This is an interesting combination you wouldn’t expect. I’m kind of fascinated by folks who insist on existing in traditions and spaces that don’t want them.
@@sia9907 I can say it again. Some of the rabbis, and the school administration, were content associating with this person. You can label someone unwanted if you like but the fact is not everyone is hateful.
@@JohnSmith-mc2zz This individual asserts having a rabbi’s endorsement, but I’m skeptical that any orthodox rabbinic association currently supports this claim. While anyone can declare themselves a “Rabbi,” can you provide the name of an orthodox-recognized rabbi who would approve a transgender person as a teacher in a traditional school? It’s doubtful.
@@phemtoe yeah that’s kinda the point though? Transphobes say they’re oppressed but are super loud and not at all afraid of spreading their transphobia. Proving that they’re not at all oppressed
I don't know why this is even published. This has nothing to do with Judaism. It's a man who is unwell and needs medical help. He should speak to a Rabbi for help.
“First we overlook evil. Then we permit evil. Then we legalize evil. Then we promote evil. Then we celebrate evil. Then we persecute those who still call it evil.” Fr. Dwight Longenecker
Dishonest title there, The Guarduan - a man, and not a woman is featured in this video. Let him dress as he wishes and go by whatever name he likes, but a woman, he is not. Womanhood is not a feeling; it's a material reality. A person either meets the requiste biological criteria, or they don't. Pretending that men do, when they very obviously don't, harms actual women. This is not acceptable, and the Left should not be peddling this misogynistic nonsense.
How is this trans woman specifically her, harming actual women? I disagree with some choices, opinions of trans people but I don't see how she specifically is harming women.
She was my teacher, I liked her but she got fired for yelling at the principal. I know it wasn't about being trans as she only got "found out" after she got fired.
It doesn't. Gross assumption. Being conservative means you fundamentally proffer self interest over social interest. To conserve ones status quo over the status of the social demographic. It is a self referencing tribe that protects its own first. Hence the greed and anger synonymous with its members. So, yes, most are conservative as most people are concerned with their own success and fear of the other. I am not.
@@l_gitthat isn't truth. Conservatism has always emphasized our responsibilities and limits within the society (the collective), while liberalism has always emphasized the individual and his rights disregarding social convention and social responsibility beyond "do not break your neighbor's nose". You are twisting things as cheap liberals always do.
This person is not a woman. He is even saying that transgenderism is more excepted than homosexuality so he just transitioned so that he could do homosexual acts without be judged as much. Stop degrading women.
@AK-wr3nr yes because when you share a dorm room with someone who claims to be and they stare at your shower and also randomly gt hard during the day you're gonna say "I'm comfortable with this person"
I hope your rage passes. The. You can stop blaming others for not fitting your view of how things "should" be. It is an outmoded way of being. Passing away. And you mean "she".
i ma an orthodox man and this is BS from A-Z i am sorry you fell for this piece from the guardian, you guys over in the US are not aware enough about these prancksters called ''the guardian''
Words, labels, beliefs, identities, they don't mean anything anymore. You feel like you want to be something? It doesn't matter what defines such an identity or group, just claim to be part of it and demand to be taken seriously, no matter your own traits, beliefs or context. There is no such thing as objectivity anymore. There is no such thing as structure, and truth itself is on the way out. Just make it up. I'm not sure if the way the world is going is somewhere we can come back from. I'm not sure if those pushing it the most are thinking about where they are pushing it. There's no guarantee that the world will withstand just anything.
Excellent comment, although I resepctfully disagree w/ your claim that "there is no objectivity anymore." There IS, and there always will be, irrespective of whether or not society even allows people to be calling it that. Objectivity is whatever stubborn reality prevales in the face of what's popular, or even socially permitted.
This is not truth. A male cannot become a female period. He can either choose to live in denial of his creation or put in the neccesary work of acceptance which in the end will bring true happiness. It's tough but it can be done. It's not worth trying to be who you cannot be.
That kid might want to know/know about the woman who grew her and gave birth to her one day the mother doesn't get mentioned here Clearly the experiences/wishes of the missing mum and little girl aren't seen as equally important by the filmmakers
@@AK-wr3nr Thanks for your concern My parents are in their 80s and doing well,a very loving family. My daughter is 18 with 2 mums but she knows/sees her bio dad because knowing where you came from/who you look like/ who carried you in their body for 9 months matters to all children
@@sarahs1405 well they clearly didn’t teach you not to judge others. Do you also judge people who run away from abusive spouses with their kids because their kid doesn’t get to know both bio parents? There are way worse things in this world than not knowing a bio parent
"I don't want to be a spokeswoman - I want to be known for my research. I want to be known for my teaching." This is the burden of anyone who has been discriminated against and spoke out. Talia has accepted this burden so that someone like her in 10 or 20 or 50 years can just be known for their research or their teaching - or simply left alone. For that reason we in the Orthodox community are so fortunate to have Talia and Bradley in our midst.
@@AK-wr3nr So their daughter must have been born either by a surrogate or has been adopted. No way could she bear a child, as she was still male inside, even after she transitioned.
@@ead-pv5lb Okay. So, how does this affect literally anyone, not "you personally"? This is a personal choice which literally has no interference with anything. Let it be.
Judaism classifies men dressing as women to be an “ abomination “ and vice versa. Not being able to accept what you are is not mental health. I hate that people go through that. It’s got to be tough to experience dysphoria.
"Although Orthodox Judaism does not condone homosexuality, Orthodox Judaism is more open to transgenderism, and so when I transitioned I started feeling less anxiety about who I am in the eyes of Jewish law." Isn't this more of a story of gay erasure than Orthodox Judaism opening up to make room for transgender individuals?
