Very very powerful Sister. Profoundly true. Some Narcissists abuse their wives by this means(excessive sex). The Wives are destroyed and they move on to their next Victim as if nothing has happened! I am so so glad that you covered this Topic. To God be the glory!!! I have subscribed. I exited the Marriage after almost 30 years!!! I was created for greater than this!!! Blessings in abundance!!!
I read such quotes several times before i got married. When i got married, my wife says its excess having sex once a week. Sometimes a whole month and she says its excess!!! I'm at the point of considering what excess really means!!!
That's regrettable and unfortunate Refer her to the following quote 1 Cor. 7:5 Do not deprive each other of sexual relations, unless you both agree to refrain from sexual intimacy for a LIMITED TIME so you can give yourselves more completely to prayer. Afterward, you should come together again so that Satan won’t be able to tempt you ... She's setting your marriage up for serious satanic interruption...
Yeah that's unhealthy to say the least. Sounds like your wife has turned sex into a control mechanism and denied the needs of you both. Should consider requesting she attend marriage counseling about it with you, if she refuses or continues the behavior consider possibly separating as her refusing sexual intimacy even once a month will ultimately destroy your marriage. 1 Cor 7:2-5 is something she should prayerfully consider and think over as to how she is withholding a God ordained selfless act that strengthens the marriage bond.
I think the first thing that needs to change is calling it "making love" instead of "having sex". It is not excessive to make love once a week, BUT both partners need to be in agreement on this. Making love in a marriage relationship is a most beautiful and intimate thing and is instrumental in making a healthy marriage. You need to work on making this intimate time the most wonderful time of the week. It needs to be romantic and unhurried and all about focusing on your wife. It will be helpful to have intimacy with massage and without sexual intercourse some of the time, especially at the beginning. You need to help your wife see that this isn't sex, but instead making love. Then everything will change. There is more than enough time for a body to recover and build up resources when making love once a week.
you shouldve read the bible to her where wives n husbands are instructed to not withhold the marriage act excepting in certain instances ie just gave birth or on period etc
1. Ellen White has "Testimonies for the Church", and many of her writings are indeed addressing directly SDA members. However, this is not a general rule. She also has really great volume of writings that are addressing virtually everyone, such as the Great Controversy, or the Bible Commentaries, etc. 2. Angels don't know our thoughts, thank God!!! Only God searches the hearth and is just judge of our intentions. If angels were able to know our thoughts, this would have been true also for fallen angels, and then we would never be able to resist the temptations. Thank God that He is the only one who knows everything!
Even as a young, twenty year old wife I knew something was wrong with some of the things my husband was asking me to do in the name of marriage, all while quoting that greatly misquoted bible text…”The marriage bed is undefiled…” …” Holy angels are everywhere. How could you expect them to have to view some of these terrible acts? Men (and some women ) without the Holy Spirit, have caused more pain and destruction with that sexual organ than… what Adam and Even caused in the Garden. Think of the millions of women, boys and girls raped and molested through the whole six thousand years of earth’s history, for what, except for the gratification of a moment of “pleasure.” Sigh!!!!💔🥺😢
@@sOnlight67 hello would you be willing to describe or name some of these terrible acts? I'm trying to see whether these things apply to me, I'm having difficulty wrapping my mind if the debasing actions are common place.
Thank you sister for this Godly message. As a man who is a SDA member I never did these sexual immortality, but I always had the tendency to do these, but always afraid to do them. Since I didn't never want to these with my wife who just passed away recently. Thank you very much sister when I went onto my phone and I clicked on your video. Thank you for these blessings.
"...and the scenes that are described here in these books are committed by us Seventh-day Adventistist" how do you know that. Are you an eyewitness to these scenes "
Thank you dear sister, for speaking out on this very important topic. Unfortunately many in the church have accepted the teachings of the world on this matter “so long as both parties are consensual what happens in the bedroom is no one’s business.” As you have articulately shown, it is very much God’s business. There are 3 persons in the marriage union, not two, regardless if we acknowledge this or not. The third person being God, therefore, if He does not consent it is not permissible. In order to satisfy perverse cravings, many will argue it is acceptable but if we are honouring our bodies as temples, we would know it is unholy to engage in this and other sexually deviant practices. A very important point regarding the children also. I pray God continues to bless and expand your ministry. I was subscribed but much of the content is not in English.
Exactly this is the case my dear brother or sister in Christ Actually, all my videos have the English version, only my husband has presentations in Romanian language. Thank you for your encouraging words and may God bless you.
This is good counsel not vague at all it is only vague to them that do not what to hear it or they themselves do not want to change. Lets start here if you practice things that an animal would do like putting your face where one would usually urinate or defecate you might have some issues that need to be addressed. If you are knowing each other on the Sabbath ( sacred hours) you would be doing you own pleasure. This would be considered sin . Brothers and sisters let us take subjects like this very serious. The writings are inspired and there is nothing wrong them it is us. We serve the MOST HIGH GOD so the standards are gonna be HIGH. peace and love God bless
This is vague and without foundational principles from the Bible. For example, the breasts are not considered as sexual organs, so it’s a sin for your husband to touch your breast in an intimate way? The mouth is not a sexual organ, so married couples should not kiss either. Go to the Bible and define which acts are prohibited according to the Words of God.
