тому +31

      @@LimboTheory accurate

    • @ericprieto4348
      @ericprieto4348 3 роки тому +28

      big facts!

    • @leeolie3728
      @leeolie3728 3 роки тому +38

      Yep. The sex is just the mold for the poop cake known as a relationship.

  • @aetzag5448
    @aetzag5448 3 роки тому +1862

    Ex girlfriend broke up with me 4 years ago. She said things were not the same. I didn't expect that, I didn't want it to end. However, I respected her decision and went our separate ways. Then, 6 months later she contacts me and comes clean. There was another guy who was giving her attention. I was just starting my first job after graduating, so I was busier. She, basically, admited monkey branching (breaking up first so I couldn't say she was a cheater). But, turns out this other guy was just messing around and she ended up single. I told her I'd think about it and she gave this hug full of hope... Then, days later, I told her I wasn't going back with her. She was very upset. Looking back it was the correct decision.

    • @carlmarch9591
      @carlmarch9591 3 роки тому +192

      Yep my ex wife did the same just for those bad boy tingles,when he dropped her and I levelled up I’ve had her constantly flirting putting out the feelers it’s embarrassing no thanks

    • @morielchukrun5574
      @morielchukrun5574 3 роки тому +138

      This is exactly what happened to me. I was 18 and we hanged out for a month, she broke it off and we went back after a year and a half, we've been in a relationship for almost two years, and in the first 4 months of it i discoverd that she dumped me for another dude but i forgave her. She broked it off again 2 months ago, and now i see her for what she really is,
      and I've had enough.

    • @lastname8102
      @lastname8102 3 роки тому +23

      Nicely done👍

    • @iiiiy9860
      @iiiiy9860 3 роки тому +54

      She was cheating
      Good choice

    • @fluffyjoker69
      @fluffyjoker69 3 роки тому +83

      You saved you're own life, assets, money, & a bunch of child support & alimony

  • @davidehl323
    @davidehl323 2 роки тому +533

    My wife of 20 years demanded a divorce. 3 months later she came back gaslighting asking me "are you sure this is what YOU want (meaning the divorce). Like somehow this was all my idea. My response was one word-"YES"- no discussion, no explanation, nothing but a stealy eyed look straight at her. One of the best decisions of my life. Don't ever take a wandering woman back, no matter what her reasons.

    • @vDorgengoa
      @vDorgengoa 2 роки тому +24

      Thank you for sharing.

    • @Zubair11230
      @Zubair11230 2 роки тому +19

      Good job man

    • @ManoftheMostHigh
      @ManoftheMostHigh 2 роки тому +23

      I trust your word brother..."WANDERING WOMAN"
      REALLY it me with that.
      It's a fact once a wanderer always a wanderer...

    • @FlyiDCG
      @FlyiDCG 2 роки тому +32

      I had this situation with an ex girlfriend. I moved on to other women and never called her after she "needed time for herself". She did the whole "How can you just move on like that? Did you ever even love me?" No reply blocked her and invested my time in the women I enjoyed being around.

    • @donbraga4863
      @donbraga4863 2 роки тому +7

      It is only the best decision if there was a prenup of some sorts, otherwise you're f*cked to an extend. Going through divorce now, two kids and yes.. she gets half of everything that I paid for, yipeee..

  • @namejeff6090
    @namejeff6090 3 роки тому +385

    I asked a girl out when I was in the Army, she worked in the DFAC and only time I could ask her was during lunch. I asked her out, in front of her friends, she said "I'm sorry, I have a boyfriend," I said "lol no need to apologize let me get the grapes and yogurt." I walked off and ate by myself. Few hours later one of her friends she was around came up to me asking for my number, after the work day, I gave it to her thinking she was gonna give it to her friend. She didn't she started texting me and we hit it off. The girl I originally asked out, seen us on a date one day and the look she gave her friend was priceless. You know those death stare looks. Her friend even told me she only said no to me to look cool in front of her friends. They're not friends anymore because apparently she took her "back up plan"🤣🤣🤣
    Men sometimes it isn't you it's her EGO and her Friends opinions.

    • @moonknight4053
      @moonknight4053 3 роки тому +11

      Are u guys still dating? And how’s it going if u are?

    • @brucekemoabe4133
      @brucekemoabe4133 2 роки тому +31

      Facts my ex broke up with me cause her friend was advising her that our relationship was purely sexual and nothing more. I was broken for a long time now am at a better place now last week I was celebrating a year of being single

    • @ChaosAngel667
      @ChaosAngel667 2 роки тому +28

      You walked off gallantly, all the girls on that room knew you were high value at that moment and the one who asked your number did it knowing full well that she was trading all her hyena friends for you.

    • @Wogix26
      @Wogix26 2 роки тому +1

      did you get pronounced out of the dorms?

    • @juniormansonge
      @juniormansonge 2 роки тому +5

      Well done Sarg.👏

  • @ljose007
    @ljose007 3 роки тому +1790

    "When she leaves, do not take her back." If she left once, she'll leave again, and besides, you do not know where she's been or what she's picked up along the way.

    • @dennisford8524
      @dennisford8524 3 роки тому +24

      Natural Suntan. You are so right, brother. Reminds me of that old MICHAEL COOPER "Think Before You Leave" song(1987). Go back further to his band, CONFUNKSHUN on that song about seen enough, heard enough, and giving up on love now baby🎵🎶. 😂

    • @damonglasse836
      @damonglasse836 3 роки тому +13

      Correct

    • @Space_Rebel
      @Space_Rebel 3 роки тому +18

      Blimey. Wish I knew that when I was twenty....

    • @adrianblania5565
      @adrianblania5565 3 роки тому +9

      Exactly.

    • @rlegendary8658
      @rlegendary8658 3 роки тому +6

      Facts

  • @sebswede9005
    @sebswede9005 3 роки тому +1116

    Girl: "I want you back".
    Guy: "Girl, we broke up for a reason. If you want me back, then we shouldn't have Broken Up in the first place".

  • @tuanf01
    @tuanf01 3 роки тому +379

    She only comes back because she was pumped and dumped by the guy she left you for. Never let them back in your life. You're the back up option.

    • @maryambashir4193
      @maryambashir4193 3 роки тому +1

      Don't give up on life and the universe I know of a great man who helped you me fix my broken hear beat relationship and everything was restored to pormal in days without delay

    • @erenssister.5535
      @erenssister.5535 Рік тому +2

      It's opposite for me lol. I broke up with my bf because our relationship was getting really toxic. We bring out the worst in each other. At one point I started to feel a resentment towards him. He always ignored me whenever I tried to talk to him. I realised I was only in a relationship with him because he sort of blackmailed me into it. It was one of those "if you leave me, i will kill myself" kind of situation. So, I gave it a shot. Huge mistake. I broke up with him and wished him well on his life. He has been begging me to take him back and even threatened suicide. I didn't budge because I know it will get uglier.

    • @jesuschristislord7754
      @jesuschristislord7754 Рік тому +2

      100%

  • @marcvslicinivscrassvs7536
    @marcvslicinivscrassvs7536 3 роки тому +74

    A man always has to be a woman's number one option (or believe strongly that he is). Once she breaks up with you, that illusion is destroyed. You have to move on because someone else has supplanted you.

