Jess A Couple Things Pod #9- The New Trophy Wife was ALL A LIE”

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  • @ReenaBeenas
    @ReenaBeenas Місяць тому +444

    Trophy Wife starts on 29:18

  • @amber7129
    @amber7129 Місяць тому +314

    Thank you for speaking on the Trophy Wife Thing because I ALWAYS tell women a man is not a plan and you should always be able to maintain your own lifestyle on your own!

    • @cjwilliamsvi
      @cjwilliamsvi 28 днів тому +1

      And what’s crazy is she was making enough money to do that! She said she was tired of being a single mom and she wanted a husband. Nothing wrong with that, but the way she did it was giving desperation.

  • @morganmantis
    @morganmantis Місяць тому +641

    Her husband’s name is Jermaine Orenthro Dowdy. Born on 10/09/1974. Works as a cyber intelligence analyst. He was arrested for DV in November 2023.

    • @Doctor.Dentista
      @Doctor.Dentista Місяць тому +94

      Wow! Good work, Private I.

    • @marvellouslymade1533
      @marvellouslymade1533 Місяць тому +72

      I heard he was also previously married 3 times🫣

    • @EvolvingEb
      @EvolvingEb Місяць тому +13

      @@morganmantis thank you!!!!!! Someone gets it!

    • @EvolvingEb
      @EvolvingEb Місяць тому +4

      @@marvellouslymade1533 wow

    • @rosereign888
      @rosereign888 Місяць тому +58

      One thing about those libras, THEY LIIEEEEE

  • @Chrissyroc
    @Chrissyroc Місяць тому +321

    The dating advice needs to stop! I’m so over it. I don’t want to hear what I need to do to attract a “high value” man. A lot of these folks talking about relationships are toxic individuals with no common sense and trash experiences.

    • @whitleywhitley2280
      @whitleywhitley2280 Місяць тому +20

      Soooooo true, that lady walked into that only looking to cash in on his money. She is ridiculous now she asking for gofundme and telling her sob story so people donate

    • @gigiarmany
      @gigiarmany Місяць тому +2

      Yep🙌🏽💯😒

    • @justinebailey5333
      @justinebailey5333 Місяць тому +1

      Right

    • @theCatsitter878
      @theCatsitter878 Місяць тому +10

      Also, a "high value man" can mean different things for different people (as long as he's respectful and not abusive) so you can't provide universal advice.

    • @Dohnetsway
      @Dohnetsway Місяць тому

      @@theCatsitter878this. Cause you can have 6 figures and being 6 foot 4 (i saw a guy say that made him high value) and still treat people like shit. That to me is value when you are intentional about treating me right and others is what J consider high value especially when it’s so easy to be respectful and a lot of people aren’t

  • @justcallmebon2684
    @justcallmebon2684 Місяць тому +250

    I’m mostly upset she was promoting her man as the standard AFTER he SA d her 4 times. How are you going to promote a grapist?

    • @user-pz4vb9cu8u
      @user-pz4vb9cu8u Місяць тому +9

      My exact thoughts!

    • @whitleywhitley2280
      @whitleywhitley2280 Місяць тому

      That's because that lady fulla sh"t and now she scamming the public with her sob story asking for a gofundme

    • @gammafrost
      @gammafrost Місяць тому +11

      Common sense sadly isn’t so common. They put the lifestyle and the bag above a man’s character then act surprised when it turns out bad 🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @MasterChar
      @MasterChar Місяць тому +2

      Where did yall hear this part?? I haven’t seen this info other than in comments

    • @justcallmebon2684
      @justcallmebon2684 Місяць тому +1

      @ it’s on the screen between minute 5-7 somewhere on the screen. She writes it

  • @candiebradshaw2087
    @candiebradshaw2087 Місяць тому +442

    Side note: I just LOVE braids on you!

  • @IvyBox
    @IvyBox Місяць тому +102

    Haitians in Haiti know how to organize. My uncle help lead a March of millions in Haiti for democracy, but the media didn’t cover it. I agree we are underestimated.
    Yes, and the Indigenous people at the parliament gave me chills too. I put that on my stories when it came out with F around and Find out as the caption. I loved it!

