Like Thinking Ape has said in the past: people will blame you if there's something wrong with your appearance. Even if you were in a horrific car accident, and your face becomes all smashed up, people will blame you. If you talk with a stutter, people will blame you. The world is a cruel place.
As a person with a Stutter, ha you are completely right. Had to deal with it since I was young. Had a Coworker, dude was a hood black dude and he didnt give a fuck, dude was 6ft 4 300lbs and he had a studder which was way worse than mine, he said people will wait until i get it out fuck em until i do. Dude gave me the confidence to push forward with this disability.
This is happening to someone I know who was in a dog attack. It hit under their eyes and now they swell up often. They are called a narcissist for calling themselves the victim, which they were. The perpetrators only got a slap on the wrist and behaved menacingly to the victim several times before the physical bloody attack.
This is the brutal truth. I even saw this myself. All the handsome boys in highschool had girlfriends, meanwhile the ugly sub 5s like me were invisible to girls all along. Brutal.
Crazy how some of those pictures were barely even a difference, but I still got all of them right. Our brains must be super fine tuned to detect genetic trash, and I think women are even better at notice that stuff too.
Which prove the existence of an inteligent designer , and you shouldn't call the genetics trash , no one have the power to create one cell , it's not trash , it's difference in genes wich give different shapes faces .
@@Muhammad-pz1bp No, I do not believe in it. I know it is true as it has been demonstrated more than enough times. Also, it is the necessary condition for all the advances modern day biology has produced, if it were false, we would have not acheived so much.
My guess is you already had attractive facial features but fat made jt worse so after you lost weight you uncovered it, still ton of thin guys who are ugly
There was recently a show on Russian TV where one celebrity girl was chosing a boyfriend out of 15-20 different male candidates from all around the country. Among them were high status businesmans, smart engineers, romantic singers (4-6/10) and one model (8/10, aka Chad). It was funny for me to watch round by round all those excuses by this girl to kick everyone except guess who.. the model :)
Your perceived personality is your looks your confidence is your looks + height your 'rizz' is your looks your status is your looks your perceived intelligence is your looks your looks determine whether you are lonely or not for the rest of your life
For the intelligence part, its sometimes the contrary. People assume you are intelligent if you arent good looking. From experience, I'm always perceived as intelligent even by new people. Happens to me almost everytime.
Looks gets you a relationship in the first place. But as you get older and the relationship gets longer, more boring, and strained, things like money, personality and lifestyle help to keep her around. But even millionaire Chads like Brad Pitt, Johnny Depp, Tom Brady and Arnold Schwarzenegger have all ended up divorce. No one is safe.
You are right, after a while looks are not enough. These were some of the last words of my ex "you cant live from love" This confirmed what i was thinking all along, monkey branching and hypergamy is real. When a girl is young, lets say 16-24 she'll care more bout looks. But after she finishes college, she'll search for "security " and "lifestyle"and bs like that. This is 100% true, i had a 6 year old relationship from when she was 18 til she got her master's degree at 24. It was amazing to witness the change. Never again Oh and fyi, if u guys knew how stinky those lips get, you would never desire to date
Thirteen milliseconds is all it takes to make a judgement and impression - and its predominately from genetics. It feeds into looks, height, personality, proclivity for hard work, IQ, earning potential, respect, social status and so on...
@@sisibibi3282 yes, and sometimes (after wars) chicks would be happy with literally anyone, because other variants was worse (being single). But even 60-80 years ago Chads had best options
@user-vi9zm5ss4f yes, good points 🎯 but there's another problem that guys simp too much, and don't know their value. Even average normal guy is a 1% guy ( or less ) according to statistics, guys don't know their value at all.
People say women don't care about men's looks because they do it subconsciously which means that they don't realize that they're doing it. And honestly, you cannot really blame them for that because we guys do it too but must of us at least know that we're doing so. There was a funny interaction at a birthday party last weekend: I met the girlfriend of a friend of mine and when she told me the story about how they met each other from her perspective (I obviously know the story from his pov) and when I jokingly (it made sense in the conversation) said that she would not have even looked at him if he was short (He's like 185cm/6'1) she was like: "No, that's not true yadda yadda yadda" and I knew for a fact that she would have not as she praised him for his confidence, but on deeper questioning she could not say where is comes from, so I knew it was simply his height.
Friend of mine sent me a picture of a guy that seh was with on sole stage as a proof that looks don't matter to her but he was extremely confident and intelligent and my question was immediately "how tall is he" and she was like "oh he was very tall, too tall, he had problem with getting t shirts". Still went on to deny she was attracted to the height.
@@DiscreteNature exactly imagine how bad youd look if you admitted to your bf hey i only went for you because your tall and have a good face. Most men already know but I think to them even admitting it outloud makes them feel guilty and shallow so they hate saying it. In their brains they're def aware of what they like and find attractive. it's the same as men. Like come on, every man knows whats attractive in a woman. It's not subconscious. like we all are fully aware of the traits.
This goes beyond dating. My job is fueling private jets, and 90% of the passengers on these jets are over 6 feet, and look not half bad. I don't think that's statistically possible if height and looks don't factor in.
Yeah but look at the exceptions! I bet you also think men are taller than women, even though some women are 6ft! Tall men have a higher average IQ. Women selected for intelligence and height, so men who were tall and intelligent at the same time passed more genes.
When I was a teenager i was Overweight and didnt really care abt my looks, now in My early 20s I did evrything to Lean down and started doing my Skin care routine/Looksmaxxing Journey, it Really is True that Looks = Power, I used to get bullied both by women and Men because of my Body, now I get treated so well by women and Men Hated me for it, 😂😂 and they said looks doesnt matter what a Bunch of BS
Just wait when you get a job purely based on your looks like me back in 2019. A former "friend": "Bro, why you earn now this much. You didn't even finish your studies! WTF bro!" Dude. You're working construction site and believe a guy like me with 7 years of education is stoopid? I wrote 600 (!) applications and after that marathone I know EXACTLY what HR wants to see and I will tell you here for free: Drop the business shirt. Go with normal tight t-shirt, showing off your big, big biceps you gained after 1 year of gym. HIRED! Easy as that. A, Mr XY, how much can we give you monies? Take it, you so confident and determined! Big success for our team for the future! Take our money! Before: ok, Mr XY, so you want to work here, ha....? I can give you [insert minimum wage].
Cope. Subtle changes cause only very modest increases to SMV. Height and bone structure is everything. Not saying you shouldn't improve what you can, but don't expect miracles.
@@WheatWaffles I have a near perfect build and good hairline and handsome face, but I'm just 5'5". Im guessing there's nothing more I can do looks-wise?
@@Krelian4400 you're not wrong but sometimes to meet the threshold for normie or get a gf all you need is subtle changes. in my experience subtle changes can make a big difference in helping you look like a normal human. i personally dont think you can become a chad unless you were born one though. maybe a few exceptions that break this rule but for the most part i mean.
Theres articles in the 1930s written by woman talking about looks being the most important , its not a new thing it just gets suppressed and pulled back by data collecting
Its always been that way "Jaime Lannister" was always a thing even back in religious medieval times and everyone else pushes its made up cuz of ego and fear
@@js9849problem with being positive is that it can just end up being a lie. Lying to people doesn’t help people it makes them waste their lives chasing something that doesn’t exist.
@@js9849 but this isn't overly negative. It's facts. It would be negative to only talk about ropemaxxing and that it's over like the people do. However I take this as relief. Because you realize don't have to try super hard and grind your life to get women, just ask them out and find out if your normie looks are enough. Eventually you will get someone (unless you're sub5).
@@Gian_sas when your talking about looks or the quality of a person’s looks it’s a opinion there’s nothing factual or logical about what people are sexually attracted to. Some people are sexually attracted to very strange things
I always thought looks had little to no importance, especially in men, but once I mistakenly opened my sister's Whatsapp group, and found them thirsting and ranking the hottest guys in our school. I now believe women are more shallow than men, and that looks literally determine your highschool experience, which determines your twenties...
One of the tenets of civilization is suppressing female choice. If you don't suppress female choice you don't have civilization. Period. This is the truth that feminists have papered over with their constant nagging. There's already a tiny pool of guys that live like kings in our era. Without constraints on female choice what happens is you start to turn the clock back in time.
You're referring to high school girls my man, of course they're going to care more about looks than anything else at that age because EVERYONE is shallow in those teenage years. Also, men that take proper care of themselves through exercise, grooming, dressing well, etc. end up looking far more attractive in their 20s and 30s than they ever did in high school.
