i started crying when he talked about how he was the perfect husband and the wife never suspected it. (they are perfect at being deceitful, i can only cry now thinking about how i was played)
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For real.... must be hard to hold in what’s she’s thinking and feeling. This gu;y is ignorant.. went to a LOT of AIDS funerals & could get it but by drinking only a few drinks he might still not put on a condom because he’s ‘in the mood’. Dumb ass! I’m staying single. Ain’t no d*ck worth me risking my life over some bItch-ass wanna be man! Cannot stand a liar who wastes people’s time. SMH.
And he is saying all of this like it’s not suppose to turn us all the way off. It’s sickening to think about our bf or husband being owned by a damn man. Wether he’s a top or bottom, we are not interested.
@@grindwithdawinningteamhoe9516any woman is shocked and disgusted the very first time she realizes this trifling deception. It was probably her first interview about this topic and she seemed rightfully disgusted 🤮
@@NinaBee1hese type of .. perverts f everything that moves even the most disgusting filthy 🕳️ infested with all kind of fecal bacteria and 🦠 what type of women would even mess with this unattractive weirdo
I'm glad this video was made. Women always think that their man can't be gay, or that there's always signs. A real down low man is going to make sure that all of his actions are covered. This is coming from me, a gay man who only dealt with down low men for over 10 years.
Heterosexual men don’t think of men in a sexual way and you gay and bisexual men need to stop trying to speak for them. Y’all don’t view the world in the same way straight men do. I’m saying this from a heterosexual point of view because I don’t even think of women in a sexual way so I know my counterpart doesn’t like men. If you really think a heterosexual showed interest in you, you are as much in Denial about bisexuality as this man is. Bisexuality will never equate to heterosexuality.
@@NinaBee1 shut yo a$$ up. Like I said in my post, I’m speaking for myself and my ext. It’s you oblivious, unhealthy, bad body built women, who thought having a vagina@ was gon keep a man and it didn’t, that make the situation worse. Out here having babies by men that don’t really want women instead of paying attention to his actual needs. Go run around the block a few times and then maybe you’ll have the stamina to come for me. Until then keep having babies by g@y men.
This interviewer or reporter is best. She is clearly disgusted with his behavior, but she is still reporting. The only reason that he came out is because she caught him. He was an arrogant douche. I always felt my ex husband was on the DL.... He got rich from the book, but he didn't live to enjoy it.
My husband looks so manly and tuff yet wont admit for the life of him all the things i found out. He insists he is NOT GAY still after 80 days in meth rehab.... we will see what happens but each day i feel a little more disgust and feeling like just throwing my whole man away.
Here’s the thing, he portrays that now, because he’s comfortable with it now. So he’s not attempting to hide it at this point. 20 years ago before he was even to terms with it? You probably wouldn’t have known. It’s sad but DL men set mental vigilance triggers and alarms to keep from getting too comfortable and then discovered. That pressure smothers men.
Sadly, this is more prevalent today than when this video was made. And men are freely advertising themselves as DL to other men. I find this upsetting to not only to their women, but also to out gay men who want to live life with some dignity.
@@18DegreesNorthTVgood informative. It is beyond disgusting, ruthless, reckless, nasty🕳💩🦠 and deceptive beyond words!!! 🤬weak perverted low class 🗑 that’s exactly why our community is what it is and black men are not known as scientists who invent cancer treatments or anything of relevance for society overall compared to other cultures and continents. It’s pathetic at this point
Journalists and reporters should show an unbiased, nonjudgemental face. Regardless of his past behavior or how he ended up there, I still appreciate him coming forward and shining a light. When you judge and criticize him vs being SUPPORTIVE, it will only encourage other men to STAY on the DL!!!!!!!
I really do believe this bysexual men will be all right if they are truthful about their lifestyle because this causing more harm than good because women healti at stake so it's only fair to the woman to know what type of man she is dealing with
The interviewer is to in mature to handle this topic. She doesn't hear what's he's saying... I guess being Caribbean herself this is a hard pill to swallow 🤔
She’s not immature, she is disgusted like most of us are with this topic. This man has the nerve to bring up HIV stats and still say he doesn’t want to want condoms. That’s childish af. Plus, they are in denial about being gay men expecting straight women to open our legs to them.
The Caribbean men are no different they just hide it more, as long as you produce several children with different women in Jamaica you are not even imagined to be gay.
Good topic but way to simple in some respects. I believe that most men who are on the DL, stay married and it's certainly the shame of deception, before the health risks. I have also noticed that so many women, have disgusting comments. However let me say, that there are plenty of women, who also cheat on their husbands and boyfriend too. They bring the same health risks, either way and one doesn't make any better then the other. So the last point it, the goal of a relationship, is to be friends first. Anyone, can act there way through many issues but it there is a true friendship, then it will bring it out in the open, before someone gets hurt. That was what was missed in the interview an it was also missed by people thinking about the act and not the person.
Here is someone who lacks discipline and cannot keep his body under the subjection of the Spirit of God. Not even try through the power of the Holy Spirit.