  • @rajakghosh7160
    @rajakghosh7160 3 роки тому +1607

    When your ex comes back,
    Its not out of love otherwise she would not have had left you for someone else,
    It's not out of respect otherwise she would have never been with someone else and left you in despair,
    Its not because she cares because she knows you would be miserable if she leaves.
    She came back,
    Because she is out of options,
    Because the guy she left for had left her for some one else.
    Because you made her felt secure.
    Because you did everything for she wanted.
    You're were her safety.
    A Single life is better than a miserable companion.

  • @MisterE1976
    @MisterE1976 3 роки тому +1376

    Don't allow yourself to get played like a saved video game.

    • @Superbatmanbro
      @Superbatmanbro 3 роки тому +24

      All the girls in this videos completely crazy and honestly don’t have any brain cells but it is true they will come back

    • @Dayonetheone
      @Dayonetheone 3 роки тому +10

      I Love that Analogy.

    • @barbatos673
      @barbatos673 3 роки тому +8

      quick save for life

    • @rhysweaver7178
      @rhysweaver7178 3 роки тому +13

      Best analogy ever.

    • @StariYTube1
      @StariYTube1 3 роки тому +2

      👏👏👏👏

  • @sriramprarmy
    @sriramprarmy 3 роки тому +86

    People will miss you when you are looking good and doing good..
    Success is the massive revenge 🔥

    • @3alarm247
      @3alarm247 2 роки тому +2

      That’s true, my ex sent me a friend request on FB, saw I was doing great, and then blocked me without as much as a conversation. Smh

  • @jerfle7787
    @jerfle7787 3 роки тому +114

    She left because the butterflies stage is over and she is bored. She seeks excitement. She comes back for the security of a relationship.

    • @katashi222
      @katashi222 2 роки тому +4

      Yes agreed, but never be a spare tire for a woman!!!

    • @qdontae6
      @qdontae6 Рік тому

      Women are evil bro wtf lol

  • @MicadelicMindset
    @MicadelicMindset 3 роки тому +939

    Once they go, do YOURSELF the favor of letting them go.

    • @Slimc74
      @Slimc74 3 роки тому +16

      Lay down that D when she calls you at 1am though.

    • @nocturnaljoe9543
      @nocturnaljoe9543 3 роки тому +12

      @@Slimc74 Bruh

    • @Walking-MY-Path
      @Walking-MY-Path 3 роки тому +11

      And NEVER accept them back EVER.

    • @nocturnaljoe9543
      @nocturnaljoe9543 3 роки тому +2

      @The Simp That Sat By The Door You are right. If she can make you show up at 1 am for her pre owned punani, then you really need to grow some balls.

    • @juicyhudson513.
      @juicyhudson513. 3 роки тому +1

      100%.

  • @solusaldrain
    @solusaldrain 3 роки тому +1024

    They found a goofy reason to leave you once. They'll do it again. They saw a better option out there and let you go. If that branch breaks, let em fall.

    • @ljose007
      @ljose007 3 роки тому +55

      "If that branch breaks, let 'em fall." Well said. LOL

    • @Sho-Nuff007
      @Sho-Nuff007 3 роки тому +19

      5 ⭐ comment 😉👍🏾

    • @yungcash4638
      @yungcash4638 3 роки тому +11

      Preach

    • @greyman6353
      @greyman6353 3 роки тому +51

      They left because in their hypergamous minds they feel they can do better than you. They only came back for the security of a relationship while they look around again. If you were not good enough for her once you will never be good enough in her eyes

    • @davidc5247
      @davidc5247 3 роки тому +14

      Spot on and let them keep falling

  • @Stuy777
    @Stuy777 3 роки тому +30

    Rule number 1 guys.. never ever EVER take them back, have some self respect!

  • @ObservantPiratePlus
    @ObservantPiratePlus 3 роки тому +163

    I was dumped by a British chick for another guy, right after we went out to a live music show. Met another lady that same night, started talking, and we became friends. Next day, the hammer came down and I was dumped. The friendship I had with the other girl blossomed into something more. The Brit girl called one day, wanting to come back. I had the deep pleasure of telling her that the new lady and I were in love, and that the Brit chick can kick bricks. And *click* went the phone on my end. Been married to that lady I met that night for 13 years and ongoing. What can I say? I married my best friend...a woman that knows her proper, respectful, submissive role with a HVM.

    • @Comeswoopfam
      @Comeswoopfam 2 роки тому +2

      U married a complete stranger lol

    • @juniormansonge
      @juniormansonge 2 роки тому +2

      Incredible ❤️

    • @bababamooo906
      @bababamooo906 2 роки тому +1

      Super !

    • @Sapanator
      @Sapanator Рік тому +1

      Marrying your best friend seems to be the best way to create a happy marriage. Congratulations on finding your unicorn.

    • @YourHineyness
      @YourHineyness 7 місяців тому

      I tried to marry my best friend but he said "no, I'm not gay". Good thing. I'm not gay either.@@Sapanator

  • @subjer0
    @subjer0 3 роки тому +427

    They are finding out actions have consequences, and they don't like it. Too bad so sad.

    • @ljose007
      @ljose007 3 роки тому +13

      "Too bad so sad." Lol!

    • @christianbenn316
      @christianbenn316 3 роки тому +4

      I agree they made up their bed they must lie down in it

    • @christianrissotto.gordohom3478
      @christianrissotto.gordohom3478 3 роки тому

      Not really , all you need is to understand that the universe moves everything where it belongs.

  • @izzojunior
    @izzojunior 3 роки тому +747

    “Never try to understand women, just understand a woman’s nature”
    ~ Random wise man

    • @colinesquire2480
      @colinesquire2480 3 роки тому +2

      🤔

    • @willco601
      @willco601 3 роки тому +2

      @Mike Robber Al Bundy=wisest man ever. AB's life lessons have saved me a lot of time and money.

    • @willco601
      @willco601 3 роки тому +7

      @Mike Robber If women can't understand themselves, or each other, then it would be a waste of time for men to try.

    • @javierlandry7246
      @javierlandry7246 3 роки тому

      YEAH

    • @cosmicvagrant3980
      @cosmicvagrant3980 3 роки тому +6

      Black holes swallow entire galaxies of resources, still demand MORE!

  • @UmbraShepard
    @UmbraShepard 3 роки тому +89

    Ex GF: I want you back.
    Ex Crush: I always liked you.
    Me: I don't do refunds.

    • @BrandonJohnsonGameStation
      @BrandonJohnsonGameStation 3 роки тому +5

      Ex GF: I want you back, BJ
      BJ Johnson: I've always hated you since the beginning and everything you done in your life up to now your conservative valves is to blame

    • @greyman6353
      @greyman6353 3 роки тому +5

      Believe her actions not her words. Words are the cheapest currency.

    • @itzTobi11
      @itzTobi11 Рік тому +1

      They're now considered CLOSE-OUTS .

  • @arevir68rivera
    @arevir68rivera 3 роки тому +25

    Never, ever take her back. If she left you once, she'll do it again... and again.

  • @armageddonjones3110
    @armageddonjones3110 3 роки тому +497

    A woman will break up with a man, trash talk him to her family, friends, and his friends. Then she’ll turn around and want him back.

