Unexpected pregnancy was the best thing that ever happened to me | Trying For Baby: My Journey

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  • Опубліковано 30 вер 2024
  • “It was months that I felt guilty. I thought it would have some kind of influence on the kind of mom I would become.”
    In partnership with First Response
    Nikita Stanley, co-founder of the blog The Rebel Mama, has always been a planner. Even though getting pregnant at 25 wasn't what she had envisioned for her life, the role of Mom turned out to be the greatest gift she could've ever received.
    What was your pregnancy journey like?
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 42

  • @spacemermaid1111
    @spacemermaid1111 2 роки тому +77

    Im 26 feeling 16 and pregnant. Im scared and can’t stop crying

    • @LimpestBizkit
      @LimpestBizkit Рік тому +10

      Me right now!

    • @sofilaticher
      @sofilaticher Рік тому +1

      @@LimpestBizkit how are you doing?

    • @Flanvenus
      @Flanvenus 6 місяців тому +1

      I'm curious, how did it go now?

    • @spacemermaid1111
      @spacemermaid1111 6 місяців тому +14

      @@Flanvenus UPDATE: She’s almost 1 and a half. Best feeling in the world, as someone who couldn’t find the point to life before, this baby gave life meaning in a way that’s inexplicable with words. The love you feel for your child is like the answers to so many questions you never thought you’d get. It’s unexplainable for real. Pregnancy sucked, labor did too. It was rough! 26 hrs in labor and 2 hrs and 15 min pushing with complications, but we all made it ok. Don’t let society let you feel like a kid is too much, or you need to be rich to have one. All bs. The cave babies did just find with limited resources. There’s always a way. ♾️ out of 10 for sure!!! Idk what to say, there aren’t enough words, or words that even exist to explain it. Just the best love 💕

    • @zayraroa
      @zayraroa 6 місяців тому

      same 😢

  • @veejewl__
    @veejewl__ Місяць тому +4

    I am 27 but the time i realized i was pregnant i got shocked .......the moment my man was aware he was happy later he change out everything making me feel insecure .......i am not even financially stable ....i still wonder what will happen ...but God knows it all .

  • @AlexaHolcombe
    @AlexaHolcombe 3 роки тому +18

    This is what I needed to hear. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for sharing your story 🤍

  • @maddyking4154
    @maddyking4154 2 роки тому +21

    I'm 24 an unexpected pregnant, nearing 8 weeks now. I still can't decide what to do. I'm in a stable relationship, but me and my partner were planning to move away to Canada on a working holiday visa in 6 months - my sister lives there and I haven't seen her for 5 years. It was a plan to get away and travel a bit whilst we're still young enough with the freedom of no kids and no house to be tied down to. And now I'm pregnant and feel like I have to decide between really growing up if I am to be a mother, ditching our plans to move away, or to deal with having an abortion. I am so torn.

    • @georgie4792
      @georgie4792 Рік тому +7

      In your same position right now I am 24. Me and my boyfriend have a lot of travelling plans coming up. I am currently 7 weeks pregnant and am so torn on what to do. A baby was not in our plans right now. The thought of an abortion seems awful it makes me feel guilty and selfish but deep down I don’t feel ready to be a mother. I feel so lost. I’ve know for 10 days and I still don’t have an answer on what to do.

    • @SportsSenpai
      @SportsSenpai Рік тому

      @@georgie4792 in the same situation with my girlfriend. Just know your not alone

    • @alehernandez7520
      @alehernandez7520 11 місяців тому

      What did you decide on? I’m in the same position

    • @ssadaf3404
      @ssadaf3404 9 місяців тому

      ​@@georgie4792how was your delivery?? And how was your experience??

    • @Aisha-qf5wy
      @Aisha-qf5wy 3 місяці тому

      Hi so how is it going now? Being a mother having the baby

  • @louiselarge
    @louiselarge 2 місяці тому +3

    I’m 26 and pregnant and doing it all alone, didn’t want a kid especially now or on my own I still feel like a kid myself! I miss not being pregnant, when I felt free 😢

  • @paolanamuncura8879
    @paolanamuncura8879 6 місяців тому +3

    She is rich and has a husband

  • @indudayadra213
    @indudayadra213 Рік тому +8

    I am 27 and Im 5 days late..I did't take the pregnency test yet. This is exactly what I needed to hear 🥺❤

  • @lauramarin211
    @lauramarin211 5 років тому +5

    Oh my god... it did happened just he same when i got pregnant and i do feel the same as i am only 7 towards 8th week. I don't think I could have said it better. I think i am a bad mom just because I didn't feel the excitement.. and yes, this pregnancy wasn't really expected.. plus i still have worries about miscarrying, because in the meantime i fell in love with idea, just because i took the emergency pill. I had an eco just as i was 5 weeks pregnant and the Dr. said that it is more than fine. It seems that the pill was taken few days before i ovulated.. so the pill had nothing to do.. I know is to much exposure on online about it.. but i can't help it to not fell exactly like you said.. Hopping that the feelings are going to show up more and more intense. Thank you for sharing your experience. God bless mommy. And dads 😊❤

    • @peachybreezeslime9450
      @peachybreezeslime9450 5 років тому +2

      I wish the best for you!💓 and i hope you have a safe deliverance! And i think its great your also sharing your story

    • @stronggirlsherni8036
      @stronggirlsherni8036 Рік тому +1

      I have same story..i also take emergency pill ...not worked...n i am 6 week pragnant...n i am not ready...feel guilty n also scared about it

  • @seekingeudaimonia6884
    @seekingeudaimonia6884 5 років тому +8

    They make it seem like this randomly happened to someone with no experience or didn’t want kids.
    She is already a mom, she knows how it goes, she has all the experience and the age difference between them is small.
    Clickbaited again!

    • @cluelessangel5292
      @cluelessangel5292 2 місяці тому

      I'm most certain she talked about her 1st child...

  • @noelled.1644
    @noelled.1644 Рік тому +1

    Thank you, this is actually helping so much!

  • @rachael504
    @rachael504 5 років тому +9

    I had my tubes tied...I'm 26...never had a desire to reproduce and give up my body time and life for anyone besides my husband. I dont need kids...I have fufillment in the career I have and the life I get live.

  • @kindlefire1990
    @kindlefire1990 4 місяці тому

    Im 21. its too soon to take a test the waiting to know for sure is hard

  • @ricardodesouza3370
    @ricardodesouza3370 5 місяців тому

    I needed to hear this, 25 and pregnant, thank you ❤

  • @jet5973
    @jet5973 Рік тому

    I am afraid 😢 i loved this though gave me hope ❤

  • @carol-annemartinalolafrase8473
    @carol-annemartinalolafrase8473 5 років тому +3

    I'm 28 still no kids keep getting asked when are u gonna have kids when I'm ready and find the right person lol all be in my 30s for sure most likely 31 to 36 lol

    • @LimpestBizkit
      @LimpestBizkit Рік тому +1

      I’m 28 and it just happened for me! I always felt like it would never happen

  • @nicholasheimer4888
    @nicholasheimer4888 Рік тому

    Thank you.

  • @SajiSNairNair-tu9dk
    @SajiSNairNair-tu9dk 2 місяці тому

    😯👉😃🙆🏃🕵️

  • @Heyyhhhhh
    @Heyyhhhhh Рік тому

    Best feeling😭🫶🏾

  • @sdnvideotube2485
    @sdnvideotube2485 Рік тому

    This is my story