If You Want More Respect Than 99% Of Men, Speak Like This
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Joe Rogan is so good at conversation that he just got $100,000,000 to license his podcast to Spotify. A big part of Joe’s success comes from his ability to command respect from a broad range of people. From fighters to movie stars to academics.
Which is why in this video we will go over 4 things you can do to command more respect in conversation.
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0:47 - #1: The way he speaks.
1:53 - #2: He does not allow people to derail him, if he has something important to say.
5:01 - #3: Joe will share his honest thoughts, even if people don’t like them.
8:50 - #4: Joe actively seeks to break the echo chamber.
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"Jamie, pull up that clip of Charisma on Command talking about me"
-slow clap-
i need to see that happen
“Now emphasize me stressing the need for DMT”
@@mat7083 lmfaooo they should've included one of those clips in this video
I am sad that I can give only 1 upthumb for this.
Joe's conversational skills have improved tremendously. He became less attached and doesn't get angry as much as he used to. His second podcast with Crowder proves how good he is at rekindling relationships.
*have
The first one was really bad, Crowder probably shat himself a bit.
Amando Abreu I doubt that. He seemed to hold his ground pretty well in that argument whether you believe he actually “won” or not.
Crowder 🤢
@@mackenziebenedict8403 During, for sure, but after getting handled by a pro MMA fighter like that he was probably happy the 2nd exists. When I first saw the video I thought I was gonna end up losing respect for him, which wasn't the case at all, and Joe also redeemed himself with interview number 2, great to see adults acting like adults.
1.
- Do not rush.
- Emphasis important words.
- Use pauses between words to hold attention
- Remove the fear of losing sb’s interests or getting cut off -> say effortlessly -> finish your thought
2.
- Not allow others to derail u from saying something important (1st interruption)
- If sb repeatedly interrupts you, call it out while remaining calm (no yelling)
- If sb just messes around, allow them to interrupt
- (Not direct way) Pause! Agree. Continue your own thought
3.
Share your honest thoughts even if pp might not like them (save your self-esteem)
- your own motivations for doing things (even if u don’t like it)
- call people out on their bad behavior (then empathize it by your story. I’m not perfect)
- Share your opinion on topics you feel passionate about (politics, religion)
+ Proactively address your potential misunderstandings. Answer their objections
4.
Be more interested in finding the truth than being right
- be willing to consider alternative opinions
👍🏼👍🏼
thanks for saving me 12 mins
Who is sb
Qpo😊po 5:24 😅p😮
3. you've got it switched
Sometimes my pp thoughts might be thinking
"Have a beer have a girl what could go wrong" but my mind says "No thats a bad idea"
The next day I wake up next to Nik avacados sister!
My greatest takeaway from this video is the fact that when you honestly voice out what you think, you become a magnet: people that resonate with what you’re saying and believe in your values will come closer to you while those that don’t believe in what you have to say will go away from you. This is such an important thing to realise because if you don’t do this, you become a people pleaser and basically have no personality of your own. As a result, when you don’t have an authentic and interesting personality, people don’t find you interesting and hence you don’t build long-lasting healthy relationships with people of same interests and values as you and your life is boring as hell.
Thank you brother. This is the message I needed to hear today.
Wow that is an amazing summary
dude deadass this is facts
You don’t voice OUT (or in) but “voice an opinion”
Perfect.
I think Joe's greatest quality is his thirst for knowledge and for understanding other people's point of view. Even when he might disagree with them.
100% it’s the psychedelics
@@waltersobchak7039 lol
Exact opposite of Brenda shuab
Those who look for knowledge are the best
Rule 9. Assume that the person you are listening to might know something you don't
4 ways to command more respect in conversation
1. Do not rush. Place emphasis on important words. Use pauses between words to hold attention
*avoid fear that you won't get to finish your thought if you make pauses
2. Do not allow other people to derail you from saying something important
*If someone repeatedly interrupts you call it out while remaining calm
*Pause, agree, continue your original thought
*acknowledge what is being said then return to completing your point
3. Share your honest thoughts even if you know some people might not like them
*Three areas of proactive honesty that instantly gets more people to like you:
A - Your own motivations for doing things (people pretend to be more charitable, hide money as motivations etc.)
