the most frightening days of my life

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  • @DnDShorts
    @DnDShorts  Місяць тому +692

    You can support CDH UK directly here: cdhuk.org.uk/support-us/
    You can support the Sick Children's Trust directly here: www.committedgiving.uk.net/sickchildrenstrust/
    I misspeak in this video, incorrectly saying that the 1/200 infant mortality rate is 5%. It is 0.5%.

  • @DeadRobit29
    @DeadRobit29 Місяць тому +1861

    As a father, I was shaking and on the verge of tears waiting to hear how the babies were. I am beyond relieved that both of them are are ok.

    • @angelmanfredy
      @angelmanfredy Місяць тому +32

      I had to read these comments to find out because there is nothing more devastating to me than the passing of babies and children. Thank God they are OK.

    • @CasketOfHearts
      @CasketOfHearts Місяць тому +15

      Same here. I nearly lost my wife and daughter during childbirth due to pre-eclampsia. Maxed out on three blood pressure medicines and still hitting 190-110, and then dropping not a minute later to 90-30, and the bpm for my daughter dropped below 30. The room filled with doctors who ripped everything out of the walls and took them both out, without saying a word to me about what was happening. All I could do was sit down and focus on breathing, because I knew if I moved I'd do something I'd regret, even though it was no one's fault.

    • @DeadRobit29
      @DeadRobit29 Місяць тому +2

      ​@@CasketOfHearts❤❤❤

    • @robertb6889
      @robertb6889 Місяць тому +6

      I had twins that were in the NICU for 5 weeks. I was terrified. They were okay. But I have never been so worried.

    • @SawyerAnderson
      @SawyerAnderson Місяць тому +3

      Same my man. I’m just sitting in the break room hoping no one ask why my eyes are watery. Thank God they are okay.❤

  • @DUNGEONCRAFT1
    @DUNGEONCRAFT1 Місяць тому +260

    Thank you for sharing. My prayers are with Atticus. Most people do not know my wife and I lost a child due to similar circumstances. We are lucky indeed, to be living in these times. Best wishes. Professor Dungeonmaster, Dungeoncraft.

    • @DnDShorts
      @DnDShorts  Місяць тому +68

      I’m so sorry for your loss, and grateful everyday for how lucky we have been. Love you man

    • @samaelblack8107
      @samaelblack8107 Місяць тому +8

      My sincerest condolences, Professor Dungeonmaster.

  • @ChaoticTrapper
    @ChaoticTrapper Місяць тому +2245

    I can't speak for everyone but I think I can speak for most of us when I say we're here for you and your family. Now and always

    • @donut6429
      @donut6429 Місяць тому +15

      I don’t know about everyone else but you speak for me.

    • @stary-eyedphantom6456
      @stary-eyedphantom6456 Місяць тому +7

      You definitely speak for me. I certainly hope you speak for everyone, however naive that may be.

    • @TheGMan0000
      @TheGMan0000 Місяць тому +3

      You speak for me as well!

    • @the_mad_fool
      @the_mad_fool Місяць тому +4

      AND MY AXE!

    • @sairicfire101
      @sairicfire101 Місяць тому +3

      And my nerf guns!!!

  • @reagrenwright4277
    @reagrenwright4277 Місяць тому +474

    Daughter was born a month premature. Her lungs were weak and she suffered from high levels of bilirubin. She nearly died the day after she was brought home. Wife did CPR on her and got her back. Took her to hospital where she was placed in a tank with ultraviolet light (phototherapy) in an effort to get her liver to start working. I forget how many days we stayed in the hospital. I don't try to think of those days. Today my baby girl is a D&D playing college student. Vote to make sure Healthcare is available to everyone and not just those with money, fame, and political status. And it's needs to be real Healthcare that keeps you alive, fixes what broken, and doesn't put you in debt for the next 10+ years.

    • @taylorforsyth4278
      @taylorforsyth4278 Місяць тому +10

      Your wife is amazing! I'm glad you guys were able to save your daughter and have her in your life.

    • @elementual
      @elementual Місяць тому +5

      This made me cry. So so so happy that she made it. Tell your wife she's incredible for me!