Nah. Please factor in that the subject misspoke (unintentionally, I'm pretty sure). She most likely meant to say that Orthodox Judaism takes some Bible verses to mean certain acts are forbidden, and a lot of Orthodox people FREAK OUT at gay people because they are inflamed by community leaders to do so. That's a PEOPLE thing, not a law thing. "Bad on them" (the people who can't accept Jews for who they are). "Bad" on the leaders for not promoting love of all Jews. Some people in separatist Orthodox communities are taught not to challenge the rabbis, not to think for themselves about stuff like this. I'm Orthodox and trans, and don't believe that the Orthodox world is more accepting to trans people. But whoever one is, it's probably best to just fit in the with rest of an Orthodox congregation. BE gay, don't HIDE, but don't advertise either. That'd be the same any Orthodox synagogue would ask of anyone. Be Jewish in synagogue. If you're a parent, be a parent; if you're a doctor be a doctor. :). If you have a partner who is also inclined to go to the synagogue with you, YOUR PARTNER SHOULD COME WITH YOU. If the synagogue makes a (bad) fuss, that's on the synagogue, not on Judaism (especially the more contemporary strains of Orthodoxy). Check out Eshel (www.eshelonline.org). Eshel wants to make things better in Orthodox communities for LGBT+ Orthodox Jews.
What do you mean, "Although Orthodox Judaism does not condone homosexuality, " "does not condone", my foot. Judaism outright condemns homosexuality to the point of promoting the murder of gay people. "If a man also lieth with mankind, as he lieth with a woman, both of them hath committed an abomination: THEY SHALL SURELY BE PUT TO DEATH; their blood shall be upon them." If you believe that, and a whole load of other wickedness, you may be a Jew. If you do NOT believe that, then you are NOT a Jew. Ethnically, you may be an exotic form of Arab but it is faith that makes a person a Jew or not a Jew. Ethnicity has NOTHING to do with being a Jew. Ivanka Trump is the most famous Jewess in the World today but she has no more Arab blood than a Chinese woman living in Pingpozhen.
You can't change your sex, that is literally a scientific fact. And you are either female or male. That said, gender identity is something else. And of course those who suffer from gender dysphoria should be treated with empathy and respect, like everyone else.
@BigRed35U Try learning the difference between anatomy and physiology, then think about this again. Don't be embarrassed. Like I said... your own pace is just fine.
Religious people don't hate him it is just that he is not a woman and they won't pretend that he is female. Why should they? Why should they lie and pretend something that is not true? The man is deluded. Seeing that someone deluded is not 'hate'. He needs mental health help.
@@rl7012 I mean she gets death threats every day so clearly people do hate her. And yes, thinking trans people are deluded is a form of hate. Denying someone’s identity is hateful
@@AK-wr3nr No it is not. Are you saying that a biological male who believes he is really a female, is not deluded? Every cell in his body is male. You call biological facts 'hate speech'. What if he identified as black? Would that be acceptable to you or would you call that deluded?
@@AK-wr3nrI don’t think denying someone’s truth is ‘hateful’ what I find more hateful is demanding strangers affirm your chosen identity just because you are insecure in who you are
The mental and physical backflips religious people go through to be in a homosexual relationship while still being members of their religious community...
@@doomjuan4892 Adoption, blended family... There are a bunch of options there. So what does this kid be saved from specifically? Was there an ab*se scene i didn't see somehow?
@@themroc8231 yeah, its called: being raised by someone who thinks theyre something theyre not, and dresses up like that thing to convince themselves and the word of their delusions...
@@themroc8231 The kids doesn't need to be 'saved' from anything, but I'm a tad concerned they don't have a clean kitchen and maul their bread - I guess the tot will have built a resistant stomach by now...
Had Judaism been more accepting of homosexuality would this person have transitioned. Interesting that the only route they saw to be a true version of themselves was to move the orthodox tradition as neither accepted homosexuality but orthodox was open to trans.
@@NecroMoz It's insane to see all these people talk about X and Y and Z being a social construct but then pretend gender, and its expansion beyond 2, is not entirely a social construct. Your personality does not get a unique descriptor. No need for 74+ genders like NYC, because people want to feel unique.
Clickbait, where’s the woman? This clip only shows a male individual (aka, trans woman) who would dress up as a princess and now dresses up as a woman.
Yes, what "@@libafried5840" said! Also, if "gender is a [mere] social construct," then why do so many people, particularly People of Transgenderism, lose their heads over pronoun use?
@@rolo5424 there’s no such thing as a biological man, gender is a social construct that we all are affected by not a biologically unchangeable truth of one’s birth
But that doesn't mean people have to accept what they think is wrong into their community they should be kind YES but they don't have to tell and educate others about " this/being/liking... is okay" Leave traditional people alone
Religious orgs are right to shun members and to force members to shun family. Rules is rules. There's no kindness in religion. Whoever told you that was lying.
@@terrorists-are-among-uslots of kids in USA (and everywhere else) desperately needing loving homes. Lots of people who can't have kids adopt or foster, even some fertile couples and individuals choose adoption, you wouldn't accuse most of them as wanting an accessory. You don't know their situation, or their motivations
@@cindy3933 oh no, not at all.... adopting is very admirable IMHO, I was just attempting to put the pieces together as this couple are both biological males at least from birth ....
Women especially should trust their instincts when it comes to self-defense. If for example, what seems to be a man enters their women-only space, then they should follow their instincts and do something to stop this happening. If they are right, they have saved their lives. If they are wrong, and it was a woman who entered their women-only space, then I am sure that woman will realise and understand the fear that women sometimes have to cope with.
@@stevencarr4002 how is she hurting you? Even if you wrongly believe she’s a man, why seek out videos about trans people just to be cruel in the comments. Also I’m not attacking you. You’re legitimizing physical violence. I am not
Honey if they are "right" they haven't saved their lives because they've just escalated into a physical altercation against a man and lost, the only person they have a chance of winning against is a hapless woman
@@eh7947 So what you are saying is that you hae a problem with s*x*al assaulters, and somehow you blame trans women for it? I don't get how that works.