@@TurboFist0high school boys also care alot about looks, does it disappear when they get older? Do you stop liking beautiful things as you get older? Which world are you living. Also if you've ever been to college, girls and guys are like that too.
"I'm not looking to be dating anyone right now" The best one I got was, after sayong yes to a date, a chick said " oph can't make it. Be and my friend are going to a celebrity book signing" Even at 18 I thought " wait a minute. Why aren't you telling your friend you can't make it to the book signing because you have a date??" Decades before red pill, I figured out, if the desire is there, she'll show up correct
Coach Red Pill (RIP) once said Wheat Waffles was wrong about looks and that all women want from a guy is to give them strong emotions. Well, sir, God rest your soul, I submit to you that looking good gives a woman the top most quality emotions from a man.
I remember a good friend from college used to have a couple of girls being into him, I wasn't into them at all and neither was he, we were normies and those girls were kind of below average. I thought I was actually a bit more attractive than he was so I did wonder how come those girls thought he was more attractive, how come they weren't into me instead? I legit thought it could be because he had much better grades than I had, he was actually among the first in class, while I even failed quite a few exams, but now I know better. My friend was 1.91m tall (that's around 6'2-6'3 feet) and I have 1.71 (5'7 feet). It's all clear to me now. P.S. Those girls were shorter than me.
Your words are fact. I honestly don't notice a man's attractiveness. I just judge them by how they treat me and others. Only after I see woman after woman walking up and flirting with him, completely ignoring me. I didn't notice one friend was 10" (25 cm) taller than me until I saw our reflection in a window. Then I thought "Oh, that's why he has so many women."
tbh we all did subsconsciously. Every human being does but we were doing it subconsciously before we became aware of the blackpill. After we became aware, we could pretty much predict everything in terms of someones ability to get women, make friends, or have a good career. Before that, we still may have thought that person is cool or wanted to impress them subconsciously. This is a fact of life. I still do it even after being aware of the blackpill. The only difference now is I also do my best to treat ugly men kindly. They dont deserve to be shit on by everyone. and society is cucked anyway.
The face comparison bit is stellar. With some of them, I had to try pretty hard to understand why some looked better than others. Even though I saw it right away, I had to actively search for what was actually different. No wonder the general public doesn't agree with the black pill.
Nope. The proof of it not being the most important thing is that you see WAY MORE unattractive men dating attractive women than vice-versa. Money and status are still the most important factors in attracting a woman.
It’s insane how unaware and in denial normal people are to lookism. “Just be confident!” , “just be a good person!”, “looks don’t matter, personality does!”
It’s insane how unaware and in denial "incel" (not trying to judge) people are to going out and learning social competence and power, becoming a member of the "having fun Friday nights" community in your area. I'm a 6'3'' 160lb stick figure, 6 on the looks scale dude with a deadend job, studying for a degree 2x longer than I should, with the only thing going for me being that I'm kinda smarter than 99% of the population... But I Also have ADHD... I do pretty well for myself wit all kinds girls in my niche, short and tall, chubby and skinny, young and old, just because I'm part of the social circle, but I'm also kinda of a lone wolf who likes to do his own thing and doesn't care what people think. I suggest you start with watching some of Todd Vs content, probably start with "Looks vs Game" and start to take some responsibility in your social life! I know it's hard, but you can make it, I only did because I believed 120% that it was possible to get better at it! Get better or get bitter!
@@tortugatech game isn’f a passive skill. If you’re like a 4 or 5 out of fen, fhen you will need to devote affenfion to game as if it were a second job (which wasn’f necessary decades ago) AND it’s mostly a “short term fun” resulfs orienfed field AND fhe looks level of the WIVES of PUAs are beIow avg. Btw idk if you’re larping, buf you’re allegedly 6/19 & 6’3… nuff said.
Hey Wheat I hope you read my comment. I have video idea for you . Since you rated thousandths of faces why don’t you make video listing the most lethal flaws the caused people to be sub-5 or even capped at 5 . For example most common flaw : balding , receding mandible , NCT so on and so forth . Then listing most frequent flaw to least frequent. This video is going to be high value video
I have always suspected that my midface, eyes and nose hold me back. On Halloween, I wore a masquerade mask which hid these features and I kissed 11 girls in the nightclub that night. Having gone on 100 nights out in the same city and same nightclubs, this has never happened until that night. BRUTAL. Obv, started getting surgeries after that night. My eyelid surgeon (who is a female) said "It's because girls like masks" 😂.
@paradiseofgame5399 I have done, eyelid surgery, cheek implants, and a nose job. I'm basically getting chad treatment consistently now. Girls will rarely ask you out directly, it's just subtle choosing signals and touching at parties that tell you that something might happen romantically. But these signals are very frequent and you'll consistently have sex without much effort. For guys, looksmaxing didn't change that much. Gym maxxing changed everything. Ever since my shoulders have gotten wider and my chest has gotten bigger, the same guys who would say just hi to me in the gym now come up and start a convo about how life is going- I can sense I'm highly respected by guys ever since I have gotten jacked.
yeah I think the area around the eyes is probably THE most important thing. look at Blanka in Street Fighter VI, the latest game in the series. he is a weird humanoid creature, has been for the whole series, but in this latest iteration they somehow made him kind of handsome. his jaw is still weird and oversized, but the eyes are perfect. it's all about the eyes.
face first height second, have you ever seen someone only popular becouse of their height. no , but someone like zein malik is famous only becouse he has the face card, but guys never under estimate the importance of height
I fully agree that looks matter more than what people admit to. You have stated in a previous video that men do not age like fine wine but to be honest I have seen some men who actually did aged very well due to lifestyle choices and look even better than when they was younger.
in general there are even women that look better in their 30's,40's or 50's. Some people burn out quickly others age like fine wine as you said. I think the way to age well for men (feel free to add anything): 1. Don't go bald 2. Don't get fat. Stay in the gym 3. Skin care 4. find the facial/no facial hair style that suits you. I think a big reason some men age well is actually because they finally figure out the haircut and beard style that suits them perfectly and for most people that's a process of trial and error before they figure it out. In my experience, the men who do the above will age like fine wine and are not even effected by the agepill. That being said its easier said than done and does require effort.
You are correct. The problem is it doesn't matter, when it comes to dating anyway. Women are very age prejudiced and will turn against a handsome older guy once she learns his age. Happened to me twice last year. 😎
@@ModelJames13 Yeah you are probably right, I think age is a thing when it comes to relationships with girls or dating. But one night stands I don't think age is such an issue.
I remember I got this girls number at Wal mart when I called her I told her I was 26 & she said she was 19 & didn’t date guys that much older than her. I just took it as she didn’t like me that much I thought she lied about the age thing
8:38 Why women don't say what they mean 1. They do not want to hurt your feelings 2. It is dangerous to tell the truth sometimes. There are men/boys who are rejected and stalked the girl they like to the point of danger
The fun part of getting a rating is you begin to gamify your life. Which actually leads directly to success if you ask me. I started as an unmaxed 6, groomed and got a better body. Became a 7 or so. I was a ripe fruit when I met my wife.
The only way you get girls more attractive than you is by meeting them in a warm approach situation, such as a social circle from school or work. Girls don’t care about looks more than they used to, that’s an illusion. The reason it seems that way is because couples meet in warm approach situations less than ever today. In the past, it seemed like they cared less about looks, but that’s only because girls usually met their guy in an environment where she knew him somewhat before becoming romantically involved, and knew a lot about him. When a girl knows nothing about you, she has nothing besides your looks to base your value off of. If you are ugly, or if you’re a normie who wants a hot girl, aim to get girls in your social circle or any type of school/work situation.
I am sorry but this is just wrong. Women nowadays have developed a messed up taste in men due to the exposure to Social Media and the Internet. I mean, how on earth are they preferring guys who look like Orks from LotR with unattractive faces, no facial hair, visible hairloss and so on JUST because they are tall? Don't get me wrong. I am not saying that a girl should date a guy who is shorter than her or the same height. But I will never in a million years understand, why they chose the 5/10 unattractive 6"0 Ork over the good-looking 5"9 guy who is on top of that 3 to 4 inches TALLER than her. Makes absolutely zero sense to me. The reason why guys are getting so few dates/girls in general is the messed up taste in men, nothing else. It's ridiculous when I hear some girls talking about "the hot guy at the corner" and when I move around, I am just shocked what the freaking hel* they find attractive. You're not objectively unattractive as a guy just because most females nowadays don't give a shi* about actual looks. Females OVERestimate certain physical traits (in 99% it's height) and passively UNDERestimate more important physical traits (face, beard, hair, body frame, secondary features such as teeth etc.) Just my own humble opinion.
