Making Asian Male Black Female Relationships Work by AMBW/BWAM Couple: Blasian Quest Interview

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  • @InvalidAuthorization
    @InvalidAuthorization 8 років тому +179

    Black girl married to a Taiwanese man checking in- I hear a lot about people saying the family could be a issue, but to offer some hope that's not always the case. My husband family was COMPLETELY loving and accepting, everyone keeps telling me how I have a Taiwanese soul (I have no idea why). They pushed me to learn Mandarin and now I have sooo much pressure on me ( but good pressure) to have kids. The A-yi's are DEADSET on naming my kids. Anyway, it doesn't always have to be bad, just be respectful and keep an open mind. Ciao Bellas

    • @BAn-mu4qe
      @BAn-mu4qe 4 роки тому +3

      I'm happy for you because back in the '70's it was almost an impossible situation. So glad things have changed!🌺😊🌺

    • @catlover126
      @catlover126 8 місяців тому

      Yall still together?

  • @KarmaLoves98
    @KarmaLoves98 8 років тому +291

    ambw couples are so cute! i have no racial preference so im open to everything

    • @BabyT123B
      @BabyT123B 8 років тому +3

      Same

    • @melmill6649
      @melmill6649 8 років тому +5

      Sailor bae
      they are great to date another there moms are hardest but the sons are pretty clear they tell
      parents they will date who
      he wants.Then you know
      he loves you!!!! 🙌🙌🙏

    • @Laura-sg6ss
      @Laura-sg6ss Рік тому

      Indeed they are

  • @rushelleforrest8733
    @rushelleforrest8733 8 років тому +263

    I love seeing black and Asian together

    • @princetonshot
      @princetonshot 8 років тому +17

      Same

    • @shalaywu
      @shalaywu 7 років тому +10

      Shellyann Forrest. me to it's beautiful 😆

    • @JadeR246
      @JadeR246 5 років тому +6

      Shellyann Forrest AkeriaRivers True Same

    • @billwhite5346
      @billwhite5346 4 роки тому +13

      me too because i like black girl

    • @eunicedegraav3404
      @eunicedegraav3404 4 роки тому +4

      Me too
      I love all kinds of relationships

  • @dianawellington731
    @dianawellington731 8 років тому +183

    You heard him around the 3 minute mark? I've heard Asian and White guys say they thought BW didn't like anything but BM. I've heard them say that, they've found a few BW attractive but didn't approach because he thought she would reject him. Well now the younger generation is opening up more to the idea of dating out. So don't be afraid guys. Approaching is apart of the dating process and more people are opening up.

    • @dianawellington731
      @dianawellington731 8 років тому +3

      Keenan Wade Look at it as a blessing.

    • @dianawellington731
      @dianawellington731 8 років тому +18

      Keenan Wade Because if they said yes and didn't really want you, they would have wasted your time.

    • @everettfanor1989
      @everettfanor1989 8 років тому +7

      +Diana wellington Lets be real. Most citys dont have alot of asians. California has a large population but mid west, south and north will be harder. Not impossible but harder

    • @dianawellington731
      @dianawellington731 8 років тому +3

      Gallardo 5Million​ That's true. I lived in L.A for 14 years before, so I'm use to a huge Asian population. However I know it's harder for BW to find AM in other cites. But that doesn't mean it's hard for AM to find BW.
      On top of the fact the the biggest Black population is in the South, so it's really easy for an AM to find a BW in the South.

    • @dianawellington731
      @dianawellington731 8 років тому +6

      Keenan Wade​ Yes they aren't really fucking with us because of everything going on in society. However, there are a few Asians who do here and there. It's not in droves but its some. For one, their Asian population is half the size of ours. And two, there's more women than men in general. So when there is an AM who is interested because of those two things, it gives him a 1 to 15 leverage with BW vs a 1/7 leverage for BW/BM. This is why a smart BW would keep her options open with all races of men. She'll get more marriage proposal that way.... trust me, I know from personal experience. 😉

  • @slicenrice
    @slicenrice 8 років тому +91

    Awesome! So good to see you Blasian Quest! =D

    • @BlasianQuest
      @BlasianQuest 8 років тому +5

      Hellz yeah! Thanks for checking it out!

    • @aliayah5235
      @aliayah5235 6 років тому +9

      SLICE n RICE I love your videos

    • @maryonyemaobi4947
      @maryonyemaobi4947 4 роки тому +3

      Hii, love u guys and your videos❤

  • @msveeip
    @msveeip 8 років тому +120

    If you don't want to immediately dislike this woman's handsome, well-spoken, and "open minded" boyfriend...stop the video around 10 minutes. Otherwise, you'll be exposed to his ignorant side.
    1. Going to clubs that aren't "ratchet" is not indicative of being tired of black men. I listen to all types of music, therefore I would naturally go to places that cater to my personal preferences.
    2. Weight is not indicative of low self esteem.
    3. The comments made after 10 minutes clearly indicate that this is not an open minded individual. This is an individual whose friend grew on him, because his stereotypes are still very apparent. Yes, it is possible to like one person of a different race, but not care for the community as a whole.
    All in all, I was so excited watching this video, until I was ubruptly met with disdain.

    • @melanatedwoman3760
      @melanatedwoman3760 8 років тому +17

      msveeip ...he talks way too much. So he's telling on himself. whateverrrrr

    • @mixshorty222
      @mixshorty222 8 років тому +9

      completely agree. I liked what he said up until that point.

