Complaints vs Criticism: The Gottman Method Relationship Advice

[@adinubila]

some people don't like complaints either - they can't handle being told they are not perfect

[@negrarica]

I’m learning not to use “never” & “always”.

[@georgegray2712]

This is the same format as NVC teaches. OFNR - observation, feelings, needs, request.

[@KoolT]

What if he is addicted to his phone with FB a d news on iPad?????

[@rphwww]

Here is an example for a complaint: vocal fry is very annoying. Ending almost each sentence pitched to far down is very annoying and it's becoming an epidemic, it's even here.

[@waynepolo6193]

That’s really more of a peeve. And also not particularly actionable in context.