Lads this guy talks sense I was 24 stone obese Lost the weight & it was like I was a new person It helped I’m tall & handsome But I met a man in the gym & he’s like 10 years my senior 45 Good looking lad We chatted as you do in the gym & he makes about 200k a year A man who can gets a lot of woman is visible to guys that get woman ( you can sense it ) So I asked him if you could only choose 1 Your looks or be rich with 5/10 looks forever He answered swiftly Looks Not even a debate Because to be honest, your looks will get you into places money simply can’t Money can buy things But your looks make people want to be around you Sad but true & I felt invisible to woman before my weight lose Get in the gym . & practice talking to women on ugly girls 😂😂😂😂 Trust me There is hope
they know its bullshit an they know they have the power (women) and can pick and choose whoever they want it's just a way to pretend to feel sorry for someone. Our choice as men is to level up or crumble away and be invisible to them
I can't stand that. It's one of the biggest lies ever. Sure a small part of beauty is subjective but the MAJORITY of what comprises beauty is OBJECTIVE.
I’m a woman. I’m curious if you do face ratings and looksmaxing for women? I remember in one of your videos how you mentioned a past girlfriend (or maybe woman you knew?) of yours used eyeliner to distract from a certain flaw she had. I’m curious if you’re able to evaluate a woman’s face as well as you do men. I have a relationship and he’s happy with the way I look but I’m sure there’s ways that I can improve. I’m also terrible at doing makeup because I don’t understand how to properly apply it to highlight my strengths and downplay my weaknesses. Especially in terms of male preference
Evidence that women’s standards have changed could possibly come from family members. My grandma, grandpa, and mom and dad all just can’t believe I’ve never had a gf but it makes since for how I look. I’m a solid 2-3 using wheat waffles’ videos about attractiveness. And it’s not just height. It’s mainly face. I’m 6’2 and probably taller with shoes
Best results I had were when I was between 28-33 in age, body fat below 17% but not much, height was never a problem with 182cm. If your face is at least 6 you can get easily a high 6 woman, low 7 or even high 7 women. In that age range there is also the most single women mostly between 23-28 in age. I disagree about money, it is important but only to women over 30, that’s why there is this talk about “high value men”. It’s all coming from women over 30 years in age.
Damn. Explains a lot. I didn’t even start trying to find someone online until age 36. I was on FB dating 3 years and no luck. I should’ve got busy age 28-30. The hottest chic I saw was when I was 31.
Yhh i am 29 now and your points makes sense. Problem is my face is ok like a 5, 6 to some. BF% is lile 16% and pullimg it down to 12% by summer. But I am short lile 5ft6 7 like 168 170 cm. So gettimg a 7 is a mad hard job. Even a mid 5 or low 6 is difficult.
@@shazanchaudhry Money, you need money then. You flash money around so people can see it, and by people I mean beautifully women. You go on dates with beautifully women where you know your real range women hang around, the 5's and 6's. The end goal is 5 or 6 but they need to see you with 7's or even 8's. Done it, works like a charm. Contrary to mainstream beliefs I believe "love" is a combination of positive and negative emotions, and jealous is a powerful emotion for a lot of women. Do whatever it takes.
If I ever become attractive miraculously I give all my credit to these videos not going lie more people need to take the blackpill and stop the cope. Thanks Wheat Waffles.
Just like men, women can have a range of preferences when it comes to dating, including physical appearance. However, it's essential to remember that individual preferences vary widely. While some women may prioritize looks, others might prioritize other qualities like personality, intelligence, or shared interests. Ultimately, what matters most varies from person to person.
btw at 16:29 that guy in the picture is actually not a simp, he got paid by the models marketing team to make up a story to boost her virality. (btw, it worked a lot.)
I’m glad I found your channel and can accept the truth… I’m 28, have my own home and have a well paying career in finance but I’m a. 3/4 out of 10 and have accepted I will die alone as I’m not physically attractive to women. Doesn’t matter how funny or charming you are, girls just wanna hook up and date hot guys.
@@WheatWaffles Nice. I'm a "chad" who receives a plethora of choosing signals most of the time whenever I venture out of my house so I can provide you with my experiences to potentially enhance your video if you'd like.
It should always be noted, the difference in attractiveness between people in life is much lesser than in pictures. While i usually are not attracted at all at girls who are 5/10 in pictures, many of them win a friggin lot when interacting in person. And it's the same for men.
I agree with the main point but I didn't get all the faces right. I got correct only 5 or 6 ones. And I am a heterosexual girl. I see these in many videos about attractivness when I truly find somebody who is concidered by the author 10/10 only as 6 or 7 and somebody who is concidered 4-8 as 10. I do think that there are some general attractiveness features but I don't think they are that strict.
In the US women only think about a guys looks from 18 to 28 years old after that reality hits them and they have to compete with younger women and the pool of guys gets worse. 😂😂😂😂😂
When it comes to the attributes of a man, women might care about looks the most, but above ALL, women care about control. If they land a Chad who they can't control they will eventually leave. And it wont take long. At the point when they accept they will never control him... they're out.
Had a friend who was average with bad posture wanting to find gf very fast. I told him that looks really *DO* matter. At first he was angry and in denial and didn't believe it, but in half a year he changed day and night and went to above average with stylosh hairstyle, clothes and improved posture. He got already married very recently. That s how fast it went. (Not recommend to marrie that fast tho lol, he knew the girl for 3 months before they got married, but at least he seems happy)
Regarding reason 4 I found an interesting comment under the video of thinking ape titled ‘Towards our polygamous future’. I will copy paste it below: *In the past polygamy was a privelege for those who could afford to support a large household of females and their offspring. A modern version of polygamy is more likely to be a society, where the 80/20 rule will play out to its full effect. Chad will have most of the sex and will leave an army of single mothers in his wake. The resources necessary to raise the offspring will be socialized and paid for by the working cattle. Not to distant future, maybe we are allready there.*
What's hilarious is when girls claim that they only like personality, yet when you ask them why they swipe left on the vast majority of men on dating apps and they can never come up with an actual answer.
The reason women only swipe right on the hottest guys is because they can afford to do so. They have hundreds of likes on dating apps and with so many options why wouldn't you only swipe right on the 8s and 9s? I actually noticed this same behavior with myself when I went to the Philippines. As an above-average white guy, I was absolutely flooded with likes over there and only swiped right on the 8s and 9s because again, why wouldn't I? Back here in the US, I get a lot fewer likes, meaning fewer options, so I am far more open to swiping right on a lot of 6s and 7s.
I genuinely couldn’t see a difference in man 2. The rest had obvious differences in the facial editing. The argument only works if they look different, and I’m not 100% certain but I think you mistakenly used the same picture twice.
I'm a man with long blonde hair and I'm wondering if it is better to keep this niche look than to return to an average short hair look. Among the men with long hair I would rate myself above average, but with short hair, I would not.
@@MoempfLP Majority of women prefer short hair. However, your long would look better than if it was short and cut terribly. But long and well groomed vs short and well groomed, short will win out 90% of the time.
Keep it long and glorious my dude. I also have long hair and for me there is only benefits. I know I get more attention and compliments because of it, because most women do not even have as long and good hair as me. Do not trust dudes that tell you to cut it off they only want to make you less. And keep it well groomed badly kept long hair is worse than bad short hair. But well groomed long hair far outguns good short hair. And build up your body, long hair and being stacked look even more glorious dude.
You are correct. I guess looking back one could use this information as catharsis. I can now say: "oh that girl, she rejected me not because I had no game or I didn't 'figure her out', it was actually because of my looks, I wasn't hot enough for her". And I can say that does make sense in some cases. However there were also cases were a less attractive and shorter men were chosen by girls over me, girls that did know very well I was into them. Out of the top of my head I can recall a couple times that happened, and how I was flabbergasted by the guy bad looks. So it is not really *always* the case, maybe a part of girls just like u gly guys, they think they are good-looking, IDK. People do weird things, and they behave in weird ways. One of my exes, went on to date a bunch of short guys after me (I'm 6'1), and they were not good-looking either, later she also went on to get a lot of tattoos, all over her body, I thought that was crazy, how could anyone think that was a good idea, it was bizarre. So yeah, not everyone necessarily works on this paradigm I would say, but I feel like you are right, with the dating apps, these days, it became much more visual.
part of reason is that we men don't exactly get the kind of looks that women like, except much later in life and after much experience. (just simple example, until my late 20s I had no idea women might be attracted more by unshaved/bearded than by shaved men)
It just sucks that looks matter so much it could be the difference between a fulfilling relationship/love/family for most men. Feminism has basically reduced It to this factor.