So he went through the trauma of getting caught so he wants to have the satisfaction of other men being caught.Its a case of I got caught so others should get caught too
Marquise Alphonso Yes this true.The fact of matter women and his daughters need to know..He was pressing down his desire for men.They all need to come clean if there on DL.
At least he is honest and talking about this issue men living on down low!!
Honest now that he got caught and on a mission to have other caught. He wasn't honest before.
Marquise Alphonso exactly
Well, he said the interview that he got caught and he was still lying because he was not ready to come out.
Yea After he got caught!! He would probably carry on the lie.😟
That’s a very very low bar for these ** !!!
He's describing a couple of men I know perfectly...
i started crying when he talked about how he was the perfect husband and the wife never suspected it. (they are perfect at being deceitful, i can only cry now thinking about how i was played)
It’s written all done in the dark will come to light.
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The reporter looks disgusted lol
For real.... must be hard to hold in what’s she’s thinking and feeling. This gu;y is ignorant.. went to a LOT of AIDS funerals & could get it but by drinking only a few drinks he might still not put on a condom because he’s ‘in the mood’. Dumb ass! I’m staying single. Ain’t no d*ck worth me risking my life over some bItch-ass wanna be man! Cannot stand a liar who wastes people’s time. SMH.
Malaina Johnson you can get tested but AUDS doesn’t show up for months or years in some cases. People need to stop having raw sex.
She is. I am too.
The female journalist/interviewer looks shocked,stunned,mortified,and in disbelief for sure.
I must agree!
The look on her face though! Her facial expression throughout this interview speaks volumes!!! Enough said! 😼
🥴🤢 her face 🤣🤣
This is why ive been celibate for ten years im so scared to date
💯🤢🦠
The reporter look in 😰 "I cannot beleive this mess"..😮
Lol
And he is saying all of this like it’s not suppose to turn us all the way off. It’s sickening to think about our bf or husband being owned by a damn man. Wether he’s a top or bottom, we are not interested.
@@grindwithdawinningteamhoe9516any woman is shocked and disgusted the very first time she realizes this trifling deception. It was probably her first interview about this topic and she seemed rightfully disgusted 🤮
@@NinaBee1hese type of .. perverts f everything that moves even the most disgusting filthy 🕳️ infested with all kind of fecal bacteria and 🦠 what type of women would even mess with this unattractive weirdo
Also, check internet history. Computer and cell phone.
I'm glad this video was made.
Women always think that their man can't be gay, or that there's always signs.
A real down low man is going to make sure that all of his actions are covered.
This is coming from me, a gay man who only dealt with down low men for over 10 years.
laure j watch my videos
Heterosexual men don’t think of men in a sexual way and you gay and bisexual men need to stop trying to speak for them. Y’all don’t view the world in the same way straight men do. I’m saying this from a heterosexual point of view because I don’t even think of women in a sexual way so I know my counterpart doesn’t like men.
If you really think a heterosexual showed interest in you, you are as much in Denial about bisexuality as this man is. Bisexuality will never equate to heterosexuality.
you aint lying they will hide the sh@ outta that stuff, mine got messy and that how i found out
@@NinaBee1 shut yo a$$ up. Like I said in my post, I’m speaking for myself and my ext. It’s you oblivious, unhealthy, bad body built women, who thought having a vagina@ was gon keep a man and it didn’t, that make the situation worse. Out here having babies by men that don’t really want women instead of paying attention to his actual needs. Go run around the block a few times and then maybe you’ll have the stamina to come for me. Until then keep having babies by g@y men.
The reporter acts like she wants to say more than what she’s asking
This interviewer or reporter is best. She is clearly disgusted with his behavior, but she is still reporting. The only reason that he came out is because she caught him. He was an arrogant douche. I always felt my ex husband was on the DL.... He got rich from the book, but he didn't live to enjoy it.
down low men should just come out white and black men both lol
Love the honesty
🤡🥴 after he deceived all the women for all these years before while cheatin on them f men. How low is your bar???🤡🤡🤡🤡
My husband looks so manly and tuff yet wont admit for the life of him all the things i found out. He insists he is NOT GAY still after 80 days in meth rehab.... we will see what happens but each day i feel a little more disgust and feeling like just throwing my whole man away.
Why the hell are you still with him 😷🤢🦠
Hello ma'am..... Just curious how did things turn out?
Hopefully you ran as soon as u found out 🙁🦠🤮
I am also curious how it turned out
I met this dude and his breath stanked something bad....
That happens when you are constantly eating ass - holes 😞
Omg lmgdao 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@deaconden2183 true I mean think of what he does…
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Church and parents at home has responsibility to talk abut sex education and safe sex condition to prevent HiV and STD.
I mean how could people not know hell he looks like he has some sugar in his tank lol
queenbee2116 not all men have that look. Some married men are Down-Low.
@@Harley08 i didn't say all i was literally talking about this man and i know some that looks masculine as hell
He also talks like he's gay.
Looks and sounds like it.