  • @Cyn-C33
    @Cyn-C33 Місяць тому +503

    Girl,I am headed to perform a 10hr surgery and best believe I will listen to this on hour 9😂. Thanks Sisteeeerrr🎉

    • @newtonsthirdlaw121
      @newtonsthirdlaw121 Місяць тому +85

      I love this. Baybeeeee Jessie got me through the end of my dissertation recently- best motivation in the world lol. Wishing you a good surgery!

    • @amber7129
      @amber7129 Місяць тому +112

      Okay Doctor😍😍😍😍😍 I love this!

    • @TheeJessieWoo
      @TheeJessieWoo  Місяць тому +54

      😂

    • @christylove90
      @christylove90 Місяць тому +4

      @@newtonsthirdlaw121sammeeee lol

    • @reneebee8693
      @reneebee8693 Місяць тому +41

      Wishing you blessed hands and a clear mind during your surgery, Sis/Doc. 🙏🏿

  • @Queen42890
    @Queen42890 Місяць тому +658

    My daughter seen you in the BET Christmas movie with Mario talking about mommmm is that Jessie WOO 😂😂😂 you don’t stop! Gotta salute your hard work sis, keep going ♥️

    • @TheeJessieWoo
      @TheeJessieWoo  Місяць тому +124

      Thank you very much!!!

    • @ameliajohnson4454
      @ameliajohnson4454 Місяць тому +10

      ❤❤❤😂 I'm about to watch it.

    • @itsQueMajor
      @itsQueMajor Місяць тому +3

      ikdr !

    • @missdwilli
      @missdwilli Місяць тому +8

      Movie title please??

    • @BBROXY940
      @BBROXY940 Місяць тому +13

      Not us collecting new sisterrrrs, teach them young

  • @shanatian1
    @shanatian1 Місяць тому +66

    BIG UP to the Maori people…they showed the entire world what unity looks like

  • @sashapaget9444
    @sashapaget9444 Місяць тому +192

    I’m NOT marrying anyone after 1week these younger girls delusional as hell😂

    • @nongab6640
      @nongab6640 Місяць тому +6

      We are 😢

    • @SD-rc6dp
      @SD-rc6dp Місяць тому +4

      It’s sad how they didn’t even reach middle age but think they know it all… meanwhile she sacrificed her kids without even knowing it

    • @justinebailey5333
      @justinebailey5333 Місяць тому

      Yassssssssssss 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @khalin8445
      @khalin8445 Місяць тому +2

      My aunt married my uncle after 7 days and they were married until he passed away. I think 30+ years. 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @las8883
      @las8883 Місяць тому

      @@khalin8445idk it seems like dating and marrying quickly worked for the older generation bc I often hear these whirlwind romances and long marriage stories from them lol

  • @erykadolla4878
    @erykadolla4878 Місяць тому +246

    One thing about Jessie, she gon upload at the right time.
    I’m a biology major and this part of the semester is really stressful and isolating but I can always count on Jessie’s videos to uplift my mood so I can keep going.
    Thank you so much for being you, “your sisteeeeeeeer”❤❤❤❤

    • @TheeJessieWoo
      @TheeJessieWoo  Місяць тому +47

      period! good luck with your studies!

    • @crystalrubbie9383
      @crystalrubbie9383 Місяць тому +3

      You got this gurl 💪🏾

    • @flo4546
      @flo4546 Місяць тому +3

      Hell no I don’t wanna see Denzel kiss another man. They did a gladiator movie with a bunch of white ppl and none of them men was kissing on each other… knowing damn well Roman men was gay. Now they wanna do it for the black Roman. No

    • @flo4546
      @flo4546 Місяць тому

      I don’t feel bad for her I feel bad for her children. She knows damn well measuring a persons value by their wallet or materials INSTEAD of his character, morality etc. They’re lazy asf, instead of investigating in themselves so they can provide their own luxury the choose to put their survival in the hands of a rich man… they know what they are doing then come crying online

    • @Trialanderrorthesinglelife
      @Trialanderrorthesinglelife Місяць тому

      @@TheeJessieWoo they found him!! Pictures, LinkedIn and all
      ua-cam.com/video/MPy0tJuNBro/v-deo.htmlsi=-bJC-NXSFgDQUuQq

  • @Techsi751
    @Techsi751 Місяць тому +124

    I've been saying for a while, these dating channels are the devil! Just be yourself and date the best of the options that you have OR wait for the man you want. This should not be this hard and this lie that we are allllll gonna get a rich man is driving us crazy, focus on your own success!