If you were a 4 because of an ugly nose and ugly ears, and with cosmetic surgery by correcting these defects, you could become a 7/10, would you do it?
Point 4 is the one. Absolute truth. If you really want to "make it" with money, the real possible fun starts mabye at top 0,1% of top earners. Being top 5 % in earns means nothing. And its same in reverse, if you are Chad, it doesnt matter how much you earn until you are like homeless drug addict psychopath. Thats why i am "moneymaxing", but not for women, but for my own well-being. And even there, i am sacrifising a lot of my career for my looksmaxing, because without it, there is no point to get involved in dating market.
Wheat Waffles the graph you show is skewed, the option of met in a bar or restaurant is actually met online only by appointment for the first meeting to the bar or restaurant.
Attractive people also score 13 points higher on IQ tests, something I believe has a simple explanation: Intelligent men become more successful. Successful men marry beautiful women. Beauty is heritable. Intelligence is heritable. Voila! Your babies are beautiful and intelligent.
Looks open the doors. One of my male friends was (seemingly) really good looking. He had women throwing themselves on him, all he had to do is select. He didn't even go out looking for women. So he had much more time to dedicate to his selfdevelopment. He didn't have the huge energy, time and money drain, to look for women. That is a huge advantage. Than his looks boosed his self confidence and self worth, that spilled over the rest of his life. Than he was very very socially accepted, as people wanted to be around him, and he could link up easily with people, that later him with his career. Than his now wife met him, on fb, and took him to her very developed high earning country, she offered everything to him, papers, visa, place to live, career boost and contacts. Looks contribute to 70%+ of one's success.
You should be a 7, but you won't be. However if a girl likes your energy or vibes or whatever you'll be a 7 to her. That's reality. If the genders were reversed guys would probably call you hot, due to the fact you have a good body and can use makeup to lift your looks. Men can't do that
I would rather see it differently, like Wheat Waffles. It's rather a shame for us men today that we are so dependent on our looks to win over a woman. In the past, looks weren't that important either. This pursuit of better appearance is not dignified for a man.
It’s not quite that simple, people with flaws can still look good, I have seen women with flaws that just make them unique, and sometimes I can’t quite put my finger on why I find them attractive
Very true. I don’t believe anyone think loook isn’t one of the most important factors. That is the first thing we see and notice. Face , body height and size. Are one of the most important factors.
After a while looks are not enough. These were some of the last words of my ex "you cant live from love" even though we always had enough, but this wasnt enough for her. This confirmed what i was thinking all along: When a girl is young, lets say 16-24 she'll care more bout looks. But after she finishes college, she'll search for "security " and "lifestyle"and bs like that. This is 100% true, i had a 6 year old relationship from when she was 18 til she got her master's degree at 24. It was amazing to witness the change. Never again Oh and fyi, if u guys knew how stinky those lips get, you would never desire to date. Just disgusting.
Thats why they say that girls aim for the top 10%. If you only had looks, u can sleep with them but not hold them long term. You gotta rmrbr though, w0men wont keep u no matter hw handsome, rich, popular u are once they get bored. Morale pf story is its just your turn but at least u had a girl, some of the guys had 0 experience. I know a friend and i can forsee that he will be a virgin forever
Just deal with the fact that you will never be able live up to the crazy female expectations. Even if she finds top tier Chad millionaire, she'll still find reasons to complain.
Like Thinking Ape has said in the past: people will blame you if there's something wrong with your appearance. Even if you were in a horrific car accident, and your face becomes all smashed up, people will blame you. If you talk with a stutter, people will blame you. The world is a cruel place.
that's completely different
As a person with a Stutter, ha you are completely right. Had to deal with it since I was young. Had a Coworker, dude was a hood black dude and he didnt give a fuck, dude was 6ft 4 300lbs and he had a studder which was way worse than mine, he said people will wait until i get it out fuck em until i do. Dude gave me the confidence to push forward with this disability.
This is happening to someone I know who was in a dog attack. It hit under their eyes and now they swell up often. They are called a narcissist for calling themselves the victim, which they were. The perpetrators only got a slap on the wrist and behaved menacingly to the victim several times before the physical bloody attack.
Stuttering isn't an appearance thing........
Got 7
This is the brutal truth. I even saw this myself. All the handsome boys in highschool had girlfriends, meanwhile the ugly sub 5s like me were invisible to girls all along. Brutal.
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Crazy how some of those pictures were barely even a difference, but I still got all of them right. Our brains must be super fine tuned to detect genetic trash, and I think women are even better at notice that stuff too.
Which prove the existence of an inteligent designer , and you shouldn't call the genetics trash , no one have the power to create one cell , it's not trash , it's difference in genes wich give different shapes faces .
@@SOONSHINY127 why you think that ?
@@Muhammad-pz1bp yep, evolutionary processes molded us like this, Crazy.
@@Gabriel-bq1gb you believe in evolution ?
@@Muhammad-pz1bp
No, I do not believe in it.
I know it is true as it has been demonstrated more than enough times.
Also, it is the necessary condition for all the advances modern day biology has produced, if it were false, we would have not acheived so much.
I lost a ton of weight and it's amazing how much nicer people treat me. Male and female alike
Good for you bro!
And then you got those “influencers” promoting people to remain fat still. Good job on your weight lost tho
My guess is you already had attractive facial features but fat made jt worse so after you lost weight you uncovered it, still ton of thin guys who are ugly
Even if your sub 5 you will be treated better being in shape and fit then being fat. No one had pity for “fat” people
@@aslysa2277 obviously brother
There was recently a show on Russian TV where one celebrity girl was chosing a boyfriend out of 15-20 different male candidates from all around the country.
Among them were high status businesmans, smart engineers, romantic singers (4-6/10) and one model (8/10, aka Chad). It was funny for me to watch round by round all those excuses by this girl to kick everyone except guess who.. the model :)
что за шоу?
What is the show called
Link of the video?
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Your perceived personality is your looks
your confidence is your looks + height
your 'rizz' is your looks
your status is your looks
your perceived intelligence is your looks
your looks determine whether you are lonely or not for the rest of your life
Exactly, everything is looks and everything else is halo effect.
Halos are huge, especially in the eyes of women. Men just want to sleep with hot women. Women worship everything about hot men.
also being neurotypical. Example: I got rated as a 5/10 but I have autism (high functioning) so It's like being a 3.5 or 4
Your life is your looks.
For the intelligence part, its sometimes the contrary. People assume you are intelligent if you arent good looking. From experience, I'm always perceived as intelligent even by new people. Happens to me almost everytime.
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Why is this guy spitting crazy facts all the time! Every video I watched from this guy makes complete sense.
Black pill truths
Looks gets you a relationship in the first place. But as you get older and the relationship gets longer, more boring, and strained, things like money, personality and lifestyle help to keep her around. But even millionaire Chads like Brad Pitt, Johnny Depp, Tom Brady and Arnold Schwarzenegger have all ended up divorce. No one is safe.
they don't need the relationship just to plant their seed
Women are never happy!!!
@@andresrogersaMen need love. 😎
You are right, after a while looks are not enough. These were some of the last words of my ex "you cant live from love"
This confirmed what i was thinking all along, monkey branching and hypergamy is real. When a girl is young, lets say 16-24 she'll care more bout looks. But after she finishes college, she'll search for "security " and "lifestyle"and bs like that.
This is 100% true, i had a 6 year old relationship from when she was 18 til she got her master's degree at 24. It was amazing to witness the change. Never again
Oh and fyi, if u guys knew how stinky those lips get, you would never desire to date
Schwarzenegger was a cheating dickhead
Thirteen milliseconds is all it takes to make a judgement and impression - and its predominately from genetics. It feeds into looks, height, personality, proclivity for hard work, IQ, earning potential, respect, social status and so on...
It was over before the first trimester
@@eddieliusa💀💀
13ms is faster than my ping when playing online. Fuck, it's over.
Average human reaction time is 20 times that…
Looks mattered even 20-40-80 years ago, it's a common fact
But women needed a provider, so they would accept to settle for their looksmatch.
@@sisibibi3282 yes, and sometimes (after wars) chicks would be happy with literally anyone, because other variants was worse (being single). But even 60-80 years ago Chads had best options
@user-vi9zm5ss4f yes, good points 🎯 but there's another problem that guys simp too much, and don't know their value. Even average normal guy is a 1% guy ( or less ) according to statistics, guys don't know their value at all.