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B - Call people out on their behavior (explaining why you're not perfect either after is a great way to earn respect for your honesty and help maintain your relationship with the person you called out
);
C - Share your opinions on topics you feel passionate about (Joe shares his on the two no-go topics on polite society: politics and religion) (even if he knows he will get backlash about it. Example: transgender MMA fighter opinion)
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4. Be more interested in finding the truth than being right (be willing to consider alternative opinions)
Thanks!
Thank you!
Thank you 😊
Excellent..! 🔥📝🔥
Thanks :)
Damn. This video is reminding me how important it is to stay cool, calm, and collected when confronting someone. Raising my voice and speaking too quickly is usually followed by an argument. I usually mean what I say but don't say what I mean. Remembering to slow down will help me choose my words more wisely.
It's usually in your tone. Before it happens. Suddenly accent becomes sharp. That void of energy that surrounds you. If want me to point some characteristics.
Don't get too attached to ANYONE. if their a best friend?? Their only best friend for so long. And dumped again.
Sometimes though there sad truths need to admit to. The respects lost due to loss. Remains invisible. So need to work on that. If you've suffered lost then youve suffered respect/recognition because of that.
Increase your energy/vibe. Perhaps diplomacy is best way to discharge any unfortunate vibes. Perhaps if someone is negative, then you need to parry that (or inverse mirror that with positive).
Time to grow up. And realise friend have is just a friend. It's time to let them go too.
I LOVED the way he said “if we’re going to continue having a discussion, we can’t keep talking over each other”. The PERFECT way to word it that it gets the point across without full finger pointing and causing offense 🙌🏻. I’m so glad that example was used here!!!
First time really listening to him, and I caught that exchange. Immediately made me realize that holy crap… he’s not just some hunter/fighter tool bag.. he’s incredibly emotionally mature. He gained a new fan in me, that’s for sure. Glad I’m not the only one who also caught that little gem in him!
Loooove Joe Rogan
Mastering others is strength. Mastering yourself is true power.
- Lao Tzu
This... this is my new favourite quote.
*Remaining calm is a power move. I've even read studies that have found most women (generally speaking, of course) find calm men more attractive than reactive men.*
True
Yeah nothing is less attractive or commanding than a high-strung Kevin Hart, Joe Pesci type. Like an annoying little mosquito.
@@user-zx7zr1jn4z Lol! 😂😂
I know you're being serious, but you're so right and the way you stated that just cracked me up!
In other words, be a stoned squirrel
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Yes, Joe is not a non interuptable machine. His standout characteristic is he allows his guests to talk, and his own, rare, interuptions are excellent observations and questions that throw the ball back to his guest and enrich the interview. That's what makes him such a great broadcaster imo
How did all that charisma end up in one person? I dream of being capable of holding his attention for a single convo.
@@janetwhite7786 Practice, courtesy and listening. Plus the fact Joe has worked as a sports announcer really lets him hammer his persona into a well forged likeable down to earth "I hear you buddy" kind of guy.
Coz his agenda consists of DMT, Whiskey, Hunting, Aliens and UFC. 😂
I like him so much I named my second son Rogan. He’s changed the way I talk to people, the way I measure success, and how I treat others. All in a positive way ❤
Thank you Joe Rogan
I named my sons T1, T2, and T3 and they have been brutally trained to curb stomp Joe Rogan or Rogans in general. Vote Trump!
@@user-wc3je7mq2x😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
Yeah I'm sure you named your son Rogan you f****** bot.
One of Joe Rogan's best qualities is that he is very open minded and willing to listen to others. He really knows how to make people feel like the most important person in the room.
Above AMBITION- Self and Professional Mastery wait wait. Depending on the guest, he’ll play the political fence. Dan Pena called him out on that.
JRE got me thru quarantine
Agreed. If more people had those qualities, America wouldn’t be so starkly divided.
he knows how to act and listen without going crazy...
He's also more than willing to lie for money. Total sell-out.
Joe is the person on the Internet today or in the public eye, most taken out of context.
At the same time too many people hang on to his every word instead of learning for the example of wanting to seek truth, think critically, and be willing to change your mind.
@Stone Wolf and other big words. Coming to a theater near you.
Exactly
Hey I’ve seen some of your videos
Sadly. This video is not about the content of joe, but the delivery of his words.
Gy_uuu
Something that has helped me a lot with my confidence is just being 100% honest about everything you say. That just sort of clicked with me and I feel loads better
Joes maturity and lack of ignorance while talking to people is top tier because he shows respect first. He has his ego in check. This video has great point and great advise. Having your ego in check and being open minded makes him a power house of a person.
