“I don’t want to get tough skin. I don’t want to get callous. I want to continue to be a sensitive person. I want to continue to be a kind person” LOVE THIS!
Yes, she does not look like a bad person at all however people are assholes ... when they see someone doing good or better than them they attack! sadly it's that way .... people also need to stop with the comments about the lipstick pubes people stop!!!! pubes are a normal thing maybe someone was trimming their parts while making lipsticks and that is NORMALLLLL IT COULD HAPPEN TO ANYONE . Love jaclyn and leave her alone XD
When you stood up and showed your body, I broke down crying. Because lately I've been struggling so much with accepting the body I was given and simply tearing myself down while allowing others in my life to tear me down too. Thank you for being so accepting and loving, Jaclyn!
same! I've been struggling the past 2 years and the lockdown made things worst and I gained weight. I've gotten horrible comments from family members that it just brings to tears and I never want to leave my apartment. People don't realize that words hurt.
@@angierentmeester9265 People can be mean. It’s different if they say it in a worried or caring manner. I am sorry you’re dealing with it. I’m the heaviest I’m ever been and try not to look at myself because it makes me sad and feel disgusted. But at the end of the day, my body is mine and it carries me through life. It keeps me alive and moving and happy most days. And I’m grateful for it. Because I could have it so much worse. 💜
We are so hard on ourselves all the time and when we gain weight we really internalize it and all the negative comments in our heads hurt us so much. It is a daily struggle to let positive and loving comments shine through. We women are beautiful, amazing, loving, and ever-changing. I love being a female! love you all!
As a sensitive person this video really made me feel comfortable about being so sensitive it really is a strength. We may feel sadness, anxiety and all the other sucky feelings at a deeper level than other people but we also feel love and joy at DEEP DEEP levels as well. Thank you for staying true to yourself❤️
It’s interesting when you watch huge celebrities online, they rarely respond to their comments if at all. UA-camrs/Influencers are more “accessible” and it seems like therefore they get more comments below the belt. You may be at the point where you benefit from doing what a lot of celebrities do - just bless people with content/products and ignore the comments altogether. Your team can read them and provide whatever feedback is important. Your mental health is more important. Someone’s body is the LEAST interesting thing about them, and you don’t deserve to suffer over these shallow, body- shaming comments that ultimately carry no weight of a persons worth.
I HATE that. "You're too sensitive. You need to toughen up." Like, no, it's okay to be emotional. It's NOT okay to be a shitty person and expect everybody else around you to change.
You standing up and showing your body and demanding praise for your happiness makes this one of the best videos I’ve even see from you! THANK YOU QUEEN! Makes me proud to be a fan of you!
Why is having a normal body something people are trashing others over. You are setting an example that our bodies change. It's beautiful. We love you forever
Because people aren’t happy with themselves!!! What a world we live in where someone can get trashed because they’ve gained weight or made a cosmetic change 😓
The fact that she had to get up and feel the need to show off her body to people she doesn't need to prove anything to. Girl you are so amazing and so strong!! I love your vids soooo much!!
I usually don’t comment but I have to say, seeing you just get up and say this is my body made me feel butterflies. I’m so insecure about how much weight I’ve gained in my 20’s. Thank you for owning it and making a stand about how it’s okay
As somebody who struggles with weight fluctuatations and body image, I really appreciate that you say weight gain is normal and that you’re okay with it.
That’s all I wanted to hear, everyone has a voice that is needed to be heard, please don’t keep anything inside and not say it, it will hurt you and sometimes it might even hurt someone you love.
When you said, “ It’s not fair just because I F**d up that I just have to now lay down and play dead for the rest of my life, that’s just not going to happen” at that moment you took back authority. God has placed you in high places Jaclyn ! This video is just 🔥 you adjusted that crown 👑 👏🏼 all of Gods best for you girl! 🤍
"It's not fair that just because I fucked up that I now have to just lay down and play dead for the rest of my life. That's just not going to happen" - Jaclyn 2021 ❤
Yes! We are trying to teach our kids that you can get back up and become even better ans strong after making mistakes. My older step kids’ mom is very much the kind of person that keeps everyone’s wrongs right at the tip of her tongue and it’s just so devastating to me. I don’t want that for the kids. People make mistakes; that doesn’t make them “bad” forever.
Amen!!!!! People act like they’re perfect Saints like bitch you’re just not in the public eye, you would get destroyed by your own kind if people got wind of the things you say and do in your regular life! We all deserve a chance to grow and learn from mistakes!!
I have NEVER left a negative comment regarding someone’s appearance, changing body, ANYTHING. I could never imagine 1. Taking the time to make a comment that is negative and nasty 2. The ENERGY it takes to be a horrible human online. It’s wild. Good for standing up for yourself and taking all the shit you do, i don’t know how you do it!
When you stood up and showed your body, chills girl and tears. The realest shit ever. I wish more influencers/celebs had the balls to show who they really are and what they look like. This is everything. Keep doing you, you’re an inspiration 🤍
I have too Kimberly. I am topping out at 165, and feeling so depressed. However, I bought a treadmill cause I cannot stand the extra weight. Just remember, you're still the same beautiful person, no matter what size you are!!
Samee girl!!! I stopped taking pictures because I hate the way I look right now. Sending love to Jaclyn. I can’t even look at myself in the mirror half the time. I can’t imagine how hard it must be to have people constantly judging me. Sending love Jaclyn. Keep being you xoxo
As someone who has struggled with their own body image, I actually found that hearing you speak about body acceptance was very healing for me. I appreciate your vulnerability❤️
The moment you stood up and said “this is me”, you showed all the young women watching your videos how to be a truly self-loving and accepting woman. That was a moment of strength, I am so impressed! Love you Jaclyn! ❤️
@@hopejohnson1885 she definitely shouldn't be talking for young women at all. Trying to peddle her products once a year to naive subscribers is disgusting. But you go ahead and praise this person 😫😆
the fact that she was worried that this video was gonna “cancel” her is just heartbreaking. being vulnerable & speaking up shouldn’t make anyone afraid of getting “canceled”. god damn i hate that term. what a sad, toxic world we live in. jaclyn you have been such a light over the years truly genuine. dont change. we love you for you.
With heaviness in your chest and anxiety spreading through your body you spoke up and voiced something that needed to be said. You were strong before and you are strong now. You were beautiful before and beautiful now. But now you have found your peace with the world and your anxiety and that’s what is so beautiful to me about this video ❣️
What i love bout her, she is SO GENUINELY a COMEDIAN. since the first time i saw her UA-cam till today, she is still the SAME PERSON. F*** people who hate her, they are NOTHING. LOVE U JH
I started crying my eyes out at 17:50 when she addressed her weight gain because I can relate to that so hard. I gained weight and it shows mostly in my face, ironically enough and EVERYONE tells me how different I look and it makes me so sad because I am no less Beautiful than I was.
when you said “why should I have to get tough skin” I really felt that. I have ALWAYS felt this way. Why are the ones who are being bullied and abused be the ones to learn how to suck it up and take it? It makes LITERALLY no sense at all. Thank you for being so raw and genuine 💕
I have a full, round face and have gained weight in the last year or so. It’s uplifting to see someone who doesn’t look like “an Instagram baddie” and is still so beautiful and successful.
"You are Beautiful, for your are fearfully and wonderfully made." Psalm 139:14 I want you to know that doing this video is going to help so many people out there who deal with hate comments. You are such a strong, brave and beautiful women. If you want to do something for yourself that makes you happy than you have that right its your body. Stay positive we are here for you.