There is very little prohibition in the bible regarding sex. The bible focuses on dedicated relationships. And sex within that dedicated relationship. The sex act itself is there to enjoy and explore. Modern society is very screwed up but so is the negativity of this video. Very Victorian age stuff as Ellen Whites time was.
The Bible specifically speaks about breasts. Who says the breasts are not sexual organs? Why else would the word say "let her breasts satisfy you always" - Proverbs 5:15-20, emphasis 19? The mouth also can be sexual depending on how it is used. So then are spouses not supposed to kiss each other? Considering that the nerves of the entire body is connected, almost the entire body is sexual (except for the parts that are evidently not and the parts that are sexual individually but don't belong together).
@@southhillfarm2795There is very little prohibition in the Bible regarding sex, that depends on what one considers to be very little. But even if there is very little, that's because what's understood doesn't need to be said.
I understand the intention of this video. However, your inability to speak about specifics clearly reveals your lack of understanding/knowledge of godly sexuality. It would have been more helpful to invite a godly therapist because this presentation has unecessarily put many in confusion. What is an animal passion? What is sexual excess? These are not address. B12 and vit c are not caused by sexuality come on. Why are you not quoting apostle Paul? The wife does not have authority if her own body but yields it to her husband. In the same way, the husband does not have authority over his own body but yiels to his wife. Deuteronomy 24:5 when a man is newly married, he shall not go out to with the srmy or be liable for any other public duty. He shall be free at home one year to be happt with his wife whom he has taken. What is implicit here is that they would engage in frequent very intimacy. You speak about balance but you remain silent on the sweet pleasures and joys of sexuality. I humbly want to warn you against ascetism which is also reprehensible. How it strehgthens a relationship. Is it time to explore the idea, at the GC level, of creating godly sexuality education curriculum for young adults. Please show more discernment innthe future. To all readers sex in marriage is GOOD, ENJOYABLE AND HEALTHY. if when you think about sex, you are not thinking these words, it is time to get professional help. This presentation unfortunately will cause more confusion!!!!
Thank you so much God's servant for the powerful warning message. May the Lord richly bless you. I would like to ask if possible for you to do a presentation on how sex should be consumed in a Christian manner so that God's people can know where to draw the line.
I havent yet watched, about 2 yrs ago I studied marriage for myself from EGW adventist home and learned that excess is a sin. I can agree that it can be sin sometimes i will pray and ask Jesus if this is the right time to be intimate with my husband because I dont want to satisfy the lust. In my opinion intimacy is an act of reproduction. But i am going to watch this video and hear what this Sister has to say!
@@sheealem1 What a mechanical, boring married life you have. But the biggest victim of your extremism is your husband, and I sympathise with him dearly.
Wow!, a lot of generality but no specifics. The word slave seems to pop up a lot. What does it mean? How is the word used? Is Ellen White referring to frequency of sex? Who decides what excess frequency is if the couple have a willing sexual connection? I think Ellen White addressed elements of her time which is quite different from our time. There is no doubt sexuality today is in hyperdrive. Pornography for men and television ( which is a passing phase because of the internet) has driven most of this is our modern age. But God Understands these issues and is there to help. This is a constant issue in every generation. Sex is indeed a gift and should not be degraded, but the passion of sex should never be withheld and should be enjoyed thoroughly. Too much emphasis is placed on negative behaviour, why not bring some positive aspects of the sex act into the conversation if you believe it is a gift from God?. The fact is that a good sex life brings health, vitality, relaxation, benevolence, and many other good things spring from sex. Sex contributes to longevity, caring for others when your sexually satisfied. Why aren’t they and many other points brought out because of sex? I think your video is very negative and points to a very negative aspect of a Godly gift.
It saddens me the lack of understanding and insight. Even if you are married, if one partner says no its a hard no. But a good marraige should be mutually sexually fulfilling. The teaching of give and you will receive comes to mind. Things such as frequency and other details are between the husband and wife and as long as within the biblical teachings of sexual morality and not described as an abomination before God are private within the confines of marriage. So if you not having a healthy love life which includes sex, the key is communication. Wives submit to your husbands and husbands submit to your wives. Your sex life can be viewed as a barometer of your marraige and problems in love life are normally a symptom of a breakdown in communication and mutual respect. So if facing problems try reach out to your pastor or elders as a couple. From a happily married fulfilled husband over of 20 years
She has said alot without saying anything at all. What is animalistic tendencies? Define and give examples? What is debased passion? Define and give examples? Giving generalized information without giving specific examples is not helpful.
You kept referring to these animal passions and unacceptable sexual conduct, what exactly are you referring to? Secondly, what is the best way, God-ordained or sanctified way of having sex in the confines of marriage?
Let the spirit of God lead you to the answer. You'll hear His voice and be directed if you seek Him in contrition and with a heart willing to obey. No further detail is needed for to do so itself would be dishonorable and uncouth. Seek holiness and godlikeness and all things will be made manifest to them who are of a pure heart. ❤
@@JahBlessd unfortunately your answer is ambiguous and may not help the one who asked the questions. The prohibited sexual activities have to be defined, so that we do not impose imagined guilt-burden on married couples.