Seriously? This is what thousands of journalists do every single day.
@@bullcrap9409 be openminded??? Sure
Absolutely love Joe Rogan's podcast. His ability to adapt to his guest's way of thinking and understand them is highly admirable, usually making for great discussion.
I hate that it's so long. I wish he made then 1 hour or less. I don't have enough free time to listen to something for 4 hours and then again the next day
Then he's probably read the book "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie, which I have too and strongly recommend :)
@@JoelAlexander1 use the acceleration option
@@rafaelferes4362 still won't be able to get a 4 hour podcast into the space of an hour
@@JoelAlexander1 Yes. But again, you wouldn't have as nearly as much info within it. It's needed to pick and choose the best podcasts and ignore those with comedians and fighters
I have always tried my best to make it clear that "I want to be wrong, please tell me when I'm wrong. I will listen, I will do my best to understand." because i take more pride in my ability to listen than in my ability to be right. My own satisfaction for winning an argument will always pale in comparison to my need for truth. This is how i feel people should be, even if we disagree with each other.
Well said
Nice words.
So here's a truth for your need: you sound cringy af lol
Everyones different. If you feel the need to judge and insult you could be spending your time better, no one cares, it doesn't work.
That compliment from Jordan Peterson was bloody excellent :-)
It was a backhanded compliment.
@Shy Brotha Speaks how?
@@gogogadgetgore he said he doesn't come off as a very smart person or something lol.
@@johan_liebert2385 he literally said the exact opposite of what you are claiming.
Rogan has shown me the exact method to surrendering my pride and opening my eyes and heart to acknowledge and understand people with beliefs that I feel were much easier for me to just disagree with. The world is lucky to have him.
The fact that Joe reguarly gives his own take on wide variety of stuff and is still really liked by the left and right is a huge credit to him as a person.
Troy liberals probably aren’t too keen. The left is probably much more likely to like him due to his advocation of Bernie Sanders.
That’s funny because I’ve always held the perception that neither left nor right like him.
He has Gavin McGuinness on and he’s an “alt right meathead” in the comments
Next day he’ll have Bernie Sanders on and the comments accuse him of being “leftist socialist”
Usually stuffing the barbs in as a pseudo middle name.
That’s when I realized I appreciated his stances because he’d managed to piss off both sides of the aisle.
Anyone with common sense is generally liked by all parties. It's the illogical extremists that cast aspersions, "cancel", and despise those people. Joe has common sense.
how things have changed... funny how the left is after him now even though he's on the left. we love to eat our own it seems
I cant be the only one who canned myself when that guy tried to interrupt WHILE he was telling that story about the stand up comedian being interrupted... "Not to be interrupted by a MORON..."
Yeah I loved that part :-)
ikr, golden
Let me stop ya right there.
It's easier to be blunt and honest when you're a professionally trained fighter.
😂 true
That’s why everyone should know martial arts it teaches discipline, respect and confidence.
He's just a straight forward guy that is willing to learn more through other peoples knowledge. The way he interrupts a guess talking on his podcast is not the kind that'll make u say " stop interrupting and let them talk". It only shows how interested he is to what they are saying rather than cutting them bcs he's got something to say.
Yup he has excellent people skills, it's not really a superpower, it's just practice.
ive always felt that i interrupt. but i do it with saying sorry for interrupting and give my thoughts on the topic because i genuinely care and want to hear about what they think about what their opinion on my thoughts are. I share about my life cause i always have interest in peoples lifes but people think its to be nosy and im not its genuine. i knoelw when people are genuine cause they dont feel offended and can have normal conversation. the people that think you are being nosy is cause thats what they do.
I usually just kick down the door and throw the first person I see onto the table.
But it looks like there is another way to command respect. hmmm who knew.
They usually say that "acting is the way of proving himself", but words also do the same effect.
I prefer your method
Fear isn't respect :)
Lol dude you so on point with this comment
Well well well, look at Mr. Badass over here
I had watched nearly every Rogan podcast there was. Hours and hours of just listening and learning. I was able to take myself out of a dark place but I had a dream one night that I was in a helicopter and Joe was the pilot. The helicopter was mine but as we were in the air I realized he wasn't a pilot. After thinking about that a while I realized that role models and influences are good but you have to fly your chopper. Good luck friends!