@user-vi9zm5ss4f good points 🎯 another problem s are sim-pi-demic, and another one is guys don't know their value
Absolutely not. Women were less mobile and had less rights.
Your genes and your environment determine your whole life
You have more power than you think . Level up your game
@@fazemac5824 he is not that wrong. what he ment his that some gentics better in some environments. eg dont judge a fish by its ability to fly....
@@redfill68 have you seen that flying fish on animal planet?
Determinism
People say women don't care about men's looks because they do it subconsciously which means that they don't realize that they're doing it. And honestly, you cannot really blame them for that because we guys do it too but must of us at least know that we're doing so.
There was a funny interaction at a birthday party last weekend: I met the girlfriend of a friend of mine and when she told me the story about how they met each other from her perspective (I obviously know the story from his pov) and when I jokingly (it made sense in the conversation) said that she would not have even looked at him if he was short (He's like 185cm/6'1) she was like: "No, that's not true yadda yadda yadda" and I knew for a fact that she would have not as she praised him for his confidence, but on deeper questioning she could not say where is comes from, so I knew it was simply his height.
Nope. It's conscious. Most of them simply lie about it.
Friend of mine sent me a picture of a guy that seh was with on sole stage as a proof that looks don't matter to her but he was extremely confident and intelligent and my question was immediately "how tall is he" and she was like "oh he was very tall, too tall, he had problem with getting t shirts". Still went on to deny she was attracted to the height.
@@DiscreteNature exactly imagine how bad youd look if you admitted to your bf hey i only went for you because your tall and have a good face. Most men already know but I think to them even admitting it outloud makes them feel guilty and shallow so they hate saying it. In their brains they're def aware of what they like and find attractive. it's the same as men. Like come on, every man knows whats attractive in a woman. It's not subconscious. like we all are fully aware of the traits.
Dude, I am a sub 5 and will not allow a single woman between 7-10 points in looks to feel superior! I will deal with them all in 2024!
This goes beyond dating. My job is fueling private jets, and 90% of the passengers on these jets are over 6 feet, and look not half bad. I don't think that's statistically possible if height and looks don't factor in.
Really?! I know plenty of poorer tall men.
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@@synchronicity-thelanguageo3991 and did you give them money or shared your resources with them?
here comes Jeff Bezos and mark Zuckerberg, BOTH are 5 feet 7 inches. (below national average)
Yeah but look at the exceptions! I bet you also think men are taller than women, even though some women are 6ft!
Tall men have a higher average IQ. Women selected for intelligence and height, so men who were tall and intelligent at the same time passed more genes.
When I was a teenager i was Overweight and didnt really care abt my looks, now in My early 20s I did evrything to Lean down and started doing my Skin care routine/Looksmaxxing Journey, it Really is True that Looks = Power, I used to get bullied both by women and Men because of my Body, now I get treated so well by women and Men Hated me for it, 😂😂 and they said looks doesnt matter what a Bunch of BS
obviously we are always looking for looks so gym is very important for men
since gym i get more looks then before but still nothing has changed must have to get very ripped
Dude, forget about the gym. Go save money for jaw and/or buccal fat removal
Just wait when you get a job purely based on your looks like me back in 2019. A former "friend": "Bro, why you earn now this much. You didn't even finish your studies! WTF bro!"
Dude. You're working construction site and believe a guy like me with 7 years of education is stoopid? I wrote 600 (!) applications and after that marathone I know EXACTLY what HR wants to see and I will tell you here for free:
Drop the business shirt. Go with normal tight t-shirt, showing off your big, big biceps you gained after 1 year of gym.
HIRED! Easy as that. A, Mr XY, how much can we give you monies? Take it, you so confident and determined! Big success for our team for the future! Take our money!
Before: ok, Mr XY, so you want to work here, ha....? I can give you [insert minimum wage].
Just be attractive, bro. Very subtle changes to the face/hairline turns out to be a pretty significant difference.
Hairline especially, the second most important aspect of looksmaxxing after lowering bf%
@@WheatWafflesyah I have a good jawline but my hairline is slowly receding due to age. Brings down my attraction level.
Cope. Subtle changes cause only very modest increases to SMV. Height and bone structure is everything.
Not saying you shouldn't improve what you can, but don't expect miracles.
@@WheatWaffles I have a near perfect build and good hairline and handsome face, but I'm just 5'5". Im guessing there's nothing more I can do looks-wise?
@@Krelian4400 you're not wrong but sometimes to meet the threshold for normie or get a gf all you need is subtle changes. in my experience subtle changes can make a big difference in helping you look like a normal human. i personally dont think you can become a chad unless you were born one though. maybe a few exceptions that break this rule but for the most part i mean.
Theres articles in the 1930s written by woman talking about looks being the most important , its not a new thing it just gets suppressed and pulled back by data collecting
Political correctness
Back then women didn’t have much opportunity to make money so they didn’t have much freedom of choice
Its always been that way
"Jaime Lannister" was always a thing even back in religious medieval times and everyone else pushes its made up cuz of ego and fear
When woman says personality, remember:
Personality = Facial Looks + Height + some muscles.
you forgot the bad boy / dark triad vibes
chad serial killer > sub5 nice guy
@@ady007plthere are still tiktok thirst edits of Richard Ramirez to this day 😂
Im sure toxic positivity has been the cause of alot of people "self ending" rather than save them with brutal truth
It it possible to be too positive though? Isn’t that better than being overly negative?
@@js9849 interesting book called "pathological altruism"
@@js9849problem with being positive is that it can just end up being a lie. Lying to people doesn’t help people it makes them waste their lives chasing something that doesn’t exist.
@@js9849 but this isn't overly negative. It's facts. It would be negative to only talk about ropemaxxing and that it's over like the people do.
However I take this as relief. Because you realize don't have to try super hard and grind your life to get women, just ask them out and find out if your normie looks are enough. Eventually you will get someone (unless you're sub5).
@@Gian_sas when your talking about looks or the quality of a person’s looks it’s a opinion there’s nothing factual or logical about what people are sexually attracted to. Some people are sexually attracted to very strange things
How do we convince all 4 billion men on the planet to stop swiping right on every woman?
My 1st test I ever get 10/10😢😢
I always thought looks had little to no importance, especially in men, but once I mistakenly opened my sister's Whatsapp group, and found them thirsting and ranking the hottest guys in our school. I now believe women are more shallow than men, and that looks literally determine your highschool experience, which determines your twenties...
How about women are equally shallow as men? There are no guy chatgroups and forums with idiots druling over superficial women?
pretty much, I can picture myself defying biology by dating an ungly girl if there is a connection, but I highly doubt any women would go this far
One of the tenets of civilization is suppressing female choice. If you don't suppress female choice you don't have civilization. Period. This is the truth that feminists have papered over with their constant nagging. There's already a tiny pool of guys that live like kings in our era. Without constraints on female choice what happens is you start to turn the clock back in time.
You're referring to high school girls my man, of course they're going to care more about looks than anything else at that age because EVERYONE is shallow in those teenage years. Also, men that take proper care of themselves through exercise, grooming, dressing well, etc. end up looking far more attractive in their 20s and 30s than they ever did in high school.
@@TurboFist0high school boys also care alot about looks, does it disappear when they get older? Do you stop liking beautiful things as you get older? Which world are you living.
Also if you've ever been to college, girls and guys are like that too.
Women are hardwired to search for quality. Men are hardwired to search for quantity
Ahh that’s why they are more picky ! Solves the long debate 😊
@@user-uc3qs1gx2d i could see it from a mile away that you are an inkwell bro. Asian plus agepill plus narrow face bruuutal.
"I'm not looking to be dating anyone right now"
The best one I got was, after sayong yes to a date, a chick said " oph can't make it. Be and my friend are going to a celebrity book signing"
Even at 18 I thought " wait a minute. Why aren't you telling your friend you can't make it to the book signing because you have a date??"
Decades before red pill, I figured out, if the desire is there, she'll show up correct
Bingo 🎉😂
Coach Red Pill (RIP) once said Wheat Waffles was wrong about looks and that all women want from a guy is to give them strong emotions. Well, sir, God rest your soul, I submit to you that looking good gives a woman the top most quality emotions from a man.
I remember a good friend from college used to have a couple of girls being into him, I wasn't into them at all and neither was he, we were normies and those girls were kind of below average. I thought I was actually a bit more attractive than he was so I did wonder how come those girls thought he was more attractive, how come they weren't into me instead? I legit thought it could be because he had much better grades than I had, he was actually among the first in class, while I even failed quite a few exams, but now I know better. My friend was 1.91m tall (that's around 6'2-6'3 feet) and I have 1.71 (5'7 feet). It's all clear to me now.