The quoted passage highlights concern over abuse of organs that were not designed for sex. I perceive that the passage refers to anal and oral sex (I presume you understand the details of these sexual 'options').
@danielchidaushe1559 I choose to believe that the spirit grants wisdom and understanding to those who ask. The truth only eludes them who are in opposition to it. Grace ❤
The concept of what is wrong will continue to be defined by the Spirit of God in those who are seeking His glory and not their own. The heart debased by the influence of the world and abuse will not discern with clarity that design which God hath prepared for His holy sanctified ones. Let them who seek the company of the 144,000 gladly place all actions, words, and thoughts upon the alter as an acceptable sacrifice to God. He alone defines what is godly!
Yes, we do research in the Bible not the world. The language of the Bible reserves conjugal relations between married couples i.e. a woman and a man. The world uses the term "partner" to euphemize sexual relations between same sex unions. Note: marriage is between a man and a woman. The Bible is clear and not ambiguous about it.
Prove that from the Bible, please. It makes me so sad to see the erroneous and extreme views that professed Christians sometimes get. The takeaway message is if sex in marriage is made enjoyable, it must be wrong and sinful. To think of all the marriages that have suffered terribly as a result!
Is the eye part of the sexual organs or the hand or the mouth? Is using these organs a sin? Is the missionary position prescribed by the Bible? Is having intercourse everyday a sexual excess?Should couple be counting how many times they have sex every week? Can married couple have sex during sabbath hour? A mutual interest in the intimacy and what needs to occur has to be established. What is excessive for one couple may not be for another based on how God differently created us with many talents and abilities. When there is no love in a marriage all these issues becomes an issue. God created lust not the devil. The devil uses lust for evil. As for me and my house we will serve the Lord with our lust.
A marriage counselor said lust and love can't exist at the same time. Did God create lust? Or did he create a desire for husbands and wives to express their love towards each other physically, which is not lust?
@Behold-I-Come to each their own. Now, considering making love on the Sabbath. Think about this. God told Adam and Eve to be fruitful and multiply before the fall so sex is considered a holy and pure event. Society has messed us up by making us think that it's just something to do. If sex was permitted before the fall, it's permitted on Sabbath. That's just me and no one has to agree. I've heard so many differences of opinions but the lord lead me back to the beginning. God bless and may the Lord have mercy on us all🙏🏽
I think when were considering what is okay and not okay on Sabbath, the main point should be, does this keep my focus on God? One and two, is this something that HAS to be done on Sabbath. God has given us 6 days and asks for 1.... Sex can be har on any of the other days and the sabbath kept for God. Many people are not having sex 7 days a week... So its not that it has to be on sabbath. Sex in itself is not a sin of course. @@rroller124
@@rroller124 the bible actually refers to the 'marriage bed' as holy. there's no way one holy thing desecrates another holy thing. The assumption that sex on the sabbath is an offense is a mere human fabrication. There is fine line between Phariseesm and obedience to divine instructions. These assumptions are exactly how Phariseesm was born (i.e. adding of human traditions to the law of God which made it impossible to obey and Christ had to dismantle the system at the peril of His life.) We must guard against such tendencies within adventism - we should not add commandments which complicate life and were never mentioned in scripture. We have earned the title of 'cult' because of unbiblical subtle commandments that are burdensome on believers...
@@danielchidaushe1559It is evident that one holy thing cannot desecrate another holy thing. However, a holy thing can be used or done in an unholy manner. So I guess that's where there is confusion in many minds. Many have never been introduced to sex as a holy thing or experienced it as a holy thing. Just because a married couple engages doesn't make the act holy - it depends on how they engage. Similar to keeping the Sabbath holy, the Sabbath is always holy but so many desecrate it all the time. This desecration doesn't make it a regular day, it makes it a holy day that is disrespected. It is the same with human sexuality.
I very much dislike videos like these which are very vague about excess and debasing actions. Are we to take upon ourselves guilt for things we do not know of? Define the limits, or the gray areas, because all this talk about debasing sexual acts just leaves one examining their own image for what could possibly be considered wrong instead of clear answers.
I understand your frustrations however, what she is saying and reading are not that difficult to comprehend. The topic is on unsanctified, unholy, ungodly sexual acts in marriage, therefore it would have to resemble the world… If you truly desire to hear her or someone name the above mentioned acts, ask directly. I’m not sure we can actually mention them here on UA-cam.
@@sOnlight67 Amen, especially when she mentioned that our organs have a specific purpose, I think that’s clear enough. I was hoping that she would quote Bible passages and not just SOP 😔 🙏
@@sOnlight67 I get it too that they can't be too explicit, but some form of extra specificity. And I did refer to the chapter which egw wrote this (or where it was compiled). It just speaks of debasement and defilement... Is it referring to couples who do something like bdsm..? What sort of degrading acts are husbands asking their wives to do to the point where a woman signs off her conscience. it makes you wonder the unimaginable. And then the quotes about the person who we think is good is rotten in his bones and will not enter heaven. This video goes out to the public, are these debasing acts as common as that everyone might be doing them or is it a select few? It plagues me.
