Ben Folds Five - Selfless, Cold and Composed (from Sessions at West 54th)

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  • Music video by Ben Folds Five performing Selfless, Cold and Composed (from Sessions at West 54th). (C) 2001 Epic Records, a division of Sony Music Entertainment
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  • @midkingsteve
    @midkingsteve 3 роки тому +193

    Darren Jesse is one of the most under talked about drummers in all of music history. Insane chops.

    • @troyh1969
      @troyh1969 3 роки тому +10

      Yeah...first time I heard him play, I was like how do i not know about this guy.

    • @rickh.6976
      @rickh.6976 3 роки тому +6

      Insane chops.

    • @coreybondurant
      @coreybondurant 2 роки тому +7

      I totally agree. Great feel. Not to mention the vintage kit and cymbals. Great drummer.

    • @mpa1931
      @mpa1931 2 роки тому +4

      One of my favorite drummers since I listened to Whatever and Ever Amen back in the day.

    • @PedroPetracco
      @PedroPetracco 2 роки тому +3

      @@coreybondurant I literally dreamt about these cymbals when I first got a hold of this DVD

  • @Prellium
    @Prellium 4 роки тому +82

    23 years later and I still absolutely adore this song.

  • @danvorosmarty9854
    @danvorosmarty9854 2 роки тому +40

    Amazing how full their sound is, you would never think they were just a trio.

    • @widehotep9257
      @widehotep9257 10 місяців тому

      Even more amazing how full Ben's pockets are. He got rich from songwriting royalties while the other dudes got a few pennies for performing.

    • @danvorosmarty9854
      @danvorosmarty9854 10 місяців тому +1

      @@widehotep9257 huh, hadn't heard that.

    • @captaincopyright2367
      @captaincopyright2367 9 місяців тому +1

      especially since they're called the Ben Folds Five

    • @widehotep9257
      @widehotep9257 7 місяців тому

      @@captaincopyright2367 Van Halen is called Van Halen and most of their songs were written by Eddie Van Halen. But Van Halen wasn't a greedy d0uche and divided all songwriting equally among the 4 members of the band. If Van Halen had been like Ben Folds and kept all the songwriting credits, he would have made 50X more than his bandmates. Most money in the music industry is earned in the long term through songwriting royalties. Other D bags who refused to share songwriting credits with their bandmates are Rick Ocasek from The Cars, Billy Corrigan from Smashing Pumpkins, and Ozzy Ozbourne on his "Bark at the Moon" album.

  • @guitarjag1
    @guitarjag1 4 роки тому +130

    The song where you realize they're basically a jazz trio that knows how to rock!

  • @danielstevenson2772
    @danielstevenson2772 Рік тому +12

    This song is a clinic on how to play jazz and rock effectively in one song. Darren Jesse is a beast on the drums.

  • @SpookyLuvCookie
    @SpookyLuvCookie 4 роки тому +34

    only just noticed how Darren Jesse changes his grip between jazz and matched during this song. nice.

    • @dennisbloomquist9220
      @dennisbloomquist9220 2 роки тому +3

      It always has weirded me out that I used both grips. I learned traditional grip but went into match grip during runs. Now that I see someone inestimably better than I could ever be mix it up. I feel better. It's like a breakup where I get to spill my guts.

  • @ThePgranstrom
    @ThePgranstrom Рік тому +11

    Shades of Vince Guaraldi -- "Charlie Brown". Love it.🥰

  • @max_mittler
    @max_mittler 3 роки тому +37

    ridiculously under-rated band. One of my favorites from my childhood that still holds up to this day.

    • @matthewpilon4422
      @matthewpilon4422 5 місяців тому

      amazing 90's angsty s/sw types. He got ahead of himself and ditched the five.

  • @damienstringer6495
    @damienstringer6495 4 роки тому +62

    I bet they're so glad that they got the opportunity to record their stuff live in this environment. So many bands only have their music videos to look back on and they're just soulless compared to the magic of a live performance.

    • @bobhope884
      @bobhope884 4 роки тому +2

      Seems like they/he(...) Had the magic & opened those doors.

    • @PedroPetracco
      @PedroPetracco 2 роки тому +1

      Nicely put. Beautifull session!