What is the meaning
*Get to the choppa*
@@MJafro it’s good to have remodels but remember to stay true and be yourself. It’s their knowledge and logic you want to incorporate not their image. You have to live YOUR life (fly your own chopper)
You probably knew this already but I like op’s comment so imma leave this for the passerby-ers
@@-TeaParty- OverPowered comment? Wtf
@@ytisfulloffreaks4189 op as in original poster not overpowered. gotta hop off the servers once in a while i feel u 😂
Part of his "deep rooted confidence" is that he has always been the toughest or one of the toughest guys in the room. He was a national champion level wrestler at a young age. You have to be a bad dude to perform at that level. As an adult he's trained in MMA... He can say things that would get others knocked out or attempted to be knocked out. Now he has fame and fortune which adds to his dominance of his guests. He is great at what he does though.
Life is not a movie! Loose the fear and miracles start to happen.
Joe is brilliant socially, so much to learn from him...for a start, hes instantly likeable. Which not all of us are. Very good social skills.
The auto-generated captions on this video are hilarious 😂
Super crazy
@@moshirofumamoto5820 b,,b,,,
Somehow the Black pearl was brought up...as well as something about Tiffany...email your purpose etc 😂🤣
Yoooo that made my night
Alright so “the way he looks and his fame” = “translate and past” this was hilarious....
Like you guys have said previously about Rogan, “He believes the social value of honest conflict is greater than the social value of dishonest harmony.”
I completely agree. An open and honest rebuke is better than a fake smile any day.
One of, if not the best, interviewers of our time.
this was a really good video. great examples, no click bait title, just bravo sir. this is the kind of content and channel we should support. 🙌💯
It is Joe’s ability to speak on a level playing playing field and show equal respect that I find most admirable.
5:40 "what your doing is" what ?
Peterson sounds like someone immitating Peterson.
:D
Captain Sinbad wants to know your location
It depends on what you mean by that :P
You could hear Joe's hard on ripping open his pants' fabric when Jordan Peterson began to rain praise all over him!
Samir Shrestha well that’s how we all learn; by copying from the best and making it our own
I've read that men would rather be respected than loved. A lot of women don't realize that.
Years ago, Joe was a _comedian,_ of all things, and then a bit actor in the TV show "News Radio," playing a somewhat questionable station engineer. Great show. So the fact that he now has the most popular (and highest paid) podcast in the world (or at least in the US), absolutely blows my mind. I still have a hard time taking Joe seriously, even though he's obviously someone TO take seriously. But like this video says, he's extremely intelligent, well-read, understands his audience, isn't afraid to ask hard-hitting questions, or call out someone when needed. And for that he should be highly commended.
*Hands down, Joe is just crushing it* 😉
Wtf ur everywhere
Epi IK righy
@@epsilon3821 That means, you are also everywhere to know that he is everywhere... Lol🤣😂
Definitely
@@epsilon3821 never seen him comment before
I love it "Hold on a second man, for real"
This is a really good episode. Highly useful. Was explaining on how you don't have to be a big scary intimidating person to be dominant. You just have to be smarter and more prepared. Martial arts do help a lot. The more I've trained, the less likely fights have become. Most shitbags want to bully people who cannot stand up for themselves at all, if you can demonstrate you are gonna be hard to hurt, and the other person is putting themself at an extreme risk, generally the other person will back down. I'm a small person, and had to develop my body mind and soul, but I've been successful at every near fight I've been in over the past several years. All the events were people taking advantage of a community or individual. It's also good to network with your people so you have people to back you up if necessary. Be kind, but don't be a wuss bag.
Meh a gun makes anyone easy to hurt
@@recluseauhermitticus2033 if you want to be a lifer sure
Not being confident is bad, but being over-confident is even worse.
The way to hold attention of listeners during a conversation is not only through mannerisms, but also through depth and importance of the information.
If you have nothing to say, yet are talking, don't expect people to put much effort into listening to you.
@@YanaNova lmao i recognized you from the carnivore facebook group!
@@2girls1pc17 Oh! 😁😁😄 The world is small online, isn't it? 😀 Good photogenic memory!
@Anthony Okeiyi 😅😅 Hello Tony, online friend!
No, Ive witnessed many people talking false things but manipulating people into believing it. Way of saying things is important. Behavior too. Pay attention to subtle details.