    • @davilox07_15
      @davilox07_15 Місяць тому +3

      I’m glad your daughter made it through those tough times. I in turn owe my life to the Spanish universal healthcare system. My skull wasn’t developing properly so without surgery I would’ve died or developed brain damage in the best case scenario. Healthcare should be a right and not a privilege.

  • @SpectralSavaant
    @SpectralSavaant Місяць тому +788

    I already knew Jocat was right, but yeah, he was right. You are strong.
    Thank you.

    • @bruno_is_here
      @bruno_is_here Місяць тому +5

      This man is the strongest person who I know, he's a hero

    • @grindcoreninja6527
      @grindcoreninja6527 Місяць тому

      Where can I find what jocat said?

  • @WarbearPrime
    @WarbearPrime Місяць тому +132

    I almost lost my son when he was 11 to an avocado shaped, and sized, brain tumor.
    When I found out, I screamed in rage, fear and pain. I then collapsed to my knees.
    I sit here as I write this teary eyed, and hoping all the best for your sister, and all your family.
    If I wasn't already donating to those places that helped us out, I would give you some.

    • @Yet_AGOTI
      @Yet_AGOTI Місяць тому +9

      Almost?! What a fighter! That is amazing! I do hope that that almost holds up to today and far into the future. May his life be long and happy.

    • @WarbearPrime
      @WarbearPrime Місяць тому +9

      @@Yet_AGOTI He is 15 atm, and before he had the tumor, he was diagnosed with ADHD and Coeliac's Disease.

    • @Yet_AGOTI
      @Yet_AGOTI Місяць тому +7

      @@WarbearPrime brain bleed at birth and made it to 35. Autistic, adhd, but still kicking. Your son is my hero of the week! What a legend!

    • @WarbearPrime
      @WarbearPrime Місяць тому +4

      @@Yet_AGOTI Thank you for saying that, he is a bit of a battler in our family.

    • @robinferdinandsen7122
      @robinferdinandsen7122 12 днів тому +1

      so happy to hear your son made it

  • @BlaineKodos
    @BlaineKodos Місяць тому +909

    "Sorry if this video is a downer" as Atticus comes out swinging with a nat 20 Con save. You're a good person for wanting to support those who supported your family, and I wish nothing but the best for both of your nephews in the future. They have good hands waiting to help.

    • @kevlar427
      @kevlar427 Місяць тому +37

      Thanks to the hospital staff they were rolling with advantage.

  • @TheDungeonCoach
    @TheDungeonCoach Місяць тому +84

    You have a big heart and THAT must run in your family too! So happy that those boys made it and you we're so strong for your family in that time of need! I have donated and will add this foundation to my list of charities as well!

  • @robertadams6558
    @robertadams6558 Місяць тому +811

    As someone who as an infant was born with a collapsed lung and hernia and almost dying 3 times in my first year., I appreciate what you are doing. I survived and made it to 62 so far enjoying this hobby we all love and teaching it to my own children and grandchildren. Praying others get the chance to also grow and become role players or whatever else they want to be. Will keep you and yours in those prayers as well. Love everything you do and glad to see you use your platform in this way.

    • @grindcoreninja6527
      @grindcoreninja6527 Місяць тому +7

      I'm glad you made it, and I'll admit, I'm rather jealous I didn't grow up with a grandfather that looks like a wizard that DM's for me!

  • @1chaosstar1
    @1chaosstar1 Місяць тому +21

    My youngest was born with CDH, had surgery at 3 days old, so I fully understand how your felt. When I get my next paycheck I will be donating.

  • @TLor188
    @TLor188 Місяць тому +719

    The infant mortality rate in the US is worse than most would think. I am glad you are shedding some light on it. I am glad they all came out on top. I hope the best for you and your family. Love you and the Viva La Dirt League team. Thank you for giving to a good cause.

    • @popecj29
      @popecj29 Місяць тому +15

      The infant mortality statistics reported by countries is according to their own standards. Those standards vary greatly from nation to nation. If the world had to report using U.S.A's standards, We would be near the lowest in terms of mortality.
      China for example doesn't not consider the following circumstances as live births or count in their census data. 1. Death within 24 hours of birth 2. Miscarriages 3. Abortions (forced or otherwise).