There’s nothing vague about what she’s talking about. It’s because we’re in an age whose standards are so low. People should have standards and ours in this age is not even a standard . Even animals wouldn’t do what intelligent humans do in this our “modern “ age. Truth never is popular. Never was and never will be but truth will always be truth whether we like it or not.
That passion which is from beneath. That urge and desire which originates in the carnal. The Spirit will lead them who have consecrated all to the name, honor, and glory of God.
excessive desires e.g. for sex. Anal sex and oral can be considered excesses because the organs in use are not designed for sexual intercourse. Frequency of sex can be excessive to the point where one or both spouses are continually tired (intemperance). Some couples share their bedroom with another couple during sexual activity in which all the 4 participants are involved as a way of 'spicing up romance' (orgies). The list of animal passions / excesses is quite a long one, but the general lesson is decency and temperance. Marriage romance should be private...
If sex is used to strengthen attachments to the carnal fallen earthly nature.. which spirit would promote such activity? The HS gives us self-control.. and attribute of Himself. The glory of God being our highest aim and a life of continued prayer should lead us away from that which empowers the base animal lust towards that which aligns with the desires of sanctified holistic pure unadulterated expression of grateful love. That which the Bible condemns like orgies is fornication. If God has condemned it, the 144k will not have a desire for its practice. Abusing organs not meant for sex will be corrected in their lives.. and being a slave to sex will be culled too. There are many who will refrain from sexual activities during holy hours, let your love for God and His honor be paramount and the light of inspiration be your guide. Know that He is with you always!
Hello dear sister..I'am impresed watching your films. You are touching many important points of Adventism.But what do you think about the most important problem in today`s Adventism : in ,,The Fundamental Principles taught & practiced by SDA of 1872 and 1889 nr1- That there is one God,a personal spiritual being.....eternal,infinite in wisdom...everywhere present by his representative,the Holy Spirit. Nr2- that there is one Lord Jesus Christ, the SON of the ETERNAL FATHER, the one by whom God created all things....".And today in Official Beliefs of SDA Church Nr 2: The Trinity. Theres one God: Father,Son and Holy Spirit, A unity of three coeternal Persons. And nr 4: God the eternal Son" ..The difference is huge ! Right? So because no one never found in the Bible the term ,,trinity" and ,,God the Son" many of us Adventists is worry that today in Adventism exist two //gods//. One, biblical ,,but for us there is but one God the Father..." and another : committee of three coeternal persons. And according to this //second god// Lord Jesus Christ is not a Son of eternal God.. Because you know very well writings o sister White, what do you think about her words found in R&H July 9 1895: ,,The Eternal Father, the unchangeable one, gave his only begotten Son, tore from his bossom Him who was made in express image of his person,and sent him down to earth to reveal how greatly he loved mankind...". Regards.
I think sending her a private message is the best thing to do. If she answers your message publicly it will take away from what she just presented and open her up on both sides to attack no matter what she says just a though God bless
@@2good2go2 Really ? A fact from history of Adventism was shown. Changing God-it is most important thing to think about. Because: ,,...here we might mention the Trinity, which does away the personality of God, and of his Son Jesus Christ.."-James White R&H December 11,1855.
I think the truth is always relevant, but as children of the Most High, we must separate and speak facts in timely order. This video addresses an important issue and I believe as a united front we should not bring in topics that would confuse, distract, or belittle the topic at hand. There is a time and place for everything, please keep step with the spirit so as to maintain harmony within the ranks. Grace and peace!
Sin itself and those who participate are truly insane.. yet they would not be able to truly appreciate their predicament because of the blinding nature of sin.
Powerful my sister keep it up, you are on the right track for the times we live in.
SDA movement has a rich knowledge on every subject of life. this is a highlight of my life
Very very powerful Sister. Profoundly true. Some Narcissists abuse their wives by this means(excessive sex). The Wives are destroyed and they move on to their next Victim as if nothing has happened! I am so so glad that you covered this Topic. To God be the glory!!! I have subscribed. I exited the Marriage after almost 30 years!!! I was created for greater than this!!! Blessings in abundance!!!
Ezekiel 16:38
“And I will judge thee, as women that break wedlock and shed blood are judged; and I will give thee blood in fury and jealousy.”
AMEN LONGING FOR SUCH GODLY INSTRUCTIONS FOR SO LONG MY THE HOLY SPIRIT CONTINUE TO USE YOU
I read such quotes several times before i got married. When i got married, my wife says its excess having sex once a week. Sometimes a whole month and she says its excess!!!
I'm at the point of considering what excess really means!!!
That's regrettable and unfortunate
Refer her to the following quote
1 Cor. 7:5 Do not deprive each other of sexual relations, unless you both agree to refrain from sexual intimacy for a LIMITED TIME so you can give yourselves more completely to prayer. Afterward, you should come together again so that Satan won’t be able to tempt you ...
She's setting your marriage up for serious satanic interruption...
Pray for her, she needs eye salve.
Yeah that's unhealthy to say the least. Sounds like your wife has turned sex into a control mechanism and denied the needs of you both. Should consider requesting she attend marriage counseling about it with you, if she refuses or continues the behavior consider possibly separating as her refusing sexual intimacy even once a month will ultimately destroy your marriage. 1 Cor 7:2-5 is something she should prayerfully consider and think over as to how she is withholding a God ordained selfless act that strengthens the marriage bond.