It is so so so so so comforting seeing a REAL AND NORMAL BODY on the internet. When you stood up I was like holy crap FINALLY someone that LOOKS LIKE ME. It is so hard to love your body when everyone you see on the internet has abs and a thigh gap. This was amazing. Thank you
Turn off the screens. Social media is killing us all. We aren’t built to process this level of toxicity. Life is happening right in front of us, not online. Praying for you, Jac ❤️
@@ilickgrandmas2854 so? Does that mean she’s obligated to process the messages from haters who are so much louder than her supporters? No. Post the content and turn away from the commentary.
@@ilickgrandmas2854 there are emotional vampires everywhere and social media has given them direct access to us. There are pitfalls in every profession. This is hers and the best way to protect herself is to avoid the negative. Jac said herself, she sat there and read 200 negative messages on IG that sucked all of the positivity out of her space. The only way to avoid that is to turn off the screens. 🤷🏻♀️ Being a content creator does not obligate her to engage with or take in the negative commentary. It is not a requirement of her profession. She sets the boundaries of her life and career, not the people who follow her.
@@ilickgrandmas2854 money is NOT EVERYTHING. I agree with Heidi, social media is killing us, making us sicker, dumber, more detached from reality than ever before in human existence!! We neeeeeed WAKE TF UP!
Here’s my ten - fifteen seconds: I haven’t watched you in years, but I’m watching jaclyns journey and am now on this video... i am so happy for you. I love this jaclyn so so much. You’ve got a re-subscriber lol
The fact that jaclyn has gotten so much hate and is still like the nicest person shows so much about her true character. She truly is one of the best influencers out there.
“It’s not fair just because I fucked up that I just have to lay down and play dead for the rest of my life? That’s not going to happen.” Love it. Yes. ❤️
When you stood up to show us your body I started crying! I have gained weight and can't lose it. but in that moment I realized I also compare myself so much to girls on social media. your video helped me so much and made me realize that I am happy and should stop comparing myself. I love you Jaclyn !
100%. Just because someone has chosen to be an influencer or an actor or musician or whatever, doesn’t mean they have to be okay and accepting of hate that they may or may not get. Unpopular opinion obviously, but they didn’t sign up to be bullied online, they signed up to do what they love. I think everyone as people need to learn to shut their traps if they have nothing nice to say.
I always found it so ironic that people think their negative opinions are warranted in the first place and how they don’t realize that’s bullying by ganging up and saying hateful things, I think people sometimes should rethink what impact they have on society and whether it’s a good or bad one because there’s enough hate in this world as is.
You showing your body after gaining wait has me in tears. I gained 60lbs in 4 months due to depression and ptsd a few years ago and have been struggling with multiple eating disorders since. Seeing you be proud of your body and showing people is so heart warming ❤
🤗 I fell out of the beauty community after cancel culture became a term. You've been through so much, you'll go thru more, but I for one will always be subscribed. The Jaclyn I appreciate is the one that's here. Who ever she is that day, whatever she's going through. Get it girl. 💪
When you showed off your body, I literally stood up and clapped at my tv. Thank you!!!!! As a mother who's gained weight from babies and has been shamed because I'm not back to how I was, thank you!!!!! We go through changes in life!
I don’t know how people can say she didn’t take responsibility about her first lipstick launch if she literally refunded everyone. I wasn’t even expecting or wanting a refund and I received one. I love your products and will continue to purchase in the future. Mad respect to you for not giving up!
i’ve been watching you for like 10 years now, i literally love you so much and have learned so much from you as a person and makeup artist. your videos have saved me from some very hard times. you only deserve the best and honestly no one deserves to have the hate that you do about YOUR appearance… so happy with how real you have been in this video, you go girl 🤍 keep thriving🥰
She really just said "Because this is who I am, I'm vain, and I love my shit" and I could not be happier for her. If someone put that on a tshirt I'd wear that.
I am a guy who has no clue who you are, what has happened, why this was recommended to me, etc. I like anime and video games. Watching this is like watching a completely different universe. That being said, I can FEEL the stress and anxiety emanating from you. Like, we are so different, but yet you feel familiar. I'm just trying to catch my breath because of how strong the emotions are in this first couple of minutes. I hope you take care of yourself and your mental health. I want the best for you. You ARE human, and I think humans are valuable, beautiful, and kind creatures, even if we have a tendency to forget that sometimes.
You are a calm in a storm of bullying and horrible habits allowed online now a days, whatever it was you were meant to see this video and share with others in your life. Or you have females in your life that have experienced this or you see it on your own feed in the gaming world. Keep that positivity, we need more of it out there in the world
“be normal and talk shit about me behind my back” I AM DEAD. girl this video means so much to me. gaining weight myself, this just spoke to me on SOOO many levels! it’s so hard and you are my BITCH yes 👏🏼
A few months ago, I walked in on my sister's suicide. I will never get the image out of my head. Your videos have been the only thing keeping me going. You are truly an incredible human being, and everytime I think of you, I think of the saying, "Some women are afraid of the fire, some women simply become the fire." ❤️
It really breaks my heart the things people find “acceptable” to say to you. You were beautiful then and you are still beautiful now. I wish we could go back to the days where you treat people the way you want to be treated. Today’s world definitely needs to be put back in that mindset. I love you so much!
“I want to continue being a sensitive person.” Thank you for saying this. Us sensitive people need to hear that it’s ok to be sensitive. We don’t have to be tough to be strong.
I think having the confidence and courage to be sensitive and show feelings is strong especially when it’s so stigmatized. Thank you for quoting it because reading hit it home for me (hopefully that’s not weird lol)
You honest to God helped save my life. About 9 years ago I was at my lowest point and had already tried to take my life once. I had always loved makeup but didn't know much technically or that dry skin was why my makeup looked like crap. One day while lying in bed, depressed beyond showering, I went to UA-cam and typed foundation routines. The first video I watched was "how to get a flawless face." I was hooked. I went back and watched your other videos and decided I wanted to try it. I got up, showered, and went and bought a cheap little quad brown revlon pallette. From there I built my confidence and gave myself something to do when it felt like I just wanted to rip my skin off. It wasn't a magic cure obviously and when you came out with your anxiety struggles it resonated with me. It gave me a push to seek help. Now I am properly diagnosed, on the correct medication, and am a happy and healthy mother of an amazing little girl, who loves your makeup too. Lol. I have seen many other stories just like this one so never doubt the amazing impact you have had on our lives.
She stood up, showed her body and I was like umm. She looks perfect. I see no flaws. I hope she stays just the way she is. Thank you for speaking up for all of us who feel like we have to constantly live up to the most unrealistic standards of perfection. Thank you for being real.
Jaclyn does have flaws. Gaining a lot of weight isn’t something you should be proud of. It’s understandable what she went through, but that doesn’t mean she should stop exercising or not work on herself anymore. I understand you’re very supportive of her and that’s great, but that does not mean she’s perfect.
My mother used to say “If someone can’t change something about their appearance in 5 seconds, it’s none of your business and you better not dog them for it”. I think what she meant is that’s it’s ok to offer someone a courteous “Hey, you have something in your teeth” or a “Hey hun, your hair clip is falling out”. But if it’s something they can’t change about their appearance like RIGHT NOW... shut yourself mouth about it. End of story. It’s easy people. We’re all beautiful.