    • @StormTheSquid
      @StormTheSquid Місяць тому +41

      ​​@@popecj29people have this weird perception that America is a developed nation and thus can't have the problems of starvation, infant mortality, etc. but that's a facade. We'd probably still be awful even if everyone used the same standards.
      Edit: Also, 2 and 3 aren't live births, so they shouldn't be considered as such, regardless of whatever your political stance on the latter is.

    • @KTheStruggler
      @KTheStruggler Місяць тому +7

      ​@@StormTheSquid the main thing is income / coverage. Infant mortality is quite low in the US if you don't count the poor people.

    • @toms7114
      @toms7114 Місяць тому +5

      @@KTheStruggler If like in other countries the USA didn't count premature babies who don't make it, the USA has one of the lowest infant mortality rates in the world, regardless of a person's economic status.

    • @KTheStruggler
      @KTheStruggler Місяць тому +11

      @@toms7114 that's not true, there is less of a disparity when you account for nonviable births but there is still a disparity, especially in the 1 - 12 month infant range and it is very closely associated with poor socio economic status

  • @SmilerStrike
    @SmilerStrike Місяць тому +16

    The very moment I heard "Thanks to the effort of the wonderful doctors", I was cheering.

  • @apjtv2540
    @apjtv2540 Місяць тому +141

    Remember: it costs nothing to be kind. Even if you can't donate to these charities, be kind to those around you. You don't know how much that kindness might be worth to someone.

    • @starslayer8390
      @starslayer8390 Місяць тому +2

      Preach my friend. Kindness is incredibly easy to give, yet so many refuse anyway. Don't be like them.

    • @bobertastic6541
      @bobertastic6541 Місяць тому +1

      And maybe, just this once, turn your adblockers off for a video. Every small fraction of a cent helps, after all

  • @daddysidrak1330
    @daddysidrak1330 Місяць тому +17

    We had care-giving in agenda as an item of discussion at the United Nations the previous week...
    Different countries have different ideas of what care-giving is and who a care-giver is, but we should have no divergences on the matter.
    Healthcare must be free for those who cannot afford it. This is a state's responsability currently carried out by NGOs (in the US).
    Hope your family and the kids all good. Those rolls should be done only with the dices on a table.
    You have my support, as an italian delegate to the UN

    • @aggonzalezdc
      @aggonzalezdc Місяць тому +3

      The people who fall between the cracks have not failed society, society has failed them. Thank you for trying to change it.

  • @echoeurope
    @echoeurope Місяць тому +295

    You are one of the most genuine down to earth people i have seen on this platform. I know multiple survivors from CDH, and i could not be happier for them. Most people probably dont even know of this, thank you for bringing it to everyone's attention! Again, you are great. Keep it up, and i wish you and your family the best!

  • @tomcaniff6437
    @tomcaniff6437 Місяць тому +2

    I knew I was in for it when he said "trigger warning" but when he said "infant mortality" I audibly gasped holy shit, did NOT expect that to be the topic of this video.

  • @thod-thod
    @thod-thod Місяць тому +87

    I’m genuinely crying over this. You are so good a person. All of the support we can give is yours and your sisters. If I had money, I would donate. As it is, I’m turning off adblocker for the next videos.

  • @enchantedshiv1741
    @enchantedshiv1741 Місяць тому +7

    Several of the women in my family have experienced multiple miscarriages, and it's always a really heartbreaking experience. Thank you for helping raise awareness about such a socially "taboo" topic. No one likes to think about this stuff, but it's so important to be aware of these things. Thanks for being vulnerable with us about this. And I'm so happy for you and your family that the little ones are here and healthy. Babies are such a wonderful blessing. ❤

  • @orionstickguard790
    @orionstickguard790 Місяць тому +80

    To be honest, I do not know what to say, I'm happy the babies survived, and I will definitely support these charities.

  • @Nawka007
    @Nawka007 Місяць тому +2

    Support is a understatement! I donated as much as i could which means naught to the comment im leaving as a human to a human you have a lot of love and support in Australia and myself! I hope all the parents and kids that need the support know and have it too!