I think the first thing that needs to change is calling it "making love" instead of "having sex". It is not excessive to make love once a week, BUT both partners need to be in agreement on this. Making love in a marriage relationship is a most beautiful and intimate thing and is instrumental in making a healthy marriage. You need to work on making this intimate time the most wonderful time of the week. It needs to be romantic and unhurried and all about focusing on your wife. It will be helpful to have intimacy with massage and without sexual intercourse some of the time, especially at the beginning. You need to help your wife see that this isn't sex, but instead making love. Then everything will change. There is more than enough time for a body to recover and build up resources when making love once a week.
you shouldve read the bible to her where wives n husbands are instructed to not withhold the marriage act excepting in certain instances ie just gave birth or on period etc
Thanks very much sister,we need to know what God wants from His church It is a blessing to us
Wow I didn't know alot of this. Thank you for this video
Thank you too!
Lord, thank you for this message.
1. Ellen White has "Testimonies for the Church", and many of her writings are indeed addressing directly SDA members. However, this is not a general rule. She also has really great volume of writings that are addressing virtually everyone, such as the Great Controversy, or the Bible Commentaries, etc.
2. Angels don't know our thoughts, thank God!!! Only God searches the hearth and is just judge of our intentions. If angels were able to know our thoughts, this would have been true also for fallen angels, and then we would never be able to resist the temptations. Thank God that He is the only one who knows everything!
Even as a young, twenty year old wife I knew something was wrong with some of the things my husband was asking me to do in the name of marriage, all while quoting that greatly misquoted bible text…”The marriage bed is undefiled…” …”
Holy angels are everywhere. How could you expect them to have to view some of these terrible acts?
Men (and some women ) without the Holy Spirit, have caused more pain and destruction with that sexual organ than… what Adam and Even caused in the Garden.
Think of the millions of women, boys and girls raped and molested through the whole six thousand years of earth’s history, for what, except for the gratification of a moment of “pleasure.”
Sigh!!!!💔🥺😢
@@sOnlight67 hello would you be willing to describe or name some of these terrible acts? I'm trying to see whether these things apply to me, I'm having difficulty wrapping my mind if the debasing actions are common place.
@@MrSneakSneak i would think anything not meant to be is wrong such as anal sex, oral sex, bdsm.
Just out of curiosity, are you guys still married?
Good and important message.
Please present a video to rebuke the Internet Service Providers (ISPs) that peddle sexual immorality.
Thank you.
Wow thank you sister 🙏 keep letting God use you
Thank you sister for this Godly message. As a man who is a SDA member I never did these sexual immortality, but I always had the tendency to do these, but always afraid to do them. Since I didn't never want to these with my wife who just passed away recently. Thank you very much sister when I went onto my phone and I clicked on your video. Thank you for these blessings.
Thanks sister you have just presented a very important present truth many men preachers shun to explore. God bless you immensely.
"...and the scenes that are described here in these books are committed by us Seventh-day Adventistist" how do you know that. Are you an eyewitness to these scenes "
Thank you so much. Im listening because i never heard this from my parents from my young age, neither at church.
God blessed 🙌
Amen. To God be the glory. My body is sacred, bought at an infinite cost. I cannot and will not allow it to be defiled.
Thank you dear sister, for speaking out on this very important topic.
Unfortunately many in the church have accepted the teachings of the world on this matter “so long as both parties are consensual what happens in the bedroom is no one’s business.”
As you have articulately shown, it is very much God’s business. There are 3 persons in the marriage union, not two, regardless if we acknowledge this or not. The third person being God, therefore, if He does not consent it is not permissible.
In order to satisfy perverse cravings, many will argue it is acceptable but if we are honouring our bodies as temples, we would know it is unholy to engage in this and other sexually deviant practices.
A very important point regarding the children also.
I pray God continues to bless and expand your ministry. I was subscribed but much of the content is not in English.
Exactly this is the case my dear brother or sister in Christ
Actually, all my videos have the English version, only my husband has presentations in Romanian language. Thank you for your encouraging words and may God bless you.
@IoansiHajnalEremie I see!, thank you. I have re subscribed. Blessed Sabbath when it comes. Your fellow sister in Christ.
This is good counsel not vague at all it is only vague to them that do not what to hear it or they themselves do not want to change. Lets start here if you practice things that an animal would do like putting your face where one would usually urinate or defecate you might have some issues that need to be addressed. If you are knowing each other on the Sabbath ( sacred hours) you would be doing you own pleasure. This would be considered sin . Brothers and sisters let us take subjects like this very serious. The writings are inspired and there is nothing wrong them it is us. We serve the MOST HIGH GOD so the standards are gonna be HIGH. peace and love God bless
This is vague and without foundational principles from the Bible. For example, the breasts are not considered as sexual organs, so it’s a sin for your husband to touch your breast in an intimate way?
The mouth is not a sexual organ, so married couples should not kiss either.
Go to the Bible and define which acts are prohibited according to the Words of God.