I thought this was a thing everyone was taught!!! So crazy to me what some people will say to someone. Sometimes it’s not even meant to be mean, but still shouldn’t be pointed out! I moved away from home a few years ago, and my acne hit me like a truck. I mean actually bad, deep red scarring all over my cheeks and chin, and active breakouts galore! And I FaceTimed my sister a couple of days ago, and the FIRST thing she said to me was “aww syd, your face!” And she wasn’t trying to be mean, but like, that’s all I see in the mirror every day. I know it’s there and I cry about it all of the time, I don’t need it pointed it and proven that it’s the first thing people notice!! It’s not something I can easily change, so please don’t mention it :)
@@sydnip2235 I’m sorry that people are terrible to you like that. I feel your pain though! I had “perfect” skin my whole life and adult acne hit me BAD for a while when I was 27-29ish. I was so mortified and confused about it. I think as adults, we kinda go through a second form of puberty or something. I’m not a doctor but differin gel I got on Amazon really helped me out and cleared most of it up minus the rogue pimple here and there. But just be cautioned cuz it’s one of those “it gets worse before it gets better” kind of treatments since differin acts like a retinoid. Boo adult acne. But like I said, we’re all beautiful 💕
Thank you for showing me that I shouldn't let the negativity of others hold me back from what I am meant to do and for making me feel proud of myself for never heaving left any negative comments myself on other people's videos - I've honestly never looked at it that way! You are beautiful and talented, and a light in the dark for many people. Thank you for all the years up till now
Yes sis! As someone who was skinny years ago and then gained weight and am “thic” now. Let me live! I’m happy with me, my husband still loves me, and it’s no one else’s business who matters. I’m a cancer too who is a total Empath. You are my soul in that way. I felt this to my core!!! You be you sis!!!!
I'm so glad you made this video. The toxicity that has become normalized on the internet is so dangerous and needed to be addressed. Edit* The replies are a perfect example of why it is dangerous. People telling me to stfu for saying this is wrong or to just "ignore it" Have some accountability people.
@Spaceman John Sometimes you want to read something positive and uplifting from your fans but then you see hate comments. How are you supposed to know if a comment is positive or negative without reading it first??
Please never stop showing, loving and accepting who you are in any moment. I’ve always had a medium body not “skinny” or plus sized and I honestly feel like people with my body type are underrepresented and my body honestly looks like yours! There is absolutely NOTHING wrong will the way your body looks you’re beautiful
You're absolutely right about all of this and there's a lot here that people need to HEAR!!! People have totally forgotten that it's okay to have feelings! There's no need to thicken your skin when the real problem lies in people being TERRIBLE. Thick skin is for small every day rudeness, not body shaming and cyber bullying.
My absolute favourite part of this is when Jaclyn said that she doesn't want to get thick skin because she doesn't want to become a callous person. It's 100% true! Why should she have to stop bring a kind sensitive person just because others are going after her? Stay you girl, we all love you!
i‘m so ready for this.. been following u for so many years and even tho i‘m just 12 seconds into the video i can already tell i love your energy! thank u for sharing your emotions and your vulnerable side with us. please never forget we love you Jaclyn and u are an amazing human ❤️
I’m crying I needed this. Can’t believe I never saw this one, I saw it when I needed. I’ve followed you since the beginning and I can’t sleep tonight and as usual I rewatch your videos to get me back to me and relax myself you are so real and I relate. It’s midnight here and I’m crying having a breakthroughs i love you. Please always be you and thank you for everything, and I don’t just mean making my face look beat to capacity 💜
Girl weight gain is like a side effect of happiness sometimes lol I gained 47 pounds over the past few years and it just sticks. No matter what you do, how you feel, or how you look (which you look GREAT with or without makeup btw) someone will complain, that's why the safest thing to do is make sure you're happy.
I gained 30 pounds during the pandemic, because I was the most depressed I've ever been in 2019 and during 2020 I have been the happiest I've ever been... yup!! 🤣
This video really made me realize how heartless I have become towards others from being walked all over and treated badly and how much I miss having a strong caring heart like yours I think this video is going to reach all of the right people and help this generation realize “bad bitch energy” isn’t the move love makes the world go round and you have been one of the most loving amazing creators I have ever watched and I think of you as a role model! You are such a strong beautiful amazing woman and you take so much but never let that effect the way you want to look at life and that blows me away
Dude me too! I’ve developed this level of apathy and numbness from depression and being treated horribly. I try and remain positive but I’ve noticed that I don’t carry that innocent energy of being as loving as I used to be
I respect this SO MUCH! You ARE a caring and loving person with character and integrity despite what you've gone through in your past... do you know how you can tell you're still there... the self awareness and accountability you just displayed in your comment. I hope there are many more that her video touches but also those people who need to read your comment and search within. Xo
i've gained 40 pounds in 3 hears because of depression and stress, and whenever i see someone body shaming a youtuber, i feel it, too. i don't think the people who leave those kinds of hateful comments realize that they are hurting more than just their target.
Same! I gained 50 lbs in a couple months because of my iud that i recently had removed. When I see people body shaming others I feel like - oh my god this is what people are thinking about me. It really messes people up & these younger kids see comments like this & it effects them.
I agree, I’ve gained so much weight over the past few years due to a combination of PTSD, depression, anxiety and medication. I hate it, and I hate that others have to suffer the same. Much love to all, we are all human beings and need to be kinder to others, you never know what someone else is going through. #BeMoreKind
God, I used to come home every single day after high school & watch your videos & eat pudding. It brought me so much happiness. Now I’m a SAHM & relate to the weight gain journey so much. It is so tough. But you are so loved & this brought me so much peace! I love myself & you. Thanks for this video. ❤️
@Dr. Meddl Depending on how much weight you have to lose, you should be mindful of how much weight you lose in a short period of time because it can cause saggy skin.
You refusing to not change your sensitive self makes me feel so much better whenever I get hate for being too sensitive. You inspire me! And you’re so pretty jaclyn :)
Why did you standing up showing your body make me tear up??? (🦀cancer🦀) Girl, you are beautiful inside AND out. I am sorry that you felt called to make this video to stand up for yourself, but I’m so proud for you that you did it. So much love for you girl! Love you, love your vibe, you’ve got this!! “I’m in itttttt”
@@taylorduarte6725 omg congratulations!! I just had my son in March!! Which is another reason why I was so emotional. Body changes in women are normal but are criticized so much
@@christinedunn5613 I agree! Congratulations to you too Momma!! 🥰🥰 We just gotta do our best to be encouraging when we can and lift each other up. I've always tried to remember that people who are insecure and unhappy with themselves are the ones who try to make others miserable. No happy woman puts other women down. So I try to remember that it's not about me when they make comments. It's because they need to heal themselves.
Very well done. I feel for you with what you have dealt with. I am doing a deep dive on your brand by request. It's for a series I just started on IG about my thoughts on brand strategies and marketing. From what I can tell, you are so down-to-earth, and you've just hit some bumps in the road that you didn't know how to handle at first. I think you have grown so much, and I applaud you for your strength. You have a new friend.
This was so refreshing, Jaclyn. The way you speak, the way you hold yourself, I can see how much you have grown. I’m so proud of you. Please keep showing up for yourself like this, it’s so nice to see you happy.
You’re such an authentic person Jaclyn!!! You are really a dope ass woman! I honestly respect the hell out of you for being yourself & being vulnerable, that shit takes balls!!
