You WILL Wear A Hijab!
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- Опубліковано 18 вер 2024
- Yet again, Nicole and Mahmoud are arguing about clothing. Mahmoud is adamant that Nicole will eventually wear the hijab. Nicole maintains she won't. And before we know it, this descends into a full blown argument with Mahmoud storming out and Nicole packing her bags to leave Egypt.
So is there any coming back from this? It seems like an issue neither is willing to compromise on. Does this spell the end for their marriage?
Thoughts? Let's continue the conversation in the comments 👇👇
In this video I'm reacting to Nicole and Mahmoud - 90 Day Fiance The Other Way Season 4 Episode 6
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Do they actually think this relationship will ever work? It's crazy to me
Totally opposite why the girls from West even Tak to these Arabs Africans pakistani etc muslim men they are rigid highly religious and can become crazy
Totally opposite why the girls from West even Tak to these Arabs Africa s pakis tani etc mus lim men they are rigid hi ghly religi ous and can become cr azy
There's so many ways to wrap your hair. She's just stubborn. She doesn't have to wear it around him or around his moms but meN cannot see her hair it's sacred
69 likes 😂 also, I agree. There's no chemistry...
It won't. Bets on how long they last?
I could never be in a relationship that we didn’t have fun more than we argued. This is what happens when you jump into relationships with people you hardly know
Same!
Especially between different cultures.
They have to many differences and I really don't see how they'll make it. Especially with living in Egypt it's quite different than the USA. I never would especially someone that's Muslim the religion is going to be a problem and so is covering her hair. She'd be better off going home I don't see anything getting better and she hasn't been there very long the second time. If you're not happy arguing all the time controlling all the isn't going to work either
Yep...with people you hardly know and who have a totally different nationality and culture...
She whines so much.
I see a lot of people pointing the finger at her, but he’s to blame here too. I can’t help but to wonder why he set his sights on an American woman if he wanted a devout religious one. Why not just.. marry a woman that was brought up in the same culture and religion? Why seek one that wasn’t.
didn’t the get married after knowing each other for two weeks? If he was so serious then he would have made sure she had time to really convert and part of converting is understanding the faith and truly believing in it. who even taught her? Some religions make you take classes. it is clear that he wasn’t interested in truly converting her
Yes to this!! 💯
This is not religion. It is the local stupid mentality what is said to be religion…. It is basic control, stupidity and ignorance. Awful how these scam claim it to be religion 🤦🏻
They are both in the wrong here. She knew that moving there that women wear hijabs, and she's not respecting his culture. However, I wouldn't like to be forced to wear one either, but she knew what she was getting into
Well then you could it's the same of her... of why she chose someone who wasn't her religion? She converted to Islam for God's sakes
Mahmoud isn't afraid he can't make Nicole happy; he's afraid Nicole can't make him happy.
You nailed it!
Spoken like a true Muslim. Women? Rights? ha, joke
@@mosesyang4222 Islam was the first religion to give woman rights haha ur unknowledgeable and know nothing about Islam
@@mosesyang4222 We are past that, noone cares about the traditional women with boobs and wombs, we are now all about the modern women, you know the ones with dick and balls. They have the most rights these modern women.
No. He Has His Own Culture n She Is Stupid n Blind For Not Following His Culture. For crying out loud all She had to Do is Goggle His Culture n Religion. She did take His Region. So She’s Just A Stupid Crazy Lady. Grrrrrrrrrr. Seen Her Back to Her Parents in The USA.
Every time I remember that Nicole is 38 I feel deeply disturbed by her actions and thought processes, concerning this younger man
Her naivety makes her look like she's 18
@@jasg771 Just as her behavior does!
She never grew up.
He is 31. You act like he is a kid or child what? lol
I don’t get these strange men. I have seen one from the Cameroun humiliate his French girlfriend on tiktok, shaming her for not wanting to eat and/or cook Cameroonian food. Like pick a girl from your ethnicity/ religion/ culture if you want your girl to act like someone from your ethnicity/ religion/ culture!
To be fair, Nicole made false promises to him to wear the hijab, before they got married. She lied to him the entire time, and waited until she physically came to Egypt to tell him she wasn't going to wear the hijab.
That goes both ways. Why does these women stay with these overly traditional men when they don’t want the lifestyle.
@@shayla106 fair enough. I would theorize that the both stay because they hold onto the “couple’s legend”, what the couple represents in people’s eyes and they want to reconcile that dreamed vision with reality
Cos social media is a platform for people to flaunt their lives but also for cyber bullies to target on others. Its sad, but human nature is judgemental.
He want mould her as if he was the Creator of his own Work. Narc vibes!!!
They need to end it! They’re never going to agree! 😩
She knew that before she flew her ass bak off there.🤔
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@@dennisoxendine5762 you can edit by using the 3 little dots to the right of your comment.
Nicole could have stayed in LA and found plenty of Egyptians.
And pizzas...
I'm tired of women on this show getting into relationships with Muslim men and then shocked then their entire purpose is to convert them hard. It's part of the religion you won't get around. I'm not blaming the women, it's just crazy both parties think this will work
I see almost everyone blaming Nicole. I think they are equally to blame. Mahmoud just assumed Nicole would change everything about herself after they got married. Why? And why'd he wait until their wedding day to tell Nicole about his clothing and hijab expectations?