There is very little prohibition in the bible regarding sex. The bible focuses on dedicated relationships. And sex within that dedicated relationship. The sex act itself is there to enjoy and explore. Modern society is very screwed up but so is the negativity of this video. Very Victorian age stuff as Ellen Whites time was.
Pro 5:19 KJV Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe; let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always with her love.
The Bible specifically speaks about breasts. Who says the breasts are not sexual organs? Why else would the word say "let her breasts satisfy you always" - Proverbs 5:15-20, emphasis 19? The mouth also can be sexual depending on how it is used. So then are spouses not supposed to kiss each other? Considering that the nerves of the entire body is connected, almost the entire body is sexual (except for the parts that are evidently not and the parts that are sexual individually but don't belong together).
@@southhillfarm2795There is very little prohibition in the Bible regarding sex, that depends on what one considers to be very little. But even if there is very little, that's because what's understood doesn't need to be said.
I just want to say, you are doing a great work for the Lord. ține-o așa!
Thank you for speaking on this.........❤❤❤❤
So tactful and beautifully done.
Thank you very much and God bless you
Preach it sister preach it .. well said 👏
We need more women like this.
I understand the intention of this video. However, your inability to speak about specifics clearly reveals your lack of understanding/knowledge of godly sexuality. It would have been more helpful to invite a godly therapist because this presentation has unecessarily put many in confusion. What is an animal passion? What is sexual excess? These are not address. B12 and vit c are not caused by sexuality come on. Why are you not quoting apostle Paul? The wife does not have authority if her own body but yields it to her husband. In the same way, the husband does not have authority over his own body but yiels to his wife. Deuteronomy 24:5 when a man is newly married, he shall not go out to with the srmy or be liable for any other public duty. He shall be free at home one year to be happt with his wife whom he has taken. What is implicit here is that they would engage in frequent very intimacy. You speak about balance but you remain silent on the sweet pleasures and joys of sexuality. I humbly want to warn you against ascetism which is also reprehensible. How it strehgthens a relationship. Is it time to explore the idea, at the GC level, of creating godly sexuality education curriculum for young adults. Please show more discernment innthe future. To all readers sex in marriage is GOOD, ENJOYABLE AND HEALTHY. if when you think about sex, you are not thinking these words, it is time to get professional help. This presentation unfortunately will cause more confusion!!!!
@@dominicnoel1725 Very well said!
the video presents principles..and it's up to the reader to study, digest and apply the principles to see if whatever act aligns or contravenes it.
Thanks please pray for this generation in their eyes they are pure yet not washed from their filthyness. Especially hadj youth.
Thank you so much God's servant for the powerful warning message. May the Lord richly bless you. I would like to ask if possible for you to do a presentation on how sex should be consumed in a Christian manner so that God's people can know where to draw the line.
I havent yet watched, about 2 yrs ago I studied marriage for myself from EGW adventist home and learned that excess is a sin. I can agree that it can be sin sometimes i will pray and ask Jesus if this is the right time to be intimate with my husband because I dont want to satisfy the lust. In my opinion intimacy is an act of reproduction. But i am going to watch this video and hear what this Sister has to say!
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What a mechanical, boring married life you have. But the biggest victim of your extremism is your husband, and I sympathise with him dearly.
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Wow!, a lot of generality but no specifics. The word slave seems to pop up a lot. What does it mean? How is the word used? Is Ellen White referring to frequency of sex? Who decides what excess frequency is if the couple have a willing sexual connection? I think Ellen White addressed elements of her time which is quite different from our time. There is no doubt sexuality today is in hyperdrive. Pornography for men and television ( which is a passing phase because of the internet) has driven most of this is our modern age. But God Understands these issues and is there to help. This is a constant issue in every generation. Sex is indeed a gift and should not be degraded, but the passion of sex should never be withheld and should be enjoyed thoroughly. Too much emphasis is placed on negative behaviour, why not bring some positive aspects of the sex act into the conversation if you believe it is a gift from God?. The fact is that a good sex life brings health, vitality, relaxation, benevolence, and many other good things spring from sex. Sex contributes to longevity, caring for others when your sexually satisfied. Why aren’t they and many other points brought out because of sex? I think your video is very negative and points to a very negative aspect of a Godly gift.
It saddens me the lack of understanding and insight. Even if you are married, if one partner says no its a hard no. But a good marraige should be mutually sexually fulfilling. The teaching of give and you will receive comes to mind. Things such as frequency and other details are between the husband and wife and as long as within the biblical teachings of sexual morality and not described as an abomination before God are private within the confines of marriage.
So if you not having a healthy love life which includes sex, the key is communication. Wives submit to your husbands and husbands submit to your wives. Your sex life can be viewed as a barometer of your marraige and problems in love life are normally a symptom of a breakdown in communication and mutual respect. So if facing problems try reach out to your pastor or elders as a couple. From a happily married fulfilled husband over of 20 years
Very well said!
Please we need a video with a man saying this, cause I know some men won’t accept such message from a woman.
She is reading from a woman’s writings.
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Amen sister
She has said alot without saying anything at all.
What is animalistic tendencies? Define and give examples?
What is debased passion? Define and give examples?
Giving generalized information without giving specific examples is not helpful.
Animalistic tendencies - example aggression to the point where the wife may not know whether or not she was graped.