    • @jeremywong4084
      @jeremywong4084 6 років тому +7

      As much as i agree with your comments on his subjective way to judge or draw conclusions on specifc beliefs or values such as his club example.
      When you mention him only being open minded "after his friend grew on him", these are instances that break the barrier to explore.
      Remember this is the reason why they are sharing their experience. So people (like myself), get to see the experience of this specific instance.
      They didnt start the video with claiming they are open minded, nor claimed they were better than conservative mindsets towards inner racial relationships.
      Are your comments and points presented as protest towards debunking the asian boy friend from being open minded?? Just confused of why there is an issue.
      If it is the whole show and act that looks fake and disingenuous for more channel views and subs. Sure lets give the host the award!

    • @jessaminemcgowan2437
      @jessaminemcgowan2437 2 роки тому +7

      You perfectly summed up this video. I couldn’t even finish it. His “…tired of Black men” statement was enough on its own, but I was done once he started talking about “big girls”. 😒
      And her not checking/correcting him was VERY telling.

    • @mjohnson1741
      @mjohnson1741 Рік тому

      Dang...that's some observation. He does give off jock white guy vibes! He lost me at pu$$y is pu$$y 🤦‍♀️

  • @tamikacampbell5946
    @tamikacampbell5946 8 років тому +161

    In Jamaica, this is so normal...

    • @shauniek
      @shauniek 8 років тому +10

      I know Right....

    • @obdiane
      @obdiane 8 років тому +22

      I need to move to Jamaica.. :o)

    • @PhuongNguyen-oc1lw
      @PhuongNguyen-oc1lw 8 років тому +2

      Tamika Campbell really?

    • @nonih9338
      @nonih9338 8 років тому +8

      Tamika Campbell i see more korean women with black men where i'm at, so that's normal and some of my friends are half korean half/another race, so i never saw it as unusual. my bf is half korean half white and i haven't met anyone from his fam cause his mom (korean woman) might lose her chill (even though she married a white guy!?..) so that's annoying, but yeah, interracial dating is becoming very normalized, i'm glad. Ppl are ppl

    • @Pollination020
      @Pollination020 8 років тому +17

      This is true, I'm from Jamaica and so is my husband who is Chinese. We went to the same high-school and have been dating since. There are still those people who question it but its more normal here to see mixed couples here primarily blasian couples.

  • @ichliebeBill4leben94
    @ichliebeBill4leben94 8 років тому +139

    10:25 i don't like that " getrin tires of black guys ". Being at different clubs with a different demographic of ppl don't always mean black women are tired of their black men , No . Black women are ALL different, they have their own different lifestyles and environments that they are used to and raised in . personalities are different therefore you hang around and go around ppl and places that you feel comfortable and can fit into. so not all the time " tired " maybe want a change of environment or people. anyway ... cool and down to earth video .

    • @annanicolefloyd262
      @annanicolefloyd262 8 років тому +6

      agreed

    • @SalvationinCHRISTalone888
      @SalvationinCHRISTalone888 5 років тому +2

      I’m with you on this too. Many “black” girls/women to not hang out in bars and together because we are tired of “black” men. Probably it is a “girls night out”, just something to do on Friday nights and/or wanting to meet other ppl and drink. Frankly, I NEVER found going to a bar/night club interesting or safe. Black men/women is just as diverse as there is races; and, it is ALL PERSONAL PREFERENCE & INDIVIDUALITY. ps: Just LOVE your statement. I agree with it 1000%

    • @jasmainjasmain2906
      @jasmainjasmain2906 2 роки тому +1

      Facts. I love my black men and dating an Asian guy. Just about love for me.

  • @ramsdellcp
    @ramsdellcp 4 роки тому +14

    im korean and am dating a black woman. she is the best thing to happen to me in a long time.

  • @ddbob1
    @ddbob1 8 років тому +76

    A few things, qualms if you will...
    1. His conceptions about black people/women
    2. Her not correcting him of said misconceptions
    3. Number one brings into question the possibility of fetishization of black women.
    4. Number two gives off the impression that she may be one of those "I'm not like those other blacks" types which I also question about fetishization of Asian men because that also happens.

  • @nyag1764
    @nyag1764 8 років тому +128

    I am sooooooo attracted to Asian men. I'm in the south but I just wish Asian men would approach us more! ! Thanks for this dialogue!

    • @nonih9338
      @nonih9338 8 років тому +10

      Nya G try approaching them too lol, sometimes we ladies need to make the first move when we see something we like ya know

    • @nyag1764
      @nyag1764 8 років тому +7

      I have. More than once. They just look at me stunned! Lol! But it's cool. I understand their reservations. The pairing IS somewhat unusual but divine when it does happen! I did date an Asian man briefly. We lost touch but it's something I always wanted to do and look forward to doing again for certain. Geography is important though. For example, I'm in Texas so unfortunately I don't have much access to various cultures (I don't date online). Also, there's the familial issue which essentially means that, although I respect, appreciate, and love learning about the respective Asian cultures, the fact is, I'm black and most Asian men are aware that familial support decreases drastically if he marries outside of his race, ESPECIALLY if she's black. This is a tragic travesty but it is the reality in most cases.

    • @Mo39631
      @Mo39631 8 років тому +31

      Honestly I dont care about race to meet a girl; I do believe that African American women are amazingly beautiful and attractive. I am a Korean btw ;)

    • @marronycaro
      @marronycaro 8 років тому +5

      Try to approach them first. Usually Asians are shy to approach people of other races. That's why we're steorotypically called people who want to date only asians. Not true at all. Black, latinas and hispanics usually have more balls making the first move than us asian guys. XD

    • @africanibabe
      @africanibabe 8 років тому +2

      Mo39631 aww that's cute. I am black British

  • @DCCandiGurl
    @DCCandiGurl 8 років тому +47

    He sounds so ignorant. As a black woman I am utterly turned off by his insecurity and ignorance. Boy sit down.