  • @mfonu4582
    @mfonu4582 Місяць тому +75

    Completely agree with you on Isis (the trophy wife). She was coaching women while her husband was violating her. Misleading women with her hypergamy theory. Also moving to various men’s houses with your two sons is so irresponsible. I pray those children find healing!

  • @Maryanne_Muthoni
    @Maryanne_Muthoni Місяць тому +24

    I'm so proud of you Jessie, you have really done so much this year, you started the podcast, you are doing the group trips, you got into a beautiful healthy relationship and now you are pitching for white house events and even going there, you are doing amazing Sister 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾, I am so proud of you!

  • @paulaalexander4345
    @paulaalexander4345 Місяць тому +9

    Unplug the microphones! "Keep mine on tho" took me out! 😂😂😂

  • @melaninsabre3798
    @melaninsabre3798 Місяць тому +252

    Baby, a haka will make me teary eyed and wanting to start a revolution every single time!
    My African ancestors pop up like meerkats and wanna fight like they understand a single word of what them people be saying. 😅
    Love it! ❤

    • @rhurhu2510
      @rhurhu2510 Місяць тому +17

      So much passion...goosebumps!!

    • @amby3805
      @amby3805 Місяць тому +16

      Especially the Haka at funerals 🥹

    • @kandi668
      @kandi668 Місяць тому +8

      I loved it. I want to see this around the world.

    • @MoonBunny69
      @MoonBunny69 Місяць тому +3

      Same!!!❤❤❤

  • @krystleliving
    @krystleliving Місяць тому +108

    “Black don’t crack unless you smoke it”….the way I HOLLERED🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @itspitza
    @itspitza Місяць тому +155

    the lovers and friend analysis SENT ME 🤣😂🤣😂

    • @LuvBlackDaria
      @LuvBlackDaria Місяць тому +15

      Right, Jesse is a mess. Had me on the floor😂

    • @blank-stare6373
      @blank-stare6373 Місяць тому +14

      came out of nowhere too. lol

    • @mjoshaway
      @mjoshaway Місяць тому +5

      I lost it 😅🤣😂

    • @victoriaolekaibe5173
      @victoriaolekaibe5173 Місяць тому +1

      We go up for this song 🎵 Now it doesn't make sense😂😂😂😂😂

    • @purpleposh1230
      @purpleposh1230 Місяць тому +2

      Plus I think he produced it too so I don’t think
      They had much say 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @shynoniamoss2144
    @shynoniamoss2144 Місяць тому +35

    Jessie unaliving him would be like adding fuel to the fire. Your child would need you free , well and supportive. HE AINT WORTH IT.

  • @glowupjess
    @glowupjess Місяць тому +37

    Hi Jessie I’m a Haitian living in DC. I had no idea about this. We have a Haitian American professional association here , Haitian embassy, none of this was discussed. Smh.
    We need to unite.

    • @SD-rc6dp
      @SD-rc6dp Місяць тому +3

      Hi. I’m not Haitian but from NYC and I see the influence they have here. Their own media outlets and all. Y’all have the power. More than any other black nation from what I see. Y’all just gotta focus the power

  • @anikaarmstrong3212
    @anikaarmstrong3212 Місяць тому +75

    I don't think it's just Haitians, I think it's black people in general. It is hard for us to come together, support each other, uplift each other, fight for something, stand for something - TOGETHER AS ONE.

    • @LovelyHomesLH
      @LovelyHomesLH Місяць тому +14

      True! It’s a colonization mentality unfortunately

    • @Emoni171
      @Emoni171 Місяць тому

      Agreed

    • @khalin8445
      @khalin8445 Місяць тому +7

      Our memory is short on this one. Ladies the whole civil rights era was black people who organized and stuck together. The bus boycott lasted over a year.