I found this extremely helpful. Might I add, I used to only like when Charlie did videos, because he came across a lot more 'charismatic', but you Ben did such a great job I took a while knowing it was even you! Your own voice has gotten a lot more confident, calm, composed, and commanding. Way to go practicing what you preach!
This is probably the most useful, thick Charisma on Command episode there is. Joe is the perfect subject; I only realize now that the hours of episodes I've enjoyed had less to do with the guest or content of the day, but with a desire to expose myself to someone who is so masterful in this way - being firm yet respectful, even in disagreement. We absorb that to which we surround ourselves; media is food for the mind. Be healthy
I diet on quality cuts of UA-cam like Joe Rogan
I'm a skinny guy, not trained at all and i'll probably get beaten if someone fight me... but i never had to fight, this thing really work. Be confident you are a peacefull and determined unbreakable rock.
I discovered Joe several years ago, and found his conversations deeply engaging. I'd be painting or working on a course outline, and his breezy talks with interesting points of view, were the perfect accompaniment to my state of mind. I may not have agreed with everything he said, but he made sense.
I paint while listening to this kind of stuff too!
Joe's human just like anyone of us. He mostly has good days, but once in a while he would get defensive or would even try to put the other person down; and when you've literally interacted with thousands of people, that's bound to happen.
Price you pay. It's worth paying.
Thank you charisma on command. This video and your tips helped me to peacefully end a conflict with others.
As an adult, this is the way I talk with people. However, it is very difficult to get a point across in my situation. I work in a rehab dealing with addiction issues. I would say 80% of these adults have serious ADD and are completely self-absorbed, almost like babies. When I calmly throw down facts and knowledge there's almost like a silence, like nobody can relate. I've been studying this whole thing but, it's not that much different in 'normal' society. Stay calm, state facts, be honest and speak from the heart even if you'll regret it, relate if you can, argue if necessary, take that hit graciously, but always respect their point of view. It doesn't work all the time but it's the way I transmit... And if it's utterly hopeless and you're just being freight trained then just walk away, and let the babies get their way.
Honestly, it sounds like you’re the one who is self absorbed and “like a baby” and shouldn’t be working in a rehab facility if you’re going to belittle people who struggle.
They need to go into labor camp, that will change their self-centered ways quick fast
Joe deserves what he has. He is a bloody good man.
Joe Rogan and Russell Brand. My two favs; politically i'm not as liberal (in the best sense of that word). I love that they stay true to themselves and do it without the disrespect seen so often in others. I never feel "sneered at"; who knew that wd come to be such a valuable asset? Sane voices in insane times.
i originally found this channel when i felt a lot of lack in my life. since then its been insane the up and downs events and stagnations of my life, but i really think trying to control your life more ends up being a hindrance. i still really respect this channel for helping people to learn what they think might better themselves but for me, i had to accept i just wasn't the person i wanted before i could move on to better things. i think life improvement is much more of a spiritual journey rather than a learning of techniques journey like these videos. i love you all guys keep on searching for whats right and meaningful. peace
agreed
Doesnt sound like a bad viewpoint to me even though i dont completely agree
You can completely control WHO you are. That stems to influence everything, that you touch, and how you perceive it. These are superficial tactics, that are ultimately not important compared to your Essence as a human being
@@ronaldinhoisfat i don't know if you can completely control who you are, maybe to some extent you can, but i don't really think so. However, i think you can completely control (or learn to) how you react to EVERYTHING (even, ofc, who you are), and i think that's the real game changer. This is my opinion obviously.
The only "recipe for happiness" is God. The rest is illusion, '' people loving you '', '' women answering your messages '', '' success '', '' respect ''. And one day everything disappears ...
Incredible analysis--spot on. I always feel like Joe needs to interview himself--one of the most amazing people by far, not to mention his knowledge about anything and everything is uncanny--dude has an incredible work ethic. . .still works for the UFC, still managers to read a ton, still manages to stay up to date on current events, all while knowing so much about his guests. Dude is a work horse.
Always loved Joe's sense of comedic timing, I'm referring to his character on News Radio. When I first heard that he was an avid MMA fighter, I wasn't too surprised, cause even doing comedy, he came off as a BadAss.
Then watching how he handled himself as the host of Fear Factor, dealing with the variety of contestants, while mostly keeping his cool, you could see he knows something about disapline.