    • @Stress3xpressTV
      @Stress3xpressTV 6 років тому +1

      Right 9:55 As soon as he started talking it was a turn-off . Say Stereotypes his self stupidity

  • @KuroiHato69
    @KuroiHato69 8 років тому +15

    I am a BW and I have always found Asian men attractive. (I find men attractive no matter what race they are however). The only thing that stopped me from dating Asian men is that I am 5'9" and not petite. Never thought that Asian men would really be interested. I am in a relationship now for 16 years but I think this is so wonderful to see,

  • @lmini15
    @lmini15 7 років тому +74

    Wow, a lot of the comments he made towards the end about black women were so ignorant. I'm surprised his girlfriend didn't say anything.
    To my fellow sisters, if you're open to dating outside of your race please do not settle for a guy with that mentality.
    I think Asian guys are attractive just like any other race but if he thinks I'll be receptive of him and allow any kind of behaviour just because I'm open minded.. nah fam. Lol black women have standards too. Apply the same effort and respect like you would with every other (race) woman.

    • @jasmainjasmain2906
      @jasmainjasmain2906 2 роки тому +1

      I don't see what was so bad about pointing out that big girls having fun are more approachable, that's his pov. Did I miss something? Lbs

    • @sofiaspetsieris6799
      @sofiaspetsieris6799 Рік тому +2

      @@jasmainjasmain2906 u def missed a lot… literally at 10:11 he talks abt how if u see Black girls at an EDM club that means they’re tired of Black guys… that is so terrible

  • @fayetaylor1998
    @fayetaylor1998 8 років тому +22

    I never realized it when I was younger. But as I got older I found myself being more and more attracted to Asian men. I never thought of them as an option because I thought they weren't into black women. My interactions with them were at school and work. An to be honest, I was shown the most respect from them than any other race of men. And that is all any women wants.
    There was one Asian guy that was less shy then the rest. I think he liked me but he never approached me like that. But he would always help me out with work and buy me lunch. ha He even took me to China Town one time to buy the lunch. In all honesty, I was kind of nervous. And asked what would the people say if they saw me with you? He told me don't worry about nothing their not going to say anything to you. We went in, got the food and no one gave us any funny looks. At least I didn't see any if they did. I got the feeling that if anyone would have mistreated me he would have said something. lol
    I like the culture, food, and work ethic that Asians have. I'm really attracted to that. But at the end of the day all one needs to do is be themselves. If you like some one let them know. They will either reciprocate or not. And go forward from there. Also like the host was saying. If you want to approach black women. All you need to do is be "confident" and straight forward with her. As long as your not "playing games" or want a "cheap thrill" you will be OK. Other than that, It may turn out better than you think. :) Good luck to everyone!

  • @521i
    @521i 7 років тому +66

    I'm Japanese and totally down for AMBW... Problem is I'm in Tokyo.

  • @masiyafuentez6378
    @masiyafuentez6378 8 років тому +247

    I prefer asian guys I have always liked them but never really approached them or had them approach me lol really wish they would I think the chances are low tho because I barely see asian guys in Indianapolis I have to edit this just a little so yall wont think I'm asian thirsty I do not limit myself to one specific ethnic group I taste the rainbow (if you dont get this saying then its a you problem lol)

    • @everettfanor1989
      @everettfanor1989 8 років тому +4

      +Masiya Fuentez Why do you prefer them if you never see them? I think you have a fetish

    • @masiyafuentez6378
      @masiyafuentez6378 8 років тому +30

      Just because I never see them in indiana doesnt mean I have never been around them I am not originally from indiana I'm from Wisconsin grew up with hmong and laos ppl I never had the balls to say anything to the ones I liked because I was sure it would end in rejection and embarrasment it is really sad I keep running into this kinda shit tho like I cant prefer asian guys it always have to be a fetish it's not a fetish it's a prefrence unless I have the deffinitions mixed up wich I'm pretty sure I dont

    • @everettfanor1989
      @everettfanor1989 8 років тому

      Masiya Fuentez Haha true. I think the white guy fetish towards asian women(yellow fever) has always been a sexual thing. dominance vs submissive view on interracial mixing with asians. When I see black women with asian men I see the black women as dominant and the asian guy as submissive

    • @masiyafuentez6378
      @masiyafuentez6378 8 років тому +17

      well some are dominate some are equal to their mate and some black women water down their personalities and become submissive because they want ppl from other ethnicities to like them cant always assume that they are the dominate one in the relationship because they are black women

    • @everettfanor1989
      @everettfanor1989 8 років тому

      Masiya Fuentez Ive seen those girls that act different when they are around certain people. Its disgusting and fake. Sound like nicki minaj one second then paris hilton the next smh lol

  • @JordanWilliams-ix2td
    @JordanWilliams-ix2td 7 років тому +10

    I've ALWAYS thought Asian guy's & black girls look so good together idk y ..I'm black,darkskin & my boyfriends Asian, I almost fell out my chair when his mom said I was beautiful, life stopped ND I was like huh?...I planned r wedding & baby names after that moment LMFAO

  • @MsSnoopy1981
    @MsSnoopy1981 8 років тому +59

    It's so funny I relate to this so much. My husband is White/Korean and we get looks from black mean a lot (women don't really say much or they give a thumbs up lol) and we get a lot of looks by Korean older women. Where I live Asian girls and Black guys is more common and the younger Asian community doesn't really care. Black guys usually look like "HOW?" while they are with their White/Latina wives lol. Older Korean women look like I want you for my daughter/granddaughter lol. We are very lucky that both our families are supportive (including his family from Korea. His cousin brags that she has a black cousin now lol). My family has several interracial relationships both men and women so it was no big deal on my side.