From video I believe she was fired for no reason other than some parents disagree with a transgender teacher or person. Her account, didnt say the reason was she disobeyd school policy or inncorrect teaching of syllabus or discussing her personal politics, gender beliefs. How would you feel if you were fired when you did nothing wrong and concerned could be again? That's relevant for everyone. Video title says fighting for acceptance, that doesn't mean someone needs to agree or like. Just that they are allowed to exist with the same rights as everyone else and be treated as such.
@@leafy803 But I do agree on what you say about what does and can effect us all you are the only reasonable comment here so far . Just not about this particular person in this scenario.
I'm born a man. Biologically, i have testosterone. I have every biological trait of a male. I have no idea how it feels to be a woman. I haven't got the makeup of a woman, which puts in a lot of the order of how she thinks and feels. I don't understand the logic of a man "feeling" like a woman inside. I've heard the arguments of the modern doctrine of the universities, and I've yet to hear of one that makes any scientific or psychological sense. If i can change my gender, then i can change my race, i can change my species...it can go on and on. It has gone far enough. I'm old enough to have seen its progression move exponentially.
dude, how old are you? like 18 or under? do you ever stop and think that maybe the world on TikTok doesnt represent reality? and that just because you see a bunch of people from your generation celebrating something, dosnt make it normal or righteous? what if this person was trans-height? or trans-weight? or trans-age? or trans-race? can a 6ft tall, 200lb, 30 year old white man become a 5ft tall, 100lb, 20 year old black woman?...or just the woman part...and why? -_-
Thank you for this video! So informative and useful for people to know there is no ‘transgender agenda’ out there. People just want to live normal lives and be left alone.
We shouldn't put people down and we really should celebrate our differences. But we also should have standards as to who can teach our children. Why is it that so many trans people/activists want to be teachers? Do something else. ANYTHING else.
Also where did you get this idea that "so many" trans folks are teachers? Any statistic you want to share on the issue or did you just pull it out of your *ss? Because it feels like you heard maybe about a couple of stories and went "that's too many!"
I live in Germany and there is a huge push among government-funded people in the 'youth help' (Jugendhilfe) industry to promote gendergaga, and an over proportionality of homosexual men and women who own, manage work in organizations in the 'Jugendhilfe' industry. I know this since I researched the financial funding, board membership, know many cases first- and second- hand, am on industry insider mailing lists...
@@himacho8771 On the contrary, this child seems to have been made to order for the homosexual male couple. Egg donorship and surrogacy were ordered by the two homosexual men. The egg donor and surrogate could be the same person or a different person. This case is not at all a case of a child being an orphan due to an entire family being unable to care for her. No father, no mother, no grandmothers, grandfathers aunts or uncles. This is instead about homosexual men using egg donors and surrogates and therefor causing a child to not be raised by her biological mother. It appears that adoption paperwork is needed in some jurisdictions to change legal ownership of the child from the surrogate and her husband if she is married to the two homosexual men who ordered the egg donorship and surrogacy services from the woman or women.
Yeah, well as long as Talia runs the home and plays the role of an Orthodox 'wife'... Did you see the state of her kitchen? Is that depression or just the way your 'average single man' has his kitchen (minus the various DIY tools)?
I really hope the best for her and her family! It is really hard, scary, and lonely to be part of the LGBTQ+ community but also a conservative, religious community. But the more videos like this exist showing that LGBTQ+ people exist within these communities, the more normalized it becomes and the more these people can not have to hide within their religious communities.
Another person who fails to understand their religion hates them and won’t change for them. You are not the centre of the universe. Move on and leave the bigots to their own selves. Or follow their norms
Exactly , the fact is they are too narcissistic to just walk away from all the religious community benefits . At the end of the day it's got nothing to do with equality or justice or any of that..this is just pathetic egomania at its finest. Or put another way. -business as usual 🙄.
As someone who is confused and doesn’t know how I stand on how society is pushing transgenderism on us….. this video sorta changed my mind and made me a little bit open more minded. I think the issue is there’s a lot of heterosexual people feel like it’s being pushed or forced on us. I don’t think people are necessarily against transgender or LGBTQ. They just don’t want other people force feeding us, their ideas and beliefs.. everyone should be able to think or feel. I’ll be who they want to be as long as they’re not enforcing or hurting anybody.
Nothing is being pushed on us. There is a narrative pushed on us that trans is being pushed on us. It is the narrative that is the problem not the change itself. It is a right leaning trope that we are being forced into a space. It is only and utterly to enable division for votes. Don't buy into it. And like you trans people will think and feel what they choose. If you choose such things for yourself then you surely do want that for everybody else eh. I know you do.
Yes, THIS! You just hit the nail on the head, friend. Everything you said is spot-on; I might add that many of us bristle at the blatant hypocracy of many trans-activists & individuals.
Well, maybe not, but Williamsburg (in Brooklyn borough in NYC) is probably the most well-known community of Ortho-Geaux in USA, if not also the biggest. So, by showing footage of Williamsburg, NY, these filmmakers are trying to reinforce the idea that this individual is trying to create that aura of cultural identity 😀
So well done. As I often say, we have come miles but/and have many more to go. We are all and each one of us exactly as G-d made us and intended us to be. Talia and Bradley, this is absolutely beautiful as well as haunting in terms of "where we are not yet" in our knowledge, acceptance and understanding of the MOST FOUNDATIONAL elements of Jewish and Halachic being. Every human being is made in the image of G-d, as we learn and ANYONE who maligns or embarrasses or harms one of G-d's beloved and created beings is harming and hurting G-d. It is a privilege to know you and I wish all good things for you. And for the record, in terms of some of these comments, two points of clarification. One -- gender identity is NOT the same as sexuality identity/inclination. Two -- who we are and what we are is NOT the same as what we do... feel blessed if all of your identity points matches and feel thankful that medicine allows more of us to reach that point where they do. Kasher Noach.