I've watched/listened to quit a few of his podcasts and found each one thought prevoking. Like how he speaks his mind.🤔😆🧠💖✨
Man, I bet that you had to endure negative reaction from people who where used to Charlie's voice. I was one of these people. But when I let that go and just watched the videos, I found out that you're just as good or even better than Charlie. Keep up the good work
Yeah being the “new guy” isn’t always easy. Thank you for writing this, it means a lot to me :-)
Did Charlie stop making these videos or something?
@@arc4859 I think he did the last one. I think Ben is that friend Charlie always refer to when talking about the decision to begin a yt channel and enterprise with a friend. But Charlie ended up becoming the face of charisma on command, even though they share the project
Lol it was hard for him to control the conversation with Neil Degrasse Tyson
Well the last one was the bad one, before that it wasnt that big of a deal
Miss reign no. Neil is just really loves to talk. If you watch his podcast star talk he’s used to talking ALL the time
BBleach bbleach control hell, he couldn’t get a word in.
cAn i TeLL YoU wHy ?
Yeah, Tyson is obnoxious af.
Joe asks questions that no one will touch and ask the questions that his audience needs answers too. Great respect for joe in these times. And never backs down from an important topic and even goes further💪🏼
It’s crazy I’m doing sales & I stumbled across this info. Thank You God 🙏🏾🌞❤️
I wonder where applying this stuff would take you 🤖
the use of "like" as a comma is really annoying.
I work with young people and find it to be the most impassable communication barrier. It's, like, everywhere!
I know (like) right?
Not to mention the over use and often incorrect use of "literally"
@@lukeevans6070 like "It literally blew my mind"
@@lukeevans6070 It has been argued that using "literally" as "figuratively" is completely acceptable. It has been used in classics as "Jane Austen", and the exact difference between "literally" and "figuratively" is the reason why the hyperbole works. If you want to use an exaggeration to make a point, calling something ridiculous "figurative" would really downplay the image you're trying to convey
Fallan Fox nearly killed the very first woman he fought. A multi-title holder, his victim wrote from her hospital bed
"I have never felt so overpowered".
He bragged about breaking the skulls of two women one was because she walked out to dude looks like a lady. Why are you mad bruh, that’s exactly what you are!!
Joe is so real. I learn a lot from his broad on UA-cam and Spotify. He is a prime example of a real man.
He's I think the best in history as an interviewer .. if that's how you say it. I can't think of anyone else who speaks like him to others and acts as genuine as Joe.
It's weird how good of a guy he is.
He's super friggin smart, one of the attitudes overall, the way he can basically relate to everyone and if he can't directly he genuinely tries.
Overall he's what I call a real man and one you can look up to and model your own self like him.
If everyone could be like him this planet would be a hole lot better and for God sake smarter by far.
I've listened to Joe since he started his podcasts back in the day and have watched him almost daily if possible because he's such a good guy.
He's a legit legendary human being.
Only other good interviewer is nardwuar. Guys a legend in music
@@RM-ti2bv ya he is good for actually asking solid questions and having a real interview.. so ya I guess I agree.
He has evolved a lot but he's still not one-sided or stuck in his bubble. He still learns from everyone and that's why everyone loves to join him on his podcast. And that's why we love to listen to it.
Joe Rogan's the man! Definitely going to use these tips!
fyp
What a weird plug
uurgh self promotion
Don’t fear others cutting you off, or how the other person will receive your words but have empathy for them put yourself in their shoes but stay in your own ones at the same time.
Love how straight forward Joe can be he looks great and has a beautifully intelligent mind
Love Joe Rogan - even if I don’t agree with him 100% of the time, he always has my respect. 👊
Great video! His willingness to hear people out despite their differences has been a major influence in my life. It breeds trust and even friendship, bridging divides. This is needed now more than ever before!
I think this is as valuable for aggressive personalities checking their aggression as it is for passive folk asserting themselves.
I've always been a fan of Joe Rogan ever since I saw one of his standup routines. After that, I was immediately drawn to his comedic views and his intelligence when conveying his points. And not to mention, he's got a sidekick that would break the ribs of about 99.98% of the world's population. 😅🤣
I've only seen Joe going solo- standup or interviewing folks. Who is this sidekick you speak of?
Jamie lol
@@joecavy7869 that's exactly it mon frere... his hidden secret weapon- the elusive but very effective... Joe's sidekick.