  • @gabe_s_videos
    @gabe_s_videos 4 роки тому +65

    Reminds me a lot of Vince Guaraldi. I love the fact that this band was basically a jazz trio who played punk rock and vice versa.

    • @scottstewart1778
      @scottstewart1778 Місяць тому +1

      Yes…in fact this tune reminds me of, “Cast your fate, to the wind.” 😎

  • @zygmuntthecacaokakistocrat6589
    @zygmuntthecacaokakistocrat6589 2 місяці тому +4

    If you mixed The Beatles with The Dave Brubeck Quartet and moved them forward 40 years, you've got these guys. They'll be remembered for as long.

  • @benthomas1885
    @benthomas1885 2 роки тому +22

    Have seen them a few times and always been blown away by how good they are. Bass player is Just fucking great.

  • @Rengray2
    @Rengray2 Рік тому +6

    How you know he's an amazing drummer? He makes it look easy - like it's an effortless, fun session where they're doing "whatever".

  • @ScoreFromAugusta
    @ScoreFromAugusta 5 років тому +40

    17 years later with the primo upload of golden live material! This song gives beautiful chills

  • @winklestiltskin
    @winklestiltskin 5 років тому +90

    Our generations Elton John. Such a staggeringly great breakup song!

    • @patriciofernandez2711
      @patriciofernandez2711 5 років тому +7

      winklestiltskin Elton John can’t write lyrics though

    • @ckelco82
      @ckelco82 4 роки тому +13

      I love Elton John, but Ben is better in every single way possible as a musician.

    • @joatnm
      @joatnm 4 роки тому +6

      This was about his first major breakup, and it shows. The title is a direct quote from her.

    • @ben-smith-music
      @ben-smith-music 3 роки тому +1

      @@patriciofernandez2711 Most of this song (lyrically) comes from a letter than Folds's first wife wrote to him after he basically ditched her in NYC and left for Nashville by himself

    • @ben-smith-music
      @ben-smith-music 3 роки тому

      @@patriciofernandez2711 but yes, Ben Folds's lyric-writing is crazy good

  • @kittenblossom2794
    @kittenblossom2794 3 роки тому +11

    Is humanity even aware of how insanely TALENTED this band is? Absolute Mastercraft!

  • @arieslove6144
    @arieslove6144 5 років тому +56

    my favorite song off that album

    • @arieslove6144
      @arieslove6144 5 років тому +1

      Right beautiful 💓 at is best

    • @mstob1969
      @mstob1969 3 роки тому +5

      @@arieslove6144 Damn straight. This and Sentimental Guy probably my two favorites.

    • @arieslove6144
      @arieslove6144 3 роки тому

      @@mstob1969 Yess sir

    • @Train115
      @Train115 3 роки тому +1

      2nd favorite for me, Stevens Last Night In Town is 1st

    • @joshkirkwood8945
      @joshkirkwood8945 3 роки тому +3

      Ditto. One of the best songs ever. Period

  • @TandemKnights
    @TandemKnights Рік тому +8

    What is the opposite of love? It's not hate, it's indifference. Hate shows emotional investment by the other party and there is often a thin line between love and hate. Indifference is cold and detached. This song is the perfect embodiment of this sentiment, a break-up where one party shows complete indifference in order to injure the other party with maximum effect.

    • @connormitchell2392
      @connormitchell2392 Рік тому +1

      Well said

    • @Alientank
      @Alientank Рік тому +2

      I never fully understood the meaning of this song, but you put it perfectly. Thanks.

  • @josephwilson1175
    @josephwilson1175 3 роки тому +14

    This is my favorite song. Since being on a charter bus in 6th grade and stealing the whatever & ever amen cd from my sister for a trip to space camp bac in '98. Thinn it's my fav album too. Shouts to these 3.

  • @tullsterx
    @tullsterx 6 місяців тому +2

    That song is a piece of art. Timeless. Ben Folds Five were amazing at this time. Watching them play that live they remind me of Rush even. I can't imagine having to play that live night after night.