Jac you are such an insanely genuine person inside and out. What ppl need to realize is that everyone experiences life changes whether that’s falling out with a friend, depression, divorce, weight gain... everyone is on their own journey and most people only have to explain it to others on a small scale. Do you know how hard it is to go through all of these life changes with a massive audience who constantly feels the need to point out every little thing? It’s exhausting just watching so my hat goes off to you Jac. This video was long overdue and I’m so incredibly happy that you were able to bring awareness to a topic that is so overlooked online. Keep on shining ✨ It’s 2021, let’s accept change for what it is. Lift each other up and encourage others to spread positivity!
When you said, "I don't want to get callous," I felt that! Why do we have to lose our gentleness because the world wants to be rude? A soft heart is a strength! You are beautiful! Anyone who says different because you are evolving is an idiot! Be your wonderful self and screw anyone that doesn't like it! 💜
I’VE BEEN WAITING 2 YEARS FOR SOMEONE TO BE REAL IN A VIDEO LIKE THIS! THE WORLD NEEDS THIS!!! THE HONESTY, TRUTH, EVERYTHING IS SO AMAZING!! THANK YOU BIIIIITCHHHHH🤍🤍🤍🤍
“The fact I’ve never commented on someone’s appearance in a negative way” 👏🏼👏🏼wow I felt that! I truly can relate bc it really is a disgusting thing. You truly are a inspiration 🥰🥰🤗
When you said “let me show you my body” I had to fast forward because you DID NOT need to do that, you do not owe anyone shit. You are confident, you are beautiful and you are ✨glowing✨. Happiness looks so good on you Jaclyn, keep your head up ❤️
I literally got told by a man on insta that I looked better 4 yrs ago, when I was sick and couldn’t eat. Made me cry for a full week. So thank you for posting this. ❤️
I won’t lie, I have never watched any of your videos but I saw two today and being this vulnerable made me want to follow you! Thanks for being human/real with us!
“I don’t want to get tough skin. I don’t want to get callous. I want to continue to be a sensitive person. I want to continue to be a kind person” LOVE THIS!
Reminds me of the book Untamed by Glennon Doyle!
yes cancer energy 💙 were sensitive!!
Agree 🥰
It’s such a beautiful reminder that it’s okay be sensitive and feel things deeply !!
“This is who I am right now. It doesn’t bother me. So why does it bother YOU?” Girlllllllllllllll you better preach 🙌🏼
Had to stop the whole video to stand up and round of applause for her!!!
Yes I’ll let your ass be happy queen!
Yes, she does not look like a bad person at all however people are assholes ... when they see someone doing good or better than them they attack! sadly it's that way .... people also need to stop with the comments about the lipstick pubes people stop!!!! pubes are a normal thing maybe someone was trimming their parts while making lipsticks and that is NORMALLLLL IT COULD HAPPEN TO ANYONE . Love jaclyn and leave her alone XD
Am i the only one that found it sad?!? Like, she didnt need to do that but people had to show their asses and say mean things.
When you stood up and showed your body, I broke down crying. Because lately I've been struggling so much with accepting the body I was given and simply tearing myself down while allowing others in my life to tear me down too. Thank you for being so accepting and loving, Jaclyn!
same! I've been struggling the past 2 years and the lockdown made things worst and I gained weight. I've gotten horrible comments from family members that it just brings to tears and I never want to leave my apartment. People don't realize that words hurt.
@@angierentmeester9265 People can be mean. It’s different if they say it in a worried or caring manner. I am sorry you’re dealing with it. I’m the heaviest I’m ever been and try not to look at myself because it makes me sad and feel disgusted.
But at the end of the day, my body is mine and it carries me through life. It keeps me alive and moving and happy most days. And I’m grateful for it. Because I could have it so much worse. 💜
We are so hard on ourselves all the time and when we gain weight we really internalize it and all the negative comments in our heads hurt us so much. It is a daily struggle to let positive and loving comments shine through. We women are beautiful, amazing, loving, and ever-changing. I love being a female! love you all!
As a sensitive person this video really made me feel comfortable about being so sensitive it really is a strength. We may feel sadness, anxiety and all the other sucky feelings at a deeper level than other people but we also feel love and joy at DEEP DEEP levels as well. Thank you for staying true to yourself❤️
“I’m sorry you are offended that this is just weightgain and inflammation!” Shows off REAL body!!! Yess girl yess! Love that!
It’s interesting when you watch huge celebrities online, they rarely respond to their comments if at all. UA-camrs/Influencers are more “accessible” and it seems like therefore they get more comments below the belt. You may be at the point where you benefit from doing what a lot of celebrities do - just bless people with content/products and ignore the comments altogether. Your team can read them and provide whatever feedback is important. Your mental health is more important. Someone’s body is the LEAST interesting thing about them, and you don’t deserve to suffer over these shallow, body- shaming comments that ultimately carry no weight of a persons worth.
This is why I love you so much!
Queennnn yesssss ✨🖖🏾👽
Love you Jaime!!!!!!!!!!
Preach it, please! 🙏🏼🙏🏼
Yesss preach girl preach 🙌
When she said " I don't want to get a tough skin" I felt that. People expect you to change how they make you feel and refuse to treat people better.
THIS!!!
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I HATE that. "You're too sensitive. You need to toughen up." Like, no, it's okay to be emotional. It's NOT okay to be a shitty person and expect everybody else around you to change.
YEEEEEES
LITERALLY like I should not have to toughen up, YOU should just not be an asshole lol
Me when Jaclyn said “it doesn’t bother me why the fuck does it bother you” 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 I felt that!
You standing up and showing your body and demanding praise for your happiness makes this one of the best videos I’ve even see from you! THANK YOU QUEEN! Makes me proud to be a fan of you!
Why is having a normal body something people are trashing others over. You are setting an example that our bodies change. It's beautiful. We love you forever
AGREED! Its 2021, its time to stop body shaming!
Because people aren’t happy with themselves!!! What a world we live in where someone can get trashed because they’ve gained weight or made a cosmetic change 😓
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"This is who I am right now, it doesn't bother me so why the F* does it bother you?"- realest thing I've heard in a while. Well done Jaclyn!
YES girl!!!
The fact that she had to get up and feel the need to show off her body to people she doesn't need to prove anything to. Girl you are so amazing and so strong!! I love your vids soooo much!!
I usually don’t comment but I have to say, seeing you just get up and say this is my body made me feel butterflies. I’m so insecure about how much weight I’ve gained in my 20’s. Thank you for owning it and making a stand about how it’s okay
I’ve gained 50 pounds since turning 20 (I’m 22) and I’ve been really insecure about it as well. Especially since it seemed to happen over night.
“It doesn’t bother me, why the f***k does it bother you?”
- MOOOD FOR LIFE! ❤️❤️ I love you Jac!
As somebody who struggles with weight fluctuatations and body image, I really appreciate that you say weight gain is normal and that you’re okay with it.
Me too sis!!💜
That’s all I wanted to hear, everyone has a voice that is needed to be heard, please don’t keep anything inside and not say it, it will hurt you and sometimes it might even hurt someone you love.