Awesome. I needed this today after struggling with an argument with a longtime female friend who can be a conversation bully. I confronted her and she went off on me, and I'm realizing I must represent my truth at all times.
What makes me crazy is she can state her opinion and I'm cool with that but she gets very offensive when I'm telling mine
Are they really your friend if they can't respect you for being up front (even if they disagree)?
Bro the only thing you can do to command respect from bullies is to walk away without ever talking to them again. Respect yourself enough to live a peaceful life, away from the drama. No need to confront someone you don’t think is worth your time.
@@hippiechickie5320 my other comment will work for you too. I used to stress over people like that but since I started to walk away mid conversation and ignore them every time, I have not had a stressful conversation.
@@hippiechickie5320 I hope you’ve met better friends :) they exist and are everywhere they’re just hard to find.
Become that person you want to be, it is hard painful and annoying but it’ll attract cooler people.
Learn what exactly a narcissist is. They’re everywhere and EXTREMELY common, because our society brainwashes people that they’re all victims.
This by default will force them into being a bad person.
They will victimize themselves at any opportunity to push you around, gas lighting you and all that fun stuff.
An easy way to spot someone is if they can never admit when they are wrong or made a mistake.
Narcissistic people will apologize over things that don’t matter so that when they do something out of key, they will justify it and then say “but I apologize all the time”
They cannot take criticism, they often post selfies all the time because they crave unnecessary attention like a drug.
If they talk bad all the time about other people that aren’t even that bad, they’re talking about you in a bad way to their friends
Charlie make a video on Phil Coulson from Agents of SHIELD. He is charismatic af.
that's just Clark Greg in general.
Truuuue he’s so smooth
100 Million Dollars!
Normally, I wonder what any one guy does to validate this sort of compensation, but not with Rogan!
Joe is such a fine man doing a great service with his work.
Thank you for another great video Charisma on command!
_”Hey Jamie, pull up that Charisma on Command photo of me where I look completely jacked”_
Another great breakdown. Love how joe takes both sides into consideration, how knowledgeable he is on various topics, and how he and his guests can keep us captivated for 3 hrs yet feel as if it would be a conversation we would just have with any one of our friends!!
Joe does it exceptionally well because it is genuine. It comes from deep confidence. You can not mimic confidence.
Wow...as an autistic woman, I do a lot of these things naturally through a pure lack of understanding of social hierarchy and small talk.
I have always been told I command respect, and was never sure why - now I know!
I love how Joe calmly tells him to "hang on a second" almost like he's asking permission.
Just the perfect blend of assertive and polite.
Video Summary:
1. Do not rush emphasis words use pauses between to hold attention.
2. Do not allow people to cut you off from something important
3. Share your personal thoughts even if some people might not like them.
4. Be more interested in finding the truth than being right
Hooray! One of the few comments that holds merit.
#3 is an exercise in futility
The only way to be. Up front , honest. No bs games
This was a Great Video, I honestly don't watch Joe that much, I have known about him as a fighter for a long time, I always thought he just got Lucky with his Online gig, and never gave him much credit, but after watching THIS Video it really explains what the Attraction is to Joe. This kind of opened my Eyes to him, now I kinda wish I would have tuned in a little more.
Nobody:
Alex Jones: I'll bet you 10 million dollars that humanoids are real.
I accept
How de we determine whether they are real or not??
You win the comments
Joe has great communication skills. They were learned for sure. Any interviewer has to learn how to direct the interview or conversation in a podcast.
4:47 😀 that's so good, so relatable, it feels like a day to day talk.
This is why even though I’m not a subscriber I like listening to Joe Rogan’s videos. He stays level-headed and calm during arguments and is respectful and open-minded about other people’s views as well as being introspective with himself.
You guys provide an incredible service to mankind and just keeps getting sharper and more refined. Salt of the earth. May my blessings, love, and being as wind in your sails and brighten the stars upon your course. Thank you brothers and sisters, sincerely ThElement.
This is the great content that I always waiting for 👏🏻. This is really help me thankyou. ✨
My favorite joe rogan opening was with Marcus Luttrell asking him, "How does it feel to have a movie made about the worst day of your life?" What a crazy respectful way to introduce why he's famous without ignoring the huge amount of pain those events caused him.
Sometimes, certain types of people don't listen. Ever. You can be confident and calm all you want but they will shout louder or stomp off in defeat, or even attack if you try to de-escalate.