    • @lachell257
      @lachell257 Місяць тому

      If you know black history then you know this is a lie. Black people have been organized for years. As black people we have made a lot of accomplishments.

    • @DnewNancy
      @DnewNancy Місяць тому +1

      But literally no other group of people stick together though… it’s very idealistic to expect all cultures within the black diaspora to stick together. Though it would be lovely…. In fighting is normal within other ethnic demographics

  • @saphirengine
    @saphirengine Місяць тому +75

    Jessie, just wanna say thank you for being one of the seemingly few online with good common sense. My wife and I are big fans, keep going!

  • @HoneyHide0ut444
    @HoneyHide0ut444 Місяць тому +27

    It was the audacity of the New Zealanders.. to not realize that those people are indigenous, you are guests. such a powerful moment

  • @thecadencekyle05
    @thecadencekyle05 Місяць тому +96

    OMG!!!!! JESSSSSSIIEE!!!! When I tell you I'm screaming. I swear on my life I was just having this conversation with my boyfriend last month. He's younger than me and I was telling him how Lil Jon was so popular they would put him on anything even if he did not match the vibe. "Let a nigga know before I pull it out" gets me everytime. At least he was checking for consent.

    • @JEWELAKAITYBITY
      @JEWELAKAITYBITY Місяць тому +7

      FACTS!!

    • @melaniewilliams9103
      @melaniewilliams9103 Місяць тому +13

      Hahaha....checking for consent. Hilarious

    • @Emoni171
      @Emoni171 Місяць тому

      Lol how much younger is your bf to not know who lil jon is?

    • @thecadencekyle05
      @thecadencekyle05 Місяць тому

      @Emoni171 lol! 😅 he knew who he was, just not that area. He is 10 years younger than me.

  • @Vivi-Price
    @Vivi-Price Місяць тому +59

    Side note: the way that Apple pen deserves a check because it was a paid actress 😂

    • @feliceoliviablack
      @feliceoliviablack Місяць тому +4

      Baby I was watching that thing so hard😂😂😂

  • @nvital9671
    @nvital9671 Місяць тому +56

    That Haka was a call and peoples answered in unity!!!! If we as Haitians did this our narrative would be different ❤

  • @writeousrhema
    @writeousrhema Місяць тому +25

    Jessie Woo is the harsh big sister/older cousin we needed when we began dating as tweens 😩

  • @JinaChantil
    @JinaChantil Місяць тому +118

    Not me screaming “Shawty!” While you rappin’ Lil Jon’s part! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @MoonBunny69
    @MoonBunny69 Місяць тому +16

    The way I teared up at the sound of the Haka being chanted.... 😭 That's all I want for black ppl to do to get the justice and benefits we are owed!!!

  • @sherondaness7505
    @sherondaness7505 Місяць тому +18

    16:28 S H A W T Y!! Needed to add that to the Lovers & Friend segment! I was definitely having a flash back from my Atlanta college days 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @jesswhycamarz
    @jesswhycamarz Місяць тому +43

    It could be a response to my own trauma as a child, but I have always felt that women should be EXTREMELY sus when a man is eager to date and move in with a woman with a child/children.
    Please remember that most people have been sexually abused as a kid which means MOST PEOPLE are sexual abusers. I don’t even entertain adults telling me how handsome or beautiful kids are. Kids are cute, sure. Stopping me to comment on the looks of a kid…SUS!
    I don’t blame or shame her, but she let her desperation hurt her babies on a deeply traumatic level. They will never be the same.

  • @sierrabrooks7873
    @sierrabrooks7873 Місяць тому +29

    Every time I take a sip of water while listening to her, I end up spitting it out! She really said, "You think I'll be invited?" right after calling him DOCTOR LUTHER KING MAJOR! That's hilarious! LMFAO!

    • @trigreeng450
      @trigreeng450 Місяць тому +2

      It’s the nay turner out fit with the Fredrick Douglas boots

    • @sierrabrooks7873
      @sierrabrooks7873 Місяць тому

      Omg 😱 you’re so right the Fredrick Douglas boots 🥾took me out

    • @nongab6640
      @nongab6640 Місяць тому

      I cackled when she said that

  • @coleb4991
    @coleb4991 Місяць тому +22

    Spending alot of money in the beginning is a form of love bombing which is a red flag for an abusive person. Thank you for this video. Our society can only be as sick as the secrets we keep.

