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  • @NarcSurvivor
    @NarcSurvivor Місяць тому +3

    I have used BetterHelp myself and I have found it to be very effective.
    BetterHelp is an online portal that provides direct-to-consumer access to behavioral health services. The online counseling and therapy services are provided through web-based interaction as well as phone and text communication.
    BetterHelp costs £140 a month - which gives you 4 live sessions a month and unlimited messaging in between sessions, as well as access to the group therapy webinars that get updated each week.
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    You can sign up for the BetterHelp Online Counselling service here - betterhelp.com/narcsurvivor
    By using this link you will be supporting the Narc Survivor community.

  • @kerstitekko2257
    @kerstitekko2257 Місяць тому +6

    They gave abuse, we gave everything. We can blame our parents initially.

  • @Loris88Angels
    @Loris88Angels Місяць тому +9

    Thank you for helping me keep all this BS in perspective

    • @NarcSurvivor
      @NarcSurvivor Місяць тому +1

      Glad to help. If you need more support, you can book a call with me here - www.narcsurvivor.co.uk/book-online

  • @missta1820
    @missta1820 Місяць тому +6

    I was give give give.
    He was take take take.
    Just a waste of time.
    It's all over now.

  • @YankeeTomato
    @YankeeTomato Місяць тому +3

    Were you a fly in my house? Exactly, everything you said exactly. My prayers were answered: he's somebody else's problem right now because of course he can't change his nappies by himself.

  • @iambella081
    @iambella081 Місяць тому +9

    Very detailed description of what goes on in their minds. Thank you for posting your videos. They provide light and direction out of a dark and confusing maze in my mind. I put 20 years in and everything that you were saying is 100% true.

    • @YankeeTomato
      @YankeeTomato Місяць тому +2

      Absolutely

    • @NarcSurvivor
      @NarcSurvivor Місяць тому +1

      Thanks for watching! If you need more support, you can book a call with me here - www.narcsurvivor.co.uk/book-online

    • @user-hf2if7mi3p
      @user-hf2if7mi3p Місяць тому

      No Contact is what you need to do

  • @user-hf2if7mi3p
    @user-hf2if7mi3p Місяць тому +5

    28 yrs I put up with him. I survived what would kill you. God Bless you for your powerful insight 🙏

    • @user-hf2if7mi3p
      @user-hf2if7mi3p Місяць тому +3

      @kerstitekko2257 I seen him get his KARMA. He married so.e one a yr after I left him. They were married 3 yrs. She took off. Smart woman

    • @kerstitekko2257
      @kerstitekko2257 22 дні тому

      Yes, exactly. I was played. My father was also narc. I have always been Cinderella.

    • @kerstitekko2257
      @kerstitekko2257 22 дні тому +1

      He said in the beginning that woman cheated on him and he gave her money. But why he lived with my money?i was so drained everyday. I am much poorer and he gathered info to get even more. He mentioned about standards. I had before those leeches. I have been much successful alone. I have lost hundreds of thousands too. I get nothing, too literally nothing. Abuse.i think how those ugly monsters were my proximity. I am worth more than this, i despise those abusers.i hope karma is coming to visit narcs. Thank you. Last leech andd previous were psychos.

    • @kerstitekko2257
      @kerstitekko2257 22 дні тому

      My level is high. I am very loving person.

    • @kerstitekko2257
      @kerstitekko2257 22 дні тому

      He had the audacity to claim i have ruuned si many peoples lives, my mother told me that too. In fact i have sacrificed myself and suffered a lot. Very much.

  • @kerstitekko2257
    @kerstitekko2257 Місяць тому +1

    You are powerful person for spreading this info to the world. I had no idea these women exist.

  • @seanwagner7426
    @seanwagner7426 Місяць тому

    In all honesty these people are a blessing. I'm not saying what they do is right it's def not. However when you use their actions to build yourself up they will literally trigger you into blessing after blessing. Focus on healing the darkness inside that attracted this type of person into your reality. I know it hurts turn that pain into purpose and don't reach back for anyone. It's time to reach new levels!! Let's get this shift!

  • @kerstitekko2257
    @kerstitekko2257 Місяць тому +1

    ❤❤I am peaceful, helpful person, i know i am. Last narc smeared me and played the victim.

  • @Stormy624
    @Stormy624 Місяць тому +2

    Incredible video!! Thank you.❤ It's actually frightening how you know and articulate exactly what happened.