The belief that individuals have a gender soul and that one's perception of gender matters is a religious belief, not scientific or factual, so why not have room for him?
This is an interesting combination you wouldn’t expect. I’m kind of fascinated by folks who insist on existing in traditions and spaces that don’t want them.
The school removed them because of conservative backlash and she found rabbis who support her so I'm not sure where you came up with "not wanted."
@@JohnSmith-mc2zzHe knew they'd be uncomfortable. Of course he knew there would be backlash.
@@sia9907 I can say it again. Some of the rabbis, and the school administration, were content associating with this person. You can label someone unwanted if you like but the fact is not everyone is hateful.
@@JohnSmith-mc2zz This individual asserts having a rabbi’s endorsement, but I’m skeptical that any orthodox rabbinic association currently supports this claim. While anyone can declare themselves a “Rabbi,” can you provide the name of an orthodox-recognized rabbi who would approve a transgender person as a teacher in a traditional school? It’s doubtful.
@@ischwartzshe and her husband are full members at an orthodox shul, so you’re wrong
“The further a society moves from the truth the more they will hate those that speak it “ George Orwell
Tell me more about how you’re being oppressed as a transphobe…
@@phemtoe yeah that’s kinda the point though? Transphobes say they’re oppressed but are super loud and not at all afraid of spreading their transphobia. Proving that they’re not at all oppressed
@@phemtoealso yeah lol there are lots of burner accounts on UA-cam, fail to see your point there
@@AK-wr3nrnobody but you claims to be oppressed your argument is nothing more than a strawman projection 😂😂😂
@@chunkykong1976did you not read the comment I’m responding to? Are you lost?
Wait where did the kid come from? What did i miss?
My question also!
(No, you didn't miss anything!)
Exactly what I tought.
Maybe the husband used to have......whatever, I can't say it because it's not politically correct.
Adoption, surrogacy etc. maybe you heard of these words in the English language?
@@MondoBenoim pretty sure he used to be a lady
That's a guy. He can live in his wonderland but don't expect us to join in on the lunacy.
Exactly. Society these days. He even has a kid, probably going to ruin her with his bad beliefs ..
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Umm, where did the daughter come from??
There is this thing called adoption...
a woman.
A real woman.
None of your business
The trans stork
I don't know why this is even published. This has nothing to do with Judaism. It's a man who is unwell and needs medical help. He should speak to a Rabbi for help.
So you can send HER to conversion therapy???
@@AK-wr3nrIf he didn't pretend to be Orthodox I don't think anyone would suggest it at all.
Saris adam
I was gonna say... how is this even allowed?
Halachically it isnt.
“First we overlook evil. Then we permit evil. Then we legalize evil. Then we promote evil. Then we celebrate evil. Then we persecute those who still call it evil.” Fr. Dwight Longenecker
This is a great statement
So true what a beautiful quote.
Don't fall for the "God's chosen" scam.
That is what they used to say about multiracial marriages. You are behind.
@@lanapapasand they were right.
Dishonest title there, The Guarduan - a man, and not a woman is featured in this video.
Let him dress as he wishes and go by whatever name he likes, but a woman, he is not.
Womanhood is not a feeling; it's a material reality. A person either meets the requiste biological criteria, or they don't.
Pretending that men do, when they very obviously don't, harms actual women. This is not acceptable, and the Left should not be peddling this misogynistic nonsense.
How is this trans woman specifically her, harming actual women?
I disagree with some choices, opinions of trans people but I don't see how she specifically is harming women.
Yes, please. Be specific. How does her living as a woman hurt other women, specifically?
Thank you.
My g, transgenderism is biologically valid
Oh go touch grass
Orhodoxy is not open to none of these .
Right
She was my teacher, I liked her but she got fired for yelling at the principal. I know it wasn't about being trans as she only got "found out" after she got fired.
how was she as a teacher? wich subject did she have?
She...
Not very ladylike😮
These people often have issues, which is how they end up cosplaying through life.
First of all he is not a woman or a mother.
If being conservative means living in reality then most people on the planet are conservative then.
It doesn't. Gross assumption. Being conservative means you fundamentally proffer self interest over social interest. To conserve ones status quo over the status of the social demographic. It is a self referencing tribe that protects its own first. Hence the greed and anger synonymous with its members. So, yes, most are conservative as most people are concerned with their own success and fear of the other. I am not.
if only that hypothetical was true lol
@@l_gitthat isn't truth. Conservatism has always emphasized our responsibilities and limits within the society (the collective), while liberalism has always emphasized the individual and his rights disregarding social convention and social responsibility beyond "do not break your neighbor's nose". You are twisting things as cheap liberals always do.
accept you are a man not a woman, thats the acceptance you need buddy
How was the daughter born?
This person is not a woman. He is even saying that transgenderism is more excepted than homosexuality so he just transitioned so that he could do homosexual acts without be judged as much. Stop degrading women.
gender is a social construct
She’s not degrading women. You’re the only one hurting women by being transphobic toward trans women
@AK-wr3nr yes because when you share a dorm room with someone who claims to be and they stare at your shower and also randomly gt hard during the day you're gonna say "I'm comfortable with this person"
@@hellobot67 that’s a super specific situation that has nothing to do with Talia. She hasn’t done any of that
I hope your rage passes. The. You can stop blaming others for not fitting your view of how things "should" be. It is an outmoded way of being. Passing away. And you mean "she".