  • @EnterThePocketDimension
    @EnterThePocketDimension Місяць тому +47

    Incredible use of your platform. Love and continued best wishes to you and yours 💖

  • @Saberwolf71
    @Saberwolf71 Місяць тому +3

    Thank you for sharing this. My wife and I lost a baby ourselves and we now have two healthy and brilliant young adult children. I really enjoyed watching the "total raised" counter click upward throughout watching your video.

  • @fragehardt
    @fragehardt Місяць тому +48

    This is heavy stuff. Thank you for telling the story and using your platform as a device for good. If even one child is saved because of this video, it will have been worth it.

  • @g0ld3ney3
    @g0ld3ney3 Місяць тому +4

    So glad your nephews and sister are doing well. Thank you for telling all of us about such great charities, they're doing the unsung hero work that makes this world amazing.

  • @Steindaemon
    @Steindaemon Місяць тому +75

    You are such a nice guy ❤

  • @parkerjones6071
    @parkerjones6071 Місяць тому +4

    You’re going to be an awesome uncle. Congratulations!

  • @robertdemare6140
    @robertdemare6140 Місяць тому +26

    i dont have much to donate... but i'll leave this running in the background for the watch hours/YT monitization.
    good that everything turned out well. youre awesome for making this video, for actually donating it to charity.

  • @gavinmcgraw
    @gavinmcgraw Місяць тому +5

    It's so heart-wrenching when children's lives hang in the balance. Love to these brave little adventurers and your whole family.
    My son had/has a congenital heart defect, requiring several surgeries, and it was touch and go for the first several months of his life. He's level 13 now and strong as an ox so it can be easy take for granted how lucky we've been. But every story like this brings me back to that awful feeling of fear and powerlessness of when it was all happening.

  • @sandmanlives3
    @sandmanlives3 Місяць тому +29

    Thank you having the courage to speak about a sensitive, but important topic.

  • @asolanara
    @asolanara Місяць тому +3

    Thank you for speaking up and taking action. So glad the babies are doing well. I am one of the lucky ones as well

  • @peternolder8145
    @peternolder8145 Місяць тому +12

    Youre not alone. Reach out, talk, scream, shout, let it out. Friends, family or strangers. Cry it out. Sending a virtual hug.

  • @michellever9785
    @michellever9785 Місяць тому +5

    Much love from Canada. Best care to you and your family.

  • @andyb1858
    @andyb1858 Місяць тому +20

    So happy the boys are doing well. Thank you for using your platform to raise awareness about this.

  • @FisherWilliams4
    @FisherWilliams4 19 днів тому +1

    That’s such a horrible thing to happen to a baby & as someone who’s significant other lost our unborn son due to illness I understand the pain of losing a child & am glad your sister didn’t have to go through that loss. I’m glad the baby is fine & I hope they have a fruitful & lovely life

  • @BB-pn2qv
    @BB-pn2qv Місяць тому +8

    I can’t watch this…. But thank you for talking about this. Thank you. I’m so so sorry.

    • @ninjablade2
      @ninjablade2 Місяць тому +1

      Just so you know, the baby thankfully survived and seem to be in good condition~

    • @BB-pn2qv
      @BB-pn2qv Місяць тому

      @@ninjablade2 thank you for this, I’m very glad

  • @michaelbutcher6269
    @michaelbutcher6269 Місяць тому +2

    Dude, once again you prove what an amazing human being you are, humble, honest and true. Love to the family

  • @thecornerkid402
    @thecornerkid402 Місяць тому +36

    Praise God your nephew made it. Also glad you’re okay. I know that exact stress. It is crippling. Excellent charity to support.

    • @Sixfifteen81
      @Sixfifteen81 Місяць тому +15

      Praise the surgeons and the medical staff..

    • @okayhellohihowyadoin
      @okayhellohihowyadoin Місяць тому +12

      Praise the researchers, nurses, doctors, and other staff that saved the baby’s life.

    • @shealupkes
      @shealupkes Місяць тому +6

      praise the past 4000 years of development in medical knowledge and technology

    • @korpakukac
      @korpakukac Місяць тому

      God tried to kill his nephew. The doctors saved him. May wanna reevaluate whom you praise.