When you said, “ It’s not fair just because I F**d up that I just have to now lay down and play dead for the rest of my life, that’s just not going to happen” at that moment you took back authority. God has placed you in high places Jaclyn ! This video is just 🔥 you adjusted that crown 👑 👏🏼 all of Gods best for you girl! 🤍
“Be normal, talk shit behind my back” I FELT THAT. Thank you for your vulnerability, thank you for not turning calloused and pulling away 💕
"It's not fair that just because I fucked up that I now have to just lay down and play dead for the rest of my life. That's just not going to happen"
- Jaclyn 2021 ❤
👏👏👏
Yes! We are trying to teach our kids that you can get back up and become even better ans strong after making mistakes. My older step kids’ mom is very much the kind of person that keeps everyone’s wrongs right at the tip of her tongue and it’s just so devastating to me. I don’t want that for the kids. People make mistakes; that doesn’t make them “bad” forever.
Amen!!!!! People act like they’re perfect Saints like bitch you’re just not in the public eye, you would get destroyed by your own kind if people got wind of the things you say and do in your regular life! We all deserve a chance to grow and learn from mistakes!!
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Girl, you’re BEAUTIFUL !!! I’ve learned so much from your videos over the years. I’m so proud of you and your accomplishments.
I have NEVER left a negative comment regarding someone’s appearance, changing body, ANYTHING. I could never imagine 1. Taking the time to make a comment that is negative and nasty 2. The ENERGY it takes to be a horrible human online. It’s wild. Good for standing up for yourself and taking all the shit you do, i don’t know how you do it!
Same ♡♡♡♡
I so agree! I just don’t get it.
Agreed!!
Same here! Never. It is so sad how this social media world is so toxic.
Literal chills when you said you wanted to respect the bruise covering. Well done girl, you are so valued.
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When you stood up and showed your body, chills girl and tears. The realest shit ever. I wish more influencers/celebs had the balls to show who they really are and what they look like. This is everything. Keep doing you, you’re an inspiration 🤍
That's pretty sad if THAT's what gives you chills. You must live in a bubble.
@@olivialeigh5359 what’s pretty sad is invalidating anyone’s feelings. If you have something negative to say, why not just, I don’t know...don’t?
I love Jaclyn for that !!!!! I'm so sick of body shaming, and the irony is that Jaclyn has a fantastic body!!!
I couldn't agree more!!! ❤️❤️
@@olivialeigh5359 it’s the bubble
Life for me 💁🏻♀️
I’m so sorry, I have watched your videos for almost 10 years and you don’t deserve to be treated so poorly!
I’ve gained a lot of weight lately. It really bothers me. I can’t imagine how it would feel to have people constantly pointing it out. Sending love.
Saaaaaame girl
Same!!!
I have too Kimberly. I am topping out at 165, and feeling so depressed. However, I bought a treadmill cause I cannot stand the extra weight. Just remember, you're still the same beautiful person, no matter what size you are!!
Samee girl!!! I stopped taking pictures because I hate the way I look right now. Sending love to Jaclyn. I can’t even look at myself in the mirror half the time. I can’t imagine how hard it must be to have people constantly judging me.
Sending love Jaclyn. Keep being you xoxo
@@elisepeterson6692 same! We got this 🙌🏼🙌🏼
As someone who has struggled with their own body image, I actually found that hearing you speak about body acceptance was very healing for me. I appreciate your vulnerability❤️
I feel the same way! It’s nice to hear her stand up for herself
The moment you stood up and said “this is me”, you showed all the young women watching your videos how to be a truly self-loving and accepting woman. That was a moment of strength, I am so impressed! Love you Jaclyn! ❤️
SMH
@@sandyrivera5025 ?
@@hopejohnson1885 she definitely shouldn't be talking for young women at all. Trying to peddle her products once a year to naive subscribers is disgusting. But you go ahead and praise this person 😫😆
@@sandyrivera5025 you're a very sad, rude person. If you don't have anything nice to say, go away. Gosh.
@@mikalaedwards7462 YOU ASKED SO I ANSWERED U! DON'T ASK THE QUESTIONS IF YOU DON'T WANT THE ANSWERED!
the fact that she was worried that this video was gonna “cancel” her is just heartbreaking. being vulnerable & speaking up shouldn’t make anyone afraid of getting “canceled”. god damn i hate that term. what a sad, toxic world we live in. jaclyn you have been such a light over the years truly genuine. dont change. we love you for you.
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when she got up and showed her body it was such a real and raw moment.
With heaviness in your chest and anxiety spreading through your body you spoke up and voiced something that needed to be said. You were strong before and you are strong now. You were beautiful before and beautiful now. But now you have found your peace with the world and your anxiety and that’s what is so beautiful to me about this video ❣️
Love this! You're beautiful also Sarah!
I love you Boogs ❤️ You are the most beautiful woman in the world!!!!!
We love a supportive BF 👌🏻
Loving this support!
Loving how happy Jaclyn is ❤️
I can’t take how cute you two are
Love how happy you guys make each!!❤❤
We stan a supportive man! 🖤
What i love bout her, she is SO GENUINELY a COMEDIAN. since the first time i saw her UA-cam till today, she is still the SAME PERSON. F*** people who hate her, they are NOTHING. LOVE U JH
I started crying my eyes out at 17:50 when she addressed her weight gain because I can relate to that so hard. I gained weight and it shows mostly in my face, ironically enough and EVERYONE tells me how different I look and it makes me so sad because I am no less Beautiful than I was.
Me too I have a really round face
Since I gained weight, I get “You have a pretty face.” Why can’t I be just pretty even with fluff? Why just my face? I’d rather them not say anything.
@@BullDurham12321 You're so pretty 🦋
when you said “why should I have to get tough skin” I really felt that. I have ALWAYS felt this way. Why are the ones who are being bullied and abused be the ones to learn how to suck it up and take it? It makes LITERALLY no sense at all. Thank you for being so raw and genuine 💕
I have a full, round face and have gained weight in the last year or so. It’s uplifting to see someone who doesn’t look like “an Instagram baddie” and is still so beautiful and successful.
Im looking at her body that looks exactly like mine and feeling so bad for anyone who thinks she is overweight. She looks great, curves are in lol
Yesssss!!!
"You are Beautiful, for your are fearfully and wonderfully made."
Psalm 139:14
I want you to know that doing this video is going to help so many people out there who deal with hate comments.
You are such a strong, brave and beautiful women. If you want to do something for yourself that makes you happy than you have that right its your body. Stay positive we are here for you.
It is so so so so so comforting seeing a REAL AND NORMAL BODY on the internet. When you stood up I was like holy crap FINALLY someone that LOOKS LIKE ME. It is so hard to love your body when everyone you see on the internet has abs and a thigh gap. This was amazing. Thank you
Turn off the screens. Social media is killing us all. We aren’t built to process this level of toxicity. Life is happening right in front of us, not online. Praying for you, Jac ❤️
@@ilickgrandmas2854 so? Does that mean she’s obligated to process the messages from haters who are so much louder than her supporters? No. Post the content and turn away from the commentary.
@@ilickgrandmas2854 there are emotional vampires everywhere and social media has given them direct access to us. There are pitfalls in every profession. This is hers and the best way to protect herself is to avoid the negative. Jac said herself, she sat there and read 200 negative messages on IG that sucked all of the positivity out of her space. The only way to avoid that is to turn off the screens. 🤷🏻♀️ Being a content creator does not obligate her to engage with or take in the negative commentary. It is not a requirement of her profession. She sets the boundaries of her life and career, not the people who follow her.