    • @lateefshabazz1016
      @lateefshabazz1016 3 роки тому +36

      So true and narcissistic

    • @BenjiPOTF
      @BenjiPOTF 3 роки тому +30

      I am not sure how many have heard this but, whenever an ex tries getting back together they say I never talked bad about you to anyone.
      First thing that comes to mind if you didn't say anything bad you wouldn't be saying this out of nowhere.

    • @armageddonjones3110
      @armageddonjones3110 3 роки тому +19

      @@BenjiPOTF 100% Facts, and they also like to call late at night to “confess” how much they miss you,

    • @BenjiPOTF
      @BenjiPOTF 3 роки тому +4

      @@armageddonjones3110 yea. Heard that one too.

    • @oscaraurelio8869
      @oscaraurelio8869 3 роки тому +8

      @@armageddonjones3110 The female equivalent of men's drunk late evening/very early morning phone calls. Notice how us men need to be drunk to make the same move lol.

  • @AEdavirgin
    @AEdavirgin 3 роки тому +696

    They probably see you happy and want to ruin that.

    • @jasondyrkacz8270
      @jasondyrkacz8270 3 роки тому +53

      Man: *Happy*
      Woman: *Most affected*

    • @solusaldrain
      @solusaldrain 3 роки тому +26

      "They will try..." Darth Vader.

    • @STB-jh7od
      @STB-jh7od 3 роки тому +10

      Absolutely 😉😁

    • @ljose007
      @ljose007 3 роки тому +11

      So true. Therefore, never let them see you sad. Even if times are rough don't let them see that. The Devil can't read your mind but he can read your actions. BTW, I'm not saying that she's the devil, just making a general statement.

    • @DALivi-dc7jz
      @DALivi-dc7jz 3 роки тому +20

      @@ljose007 Nah you were right she is the devil lol

  • @jeremiahgiles3593
    @jeremiahgiles3593 3 роки тому +38

    Point blank - she thought she could do better than you and she found out she indeed COULD NOT

  • @nicholashernandez4611
    @nicholashernandez4611 3 роки тому +15

    If and when a woman leaves you, thank them for their younger years and never take them back. You got their best, leave them with the rest. You are better than your own sloppy seconds.

  • @DapperDonzX
    @DapperDonzX 3 роки тому +597

    Once she leaves you heart broken. The more you are on your purpose. The more valuable you are. The more options you have as a man that’s on his purpose. Remember fellas NEVER take back your ex. She’s been ran through her whole life before and after you met her. She basically doesn’t have any value in the sexual market place. What value does your ex brings besides stress? Stay on your purpose fellas.

    • @Superbatmanbro
      @Superbatmanbro 3 роки тому +13

      🤣🤣 these woman could never leave because their heart won’t let them and their emotions and feelings always get in the way

    • @Superbatmanbro
      @Superbatmanbro 3 роки тому +7

      @Y'allaresomerapistniggers Y'all are mad 🤣🤣🥃☕️ lesbians can have them I’ll be chilling and vibin 😎🍾🍸

    • @Walking-MY-Path
      @Walking-MY-Path 3 роки тому +2

      @Y'allaresomerapistniggers Y'all are mad Stay mad and miserable we could care less.

    • @CBRRR-eh3ky
      @CBRRR-eh3ky 3 роки тому +3

      Very well said

    • @Amctothemoon
      @Amctothemoon 3 роки тому +12

      She was never yours , it was just your turn

  • @latt.qcd9221
    @latt.qcd9221 3 роки тому +423

    Your great grandma didn't stay with your great grandpa by your great grandma chasing after the "tingles." A grown adult woman is mature enough to recognize that there's more to a relationship than simply being "entertained" all the time like an infant. Your great grandma knew that the kind of love that lasts takes work and isn't exciting and glamorous.

    • @alexinfinite7142
      @alexinfinite7142 3 роки тому +11

      Well said

    • @biplav32
      @biplav32 3 роки тому +11

      Na. They just didn't have better option thats all.

    • @commiewhigham7149
      @commiewhigham7149 3 роки тому +9

      You are preaching truth, good job......🤗

    • @BlaBla-jj6sh
      @BlaBla-jj6sh 3 роки тому +35

      your great grandma didn't have Tinder and other antisocial media to cater to her narcissistic addiction to likes and attention. Women haven't fundamentally changed and never will. Even the first woman, Eve, manipulated a man into doing the one thing that was prohibited and then blamed a serpent for it rather than accepting responsibility. It is your job as a man to understand women not by their words but by their actions and act accordingly.

    • @sirmeurtrier6951
      @sirmeurtrier6951 3 роки тому +10

      @@BlaBla-jj6sh Not only that but you don't let a woman lead you AND you need to lead the woman because if she is left to make her own decisions, she will destroy her life in one way or another.

  • @MrGchiasson
    @MrGchiasson 3 роки тому +44

    Men, ask yourself..is your life better, easier, less drama, more serene & happy when she was gone?
    Answer that honestly. Then take a deep breath...and tell her to get lost!

  • @lahitman
    @lahitman 3 роки тому +56

    My ex of 8 years left for another guy monkey branched right over to him when I was at my low point in my life. Her new guy didn't work out. She calls me 6 years later tells me she STILL LOVES ME! haha I said uhuh. By this time I had been dating some hotties got my shit together and I said " I am not taking you back." Get out meet new women. Let her go.

    • @katashi222
      @katashi222 2 роки тому +2

      Cheers!!! 💯🤙🏁

  • @The.S.M.Evans.91
    @The.S.M.Evans.91 3 роки тому +322

    Most of these women don’t want you back because they’ve learned their lesson; it’s because most of the other men wouldn’t put up with their bs, or they’ll try to get with you only because they don’t want you with anyone else. They just don’t want you to be happy.

    • @user-ot2nh8qb7d
      @user-ot2nh8qb7d 3 роки тому +19

      As the old adage goes “misery loves company.” You’ll see this among women as well. They give each other disingenuous advice because of that very saying. And you end up with a generation of mislead women, sad really.

    • @The.S.M.Evans.91
      @The.S.M.Evans.91 3 роки тому +1

      @@user-ot2nh8qb7d You're right

    • @antaresbnv3350
      @antaresbnv3350 3 роки тому +1

      Well said

    • @TheShowOff2I
      @TheShowOff2I 3 роки тому +9

      Exactly, they leave to try to upgrade but then realize that the new guy is never going to give them commitment or a relationship so she comes crawling back because women hate not being in relationships and single

    • @The.S.M.Evans.91
      @The.S.M.Evans.91 3 роки тому

      @@TheShowOff2I Exactly

  • @ayandamafuyeka1952
    @ayandamafuyeka1952 3 роки тому +299

    How the Bible sums this up.
    Hosea 2:7 GNT
    She will run after her lovers but will not catch them. She will look for them but will not find them. Then she will say, “I am going back to my first husband-I was better off then than I am now.”

    • @dansogordon1010
      @dansogordon1010 3 роки тому +12

      🙌🏾💎

    • @gdolphy
      @gdolphy 3 роки тому +59

      Thanos 4:1 2021 translation.
      You did all that to avoid the inevitable. Where did it lead you? Right back to me.

    • @TshepoMavimbela
      @TshepoMavimbela 3 роки тому +4

      Iwaar le stru

    • @Xqvance
      @Xqvance 3 роки тому +3

      That’s crazy.

