No it’s to enhance the cut and make your cut look sharper and make the contrast with the fade you may have look even better. It’s either drawn with a not sharp pencil or drawn way to thick or not blended which all makes it look terrible.
@jaysouthmusic8230 pants sagging originated in prison, so people knew who belonged to who if you know what I mean. Young men thought that shit was hard or tuff cuz they associated it with prisoners so they emulated it.
Sorry but every time I see people wearing pants that sack when you can see their underwear I always think about the meme when the prisoner says “do you want to do this the easy way or the hard way.”😅😂
@@tacet6344 That behavior literally stems from gay men in prison who would sag their pants to let you know they drop the soap on purpose, so it makes sense.
Yes I had this one guy Denied alcohol had no psychological affects... Boy would become the most racist MF I've ever seen and forget when he's sober or after he got into an altercation
How about you just enjoy life instead of being all neurotic and worried about how you look all the time. Drinking and smoking is a good time.. In moderation of course
THANK YOU for mentioning the sagging. Skinny jeans, baggy jeans, doesn't matter. INSTANTLY lose my attraction to a guy if I see that. I told my son I'd snatch his ass if I ever saw him doing it. It was ridiculous when I first saw it in the 80s. Can't believe it's still going.
I would add I see a lot of dudes just worry about their looks, working out but not getting a career. They are in shape, always at the gym and broke. Focus on getting a real career as well.
@@faveese By a career I'm definitely including trades. A lot of dudes that had trouble in school really excel at different trades and can make more money than lawyers.
One problem these days is people trying to be perfectly perfect. It's a social problem, all looks no social ability, just a bunch of barbie and ken dolls lol
Add proper hygiene from head to toe, including care of the lips, mouth and teeth. Also not relieving one's self in public (urinating, hacking, spitting, tooth-picking, nose and face-picking, etc. Wear clean and appropriate attire in general. These go for women as well
That happened to me a few years back never went back to that barber he really screwed me over and the sad part is he was PHENOMENAL when I first started going to him but yeah he fell off bad
Masturbating is healthy, it’s very healthy, as a matter of fact it causes your brain to release dopamine, lowers stress, helps with sleep (if done before bed), also, you can’t compare professional athletes to average joe (athletes have trainers and nutritionists to help them keep their bags (💰)), all that other stuff is spot on.
You were pretty much spot on with everything. I don't have anything to add kinda. The only one I would add is reading more books and being educated in the political and community arena. Other than that, you knocked it out of the park bro. Good job!
On the Money young Brother. I am 73 yrs old African American males born & raise in Brooklyn. Love you mind to speak to all your brothers in this way, they need it. Keep it going make what you present here the L atest Trend amongst African American men in America. And African American is your proper Nationality. Think about your Heritage and say it connects to a Body of Land, Irish American, Italian American, Puerto Rican American, etc where is Blackland where Black people come from. Just speaking my mind from 73 yrs of life experiences. Love your words, keep flowing. Brother Michael
Finally!! A young man with some style , finesse and class...that white chalk, outline is RIDICULOUS showing your underwear is DISGUSTING, being the BIG MOUTH speaks for itself , you are on point on every subject. Thank you for sharing that very VALUABLE information, IT IS MUCH NEEDED.
I agree with everything you said everything in this video. I don’t fit in none of this category because I love living a healthy sober lifestyle 💪🏿👌🏿💯♥️
4:50 "you lose confidence when you beat your meat all the time" 😂 i laughed out loud when he said that and dude put his head down in disappointment..i was thinking its all good big fella youll get through this 😂
I Am So Glad a Man is who's saying this. When a female says these thing we got told we aren't 10s so shouldn't have nothin to say. Thanks Bro., Rock Steady, Much ❤.
Well-made. I'm (68,) and pretty much agree with just about Everything you've covered here. Forgive me if I insist that you must've had a mostly HEALTHY upbringing. Whoever raised you (parents, grandparents, etc.,) SOMEBODY did an admirable job. Please, keep up the Public Service Videos. 👍🏾😎
The narrator’s “ tone” of voice is hilarious to me 😂😂😂🤣- but on a serious note 🤓, as a 🙋🏾♀️woman, I agree with you 💯 bro ❤️‼️- oh , except for the weed part 🤣🤣🤣
Not really. Just don’t do it in excess or watch fucked up unrealistic porn. I’ll stop and start back randomly fr. Some people get sucked into porn if they let themselves watch it, so they should completely abstain. Porn doesn’t affect me at all socially, mentally, romantically🤷🏾♂️. Whatever works 4 you
@@05mizzy the reason why I say it’s unacceptable as a man is because one of our greatest assets that God has given us (idk if you’re a Christian or not but i don’t care I’m gonna say it anyway) is our semen and when we’re out here jerking off we’re wasting it draining our energy and feeling full afterwards and on top of that not putting it to good use. Real men doing go spraying their semen on useless thing like porn, masturbation in general, hooking up, and etc. There’s also a whole spiritual aspect to it to but idk if you’re a Christian.
@@Zamintsupremacy Dyed hair is as FAKE as FAKE HAIR, FAKE LASHES, FAKE NAILS, FAKE BBL's...IF YOU ARE FAKE ON THE OUTSIDE, IT ONLY MEANS YOU ARE FAKE ON THE INSIDE. BE REAL NOT FAKE!!!
@@indigoevo1998 FAKE IS FAKE NO MATTER HOW YOU DRESS IT UP, WHETHER IT BE FAKE HAIR, FAKE LASHES, FAKE NAILS, OR FAKE HAIR COLOR!!! IF YOU'RE COMPELLED TO PUT FAKE ON THE OUTSIDE, IT'S JUST THE FAKE ON THE INSIDE MAKING IT'S WAY TO THE SURFACE!!! For thousands of years black men have been HAPPY just being BLACK men. Now this GENERATION of WEAK black men have SUCCUMBED to OUTSIDE pressure and become FAKE and have the NERVE to try and call themselves REAL with FAKE hair color on their heads. MAKE THAT MAKE SENSE!!!