Yep I tell my family and friends this very thing all the time ! 💕
i couldnt have said it better myself!!! r a lovely soul
@@ilickgrandmas2854 money is NOT EVERYTHING. I agree with Heidi, social media is killing us, making us sicker, dumber, more detached from reality than ever before in human existence!! We neeeeeed WAKE TF UP!
"I dont want to get a tough skin I don't want to be callus I want to continue being a sensitive person. " Jaclyn 2021
Welcome to being a Cancer ♋️ lol
Beautiful. I’ve always thought this way, just never knew the right words for it.
Capricorn sun, Libra rising 💕
@@faithyayi I'm a libra rising too! Although I am not educated on what it means!
@@Roo-mt2rk that has nothing to do with it lolll you can be that way regardless of sign
@@alondrasanchez8133 I was kidding chill out
Here’s my ten - fifteen seconds: I haven’t watched you in years, but I’m watching jaclyns journey and am now on this video... i am so happy for you. I love this jaclyn so so much. You’ve got a re-subscriber lol
I’m in the same boat! Rooting for you Jaclyn!!
Same
Same
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YES!!! I love her!! 👑❤️
The fact that jaclyn has gotten so much hate and is still like the nicest person shows so much about her true character. She truly is one of the best influencers out there.
So true
Agreed 💕
FACTS
100%!!!!
“It’s not fair just because I fucked up that I just have to lay down and play dead for the rest of my life? That’s not going to happen.” Love it. Yes. ❤️
This should be quoted xx
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“I refuse to be callused” powerful, beautiful words to live by. I love you more than ever Jaclyn!
I love how transparent you are love. Social media is so degrading & the toxicity is so high. Keep being true to who you are.
When you stood up to show us your body I started crying! I have gained weight and can't lose it. but in that moment I realized I also compare myself so much to girls on social media. your video helped me so much and made me realize that I am happy and should stop comparing myself. I love you Jaclyn !
I disagree. It’s important to hear both sides.
The pressure to be ok with hate is not normal. I’m glad you’re able to acknowledge this and speak on it ❤️ sending love
Seriously, you have done more than most can dream of , you are amazing and please please please keep going !!! ☺️
100%. Just because someone has chosen to be an influencer or an actor or musician or whatever, doesn’t mean they have to be okay and accepting of hate that they may or may not get. Unpopular opinion obviously, but they didn’t sign up to be bullied online, they signed up to do what they love. I think everyone as people need to learn to shut their traps if they have nothing nice to say.
@@taylagrieger9217 exactly!!!!
I always found it so ironic that people think their negative opinions are warranted in the first place and how they don’t realize that’s bullying by ganging up and saying hateful things, I think people sometimes should rethink what impact they have on society and whether it’s a good or bad one because there’s enough hate in this world as is.
amen!!
You showing your body after gaining wait has me in tears. I gained 60lbs in 4 months due to depression and ptsd a few years ago and have been struggling with multiple eating disorders since. Seeing you be proud of your body and showing people is so heart warming ❤
🤗 I fell out of the beauty community after cancel culture became a term. You've been through so much, you'll go thru more, but I for one will always be subscribed. The Jaclyn I appreciate is the one that's here. Who ever she is that day, whatever she's going through. Get it girl. 💪
When you showed off your body, I literally stood up and clapped at my tv. Thank you!!!!! As a mother who's gained weight from babies and has been shamed because I'm not back to how I was, thank you!!!!! We go through changes in life!
If thats true, you need to get psychic help and grow up. No fully actualized adult acts like that. Y'all are so fucking weird and immature.
@@nonameshere1592 these are the kind of comments she was talking about. Go back and rewatch the video and learn. Have the day you deserve✌️
@@nonameshere1592 yea no functional adult could experience a connecting moment with one of their faves lmao
@@nonameshere1592 what tf are you talking about, acting like what, what's the context of your comment
Nothing sicker than people (especially women) disparaging a body that bore and gave life!!! Ugh, makes me so heartbroken. 😫
I feel so pressured when UA-camrs say "We need to talk". I think I have relationships trauma. Lol
Those words have negative connotations most of the time lol is like a natural reaction
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I don’t know how people can say she didn’t take responsibility about her first lipstick launch if she literally refunded everyone. I wasn’t even expecting or wanting a refund and I received one. I love your products and will continue to purchase in the future. Mad respect to you for not giving up!
I like the pissed off Jaclyn!🖤 Let it out!!! You’re honest and unapologetic about your health and Beauty - you do you - your genuineness shines✨
"I'm a human. I'm not a victim."
Thank you for sharing that.
Sending well wishes to everyone xo
Hello Dawn, how are you doing?
Yes! It is true!!
“It doesn’t bother me, why the f*ck does it bother you!?” Yaaaas! Tell it like it is. Respect.
This is my favourite video that you've ever done. Seriously. You should be so proud of yourself.
Agreeeeeeeed 💯
Agreed!!!!!!
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agreed❤️
Agreed
i’ve been watching you for like 10 years now, i literally love you so much and have learned so much from you as a person and makeup artist. your videos have saved me from some very hard times. you only deserve the best and honestly no one deserves to have the hate that you do about YOUR appearance… so happy with how real you have been in this video, you go girl 🤍 keep thriving🥰
She really just said "Because this is who I am, I'm vain, and I love my shit" and I could not be happier for her. If someone put that on a tshirt I'd wear that.
I am a guy who has no clue who you are, what has happened, why this was recommended to me, etc. I like anime and video games. Watching this is like watching a completely different universe.
That being said, I can FEEL the stress and anxiety emanating from you. Like, we are so different, but yet you feel familiar. I'm just trying to catch my breath because of how strong the emotions are in this first couple of minutes.
I hope you take care of yourself and your mental health. I want the best for you. You ARE human, and I think humans are valuable, beautiful, and kind creatures, even if we have a tendency to forget that sometimes.
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Well said!
You are a calm in a storm of bullying and horrible habits allowed online now a days, whatever it was you were meant to see this video and share with others in your life. Or you have females in your life that have experienced this or you see it on your own feed in the gaming world. Keep that positivity, we need more of it out there in the world
This!!!!!
This was so incredibly sweet!!!
“be normal and talk shit about me behind my back” I AM DEAD. girl this video means so much to me. gaining weight myself, this just spoke to me on SOOO many levels! it’s so hard and you are my BITCH yes 👏🏼
I definitely felt that statement 🤣
HAHAHA totally relate!
YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL 💗 size doesn’t matter, you’re gorgeous no matter what.
A few months ago, I walked in on my sister's suicide. I will never get the image out of my head. Your videos have been the only thing keeping me going. You are truly an incredible human being, and everytime I think of you, I think of the saying, "Some women are afraid of the fire, some women simply become the fire." ❤️
So sorry for your loss 🙏🏽
I’m so sorry for your loss❤️❤️
I'm so incredibly sorry for your loss 💔🕊
I’m so sorry you went through this 😔❤️
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It really breaks my heart the things people find “acceptable” to say to you. You were beautiful then and you are still beautiful now. I wish we could go back to the days where you treat people the way you want to be treated. Today’s world definitely needs to be put back in that mindset.
I love you so much!
THIS. This is the Jaclyn we miss. Real, honest, breaking down barriers. We love this ❤
Blessings to you Jacqueline! You’re beautiful! Thank you for being so real and vulnerable!
“I want to continue being a sensitive person.” Thank you for saying this. Us sensitive people need to hear that it’s ok to be sensitive. We don’t have to be tough to be strong.
