Iyanla Vanzant Tells Why She Didn't Fix R. Kelly's Life
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- Опубліковано 10 лют 2025
- R. Kelly wanted to be on Iyanla Vanzant's show, but Iyanla explains why it didn't work out. Do you think "Iyanla: Fix My Life" could actually help R. Kelly?? Here goes the entire interview: bit.ly/2Ke1lTp
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Iyanla doesn't fix anyone's life, she gives you the tools and it's up to the person. No one in the planet can fix any one.
Exactly and she makes it clear✔
AMEN AMEN AMEN..U TOOK THE WORDS RIGHT OUT OF MY MOUTH..#ONLY #JESUS #CAN #FIX #UR #LIFE!!!!😀💯👌💚
@@vthe_listener886 yup.... and most of them don’t realize what they’re walking into. Most aren’t ready
Only Jesus can fix people Amen
Preach now
R Kelly wanted to used the show to make himself look like victim (as per usual)
Exactly
Correct
Bingo!
Right? ...and Ms. Iyanla ain't no fool.
Not defending him, but at one point he was. He and his brothers were molested by the older sister if I recall correctly. The abused oftentimes become the abusers when they dont get help.
She said she go in "Prayed Up " #Amen
she lying
using church talking points
@@jettabusyjackson5307 I say the same thing. It has nothing to do with church when you speak your truth. I stay Prayed up.
He needa listen to prayed up by Karen Clark sheard 💯
Amen!!
@@jettabusyjackson5307 Is there a special reason for her to lie about staying prayed up? Asking since i know i do and have nothing to gain or loose if anyone believes me or not
Baby if a man dates Muva Iyanla he gotta be mentally, spiritually, & emotionally ready. This Queen is on a whole nother level!❤👊❤👊
well what country the Vanzant came from because itz obvious for her lack of compassion she not from America more than one generation.. she just studying us
i can feel it
Jettabusy jackson she was born in the back of a taxi in NYC look her up... She went through the fire to be the queen she is today 👑
@@cfrygirl that d9nt make her a queen or a expert just because she was born in a taxi
@@jettabusyjackson5307 ok you don't like her we get it.
A whole nother level!!!
She said, coming for the adults, not the children
when she said "I am a vessel for the Holy Spirit", I felt that.
Yes! Str8 like that!!
Amen
I did, too. That was real talk.
She is a vessel for the Holy Spirit, we need so much help down here. People are broken, families are broken. We need Iyanla.
@@citygirlingraham we need Jesus. A vessel is not the Holy Spirit Himself
“When she said they ain’t talking about me they talking about God”
I felt that!
When God told David
“Give me your heart and I will answer those who reproach me”
When God is in you, you are not of yourself but of God! And the Holy Spirit
I get fixed every episode no matter the topic...when you are ready..you are ready.
Same here
AMEN
Me too.
That's why I'm sad the show is ending
Yes me too. Love to breath in and out with her real "ah ha" moments and I have a lot of those
Same here. I really learn alot
“I ain’t on the why you can’t get it done committee”
😂💯❤️🙌🏾
She can’t fix R Kelly until he realize his problem and realize he was wrong. Rather the young girls were throwing themselves at him or not he was the adult and should had not even entertained them.
It's "whether", luv. Not rather, WHETHER. And you are absolutely right: he took advantage of those girls and is simply getting what's been coming to him for a long time.
You are right.. and to add he also sought a lot of those girls out. He went up to his old high school and hand picked young girls out
AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN!!!👌💯😇❤
@@sunkissed6413 #VERY #UNSTABLE #INDIVIDUAL ❤💯😇👌
Right!!!!!!!!!
He's still trying to control the narrative. The show does not come to you, you go to them. He was too afraid to get out of his comfort zone. He's not ready. He had ulterior motives.
Lol right. EVERYONE gets the same treatment on her show, famous or not🤷🏾♀️
That’s why he sitting where he sitting lol 🪑
My actual hero and spiritual mother. Someday, I'll carry the torch!
She's tough! Negative words doesn't move her
True
I was like huh?
Facts! Like the guy sitting next to her was like “why didn’t you pray for him?” And I wanted to hit him sooo hard
Am like that.
I'm not surprised. Many people who have worked with Rkelly said he was a control freak.
@Orange Blossom facts! He has to always be in control to spin the story how he sees fit.
That’s why he lost it in the Gayle interview.
The man went to trail,was found not guilty by a jury who saw every peace of evidence why is he still on trial for something he was found innocent ???how is that fair??maybe he himself was not comfortable with her and talking with her ,she is Oprah lapdog u know ,question who’s life has she fixed???