    • @angelv5170
      @angelv5170 8 років тому +1

      I'm 14 and my first boyfriend was Korean (I'm black). When we walk together (we aren't dating anymore but we still hangout) people will either look at us weird or say things like "your kids will look so cute". It was really a new and different experience.

    • @MsSnoopy1981
      @MsSnoopy1981 8 років тому +2

      +Angel Viskinda we get that on the weekly! lol. They say "Asian and black makes the cutest babies". We just brush it off lol.

    • @iloveasianboys1614
      @iloveasianboys1614 8 років тому +2

      +Elizabeth Wilson It's true though. 😜

    • @MsSnoopy1981
      @MsSnoopy1981 8 років тому

      I Love Asian Boys haha its too much pressure. Our baby would come out hideous! Lol haha

    • @iloveasianboys1614
      @iloveasianboys1614 8 років тому

      Elizabeth Wilson 😂😂

  • @realeyezrealizerealliez
    @realeyezrealizerealliez 5 років тому +10

    I am filipino and my girlfriend is afrolatina ... Culture fits real good! God Bless🙏🏽

  • @Hi_Tamera
    @Hi_Tamera 7 років тому +6

    This was so cute!!! I couldn't stop smiling 🤗💕 they made valid points

  • @zorrillavixen1389
    @zorrillavixen1389 8 років тому +109

    This is kinda cringe....Why does it matter about the race? I mean if you like someone, like them for them not their race.

    • @jshannon777
      @jshannon777 8 років тому

      Zorrilla Vixen becouse black woman are always tryin to put another race against black men first it was white men now its Asian men well black women line them all up you still won't win

    • @nanaosei6613
      @nanaosei6613 7 років тому +6

      Zorrilla Vixen the problem is the world doesn’t work that way . Most boys I’ve liked only liked other chinese and would only date chinese . All the white guys have girlfriends and the black guys .... Well they come from Nigeria and they have sexist views about women .

    • @lovelmpurple1191
      @lovelmpurple1191 7 років тому

      Zorrilla Vixen race does matter you just want to be blind.

    • @JordanWilliams-ix2td
      @JordanWilliams-ix2td 7 років тому +6

      Lovelm Purple actually race really doesn't matter, society makes it matter..Im surrounded by people of diff cultures who genuinely don't give a fuck,if u look good u look good were I'm from it's deadass "FUCK UR SKIN COLOR, u look good what's up with u" lol I'm so blessed ...

    • @lovelmpurple1191
      @lovelmpurple1191 6 років тому +2

      Jordan Williams what state you live?

  • @ashleylewis59
    @ashleylewis59 8 років тому +44

    we love Asian men‼

    • @BlasianQuest
      @BlasianQuest 8 років тому +4

      yes!

    • @patricebrown9917
      @patricebrown9917 5 років тому +2

      @@BlasianQuest the reason we love Asian guys so much is because they are sexy as hell and they treat us with respect. I am a black woman and yes I will date an Asian guy anytime.

  • @humans8893
    @humans8893 8 років тому +6

    I love watching videos like this one that expose the stereotypes and promote spouse diversity... I love love love widening my perspective and gaining knowledge about different people..

  • @iloveasianboys1614
    @iloveasianboys1614 8 років тому +24

    Seems like AMBW relationships would be easy. Asian men and black women have so much in common. 👍

  • @Akana.QuantumHealingTemple
    @Akana.QuantumHealingTemple 8 років тому +18

    My dad is Japanese & Chinese... I love seeing Asian men with black woman, Asian women date black men. This couple so adorable. I love Asian men ( >_< )

  • @Boopi34070
    @Boopi34070 8 років тому +13

    We don't have a lot of asian immigration here in France. Most asians we see come here to study and stay within their community most of the time so I never really get the occasion to meet asian men. It's a shame because I find them so attractiiive !

  • @mida3beijo
    @mida3beijo 3 роки тому +4

    I was never attracted to Asian men, but this year I don’t know what the hell happened that I can’t see one in the street and I am instantly attracted. I keep questioning myself, but I have no idea what happened 🤦🏽‍♀️ I so want to find a loving Asian guy 😭 I need help!!! Loved the channel

  • @saraadam4998
    @saraadam4998 8 років тому +34

    I think blasian couples are the hottest! Especially if the girl is black or brown and the guy east-asian.

  • @Domino365
    @Domino365 8 років тому +10

    "We're Asian and we're coming!" Lol, I'll be here. XD

  • @meganrascoe3227
    @meganrascoe3227 3 роки тому +3

    I love that he said he’s direct because most black women won’t expect it. That’s so true haha

  • @Perfectstorm25
    @Perfectstorm25 Рік тому +2

    Exactly be open to every one. I'd absolutely love to date and be with a Asian guy please approach like he said you just never know. Love is love you don't need to approach any different way if your interested in anyone go for it.

  • @annanicolefloyd262
    @annanicolefloyd262 8 років тому +31

    Asian guys never even approach me

    • @BlasianQuest
      @BlasianQuest 8 років тому +9

      We asian guys are shy! Say hello! ;D

    • @annanicolefloyd262
      @annanicolefloyd262 8 років тому

      Are you guys gonna make a group for Florida

    • @BlasianQuest
      @BlasianQuest 8 років тому

      What do mean? -Zhe

    • @raindr0p_70
      @raindr0p_70 8 років тому +4

      Im half asian and white...and i'd totally approach you.

    • @Glad2BGolden
      @Glad2BGolden 7 років тому +1

      Stop it, no you guys are not.