  • @Mi_Devine
    @Mi_Devine Місяць тому +15

    😂 Jessie when you said, "One of us gotta leave the planet," I thought Jessie was in my head because those are the EXACT words I've been saying for years!!!! ❤❤❤ Love you girl!!! 😊

  • @thisneedswinepodcast551
    @thisneedswinepodcast551 Місяць тому +9

    I saw that video and also saw one Haka for a wedding and it was brides family doing it. Girl! Instant tears! You should look it up. You don’t even know the words but you feel the emotions so much, all you can do is cry. It’s so powerful !

  • @SteganDaMallion
    @SteganDaMallion Місяць тому +49

    Lil Jon added the special touch to the song!🤣

  • @shola7987
    @shola7987 Місяць тому +47

    I was singing the background when you started yelling lil johns part lol. SHAWTEEY!!That song slaps regardless 😅

  • @sjjk-f6t
    @sjjk-f6t Місяць тому +124

    Jessie be uploading thank you in these boring youtube streets

    • @ameliajohnson4454
      @ameliajohnson4454 Місяць тому +3

      Facts 🙌🏽🙌🏽💪🏽

    • @finishproject1
      @finishproject1 Місяць тому +6

      You're right. UA-cam was so boring before her channel found me ✨

    • @Scorpiehibiscus
      @Scorpiehibiscus Місяць тому

      Right???!!!

    • @raquelr8775
      @raquelr8775 Місяць тому

      Lol dammm right! And she is wise and beautiful. ❤️

  • @DorothyTuash
    @DorothyTuash Місяць тому +2

    “unplug de migrophones” jessie pls 😂😂😂

  • @andrealowe8551
    @andrealowe8551 Місяць тому +10

    This makeup is a vibe!!

  • @baeeerock9836
    @baeeerock9836 Місяць тому +74

    29:25 for those who are here for the Trophy Wife story 🎉

  • @crystalc820
    @crystalc820 Місяць тому +96

    JESSIE YOU WAS PREACHING❗️❗️❗️❗️ The moral of the story is....ladies who are single mothers please please please do your due diligence & make sure you check these men with or without money thoroughly bc your children safety should always come 1st❗️❗️❗️❗️❗️❗️
    I'm so sick of hearing these same stories over & over again on the news & or social media.....hell I wouldn't even wanna bring a man around my kids if I had any bc it's just that dangerous out here unfortunately 😢
    Be safe ladies🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @Marie-w5r
      @Marie-w5r Місяць тому +6

      He touched his own kids not the one she had so it’s as nothing to do with being a single Mother

    • @shyranhilaw4352
      @shyranhilaw4352 Місяць тому +13

      @@Marie-w5rYou don’t know that. She didn’t have her sons checked. And a man that would touch his own will touch anyone’s, period.

  • @EsperanzaR23
    @EsperanzaR23 Місяць тому +26

    I clicked so fast! The video of the haka gives me all the chills!

  • @samorachannel2093
    @samorachannel2093 Місяць тому +2

    It's a red flag if a man says you two have to be married to live together, and he indeed marries you. RED FLAGGGGG,

  • @trudy_triad
    @trudy_triad Місяць тому +5

    Nah that Lil John verse is ICONIC ION CAAARRRREE😂😂😂😂😂😂😂❤😊

  • @nikki_dee32
    @nikki_dee32 Місяць тому +31

    I am happy that you called them out on this 👏🏾👏🏾!!! How are you wanting the Black vote but not show up for Black events, in YOUR HOUSE!!! That is actually diabolical 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @brimillien
    @brimillien Місяць тому +32

    Two white women came up with that lie about Haitians just for her to say “Oh I didn’t mean to harm anyone.” And for the other one to say her missing cat was in her basement the whole time. Now the next lie is that we’re trying to jump them. This is why black women need to continue to focus on ourselves. Let’s keep getting our education, opening businesses, and guarding our spaces. Not only for the next four years, FOREVER!