The Torah condem this
This can't be true. Someone in the orthodox community please debunk this.
i ma an orthodox man and this is BS from A-Z
i am sorry you fell for this piece from the guardian, you guys over in the US are not aware enough about these prancksters called ''the guardian''
Words, labels, beliefs, identities, they don't mean anything anymore. You feel like you want to be something? It doesn't matter what defines such an identity or group, just claim to be part of it and demand to be taken seriously, no matter your own traits, beliefs or context. There is no such thing as objectivity anymore. There is no such thing as structure, and truth itself is on the way out. Just make it up. I'm not sure if the way the world is going is somewhere we can come back from. I'm not sure if those pushing it the most are thinking about where they are pushing it. There's no guarantee that the world will withstand just anything.
Excellent comment, although I resepctfully disagree w/ your claim that "there is no objectivity anymore." There IS, and there always will be, irrespective of whether or not society even allows people to be calling it that. Objectivity is whatever stubborn reality prevales in the face of what's popular, or even socially permitted.
I don't know if there ever was something like universal objectivity.
This is not truth. A male cannot become a female period. He can either choose to live in denial of his creation or put in the neccesary work of acceptance which in the end will bring true happiness. It's tough but it can be done. It's not worth trying to be who you cannot be.
That kid might want to know/know about the woman who grew her and gave birth to her one day
the mother doesn't get mentioned here
Clearly the experiences/wishes of the missing mum and little girl aren't seen as equally important by the filmmakers
it's a man's world :( only opinions/experiences of men matter.
Oh eff off , this baby has a loving family, you must have not had the same given how you turned out
@@AK-wr3nr
Thanks for your concern
My parents are in their 80s and doing well,a very loving family.
My daughter is 18 with 2 mums but she knows/sees her bio dad because knowing where you came from/who you look like/ who carried you in their body for 9 months matters to all children
@@sarahs1405 well they clearly didn’t teach you not to judge others. Do you also judge people who run away from abusive spouses with their kids because their kid doesn’t get to know both bio parents? There are way worse things in this world than not knowing a bio parent
Somehow I don't imagine you making this comment in any other surrogacy or adoption situation because you'd recognize it as irrelevant and vile
we don't accept him
"I don't want to be a spokeswoman - I want to be known for my research. I want to be known for my teaching." This is the burden of anyone who has been discriminated against and spoke out. Talia has accepted this burden so that someone like her in 10 or 20 or 50 years can just be known for their research or their teaching - or simply left alone. For that reason we in the Orthodox community are so fortunate to have Talia and Bradley in our midst.
You're not in the Orthodox community. Seriously.
@@sia9907and you know that how????
Talia is lucky to have such an understanding husband. Most men would have left her if they had discovered that she was born male.
@@daisychain3007 that’s not what happened... Talia and Brad were dating before she transitioned. Which you’d know if you watched the video
@@AK-wr3nr So their daughter must have been born either by a surrogate or has been adopted. No way could she bear a child, as she was still male inside, even after she transitioned.
Not a woman.
Totally not.
What does it matter to you? How does this interfere with your life?
@@ComputraThis is a horrible way to think
"But how does it affect you personally"
@@ead-pv5lb Okay. So, how does this affect literally anyone, not "you personally"? This is a personal choice which literally has no interference with anything. Let it be.
How does it affect your life that flat earthers are delusional? It doesn’t. That doesn’t make it acceptable or true
Judaism classifies men dressing as women to be an “ abomination “ and vice versa. Not being able to accept what you are is not mental health. I hate that people go through that. It’s got to be tough to experience dysphoria.
Takes balls to do that!
you naughty naughty hahahaha
In a very literal,gender specific way!
Nah, it takes a Woman
🤣🤣🤣
"Although Orthodox Judaism does not condone homosexuality, Orthodox Judaism is more open to transgenderism, and so when I transitioned I started feeling less anxiety about who I am in the eyes of Jewish law." Isn't this more of a story of gay erasure than Orthodox Judaism opening up to make room for transgender individuals?
Nah. Please factor in that the subject misspoke (unintentionally, I'm pretty sure). She most likely meant to say that Orthodox Judaism takes some Bible verses to mean certain acts are forbidden, and a lot of Orthodox people FREAK OUT at gay people because they are inflamed by community leaders to do so. That's a PEOPLE thing, not a law thing. "Bad on them" (the people who can't accept Jews for who they are). "Bad" on the leaders for not promoting love of all Jews. Some people in separatist Orthodox communities are taught not to challenge the rabbis, not to think for themselves about stuff like this. I'm Orthodox and trans, and don't believe that the Orthodox world is more accepting to trans people. But whoever one is, it's probably best to just fit in the with rest of an Orthodox congregation. BE gay, don't HIDE, but don't advertise either. That'd be the same any Orthodox synagogue would ask of anyone. Be Jewish in synagogue. If you're a parent, be a parent; if you're a doctor be a doctor. :). If you have a partner who is also inclined to go to the synagogue with you, YOUR PARTNER SHOULD COME WITH YOU. If the synagogue makes a (bad) fuss, that's on the synagogue, not on Judaism (especially the more contemporary strains of Orthodoxy).
Check out Eshel (www.eshelonline.org). Eshel wants to make things better in Orthodox communities for LGBT+ Orthodox Jews.
How is this erasing gays?
Yep. Basically conversion therapy. Happens with a lot of homosexual people in very strictly religious communities.
This person does not speak for all jews
What do you mean, "Although Orthodox Judaism does not condone homosexuality, " "does not condone", my foot. Judaism outright condemns homosexuality to the point of promoting the murder of gay people.
"If a man also lieth with mankind, as he lieth with a woman, both of them hath committed an abomination: THEY SHALL SURELY BE PUT TO DEATH; their blood shall be upon them."
If you believe that, and a whole load of other wickedness, you may be a Jew. If you do NOT believe that, then you are NOT a Jew. Ethnically, you may be an exotic form of Arab but it is faith that makes a person a Jew or not a Jew. Ethnicity has NOTHING to do with being a Jew. Ivanka Trump is the most famous Jewess in the World today but she has no more Arab blood than a Chinese woman living in Pingpozhen.