  • @lhoxterlh
    @lhoxterlh 8 років тому +3

    I'm a language major so I'm learning Japanese, Chinese, Korean, Russian, Arabic, and Spanish ... so I interact with a lot more Asian guys because I have classes with them and I really have a genuine like for Asian men and different cultures. But I'm just like idk whether or not to go for it or not because I'm fairly laid back and shy, but this as a confidence booster.

  • @ambivertical
    @ambivertical 8 років тому +8

    Respect. Really dope couple with chemistry. I naturally am more attracted to Black women and date in NY, with no hatred toward me and my lady but curious eyes.

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      @ivanegan781 8 років тому

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  • @vanxl9
    @vanxl9 8 років тому +9

    im filipino, an asian and i would date that black girl in the middle. she looks good.

  • @DCCandiGurl
    @DCCandiGurl 8 років тому +18

    She is corny too for dealing with that clown.

  • @KarmaLoves98
    @KarmaLoves98 8 років тому +40

    The Chinese/Nigerian exchange is so true 😂😂 My dad was in china for work a few weeks ago

    • @KarmaLoves98
      @KarmaLoves98 8 років тому +1

      ***** ayeeee my sista 😄😄

    • @africanibabe
      @africanibabe 8 років тому +2

      hella-Bangtan tbh heyy my sisters x

    • @KarmaLoves98
      @KarmaLoves98 8 років тому

      Brownskinbeati3 😄😄

  • @clarityroseb6136
    @clarityroseb6136 7 років тому +5

    My husband is black and I’m Filipino. I have the same experience whenever we are around black women and Filipino women. I got stared down while husband same experience too.
    Even my own oldest sister I just found out that she’s prejudiced against black people. In my husbands case he’s no siblings and he was brought up by his great grandparents. For me and my husband it didn’t matter to us but my daughter sometimes wish she is only one race. Because she’s got my quiet and soft spoken personality so one time a black kid in her school told her you’re not black and why did your daddy marry other race. Anyway, what’s important to us is we have a strong bond, love for one another and faith in God. We always tell our 2 kids that they are loved and perfect the way they are. Btw we have been married for 14 yrs and together for 18 yrs. 👍🏾👌🏽

  • @michaelnam8538
    @michaelnam8538 8 років тому +9

    She's so beautiful!

  • @ebonywalton78
    @ebonywalton78 7 років тому +3

    My man is African-American/White and Asian and I accept him for him as a person.

  • @sandraredguard6385
    @sandraredguard6385 8 років тому +3

    Great video! I'm down for love period and Asian men are definitely on my list of attractive. The sooner we stop worrying about race and cultural differences, the sooner we can see how much more we have in common. Thx!

  • @thaianderson3569
    @thaianderson3569 7 років тому +1

    My whole family is mixed and diverse. Not just with Black and White but also Asian, European and more. I my self and Black-Asian. I currently am in an AMBW relationship and we have been together for 4 years. I live in Wa and our state is really diverse, I am the first Black women my boyfriend has dated.

  • @sherwood9917
    @sherwood9917 7 років тому +4

    I find that the Asian men whom I encounter are very open to interracial dating, provided the women are white. They would never bat an eye in the direction of a black woman. Again, I am only speaking of the men I encounter in my line of work.

    • @tosinojo7310
      @tosinojo7310 Рік тому

      MAYBE ITS YOU..I GET A BATTED EYELID OFTEN LOL

  • @MuChoLife
    @MuChoLife 6 років тому +1

    Once i walked in my other half getting a haircut. He had this look on his face of concern. I spoke to him in korean and the female stylist stopped cutting and looked up. She asked if I was his gf. I saw the fear on his face, but he said it, yes she’s my gf. The Asian (think she was Viet) stylist stopped changed the clipper head and continued styling. When he got up he was so angry. I found out that while I was gone she was screening him for her daughter! Lol! When she found out he was with me she cut his hair allll wacked!!!!! Omg! My poor baby she jacked his head up. He looked at me and said it was the most awkward haircut and convo. He said the horrible haircut was fine, it will grow out, and he wasn’t going to lie about our relationship. Lol. The jealousy is real! Former FIU student too!

  • @horneybadger86
    @horneybadger86 8 років тому +21

    We got no black girls in Australia =(

    • @ruejules8348
      @ruejules8348 8 років тому +3

      HAHAHAHAHAHAHA XD

    • @mangastar234
      @mangastar234 8 років тому

      Vincent Phan yeah you do they're just all clustered together from what I've heard.

    • @DEEDEE-xh3dh
      @DEEDEE-xh3dh 7 років тому

      Ummm where do you live in australia?

    • @finetuning13
      @finetuning13 7 років тому +4

      They were murdered off

  • @TheVampirePredator
    @TheVampirePredator 2 роки тому

    As a black American married to a Japanese woman, it’s wonderful to see a black woman with an Asian man! Variety is the spice of life!

    • @Abcsofattraction
      @Abcsofattraction  2 роки тому

      Be open to dating women of all races so long as it comes from a good place

  • @nicolerobinson7904
    @nicolerobinson7904 5 років тому +2

    I'm currently talking to an Asian guy rn and this is my first time doing this ☺️

  • @ChibiGrl
    @ChibiGrl 8 років тому +3

    This is a beautiful video. Good input 👍🏾

  • @bitchfightme2259
    @bitchfightme2259 8 років тому +5

    8:37 he's trying not to laugh 😂

  • @Haterzarefans
    @Haterzarefans 7 років тому +2

    so proud of them!

  • @atarahrenet
    @atarahrenet 8 років тому +9

    Freakin' finally. I actually unsubscribed to this page because I felt it was very stereotypical towards the men and women and just enforced AMWW couples and didn't even talk one bit about AMBW or BMAW couples. Then this popped into my recommendations 5 months later. Wow.