    • @Partybob1
      @Partybob1 4 місяці тому

      It was amazing

  • @matthewpilon4422
    @matthewpilon4422 5 місяців тому +3

    He will always have a special place but, he needed the five.
    I will always get Van Morrison singer/songwriter vibes

  • @jeffa4110
    @jeffa4110 3 роки тому +13

    Ben has always been amazing. Different genres, but he's up there with Mike Patton

    • @matthewpilon4422
      @matthewpilon4422 5 місяців тому

      as someone who loves both, patton's voice is unrivaled by anyone not named mercury. Ben is a better song writer.

  • @gregrosen9616
    @gregrosen9616 3 роки тому +6

    Ben is the best thing that’s happened in music since 70s .

  • @chrishenson4450
    @chrishenson4450 4 роки тому +4

    Robert Sledge kickin' in the fuzz and the whole world feels it.

    • @jordanfast673
      @jordanfast673 3 роки тому

      Ah man so sweet. And then dazzles the jazzy feels. Locked in.

  • @LewisDragisic
    @LewisDragisic 3 роки тому +3

    my favourite ben folds song

  • @Earwitness75
    @Earwitness75 2 роки тому +2

    Please tour again

  • @Ataribot
    @Ataribot 5 років тому +40

    Love Ben Folds. I wish we could get a new album. We could use more Ben Folds in the world

    • @ezrac704
      @ezrac704 4 роки тому +2

      I only got into him a few months ago, but it feels like a long time now. I can't believe I haven't felt the feeling of a new album release from him. It would be really exciting.

    • @alon9328
      @alon9328 4 роки тому +2

      Rage300 Well, he’s writing a new album. Your wish is being granted.

    • @ezrac704
      @ezrac704 4 роки тому +2

      @@alon9328 Let's hope. I thought he posted on patreon that he was thinking about it, but that may have been a while ago and i do not look at his patreon.

    • @alon9328
      @alon9328 4 роки тому +1

      Rage300 Yeah he did a live streaming where he talked about it like two days ago. He’s stuck in Australia due to the quarantine from that virus so he said since he can’t tour anymore he’s gonna spend the next couple months working on a new record.

    • @ezrac704
      @ezrac704 4 роки тому +2

      @@alon9328 Yeah i watched the stream. That kind of makes sense. Also, bass ukelele for the win.

  • @kevinlofstrom1799
    @kevinlofstrom1799 Рік тому +1

    This concert is so true to the album, what a joy to see it played live.

  • @just4unyc
    @just4unyc Рік тому +1

    Most milodically/beautifully composed songs ever. SELFLESS, COLD AND COMPOSED!

  • @EBUNNY2012
    @EBUNNY2012 3 роки тому +3

    This man is totally underrated.

  • @pashanon
    @pashanon 11 місяців тому +1

    But you just smile like a bank teller telling me have a nice life -❤❤❤

  • @kimcordetti984
    @kimcordetti984 2 роки тому +2

    BEN FOLDS, brilliant troubadour You are so fresh and raw. I fucking love you and your mind. K

  • @oktg91
    @oktg91 2 роки тому +5

    absolutely wonderful performance

  • @pashanon
    @pashanon 2 роки тому +5

    Always have goosebumps listening to this..brilliant

  • @silkysmoothsound
    @silkysmoothsound 5 років тому +21

    Cried to this last night

    • @arieslove6144
      @arieslove6144 5 років тому

      Madame why were you crying

    • @silkysmoothsound
      @silkysmoothsound 5 років тому

      Aries love short answer: Divorce

    • @arieslove6144
      @arieslove6144 5 років тому

      aww im sorry sweetie.

    • @arieslove6144
      @arieslove6144 5 років тому

      where you from 'im want to get to know you

    • @marby.
      @marby. 4 роки тому +1

      I hope every day is a little easier for you. You'll survive ✌🏾❤

  • @marby.
    @marby. 4 роки тому +6

    This version is amazing, even without strings

  • @jordanfast673
    @jordanfast673 3 роки тому +5

    Brings me back. Cannot contain the joy this band brought to me back then! What a perfect storm of musicianship, passion, 90s angst, innovation grounded in the past. Could go on but I won’t, will just make me sad they aren’t together.