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You kept referring to these animal passions and unacceptable sexual conduct, what exactly are you referring to? Secondly, what is the best way, God-ordained or sanctified way of having sex in the confines of marriage?
Let the spirit of God lead you to the answer. You'll hear His voice and be directed if you seek Him in contrition and with a heart willing to obey. No further detail is needed for to do so itself would be dishonorable and uncouth. Seek holiness and godlikeness and all things will be made manifest to them who are of a pure heart. ❤
@@JahBlessd unfortunately your answer is ambiguous and may not help the one who asked the questions. The prohibited sexual activities have to be defined, so that we do not impose imagined guilt-burden on married couples.
The quoted passage highlights concern over abuse of organs that were not designed for sex. I perceive that the passage refers to anal and oral sex (I presume you understand the details of these sexual 'options').
@danielchidaushe1559 I choose to believe that the spirit grants wisdom and understanding to those who ask. The truth only eludes them who are in opposition to it.
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@@danielchidaushe1559it usually refers to masturbation
In the marriage bedroom, as long as it is not illegal, immoral and both parties are agreed…. ITS NOT WRONG TO ENJOY YOUR PARTNER!!! Do ur research
This sounds like feminism .
Oral sex is wrong
The concept of what is wrong will continue to be defined by the Spirit of God in those who are seeking His glory and not their own. The heart debased by the influence of the world and abuse will not discern with clarity that design which God hath prepared for His holy sanctified ones.
Let them who seek the company of the 144,000 gladly place all actions, words, and thoughts upon the alter as an acceptable sacrifice to God. He alone defines what is godly!
Yes, we do research in the Bible not the world. The language of the Bible reserves conjugal relations between married couples i.e. a woman and a man. The world uses the term "partner" to euphemize sexual relations between same sex unions. Note: marriage is between a man and a woman. The Bible is clear and not ambiguous about it.
Prove that from the Bible, please. It makes me so sad to see the erroneous and extreme views that professed Christians sometimes get. The takeaway message is if sex in marriage is made enjoyable, it must be wrong and sinful. To think of all the marriages that have suffered terribly as a result!
Is the eye part of the sexual organs or the hand or the mouth? Is using these organs a sin? Is the missionary position prescribed by the Bible? Is having intercourse everyday a sexual excess?Should couple be counting how many times they have sex every week? Can married couple have sex during sabbath hour? A mutual interest in the intimacy and what needs to occur has to be established. What is excessive for one couple may not be for another based on how God differently created us with many talents and abilities. When there is no love in a marriage all these issues becomes an issue. God created lust not the devil. The devil uses lust for evil. As for me and my house we will serve the Lord with our lust.
A marriage counselor said lust and love can't exist at the same time. Did God create lust? Or did he create a desire for husbands and wives to express their love towards each other physically, which is not lust?
What would be considered excess?
In my opinion 2-3 times a day or everyday even in the Sabbath.
@Behold-I-Come to each their own. Now, considering making love on the Sabbath. Think about this. God told Adam and Eve to be fruitful and multiply before the fall so sex is considered a holy and pure event. Society has messed us up by making us think that it's just something to do. If sex was permitted before the fall, it's permitted on Sabbath. That's just me and no one has to agree. I've heard so many differences of opinions but the lord lead me back to the beginning. God bless and may the Lord have mercy on us all🙏🏽
I think when were considering what is okay and not okay on Sabbath, the main point should be, does this keep my focus on God? One and two, is this something that HAS to be done on Sabbath. God has given us 6 days and asks for 1.... Sex can be har on any of the other days and the sabbath kept for God. Many people are not having sex 7 days a week... So its not that it has to be on sabbath. Sex in itself is not a sin of course. @@rroller124
@@rroller124 the bible actually refers to the 'marriage bed' as holy. there's no way one holy thing desecrates another holy thing. The assumption that sex on the sabbath is an offense is a mere human fabrication. There is fine line between Phariseesm and obedience to divine instructions. These assumptions are exactly how Phariseesm was born (i.e. adding of human traditions to the law of God which made it impossible to obey and Christ had to dismantle the system at the peril of His life.) We must guard against such tendencies within adventism - we should not add commandments which complicate life and were never mentioned in scripture. We have earned the title of 'cult' because of unbiblical subtle commandments that are burdensome on believers...
@@danielchidaushe1559It is evident that one holy thing cannot desecrate another holy thing. However, a holy thing can be used or done in an unholy manner. So I guess that's where there is confusion in many minds. Many have never been introduced to sex as a holy thing or experienced it as a holy thing. Just because a married couple engages doesn't make the act holy - it depends on how they engage. Similar to keeping the Sabbath holy, the Sabbath is always holy but so many desecrate it all the time. This desecration doesn't make it a regular day, it makes it a holy day that is disrespected. It is the same with human sexuality.
Bless GOD
I very much dislike videos like these which are very vague about excess and debasing actions. Are we to take upon ourselves guilt for things we do not know of? Define the limits, or the gray areas, because all this talk about debasing sexual acts just leaves one examining their own image for what could possibly be considered wrong instead of clear answers.