    • @PermanentHigh
      @PermanentHigh 3 роки тому +22

      Thottin since the old days. Damn.

  • @CdrChaos
    @CdrChaos 3 роки тому +162

    “I yearn for true gender equality.”
    - Kazuma Satou
    When she comes back, treat her like an option. Nothing more. You weren’t her goal, you were an option. Treat her the same way.

    • @itachigrain4651
      @itachigrain4651 3 роки тому +8

      Man of culture too eh, tsk tsk tsk

    • @CdrChaos
      @CdrChaos 3 роки тому +4

      @@itachigrain4651 Ah, I see you’re a man of culture as well.

    • @thesciencerapshow
      @thesciencerapshow 2 роки тому +11

      Yes sir. Had a girl who hurt me pretty bad but when she came back for the value I could provide I literally gave her a whole ass list of boundaries and made it very very clear we could be fbuddies and nothing more and nothing less and if she ever disrespected or disregarded me she would be replaced with my other options.
      Never take her back, but if you still want to mess around keep in mind to treat her like what she is for. The streets.

    • @bootscooty
      @bootscooty 2 роки тому +1

      Just be alone. Get a pet. Watch TV and get Uber eats. Stop complaining on UA-cam about the opposite sex. Stop giving advice to fellow members of your sex to devalue people of the opposite sex. It's so tired.

    • @CdrChaos
      @CdrChaos 2 роки тому +3

      @@bootscooty It’s healthier to learn how to cook instead of relying on take out.

  • @quiveringmoist7558
    @quiveringmoist7558 2 роки тому +5

    Women are figuring out when they're in their 30s, have kids and divorced that most single men don't want anything to do with them. Then they come running back.

  • @cincinnatias
    @cincinnatias 3 роки тому +195

    They just can't say that they come back because they can't do better.

    • @themosthighvaluemaninthega9048
      @themosthighvaluemaninthega9048 3 роки тому +35

      They'll always take that harsh truth with them to the grave.

    • @damonglasse836
      @damonglasse836 3 роки тому +15

      That ego 😆

    • @bigjon.6258
      @bigjon.6258 3 роки тому +13

      Thats when you fill them cheeks full of your baby batter and send her packing...🤫🤔

    • @Walking-MY-Path
      @Walking-MY-Path 3 роки тому +3

      @@bigjon.6258 LMAO

    • @PermanentHigh
      @PermanentHigh 3 роки тому +5

      @@bigjon.6258 Not worth it. You're just rewarding her with sex. Even if you leave after, you still didn't have enough self respect to keep her trash ass away from you.

  • @seanmathews1826
    @seanmathews1826 3 роки тому +320

    If she ends the relationship but still wants to be friends she keeping track of you in case she needs to come back if this other plan does not work out.

    • @tonyjones1560
      @tonyjones1560 3 роки тому +65

      I remember having a general discussion with my now-wife on this 15 years ago: "Want to leave? Say so. You won't hear any begging or pleading for you to stay, nor will you be asked to explain anything. Now, I'll be really sad, drink a lot of whiskey, but I'll let you go. Hell, I'll help you go...but once you're gone, be clear that *you can never, ever come back.* For any reason. You wanted to be gone. Stay gone."

    • @ragex7786
      @ragex7786 3 роки тому +10

      @@tonyjones1560 amen

    • @davidc5247
      @davidc5247 3 роки тому +4

      We're not there plan B backup plan niether an option for the future and not let them keep you permanently hanging on so they can walk away from you again and dump you for a second time even though you're not in a relationship

    • @masonmax1000
      @masonmax1000 3 роки тому +3

      lol that makes sense that's what my Ex tried to do and I was like friends we cant be friends we can either be together or not. good to know that was a wise decision.

    • @Tubes12AX7k
      @Tubes12AX7k 3 роки тому +6

      Or she wants to live vicariously through you, if you have a more exciting life (I used to travel a lot for a living, and often went back and forth to Europe and I sometimes flew on private planes). It's not healthy for an ex to follow you and for what reason? Especially if you don't have anything connecting you. OR she just wants you for an emotional sounding board or crutch. And that's not healthy, either. Time to move on.

  • @TokyoTraveller
    @TokyoTraveller 3 роки тому +19

    It's just business: They wanted drama, and to get their backs blown out.
    They got it; now, they want YOU to marry them and foot the bill for THEIR irresponsibility.
    And then, they give YOU the business.
    Doesn't that sound great???

  • @marvingonzalez6891
    @marvingonzalez6891 2 роки тому +12

    I was in an 18 yr relationship, when it ended I told myself "I'll NEVER do that again". It's been over 10 yrs now and life has been Glorious

  • @neighborhoodl
    @neighborhoodl 3 роки тому +1008

    You couldn’t live with your own failure , and where did it lead you ? Back to me ! - THANOS
    THANOS was even spitting red pill knowledge 😂

  • @dennisnderitutv
    @dennisnderitutv 3 роки тому +165

    She Comes back because the grass isn't greener on the other side

    • @Slimc74
      @Slimc74 3 роки тому +3

      And the D. The masculine power you have over a woman when you handle that business is hard for them to find with these weaker men out there.

    • @princebadeior9631
      @princebadeior9631 3 роки тому +5

      And realize the grass only needed water

    • @YouFallenforit
      @YouFallenforit 3 роки тому +2

      The grass is always greener on the other side... but the grass is only Greener because it's fertilized by bullshit

  • @kevingonzalez3673
    @kevingonzalez3673 2 роки тому +11

    Ladies leave because they think they can do better and deserve better than you. They come back because it did not workout with the other guy. They got lonely and remembered how you made them feel and all the attention you gave her. Now she wants to use you again. Just remember, she did not care about you when she left. Take her back and she will do it again.

  • @brandonoats3493
    @brandonoats3493 3 роки тому +37

    Ex-girlfriend: I want you back!
    Me: People in hell want ice water. But you can't always get what you want.

    • @jeremiahgiles3593
      @jeremiahgiles3593 3 роки тому +2

      😆 I can't wait to use that one next time she reaches out

  • @NeilTruick
    @NeilTruick 3 роки тому +238

    If she breaks up with you and she comes back, stay strong. She could have included you in the decision, but she took it upon herself, so now she gets to live with her decision.
    If you break up with her and she comes back, as tempting as it may be, don't take her back. You left her for a reason. That reason WILL NOT CHANGE the second time around.

    • @Superbatmanbro
      @Superbatmanbro 3 роки тому +1

      I agree

    • @fluffyjoker69
      @fluffyjoker69 3 роки тому +1

      Absolutely agree 1000%

    • @juanwononeyuan
      @juanwononeyuan 3 роки тому +2

      make sure to smash first and then ghost her. checkmate girls that like to play games. lmao

    • @moonknight4053
      @moonknight4053 3 роки тому +1

      Hope that decision haunts her tho for the rest of her life, same thing happened to me bro. Been trying to win her back it’s real hard… told my dad a lot of what happened he said I have nothing to prove anymore but just work on my mental illnesses like the aggression and trauma.
      Just want things to go back to how they were but better you know? I appreciate seeing a comment like yours in the mist of the darkness

  • @MrSdragon197
    @MrSdragon197 3 роки тому +141

    The most dangerous are these girls that keep swirling around you again and again. Never take her back. That high pitch noise is extremely annoying.