Here’s the thing, he portrays that now, because he’s comfortable with it now. So he’s not attempting to hide it at this point. 20 years ago before he was even to terms with it? You probably wouldn’t have known. It’s sad but DL men set mental vigilance triggers and alarms to keep from getting too comfortable and then discovered. That pressure smothers men.
Yeah the reporter is giving a very disapproving look!!
Yep lol
Good
I dont think I'm comfortable taking any advice from this man. He just comes off too nasty for me. He loves men to death. So sad for women.
Smh...I will maintain ....this is allllllll about perversion and sex!
Absolutely and predation, perversion, abuse, lies etc they get off on all of that. That's what they like.
Yup and the sneakiness and the acting
God's judgment will be swift. We need to repent of sin.
they get aids because they are stupid and don't use protection
OpinionatorX Amen ❤
@@nhoj4539 yeah but honestly the penis was never meant for the butthole
Exactly!
Sadly, this is more prevalent today than when this video was made. And men are freely advertising themselves as DL to other men. I find this upsetting to not only to their women, but also to out gay men who want to live life with some dignity.
How are gay men who want to be private outed by this trend? Can you explain...
@@18DegreesNorthTV Out....meaning openly.
@@18DegreesNorthTVgood informative. It is beyond disgusting, ruthless, reckless, nasty🕳💩🦠 and deceptive beyond words!!! 🤬weak perverted low class 🗑 that’s exactly why our community is what it is and black men are not known as scientists who invent cancer treatments or anything of relevance for society overall compared to other cultures and continents. It’s pathetic at this point
Journalists and reporters should show an unbiased, nonjudgemental face. Regardless of his past behavior or how he ended up there, I still appreciate him coming forward and shining a light. When you judge and criticize him vs being SUPPORTIVE, it will only encourage other men to STAY on the DL!!!!!!!
I agree. At least he is talking about it.
Shut up! She’s professional. Do you think she should smile? What’s wrong with you people?
@@habbaticchio2468 No you stfu, it’s not about smiling. Her disposition and face expresses disgust and everyone else noticed it as well.
And you shouldn’t be a sell out shame for all women and the horrors they went thru bcuz of these sociopathic trifling type of men
he still putting hisself at risk
Yes, he is and he love doing it
A lot of older men in the church groom younger men n teach them how to lie and be dl some already younger men be gay already some confused. So scary
I really do believe this bysexual men will be all right if they are truthful about their lifestyle because this causing more harm than good because women healti at stake so it's only fair to the woman to know what type of man she is dealing with
I got both of his book s the first one had me sick and up set at the same time hot mess
The interviewer is to in mature to handle this topic. She doesn't hear what's he's saying... I guess being Caribbean herself this is a hard pill to swallow 🤔
She’s not immature, she is disgusted like most of us are with this topic. This man has the nerve to bring up HIV stats and still say he doesn’t want to want condoms. That’s childish af. Plus, they are in denial about being gay men expecting straight women to open our legs to them.
@@NinaBee1 I will have to relisten to the interview.
She’s not immature! Don’t you people understand professionalism?? Should she be smiling??? This is a damn serious topic! SMH
The Caribbean men are no different they just hide it more, as long as you produce several children with different women in Jamaica you are not even imagined to be gay.
Speaking slowly isn't going to fix the technical problems with the sound.
Msn with earrings is a red flag 🚩
This man is so arrogant and into himself . I feel like he wrote this book because he got caught and now he just wants attention.
This is why I live my life in secret and my wife does not know.
I pray to God you are very soon exposed and she finds out.
@@habbaticchio2468 Its not easy trying to live my life up to my parents standards. I cant bring shame on them nor my family name.
@@sharjjahnaziz4122 you already did bcuz you’re a deceptive lyin a** no honor fraud
@@habbaticchio2468 exactly!!!
But you can bring the shame to your wife. Sad and I hope you are soon exposed and God covers your wifes mind and heart
Thug bussy >
It is disgusting
Terrible. I wonder about all ths down low stuff. This man had a hard time calling himself gay on Oprah. I never got it.
Emphasis on the "Equally"! Imposter behavior & clearly living in denial.
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Good topic but way to simple in some respects. I believe that most men who are on the DL, stay married and it's certainly the shame of deception, before the health risks. I have also noticed that so many women, have disgusting comments. However let me say, that there are plenty of women, who also cheat on their husbands and boyfriend too. They bring the same health risks, either way and one doesn't make any better then the other. So the last point it, the goal of a relationship, is to be friends first. Anyone, can act there way through many issues but it there is a true friendship, then it will bring it out in the open, before someone gets hurt. That was what was missed in the interview an it was also missed by people thinking about the act and not the person.
Edward Spriggs true, but females aren’t going into females raw and contaminating them. This is how STD is passed on to females.
Here is someone who lacks discipline and cannot keep his body under the subjection of the Spirit of God. Not even try through the power of the Holy Spirit.
So he went through the trauma of getting caught so he wants to have the satisfaction of other men being caught.Its a case of I got caught so others should get caught too
Marquise Alphonso Yes this true.The fact of matter women and his daughters need to know..He was pressing down his desire for men.They all need to come clean if there on DL.