I understand your frustrations however, what she is saying and reading are not that difficult to comprehend. The topic is on unsanctified, unholy, ungodly sexual acts in marriage, therefore it would have to resemble the world…
If you truly desire to hear her or someone name the above mentioned acts, ask directly.
I’m not sure we can actually mention them here on UA-cam.
@@sOnlight67 Amen, especially when she mentioned that our organs have a specific purpose, I think that’s clear enough. I was hoping that she would quote Bible passages and not just SOP 😔 🙏
Have you been reading the mosaic law?
@@sOnlight67 I get it too that they can't be too explicit, but some form of extra specificity. And I did refer to the chapter which egw wrote this (or where it was compiled). It just speaks of debasement and defilement... Is it referring to couples who do something like bdsm..? What sort of degrading acts are husbands asking their wives to do to the point where a woman signs off her conscience. it makes you wonder the unimaginable. And then the quotes about the person who we think is good is rotten in his bones and will not enter heaven. This video goes out to the public, are these debasing acts as common as that everyone might be doing them or is it a select few? It plagues me.
There’s nothing vague about what she’s talking about. It’s because we’re in an age whose standards are so low. People should have standards and ours in this age is not even a standard . Even animals wouldn’t do what intelligent humans do in this our “modern “ age. Truth never is popular. Never was and never will be but truth will always be truth whether we like it or not.
Adventist I guess have written their own addition to the Bible. The Christian bible warns not to do this.
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Why being covered?
Why not?
@Crabtree1844 because adventists are not muslims
@Crabtree1844 because she has hair.
@@servantsimbai ...why do people wear hats, headwraps, hoodies, prayer shawls...etc when they have hair?
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read 1 Corinthians 11:3-15, please. Focus on vs 3 and 15.
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Taboo* is the common spelling in North America.
@ Thx for this enlightenment! What culture spells it TABU🤔
Why?
What is animal passion.
Grunting like a pig
That passion which is from beneath. That urge and desire which originates in the carnal. The Spirit will lead them who have consecrated all to the name, honor, and glory of God.
excessive desires e.g. for sex. Anal sex and oral can be considered excesses because the organs in use are not designed for sexual intercourse. Frequency of sex can be excessive to the point where one or both spouses are continually tired (intemperance). Some couples share their bedroom with another couple during sexual activity in which all the 4 participants are involved as a way of 'spicing up romance' (orgies). The list of animal passions / excesses is quite a long one, but the general lesson is decency and temperance. Marriage romance should be private...
If sex is used to strengthen attachments to the carnal fallen earthly nature.. which spirit would promote such activity?
The HS gives us self-control.. and attribute of Himself. The glory of God being our highest aim and a life of continued prayer should lead us away from that which empowers the base animal lust towards that which aligns with the desires of sanctified holistic pure unadulterated expression of grateful love.
That which the Bible condemns like orgies is fornication. If God has condemned it, the 144k will not have a desire for its practice. Abusing organs not meant for sex will be corrected in their lives.. and being a slave to sex will be culled too. There are many who will refrain from sexual activities during holy hours, let your love for God and His honor be paramount and the light of inspiration be your guide.
Know that He is with you always!
Body or body parts controlling the mind instead of mind controlling the body.
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Hello dear sister..I'am impresed watching your films. You are touching many important points of Adventism.But what do you think about the most important problem in today`s Adventism : in ,,The Fundamental Principles taught & practiced by SDA of 1872 and 1889 nr1- That there is one God,a personal spiritual being.....eternal,infinite in wisdom...everywhere present by his representative,the Holy Spirit. Nr2- that there is one Lord Jesus Christ, the SON of the ETERNAL FATHER, the one by whom God created all things....".And today in Official Beliefs of SDA Church Nr 2: The Trinity. Theres one God: Father,Son and Holy Spirit, A unity of three coeternal Persons. And nr 4: God the eternal Son" ..The difference is huge ! Right? So because no one never found in the Bible the term ,,trinity" and ,,God the Son" many of us Adventists is worry that today in Adventism exist two //gods//. One, biblical ,,but for us there is but one God the Father..." and another : committee of three coeternal persons. And according to this //second god// Lord Jesus Christ is not a Son of eternal God.. Because you know very well writings o sister White, what do you think about her words found in R&H July 9 1895: ,,The Eternal Father, the unchangeable one, gave his only begotten Son, tore from his bossom Him who was made in express image of his person,and sent him down to earth to reveal how greatly he loved mankind...". Regards.
I think sending her a private message is the best thing to do. If she answers your message publicly it will take away from what she just presented and open her up on both sides to attack no matter what she says just a though God bless
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@@2good2go2 Really ? A fact from history of Adventism was shown. Changing God-it is most important thing to think about. Because: ,,...here we might mention the Trinity, which does away the personality of God, and of his Son Jesus Christ.."-James White R&H December 11,1855.
I think the truth is always relevant, but as children of the Most High, we must separate and speak facts in timely order. This video addresses an important issue and I believe as a united front we should not bring in topics that would confuse, distract, or belittle the topic at hand. There is a time and place for everything, please keep step with the spirit so as to maintain harmony within the ranks.
Grace and peace!
What madness
Sin itself and those who participate are truly insane.. yet they would not be able to truly appreciate their predicament because of the blinding nature of sin.
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