P.S. Those girls were shorter than me.
Your words are fact. I honestly don't notice a man's attractiveness. I just judge them by how they treat me and others. Only after I see woman after woman walking up and flirting with him, completely ignoring me. I didn't notice one friend was 10" (25 cm) taller than me until I saw our reflection in a window. Then I thought "Oh, that's why he has so many women."
It's just his game broooo
tbh we all did subsconsciously. Every human being does but we were doing it subconsciously before we became aware of the blackpill. After we became aware, we could pretty much predict everything in terms of someones ability to get women, make friends, or have a good career. Before that, we still may have thought that person is cool or wanted to impress them subconsciously. This is a fact of life. I still do it even after being aware of the blackpill. The only difference now is I also do my best to treat ugly men kindly. They dont deserve to be shit on by everyone. and society is cucked anyway.
BS bro
@@frblaze2 Unspoken rizz🤪
Well if it does give you comfort I am 6'6 (198cm) and I am a 4ever virgin
The face comparison bit is stellar. With some of them, I had to try pretty hard to understand why some looked better than others. Even though I saw it right away, I had to actively search for what was actually different.
No wonder the general public doesn't agree with the black pill.
And yes, I believe you're right--looks are probably the most important thing to women.
Nope. The proof of it not being the most important thing is that you see WAY MORE unattractive men dating attractive women than vice-versa. Money and status are still the most important factors in attracting a woman.
It’s insane how unaware and in denial normal people are to lookism. “Just be confident!” , “just be a good person!”, “looks don’t matter, personality does!”
There are lots of plain looking guys with good looking women. Check out Dan Bacon. He’s good
It’s insane how unaware and in denial "incel" (not trying to judge) people are to going out and learning social competence and power, becoming a member of the "having fun Friday nights" community in your area. I'm a 6'3'' 160lb stick figure, 6 on the looks scale dude with a deadend job, studying for a degree 2x longer than I should, with the only thing going for me being that I'm kinda smarter than 99% of the population... But I Also have ADHD... I do pretty well for myself wit all kinds girls in my niche, short and tall, chubby and skinny, young and old, just because I'm part of the social circle, but I'm also kinda of a lone wolf who likes to do his own thing and doesn't care what people think.
I suggest you start with watching some of Todd Vs content, probably start with "Looks vs Game" and start to take some responsibility in your social life! I know it's hard, but you can make it, I only did because I believed 120% that it was possible to get better at it!
Get better or get bitter!
@@tortugatech game isn’f a passive skill. If you’re like a 4 or 5 out of fen, fhen you will need to devote affenfion to game as if it were a second job (which wasn’f necessary decades ago) AND it’s mostly a “short term fun” resulfs orienfed field AND fhe looks level of the WIVES of PUAs are beIow avg.
Btw idk if you’re larping, buf you’re allegedly 6/19 & 6’3… nuff said.
@@Mew2Win 6/19?
@@Mew2Win bro in my country the average is 6'0'' and 180lbs so my avatar proportioned ass at 6'3'' and 160lbs aint exactly the pinacle of sexy
Hey Wheat I hope you read my comment. I have video idea for you . Since you rated thousandths of faces why don’t you make video listing the most lethal flaws the caused people to be sub-5 or even capped at 5 . For example most common flaw : balding , receding mandible , NCT so on and so forth . Then listing most frequent flaw to least frequent. This video is going to be high value video
I have always suspected that my midface, eyes and nose hold me back. On Halloween, I wore a masquerade mask which hid these features and I kissed 11 girls in the nightclub that night. Having gone on 100 nights out in the same city and same nightclubs, this has never happened until that night. BRUTAL. Obv, started getting surgeries after that night. My eyelid surgeon (who is a female) said "It's because girls like masks" 😂.
@paradiseofgame5399 I have done, eyelid surgery, cheek implants, and a nose job. I'm basically getting chad treatment consistently now. Girls will rarely ask you out directly, it's just subtle choosing signals and touching at parties that tell you that something might happen romantically. But these signals are very frequent and you'll consistently have sex without much effort.
For guys, looksmaxing didn't change that much. Gym maxxing changed everything. Ever since my shoulders have gotten wider and my chest has gotten bigger, the same guys who would say just hi to me in the gym now come up and start a convo about how life is going- I can sense I'm highly respected by guys ever since I have gotten jacked.
just wear a mask :)
I also have the same issues in my face I will try using make up soon to hide them
mate, If I were you I would wear that mask even in the shower.
My God, this is the first time read that.. is kissing random people at Halloween is a thing in your country? Where are y from?
10/10. Eye spacing is one of the - if not the - first feature you will notice in a non-deformed face.
Having eyes further or closer apart doesn't change how attractive a face is. This video is mistaking 'distinctive features' with 'flaws'.
yeah I think the area around the eyes is probably THE most important thing. look at Blanka in Street Fighter VI, the latest game in the series. he is a weird humanoid creature, has been for the whole series, but in this latest iteration they somehow made him kind of handsome. his jaw is still weird and oversized, but the eyes are perfect.
it's all about the eyes.
@@willshadno it does lol but you probly say things like "girls will not care if you are 160cm"
@@willshad Ultra cope
@@willshadGigacoper detected
Height is kind of cope. Looks are a lot more important than height. Women would rather date a 5'7 Chad than a 6' Normie.
@JohnDoe-xj1pf Nobody said otherwise.
it depends on the girl and the guy. How tall and how chad, and how horny the girl is. The hornier the more she wants a tall dude trust me.
face first height second, have you ever seen someone only popular becouse of their height. no , but someone like zein malik is famous only becouse he has the face card, but guys never under estimate the importance of height
I fully agree that looks matter more than what people admit to. You have stated in a previous video that men do not age like fine wine but to be honest I have seen some men who actually did aged very well due to lifestyle choices and look even better than when they was younger.
in general there are even women that look better in their 30's,40's or 50's. Some people burn out quickly others age like fine wine as you said.
I think the way to age well for men (feel free to add anything):
1. Don't go bald
2. Don't get fat. Stay in the gym
3. Skin care
4. find the facial/no facial hair style that suits you. I think a big reason some men age well is actually because they finally figure out the haircut and beard style that suits them perfectly and for most people that's a process of trial and error before they figure it out.
In my experience, the men who do the above will age like fine wine and are not even effected by the agepill. That being said its easier said than done and does require effort.
You are correct. The problem is it doesn't matter, when it comes to dating anyway. Women are very age prejudiced and will turn against a handsome older guy once she learns his age. Happened to me twice last year. 😎
@@ModelJames13 Yeah you are probably right, I think age is a thing when it comes to relationships with girls or dating. But one night stands I don't think age is such an issue.
@@bennybenny7382I agree. Unfortunately for me I'm looking for a wife. 😎
I remember I got this girls number at Wal mart when I called her I told her I was 26 & she said she was 19 & didn’t date guys that much older than her. I just took it as she didn’t like me that much I thought she lied about the age thing
Looks matter over everything else.
8:38 Why women don't say what they mean
1. They do not want to hurt your feelings
2. It is dangerous to tell the truth sometimes. There are men/boys who are rejected and stalked the girl they like to the point of danger
Women get assaulted for turning men down, and you never know who's mentally unstable.
The fun part of getting a rating is you begin to gamify your life. Which actually leads directly to success if you ask me.
I started as an unmaxed 6, groomed and got a better body. Became a 7 or so. I was a ripe fruit when I met my wife.
The only way you get girls more attractive than you is by meeting them in a warm approach situation, such as a social circle from school or work.
Girls don’t care about looks more than they used to, that’s an illusion. The reason it seems that way is because couples meet in warm approach situations less than ever today. In the past, it seemed like they cared less about looks, but that’s only because girls usually met their guy in an environment where she knew him somewhat before becoming romantically involved, and knew a lot about him. When a girl knows nothing about you, she has nothing besides your looks to base your value off of.
If you are ugly, or if you’re a normie who wants a hot girl, aim to get girls in your social circle or any type of school/work situation.
Yes and If you work from home your only option is to date your sister.. sorry thats the rule :D
sweet home alabama..