I remember when I was in high school and I thought high school was life 😂 As a man who’s in his late 30’s I’ll tell you Man do whatever you want to do lol This generation is hilarious how much emphasis is put on what other people think You’re gonna go through life avoiding pivotal defining moments in your life just for perception with this thinking I know plenty of guys who have all the stuff on the list and they don’t have the woman they want. On the opposite side, I’ve seen guys who are fat, with acne and a receding hairline that have the woman of YOUR dreams and she’s completely happy. Why? Because he’s HAPPY the dude that’s recording this video doesn’t sound happy at all and he thinks by having all these things that he will because he’s young When you all go through life, you’ll look back and say wow I got through that You don’t want to look back at life and only be able to say wow I maintained this or I avoided that because that leads to regret. Eat whatever you want to Watch whatever you want to Think however you want to And most importantly Live Because when you’re genuinely happy regardless of what you have and what you look like, you’ll attract whatever you want in life. Bianicman out
So trying to be attractive and have good habits is bad?... people watch these videos because they want to change, they aren't happy with what they are now...self improvement. Talking about the person recording the video doesn't sound happy, must he sound jolly?
I’m glad someone is telling black people to wear pants in a way that doesn’t restrict proper movement and talk in a way that others can understand properly.
Bro, you were talking some real shit till you reach that the point of "Eat whatever you want to Watch whatever you want to Think however you want to" But, hey, even the bible has a lot of wisdom and a lot of bullshit and stupidity... As you said, you are in your late 30's and the thing is that probably till you reach the age of early 20's your life was probably more relatable to a people of the 80's and 90's (even back then maybe) then if we compare to teenagers and people in their early 20's right now. But the true is that I dont know shit about you but so dont take it personal. eat whatever you want to - that would be ok if we were living a hundred years ago and didnt had easiest acces to hyper palatable food, that we can just order from an app (and this is just the tip of the iceberg on the food problems) watch whatever you want to - yeah sure watch whatever you want to, doomscrooll through tiktok/instagram/yt and watch any porn you want... I mean, we will die and we will not be able to watch it all, so we better watch the most useless content we can, right? i dont think so think however you want to - i dont know if I got it right, but, If a friend of yours came to you and said that he's having suicidal thoughts, would you just say "yeeeey buddy, thats great, keep it up"? But hey, taking those parts out, i think you're right, we have to do the things that we want and dont worry on what other people think. And also, when you say "Live" That's a good advice, but you know, even the guys that you mentioned that dont have the woman they want (assuming that they're really not happy because you know that you can just be wrong on that, right?), are living. We can't be happy all the time, and that's part of the experience of life. Something that I learned is that the people we think that are the happier can be the most miserable, and the people that we see as unhappy, can be trully fullfilled. As they say "One shouldn't measure other people by one's own yard-stick"
@@raphaelguedes5017 I absolutely agree with you man. Very well thought out. I appreciate you taking the time to type that out. (Most people don’t know the Bible is 100% stupidity and 100% wisdom its all about the reader) Yeah I’m from a different time lol before social media where people didn’t care about what everyone else was doing. I know a guy that eats like shit, all processed foods, no fruits or vegetables but is probably the “healthiest” guy I know… then I have a friend who’s a lil younger, eats good, exercises regularly but is ALWAYS dealing with health issues because he’s MISERABLE. When I say “eat whatever you want” that means whatever satisfies your soul. I like eating fruits and vegetables and I don’t like eating meat. When I was in my early 20s I was trying to get JACKED so I ate allot of animal products for protein. I had to learn what’s best for me and not rely on the internet to tell me the 5 best ways to blah blah or avoid doing this that and the third. Don’t get me wrong advice is good but if it’s not from an expert then it’s probably onion at best and should be looked at as such. Much like my comment lol Ultimately your 20s are best used as a time to experiment with what you like because by the time you hit 30 you’ll be stuck in those ways and I’ve seen people live within these lines of eating and dressing a certain way, but not because they wanted to ascend to the top of the social and economic ladder it was because they were afraid to do something or try something and be the ONLY one doing it. What I realized is that there are many ways to do everything but there is only one way that will work best for each of us
@@josephdillon9698 yeah I hear you but I really don’t care what other people are doing. I say let them be and find out on their own. It just might not be for you but it might be for them. Judge not less ye be judged amigo
As a Black woman of a mature place in life. I admire these things in men and about men. Confidence. When a man is confident he does not think about walking with his head held high. That is a natural and it takes no thought. He knows he is presenting himself as a human being that enjoys learning and growing. Improving in areas he knows will be beneficial not only to himself but to others as well. Keep learning from mistakes, open up to positive criticism and turn it into a Smile. I will give each of you reading my comment a life gift. S. M. I. L. E. I coined this in my life. Shared. Meaningful. Involved. Life. Experience (s)
I can't remember the last time I wore sunscreen. I lived and worked in Central Africa (Cameroon) for 2 years and never wore sunblock/sunscreen. I wore SHEA BUTTER which is a natural sunscreen due to having a rich amount of Vitamin E & D. As a kid, I only had heat rash on my lips but I never got sunburn. A lot of that is due to dehydration. Plus, most Black people in the USA are vitamin D deficient. We need the sun. Am I saying STAY IN THE SUN ALL DAY? No. Don't be under the sun at high noon but we really need the sun more than any race of people. Shea butter & cocoa butter are worn by African people in Africa instead of western sunscreen that is catered to white skin. And a lot of sunscreen products have a lot of carcinogens in them which ironically can be cancerous but we're avoiding trying to get skin cancer.
One thing you mentioned that is no good. Sun-block. Sun exposure is the best source of vitamin D. Applying sun blocker, when put under a black light looks black. Sun block is also carcingenic. It is better to apply a natural moisturizer, such as coco butter. If your skin burns easy, limit your time in the sun or wear light color clothing that covers your skin. But avoid using sun blocker.
I don't agree with a lot of the things my Black Peeps tend to do, but I've learned that it's really none of my business..& not to mention folks gonna do what they're gonna do.