    • @Babykeiks78
      @Babykeiks78 Місяць тому +1

      Heavy on the last sentence!
      I keep seeing BW saying they’re taking four years off!? Nooooo just stop y’all!? We see what it is be done for the duration and see about you!?

  • @rachelm.3173
    @rachelm.3173 Місяць тому +10

    "Get A Job!!!" 😂😂😂 Yassss Jessie 💯

  • @arjoseph93
    @arjoseph93 Місяць тому +46

    You know what’s extra funny? Meagan good played a role in Law & Order SVU that basically foreshadowed this relationship with Jonathan 🤣🤣 PLEASE watch it

  • @JazzyFro
    @JazzyFro Місяць тому +51

    46:57 😂😂😂 "everybody get a f**king job!"

    • @OkNikaOK
      @OkNikaOK Місяць тому +1

      Amen! A word.

    • @OkNikaOK
      @OkNikaOK Місяць тому +2

      “Keep my shit plugged in” 😅

  • @krisna9497
    @krisna9497 Місяць тому +3

    IKTR PERIODDD. Congratulations Jessie on singing at the Big House gworlllllll. This is major. So proud of you. May God continue to bless you!

  • @latoyanicole6221
    @latoyanicole6221 Місяць тому +34

    Lil John said y’all gon let me on this track 😂😂😂😂

  • @toya504
    @toya504 Місяць тому +10

    Lil Jon was trying to get consent to transition to the lover part! 😂😂😂 That was the best part in the club!

  • @reneebee8693
    @reneebee8693 Місяць тому +12

    Haka is everything. They are so tribal and peimal. I feel the power and pain of the warriors. I'm Blackity, Black Black, but I feel so connected to the Maori.

  • @adelialharris88
    @adelialharris88 Місяць тому +107

    Too late Jess, Shannon is talking about Kat Williams possibly doing a part 2 interview 😂😂😂😂

    • @SSSS-wq4vn
      @SSSS-wq4vn Місяць тому +3

      😂

    • @Tamia6156
      @Tamia6156 Місяць тому +1

      nonnnnn😂😂😂😂😂

    • @victoriaolekaibe5173
      @victoriaolekaibe5173 Місяць тому +7

      Shannon has not been able to duplicate those #'s at all in other interviews, He want that bag💰💰

  • @SneakerQu33n
    @SneakerQu33n Місяць тому +34

    Not me in the background saying 🗣Shawty ....while Jessie doing Lil Jon's part.

  • @LifeOfKells
    @LifeOfKells Місяць тому +6

    17:30 “We be singing this sht like it’s okay - and it’s not!”🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Only1Mrs.AGrant
    @Only1Mrs.AGrant Місяць тому +8

    Jessie I love this podcast. You keep it really real and we need that.

  • @livelikesong
    @livelikesong Місяць тому +6

    “Court her in court” is just so 😄

  • @catlady3024
    @catlady3024 Місяць тому +13

    Not me finishing the ad Libs while you were singing, lovers and friends 😂😂😂

  • @Tullahgit
    @Tullahgit Місяць тому +8

    Jonathan Luther Kang Jr the III kills me every time

  • @asluckwouldhaveit
    @asluckwouldhaveit Місяць тому +14

    "Court her in court" is diabolical Jessie!

    • @nongab6640
      @nongab6640 Місяць тому

      Everything she says about them is pure diabolical work

  • @laser_focus7962
    @laser_focus7962 Місяць тому +8

    What a coincidence. Literally listened to this song last friday with my friend and we were DYING over lil jon aggressive ass verse

  • @shiz1246
    @shiz1246 Місяць тому +2

    DYYYYINGGGG at your lovers and friends re-enactment! You’re so right! His part was so awkward 😂

  • @missycocoa875
    @missycocoa875 Місяць тому +6

    Oh, wow!! Jessie these braids and the soft makeup looks amazing on you!♥️

  • @aishatibrahim8699
    @aishatibrahim8699 Місяць тому +11

    I just finished watching Gladiator 2, and he does have a few pecks here and there, but it makes sense because of the time they were in, and it was ROME BC, where kissing someone's hand, cheek, or lips was customs as part of the greeting and showing respect.