When Chad cold aproaches your GF you can say her goodbye.
cope, if a normie or sub5 approachs a girl and she dont like him he will be rejected if shes hot
I am sorry but this is just wrong. Women nowadays have developed a messed up taste in men due to the exposure to Social Media and the Internet. I mean, how on earth are they preferring guys who look like Orks from LotR with unattractive faces, no facial hair, visible hairloss and so on JUST because they are tall? Don't get me wrong. I am not saying that a girl should date a guy who is shorter than her or the same height. But I will never in a million years understand, why they chose the 5/10 unattractive 6"0 Ork over the good-looking 5"9 guy who is on top of that 3 to 4 inches TALLER than her. Makes absolutely zero sense to me.
The reason why guys are getting so few dates/girls in general is the messed up taste in men, nothing else. It's ridiculous when I hear some girls talking about "the hot guy at the corner" and when I move around, I am just shocked what the freaking hel* they find attractive.
You're not objectively unattractive as a guy just because most females nowadays don't give a shi* about actual looks. Females OVERestimate certain physical traits (in 99% it's height) and passively UNDERestimate more important physical traits (face, beard, hair, body frame, secondary features such as teeth etc.)
Just my own humble opinion.
this is not true, in social groups where i know people women still say dont invite the ugly guy. how do we stop this
Women care about personality. As long it is the personality of a chad.
Lads this guy talks sense
I was 24 stone obese
Lost the weight & it was like I was a new person
It helped I’m tall & handsome
But
I met a man in the gym & he’s like 10 years my senior
45
Good looking lad
We chatted as you do in the gym & he makes about 200k a year
A man who can gets a lot of woman is visible to guys that get woman ( you can sense it )
So I asked him
if you could only choose 1
Your looks or be rich with 5/10 looks forever
He answered swiftly
Looks
Not even a debate
Because to be honest, your looks will get you into places money simply can’t
Money can buy things
But your looks make people want to be around you
Sad but true
& I felt invisible to woman before my weight lose
Get in the gym
.
& practice talking to women on ugly girls 😂😂😂😂
Trust me
There is hope
There are Pepole thay continue to says that beauty is subjective😂😂😂
they know its bullshit an they know they have the power (women) and can pick and choose whoever they want it's just a way to pretend to feel sorry for someone. Our choice as men is to level up or crumble away and be invisible to them
It can be in person, it is not online with strangers. There's a little more wiggle room whilst online there is zero
I can't stand that. It's one of the biggest lies ever. Sure a small part of beauty is subjective but the MAJORITY of what comprises beauty is OBJECTIVE.
Beautiful channel, not only I've learned the truth about dating today, but also how to read stats.
I’m a woman. I’m curious if you do face ratings and looksmaxing for women? I remember in one of your videos how you mentioned a past girlfriend (or maybe woman you knew?) of yours used eyeliner to distract from a certain flaw she had. I’m curious if you’re able to evaluate a woman’s face as well as you do men. I have a relationship and he’s happy with the way I look but I’m sure there’s ways that I can improve. I’m also terrible at doing makeup because I don’t understand how to properly apply it to highlight my strengths and downplay my weaknesses. Especially in terms of male preference
I do face ratings and analysis for women but not looksmaxxing. So only the first 3 packages
Women dont need that, they are the selectors.
A new market appeared 😅
Our parents or teachers didn’t lie, they know as it…..they still think the same but thanks to you we are aware of statistical info nowadays.
Evidence that women’s standards have changed could possibly come from family members. My grandma, grandpa, and mom and dad all just can’t believe I’ve never had a gf but it makes since for how I look. I’m a solid 2-3 using wheat waffles’ videos about attractiveness. And it’s not just height. It’s mainly face. I’m 6’2 and probably taller with shoes
If you're tall you can improve yourself to be a 5, even if you're balding. Do you have facial deformities? Excessive weight?
Put your photo on your profile.
6'5 is currently the height that women will accept men with average faces. So you are actually not that special.
@@voltinator 6 5 is too tall
@@GUITARTIME2024 Tell that to Stacy.
Women care about 3 things. Looks.
Looks plus status.
Looks plus ability to deceive.
This is why they are unhappy.
Too bad, so sad, and now FO.
So we subconciously prefer faces with more symmetry in features and layoyut
Best results I had were when I was between 28-33 in age, body fat below 17% but not much, height was never a problem with 182cm. If your face is at least 6 you can get easily a high 6 woman, low 7 or even high 7 women.
In that age range there is also the most single women mostly between 23-28 in age.
I disagree about money, it is important but only to women over 30, that’s why there is this talk about “high value men”. It’s all coming from women over 30 years in age.
Damn. Explains a lot. I didn’t even start trying to find someone online until age 36. I was on FB dating 3 years and no luck. I should’ve got busy age 28-30. The hottest chic I saw was when I was 31.
Yhh i am 29 now and your points makes sense. Problem is my face is ok like a 5, 6 to some. BF% is lile 16% and pullimg it down to 12% by summer. But I am short lile 5ft6 7 like 168 170 cm. So gettimg a 7 is a mad hard job. Even a mid 5 or low 6 is difficult.
@@shazanchaudhry Money, you need money then. You flash money around so people can see it, and by people I mean beautifully women. You go on dates with beautifully women where you know your real range women hang around, the 5's and 6's. The end goal is 5 or 6 but they need to see you with 7's or even 8's. Done it, works like a charm. Contrary to mainstream beliefs I believe "love" is a combination of positive and negative emotions, and jealous is a powerful emotion for a lot of women. Do whatever it takes.
These videos always make me chuckle
If I ever become attractive miraculously I give all my credit to these videos not going lie more people need to take the blackpill and stop the cope. Thanks Wheat Waffles.
Just like men, women can have a range of preferences when it comes to dating, including physical appearance. However, it's essential to remember that individual preferences vary widely. While some women may prioritize looks, others might prioritize other qualities like personality, intelligence, or shared interests. Ultimately, what matters most varies from person to person.
eyebrows = power LOL
True from experience 😏
@@1MuchButteR1
just start a fake eyebrow business
and get people to Tape it to their forehead
@@therearenoshortcuts9868 Nice eyebrows is genetics as most things
Yes I learned hard way bro.therearenoshortcuts.
This is pure truth and education
btw at 16:29 that guy in the picture is actually not a simp, he got paid by the models marketing team to make up a story to boost her virality. (btw, it worked a lot.)
We all know how gullible wheat waffles is
You can't change your bone structure. Anyways, most men are average. Some are extremely unattractive. Some are extremely attractive.
Women don't want average.
In women's eyes, a top 20% guy is average, 80% are below average. Everything better than top 20% is above average.
I’m glad I found your channel and can accept the truth… I’m 28, have my own home and have a well paying career in finance but I’m a. 3/4 out of 10 and have accepted I will die alone as I’m not physically attractive to women. Doesn’t matter how funny or charming you are, girls just wanna hook up and date hot guys.
You are still young for relationship. With your status I’d say Geomaxx is your best bet, and a very realistic way of getting a relationship.
Awesome video. How's the choosing signals video progressing? Looking forward to that one.
Still in production
@@WheatWaffles Nice. I'm a "chad" who receives a plethora of choosing signals most of the time whenever I venture out of my house so I can provide you with my experiences to potentially enhance your video if you'd like.
@@EseShad0w316how different is your dating experience as compared to your normie friends
It should always be noted, the difference in attractiveness between people in life is much lesser than in pictures. While i usually are not attracted at all at girls who are 5/10 in pictures, many of them win a friggin lot when interacting in person. And it's the same for men.
height is sadly where i lack, its over at least im in the 90% of invisible man and can cope with my bros.
170cm or 5,7@@pinbota
I agree with the main point but I didn't get all the faces right. I got correct only 5 or 6 ones. And I am a heterosexual girl.
I see these in many videos about attractivness when I truly find somebody who is concidered by the author 10/10 only as 6 or 7 and somebody who is concidered 4-8 as 10. I do think that there are some general attractiveness features but I don't think they are that strict.
100% real facts! Everything you said are 100% true!
WHAT DO YOU MEAN SANTA CLAUSE ISNT REAL
the accent makes these videos BASED and more cutting
In the US women only think about a guys looks from 18 to 28 years old after that reality hits them and they have to compete with younger women and the pool of guys gets worse. 😂😂😂😂😂
You are an artist and have helped developed a sense in human aesthetics
Where have all the Chads gone 😆
Wheat Waffles is soo *REAL!*
When it comes to the attributes of a man, women might care about looks the most, but above ALL, women care about control. If they land a Chad who they can't control they will eventually leave. And it wont take long. At the point when they accept they will never control him... they're out.
I got one wrong
At least 3 pairs were not easy at all.
