It's usually girls that quickly get boring asking questions after questions (like a police inquiry) but we can reverse it with wit and "non-questions" of our own.
Excellent analysis as always. I like the idea of practicing at home. When I graduated, I sent out several resumes and got interviews at great companies, but I did terrible in the interviews and got no job offers. I had no idea how to interview. I bought several books on the subject. One book was written by a VP of Human Resources and listed most of the questions asked in interviews and what they were looking for in the answer. Most questions take the form of -- Tell me about a time when you .... So, it's asking for a story. I listed every question and three stories that I could give from my background. (After you give your first story they sometimes ask "So, what's another time when you ....) I rehearsed my stories for five or six hours a day for several weeks, until I had them memorized. Then I rehearsed making them sound like they weren't memorized. I sent out another round of resumes and got seven interviews. I got five job offers out of those seven interviews. Todd is our VP of Human Resources. He's given us all of the questions, and what they are looking for in our stories. An approach is basically the beginning of a job interview. So, practice man, practice.
@@ultrasgreen1349 sorry, that was many years ago. But, if you are looking for info on interviewing, look for books that have the specific questions that you will be asked and what they are looking for in your answer. The questions usually take the for of "Tell me about a time when you had to ...." Also, many books tell you to be enthusiastic, but I went to a consultant and he explained that you should be relaxed. That makes you look like someone who is in control. I had very good results with that approach.
In Italy they're used to be asked questions. As long as they're posed in a fun and value-offering ways, they're cool with them, it's not something to avoid. It's mostly assumptions they don't know what to do with/how to respond to
Question for Todd: Can you do a video specifically on online openers? I get a reasonably good number of likes/matches, but I struggle with what to say in the first message. Particularly with apps like Tinder where we match before talking. Any advice on this area of online dating would be awesome.
I would be grateful for an answer to the following question: How much time should I spend in the field vs. analysis vs. learning theory? 70-20-10? I recently bought recording gear and was wondering if it is not more effective to game new girls than to listen to past interactions.
There's no point really. If she likes you then she'll text you sooner rather than later (as long as you don't double message), if she doesn't then you will never hear from her again. In the case of the second, best thing you can do is go out and meet other girls and share your life on social media as the fun, outgoing, interesting, well put-together man that you are.. once she thinks she's made a mistake in declining a third date she MIGHT get in touch but don't wait for it.
If you go over the edge, can always say just kidding. Especially if rapport isn't there yet. Don't be a clown by actually caring about the person in front of you, wanting to get to know them, teasing and flirting is just a way to have fun with them and actually is a form of endearment imo.
verbally, you insert opinion plus question plus tease physically, you touch her while your eyes NOT looking at her its about fractionation, that makes anything interesting in life, not just game
It's usually girls that quickly get boring asking questions after questions (like a police inquiry) but we can reverse it with wit and "non-questions" of our own.
Excellent analysis as always. I like the idea of practicing at home. When I graduated, I sent out several resumes and got interviews at great companies, but I did terrible in the interviews and got no job offers. I had no idea how to interview. I bought several books on the subject. One book was written by a VP of Human Resources and listed most of the questions asked in interviews and what they were looking for in the answer. Most questions take the form of -- Tell me about a time when you .... So, it's asking for a story. I listed every question and three stories that I could give from my background. (After you give your first story they sometimes ask "So, what's another time when you ....) I rehearsed my stories for five or six hours a day for several weeks, until I had them memorized. Then I rehearsed making them sound like they weren't memorized. I sent out another round of resumes and got seven interviews. I got five job offers out of those seven interviews. Todd is our VP of Human Resources. He's given us all of the questions, and what they are looking for in our stories. An approach is basically the beginning of a job interview. So, practice man, practice.
can you please share the name of the book?
@@ultrasgreen1349 sorry, that was many years ago. But, if you are looking for info on interviewing, look for books that have the specific questions that you will be asked and what they are looking for in your answer. The questions usually take the for of "Tell me about a time when you had to ...." Also, many books tell you to be enthusiastic, but I went to a consultant and he explained that you should be relaxed. That makes you look like someone who is in control. I had very good results with that approach.
Bruh, this info is valuable AF.
finally. a solid communication tip
In Italy they're used to be asked questions. As long as they're posed in a fun and value-offering ways, they're cool with them, it's not something to avoid. It's mostly assumptions they don't know what to do with/how to respond to
Question for Todd: Can you do a video specifically on online openers? I get a reasonably good number of likes/matches, but I struggle with what to say in the first message. Particularly with apps like Tinder where we match before talking. Any advice on this area of online dating would be awesome.
Sergio Sorokin ;)
I would be grateful for an answer to the following question: How much time should I spend in the field vs. analysis vs. learning theory? 70-20-10? I recently bought recording gear and was wondering if it is not more effective to game new girls than to listen to past interactions.
A very powerful eye opener, I'm going to start implementing these skills from today, thanks again for a good lesson
Truth is….. if it flows it flows
It’s funny how i’ll have a girlfriend for several months and then forget these fundamentals 😂. Good straightforward advice
Take up a new interesting hobby every summer and you'll always have something new to talk about yourself
Awesome
Yoda of pick up
2nd!
Share first, ask questions later...
Watch at 0.5 speed
Why?
I had 2 dates, after 2 dates he doesn't respond to my messages. Is it possible to get that girl interested again?
There's no point really. If she likes you then she'll text you sooner rather than later (as long as you don't double message), if she doesn't then you will never hear from her again. In the case of the second, best thing you can do is go out and meet other girls and share your life on social media as the fun, outgoing, interesting, well put-together man that you are.. once she thinks she's made a mistake in declining a third date she MIGHT get in touch but don't wait for it.
don't bother imo
See what you did wrong and fix it.
If after one date they aren't actively messaging you.. not worth
I still have a hard time from teasing/turning into a clown/being a dick because of the tease. How do i practice teasing?
If you go over the edge, can always say just kidding. Especially if rapport isn't there yet. Don't be a clown by actually caring about the person in front of you, wanting to get to know them, teasing and flirting is just a way to have fun with them and actually is a form of endearment imo.
NVM IF U WATCH TRUST U WILL NEVER GET ANY
Pickup looks like it ages you like milk!
He's what 40 now? He's doing ok.
Talk slower Todd
verbally, you insert opinion plus question plus tease
physically, you touch her while your eyes NOT looking at her
its about fractionation, that makes anything interesting in life, not just game