  • @lilydoxy
    @lilydoxy Місяць тому +17

    You are not wrong Jessie! We even do this for Haitian flag days. Ppl try to unite but everyone wants to be in charge. Tout moun vle fe chef!

  • @harpersworld6549
    @harpersworld6549 Місяць тому +11

    15:57 lollllllll he made the song 😂😂😂😂 I get in character when his part come on

    • @msfya1588
      @msfya1588 Місяць тому +2

      He ate it up 🤣🤣🤣

  • @Dawn.thedon
    @Dawn.thedon Місяць тому +17

    Perfect timing, just about to sit down and do some work, perfect background

  • @shevy80m
    @shevy80m Місяць тому +9

    Great Episode from Beginning to End! I love to hear your perspective on things! Plus you keeps it real! That's what us 🦀 do!!!

  • @sabrinaramsey5589
    @sabrinaramsey5589 Місяць тому +2

    Omg you are hilarious! Lil Jon was definitely trippin n we were eating it up 😂😂😂

  • @asiadunlap9768
    @asiadunlap9768 Місяць тому +3

    15:56 BABY when Jessie got to Lil Jon’s part on on lovers and friends I SCREAMED.. 😫😂😂😂

  • @lovelyanddemondadams8064
    @lovelyanddemondadams8064 Місяць тому +1

    As a single mother and a person who has worked in law enforcement and child protective services. I did a background check on my husband when we first started dating. And we dated for a year before he met my daughter. As a victim of SA, I just couldn't move forward with anyone without a background check, I didn't care the cost. My mom always says ppl show you their representative (even in marriage) you can know a person for years and not "know" they were capable of an act. NO "pop outs".

  • @PrettiestProblem
    @PrettiestProblem Місяць тому +9

    Screaming!!!!! Lovers and friends. We just went with it chile! 😂😂😂😂

  • @buki2006
    @buki2006 Місяць тому +12

    I get goosebumps and my eyes start to water when i see that clip.

  • @RukkyErifeta
    @RukkyErifeta Місяць тому +1

    You all need to give this woman her flowers! You are sooo intelligent Miss Ma’am!! My Lord! Also, just wanted to say and encourage, Jessie in organizing, things fall through all the time, or just don’t reach the level of impact we hope it to. You’ve just got to keep pitching, and Mobilizing and doing what you’re doing even here with your platform: spreading valuable information!❤

  • @superwomannx
    @superwomannx Місяць тому +6

    Jessie, I nearly spit out my food when you went over the lyrics to lover and friends 😂😂

  • @chanelmorgan
    @chanelmorgan Місяць тому +20

    Mike was paid NOT to knock him out. Think about. Mike took it easy on him.

    • @KyraKennedyHughes
      @KyraKennedyHughes Місяць тому +1

      Mike hands are registered as weapons Jake’s isn’t. He would’ve never been able to hit him with force without getting in trouble legally.

  • @C-inthelifeofCamri
    @C-inthelifeofCamri Місяць тому +8

    Thank you Jess!!!!! I am tired of the high / low functioning conversation as well. Thank you for speaking on everything you did in the episode.

  • @LexCATL
    @LexCATL Місяць тому +20

    That “Lovers and Friends” reaction 😂😂😂. Part of the fun nowadays is singing Lil Jon’s part extra hard 😂😂😂. Didn’t make any sense back then, but it’s part of the history and culture now!

    • @maxk8000
      @maxk8000 Місяць тому +4

      That was such a random thing but so funny. Low key, I think Lil Jon's part is for the city girls. Ludacris' verse is for the more demure girls.

  • @lgee9027
    @lgee9027 Місяць тому +40

    Ladies if you want a rich man become a RICH WOMAN!!!! Equally yoked!!! She was operating out of desperation 😮😮😢

    • @nataliesasha8216
      @nataliesasha8216 Місяць тому +2

      And was!

    • @jaquiramiunique1628
      @jaquiramiunique1628 Місяць тому +8

      THIS most good quality rich men want an equally yolked partner to build generational wealth with. Not someone to drain their pockets and reek of desperation and necessity. That is not attractive to any PERSON of quality man or woman

    • @sherondaness7505
      @sherondaness7505 Місяць тому +2

      ​@jaquiramiunique1628 in theory yes. In practice you'd be surprised, It's probably closer to 50/50 on that.