I agree with the entire take, except the skinny jeans, not because they're cool, but because they were fashion before, and now it's just outta trend, and it will be back
This cut is not for every man? skinny jeans are not attractive on men w big butts and big legs - furthermore the guys that do wear them appear uncomfortable and are always grabbing their business to keep from cutting the circulation off?
I agree with everything you said. About skinny jeans, I don't wear the super skinny ones, but I just don't know which kinds of jeans to wear, the straight ones just look weird to me, especially at the bottom where they meet the shoes. Partying every weekend too is a potential killer, I can't really say people must stop drinking all together but while trying to achieve something, you might need to quit it for a few months or just rarely drink.
A tip I did for myself to stop meat beating, was getting too sick to want to for like a week or two, then watching khorne without beating. Consumption will go up initially, but as you disassociate watching it with pleasure, you'll find it boring, uninteresting, shameful, and you'll find yourself thinking about it less and less, causing you to be able to redirect that energy into other things. Also helps to have other things to redirect that energy in to, but if you're not working out, that's already an easy redirect.
I've seen a lot of women use white pencil or highlighter or whatever they call it to outline their eyebrows to make them look sharper but they just look funny and cartoonish when they over do it. I guess that fad has finally been brought to men's hairline to make it look sharper but it also looks cartoonish.
The main thing that holds me back could be summed up in lacking confidence, but as a black man with a small manhood it my size. I bought a home, I am far in my career, have my own business on the side as a designer, but the main thing that makes me ugly or just unhappy is my penis size. Was shamed for it when I was in my 20s and not living up to stereotypes made me question many things. But for me is lacking confidence.
@@finished6267 Lame for sharing my thoughts, experience and journey as a immigrant now proud American man? Interesting. Rather than spread hate or ignorance which I assume you lack, do something positive. I volunteer and help where I can, try something. Anyway, blessings bud!
Takes guts being so candid (assuming you're not trolling/fishing). Just make up for it in performance. All that crap you see on pr0n hub isn't real, doesn't describe the majority of men and is painful for seasoned female performers. You're not here for long. How do you want to spend it?
I've seen a lot of post/videos ip here bro! And this one was needed years ago! Thank u so much for posting it, because everything and i mean everything i said were FACTS!
I gave my sister's son a job several years ago, even though I already judged him as a hopeless street nicca, but she begged me and I folded. Big azz mistake🤦🏾♂️ YOU SHOULD ABSOLUTELY JUDGE PEOPLE, AND GROOM YOURSELF TO BE GOOD AT IT🤷🏾♂️
I'm so happy to have been brought up right dawg. Shit, cause I swear, some of these kids nowadays are savages bro. Caught a whole gang of kids in the school bathroom creating a fucking miasma of smoke bro. Shit was like something out of a horror movie. I don't Smoke, drink or do alatt.
I agree with minimizing beating meat or zex. the pent up stress you've accumulated can be a power boost when you workout. I once went 2 month without beating it and I felt invincible working out.
For the breathing weird one, breathing through your mouth with your mouth open makes you less attractive. So breathe through your nose with your mouth closed.
Masturbation is not a crime nor a sin. Studies have been conducted that show its actually more healthy... And if it isn't causing any harm to you or anyone else why does it even matter?!!!
all in all good video i agree with everything else and i do those. i don’t go to the gym but i walk a lot which lets me pick up women i meet while out and about and it keeps me in cool shape
For the young teenagers out there that like to sag most of y’all don’t know that sagging originated from prison when gay dudes were trying to get attention from other dudes, and also to air out. It’s disgusting just pull up your pants. I used to sag when I was 11 because I thought it looked cool and I would get an ass whooping all the time.
Yoooo 4:23 is wild. You’re supposed to immediately drink a protein shake and do 40 push up and 40 sit ups afterwards. If you don’t you’ll get more estrogen. Y’all did know that right?
I am very grateful for this channel. I had Dry skin issues on my face, scalp and my face got Hella fat & ugly According to my dermatologist, it was my diet the McDonald’s, Chinese food, Pizza, all those foods caused my problem I took a break from all fast foods and started eating proper home-cooked meals while doing workouts and my problem slowly disappeared and I started getting attention from girls again.
The “white chalk” isn’t even supposed to be white chalk, after a good barber is done cutting your hair you get a ASH LINE. The mediocre barber can’t get to that level so they draw a line on your head to make it seem crispy😂 same reason why my barber has been cutting my hair since I was 2
@@pixums Right I remember back in like 5th grade people used to ask why I have a white line on my forehead after a cut but whole time my barber was just better😭
isn’t the ash line just from your skin being dry? i used to get it but now that i have a better skin care routine i don’t. i usually moisturize in the morning before i go later in the day and if i’m going in the morning i probably already moisturized that night
You know what else makes us look ugly as black men? When we judge each other.... People need to mind their business and worry about themselves. Let that shit sink in.
Exactly I feel like at this point no matter what I do nobody would like me or be happy. I already followed what society wanted me to do and that didn’t give me any better results. At this point, I wanna live a quiet life.
@@Abstractsvision Bruh mad facts, had to learn the hard way about that too sadly, Like no matter how hard I try, No better results will be yielded cause our people is always judging each other which won't get anywhere
You're 1000% wrong. The issue is that we've been told far too long to "mind your business". That's a horrible take. Judging others keeps you safe and sometimes them as well. Imagine if the young black men in most inner cities felt pressure because they'd be judged for being denegerates? Drug use became more socially acceptable and it skyrocketed. When I grew up, people were afraid to admit these things. Now it's cool to do. Many people die because of that. Things get worse with no judgment.
the first person to count how much aura was lost throughout this video I'll send $20 right now😂
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@@K0B317-v4n bro hit me up on IG
Damn I just subbed and liked allat shii✊🏾lemme hold a 5 brobro@@BroMaxxing
@@BroMaxxing it says not everyone can msg this acc
Fr. The white chalk just looks weird, especially when it’s all over your hairline
That's what I'm saying bro
Ts looks stupid and childish.