  • @gavinwelch1340
    @gavinwelch1340 Місяць тому

    I spent the first months of my life in the NICU. I’ll be here for all of whatever you’re supporting Will! Congrats on being an Uncle! Thanks for all you do! 💚

  • @Teraclon
    @Teraclon Місяць тому +15

    We'll join you on this journey, as long as you allow us, and we will be support you through it. All the love, mate

  • @timothywhite6139
    @timothywhite6139 Місяць тому

    Thank you. You often say that you are the most fortunate or lucky, I don't believe you truly understand how fortunate and lucky we are to have you as a representative in our community. As a teacher, father, and RPG enthusiast I am so glad that you are here with us in this time . Thank you so much for all you do and how much you care.🤟

  • @IchabodLocust
    @IchabodLocust Місяць тому +27

    Best D&D content channel, truly

  • @HappytintheClown
    @HappytintheClown Місяць тому +3

    Thank you for taking the time to use your platform for importing things like this. Your candid energy and integrity make the message stand out .

  • @Ben-Re
    @Ben-Re Місяць тому +7

    Thank you for raising awareness of this disease, but also of the importance and indispensability of good healthcare and what it means not to have it.
    I live in a privileged country in Germany as far as healthcare is concerned, as it is available to everyone, but for many it is not.
    So a plea to everyone, if you can do anything to help, do it to protect those who can't help themselves and have no luck in the birth lottery. Thank you!

  • @Duskbreaker1780
    @Duskbreaker1780 Місяць тому +7

    Seriously one of my favorite UA-camrs. You have a huge community supporting you man.

  • @josephpilkus1127
    @josephpilkus1127 Місяць тому +2

    They are precious...very brave to share the story, and I appreciate all that you do for the hobby, and clearly beyond...

  • @74gould
    @74gould Місяць тому +6

    ❤ Much respect to you for this, and love to your family.

  • @DakJD
    @DakJD Місяць тому +1

    My friend... your authenticity is inspiring. I have seen very few people who radiate kindness, concern, and passion the way you do. Sharing your story and using your platform to spread awareness and raise money for those less fortunate warms my heart. The world would be a better place with more people like you in it. Keep up the good fight, and much love from me to you.
    I'm happy to give what I can.

  • @TheSilentScreamX
    @TheSilentScreamX Місяць тому +7

    I'm so glad everything worked out for your family, and it's such a great thing you're doing for these charities. They do amazing work and deserve all the support they get.

  • @alexbirchall9537
    @alexbirchall9537 Місяць тому +4

    5% mortality is 1 in 20, not 200.
    I'm sincerely glad that your nephews have come through it though. This is a topic that needs to be talked about more

    • @dragonmagelet
      @dragonmagelet Місяць тому +2

      Mortality rate is calculated per 1000 live births.

    • @alexbirchall9537
      @alexbirchall9537 Місяць тому +1

      @dragonmagelet thank you for correcting me.
      In the video we were told 5%, hence the confusion. I'm just glad that the truth wasn't understated (and also glad it's not actually 5%)

  • @roykrzeszewski2569
    @roykrzeszewski2569 Місяць тому +5

    Im happy for you and your family much love from Michigan. Much love to all the nurses and doctors in the world.

  • @TheDoomed
    @TheDoomed Місяць тому +2

    My heart goes out to you and your family, with a child of my own I find these videos vary hard to watch, I never want to imagine what it would be like to go through what your family is going through. Best of luck and stay strong..

  • @rsbandbj1
    @rsbandbj1 Місяць тому +7

    sending a hug across the pond.

  • @MikeSalopek
    @MikeSalopek Місяць тому +1

    well for 1) thank goodness all worked out ok for the kids, absolutely an answer to prayer. Great news, and I applaud your move of compassion for others families in the thick of this. As a Ryoko backer, i am glad you have taken a step back, this is the priority. As excited as I am for the completion, I am happy you have been able to be supportive of family and it is my hope you take all the time you need in this before continuing the project. Blessings from Tennessee!

  • @robertnope1993
    @robertnope1993 Місяць тому +12

    Sending best wishes and love

  • @JasonOfWolves
    @JasonOfWolves Місяць тому

    As a twin, I cant imagine living without him. If I knew he had died in the womb a big part of me would be missing. So glad to have him around. Happy that your family got to grow!