    • @jaquiramiunique1628
      @jaquiramiunique1628 Місяць тому +4

      @@sherondaness7505 from an anthropological and historical perspective riches has always been kept with the family. Most well of families would rather marry someone well off themselves or from a well off family as well. This is because they hang in the same crowds. Men with money are not going to low quality hang outs to pick up women with nothing unless they have nefarious intentions. They stick to their getaways, country clubs, and elite hangouts for a reason

    • @sherondaness7505
      @sherondaness7505 Місяць тому +1

      @jaquiramiunique1628 very true! However, I more modern times we see this is not the case (and this across races). Which is always odd to me because what you said just makes sense.

  • @ZelAB1
    @ZelAB1 Місяць тому +20

    CASTRATIONNNN

  • @Jazzluvslife
    @Jazzluvslife Місяць тому +7

    FINALLY!! YESSS….I’m tired too! Where that mess come from???? Everybody a damn life coach.

  • @WhatzHaute
    @WhatzHaute Місяць тому +6

    Jess, I'm with you 1000%. Saw her story on another channel that had me side eyeing her. I listened to both clips you highlighted in their entirety, had no idea who she was, never heard of her. She even bragged about how she got her sisters married in less than a year. All the while living a lie. BTW, I'd never heard of the other boxer either

  • @donnabohanon1570
    @donnabohanon1570 Місяць тому +6

    Thank you for making the pitch for an outstanding Haitian event! So sorry that it did not get the attention it deserved. It is and was a great idea! Congrantuations.

  • @opulenttinglesasmr789
    @opulenttinglesasmr789 Місяць тому +20

    Gurl, no one works harder than you! You are definitely inspiring. So proud of how dedicated you are to your craft. Keep shining, Jess.

  • @Thebiggest7303
    @Thebiggest7303 Місяць тому +2

    Oh, when you say you was a little girl wanting a moment like that you made me super teary-eyed you did this for all of us. Thank you so much that star-spangled banner was so beautiful. Please post it here on UA-cam.

  • @satob7690
    @satob7690 Місяць тому +4

    There need to be timestamps included to let people know when the title of the video will be discussed. Geez

  • @Chanellnbr5
    @Chanellnbr5 Місяць тому +2

    New here. The random singing while talking. I can’t 😂

  • @keviannaaa
    @keviannaaa Місяць тому +21

    JESSIE!!! 😂😂 ngl as a woman I like lil Jon verse on L&F. A man asking for consent is the sexiest thing they can do 😌🤭

  • @mjoshaway
    @mjoshaway Місяць тому +5

    Girl when you dissected Lovers and Friends 😅🤣😂

  • @iamcourtneyphillips1652
    @iamcourtneyphillips1652 Місяць тому +6

    17:15 😂😂😂😂 he had to put that Atlanta in it!

  • @NotThatDeep
    @NotThatDeep Місяць тому +8

    I just pray this lady didn’t get on the internet and lie about the whole ordeal so she could get custody and get full child support.

  • @khalifaferrell4712
    @khalifaferrell4712 Місяць тому +4

    Lmaoo lil Jon Part is CHAOTIC AF Such as good song tho

  • @LuvG0ddess
    @LuvG0ddess Місяць тому +2

    That Haka almost brought me to tears. You can feel the energy and emotion that was in that room.

  • @lindiw88etalabi22
    @lindiw88etalabi22 Місяць тому

    Girl love how you upheld your brothers and sister !!!!!! Kudos girl

  • @Miss24EE
    @Miss24EE Місяць тому +5

    Thank you!! Everyone needs to get a freaking job!! The desperation is absolutely insane!

  • @OsmanMShegow
    @OsmanMShegow Місяць тому +8

    46:35 - 46:44 some of these people need a presidential order that they need to be BANNED from ALL microphones 😂😂😂

  • @kengeBUtiful
    @kengeBUtiful Місяць тому +7

    Yes the Haka moves the spirit.