I don’t care what religion you are or of non religious beliefs, basically this is 100 percent wrong… Your dna, enough said….
Where did the daughter come from?
a woman.
A real woman.
I like how they just gloss over that. Who are the two biological parents of this little girl? I guess if we ask that we are "transphobic"
None of your business
@@AK-wr3nr But this mans's mental delusion is our business?
You can't change your sex, that is literally a scientific fact. And you are either female or male. That said, gender identity is something else. And of course those who suffer from gender dysphoria should be treated with empathy and respect, like everyone else.
Gender identity is not something else.
Hold the phone isn’t that a sin according to Torah ?
Your body anatomy is male.
There are surgeries, sweetie. It's ok that you're confused, though. Everyone learns at their own pace.
@BigRed35U Try learning the difference between anatomy and physiology, then think about this again. Don't be embarrassed. Like I said... your own pace is just fine.
That’s a dude 😂
@@eltexano69You're not the sharpest tool, huh? Just an average one 🔧
@@kerinwills that’s a mf dude 😊
YOU CHOSE TO LIVE LIKE THIS INSTEAD OF GETTING THERAPY! CPS should take that kid away, this person suffers from a MENTAL DISORDER...
I'm sorry. It is absolutely forbidden to mutilate oneself and that is exactly what trans surgery is. And where did that child come from?
Fax
What abt circumcision
Stop fighting for the acceptance of religion or people who hate you. It’s just a waste of time and energy.
Why should a few hateful people dictate someone’s religious beliefs and practice?
Religious people don't hate him it is just that he is not a woman and they won't pretend that he is female. Why should they? Why should they lie and pretend something that is not true? The man is deluded. Seeing that someone deluded is not 'hate'. He needs mental health help.
@@rl7012 I mean she gets death threats every day so clearly people do hate her. And yes, thinking trans people are deluded is a form of hate. Denying someone’s identity is hateful
@@AK-wr3nr No it is not. Are you saying that a biological male who believes he is really a female, is not deluded? Every cell in his body is male. You call biological facts 'hate speech'. What if he identified as black? Would that be acceptable to you or would you call that deluded?
@@AK-wr3nrI don’t think denying someone’s truth is ‘hateful’ what I find more hateful is demanding strangers affirm your chosen identity just because you are insecure in who you are
The mental and physical backflips religious people go through to be in a homosexual relationship while still being members of their religious community...
That kid must be saved
How did they acquire the kid?
That's the suspect part.
@@doomjuan4892
Adoption, blended family... There are a bunch of options there.
So what does this kid be saved from specifically? Was there an ab*se scene i didn't see somehow?
@@themroc8231 yeah, its called: being raised by someone who thinks theyre something theyre not, and dresses up like that thing to convince themselves and the word of their delusions...
@@themroc8231 The kids doesn't need to be 'saved' from anything, but I'm a tad concerned they don't have a clean kitchen and maul their bread - I guess the tot will have built a resistant stomach by now...
@@edelgyn2699that child needs to be saved!
What a brave man
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😂😂
He have balls to do that
Had Judaism been more accepting of homosexuality would this person have transitioned. Interesting that the only route they saw to be a true version of themselves was to move the orthodox tradition as neither accepted homosexuality but orthodox was open to trans.
The two things are not connected. Sexual preference does not dictate your gender.
@@NecroMoz they are connected when gay people are forced to transition just to "adjust" their sexuality. It's conversion therapy all over again.
Sexual orientation is distinct from sexual identity. It's not like you can pick either one or the other to satisfy the same need.
yeah, she would have. gay people don’t transition. that’s a ludicrous idea made up by bigots
@@NecroMoz It's insane to see all these people talk about X and Y and Z being a social construct but then pretend gender, and its expansion beyond 2, is not entirely a social construct. Your personality does not get a unique descriptor. No need for 74+ genders like NYC, because people want to feel unique.
Of course he's an "educator"
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live your life and try to find happiness. You only get one and the clock is ticking
Oh Spell Check! One More Time -- YASHER KOACH!!!!!!
They are modern orthodox reformist not haredim
Apparently.
I was going to say, not that I'm an expert, but isn't this quite inherently reform, and not Orthodox, since Orthodoxy is about not changing?
Is this a joke? No seriously, is this a joke?
Completely delusional.
Clickbait, where’s the woman? This clip only shows a male individual (aka, trans woman) who would dress up as a princess and now dresses up as a woman.
gender is a social construct
No it actually isn't@@yungjoemighty879
@@yungjoemighty879 no
@@yungjoemighty879so then why do people get hormone blockers, replacement hormones and surgery if it's a social construct?
Yes, what "@@libafried5840" said! Also, if "gender is a [mere] social construct," then why do so many people, particularly People of Transgenderism, lose their heads over pronoun use?
Magen David isn't Ultra Orthodox lol
I was going to say the same thing. This doc gets so much wrong.
Exactly lol
this man is definitely brave! I admire how he genuinely thinks he is a woman. It is fascinating to me.
I admire your ability to speak when you have no clue what you’re talking about. Takes guts
@@AK-wr3nr Are you saying that this transwoman is not a biological man?
@@rolo5424 there’s no such thing as a biological man, gender is a social construct that we all are affected by not a biologically unchangeable truth of one’s birth
@@AK-wr3nr He's a male.
you must work for The Guardian. Go fetch some coffee boy. @@AK-wr3nr
The EPITOME of DEFILING a religion and God's plan makes its an abomination.
"Your existence IS activism."
No it's not. You're a narcissist and people are sick of you 😂
But that doesn't mean people have to accept what they think is wrong into their community they should be kind YES but they don't have to tell and educate others about " this/being/liking... is okay" Leave traditional people alone
Religious orgs are right to shun members and to force members to shun family. Rules is rules. There's no kindness in religion. Whoever told you that was lying.