  • @kfirgal6722
    @kfirgal6722 Місяць тому +6

    Amazing, absolutely amazing that even in the harsh times we all are going through, there are people that are kind.
    as soon as I’m home I would like to support a little for these charities

  • @tulius123
    @tulius123 Місяць тому +1

    I very glad to hear that both babys are doing good, this video was very important, and I hope many people will be touch by it! My daughter is 1 and a half years ols and videos like this just make realize how luck i am.

  • @EdBurke37
    @EdBurke37 Місяць тому +4

    Thank you for sharing this with us. You're one of the best.

  • @terryruegg7365
    @terryruegg7365 Місяць тому

    Thank you!! Prayer for you and your family.
    My good friend and colleague experienced this 2 years ago. Stella was born 6 weeks early, and spent 3 months at McMaster Children’s hospital in Hamilton Ontario Canada. Blessings to those doctors and nurses and Ronald McDonald’s house. Good on you for doing this!! ❤

  • @madelinehutchinson
    @madelinehutchinson Місяць тому +2

    Don’t have anything else to say that others haven’t, but I’m still commenting for the algorithm and to say I’m glad your family is okay ❤

  • @Narakuda
    @Narakuda Місяць тому

    Man, I started shaking when you gave the warning. As a father, I can't imagine anything happening to my kids. All the love to your family ❤

  • @Kevlar-78
    @Kevlar-78 Місяць тому +2

    Well done with this initiative and thank you for sharing your story. 🍻 to you and yours.

  • @debbieg6096
    @debbieg6096 Місяць тому

    I'm sitting here crying in relief that your nephews are fine - thank you for drawing attention to these charities!
    All the best to your sister and her children!

  • @cwshumate914
    @cwshumate914 Місяць тому +4

    Thank you for sharing your story.

  • @Thummpur26
    @Thummpur26 Місяць тому

    I recently had a former professor, and also admittedly, a somewhat close friend lose their child. My heart was broken for them. My family and I were as supportive as can be because I was a very unhealthy infant and my parents know that stress and constant fear. I can’t claim to understand that fear. But these things happening is such a heart breaking thing. My thoughts and heart go out to anyone dealing with this. And my thanks and most sincere gratitude to these charities, the surgeons, and anyone who helps the families and children as much as possible. I wouldn’t be here without them.

  • @torinmccabe
    @torinmccabe Місяць тому +17

    The infant mortality rate in the US is half a percent, not 5%. You correctly stated it as 1 in 200

    • @Alnakar
      @Alnakar Місяць тому

      Yes, 5‰ not 5%

    • @Supremax67
      @Supremax67 Місяць тому

      1 in 200 are pretty big odds. For instance, people plays the lottery and those odds are usually 1 in 20,000,000.

    • @Alnakar
      @Alnakar Місяць тому +2

      @@Supremax67 Yeah, by no means is anybody saying that 1 in 200 is fantastic (although it's better than it has been in a lot of other time periods, or than it is in many places still). We're just clarifying that he obviously misspoke when he said 5% (which would be 1 in 20), but was correct when he clarified 1 in 200.
      1 in 200 is correct.

    • @bobertastic6541
      @bobertastic6541 Місяць тому

      They measure it by the 1000, so it’s 5% of 1000

    • @davidkhan5279
      @davidkhan5279 24 дні тому

      @@bobertastic6541I know you mean well, but 5% of 1000 is 50 so still 5% and 1 in 20. I think you mean 5 (vs 5%)?

  • @alexsmith9617
    @alexsmith9617 Місяць тому

    The obvious caring and generosity of your character is the main reason that I watch you. I’m so happy for your nephews and hope they have long productive lives. I’m sure that it will happen because of the palatable love in your family.

  • @FernFello
    @FernFello Місяць тому +4

    bump! (hoping more people see this video so it gets more money)

  • @themystic8634
    @themystic8634 Місяць тому

    Fantastically said. I have repeatedly appreciated your voice on issues of empathy and understanding others.