  • @kimju-soungaris51
    @kimju-soungaris51 8 років тому +3

    well that so good advice thanks really need it. 💕

  • @Crazylilfool
    @Crazylilfool 8 років тому

    Love this video!! Good tips!! Thanks for the intro of Blasian quest

  • @Oshiettle
    @Oshiettle 8 років тому +36

    asian men are the best

    • @michellegleigh
      @michellegleigh 8 років тому +2

      Agreed

    • @цветок-ш7п
      @цветок-ш7п 8 років тому +7

      Don't get too big-headed lol

    • @iloveasianboys1614
      @iloveasianboys1614 8 років тому +2

      👍👍 Got that right!

    • @MiillieMesh
      @MiillieMesh 8 років тому +1

      how?

    • @Oshiettle
      @Oshiettle 8 років тому +3

      i think if you have a good heart....know your rights and wrongs....be passive and aggressive....men in general will be aight....

  • @sonyashelby5749
    @sonyashelby5749 8 років тому +2

    Black woman love when a man of race is confident enough to come up to us.

    • @nellamae1
      @nellamae1 8 років тому

      +Sonya Shelby right

    • @nellamae1
      @nellamae1 8 років тому

      Alan Rockwell :D

    • @nellamae1
      @nellamae1 8 років тому

      Phone number but we have to text on here first

    • @nellamae1
      @nellamae1 8 років тому

      Because I just can't give it up just like that

    • @nellamae1
      @nellamae1 8 років тому

      Specially we're this people can see it.

  • @gatsbymovingrubber
    @gatsbymovingrubber 8 років тому +4

    Can you do a "Making asian male LATINA female relationships work"? Thats very rare couple but I know a lot of Asians (including me) are in love with latinas. They are so beautiful :'D.

    • @darith770
      @darith770 8 років тому

      I date a lot of Latin girls. Try talking to them you'll be surprised how humble they are

    • @nookiezambo1147
      @nookiezambo1147 8 років тому +2

      +dsgrsggjgfj Latin is not a race. You don't love latinas, you love the stereotype of a latina. The white girl with a tan, the white girl with a taco. Latina/Latino isn't a race. It's just like America. A person can be any race and be American. A person can be any race and be Latin. Smh and I thought Asians were smart....smh

    • @gatsbymovingrubber
      @gatsbymovingrubber 8 років тому

      Nookie Zambo Well you should know what the fuck I ment. Because the other guy did. I like the girls from the country and from America. Not someone you assume I like dafaq. Didn't comment to be all technical.

    • @nookiezambo1147
      @nookiezambo1147 8 років тому +1

      +dsgrsggjgfj no I don't know what you mean. you said you like latina women like they are their own separate race or something. you can't separate black from Latin or white from Latin because black & white is Latin. get it? that's like saying you don't like white girls but you like Americans girls. see?

    • @gatsbymovingrubber
      @gatsbymovingrubber 8 років тому +1

      Nookie Zambo Then bro, you're being dumb as fuck or being smart ass if you don't know I mean Hispanic girls.If you're trying to correct me, good job! I don't care.

  • @AlmostCouture
    @AlmostCouture 8 років тому +24

    He is fine af 😍 if they ever break up, I'll be here to pick up the pieces 😂😂😂

  • @blasianloveforeverasianmen9336
    @blasianloveforeverasianmen9336 8 років тому +3

    ✨ Great interview! Keep up the good work 👍🏽

    • @SalvationinCHRISTalone888
      @SalvationinCHRISTalone888 5 років тому

      Blasian Love Forever (Asian Men & Black Women Dating) THEY BROKE UP AFTER THIS video

  • @shatwatwa1
    @shatwatwa1 8 років тому +3

    Absolutely love Asian guys but it's rare to have them actually approach you hopefully that will change

  • @NameName-id2wl
    @NameName-id2wl 8 років тому +3

    Good looking pair!!!

  • @a.m.lindsay2900
    @a.m.lindsay2900 Рік тому

    I think the couple, as well as the host was telling "their truths", everyone has their truths according to their life experiences and according to how they see or live them, I learned a lot from the show whether I was in agreement or disagreement, I think the host was very good, will look for more shows like this, it was very interesting !!!

  • @shinjikuu5112
    @shinjikuu5112 8 років тому +5

    Nice video. First of all, sorry if my english is bad.In fact, I learn japanese language and i forgot my english.
    I'm from france, i'm asian and i really, really love black women.I think that in France it would be difficult with french black women because i thought that they don't like french asian guys.French blasian couple are not so many and i'm really, really sad and disappointed.I'm always wonder why?...(Most of French asian guys doesn't really like black women ? Or Most of French black women doesn't really like french asian guys ? Well, I hope that's not true.)
    Nowadays, i hope that it would be different mainly in france.
    Anyway, i'm not worry about that.I met a lot of french black girls who loves asian guys so much, so i feel reassured.
    Bonjour from france !!!!! :)

  • @theblissfulbeauty_
    @theblissfulbeauty_ 25 днів тому

    I think BW and AM are a great match. I’m from the Bay, I should know. Still waiting on my person to show up. Ya’ll be safe, and stay loved. ❤

  • @victoriabolton2042
    @victoriabolton2042 5 років тому

    This is such a great video. Thank you for doing this 👍🏽

  • @MimiMhair
    @MimiMhair 4 роки тому

    Thank you for posting this💜

  • @블랙스완-t7v
    @블랙스완-t7v 6 років тому +2

    In Trinidad its common to see asian men with black women. In america and western type countries its more rare. Even in Jamaica I heard a lot of asian men with black women and asian women with black men there

  • @minsugamaxsalt
    @minsugamaxsalt 8 років тому +5

    i was in nigeria a few months ago and suprised that there were asians !!