@@TheRealBlueValhalla Guess who were the first to push for the abolition of slavery worldwide. Hint: it wasn't atheists.
@@CanadianEhHole Thanks for the reply!
Thank you for sharing your story... we needed the laugh.
That poor child
Without religions there would be a lot less problems.
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@@Yu7Zi funny how religious people call others a "religion" as an insult, basically admitting being a religion is bad
thats like saying without the highway code driving there would be a lot less driving problems. On the contrary there would be just caos and mayhem.
Society is like it is today because of the lack of religion.
Hmm, y'mean like, "without gravity, there'd be a lot fewer fall-related injuries." 😂
So the child was adopted I take it?? Seems very challenging.....
Hmm… do they accept hispanics, blks, Asians, etc into Judaism 👀
Like a prop. "I'm a mother now!" 🤡
@@terrorists-are-among-uslots of kids in USA (and everywhere else) desperately needing loving homes.
Lots of people who can't have kids adopt or foster, even some fertile couples and individuals choose adoption, you wouldn't accuse most of them as wanting an accessory.
You don't know their situation, or their motivations
Is it wrong for someone to be adopted?
@@cindy3933 oh no, not at all.... adopting is very admirable IMHO, I was just attempting to put the pieces together as this couple are both biological males at least from birth ....
This is disgusting
If you transition, I don't want you teaching my kid!!!!!!!!!!!! We shouldn't have to accept it delusion, and I don't!!!!!!!
Then homeschool
Kids don’t need to be subjected to this
@@nachib5488your bigotry is the only thing that could negatively impact a child here
@@AK-wr3nr It is not bigotry to accept reality. You call anyone who won't play 'pretend that is a woman' a bigot.
@@rolo5424 science accepts the reality of trans peoples identities so try again! You’re the ones against science
How does mikvah/taharat hamishpacha work?
Correction 3 Uncles who was never given a chance to know you.
This is really odd.
very weird
This is sick. Gross
2 crazies living together. Poor kid.
Women especially should trust their instincts when it comes to self-defense.
If for example, what seems to be a man enters their women-only space, then they should follow their instincts and do something to stop this happening.
If they are right, they have saved their lives.
If they are wrong, and it was a woman who entered their women-only space, then I am sure that woman will realise and understand the fear that women sometimes have to cope with.
Just attacking people who aren’t doing anything wrong seems like totally normal and sane behavior
@@AK-wr3nr Attacking people for calling a man a man is totally normal and sane behaviour? Are you sure?
@@stevencarr4002 how is she hurting you? Even if you wrongly believe she’s a man, why seek out videos about trans people just to be cruel in the comments.
Also I’m not attacking you. You’re legitimizing physical violence. I am not
Honey if they are "right" they haven't saved their lives because they've just escalated into a physical altercation against a man and lost, the only person they have a chance of winning against is a hapless woman
@@eh7947 So what you are saying is that you hae a problem with s*x*al assaulters, and somehow you blame trans women for it? I don't get how that works.
This is completely irrelevant 🙄
To what? To you? And why should I care what is relevant to you?
Honey it's my comment why do you care that I find it irrelevant..oh and do you have a reason why it is? 🙄 doubt it. Make a point or just shut ya gob.
Obviously not to everyone.
Troll has got to troll.
Mama did a poor job at raising a man.
From video I believe she was fired for no reason other than some parents disagree with a transgender teacher or person. Her account, didnt say the reason was she disobeyd school policy or inncorrect teaching of syllabus or discussing her personal politics, gender beliefs. How would you feel if you were fired when you did nothing wrong and concerned could be again? That's relevant for everyone.
Video title says fighting for acceptance, that doesn't mean someone needs to agree or like. Just that they are allowed to exist with the same rights as everyone else and be treated as such.
@@leafy803 But I do agree on what you say about what does and can effect us all you are the only reasonable comment here so far . Just not about this particular person in this scenario.
I never understood all this princesseoiry among girls and transboys. It was never me. And I am still a woman.
are they keeping sjabbat?
Pretending for the video
respect to talias husband for accepting her for who she is rather than going solely of rules and shunning and isolating her
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Lol that's a dude
I'm born a man. Biologically, i have testosterone. I have every biological trait of a male. I have no idea how it feels to be a woman. I haven't got the makeup of a woman, which puts in a lot of the order of how she thinks and feels. I don't understand the logic of a man "feeling" like a woman inside. I've heard the arguments of the modern doctrine of the universities, and I've yet to hear of one that makes any scientific or psychological sense. If i can change my gender, then i can change my race, i can change my species...it can go on and on. It has gone far enough. I'm old enough to have seen its progression move exponentially.
@@bearrights273smart lad
how did they have a baby? im so confused
The sheer amount of transphobia in the comments is mind boggling.
dude, how old are you? like 18 or under? do you ever stop and think that maybe the world on TikTok doesnt represent reality? and that just because you see a bunch of people from your generation celebrating something, dosnt make it normal or righteous?
what if this person was trans-height? or trans-weight? or trans-age? or trans-race? can a 6ft tall, 200lb, 30 year old white man become a 5ft tall, 100lb, 20 year old black woman?...or just the woman part...and why? -_-
@@nikoc8968You hit the nail on the head with that one. Awesome man
Did you miss the sexism?
You mean the shear amount of realism? You can't change your gender which is in your DNA. What are you going to do about that?
Thank you for this video! So informative and useful for people to know there is no ‘transgender agenda’ out there. People just want to live normal lives and be left alone.
Did they adopt?
We shouldn't put people down and we really should celebrate our differences. But we also should have standards as to who can teach our children. Why is it that so many trans people/activists want to be teachers? Do something else. ANYTHING else.
No
Also where did you get this idea that "so many" trans folks are teachers? Any statistic you want to share on the issue or did you just pull it out of your *ss? Because it feels like you heard maybe about a couple of stories and went "that's too many!"