Those are called co-workers.
I've enjoyed your videos for a good while now, but haven't really commented so I thought I'd mention it, and am happy for your success. Have you considered doing anything about online communications? Work voice conferences, texting, email. There are a lot of first-impressions done online without ever meeting or seeing the person.
I literally am constantly amazed by his confidence and honesty. Truly an icon.
You command respect by either being smart, able to think quickly, able to make a point with few words without hemming and hawing, and a great fighter.
Thanks for the advice. I really needed to hear this as a person with severe social anxiety. I lack confidence in my speaking power. This will help out alot I hope.
did it help ?
Practice makes perfect?
In any case, something to consider is that it takes lots of human variety to make a workplace or a party or a community function well. We now call it social anxiety. Personally? That's a pretty anxiety causing title, right?
I know a woman who doesn't always speak up a lot in meetings. As a mediator, it should be my job to draw out the quiet people, and perhaps even quiet the exceptionally noisy ones.
What i eventually realized about Sharon was that she had the best grasp of anyone in the room of what was going on. She was also serving as the secretary for the meeting, so her focus was on accurately jotting down everyone else's words.
I quit trying to draw her out during meetings. I just let her know how much I appreciated her gifts.
Picture a whole room of Joe Rogans. It would be pretty exciting. But also draining perhaps.
I like this series.
But I don't think we all need to be Joe Rogan. I think if you saw your presence and effect on others, you might realize you offered a grace.
You are the only person who can elect to change, and the good news is all behaviors are partly past habits, and all habits change with routine practice. Good luck with what you choose.
Hope you are doing better now.
@@leelee5269 Thank you for that real-world insight, Lee. You sound like someone ppl wd like to work with and for.
Rogan likes everyone, it means he doesn't have his own point or scary to share. I remember he was more honest about his thoughts, but was criticized.
Everyone likes Rogan
Honesty is SJWs enemy
Don't rush. Emphasis words. Use pauses.
Calmly tell people not to interrupt you. Don't yell.
Share honest thoughts even if people don't like it.
I'm not perfect either is a great way to earn respect
Focus on finding truth instead of being right
A slight twist *and funny
Is saying see im not perfect either when making a mistake
Especially if it's a mistake anyone can make
When i am repeatedly interrupted by a conversational bully i say "I am sorry, did the end of my sentence interrupt the beginning of yours?"
or "I'd really love to talk to you about this, bit not like this..lets revisit this once you've had a chance to calm down"
or
"I guess I'll just have to accept your faulty perception of who I am" or "Your anger is not my responsibility"
i can always feel a muscle grow in my brain every time i watch any one of your videos. Not to worry, its not a tumour, but you get the point.
The thing is with Joe. Everyone knows he is a hell of a fighter and the final debate settler is violence. So it's lucky he is so well spoken and intelligent for his guests sake. 😂
it took much longer than it should’ve to find a single comment about the fact that he is at least somewhat genuinely confident in defending himself against literally every guest he has on his show including the fighters. not to say he would beat them (with just his hands he could murder every guest that isn’t a fighter) but that he knows he wouldn’t be completely lost , combined with the fact that they are all in HIS environment (his house if i remember correctly), which in itself demands respect.
@@reconnect6989 I gotcha bruv. You're bang on too.
This is a great point.
@@reconnect6989 Bang on dude.
I only recently mastered the staying calm and collected during heated discussions. I discovered I am able to "win" almost every discussion point because the other party is getting angry and emotional. And they are no longer able to use strong arguments.
He is very confident and calm, but no shy, when He speaks He does in an eloquent manner, is what makes him interesting, is a talent many TV personalities have with big success
This works. My boss was yelling at me one morning. He was completely in the wrong. However, I calmly said to him " You don't have to yell. You can talk to me like i'm a human being and still got your point across. " He instantly calmed down and actually , without actually saying it, admitted he was wrong. As I respected that he was my boss, I stood my ground and demanded respect . It worked for both of us. It kept a heated conversation from getting out of control. Sometimes confrontation isn't the answer.
Wouldn't it just have been easier to punch him in the face? That tends to shock the living sh*t out of them.
If you understand a man's world 9 out of 10 arguments are bluff..... loud verbal intimidation combined with a slanging match.. They yell at each other because neither expects to get punched in the face. When they get smacked hard enough, the bluff turns to utter confusion in a lot of confrontations.