Fr, looking like a whole crime scene happened
@@DeceasedFishGaming💀
My barber was boutta use a Brown Pencil but dude had no other enhancements. Seen that pencil and pleaded with him my hairline was good enough
11. Not clipping your nails
12. Not conversing with plain English
13. Tattoos all over your face/ neck
14. Wearing gym attire everywhere you go
15. Being musty
Wearing Earrings
Nah@@BlackMrClean24
@@Brght_07 it's gay
@@BlackMrClean24it’s not
The white chalk is to line up, you are supposed to wipe it off when the line up is complete
No it’s to enhance the cut and make your cut look sharper and make the contrast with the fade you may have look even better. It’s either drawn with a not sharp pencil or drawn way to thick or not blended which all makes it look terrible.
Thats what i thought. Who tf leave the barber like that?
the same people leave the shipping plastic on their dodges too... smh
@@anthonymattocks6253lmao yooooooo this the one ,they rock them yellow clips like it’s some designer
You would think that was obvious
Sagging your pants overall is crazy
Never understood that either I seen dude even sag their gym shorts and that's the most comfortable clothing men can have
A lil sagging is ok but showing your ass is crazy
@jaysouthmusic8230 pants sagging originated in prison, so people knew who belonged to who if you know what I mean. Young men thought that shit was hard or tuff cuz they associated it with prisoners so they emulated it.
Only if people knew the real meaning of sagging your jeans they will stop doing it instantly.
@@KedousY Yeah but the true reason people sagged their pants in prison was to get their butt touched😅
Saying "bro" every 10 seconds also needs to be added to this list.
goes for everyone really
Brother may get canceled for this, but he made the right move💪🏾
THANK YOU for calling out the pants underwear thing. I swear I was the only black guy at my high school that actually wore a belt. 😭✋
Me too
Same. Wore it properly we should add.
Girls don't even do that, why boys though? Like pull up ur pants bros, it's called being appropiate.
Sorry but every time I see people wearing pants that sack when you can see their underwear I always think about the meme when the prisoner says “do you want to do this the easy way or the hard way.”😅😂
@@tacet6344 That behavior literally stems from gay men in prison who would sag their pants to let you know they drop the soap on purpose, so it makes sense.
That thumbnail is really out of pocket 😂
For real facts
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Bro, I'm an army veteran and I have PTSD so taking care of my mental health is something I have to practice daily.
Dominican men would disagree heavily with the skinny jeans take 😂
That’s their problem
Naw@@Zamintsupremacy
@@Zamintsupremacywell Dominicans get a lot of love from everyone for their appearance lol
Honestly it don’t matter where what you wanna wear jus make it look good
I'm Dominican, and you won't ever catch me wearing skinny jeans bro 🤣 wtf
Gossiping, disrespecting women, bragging when you ain't got shit, negative energy
THIS IS ALL MEN NOW!
@@coreythomas3633no it’s not goofy. Go outside, Touch some grass lol
This the one..they all do this cuz they broke..BM are broke man & not trying.😂
W comment
Lol true 😂@@coreythomas3633
Only thing I would add is drinking. Alongside vaping and cigarettes, drinking excessively has so many negative health affects!
How many water bottles should a 32y old drink in a day?
Yes I had this one guy Denied alcohol had no psychological affects... Boy would become the most racist MF I've ever seen and forget when he's sober or after he got into an altercation
@@MikhailTeplensky about 3.7 liters like 15
@@MikhailTeplensky Depends a lot on your weight as well.
How about you just enjoy life instead of being all neurotic and worried about how you look all the time. Drinking and smoking is a good time.. In moderation of course
THANK YOU for mentioning the sagging. Skinny jeans, baggy jeans, doesn't matter. INSTANTLY lose my attraction to a guy if I see that. I told my son I'd snatch his ass if I ever saw him doing it. It was ridiculous when I first saw it in the 80s. Can't believe it's still going.
Pushing your standards of attraction to your son is crazy work.
@@rubixmaster7532a lot of black woman have resulted to dating their sons.
I'm 35 and have never been sunburned, I use hot water to wash face and never have bumps. It's very genetic-based.
I thought the white chalk was a guide for barbers to line you up, not something you should walk out the shop with. Wild
Mane you sholl know what to say..I thought the same thing
- Who leaves the hospital wearing the hospital gown?
Lawlessness in the last days
Just absolute anarchic buffoonery
Never even scene that white chalk shit lmao
I never knew about the white chalk since today 😂
I just found about it also on 8-13-2024. Never knew this was a thing. Yea, that’s ugly
I would add I see a lot of dudes just worry about their looks, working out but not getting a career. They are in shape, always at the gym and broke. Focus on getting a real career as well.
Or a trade 🤔 😅
@@faveese By a career I'm definitely including trades. A lot of dudes that had trouble in school really excel at different trades and can make more money than lawyers.
One problem these days is people trying to be perfectly perfect. It's a social problem, all looks no social ability, just a bunch of barbie and ken dolls lol
💯💯💯💯💯💯
Are you attracted to ugliness?
Well you need looks first then social ability
@@animekingdom4918 frr lol
Add proper hygiene from head to toe, including care of the lips, mouth and teeth. Also not relieving one's self in public (urinating, hacking, spitting, tooth-picking, nose and face-picking, etc. Wear clean and appropriate attire in general. These go for women as well
GET IT TOGETHER YOUNG BRO's, we need U out here in the real world 💪🏽👊🏽
Bro my barber once cut my hair too short 💀 and he fcked up my whole hairline too
Literally what happened to me 2 days ago
@@okolidelight2005 damn bro that sucks
@@okolidelight2005 L barber fr
That happened to me a few years back never went back to that barber he really screwed me over and the sad part is he was PHENOMENAL when I first started going to him but yeah he fell off bad
#1. Lying to friends and others around you make you look bad. You will lose friends and family that way
Masturbating is healthy, it’s very healthy, as a matter of fact it causes your brain to release dopamine, lowers stress, helps with sleep (if done before bed), also, you can’t compare professional athletes to average joe (athletes have trainers and nutritionists to help them keep their bags (💰)), all that other stuff is spot on.