  • @R4GNAR0G
    @R4GNAR0G 3 роки тому +21

    The ONLY kind of STRENGTH EVERY MEN need in their lives is the power to LET GO.

  • @Brandon.manga.
    @Brandon.manga. 3 роки тому +19

    Damn I wish I heard this about a life time ago. This goes into the list that every father should tell his son.

    • @sulsimsn0579
      @sulsimsn0579 2 роки тому

      And daughter. The Red Pill essential for the growing mind.

  • @Xardion55
    @Xardion55 3 роки тому +243

    Woman: "I want you back."
    Man: "And? In life, there are rare moments called 'second chances'. _This_ is _not_ one of those moments."

    • @Lboogs7
      @Lboogs7 2 роки тому +1

      🎯🎯🎯💯💯💯

  • @cenktoplar8378
    @cenktoplar8378 3 роки тому +144

    If she leaves
    - Delete
    - Block
    - Ignore
    IT IS OVER !

    • @jasonbotting3666
      @jasonbotting3666 3 роки тому +9

      So true brother!! They are called Ex's for a reason.

    • @cenktoplar8378
      @cenktoplar8378 3 роки тому +4

      @Rico Miller Ok Pick Up Artist.

    • @Mr.Edwards233
      @Mr.Edwards233 3 роки тому +5

      @Rico Miller How long will you ignore before you finally answer out of desperation?

    • @danksinatra5977
      @danksinatra5977 3 роки тому +1

      Blocking is for women to do....

    • @americusdeville865
      @americusdeville865 3 роки тому +4

      Go # B I G
      Block Ignore Ghost

  • @davidrobinson9528
    @davidrobinson9528 Рік тому +6

    It’s amazing how many men will tell you how their ex Left thinking the grass is greener on the other side and came back. Even women know that Women regret, yet so many of them still think the grass is greener. That is why you never ever take them back.

  • @OmniMale
    @OmniMale 2 роки тому +35

    Can you take back a woman who leaves you? Yes. But second chances are not given they are earned. My wife and I sepped once. She earned a look at a second chance. Her look was a list of things that I needed to see and quantify her improvement (this included her getting therapy).
    That was it. I gave her my list and told her she can do it or not do it. 🤷🏾‍♂️ It was totally up to her. Since the situation was her doing, I told her that I'm going to live my life. She had the list. I spent 1 yr living with an ex gf. Great time. Then two years living purely single. I lived in the same complex so we could co parent.
    It's been 4 yrs since we reconciled. She knows her role, she's engaged, supportive and submissive. Because she had to earn her role back, she cares for it like a treasure.
    She's now like a pitbull when it comes to her husband. The young hot hispanic mail lady looking at me... Wife makes sure I have no need to wander.
    Stay strong men. Live YOUR life by YOUR rules. They will fall in line.

  • @89thunderfoot
    @89thunderfoot 3 роки тому +176

    Wow I have wanted to get back with my ex. I wanted her so back it hurts. Thank you for showing this, I will not take her back when I think about what she did.

    • @Brass_Heathen
      @Brass_Heathen 3 роки тому +25

      Work on your self king and I guarantee you won't even miss her. I've been there.

    • @juice_man4439
      @juice_man4439 3 роки тому +15

      I’ve been in the same place, but after I got into red pill I realized it’s not worth it, why would you take a person back that obviously didn’t value you bc she left you. Get on your purpose and improve yourself and you’ll be spoiled for choice with women. Leave the toxic ex behind

    • @squarefinancialmarketing7848
      @squarefinancialmarketing7848 3 роки тому +4

      @@Brass_Heathen cut the "King" shit out y'all people take that word too lightly. Do you have any idea the requirements to be a king. Peasants aren't kings, no offense to the guy tho😀

    • @BernardBethea6339
      @BernardBethea6339 3 роки тому +7

      Take multiple red pills and let the streets and Pokie have her she left you for Pokie laying the pipe in the first place let that. Looser have her

    • @89thunderfoot
      @89thunderfoot 3 роки тому +5

      Thank you my brethren this red pill life is fun. Thank you for helping me.

  • @redpilllense7125
    @redpilllense7125 3 роки тому +72

    If she leaves you, thank her for your freedom.

    • @Amctothemoon
      @Amctothemoon 3 роки тому +1

      Dead right
      They fucking deluded most of them , want what they can’t have , that’s why they get pumped and dumped

  • @juniormansonge
    @juniormansonge 2 роки тому +10

    I am soo thankful for these comment sections! You guys have enlightened me in ways I never thought possible! Thank you sharing your stories and experiences 🙏 ❤️ 💯

  • @moukafaslouka4796
    @moukafaslouka4796 3 роки тому +15

    True story: my friend's wife is always bitching for small stuff. They have two grown children that are still with their mom. The wife asked for divorce. My friend moved out for several months. He told her that is she goes through with the divorce, he will never come back. Anyway, his wife hires q lawyer. Applies for divorce and got everything. By everything, my friend gave up his 50% of the house and her social security. He came in front of the divorce judge without a lawyer. Anything she wanted he said yes to. He told the judge he was giving up everything because he knows his kids will be with their mom. Fast forward three years. She now is begging him to come back. He talks to her but is absolutely against ever living with her.
    I know this is an anecdote more than anything. However, I think this is more common than we think.

  • @mrgrimmer7997
    @mrgrimmer7997 3 роки тому +176

    Well if the reason she is coming back is because you improved yourself/became more desirable... why should you settle for the same girl you had in the past if you now are indeed more desirable?

    • @cristianorover5261
      @cristianorover5261 3 роки тому +14

      Right on target .u nailed it.

    • @artrellcormier5366
      @artrellcormier5366 3 роки тому +2

      THANK YOU 💯

    • @moonknight4053
      @moonknight4053 3 роки тому +4

      Imagine if she came back cuz she heard u got a job (that doesn’t pay well but y’all were broke) nah I don’t believe it’s wise to take a women back after that. Beyond superficial, men’s lives matter

    • @eji.number1
      @eji.number1 2 роки тому +1

      Very good answer

    • @23sergione
      @23sergione 2 роки тому +6

      It's not even the same girl. She is worse now. More trauma, more dissapointments, more resentment.

  • @johntrench
    @johntrench 3 роки тому +207

    Sooooo...as my practice income picks up again (I am a surgical specialist who took a couple of big hits-literally, when a state police officer rear ended my car on the road and damaged my cervical spine, putting me through a significant physical decline and impairment requiring neurosurgery and an extensive recovery, and figuratively, when the financial aftermath of that injury and recovery triggered a divorce and a Chapter 13 reorganization), the fiancé who left me 8 months ago is going to suddenly decide that I am actually the greenest grass after all, and try to come back and mow me?
    Yeah, well...no.

    • @Superbatmanbro
      @Superbatmanbro 3 роки тому +5

      🤣🤣 it truly is

    • @ljose007
      @ljose007 3 роки тому +10

      Sorry about your unfortunate incident with the cops.