Amen ❤️
Yes! 🙌🏼🙌🏼
yessss , screw "needing" to build a thick skin
yas queen ! Same❤️
I think having the confidence and courage to be sensitive and show feelings is strong especially when it’s so stigmatized. Thank you for quoting it because reading hit it home for me (hopefully that’s not weird lol)
“This is me. This is who I am right now. It doesn’t bother me- so why does it have to bother you?” Yes girl. You are loved!
You honest to God helped save my life. About 9 years ago I was at my lowest point and had already tried to take my life once. I had always loved makeup but didn't know much technically or that dry skin was why my makeup looked like crap. One day while lying in bed, depressed beyond showering, I went to UA-cam and typed foundation routines. The first video I watched was "how to get a flawless face." I was hooked. I went back and watched your other videos and decided I wanted to try it. I got up, showered, and went and bought a cheap little quad brown revlon pallette. From there I built my confidence and gave myself something to do when it felt like I just wanted to rip my skin off. It wasn't a magic cure obviously and when you came out with your anxiety struggles it resonated with me. It gave me a push to seek help. Now I am properly diagnosed, on the correct medication, and am a happy and healthy mother of an amazing little girl, who loves your makeup too. Lol. I have seen many other stories just like this one so never doubt the amazing impact you have had on our lives.
This is wonderful ❤️ makeup is also an outlet for me when I feel down.
Glad to see you are still here, 9 years later! Best of luck to you 💛💛💛
tearing up reading this, i'm so glad you're in a happy and good place now, and i'm glad you are still here.
Love you. Being a Cancer myself I can definitely relate to be that person who Cares and nurtures. You are a BEAUTIFUL PERSON inside and out. 💛
She stood up, showed her body and I was like umm. She looks perfect. I see no flaws. I hope she stays just the way she is. Thank you for speaking up for all of us who feel like we have to constantly live up to the most unrealistic standards of perfection. Thank you for being real.
Jaclyn does have flaws. Gaining a lot of weight isn’t something you should be proud of. It’s understandable what she went through, but that doesn’t mean she should stop exercising or not work on herself anymore.
I understand you’re very supportive of her and that’s great, but that does not mean she’s perfect.
My mother used to say “If someone can’t change something about their appearance in 5 seconds, it’s none of your business and you better not dog them for it”. I think what she meant is that’s it’s ok to offer someone a courteous “Hey, you have something in your teeth” or a “Hey hun, your hair clip is falling out”. But if it’s something they can’t change about their appearance like RIGHT NOW... shut yourself mouth about it. End of story. It’s easy people. We’re all beautiful.
I thought this was a thing everyone was taught!!! So crazy to me what some people will say to someone. Sometimes it’s not even meant to be mean, but still shouldn’t be pointed out! I moved away from home a few years ago, and my acne hit me like a truck. I mean actually bad, deep red scarring all over my cheeks and chin, and active breakouts galore! And I FaceTimed my sister a couple of days ago, and the FIRST thing she said to me was “aww syd, your face!” And she wasn’t trying to be mean, but like, that’s all I see in the mirror every day. I know it’s there and I cry about it all of the time, I don’t need it pointed it and proven that it’s the first thing people notice!! It’s not something I can easily change, so please don’t mention it :)
@@sydnip2235 I’m sorry that people are terrible to you like that. I feel your pain though! I had “perfect” skin my whole life and adult acne hit me BAD for a while when I was 27-29ish. I was so mortified and confused about it. I think as adults, we kinda go through a second form of puberty or something. I’m not a doctor but differin gel I got on Amazon really helped me out and cleared most of it up minus the rogue pimple here and there. But just be cautioned cuz it’s one of those “it gets worse before it gets better” kind of treatments since differin acts like a retinoid. Boo adult acne. But like I said, we’re all beautiful 💕
All of this is directly from the heart. She has posted about this once before and said enough is enough. She's SERIOUS. JUST BE KIND. 💖
Thank you for showing me that I shouldn't let the negativity of others hold me back from what I am meant to do and for making me feel proud of myself for never heaving left any negative comments myself on other people's videos - I've honestly never looked at it that way! You are beautiful and talented, and a light in the dark for many people. Thank you for all the years up till now
Yes sis! As someone who was skinny years ago and then gained weight and am “thic” now. Let me live! I’m happy with me, my husband still loves me, and it’s no one else’s business who matters. I’m a cancer too who is a total Empath. You are my soul in that way. I felt this to my core!!! You be you sis!!!!
Yes gorg♥️♥️
I'm so glad you made this video. The toxicity that has become normalized on the internet is so dangerous and needed to be addressed.
Edit* The replies are a perfect example of why it is dangerous. People telling me to stfu for saying this is wrong or to just "ignore it"
Have some accountability people.
@Spaceman John things don’t change by putting it aside.
@Spaceman John Sometimes you want to read something positive and uplifting from your fans but then you see hate comments. How are you supposed to know if a comment is positive or negative without reading it first??
hey that sounds really familiar? LOOOL
Stfu
Fr jac looks like majin buu
Please never stop showing, loving and accepting who you are in any moment. I’ve always had a medium body not “skinny” or plus sized and I honestly feel like people with my body type are underrepresented and my body honestly looks like yours! There is absolutely NOTHING wrong will the way your body looks you’re beautiful
You're absolutely right about all of this and there's a lot here that people need to HEAR!!! People have totally forgotten that it's okay to have feelings! There's no need to thicken your skin when the real problem lies in people being TERRIBLE. Thick skin is for small every day rudeness, not body shaming and cyber bullying.
When you were talking so unapologetically about your weight gain, it made me cry my heart out. Thank you so much, Jaclyn 👏
My absolute favourite part of this is when Jaclyn said that she doesn't want to get thick skin because she doesn't want to become a callous person.
It's 100% true! Why should she have to stop bring a kind sensitive person just because others are going after her?
Stay you girl, we all love you!
Having a thick skin and not caring about what people think and say is good for your mental health
I felt the same way until I developed high blood pressure due to stress + rage.
You can have a thick skin and still be kind and caring though. Kind people dont have to be weak. I hate that stereotype.
YES YES YEEEEES!
In sensitive too that doesn't make you weak. Not everyone wants to be a hard person.
i‘m so ready for this.. been following u for so many years and even tho i‘m just 12 seconds into the video i can already tell i love your energy! thank u for sharing your emotions and your vulnerable side with us. please never forget we love you Jaclyn and u are an amazing human ❤️
Same here!
I’m here for you Jaclyn R Hill!
Jolina!! Hiiiiiiii. Ich find's immer wieder cool dich zu finden unter Videos 🤗
@@Jano1998 of course 🥰
Omg hey bae
Hii Jolina, schön dich hier zu sehen ❤️
I’m crying I needed this. Can’t believe I never saw this one, I saw it when I needed. I’ve followed you since the beginning and I can’t sleep tonight and as usual I rewatch your videos to get me back to me and relax myself you are so real and I relate. It’s midnight here and I’m crying having a breakthroughs i love you. Please always be you and thank you for everything, and I don’t just mean making my face look beat to capacity 💜
same here!!
Girl weight gain is like a side effect of happiness sometimes lol I gained 47 pounds over the past few years and it just sticks. No matter what you do, how you feel, or how you look (which you look GREAT with or without makeup btw) someone will complain, that's why the safest thing to do is make sure you're happy.