Medical fact: Beating it helps to prevent erectile dysfunction in men. If you don't use it' you may lose it!
Self pleasure is much better than involving other people, -no hassle and no risk.
Facts
Hes saying dont be excessive with it. We can tell who watches a lot of it. It does come out in interactions with women
Prevents prostate cancer too.
You nailed so many good points ! Agree with all of them - hope others pick up and heed your advice 😊
Thanks for watching🙏🏾
You were pretty much spot on with everything. I don't have anything to add kinda. The only one I would add is reading more books and being educated in the political and community arena. Other than that, you knocked it out of the park bro. Good job!
White chalk, skinny jeans, sagging, dyed hair all facts fact facts facts. Those are trash! The health tips were spot on as well.
This video just made me a proud Auntie! So refreshing to hear a young man with such wisdom and self respect. You're your brothers keeper type vibe ❤
This is absolutely a public service announcement I support in its ENTIRETY 💯
On the Money young Brother. I am 73 yrs old African American males born & raise in Brooklyn. Love you mind to speak to all your brothers in this way, they need it. Keep it going make what you present here the L atest Trend amongst African American men in America. And African American is your proper Nationality. Think about your Heritage and say it connects to a Body of Land, Irish American, Italian American, Puerto Rican American, etc where is Blackland where Black people come from. Just speaking my mind from 73 yrs of life experiences. Love your words, keep flowing. Brother Michael
Finally!! A young man with some style , finesse and class...that white chalk, outline is RIDICULOUS showing your underwear is DISGUSTING, being the BIG MOUTH speaks for itself , you are on point on every subject. Thank you for sharing that very VALUABLE information, IT IS MUCH NEEDED.
This young man was raised well. I'm impressed with his maturity.
I agree with everything you said everything in this video. I don’t fit in none of this category because I love living a healthy sober lifestyle 💪🏿👌🏿💯♥️
4:50 "you lose confidence when you beat your meat all the time" 😂 i laughed out loud when he said that and dude put his head down in disappointment..i was thinking its all good big fella youll get through this 😂
I Am So Glad a Man is who's saying this. When a female says these thing we got told we aren't 10s so shouldn't have nothin to say. Thanks Bro., Rock Steady, Much ❤.
Women been saying some of this stuff lol. Especially the sagging
Well-made. I'm (68,) and pretty much agree with just about Everything you've covered here. Forgive me if I insist that you must've had a mostly HEALTHY upbringing. Whoever raised you (parents, grandparents, etc.,) SOMEBODY did an admirable job. Please, keep up the Public Service Videos. 👍🏾😎
The narrator’s “ tone” of voice is hilarious to me 😂😂😂🤣- but on a serious note 🤓, as a 🙋🏾♀️woman, I agree with you 💯 bro ❤️‼️- oh , except for the weed part 🤣🤣🤣
Bruh... The thumb nail is EVERYTHING 🎉😂😂
0:45, whyyyy????? 😭😭😭
cs ts looks a mess.
Them Cheeks in the thumbnail sending me! 🤣🤣
Yeah We can smell that 🦨🦨🦨🦨🦨
😂😂😂😂 I was looking for this comment 😂
It's too much! 🤣
Mane! 😂🤣
I love it zaddy
Masturbation in general is unacceptable if you tryna be attractive regardless of if you watching pornography or not
Not really. Just don’t do it in excess or watch fucked up unrealistic porn. I’ll stop and start back randomly fr. Some people get sucked into porn if they let themselves watch it, so they should completely abstain. Porn doesn’t affect me at all socially, mentally, romantically🤷🏾♂️. Whatever works 4 you
@@05mizzy 🤦🏿♂️
@@ugoike205 if you’re going to respond add something. Refute or something at least🤣🤣
@@05mizzy the reason why I say it’s unacceptable as a man is because one of our greatest assets that God has given us (idk if you’re a Christian or not but i don’t care I’m gonna say it anyway) is our semen and when we’re out here jerking off we’re wasting it draining our energy and feeling full afterwards and on top of that not putting it to good use. Real men doing go spraying their semen on useless thing like porn, masturbation in general, hooking up, and etc. There’s also a whole spiritual aspect to it to but idk if you’re a Christian.
@@ugoike205yea r u not boutta say sum?
this guy said don't dye ur hair or beard blond then puts a video of someone pulling it off lol
Fr that’s the only point that isn’t true
Dyed hair can look good
You lying dying your beard any color then black is gay AF and if you disagree you got some sugar in your tank😅
@@Zamintsupremacy Dyed hair is as FAKE as FAKE HAIR, FAKE LASHES, FAKE NAILS, FAKE BBL's...IF YOU ARE FAKE ON THE OUTSIDE, IT ONLY MEANS YOU ARE FAKE ON THE INSIDE. BE REAL NOT FAKE!!!
I'd be dying my hair sometimes and I get a lotta compliments about it as well
@@indigoevo1998 FAKE IS FAKE NO MATTER HOW YOU DRESS IT UP, WHETHER IT BE FAKE HAIR, FAKE LASHES, FAKE NAILS, OR FAKE HAIR COLOR!!! IF YOU'RE COMPELLED TO PUT FAKE ON THE OUTSIDE, IT'S JUST THE FAKE ON THE INSIDE MAKING IT'S WAY TO THE SURFACE!!! For thousands of years black men have been HAPPY just being BLACK men. Now this GENERATION of WEAK black men have SUCCUMBED to OUTSIDE pressure and become FAKE and have the NERVE to try and call themselves REAL with FAKE hair color on their heads. MAKE THAT MAKE SENSE!!!
Me watching this knowing damn well I’m white eating a casserole
Go away
@@huahfilmworks9484 need to study this generation of metrosexual Egyptian larpers
@@user-tm8jt2py3dI’m black but that’s funny
😂😂😂
@@huahfilmworks9484 Nah, they'd win
I’m so glad you hit on the p*rn topic. Young men need to know this. Everything in moderation.