    • @BlasianQuest
      @BlasianQuest 8 років тому +8

      I'd wager theres a chinese restaurant in every corner of the earth. lol

    • @minsugamaxsalt
      @minsugamaxsalt 8 років тому

      +Blasian Quest I didnt see any(probably because I went to the village). Also it was my first time going there. But there were asians at the airport, I just didnt expect it haha

    • @시즈니원잇
      @시즈니원잇 8 років тому +1

      Omg what state? I'm from lagos

    • @brookem.8801
      @brookem.8801 8 років тому

      OMG suga

    • @serahdiane5619
      @serahdiane5619 8 років тому +1

      lol and can u believe they're like 4 korean restaurants in kenya and I was literally mind blown and n.flying is performing there tomorrow...I wish I knew they existed when I used to live there

  • @brookem.8801
    @brookem.8801 8 років тому +1

    yeaahh~ my dad is black and my mom is Asian. people mistake me for Hispanic and sometime don't believe I'm mix.

    • @Amy-se5ld
      @Amy-se5ld 8 років тому

      Same I look Hawaiian to some people but since I'm living in Dallas people assume I'm like Hispanic 😂

  • @janepaige928
    @janepaige928 8 років тому +1

    Baahahahahahaha! @6:12 I hollered. he when hard out of nowhere.

  • @Leonelkys
    @Leonelkys 8 років тому

    I loved this couple, just amazing!

  • @karlabeals8338
    @karlabeals8338 8 років тому +1

    the short man I recommend a ladder to climb up on that on that beautiful mountain. keep in mind she might be shy too and came up and introduce your self her promise you will have it.

  • @B4BESS
    @B4BESS 8 років тому +1

    Thanks for your advice. It is so helpful. I have always kind find Korean culture interesting. Keep it up..you two are beautiful..

  • @Jaden3459
    @Jaden3459 8 років тому +6

    Fact of the matter is, black women who are interested in Asian men are a very small minority. If you're looking for a black girl, maybe one from outside the US, like European blacks or ones from the Islands, they are different culturally and don't seem to have half the baggage, also more open to it

    • @KarmaLoves98
      @KarmaLoves98 8 років тому +16

      I'm a black girl from the UK and yes, we are culturally different from US black girls, but why the generalization of having "baggage"? thats more about the individual as opposed to the groups as a whole

    • @SuperTruthful
      @SuperTruthful 8 років тому +6

      +Jaden3459 You need to explore the internet there are many African American women with Asian men.

    • @KarmaLoves98
      @KarmaLoves98 8 років тому +2

      Alan Rockwell I assume stereotypical generalizations

    • @KarmaLoves98
      @KarmaLoves98 8 років тому +3

      West Adams your experiences do not equal facts.

    • @SuperTruthful
      @SuperTruthful 8 років тому +5

      West Adams There are videos on youtube with Asian men and black women. In my neighborhood black women are dating and married to Asian men...not and issue for them.

  • @SuperAnimelover100
    @SuperAnimelover100 7 років тому +1

    Wow cool , My 2 daughters love Korean guys . They swear there the best looking guys ever ! Good for them .

  • @Justmylukc
    @Justmylukc 7 років тому +5

    that asian guy is hot, lucky girl

  • @SlimGoodie004
    @SlimGoodie004 8 років тому +6

    They're a super cute couple :)

  • @Raja-bz4yw
    @Raja-bz4yw 7 років тому +1

    I'm just an intorvert. Im really quiet n shy. I find Asian guys really attractive. I always stare at a cute Asian guy then turn away shyly. 😂😂

  • @oluwaseunfagbamila6946
    @oluwaseunfagbamila6946 6 років тому +1

    so clubs are the only place to meet guys nowadays? im still scared of going places at night.

  • @lindasmilesrfree6067
    @lindasmilesrfree6067 7 років тому

    Wow, they're an adorable couple. Even when I was younger, I was never a "club" goer so I'm not too familiar with the whole club scene as a way of meeting someone. I'm not opposed to dating an Asian guy; however, it has never really been on my radar which is amazing because I find the Asian culture especially interesting. In fact, I'm in the process of learning Mandarin. I don't necessarily think about race when I meet someone. I can strike up a conversation with pretty much anyone because I love people in general. I tend to attract foreign men. I was married to a white Frenchman (divorved now) and have also dated men of other ethnicities: Latino, Israeli, Persian, Indian, Canadian (white), German (white), American (black) but never Asian...and yet I have Asian men acquaintances. The fact that I've never dated an Asian has nothing to do with them being Asian, it just never happened. If I'm honest with myself, I've always thought that Asian men were attracted to really skinny women so I never looked at them in a romantic light. I've always been curvaceous, hour glass and at times overweight. Most of my friends have said to me, "you certainly don't have trouble meeting men" and although that may be true, I'm very selective (not because of race or ethnicity) because of my spiritual beliefs. I do have a standard that I live by that I hope honors God and because of that, the men I've dated become disillusioned. I've always tried to keep my relationship with God first and although men admire it, they find it too high a standard to live by and so the relationship doesn't develop....at the same time I've never faulted them for it. My faith is such that if I'm meant to have a man in my life where there's a deep love and respect for God and each other then God will bring him into my life at the right time when I least expect it. However, in many ways, I may be my own worst enemy due to my own view of myself. My weight has fluctuated through the years and I'm always putting my life on hold until the weight comes off and therefore I've also pushed men away too. It's only recently that I've determined that here I am once again waiting on God to bring someone in my life and it occurred to me that perhaps God is waiting on me to let go of the shield (weight, how i think, excuses) and begin to open myself up to stepping outside of my comfort zone. For far too long, I've been comfortable in an uncomfortable situation. I've safeguarded myself to the point of isolation. I'm still open, friendly and not afraid to strike up a conversation but at the end of the day, I'm by myself. Now, I just turned a year older a few days ago and that's okay because im not afraid of growing older; but what concerns me is "failing to change" in order to live my best life. I'm not even so concerned with meeting/not meeting someone as I am concerned with not being my best "self" so that I'm comfortable with what I have to offer that person when he does eventually enter into my life (if that makes sense). For example, if my weight/the way i perceive myself has become my shield and the shield is preventing me from living my best life then am I willing to surrender the shield to allow the manifestation of what I've been praying for to happen. It's only recently that I've come to the realization that the hindrance in my life is not my weight but really the hindrance is how "I think" . I remember reading something "change the way you think and you will change your life"...how profound and true. This video with this beautiful blasian couple has made me see that "thinking outside the box" can be a stepping stone to a more fulfilled life...if we are willing to surrender our shields (whatever they may be). Blessings to the happy couple. Love has a way of finding you, if you are willing to allow it access.