  • @ottoback5375
    @ottoback5375 Місяць тому +4

    how dous this have dislikes
    I dont get people

  • @duanebradway1627
    @duanebradway1627 Місяць тому +2

    I admire your resolve. Talking on topics like this is not easy. I love that you are though. Awareness of a topic like this can make all the difference. Stay strong and take advantage of the precious time you have with family. Every moment is a blessing.

  • @bluelance8605
    @bluelance8605 Місяць тому +4

    You say you can do significantly little, but it is you, and people like you that are the reason charities and research get funded. You are making the biggest difference by enabling others to do things you cannot.

  • @stephenferry3017
    @stephenferry3017 Місяць тому

    I am so happy for your sister and your family and the twins. You're bang on about being lucky. My daughter died this past April from compliations due to a premature rupture of membranes. She was three hours old. When we asked the doctors what we could have done, they said there was nothing. Most prenatal complications are just random. A lot of them are fatal. Good healthcare can even the odds dramatically.
    Thank you for talking about this. And again, I am so happy for your family. That is such a gift and a joy.

  • @Gnomeo5
    @Gnomeo5 Місяць тому +1

    Our first son had a rough birth, and he spent two weeks in the NICU before we were able to get him home before Christmas. Much love to the babies and parents out there. Thank you for the reminder of how blessed we truly are.

  • @jimgarrison9084
    @jimgarrison9084 Місяць тому

    Virtual hug, man. Being an uncle changes you. Thank you for taking the time to bring these charities some awareness.

  • @Slit518
    @Slit518 Місяць тому +1

    Wil, you had me on the first half.
    I am glad your intuition was correct and both babies were fine and Atticus is recovering well.
    I have 3 young kids myself and one just born this year, they're truly little precious ones.
    May health and good fortune follow you all further into the future.

  • @theshamtai
    @theshamtai Місяць тому

    I could hear the fear in your voice. I am so glad to hear you and yours are doing good. We all can hear and feel how strongly you feel about this. Thank you for adding your voice.

  • @Earendilgrey
    @Earendilgrey Місяць тому

    I know a few people who lost children to CDH and other birth issues. It's never easy, and I am so happy to see you talking about this issue. I'm so glad to hear your sister and both little ones came through it.

  • @mightyzeus1e
    @mightyzeus1e Місяць тому +1

    It's inspiring that you're using your platform to help others in need, and you've inspired me to join in and donate. Atticus & Luther are in my thoughts and prayers, and I look forward to hearing of your RPG adventures with them in the years to come. Peace, love and blessings to you and the fam!

  • @Celestial_Reach
    @Celestial_Reach Місяць тому +1

    Sir, you do great at balancing the thing you do as a job, v.s. some times we jsut need to talk, and share what experiences we go through. you are a role model

  • @garebear44
    @garebear44 Місяць тому

    Thank you so much for sharing. I am so happy to hear that your nephews are safe and healthy. I’m in my early 20s and father of two. Unfortunately, our first child went to be with the Lord one week after we became aware of their existence. That truly flipped my world upside down. Hearing your story brought me to tears. Your kind words about this topic really touched me. Thank you for sharing your story and using your platform to let others know they are not alone.

  • @SionSweet
    @SionSweet Місяць тому

    My son was here 13 days. I'm so very glad your sister didn't have my story. May your family be healed as Atticus grows and begins to thrive.

  • @Vampster19CockedD20
    @Vampster19CockedD20 Місяць тому

    Adorable little future GM's.
    I can remember my eye opening moment the first time I saw my daughter. Knowing that we wasn't even supposed to be able to have kids and then being truly blessed with a healthy little girl and my wife was okay. It's a total mix of fellings and realization.

  • @danielsanders7538
    @danielsanders7538 Місяць тому

    I was born over a month late with several extreme complications at the time of my birth. I was lucky in that I was born in a country with socialised medicine and doctors who cared and charity organisations like the one in the video. Its so crucially important for us and our families to keep care available -- and ideally, to increase access. This is such a good thing you're doing and I'm SO happy to hear your nephews are ok.

  • @LordEveryman
    @LordEveryman Місяць тому

    My wife and I lost our first child. I'm glad your nephews and your sister are well. Your realization that we are all equal in the face of death is valuable. Thank you for your efforts!