  • @Waderader
    @Waderader 2 роки тому +2

    best song on the best album by the best band

  • @jaredmckiernan9514
    @jaredmckiernan9514 5 років тому +6

    What an absolute bop

  • @SRlikethetoothpaste
    @SRlikethetoothpaste Рік тому +2

    Watching an interview with Ben Folds recently, I was shocked to learn that he really doesn't like the album (Whatever and Ever Amen) from which this is taken.
    He's FAR too hard on himself.
    It's full of absolute bangers, top to tail. This song being a prime example.

    • @matthewpilon4422
      @matthewpilon4422 5 місяців тому

      artists are weird in that aspect.
      Some of the most basic rock songs of time are instant classics. Smoke on the Water and Iron Man. They are the most basic guitar riffs of all time despite how simple they are.

    • @maninacave
      @maninacave 3 місяці тому +1

      He said he hated a lot of the BFF stuff, and that's a shame, because I really think he went off the boil when they split up. To each their own, I suppose.

  • @andersjohnson9565
    @andersjohnson9565 4 роки тому +4

    Of all the songs in the world that I never heard on the radio, this one is my favorite.

  • @tvscribe
    @tvscribe Рік тому +2

    My dad introduced me to Ben Folds Five back in 96'. He had a real knack for identifying musical talent, I'm sure he would've been an incredible executive and could've sold his soul, but he didn't. I grew up in jersey, and when we took the long drive up to the baseball hall

    • @tvscribe
      @tvscribe Рік тому

      Baseball hall of fame, he played the Beatles A-Z, and the complete Ben Folds Five. I've been hooked ever since.

  • @poolhall9632
    @poolhall9632 Рік тому +2

    I saw this when it aired.
    I went out and found their music the next day.
    I never heard anything like them. Very fortunate to catch a show in Atlanta after they hit the big time with Brick.
    Thanks PBS!!!

  • @notillustrated
    @notillustrated 3 роки тому +2

    One of my all time favorite songs

  • @justinbrink7425
    @justinbrink7425 2 роки тому +2

    My goodness its so damn good

  • @radiomondo
    @radiomondo 8 місяців тому +1

    Adoro.

  • @tommatthews1761
    @tommatthews1761 4 роки тому

    Love this song.

  • @jimvinespresents...8463
    @jimvinespresents...8463 2 роки тому

    Great song! Just love it!

  • @kimcordetti984
    @kimcordetti984 Рік тому

    Genius with words and musical skills. I an in awe
    So glad I got tickets to Columbus commons show..

  • @dakotajames_music1619
    @dakotajames_music1619 Рік тому +2

    Somebody took Jazz classes in college!

  • @NAIVADA
    @NAIVADA 3 роки тому +1

    Perfection~

  • @aagrape3377
    @aagrape3377 5 років тому +1

    beautiful piano strings…I'm deeply touched.

  • @theVHSvlog
    @theVHSvlog 5 років тому +4

    This is my favorite version of the song

  • @TheJFerg24
    @TheJFerg24 4 роки тому +4

    Musically, I think of this song and Carrying Cathy as sister songs.

    • @haha_hollie
      @haha_hollie 3 роки тому

      me too, they're in the same scale and have similar instrumentation and melodies

  • @nightwatcher
    @nightwatcher 5 років тому +6

    Awesome music fellas, keep it up!

  • @hyerconscious4
    @hyerconscious4 3 роки тому +1

    Brilliant. I will always love this song. Outstanding piano

  • @brindsbackpack
    @brindsbackpack 4 роки тому +1

    One of.my favourite songs of all time! So, so good!

  • @gayluinstra1396
    @gayluinstra1396 3 роки тому +2

    This is such a cool band!

  • @xhrrdg
    @xhrrdg 2 роки тому +1

    Pure pleasure

  • @arieslove6144
    @arieslove6144 5 років тому +8

    Man haven't heard this in years, still my favorite from bff

    • @Harleyriderds1
      @Harleyriderds1 5 років тому

      ua-cam.com/video/J8rv_6PJ78M/v-deo.html&list=PLMWTI3IYFKBsFiPYwuuD-PIWFY389Ns2H

  • @Tracey..H
    @Tracey..H 4 роки тому +2

    Reminds me of when i was young

  • @bphilippe3352
    @bphilippe3352 Місяць тому

    Great musicians !