  • @jacintaellison1
    @jacintaellison1 8 років тому +2

    Awesome couple!!!!

  • @whereisja
    @whereisja 5 років тому +2

    That guy irritates me. He said so much ignorant shit near the end. I'm tired of people (especially black girls on social media) fetishizing Asians and putting all Asian men on a pedestal simply because of this kpop/Asian culture trend. Not all Asian guys are good dudes, love yourself and know the difference. That said, healthy ambw couples are a good thing just like any other group. Everyone has preferences but I tend to steer away from people that say race is a determining factor in whether they would date someone.

  • @BeaWms
    @BeaWms 7 місяців тому +1

    They can only say no!

  • @SoulanceGina
    @SoulanceGina 7 років тому +1

    I just posted my first video with my husband so I'm looking to connect with other AMBW Couples :) #AMBWsquad

  • @SidniOrchids
    @SidniOrchids 7 років тому +1

    This couple is too cute!

  • @0Lu.Lu0
    @0Lu.Lu0 7 років тому

    Wow! I am from LA and have a cousin who has dated almost exclusively White guys and she told me that once they were crossing the street (holding hands appatently) and some black guy glared at her through his windshield and tild her,"You aint shit!". So I knew that there are some who are so diseased, first, to think that they own Black Women and have jurisdiction over the righteous characterization of how they live we live our lives, but I just would have thought there would be more freedom in LA cuz we're apart of the so-called "Most progressive" state in the country.

  • @jasmainjasmain2906
    @jasmainjasmain2906 2 роки тому +1

    Lol funny reminds me of how I suddenly ended up in a relationship, I was hoping yet it kind of happened 😅
    Haven't experienced angry looks yet. Idc anyways.
    We're both 5'10, yet don't let the height stop you. I've dated 5'6 🙃 just be confident and respectful.
    Love my black brothers, just open to love Periodt so fcfs 🥰

  • @patandersen4271
    @patandersen4271 8 років тому +1

    Cool couple Stay strong and together.

  • @Theawesomegirl9456
    @Theawesomegirl9456 8 років тому +2

    i love asian guys....i perfer them over black guys....but the way my dad raised me is that if any guy that is good to me and can financially support me and my decisions then thats the one for me😊

  • @patandersen4271
    @patandersen4271 7 років тому

    your daily now. this youtuber made a great video on this subject--ambw. It's a VERY old video but a good one.

  • @cherrylou3778
    @cherrylou3778 7 років тому

    I'm an African American woman (yes , I know my logo is an Asian boy) anyways , I have dated a few Asian guys ... at first I didn't find them attractive but my mom registered me in a school that's was 60% Asian (it was academic base) and over time I started to find them more attractive than black men. However, I started to feel Asian men were too passive. They seem to just agree or do whatever I say and I want a human not a robot. Or some would "try to act black" like hood 🙄 like I can date a black man if I wanted that. Anyways , I still have a liking towards them ... idk, it's something about Asians that seems so fascinating to me and they are really loyal sweet people when you become friends with them. Also, I kind of stopped liking them as much once this Asian guy took advantage of me when I was drunk and put his hands down my pants ! I never told my Then bestfriend about it ... so, I just start avoiding going around her and we just naturally grew apart 😕 still miss her though

  • @luzperez4759
    @luzperez4759 8 років тому

    I love it!!! OMG!

  • @sonyashelby5749
    @sonyashelby5749 8 років тому +2

    Shows the guy is Confident

  • @BeaWms
    @BeaWms 7 місяців тому

    In LA, that is odd! I look at everybody, but it's not about who they are with. Sometimes, something someone is wearing is cute or the male is handsome, it is not about the race. Not an issue, love who you love!!!!!!!

  • @tonysamsenthaikhambaoxaych8507
    @tonysamsenthaikhambaoxaych8507 7 років тому

    One of the first girls ive dated was black we were really good with each other and got along super good too ♡♡♡♡♡

  • @4thalovof3
    @4thalovof3 8 років тому +1

    I love your guest. Hahahahahaha

  • @AngelA-wf1sg
    @AngelA-wf1sg 7 років тому

    How ADORABLE are they😊😍😍

  • @aliayah5235
    @aliayah5235 6 років тому +2

    MUST BE FREAKING NICEEEEE

  • @missmissy1636
    @missmissy1636 8 років тому +2

    Nice couple!!!!

  • @princetonshot
    @princetonshot 8 років тому +13

    I want to date an Asian guy but they aren't interested in black girls :(