  • @Batazarjudah
    @Batazarjudah Місяць тому +4

    Great Job💯

  • @MichelleSmith-td8gk
    @MichelleSmith-td8gk Місяць тому +3

    Very helpful I live with 1 and he divorced me last yr
    I'm doing well now Thank GOD 4 Jesús
    Thank u Lord 4 taking out of this Narcissist life
    Only GOD cud help him

  • @kerstitekko2257
    @kerstitekko2257 Місяць тому +2

    He started a new company after living off of me and abusing, ruining my life for 3 years and now i saw he started a new business. But whos money? He strategically wanted to take all i have. I lost my health. I see sending him to prison only thing i would be happy about.

  • @kerstitekko2257
    @kerstitekko2257 Місяць тому +1

    That is exactly what happened. I am now made perpetrator. After losing 3 years already. They are sick or is it deliberate? I have an eerie feeling he think only of himself, si i want to send him a prison, is it possible? He searched for courts. Vile, vile, today i thought i hate him.

  • @amwatkins443
    @amwatkins443 15 днів тому +1

    Bro! I love the content. Your knowledge, style, and delivery are one of a kind. However, pls bring the music back!!!🙏🏽

  • @fosterjanine5112
    @fosterjanine5112 Місяць тому

    Narc Survivor The Narcissist needs me for approval and validation because they can't survive on their own because they are not independent and they are like a child in an adult's body! They have no value so they can't contribute anything. The false self isn't real! As far as I am concerned I can't stand someone who doesn't take accountability for their actions but blames people when things go wrong. They are a liability so it is not a coincidence they are a hateful, jealous, envious person. I have always been independent so I don't like asking for help unless I don't have a choice.

  • @ElizabethSeiden-lg6mj
    @ElizabethSeiden-lg6mj 27 днів тому

    My narc dad turned my brother into a narcissist too! I want to get help from him but his wife is toxic!

  • @Kukucakez
    @Kukucakez Місяць тому +4

    My narc ex gf has a new man since we broke up sept 2021… i stopped txting long time now and somebody keeps msging
    Me from calling apps looking for information. May 16 we spoke finally and I guess it was behind her mans back. We settled some old confusions but now i feel like she put me backwards emotionally yet again.. i dont like this feeling

  • @ROXFRANCES
    @ROXFRANCES Місяць тому +5

    they are energy vampires

    • @carolynforge8586
      @carolynforge8586 Місяць тому +4

      Period because a demon can't generate their own. That's why they can't live without a scapegoat, punching bag and source of supply.

  • @nne81601
    @nne81601 7 днів тому

    It felt like living with a room mate only.......no connection ....in the end...

  • @pixelnazgul
    @pixelnazgul Місяць тому +1

    This all starts with women, not wanting to be help up to a standart of lawfulness which they need to follow. Or women making themselves young or fair for their own sake, where it's just a false promise of something, that's never going to happen for anyone, but keeps promissing itself endlessly anyway (to gain covfefes).

  • @kerstitekko2257
    @kerstitekko2257 Місяць тому

    Can we send them to prison? My father was the same and last narc. He started a business again after leeching of my family.so they are entitled to others things. I say i really despise that creature. I said i hate him to his face in the end. I feel rage today because narcs have ruined my life and knock on effect. He has ruined 200 womens life, 200 women, he said

  • @kerstitekko2257
    @kerstitekko2257 22 дні тому

    I have watched your videos much lately because you talk clearly and understandably. I fall for another narc, besides my father, but last one is worse. More grandiose and violent. I can say if he send me to courts, i plan to win. I have advocat. He will not get more money. Like i have wroted before, i am tempted to pepperspray him😂😂😂, but i can not i am afraid.

    • @Lolcoca
      @Lolcoca 21 день тому +1

      You are really strong than you think ! 🤍🤍

  • @kerstitekko2257
    @kerstitekko2257 21 день тому

    ❤Thank you. Last narc is yuk.,yuk,ugly parasite, he said i am that. I wasted 50 000 and energy bank, left in bed for a year when i was with him, i had no energy, first 25 with my parents also. Last narc is psychopatic. I was also psychically abused, my parents were not at least psychically violent.

    • @Lolcoca
      @Lolcoca 21 день тому +1

      And remember the way you stay in position of victim, the more you suffering ! The more you repeat that in your mind and the more you suffering !
      Move on ! Forgive yourself because you need peace not because the person deserve it ! It’s two different things ! After that Focus on You !
      You need happiness and peace in your life everyday ! 🤍🤍🤍 That’s the Key !
      I send you all my love 🤍🤍

    • @kerstitekko2257
      @kerstitekko2257 21 день тому

      ​@@Lolcoca❤thank you very much for your kind words. Many many blessings to you on your journey too. I am not victim mindset but i assess what has happened.