    • @Superbatmanbro
      @Superbatmanbro 3 роки тому +2

      @@ljose007 that doesn’t suck 😢😞

    • @johntrench
      @johntrench 3 роки тому +40

      @@ljose007 it was an accident. I was returning from lunchtime rounds at the hospital, was stopped for a train, the state trooper had a moment of inattention, hit me from behind hard. Tore my seat off the floorboard and flipped me back nearly unconscious and sent my car over the track just as the train cleared it, my car hit the crossing guard rail which was still down. One or two seconds earlier, I would not be typing this. All in all, pretty lucky. Have half strength back in my left arm, the one served by the nerve root compressed by the cervical damage, and the C6,7 vertebrae are fused surgically. I can work, my dexterity is good, can do surgery. Could have been worse.
      Shucks, the now ex-fiancé could have NOT broke our engagement. She is a very hypergamous narcissist. I am not just saying that. We took couples therapy. The psych guy working with us diagnosed her. She was not amused. It could have been MUCH worse!

    • @manospherehighlightsdaily
      @manospherehighlightsdaily  3 роки тому +20

      Thanks for sharing your story brother! I wish you the best! Salute!

  • @Joel.Invictus
    @Joel.Invictus 3 роки тому +8

    She will never leave until she's lines up your replacement. Don't ever take her back.

  • @waldemarkochany2847
    @waldemarkochany2847 3 роки тому +24

    Narcissism feeds off the feeling of control over other person. Wemons just want to know they still have control over you.

  • @mitchd949
    @mitchd949 3 роки тому +97

    When she says she wants you back, what she's really saying is you're her fall-back. Don't fall for it, it's only a matter of time before she leaves again. After a breakup, block her number for texts and calls, setup your email to junk all her communication, get yourself OFF social media if possible. No contact, none, None, NONE.

    • @user-pt1ye7vd7m
      @user-pt1ye7vd7m 3 роки тому +3

      And she probably is doing the same thing with you on the guy she did it to you with.
      Endless cycle.
      Just not worth it.

  • @muskreality
    @muskreality 3 роки тому +58

    The Book of Proverbs tells us "like a dog going back to it's vomit, a fool goes back to his mistakes"

  • @gregbenwell6173
    @gregbenwell6173 3 роки тому +20

    A couple of times I ran into this same problem!! Girl breaks up with me, leaves, then a week later comes crawling back to me!! After that the second time "she splits", it is always worse than the first time, and that is when I realized, "what did we really have to begin with?"!!! Which that question led to the second question....a question mind you, that even I couldn't answer!!! Because the answer to me always seemed to be "NOTHING"!!! And keep in mind I was around 23 when I realized this, which was back in the 1980s!! Too many people (these days especially) hang onto the fantasy of "this time it will be different". But that isn't how it actually works, more so when you ignore the signs that were there all along! And people who ignore history ARE DOOMED to repeat it the longer then kid themselves into the notion that "history doesn't matter"!!!
    And the reason I came to that conclusion was because of a relationship I was in with a divorced mother of two back in 1986! I dated her for nearly two years, helping to raise HER two kids, only to have her cheat on me time and time again! The kicker was I was sitting home with HER KIDS, while she was out cheating on me, then SHE BLAMED ME for why she was cheating!! So what "good times" did we really have??? Answer: NONE

  • @thevindictive6145
    @thevindictive6145 3 роки тому +31

    A good woman leaves a toxic man and never comes back. A bad toxic woman leaves and tries to comes back.

  • @immortaljanus
    @immortaljanus 3 роки тому +147

    "Dad, what does 'consumer guilt' mean?"
    "That's like when your mother thought she could get better and threw everything away, including you and me. And then she realized no one is interesting in an old, soiled kitty..."

    • @jhonrestrepo2671
      @jhonrestrepo2671 3 роки тому +14

      perfect words

    • @osb1945
      @osb1945 2 роки тому +3

      😂😂

    • @CharlesM84
      @CharlesM84 2 роки тому +5

      😂😂😂 That would most definitely relate to my good friend who is initially thought she was. Now I see I'm the MF'g greener grass on this side.

  • @JohnSmith-gc9yo
    @JohnSmith-gc9yo 3 роки тому +161

    I went back with two exes in the past... Unfortunately Red Pills were unavailable at the time.
    Cost me big time

    • @iamtheoffenderofall
      @iamtheoffenderofall 3 роки тому +12

      Red pills have been around forever. I am not the oldest nor the first to know....but in the mid 80s, I was 5 years old. I learned right then and there after my mother divorced and destroyed my father, never ever trust a woman. Use em. Abuse em. Lose em. Get the jump on them before they get the jump on you.

    • @albizuzulu203
      @albizuzulu203 3 роки тому +1

      Me too.

    • @nduduzogasa5289
      @nduduzogasa5289 3 роки тому

      @@albizuzulu203 Alibizu'Zulu

    • @Ace.0.0.0.
      @Ace.0.0.0. 2 роки тому

      Red pills have been around since women have been around. However, taking the red pill is not tasty. And most guys have to take many red pills over time.

    • @joaomaria2398
      @joaomaria2398 2 роки тому

      Red Pills were unavailable at the time? And the bible is how many thousands yo??

  • @wildturkeyn7877
    @wildturkeyn7877 3 роки тому +7

    Every woman I've ever dated has hit me up months or years later trying to get back together. I usually just hit n quit.

  • @codyduncan6801
    @codyduncan6801 Рік тому +4

    That explains why my ex is losing her mind trying to get me back after I broke up with her. Ended up having to block her on everything before I got any peace. No contact from me for the past month and I'm finally starting to heal.

  • @latt.qcd9221
    @latt.qcd9221 3 роки тому +139

    "They're experimenting. They're experiencing. They're doing different things."
    That sounds like she's describing a child that's "experiencing the world" and "exploring it."

    • @dpt6849
      @dpt6849 3 роки тому +3

      With the safety of the wellknown first partners.

    • @simpinainteasy6302
      @simpinainteasy6302 3 роки тому

      Same thing

    • @picies2020
      @picies2020 3 роки тому +1

      "Hi, I'm Dora." 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @oscaraurelio8869
      @oscaraurelio8869 3 роки тому

      @@picies2020 You made me think about this one: ua-cam.com/play/PLzuBp-sbd6UDfxpVnv8zPiQd0BzX2AAUT.html .

    • @nathaniel3867
      @nathaniel3867 Рік тому +1

      As my father would say women are like children

  • @nintendofannot4898
    @nintendofannot4898 3 роки тому +122

    This could also work for a friendzoned man.
    She'll only notice you when you get better

    • @Abyssal86
      @Abyssal86 2 роки тому +5

      Of you're in the friend zone she's not worth your time.
      She's using you.
      Stop being her friend.

    • @katashi222
      @katashi222 2 роки тому +2

      Yes, that's when you friend zone her.

    • @kabirsardana1282
      @kabirsardana1282 2 роки тому +1

      that's the best thing. she friend zoned you. that means shes not interested in you sexually or sexually attracted to you. focus on yourself and become the best dude you can be. make money.
      and watch how suddenly you become attractive to her and she starts calling you out for parties, to meet her family on family events, for lunches. calls you late at night asking what you're doing.
      enjoy that attention and validation and when the time comes, just drop the bomb on her when she tries to make advances on you because now you're the guy she would like to be seen around. "I thought I was your friend. you made that clear. I didnt know you had this in mind. dammit, how selfish are you." use their own literature on her and watch her jaw drop.