  • @alessandrovich
    @alessandrovich 5 років тому +3

    i had a friend, who presented me John Mayer and Ben folds Five in the mid of 2000s......Since then i cant imagine any playlist without such a great musicians. True music!

  • @Delta9Soundproduction
    @Delta9Soundproduction Рік тому

    The song of light inspiration !

  • @jeffa4110
    @jeffa4110 Рік тому

    I will ALWAYS support Ben

  • @PedroPetracco
    @PedroPetracco 2 роки тому +1

    This session is sort of perfect

  • @chaleureusenikolai3741
    @chaleureusenikolai3741 3 роки тому +6

    I said what you wanted to hear
    And what I wanted to say
    So I will take it back
    Are all the dishes intact?
    Let them be broken, broken
    It's easy to be
    Easy and free
    When it doesn't mean anything
    You remain selfless, cold and
    Composed
    You've done me no favor
    To call and be nice
    Telling me I
    Can take anything I like
    You don't owe me to be so
    Polite
    You've done no wrong
    You've done no wrong
    Get out of my sight
    It's easy to be
    Easy and free
    When it doesn't mean anything
    You remain selfless, cold and
    Composed

    • @betterlatethannever4536
      @betterlatethannever4536 2 роки тому +1

      Come on baby,
      Throw me a right to the chin!
      Just don't stare like you never cared,
      I know you did!
      But you just smile
      Like a bank teller
      Blankly telling me, "Have a nice life."
      Come on baby,
      And throw me a right to the chin!
      Just one sign that would show me
      Thank you give a shit
      But you just smiled
      Politely
      And I grow weaker and I....
      Said what you wanted to hear
      And what I wanted to say
      So I will take it back.
      It's easy to be
      Easy and free
      When it doesn't mean anything
      When it doesn't mean anything
      You can take anything
      You could take anything
      You're so selfless, cold
      You're so selfless, cold
      So selfless, cold,
      and composed.

    • @hklinker
      @hklinker Рік тому

      That’s where the other half of the song got to!

  • @Parrish_Muhoberac
    @Parrish_Muhoberac 2 роки тому

    Awesome.

  • @Boylieboyle
    @Boylieboyle 4 роки тому +4

    "...so I WILL take it back..." Didn't know about music till this guy and his f-ing talented cohorts.

  • @pinkpolly88
    @pinkpolly88 5 років тому +3

    ❤️

  • @izaakdaviddiggs
    @izaakdaviddiggs 3 роки тому +2

    I don't think there has been a rock trio this talented since the Police.Honestly, I have no idea how they get this full of a sound from a piano, bass, and drums. Like the Police, they had a very talented songwriter---like Sting, Ben Fold's solo work pales in comparison to what he did with Ben Folds Five much as Sting's solo work pales in comparison to the Police. Sometimes you need two other highly talented and unique musicians to bring your songs to optimal life...

  • @jorgefuentes8912
    @jorgefuentes8912 5 років тому +8

    3:46 a fly pass in front Ben

  • @hklinker
    @hklinker 4 роки тому +10

    I bought this whole set on DVD around 2004. And I played it endlessly. It was always really hard to say which of the songs they played that day I liked the most...cuz I liked so many of them, and for different reasons. I think this one hits the hardest though, because the piano is delicate and gorgeous and the lyric shows a guy raging and trying to fight against being shut out and shut down. ‘Throw me a right to the chin.’ Great line.

    • @michael.wiegand
      @michael.wiegand 3 роки тому +2

      One of the best bridges of all time.

    • @hklinker
      @hklinker Рік тому

      Came back for another visit to this tune and I was thinking just the same thing about the bridge!

  • @TimeNfeel91
    @TimeNfeel91 Рік тому

    I love Darren Jesse and his vintage drums and cymbals

  • @jmcieslak0
    @jmcieslak0 5 років тому +7

    Thank you for re-uploading this. I think 4:48 is the best rim shot I've ever heard.
    All that's missing is the strings, but i think it's well made up for by all 3 of them working their asses off yet making it sound effortless.

    • @Harleyriderds1
      @Harleyriderds1 5 років тому

      ua-cam.com/video/J8rv_6PJ78M/v-deo.html&list=PLMWTI3IYFKBsFiPYwuuD-PIWFY389Ns2H

    • @amipro380
      @amipro380 5 років тому +1

      jmcieslak0, good observation!