@@oliviamaynard9372You’re supporting assimilation, not diversity.
@OmniNeon900 not true one bit. The opposite in fact.
I live in Germany and there is a huge push among government-funded people in the 'youth help' (Jugendhilfe) industry to promote gendergaga, and an over proportionality of homosexual men and women who own, manage work in organizations in the 'Jugendhilfe' industry. I know this since I researched the financial funding, board membership, know many cases first- and second- hand, am on industry insider mailing lists...
Every. Single. Time
Woman but the "wo" is silent
I always thought the essence of religion would be destroyed by rationality. It looks like irrationality might beat us to it.
From where did they adopt their daughter??? That's a glaring omission from this piece.
Seems egg donor / surrogacy and not a neglected or abandoned child.
Does it matter?
Daughter apparently was made to order.
from a precious alcoholic mother probably
@@himacho8771 On the contrary, this child seems to have been made to order for the homosexual male couple. Egg donorship and surrogacy were ordered by the two homosexual men. The egg donor and surrogate could be the same person or a different person. This case is not at all a case of a child being an orphan due to an entire family being unable to care for her. No father, no mother, no grandmothers, grandfathers aunts or uncles. This is instead about homosexual men using egg donors and surrogates and therefor causing a child to not be raised by her biological mother. It appears that adoption paperwork is needed in some jurisdictions to change legal ownership of the child from the surrogate and her husband if she is married to the two homosexual men who ordered the egg donorship and surrogacy services from the woman or women.
This is so crazy!!!!
What is wrong with these people....he knows what he says doesn't even makes sense.
Acceptance? Maybe help trans people to accept their own bodies instead of being afraid of the way they were born.
i want my boys growing up with payots not ponytails
This is so wrong. I feel really bad for the kids.
The wig needs a wash.
Extra Creepy 😵🥸😳
Leave religion alone
When the husband said “I’m only interested in who you want to be” 😭😭🥰🥰😭😭 what a mensch!!
Yeah, well as long as Talia runs the home and plays the role of an Orthodox 'wife'... Did you see the state of her kitchen? Is that depression or just the way your 'average single man' has his kitchen (minus the various DIY tools)?
I really hope the best for her and her family! It is really hard, scary, and lonely to be part of the LGBTQ+ community but also a conservative, religious community. But the more videos like this exist showing that LGBTQ+ people exist within these communities, the more normalized it becomes and the more these people can not have to hide within their religious communities.
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Who is Bradley Rader? Pretty sure I sent you a card for your wedding to a Bradley?
Another person who fails to understand their religion hates them and won’t change for them. You are not the centre of the universe. Move on and leave the bigots to their own selves. Or follow their norms
They aren't big. Stop calling them that for being traditional.
@@hellobot67Why yes. Yes they are.
Exactly , the fact is they are too narcissistic to just walk away from all the religious community benefits . At the end of the day it's got nothing to do with equality or justice or any of that..this is just pathetic egomania at its finest. Or put another way. -business as usual 🙄.
@@tevyeb no they arent. men are men and women are women.
magen david is not ultra orthodox
Yahs Torah is the standard not some rabbi opinion just saying much love please Teshuvah
mad world
As someone who is confused and doesn’t know how I stand on how society is pushing transgenderism on us….. this video sorta changed my mind and made me a little bit open more minded. I think the issue is there’s a lot of heterosexual people feel like it’s being pushed or forced on us. I don’t think people are necessarily against transgender or LGBTQ. They just don’t want other people force feeding us, their ideas and beliefs.. everyone should be able to think or feel. I’ll be who they want to be as long as they’re not enforcing or hurting anybody.
Nothing is being pushed on us. There is a narrative pushed on us that trans is being pushed on us. It is the narrative that is the problem not the change itself. It is a right leaning trope that we are being forced into a space. It is only and utterly to enable division for votes. Don't buy into it. And like you trans people will think and feel what they choose. If you choose such things for yourself then you surely do want that for everybody else eh. I know you do.
Yes, THIS! You just hit the nail on the head, friend. Everything you said is spot-on; I might add that many of us bristle at the blatant hypocracy of many trans-activists & individuals.
The bearded dude is in a homosexual relationship and he doesn’t even know it.
Why are they showing videos of Williamsburg? Totally not the community this couple lives in 😅
Well, maybe not, but Williamsburg (in Brooklyn borough in NYC) is probably the most well-known community of Ortho-Geaux in USA, if not also the biggest. So, by showing footage of Williamsburg, NY, these filmmakers are trying to reinforce the idea that this individual is trying to create that aura of cultural identity 😀
This has made me want to re-watch Yentl
😅
Well at least this one doesnt reproduce anymore. But it is quite symbolic for the USA and especially the state of New York.
I do support people that try to find themselfs, one way, or another, however, the person displayed here is just a fool.
It's a dude 😮
So well done. As I often say, we have come miles but/and have many more to go. We are all and each one of us exactly as G-d made us and intended us to be. Talia and Bradley, this is absolutely beautiful as well as haunting in terms of "where we are not yet" in our knowledge, acceptance and understanding of the MOST FOUNDATIONAL elements of Jewish and Halachic being. Every human being is made in the image of G-d, as we learn and ANYONE who maligns or embarrasses or harms one of G-d's beloved and created beings is harming and hurting G-d. It is a privilege to know you and I wish all good things for you. And for the record, in terms of some of these comments, two points of clarification. One -- gender identity is NOT the same as sexuality identity/inclination. Two -- who we are and what we are is NOT the same as what we do... feel blessed if all of your identity points matches and feel thankful that medicine allows more of us to reach that point where they do. Kasher Noach.
Nice grift, but no 😑
They are not women
The belief that individuals have a gender soul and that one's perception of gender matters is a religious belief, not scientific or factual, so why not have room for him?