  • @nate-vv1rr
    @nate-vv1rr 3 роки тому +3

    Right out of their own mouth's, We have to go through 100 men to find out YOU we're their best OPTION.
    And then they think you should be happy to take back their Sewer Holes.
    Do not be a OPTION.

  • @melchizaldek4946
    @melchizaldek4946 2 роки тому +3

    Most women just don't recognize a good deal when it's presented to them. They leave a guy who cares for one who doesn't care. Then karma strikes 🤔🤔🤔

  • @Sho-Nuff007
    @Sho-Nuff007 3 роки тому +133

    If you don't feel like you're living your best life with her, when she wants out ( and she will) LET HER GO!!! Sometimes the trash takes itself out 😉

    • @supercool1238
      @supercool1238 3 роки тому +4

      Nice

    • @katashi222
      @katashi222 2 роки тому +1

      Yes, yes, yes. I was told "I have to go and do my own thing" so I let her go, to do her own thing.......I Never took her back!!! She's still doing her own thing....

    • @Lboogs7
      @Lboogs7 2 роки тому

      Facts facts facts 💯

  • @muskreality
    @muskreality 3 роки тому +49

    Going back to an ex is like reading the same book twice and expecting a different ending. Don't be a fool.

    • @MainSpears
      @MainSpears Рік тому

      Definition of insanity🤝💯👑😁

  • @Mastabacc
    @Mastabacc 3 роки тому +14

    A girl I was with for a while, ghosted me for a week and then broke up with me last year. Then 2 months ago in March, she tried to hit me up again saying she missed me.
    I was like, nah fam. You too old (she's 31 almost 32), I am already with someone else. Someone much younger. Yep, that pissed her off :)

    • @katashi222
      @katashi222 2 роки тому

      Golden!!!....Cheers💯🤙🏁

  • @blackattack1840
    @blackattack1840 3 роки тому +50

    When she realizes she can't do better and comes back to you with a much worse offer than before. Hilarious. Predictable.

  • @keithulhul7540
    @keithulhul7540 3 роки тому +77

    Toxic people attract other toxic people. The problem lies in that they're searching for something not toxic. Once they realize someone else won't put up with their behavior, they want what allowed them to be who they are.
    People don't want to Improve. They want to be comfortable.

  • @d0cn0tes
    @d0cn0tes 2 роки тому +18

    I fooled my ex into coming back and gave her "coming back" party and dumped her again at the end of the party. I thought she was going to kill me lmaooooo. Never, never take them back, guys.

    • @Lboogs7
      @Lboogs7 2 роки тому

      Wait, so was SHE the one that left originally and came back? Or did u leave her and she called u back

    • @d0cn0tes
      @d0cn0tes 2 роки тому

      @@Lboogs7 I left her and she called me back.

    • @Lboogs7
      @Lboogs7 2 роки тому

      @@d0cn0tes oh ok. Mines was she bounced, used some bs excuse, she came back a month later, I was having fun with her, then she bounced again. Trust em as far as u can throw em 💯

    • @d0cn0tes
      @d0cn0tes 2 роки тому

      @@Lboogs7 if you had a video of her during her 1 month hiatus, you would not even take her back. She obviously wanted to try something new , which didn't work out. This is the result of thinking that the grass is greener. I gave my ex the false pretense that we would get back together again, only to crush her dream. Men should know once a woman steps out, she has emotionally checked out.

  • @nickf9392
    @nickf9392 2 роки тому +4

    Never ever take a woman back...repeat NEVER.

  • @RemyBeast
    @RemyBeast 3 роки тому +75

    I experienced this recently. I won't even go into all the details of the relationship with my ex but she definitely just called me up out of no where. I was cordial but made it clear that shit is never happening again. Especially with how she left things, I find it wild that she think she can just skate past that as if nothing happened...

    • @greyman6353
      @greyman6353 3 роки тому +19

      Modern women seem to think they can just pick up where they left off like restoring a saved game. The game has moved on ladies, Cat City beckons

    • @barbielev600
      @barbielev600 3 роки тому

      so she told you she wanted to get back with you?

    • @RemyBeast
      @RemyBeast 3 роки тому +16

      @@barbielev600 No she didn't have to say it because I know the behavior. I've gotten back with her once before and it was the same thing. A call out the blue after a few months. Now I know better.

    • @Ace.0.0.0.
      @Ace.0.0.0. 2 роки тому

      @@greyman6353 They behave that way because too many guys allow it. Or, guys are too thirsty for punani. Testosterone is a hellofa drug.

  • @itsjustkeith1714
    @itsjustkeith1714 3 роки тому +29

    Fellas, don't let them come back around with that same old FOOLISHNESS. Level up and leave them be.

  • @blazegamer1007
    @blazegamer1007 3 роки тому +9

    Yeah I'm just going to focus on working, making that money and bettering myself and enjoying my own company

  • @bolow
    @bolow 3 роки тому +41

    I've never let back someone who left me and I had 3 failed relationships before I married my wife of 11 years.
    If I had let those before her back I wouldn't have this stronger relationship, if someone leaves you they made room for someone who'll never do that.

    • @youtubefans510
      @youtubefans510 Рік тому +1

      if she puts you on the shelf she also puts you back on the market and that worked out for you I read , good for you

    • @ebonyjoseph9489
      @ebonyjoseph9489 Рік тому

      👏🏾

  • @hardwiredtoselfdestruction3401
    @hardwiredtoselfdestruction3401 3 роки тому +53

    "You cant keep running in and out of my life" -- The Gap Band

  • @interhistoria5632
    @interhistoria5632 3 роки тому +93

    A solid rule I have for myself that I've had for years, is that you don't give second chances in a relationship. If it didn't work out the first time, why would it work a second?

    • @BatmanBeyondBelief
      @BatmanBeyondBelief 3 роки тому +12

      The more chances you give her, the more reckless she becomes. Do the next man a favor and let her know she is unacceptable

    • @Roddy_Zeh
      @Roddy_Zeh 3 роки тому +10

      Amen. Always look forward, don't keep looking back.

    • @2ndeagle7
      @2ndeagle7 8 місяців тому

      A reason: You've matured and realized the breakup was as much your fault as hers. Not evert woman leaves for greener. Sometimes it them who wasn't appreciated and/or respected. That, is your rider.

  • @td3141
    @td3141 3 роки тому +5

    Every single ex has tried to rekindle the relationship. She most likely thought she found something better, and will vilify you on the way out to hide the real reason she left, but when she realizes she had a good thing, then she will try to find a way to get her foot back in the door… One ex went as far as to fake being sexually assaulted to try and get me back…She still single to this day. Don’t take them back!

  • @barkingmouse8152
    @barkingmouse8152 3 роки тому +11

    If you let here back into your life she'll know she can get away with anything.

  • @caisonisrael3044
    @caisonisrael3044 3 роки тому +50

    Yes another videooooooo!!!!! 🔥🔥🔥 We men ain't we!!! WE MEN AINT WE!!!!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥 LETS GO!!!

  • @BasedZillenial
    @BasedZillenial 3 роки тому +177

    “It’s really hard for a woman to turn a guy down.” As I woman, I strongly disagree. 😂

    • @johnreed9050
      @johnreed9050 3 роки тому +54

      It's not that hard as it happens every day to good men

    • @Sp1n1985
      @Sp1n1985 3 роки тому +10

      I took her statement as the ladies who do the passive decline she'll give the phone number, respond a few times, and then ghost. They don't want to embarrass him publicly by being rude and not taking his phone number so she seems like she's stuck up also she'll use he was "scary" and therefore seemed like he couldn't handle a out right rejection.