This is a message that everybody needs to hear
Been smoking herbs for years. No black lips here. And ppl have no idea i smoke
Yes, they do ... They know, but they are telling You... Or, most of your friends smoke as much as You do.
@@marcus.g.4273 no they dont
yeah that 'blck lips' thing was silly as hell🤷♂
@@marcus.g.4273Trust me, if you don’t have black lips and barely any smoke they don’t know.
Keep beating it as time goes on you wont be able to keep it hard at all REAL TALK!!!!!
I remember when I was in high school and I thought high school was life 😂
As a man who’s in his late 30’s I’ll tell you
Man do whatever you want to do lol
This generation is hilarious how much emphasis is put on what other people think
You’re gonna go through life avoiding pivotal defining moments in your life just for perception with this thinking
I know plenty of guys who have all the stuff on the list and they don’t have the woman they want.
On the opposite side, I’ve seen guys who are fat, with acne and a receding hairline that have the woman of YOUR dreams and she’s completely happy.
Why?
Because he’s HAPPY
the dude that’s recording this video doesn’t sound happy at all and he thinks by having all these things that he will because he’s young
When you all go through life, you’ll look back and say wow I got through that
You don’t want to look back at life and only be able to say wow I maintained this or I avoided that because that leads to regret.
Eat whatever you want to
Watch whatever you want to
Think however you want to
And most importantly
Live
Because when you’re genuinely happy regardless of what you have and what you look like, you’ll attract whatever you want in life.
Bianicman out
So trying to be attractive and have good habits is bad?... people watch these videos because they want to change, they aren't happy with what they are now...self improvement. Talking about the person recording the video doesn't sound happy, must he sound jolly?
I’m glad someone is telling black people to wear pants in a way that doesn’t restrict proper movement and talk in a way that others can understand properly.
Bro, you were talking some real shit till you reach that the point of
"Eat whatever you want to
Watch whatever you want to
Think however you want to"
But, hey, even the bible has a lot of wisdom and a lot of bullshit and stupidity...
As you said, you are in your late 30's and the thing is that probably till you reach the age of early 20's your life was probably more relatable to a people of the 80's and 90's (even back then maybe) then if we compare to teenagers and people in their early 20's right now. But the true is that I dont know shit about you but so dont take it personal.
eat whatever you want to - that would be ok if we were living a hundred years ago and didnt had easiest acces to hyper palatable food, that we can just order from an app (and this is just the tip of the iceberg on the food problems)
watch whatever you want to - yeah sure watch whatever you want to, doomscrooll through tiktok/instagram/yt and watch any porn you want... I mean, we will die and we will not be able to watch it all, so we better watch the most useless content we can, right? i dont think so
think however you want to - i dont know if I got it right, but, If a friend of yours came to you and said that he's having suicidal thoughts, would you just say "yeeeey buddy, thats great, keep it up"?
But hey, taking those parts out, i think you're right, we have to do the things that we want and dont worry on what other people think.
And also, when you say
"Live"
That's a good advice, but you know, even the guys that you mentioned that dont have the woman they want (assuming that they're really not happy because you know that you can just be wrong on that, right?), are living. We can't be happy all the time, and that's part of the experience of life.
Something that I learned is that the people we think that are the happier can be the most miserable, and the people that we see as unhappy, can be trully fullfilled.
As they say "One shouldn't measure other people by one's own yard-stick"
@@raphaelguedes5017 I absolutely agree with you man. Very well thought out. I appreciate you taking the time to type that out.
(Most people don’t know the Bible is 100% stupidity and 100% wisdom its all about the reader)
Yeah I’m from a different time lol before social media where people didn’t care about what everyone else was doing.
I know a guy that eats like shit, all processed foods, no fruits or vegetables but is probably the “healthiest” guy I know… then I have a friend who’s a lil younger, eats good, exercises regularly but is ALWAYS dealing with health issues because he’s MISERABLE.
When I say “eat whatever you want” that means whatever satisfies your soul.
I like eating fruits and vegetables and I don’t like eating meat.
When I was in my early 20s I was trying to get JACKED so I ate allot of animal products for protein. I had to learn what’s best for me and not rely on the internet to tell me the 5 best ways to blah blah or avoid doing this that and the third. Don’t get me wrong advice is good but if it’s not from an expert then it’s probably onion at best and should be looked at as such.
Much like my comment lol
Ultimately your 20s are best used as a time to experiment with what you like because by the time you hit 30 you’ll be stuck in those ways and I’ve seen people live within these lines of eating and dressing a certain way, but not because they wanted to ascend to the top of the social and economic ladder it was because they were afraid to do something or try something and be the ONLY one doing it.
What I realized is that there are many ways to do everything but there is only one way that will work best for each of us
@@josephdillon9698 yeah I hear you but I really don’t care what other people are doing. I say let them be and find out on their own. It just might not be for you but it might be for them. Judge not less ye be judged amigo
As a Black woman of a mature place in life.
I admire these things in men and about men.
Confidence. When a man is confident he does not think about walking with his head held high.
That is a natural and it takes no thought.
He knows he is presenting himself as a human being that enjoys learning and growing. Improving in areas he knows will be beneficial not only to himself but to others as well.
Keep learning from mistakes, open up to positive criticism and turn it into a Smile.
I will give each of you reading my comment a life gift. S. M. I. L. E.
I coined this in my life.
Shared. Meaningful. Involved. Life. Experience (s)
If every black guy did what you advised them and took care of themselves, there wouldn’t be stereotypes other than ones made out of jealously lol
Elaborate more
That will never happen unfortunately just read through some of the comments😂
@@BroMaxxing yeah 😭
Stereotypes would still exist cause stereotypes aren't meant to be true but are ment to demean and offend
People would still stereotype them even if they did those things.