@@ReRe-ww7rf exactly 💫❤️
@Orange Blossom ...and that’s why more videos that were found have been submitted to the FBI. His sexual behavior is sickening to the point he sees humans as objects because he learned that in his childhood.
Being victimized DOES NOT give anyone the right to victimize others. What we put out is what we get back ...good or bad. 💯👀💅🏾
So, no one wanted to talk about the *Holy* *Spirit* ? He's worth talking about and talking *with* .
Amen!
Sure is Nicole Royalty...He is EVERYTHING!!!
You are so right on! The Holy Spirit has helped me in my life when it could have gone really bad, really fast! I swear this is true, I finally quit the disgusting habit of smoking when I humbled myself and prayed for His help. The first time after I quit that I had to put gas in my car, I left and realized that I DID NOT SEE the shelves full of cigarettes, and I never see them no matter where I go, He took it from my view and that's been almost 10 years ago. God bless you, Ms. Nicole! Js
@@js5787 That was a Awesome testimony. Out of sight. Out of mind. The Comforter has been by your side for sure. Thank you and may *God* bless you as well JS
Nicole Royalty, please be quiet. If a man was to sexualize your children would he be worth talking to? Oh okay..
“They not talking about me, they talking about God” I love this, she is right especially especially when you are doing your job in a positive way to help others. To those who’s always finding the negative in what people do, you need God in your life.
Amen!❤️🥂
I don’t see how some people in the comments translated her saying the Holy Spirit won’t help R. Kelly. I watched the video twice and didn’t hear her saying anything like that. She said HE was not ready. Meaning he was not ready to open up, hear, and heal. He was ready to put on a show, she’s trying to help him.
True
That yellow jacket cute asl
Banana pepper yellow 🙃
She’s always dressed cute as a button and tasteful with it 👌🏾
She stay fly
I am a Vessel for the Holy Spirit and I show up Prayed UP!!!!!!!!
Iyanla is a healer, straight up.
If you truly want to heal you will face the ugliness and work through it !
Yes!!! 🥰🔥💯🔥
She was so right on "Not" helping R. Kelly. It would be saying that what he did was okay. The biggest irony is that at 51 Bill Wyman Of The Rolling Stones dated a Girl named Mandy who he thought was much Older, she was only 13 they dated for 6 years, then broke up and when he got caught, Mandy's Mother didn't file charges because after all he was so kind. He all but carried that family. The Stones warned him but he didn't listen, they eventually married divorced and she walked away with 8 Million Dollars. If that weren't strange enough his Son Stephen dated Mandy's Mother.
Chile is u forreal??
Wow. And Elvis Presley… the parents are giving their kids away for the money.
Lol that ain’t hardly true 🤣🤣🤣 . She said he wasn’t ready …. If he were I now see that she would have helped him.
shes really a whole entire queen
Ain on the "why couldn't you get it done committee" 🤣
Dangggg R Kelly really reached out!!! Wowwww
Yeah but he couldn't read and fill out application I wonder does IV know that
He could've asked somebody to do it for him
That part....he didn't get done with the application. She said its extensive, so those questions probably hit on a level that changed his mind.
@@soulrebel2711 yup
He’s a narcissists and was going to try and manipulate the situation.
I wished that IVZ would have stuck to non celebrities. Now she is ending the show. The celebs are not ready and ruined it for everyone else. 😩
Wow, I saw Shay & family on the show and thought. Celebrities seem so exhausting because they refuse to lose control, too worried about image not healing.
No not really she said she wanted to do different things
I'm very sad about the show ending
how do you know that's the reason its ending? she did 10 seasons of this, i'm sure she's ready to move on.
I just googled to see it is ending. Maybe she will do more super soul Sundays with Oprah
Iyanla is a Yoruba Priestess, to be a priestess you have to be wise and strong. I hate that she hides it in interviews, but I do overstand the backlash she would get from the many ignorant people that do not understand African Spirituality.. She works with the Orishas and that's how she stays strong.
She said this before? This is why we all (me included) need to figure out us.
She’s spoken on it many times...
YES... you have to be truly ready to let go and relearn life behaviors. 💯👀✌🏾😎🔥
@@thepreppysavage1754 I have been learning for a while. I hate what our oppressors has done to our people.
Truth I read her autobiography which she took off the market but she’s amazing
“I’m sure one of the kids could read”
When I say I gagged and hollered lmao😭😭😭
I knew she was working for the Lord the entire time. She's loved by me and my young adult sons. She has definitely had a positive affect on us throughout the years 🙏
I am a vessel for the holy spirit love it
I Loveeeeee iyanla, just trying to figure out this hair
I only clicked because of the hair
Me too 😳
Omg me too! Why does she think this is ok? It’s like Stevie Wonder’s braids sitting at the back of his head. 🤔
Thank you !!! Somebody see the elephant in the room !!!!! That ponytail is in the wrong place !!!!! It don't belong there !