I gained 30 pounds during the pandemic, because I was the most depressed I've ever been in 2019 and during 2020 I have been the happiest I've ever been... yup!! 🤣
Definitely. I always gain weight when I'm doing well mentally, I lose it when I'm depressed or stressed.
@@laurenbray8314 same here. I just lose my appetite when I'm depressed
This video really made me realize how heartless I have become towards others from being walked all over and treated badly and how much I miss having a strong caring heart like yours I think this video is going to reach all of the right people and help this generation realize “bad bitch energy” isn’t the move love makes the world go round and you have been one of the most loving amazing creators I have ever watched and I think of you as a role model! You are such a strong beautiful amazing woman and you take so much but never let that effect the way you want to look at life and that blows me away
Dude me too! I’ve developed this level of apathy and numbness from depression and being treated horribly. I try and remain positive but I’ve noticed that I don’t carry that innocent energy of being as loving as I used to be
I respect this SO MUCH! You ARE a caring and loving person with character and integrity despite what you've gone through in your past... do you know how you can tell you're still there... the self awareness and accountability you just displayed in your comment. I hope there are many more that her video touches but also those people who need to read your comment and search within. Xo
i've gained 40 pounds in 3 hears because of depression and stress, and whenever i see someone body shaming a youtuber, i feel it, too. i don't think the people who leave those kinds of hateful comments realize that they are hurting more than just their target.
Same! I gained 50 lbs in a couple months because of my iud that i recently had removed. When I see people body shaming others I feel like - oh my god this is what people are thinking about me. It really messes people up & these younger kids see comments like this & it effects them.
Same
I agree, I’ve gained so much weight over the past few years due to a combination of PTSD, depression, anxiety and medication. I hate it, and I hate that others have to suffer the same. Much love to all, we are all human beings and need to be kinder to others, you never know what someone else is going through. #BeMoreKind
God, I used to come home every single day after high school & watch your videos & eat pudding. It brought me so much happiness. Now I’m a SAHM & relate to the weight gain journey so much. It is so tough. But you are so loved & this brought me so much peace! I love myself & you. Thanks for this video. ❤️
I have gained weight too.. and I can't even look at myself in a mirror. Thank you for being real ❤
@Dr. Meddl Depending on how much weight you have to lose, you should be mindful of how much weight you lose in a short period of time because it can cause saggy skin.
Everyone has gained weight. Love yourself anyways
@@Hackedbymydaughter this! 🙌🏼
@Dr. Meddl I think you missed the whole point
@april life is so short your size does not define you ❤️ beauty is more than skin deep I hope that you find the confidence to love yourself xx
You refusing to not change your sensitive self makes me feel so much better whenever I get hate for being too sensitive. You inspire me! And you’re so pretty jaclyn :)
Why did you standing up showing your body make me tear up??? (🦀cancer🦀) Girl, you are beautiful inside AND out. I am sorry that you felt called to make this video to stand up for yourself, but I’m so proud for you that you did it. So much love for you girl! Love you, love your vibe, you’ve got this!! “I’m in itttttt”
She’s standing up for all of us that have felt like this ♥️
It broke my heart too.
I'm a cancer too and I'm pregnant right now. So I was definitely bawling!!!
@@taylorduarte6725 omg congratulations!! I just had my son in March!! Which is another reason why I was so emotional. Body changes in women are normal but are criticized so much
@@christinedunn5613 I agree! Congratulations to you too Momma!! 🥰🥰 We just gotta do our best to be encouraging when we can and lift each other up. I've always tried to remember that people who are insecure and unhappy with themselves are the ones who try to make others miserable. No happy woman puts other women down. So I try to remember that it's not about me when they make comments. It's because they need to heal themselves.
Very well done. I feel for you with what you have dealt with. I am doing a deep dive on your brand by request. It's for a series I just started on IG about my thoughts on brand strategies and marketing. From what I can tell, you are so down-to-earth, and you've just hit some bumps in the road that you didn't know how to handle at first. I think you have grown so much, and I applaud you for your strength. You have a new friend.
This was so refreshing, Jaclyn. The way you speak, the way you hold yourself, I can see how much you have grown. I’m so proud of you. Please keep showing up for yourself like this, it’s so nice to see you happy.
Social media is doing to Jaclyn exactly what the media did to Britney Spears. I thought we learnt from this, she’s a human and she deserves better!!
Well said 💕
That’s why Jaclyn just needs to stop. Find something else to do besides be an influencer...
Let's not blow this out of proportion. EVERYONE knew Britney. It's Jaclyns own community against her, not the whole world.
Amen!!!!!
That 👏🏾part 👏🏾
The fact she stood up and showed her body- power to you girl.
And her body looks good, she doesn't look overweight to me. I gained 15, look huge lol
I know, I thought that was incredible. She loooks amazing
Wishing my body looked like that. Lmao
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You’re such an authentic person Jaclyn!!! You are really a dope ass woman! I honestly respect the hell out of you for being yourself & being vulnerable, that shit takes balls!!
Jac you are such an insanely genuine person inside and out. What ppl need to realize is that everyone experiences life changes whether that’s falling out with a friend, depression, divorce, weight gain... everyone is on their own journey and most people only have to explain it to others on a small scale. Do you know how hard it is to go through all of these life changes with a massive audience who constantly feels the need to point out every little thing? It’s exhausting just watching so my hat goes off to you Jac. This video was long overdue and I’m so incredibly happy that you were able to bring awareness to a topic that is so overlooked online. Keep on shining ✨ It’s 2021, let’s accept change for what it is. Lift each other up and encourage others to spread positivity!
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Yasss 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Love this!
Ashley being the amazing human she is ❤
well said babe ♥️
When you said, "I don't want to get callous," I felt that! Why do we have to lose our gentleness because the world wants to be rude? A soft heart is a strength! You are beautiful! Anyone who says different because you are evolving is an idiot! Be your wonderful self and screw anyone that doesn't like it! 💜
I’VE BEEN WAITING 2 YEARS FOR SOMEONE TO BE REAL IN A VIDEO LIKE THIS! THE WORLD NEEDS THIS!!! THE HONESTY, TRUTH, EVERYTHING IS SO AMAZING!! THANK YOU BIIIIITCHHHHH🤍🤍🤍🤍
I hope one day you remake all the exact lipstick shades because those colors were fire! Loved this video.
“The fact I’ve never commented on someone’s appearance in a negative way” 👏🏼👏🏼wow I felt that! I truly can relate bc it really is a disgusting thing. You truly are a inspiration 🥰🥰🤗
When you said “let me show you my body” I had to fast forward because you DID NOT need to do that, you do not owe anyone shit. You are confident, you are beautiful and you are ✨glowing✨. Happiness looks so good on you Jaclyn, keep your head up ❤️
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Agreed !
Just like somebody coming to your house and saying “let me see how much money you have” they owe them nothing to see.
Love this
Exactly!!! That got me so mad!!! I was like the fuck she don’t need to explain shit!!
I literally got told by a man on insta that I looked better 4 yrs ago, when I was sick and couldn’t eat. Made me cry for a full week. So thank you for posting this. ❤️
You’re beautiful! Don’t let a miserable person hiding behind a phone screen bring you down! 💜
Forget him may he heal and learn I hope you’re okay 💜💜💜
I won’t lie, I have never watched any of your videos but I saw two today and being this vulnerable made me want to follow you! Thanks for being human/real with us!