  • @rwtheoverlord2896
    @rwtheoverlord2896 Місяць тому

    As a worker for the NHS, I'd like to say I'm glad everything worked out for your nephews and thank you for giving support to staff who deserve it. I hope you make many wonderful memories with them and teach them many many dumb things to do in dnd

  • @BipolarDistortion
    @BipolarDistortion Місяць тому

    I'm a parent of five kids with a wife that works in the medical field. I appreciate your willingness to share such a terrifying time & using your platform to raise both awareness & funds. I'm so incredibly relieved for your sister & your family.

  • @battlebrand4525
    @battlebrand4525 Місяць тому

    I love your videos - my DM and the rest of my party love them too. We could tell you're funny, charismatic, creative, articulate, and smart.
    But now we know you're also kind and sensible and immensely respectable.
    You're a good man.

  • @actualbusinessman8658
    @actualbusinessman8658 Місяць тому

    My 6-month-old daughter was diagnosed with cancer. Luckily, she's still with us 2 years later, but it was, no contest, the scariest and most horrible experience of my life to consider my baby girl's mortality. We give where we can and hope to be able to give more one day. The help we received while going through it honestly made a huge difference. Thanks for sharing this!

  • @WisdomSavePodcast
    @WisdomSavePodcast Місяць тому

    Will, thank you so much for sharing. As a brand-new father of twins (boy and girl) I was in absolute tears. Our twins just turned 4 months and we are incredibly blessed to have them with us after their NICU stay as well. I'm so glad the boys are doing well. The twin community is strong and we're here for each other... we have to be.

  • @RTomes13
    @RTomes13 29 днів тому

    My youngest son is 2.5 years old and was diagnosed with Left-sided CDH early in my pregnancy. The doctors who study and treat CDH around the world are incredible and caring. As a fellow CDH family, thank you for being so open about this very scary and variable condition! Best of luck and love to you, your nephew and his family!

  • @GnatTheGnome
    @GnatTheGnome Місяць тому

    I lost my son about 8 weeks before his due date. This video hits me. You arent a doctor or nurse, but you are helping to PAY for one. That's just as good IMO.

  • @GoldenRefrigerator
    @GoldenRefrigerator Місяць тому +2

    I genuinely don’t know what to say here, but I want to help this video reach more people, we love you shorts, thanks for bringing this topic attention

  • @MenschWerdeWesentlich
    @MenschWerdeWesentlich Місяць тому

    You have my respect for bringing this up.
    Not a downer at all, but an uplifting reminder that we should be thankful for life and health. Neither are to be taken for granted and will not stay around forever.

  • @youtubewatchin4326
    @youtubewatchin4326 Місяць тому

    As a father of a child who was born at 32 weeks and living at a “family house” while she was in NICU for a month and a half, I was hanging on your every word hoping you would not tell us what is all too common in NICU stories.
    I am so happy for your sister and her partner to “get lucky” as they did. Thank you for sharing. I hope your donation totals are legendary!

  • @simoncrawley1152
    @simoncrawley1152 19 днів тому

    As a father who has lost one of my children, I commend you and your message. I am thankful there are people like you wanting to help and use your platform for the good of humanity. Much love from the States 🫶

  • @jimjones7980
    @jimjones7980 Місяць тому +1

    Great message. You are right. We should talk about it more. We should all advocate for affordable and accessible healthcare. Being a children's hospital after my youngest daughter's birth and meeting other families while there, changed my life and understanding of the world on a visceral level. She's doing great now, thirteen years later. My wife and I have been raising money and advocating for better health care options ever since. Thanks for sharing your story. I wish you and your sister and her family and your new nephews all the best.

  • @jacobanderson7467
    @jacobanderson7467 Місяць тому

    Will continue praying for improved health for the twins and comfort for the parents. You're a good man, thank you for using the platform you have to help those around you.

  • @garrettvrieze9923
    @garrettvrieze9923 Місяць тому

    As a new father myself, thank you for sharing your family's struggle. I can only imagine what your sister, her partner, and your family went through.
    Miracles happen...often through the hands of a stranger wearing scrubs.