I can't remember the last time I wore sunscreen. I lived and worked in Central Africa (Cameroon) for 2 years and never wore sunblock/sunscreen. I wore SHEA BUTTER which is a natural sunscreen due to having a rich amount of Vitamin E & D. As a kid, I only had heat rash on my lips but I never got sunburn. A lot of that is due to dehydration. Plus, most Black people in the USA are vitamin D deficient. We need the sun. Am I saying STAY IN THE SUN ALL DAY? No. Don't be under the sun at high noon but we really need the sun more than any race of people. Shea butter & cocoa butter are worn by African people in Africa instead of western sunscreen that is catered to white skin. And a lot of sunscreen products have a lot of carcinogens in them which ironically can be cancerous but we're avoiding trying to get skin cancer.
Hardest thing I struggle with is maintaining healthy mental health
Less social media
One thing you mentioned that is no good. Sun-block. Sun exposure is the best source of vitamin D. Applying sun blocker, when put under a black light looks black. Sun block is also carcingenic. It is better to apply a natural moisturizer, such as coco butter. If your skin burns easy, limit your time in the sun or wear light color clothing that covers your skin. But avoid using sun blocker.
I don't agree with a lot of the things my Black Peeps tend to do, but I've learned that it's really none of my business..& not to mention folks gonna do what they're gonna do.
I agree with the entire take, except the skinny jeans, not because they're cool, but because they were fashion before, and now it's just outta trend, and it will be back
Skinnies was always disgusting
Way too feminine- 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
They were never fashion, they have always made look feminine and one of the biggest turn offs!
Why yo pants as tight as mine? Lol. Not cute
This cut is not for every man? skinny jeans are not attractive on men w big butts and big legs - furthermore the guys that do wear them appear uncomfortable and are always grabbing their business to keep from cutting the circulation off?
I agree with everything you said. About skinny jeans, I don't wear the super skinny ones, but I just don't know which kinds of jeans to wear, the straight ones just look weird to me, especially at the bottom where they meet the shoes. Partying every weekend too is a potential killer, I can't really say people must stop drinking all together but while trying to achieve something, you might need to quit it for a few months or just rarely drink.
A tip I did for myself to stop meat beating, was getting too sick to want to for like a week or two, then watching khorne without beating. Consumption will go up initially, but as you disassociate watching it with pleasure, you'll find it boring, uninteresting, shameful, and you'll find yourself thinking about it less and less, causing you to be able to redirect that energy into other things. Also helps to have other things to redirect that energy in to, but if you're not working out, that's already an easy redirect.
I don’t need sunscreen, I wouldn’t be black anymore if I had to use sunscreen lol, but you definitely dropped some jewels in this 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
That’s not true. Black people can still get skin problems from sun exposure
@@B_addie Like I said, I don’t need it, idk about the rest of y’all!
I've seen a lot of women use white pencil or highlighter or whatever they call it to outline their eyebrows to make them look sharper but they just look funny and cartoonish when they over do it. I guess that fad has finally been brought to men's hairline to make it look sharper but it also looks cartoonish.
My sons barber would never let a man out his chair with a chalk outline 😂
That's that Philly shit. They love that shit in Philly
Bro im gonna come out plain and say it he spoke the truth and he spoke facts thanks man i respect you keep up the good work 👏👍
The narcissism it takes to tell people that they should all adhere to your personal preferences
Was about to say the same thing
The main thing that holds me back could be summed up in lacking confidence, but as a black man with a small manhood it my size. I bought a home, I am far in my career, have my own business on the side as a designer, but the main thing that makes me ugly or just unhappy is my penis size. Was shamed for it when I was in my 20s and not living up to stereotypes made me question many things. But for me is lacking confidence.
lame .
@@finished6267 Lame for sharing my thoughts, experience and journey as a immigrant now proud American man? Interesting. Rather than spread hate or ignorance which I assume you lack, do something positive. I volunteer and help where I can, try something. Anyway, blessings bud!
What do you look like? How old are you?
Takes guts being so candid (assuming you're not trolling/fishing). Just make up for it in performance. All that crap you see on pr0n hub isn't real, doesn't describe the majority of men and is painful for seasoned female performers.
You're not here for long. How do you want to spend it?
@@finished6267 You're a sad disappointment.
Sagging, Skinny Jeans (not slim fits), CHALK lineup need to give you some some community service or at least a week in holding
@@Cuunke 😂😂😂
I've seen a lot of post/videos ip here bro!
And this one was needed years ago!
Thank u so much for posting it, because everything and i mean everything i said were FACTS!
Cats really out here like this!? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤦🏾♂️🤣🤣🤣🤣
I agree. Also, I'm a female and several of these apply to us, too.
Them yns be sagging they pants 😂
I’ve never seen the while chalk hairline here in NYC but maybe because I’m 46. For you to actually walk around like that is absolutely insane.
all facts, bonus point all men should have some motion 💰
Facts🙏🏾
As a female i totally aprove of this video and the same goes for us ... no thick baby, mama, daddy hairs on the edges , ect the list goes on
#1. Never ever judge others
This is cap. You have to judge people daily else you would be in danger.
Nah judging is necessary. Keeps you safe.
Shut up
I gave my sister's son a job several years ago, even though I already judged him as a hopeless street nicca, but she begged me and I folded.
Big azz mistake🤦🏾♂️
YOU SHOULD ABSOLUTELY JUDGE PEOPLE, AND GROOM YOURSELF TO BE GOOD AT IT🤷🏾♂️
@@KingMitchellsoThe Bible disagrees with you
ON POINT WITH EVERYTHING SAID!!!!!!!!! LOVE THIS KEEP IT UP!!!!!!!
I'm so happy to have been brought up right dawg. Shit, cause I swear, some of these kids nowadays are savages bro. Caught a whole gang of kids in the school bathroom creating a fucking miasma of smoke bro. Shit was like something out of a horror movie. I don't Smoke, drink or do alatt.
I agree with minimizing beating meat or zex. the pent up stress you've accumulated can be a power boost when you workout. I once went 2 month without beating it and I felt invincible working out.
This is so true cause us as black men we just overdo shit like sagging and dying your hair 😂
Sagging i could see but do we really over dye our hair?