    • @BasedZillenial
      @BasedZillenial 3 роки тому

      @@johnreed9050 Which is unfortunate. 😕

    • @thedadyouneverhadchannel3544
      @thedadyouneverhadchannel3544 3 роки тому +1

      @@BasedZillenial meow

    • @johnreed9050
      @johnreed9050 3 роки тому +14

      @@BasedZillenial
      Which in turn turns him into the bad guy that women claim to hate but run to all the time

  • @BrothaNeo
    @BrothaNeo 3 роки тому +18

    The other thing that I want to add. After YEARS of my personal development journey and learning about relationships, I have realized that there is A LOT about relationships to understand! So much that A LOT of people fail to even understand the BASICS let alone the ADVANCED aspects of them. Even when it comes to the selection of people to be in relationships with. Most people don't have the appropriate mindset to choose a good mate for a long-term relationship. Smh.

    • @katashi222
      @katashi222 2 роки тому +6

      It's about learning about female nature. If the woman is not submissive does not or can't respect you, dump her and move on. A woman has to love you more than you love her and if she does not respect you, she does Not love you!!!

    • @seige8621
      @seige8621 2 роки тому

      @@katashi222 point blank!

    • @Ace.0.0.0.
      @Ace.0.0.0. 2 роки тому

      @@katashi222 I concur.

  • @joelevans6387
    @joelevans6387 3 роки тому +7

    IF She leaves then she shows her inability to commit.
    She’s a waste of your time and you are “enabling her bad characteristics”.
    She will not be a better person if you take her back
    “ if she doesn’t deserve you at your worst then she doesn’t deserve you at you best”
    I am going with my emotions and my emotions tell me to not feel a thing for her anymore and to move one with my life

  • @tonyjones1560
    @tonyjones1560 3 роки тому +27

    "Yeah, well... I'm the same dude you walked out on. You were looking for something better? Well, so am I, and I'm certain you are not "it," so we're going to do each other a huge favor and keep it pushing. In opposite directions..."

    • @mremac266
      @mremac266 3 роки тому +1

      Yo, this is good how you said that!!!

    • @tonyjones1560
      @tonyjones1560 3 роки тому

      @@mremac266 Thank you!

  • @caisonisrael3044
    @caisonisrael3044 3 роки тому +37

    Don't take her back. At any cost

    • @Slimc74
      @Slimc74 3 роки тому +1

      1 am to handle that business is ok

    • @caisonisrael3044
      @caisonisrael3044 3 роки тому

      @@Slimc74 😂😂😂😂😎😎😎😎🤷🏽‍♂️sheeeeeiiiittttd

  • @williamj.dovejr.8613
    @williamj.dovejr.8613 Рік тому +2

    After years of struggle, I am about to start a new job...the highest paying job I've ever had, soon I will buy a new car to replace my beater and get a small house. If my dating history reflects anything, they always come back, but that's not happening anymore.

  • @jochem1986
    @jochem1986 3 роки тому +6

    My ex told me out of the blue that she wished things didn't go south between us. At that moment she was living together with her next boyfriend. I cut the conversation off, but I just felt like warning the dude to be mindful of what his GF is doing. I have no doubts that any girl I will date in the future, will have several men as a backup plan, ready to step in. That's why I'll only be truly committed to myself.

  • @topfloorslimey
    @topfloorslimey 3 роки тому +43

    U gotta laugh at them😂😂😂😭they really always come back at least once

  • @glasscut4880
    @glasscut4880 3 роки тому +27

    🙏🏼Thank God for your channel & for Kevin Samuel & the fact that many women are getting hip to him while he’s serving them a cold dish

    • @jumhed994
      @jumhed994 3 роки тому

      Also check Alexander Grace and Rich Cooper channels

    • @glasscut4880
      @glasscut4880 3 роки тому +2

      @@jumhed994 I was hip to them since I started the red pill journey 3-4years ago I hardly check for content that’s flooded with ads I only listen to it when I jog I like this channel cause he keeps it short and lets his videos play

  • @Cpt_Adama
    @Cpt_Adama 2 роки тому +2

    No one, absolutely no one, deserves or is entitled to fraking anything. You work for what you get.

  • @markdanielsmarksinspiratio3547
    @markdanielsmarksinspiratio3547 2 роки тому +4

    I told my last girl that I was better off without here if she did not want to be cooperative. She wanted to lead and I don't play that game. Since I left her I tripled my income, published 2 books, started a UA-cam channel 2 years ago and many other pluses. She was a liability. Here loss and yes she came back about 6 months after I left her. Did I take her back? NO

  • @Necrolord76
    @Necrolord76 3 роки тому +23

    When your Ex comes back...
    It's not out of love or because she missed you. Rather, she comes back because she needs resources from you while she's on the hunt for the next Chad or Tyrone! Never take an Ex back. Never look back, keep moving forward like a Chad shark.

  • @Lord_Messiah_Disciple
    @Lord_Messiah_Disciple 3 роки тому +22

    The grass is greener where you water it. First you build the Kingdom of Heaven within your heart, then the rest of the world.

  • @Lite_Fare
    @Lite_Fare 3 роки тому +4

    If she leaves, lock the door.

  • @h2t26
    @h2t26 2 роки тому +6

    She left because she thought she had better options, she came back because she realized you were the better option all along. Don't be her second choice.
    Also, lets say you weren't your best. You know she put in a lot of work to help level you up, then she sees another women cashing in on her hard work, she doesn't want that.

  • @fturla
    @fturla 3 роки тому +35

    I have friends that are girls that tell me all the time how long their relationship with their current boyfriend will last and when they intend to break up with them. It's sad knowing that someone you know will have their heart broken, and you even know the precise day they will get the 'memo' that what they thought was a strong committed relationship was only a temp job at best and that your performance in many cases will not affect the outcome.

    • @Ace.0.0.0.
      @Ace.0.0.0. 3 роки тому

      How old are these girls?

    • @fturla
      @fturla 3 роки тому +5

      @@Ace.0.0.0. My girl 'friends' are 19 to 25 years old. Friends that are women above 30 are too desperate to state something that explicitly about breaking up, because they want to have the option of coming back.

    • @tonyjones1560
      @tonyjones1560 3 роки тому +1

      WOW... I think I'd have to find a way to rat all those bishes out

    • @fturla
      @fturla 3 роки тому +4

      @@tonyjones1560 I cannot judge them that harshly, because I have just as many men tell me who they intend to have sex with and how long they plan on stringing the girl along. Some guys told me that as soon as they get sex from the girl they are interested in that they will dump them the next day. The same girl will go up to me and ask what happened? Why is this guy ghosting me now? What am I suppose to tell the men and women that get hurt? I always tell them that didn't you read the signs of how your relationship began, and what's going to happen, because there are signs.

    • @tonyjones1560
      @tonyjones1560 3 роки тому +2

      @@fturla No problem with Karma as an equal-opportunity destroyer. Years ago, there was a line in an Ice-T rap that went something like, "Ladies, we ain't just talkin' 'bout you, some of these n*ggas are bishes too."