She just told y’all she don’t mind the criticism yall not talking bout y’all talking bout God lol now say sorry
I love her so much!!!!!! “I am a vessel for the holy spirit”...that gave me goosebumps. Amen! Y ocha para usted mi hermana...que los Santos la sigan bendiciendo.
you sure shes talking about the God holy spirit??
Iyanla yellow jacket is banging. Its matching Gary shirt😂😂😂
She's representing Oshun
Dr. Iyanla, is on a total different Level. Bless her Holy Spirit.
I am not on the way you can't get it done committee. 😂😂😂😂😂 That's funny as hell 😂
I ain't on the why can't you get it done committee I love it
Can we talk about her jacket!?!?🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Beautiful makeup ..,but she needs some good wigs ...these hairstyles have caught up with her 🤦🏾♀️
I'm glad somebody noticed that besides me. How did they even get that ponytail on this time????... i can't figure it out..😏😏 anyway shout out to this lady she's amazing!!!!...
And her stylist clearly didn’t believe in edge control
So everybody gotta wear damn lace-front and be basic? Loll
@@KurosakiLuvar01 no, everybody needs to look presentable. Clearly her team don’t care about her letting her look like this . But anyway, i was stating that all the hair styles she’s had in the past that have been making her lose hair has caught up with her...that’s all i was saying, had nothing to do with being “basic” ...I don’t even wear wigs , i have beautiful locs 🤷🏾♀️
my opinion just like you have yours ...good day.
I feel like once you get to a certain age hair that long just doesnt look right on anyone.
Reason why people like R Kelly exist Is because of women in this case his sister and i haven't heard even a single celebrity woman call her out for creating an abuser 🤷 another perfect example that women can't hold each other accountable but they expect men to hold each other accountable double standards.
...🙌"I am vessel of the Holy Spirit"🙌....
This woman is like 80% of the women in my family, all that pampering ain't going down, you better come correct.
Amen ... “How tough you have to be to fix what you have to fix” - And that answer .... “I am the vessel for the Holy Spirit” ..
That statement alone ... We know she is covered ....
That’s where she gets her strength
Love her
You have to fix your own life only listen to her advice and decide what to do with it.
In love that Iyanla is unapologetically her.
One thing Richard Pryer said was being in a wheel chair was the Only thing that stopped him from doing drugs. I think R Kelly will become a better person from being in jail. It will give him time to get the psychological help he needs.
“I’m not on the why he couldn’t get it done committee”, I’m going to use that because it eliminates the potential for speculation and gossip and it’s too much energy figuring out why someone can’t do something in order to move forward.
"I AM A VESSEL FOR THE HOLY SPIRIT." Preach Iyanla!!!!!
I been trying to get in contact with her so she can help me with my mother who I haven't seen since I was 3 years old
Hopefully one say you will honey. Peace unto you 🔥✌🏾😎🔥🥰
Keep trying 💛
I pray you have peace, and that no part of you subconsciously takes responsibility for what happened.
Checking in from the DMV
The title of this made me laugh 😆 I’m trying to fix my OWN life 🙏🏼
This explains why she didn’t do Tokyo Toni & Blac Chyna either
He might no be ready. But boy that would have been a bomb episode to see iyanla dig deep into his mind
Show up prayed up🙏. Love it!
Thats my hero.. Stay with armour on. 😁😁😁😁😇😇😇🔥🔥🔥💙💙💙
Great question sir! Who heals the healer?
Its the way she adjusted herself when asked who fixes the fixer. It was a force that made me admire her much more. I want to have a session with her. Not on TV tho lol I'm not embarrassed I don't want clout.
ONLY U CAN FIX UR LIFE WITH GOD'S HELP!
Amen
Amen!💯💯🥂
As in "You".. can go find Iyanla or a good therapist in addition to God if you need help. I take one step God will take three.
Honest, HONEST question....What is her ponytail holding on to?