@@OptimalVideosyes be proud of you're natural coloured hair
@@OptimalVideos in the video it shows people with their whole heads dyed blond and such it’s just not a natural look
@@bizarboss3179 fr
@@Shxftie thought that was the point
Preach! Black men need to hear this. Thank you.
Like stop getting white chalk and just get black spray 😭
Fr the black spray underrated
i get both
Great advice! A lot of what you said makes sense. I'm gonna implement some of them.....and I'm 55 years young! 😂 Thanks and Peace bro!✌🏾
Thanks for supporting🙏🏾
For the breathing weird one, breathing through your mouth with your mouth open makes you less attractive.
So breathe through your nose with your mouth closed.
@@KingFidely I didn’t even think of that cus mouth breathing does make you less attractive😂
And it's also unhealthy since it doesn't filter out the air pollution
your chin ends up pushed back along with the rest of your face being pushed forwards giving you some kind of gru look
@@josephonyekwelu29 yup lowkey shoulda added that one to the video
@@BroMaxxingalso breathing with your diaphragm instead of chest apparently deepens your voice
So yeah, we’re literally breathing wrong.
Very nice! As a woman I agree with every single one of these! 🙌🏽💯💯
Beating it without watching? bro that's crazy it's possible but not every single time 🤣
Bro just stop beating altogether💀
@@BroMaxxing Did you 100% stopped doing it without a girlfriend or wife ?
Masturbation is not a crime nor a sin. Studies have been conducted that show its actually more healthy... And if it isn't causing any harm to you or anyone else why does it even matter?!!!
Subscribed. ... This video should have at least 10 million views. ... 'Nuff said. 💯👊🏽
all in all good video i agree with everything else and i do those. i don’t go to the gym but i walk a lot which lets me pick up women i meet while out and about and it keeps me in cool shape
You did not hold back No apologies lol. I like that...I was preparing to disagree with some points before I watched but a agree with ALL of them.
Skinny jeans and sagging skinny jeans are just prison sassy
Naw skinny jeans are fine if your skinny it’s those muscular people who make it look weird
@@isaiahsago7150 Exactly
For the young teenagers out there that like to sag most of y’all don’t know that sagging originated from prison when gay dudes were trying to get attention from other dudes, and also to air out. It’s disgusting just pull up your pants. I used to sag when I was 11 because I thought it looked cool and I would get an ass whooping all the time.
Young man, job well done.
You should keep the videos coming, brother.
Thank you sir, will do🙏🏾
I always look at how MEN present 's himself,First impressions are everything...Great video...♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
I keep tryna tell them😂
That's you in that profile picture Curtisine? 👀
Have you looked in a mirror lately
@@visionentertainment8006 Have you?.You don't even know how to PUT A SENTENCE TOGETHER... GET IT TOGETHER....
@curtistinemiller4646 I hope that's not you in the profile pic, the irony. Face looks melted.
Yoooo 4:23 is wild. You’re supposed to immediately drink a protein shake and do 40 push up and 40 sit ups afterwards. If you don’t you’ll get more estrogen. Y’all did know that right?
I am very grateful for this channel. I had Dry skin issues on my face, scalp and my face got Hella fat & ugly According to my dermatologist, it was my diet the McDonald’s, Chinese food, Pizza, all those foods caused my problem I took a break from all fast foods and started eating proper home-cooked meals while doing workouts and my problem slowly disappeared and I started getting attention from girls again.
1: Obesity.
Rodd wave
that slight touch after the"But were friends tho" had no reason to hit that hard🤣🤣😭😭
The chalk invisible beard took me tf out then I saw the saggy skinny jeans just straight 🍋 🥧 activities 💀💀💀💀
Add those girl hair bows to the list!
wym?
as a white guy thanks for the advice i will not be lining up my hairline with chalk
INCEL ARE CRAZY
Indeed it began with the razor causing the effect of that white line contrasting the enhancement, the hard white line looks goofy af.
Who idea was it to wear flip-flops EVERYWHERE, including church.
Or Crocs. 🙄
@@dellonmovies1702 … or bedroom slippers, pajamas and bonnets.
The “white chalk” isn’t even supposed to be white chalk, after a good barber is done cutting your hair you get a ASH LINE. The mediocre barber can’t get to that level so they draw a line on your head to make it seem crispy😂 same reason why my barber has been cutting my hair since I was 2
fr, ash line looks way better than the chalk
@@pixums Right I remember back in like 5th grade people used to ask why I have a white line on my forehead after a cut but whole time my barber was just better😭
isn’t the ash line just from your skin being dry? i used to get it but now that i have a better skin care routine i don’t. i usually moisturize in the morning before i go later in the day and if i’m going in the morning i probably already moisturized that night
@@TreyBtw i think it's dead skin cells
@@TreyBtw When my barber does line prep such as holding spray, alcohol before the razor or detailing after the line up is finished I get a ash line
Can't believe i lasted the whole video. Very entertaining and informative. Thank you. Still a teen 17 to be exact
You know what else makes us look ugly as black men? When we judge each other.... People need to mind their business and worry about themselves. Let that shit sink in.
👍🏾💯💯
Exactly I feel like at this point no matter what I do nobody would like me or be happy. I already followed what society wanted me to do and that didn’t give me any better results. At this point, I wanna live a quiet life.
@@Abstractsvision Bruh mad facts, had to learn the hard way about that too sadly, Like no matter how hard I try, No better results will be yielded cause our people is always judging each other which won't get anywhere
You're 1000% wrong. The issue is that we've been told far too long to "mind your business". That's a horrible take. Judging others keeps you safe and sometimes them as well. Imagine if the young black men in most inner cities felt pressure because they'd be judged for being denegerates? Drug use became more socially acceptable and it skyrocketed. When I grew up, people were afraid to admit these things. Now it's cool to do. Many people die because of that. Things get worse with no judgment.
@@AbstractsvisionYou have other issues outside of strangers judging you that you need to work on. Seek help.
As a 55 year old man, I never heard about or saw the "White" chalk trend before but good list😊.