Dude... You should seriously consider to become a plastic surgeon for MEN! You would be doin God's work! 🤣
Had a friend who was average with bad posture wanting to find gf very fast. I told him that looks really *DO* matter. At first he was angry and in denial and didn't believe it, but in half a year he changed day and night and went to above average with stylosh hairstyle, clothes and improved posture. He got already married very recently. That s how fast it went. (Not recommend to marrie that fast tho lol, he knew the girl for 3 months before they got married, but at least he seems happy)
@@xristinarose2409 Thank you. Some people know what they're talking about.
As a child I never automatically assumed that adults and teachers were smarter than me.
Looks matter until she has her heart broken x amount of times and goes for stability.
This is so true lol
Regarding reason 4 I found an interesting comment under the video of thinking ape titled ‘Towards our polygamous future’. I will copy paste it below:
*In the past polygamy was a privelege for those who could afford to support a large household of females and their offspring.
A modern version of polygamy is more likely to be a society, where the 80/20 rule will play out to its full effect. Chad will have most of the sex and will leave an army of single mothers in his wake. The resources necessary to raise the offspring will be socialized and paid for by the working cattle.
Not to distant future, maybe we are allready there.*
In 3:17,you forgot to improve their ears
Further great content. Keep it up. Like the introduction of the term BMV.
I am 3. Game Over
What's hilarious is when girls claim that they only like personality, yet when you ask them why they swipe left on the vast majority of men on dating apps and they can never come up with an actual answer.
they can read the mind from a pic ;)
The reason women only swipe right on the hottest guys is because they can afford to do so. They have hundreds of likes on dating apps and with so many options why wouldn't you only swipe right on the 8s and 9s? I actually noticed this same behavior with myself when I went to the Philippines. As an above-average white guy, I was absolutely flooded with likes over there and only swiped right on the 8s and 9s because again, why wouldn't I? Back here in the US, I get a lot fewer likes, meaning fewer options, so I am far more open to swiping right on a lot of 6s and 7s.
I genuinely couldn’t see a difference in man 2. The rest had obvious differences in the facial editing. The argument only works if they look different, and I’m not 100% certain but I think you mistakenly used the same picture twice.
Dear Wheat Waffles, thanks for the video. Here is your LIKE.
Best regards to you
I'm a man with long blonde hair and I'm wondering if it is better to keep this niche look than to return to an average short hair look.
Among the men with long hair I would rate myself above average, but with short hair, I would not.
You need to show yourself with both..let others decide not yourself.
@@chrispekel5709 I've heard both preferences, therefore I would like to know if there is a statistic or so.
I’m same, definitely keep long and stay niche
@@MoempfLP Majority of women prefer short hair. However, your long would look better than if it was short and cut terribly. But long and well groomed vs short and well groomed, short will win out 90% of the time.
Keep it long and glorious my dude. I also have long hair and for me there is only benefits. I know I get more attention and compliments because of it, because most women do not even have as long and good hair as me. Do not trust dudes that tell you to cut it off they only want to make you less.
And keep it well groomed badly kept long hair is worse than bad short hair. But well groomed long hair far outguns good short hair.
And build up your body, long hair and being stacked look even more glorious dude.
You are correct. I guess looking back one could use this information as catharsis. I can now say: "oh that girl, she rejected me not because I had no game or I didn't 'figure her out', it was actually because of my looks, I wasn't hot enough for her". And I can say that does make sense in some cases. However there were also cases were a less attractive and shorter men were chosen by girls over me, girls that did know very well I was into them. Out of the top of my head I can recall a couple times that happened, and how I was flabbergasted by the guy bad looks. So it is not really *always* the case, maybe a part of girls just like u gly guys, they think they are good-looking, IDK. People do weird things, and they behave in weird ways. One of my exes, went on to date a bunch of short guys after me (I'm 6'1), and they were not good-looking either, later she also went on to get a lot of tattoos, all over her body, I thought that was crazy, how could anyone think that was a good idea, it was bizarre. So yeah, not everyone necessarily works on this paradigm I would say, but I feel like you are right, with the dating apps, these days, it became much more visual.
part of reason is that we men don't exactly get the kind of looks that women like, except much later in life and after much experience. (just simple example, until my late 20s I had no idea women might be attracted more by unshaved/bearded than by shaved men)
It just sucks that looks matter so much it could be the difference between a fulfilling relationship/love/family for most men. Feminism has basically reduced It to this factor.
If I look at my grandfathers when they were young, I can safely say that women also cared most about looks in 1950.
i got 2/10
U need glasses
If you were a 4 because of an ugly nose and ugly ears, and with cosmetic surgery by correcting these defects, you could become a 7/10, would you do it?
Yes. Being attractive has lots of Unfair advantages aka Halo effect
Don't forget the surgery fund for your kids.
@@anonymouse7074😂😂😂 I mean, the chirurgy won't impact the genes, right?
@@anonymouse7074 Who cares
that's a big jump my man don't be so sure.
Point 4 is the one. Absolute truth. If you really want to "make it" with money, the real possible fun starts mabye at top 0,1% of top earners. Being top 5 % in earns means nothing. And its same in reverse, if you are Chad, it doesnt matter how much you earn until you are like homeless drug addict psychopath. Thats why i am "moneymaxing", but not for women, but for my own well-being. And even there, i am sacrifising a lot of my career for my looksmaxing, because without it, there is no point to get involved in dating market.
Wheat Waffles the graph you show is skewed, the option of met in a bar or restaurant is actually met online only by appointment for the first meeting to the bar or restaurant.
Waffles spitting facts as usual.
Attractive people also score 13 points higher on IQ tests, something I believe has a simple explanation:
Intelligent men become more successful. Successful men marry beautiful women. Beauty is heritable. Intelligence is heritable.
Voila! Your babies are beautiful and intelligent.
Looks open the doors. One of my male friends was (seemingly) really good looking. He had women throwing themselves on him, all he had to do is select. He didn't even go out looking for women. So he had much more time to dedicate to his selfdevelopment. He didn't have the huge energy, time and money drain, to look for women. That is a huge advantage.
Than his looks boosed his self confidence and self worth, that spilled over the rest of his life.
Than he was very very socially accepted, as people wanted to be around him, and he could link up easily with people, that later him with his career.
Than his now wife met him, on fb, and took him to her very developed high earning country, she offered everything to him, papers, visa, place to live, career boost and contacts.
Looks contribute to 70%+ of one's success.
When you are 6’2”, decently muscular but have a 5 in facial attractiveness 😂
You're a 6
You should be a 7, but you won't be. However if a girl likes your energy or vibes or whatever you'll be a 7 to her. That's reality. If the genders were reversed guys would probably call you hot, due to the fact you have a good body and can use makeup to lift your looks. Men can't do that
I would rather see it differently, like Wheat Waffles.
It's rather a shame for us men today that we are so dependent on our looks to win over a woman.
In the past, looks weren't that important either.
This pursuit of better appearance is not dignified for a man.
"In 100 years, we'll be recognized as right about women valuing looks most"
Beware of other potential delusions, besides ''money will get me babes''.
It’s not quite that simple, people with flaws can still look good, I have seen women with flaws that just make them unique, and sometimes I can’t quite put my finger on why I find them attractive
Very true. I don’t believe anyone think loook isn’t one of the most important factors. That is the first thing we see and notice. Face , body height and size. Are one of the most important factors.
Go to the Philippines & see 70 year old foreigners with 25 year old woman.
When resources are scarce, money becomes the deciding factor.
@JohnDoe-xj1pf These men are a Zero. So sub 5 is not doing too bad.
After a while looks are not enough. These were some of the last words of my ex "you cant live from love" even though we always had enough, but this wasnt enough for her.
This confirmed what i was thinking all along: When a girl is young, lets say 16-24 she'll care more bout looks. But after she finishes college, she'll search for "security " and "lifestyle"and bs like that.
This is 100% true, i had a 6 year old relationship from when she was 18 til she got her master's degree at 24. It was amazing to witness the change. Never again
Oh and fyi, if u guys knew how stinky those lips get, you would never desire to date. Just disgusting.
Lol
🐟🍽😋
How old are you ??
Thats why they say that girls aim for the top 10%. If you only had looks, u can sleep with them but not hold them long term. You gotta rmrbr though, w0men wont keep u no matter hw handsome, rich, popular u are once they get bored. Morale pf story is its just your turn but at least u had a girl, some of the guys had 0 experience. I know a friend and i can forsee that he will be a virgin forever
Just deal with the fact that you will never be able live up to the crazy female expectations.
Even if she finds top tier Chad millionaire, she'll still find reasons to complain.