I remember that episode with that girl... that’s probably one of the few episodes where i thought iyanla got it wrong .. I think everyone wanted that girl to be so distraught, because she was taken away from a mother (she never knew ) . When her reaction was - I’m fine , I can and am dealing with it , people could not handle it because that’s not the response they were expecting, including iyanla.. so they tried to tell her she has repressed anger and feelings so naturally the girl got upset because she felt nobody was listening to her .. Wish her well
I think she had just numbed those feelings and Iyanla was forcing her to confront them. That wasn't a normal "you don't believe me when I say I'm fine upset" that was total and pure RAGE and she has a right to be enraged. Her whole life was a lie and even though it was a good life her mother and her entire identity was a lie. Her biological mother didn't go to heal with her so now the 1st disconnect she was stolen and now her mother who spent all this time trying to get her back is emotionally abandoning her after she's agreed to go on this emotional and spiritual journey with her
@@allthingsplantbased8952 your response is Spot on to the people I’m talking about .. you’re projecting your feeling onto her .. why can’t you just accept that when she’s say she’s ok she is ok ? Because you would not be ok and if you would not be ok she should not be ok .. Their lies the problem .. she’s upset because you’re telling her she should be upset and angry and distraught because her life was a lie and all sort of thing ... My friend the life the lived was TRUTH TO HER EVEN IF THE MOM SHE KNEW WAS NOT HER REAL MOM .. and that’s what’s important .. She had a hood life with the mom she thought was her mom and the experiences she had with her are not false just because she was not her real mom .. Not believing her and negating that those are not real is the main reason I think she was soo upset and no one was listening
She wasn’t fine and isn’t fine. She didn’t want to deal with her feelings. They should had brought in Carlita White from the beginning. That probably would had helped her more. Since Carlita literally went through the same thing
@@kavaniawilson860 I hear your point of view that she was and is not ok , while different from mine I’ll accept it.. I based mine on what the girl said , she was ok and was dealing with it .
@@kirkmarshall6790 I respect your opinion. I get what you are saying. I graduated with a degree in human services and I think I was looking at it though that perspective
She gets to the Truth
Amen to that such a powerful and admirable lady
Tell Iyanla stay pray up.
Wowww my respect for this woman just went uppppp
I love her vibe
Iyanla is EVERYTHING 🙌🏿🌹🙏🏿
How do you fix someone who doesn’t believe they’ve done anything wrong?
Man I just love this women!!🙌🏽🙏🏽💪🏽
PLEASE. The only reason she didn't help R Kelly is because of the backlash.
I don't know how I feel about this hair.
We love you iyanla🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
HK WOW!! I KNOW I'M JUST WATCHING SORRY 😞!! BUT YOU DID A GREAT JOB!! I LOVE THE QUESTIONS YOU ASKED IYLANA!! The questions were deep and you asked them with intellect!! Questions we all wanted to know the answers to!! ("Who fixes the fixer"!!!!) Yesssssss Hk!!👏👏👏🤗🥰You achieve that!!👏👏🤗🥰❤❤ KEEP UP THE GOOD HK AND GET READY FOR THE NEXT LEVEL!!!
Fix My Life is the only reason why OWN is even a factor
"They not talking about me they talking about God. That ain't my issue"
Oohh sis!!!!
She’s amazing
Such a presence
R Kelley has to fix his own life she can only give advice.
Go in prayed up 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Being a black woman must be hard I mean everything falls on them to fix
She said F**k That I can't fix that 😂
I love love love Iyanla! 🥰
This ponytail is holding on for her to fix it's life. Lawd!
That’s a beautiful woman with a beautiful spirit. God bless her......she’s doing God’s work.
1:34 You better tell them, Iyanla! ❤️
She’s so strong 🦋
I AINT ON THE WHY YOU CANT GET IT DONE COMITY 🤣🤣🤣
She's a beautiful person
I do the same job...showing up grounded is a must otherwise you won't make it as a healer....you must allow yourself to be the vessel of God
“I’m a vessel of the Holy Spirit.... One job, Show Up!” 🔥
Whoa! Why didn't Iyanla fix Kelly's life? "He wasn't ready.... you can't tell a surgeon how to do their job." WHOA! What Iyanla said was simple, but spot on. And it's his loss because he if followed the directions and did the work, it would have turned his life around. Now he is ruined. I don't watch his videos nor listen to his music anymore.
Iyana has a beatitude and I love it.
Sharp I like that yellow both of them got on!!!
Well y’all shoulda prayed for him... what a stupid statement Gary made! What made him think she didn’t
Looking fabulous !
I'm confused by the hair style... Did it not get finished up front?
We love her....A vessel. 🌺
She looks stunning completely bald. Not many can pull it off but she does flawlessly.
Healing is something that you definitely have to want to do for your self just like going to a therapist I'm saying this in regards to going to her show
Yes ma’am! ❤️🥰
Her ponytail should sit on top of her head to cover the thinness
I am so glad somebody noticed that mess!
@@vhaomajohnsp I notice that too I don’t think it matches well.
@@clorrissiaperry6484 Not at all.
She gave me Chills ❤️