  • @JamieSmith-fz2mz
    @JamieSmith-fz2mz 3 роки тому +1

    Intelligent melodies.

  • @johannesmertens7028
    @johannesmertens7028 4 роки тому +3

    AWESEOME SONG but am I the only one who gets some Christmas vibes listening to this music?

    • @fatheroforphans6214
      @fatheroforphans6214 4 роки тому +4

      Charlie Brown Christmas and Shroeder is tickling the ivories. Probably Linus and Lucy is the song but the great Vince Guaraldi Trio is the magic behind the music. Yes I'm almost 60 and my Christmas isn't Christmas until I hear this and watch it on my still functioning VCR. Several other excellent little ditties in there as well. Get down Charlie Brown!

    • @modalmixture
      @modalmixture 4 роки тому +1

      It's the 6/8 feel. Like Vince Guaraldi's 'Skating'

    • @johannesmertens7028
      @johannesmertens7028 4 роки тому

      @@modalmixture ah crazy thank you for this information

  • @coasterairtime
    @coasterairtime 3 роки тому +1

    Quite a speedy version, I like it, makes it so youthful

    • @jordanfast673
      @jordanfast673 3 роки тому +1

      Yeah Darren was pushing those tempos the whole show... awesome

    • @hklinker
      @hklinker Рік тому

      Yes, I noticed… and have often wondered what drummers think of that part of Darren’s playing.

  • @geno121
    @geno121 3 роки тому

    The drums in this song are so so so good. Darren fuckin rules.

  • @shadygroves8252
    @shadygroves8252 3 роки тому

    genius

  • @andrewnance2156
    @andrewnance2156 4 роки тому +3

    I bought the DVD....am I that behind? Excellent

  • @dynaboyjl.4220
    @dynaboyjl.4220 4 роки тому +2

    Not the same without the lush orchestrals of the studio version but jesus. So much raw emotion here

    • @hklinker
      @hklinker 3 роки тому

      I really came to know the song from this live version. From a pure audio point of view, I wish the BF and BFF albums were better recorded.

  • @alexjames4064
    @alexjames4064 4 роки тому

    39,000th view 🙌

  • @Boylieboyle
    @Boylieboyle 3 роки тому +1

    BFFFTW

  • @fatheroforphans6214
    @fatheroforphans6214 4 роки тому

    Unfuckingreal

  • @maninacave
    @maninacave 3 місяці тому

    I love love love this song. For me, and i know this will be unpopular, but Ben Folds solo was never as good as Ben Folds five. I think the conflict gave the music an edge.

  • @rdon3575
    @rdon3575 3 місяці тому

    2024

  • @AARONH85
    @AARONH85 2 роки тому

    I said what you what you wanted to hear

  • @Anjianie
    @Anjianie 4 роки тому +1

    0:44 diIiIishes

  • @Meltedcheese567
    @Meltedcheese567 3 роки тому +1

    Why do bands always speed songs up when they play live :(

    • @adamhagen5704
      @adamhagen5704 3 роки тому +1

      performance anxiety, excitement and an unconscious sympathetic reaction to the audience.

    • @dawnrichardson8234
      @dawnrichardson8234 3 місяці тому

      It is so damn hard to restrain yourself coming out of a bridge.

  • @teddyb4168
    @teddyb4168 2 роки тому +1

    Their timing is hanging by a thread... good in theory though... see what I did there?

  • @widehotep9257
    @widehotep9257 2 роки тому +2

    Trivia fact: That is the BTK killer in the background at 5:22. He had planned to murder the drummer after the show, but his cab driver took him to the wrong hotel.

    • @blackmarketbingo
      @blackmarketbingo 7 місяців тому

      ?? Do you have any proof of this? It kinda looks like the guy, but how do you know he was plotting to murder Darren?

  • @jeffa4110
    @jeffa4110 3 роки тому +4

    Why, when I'm watching this, do they try to force me to watch billie eilish? Like I'm interested in her "music"? Lol

  • @renderquick913
    @renderquick913 10 місяців тому

    The tempo is too fast! The album version is more “composed”. 😅