He didn’t. They talked about it before they got married and she agreed to everything.. she just changed her mind after living that way for a short while
He didn’t explain everything he said she has to wear modest clothes that’s pretty subjective
@@happyhatter I agree. Saying you're okay with dressing modestly to live in a Muslim country is very different from saying you're okay with being covered up head to toe. He clearly has very different expectations and failed to communicate.
@Happy Hatter exactly. That's why she's so confused and keeps asking him what she can wear. His communication skills are crap. He says very little other than passive-aggressive digs at her and "yes, my love".
Great video.
I wish people would learn the difference between culture and religion.
Actually, Nicole has a great idea with the clothing line but definitely the wrong country.
That idea would be a huge hit with American Muslimahs.
I am Egyptian and there are many liberal Egyptians and girls who would love her clothes. Her clothing in airport is considered modest. He is just from a more rigid class and family structure which is why his mentality is like that.
huge hit❤xxx
Can't they both just pretend that Nicole's hair is a Hijab?
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It could pass.
This is the most pointless relationship I’ve ever seen.
Hello beautiful
@@bharatkapoor4062 Hello
@@kearstinivory4038 are you from new york
She's like a blank piece of paper just does things without no thought smh
She really does. Her Deer headlight looks give it away 😂
She seems simple minded.
I thought her dress on the tell all was a great compromise, one arm was covered the other wasn't, perfect! 😂
His words REALLY means:
Sweetie = bitch
Honey = asshole
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Totally opposite why the girls from West even Tak to these Arabs Africans pakistani etc muslim men they are rigid highly religious and can become crazy
Can you blame him 🤣🤣
Nicole equals Airhead.
I think Nicole has made a lot of compromises. Mohammed, as a Muslim, should explain the religious meaning behind everything. Not just "it's my culture". She's American.. They have their own culture.
I'm American.She's just dumber than a bag of rocks.
Then she should have stayed here instead of going to a country and expecting them all to change for her
The American culture is not learning other culture and spreading their democracy.
@Lilman Yellow Thank you I keep saying this about his personal family's culture not the entire country, and I would know as I actually go to Egypt and spend time there with my Egyptian husband, and I don't have to wear a hijab when I'm there, or an abaya and I didn't have to convert to Islam, that's a big misconception. Egypt is strict in some ways yes, but it's not like other places where you could get arrested for not wearing a hijab and an abaya.
@@lilmanyellow8652No, we don’t make them conform to our culture but we do make them follow our laws. In his country gay people can be swayed to death with no consequences, it’s the same in the U.S. That’s why gay people from other countries come to the U.S. So that’s a horrible comparison. You can’t go to a culture like this and expect everyone to conform to your way of life.
I saw the movie, “not without my daughter” I’ll never go to a middle eastern country ever!! Hope she has her passport!!
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To be fair, that's not all Muslim men situations. TLC loves to show the most stereotypical situations, because they love drama. I'm married to an Egyptian Muslim man, and he didn't tell me I had to wear a hijab, or that I had to convert, nor would I have even stayed being with him had he tried. Egypt is strict with some things, but not like in the movie where they tell you if you don't cover your hair you can be arrested. Women are not required to wear hijabs and abayas there. I never wear a hijab or an abaya there when I'm with my husband, and no one bothers me about it either, because there are many women there who don't wear one, including Muslim women. Even my husband has female family members who don't wear one. While it was a good movie, you can't assume it's all like this, or that all Muslim men are like that. That kind of assumption just lumps everyone in the same boat, and then it's just generalizing. I've been with my husband almost 10 years now. Mahmoud's family and him are just more on the extreme side. I wish you a good day. 🙂
He has actually manipulated her a few times in conversation. And I am so sick of people for the sake of supposed cultural sensitivity kissing this guy's butt just because he told her she has to wear a hijab doesn't mean she has to do it just because she said 1 time she did. People are allowed to change their minds just like consent can change anytime. He's telling her to wear something on her head that makes her feel uncomfortable. What if somebody from his country came to the United States and we demanded that they can't cover their head? Why doesn't it work both ways
Hello beautiful ❤️
Finally someone said it.
Not really... Not if what was promised is the whole premise for the relationship in the first place. Or you can change your mind and get a divorce.
This isn't based in reality. The conversation about consent in the U.S. is relatively new and a lot of places, especially countries where Islam is the main religion don't have the same social views.
This is pretty common knowledge, so the fact that she chose to take her flighty ass to a conservative country and married into a hyper conservative family is her own damn fault. They even said she didn't have to convert and that she wouldn't have to cover if she didn't. She's to old to be this stupid
The thing I don't understand about her is she knows his culture why did she marry him if she doesn't want to convert to his religion.
I believe she already converted she just don't want to follow the rules that comes with converting..this is all her fault in my opinion on not doing her due diligence when it came to marrying him..especially after she left the first time she should have done her homework to see if she really did make a mistake or is this something she really wants to do.. even as far as learning the language at least the basics..but nope now look at her
I feel like that's alot of these relationships. They always act so shocked and appalled when they here about it or when they're told to do certain things
She converted prior to getting married, they also previously tried living together over there and the same problems happened... Dunno why they thought it was a good idea to get married after that..
@@sukashi7234 Sukashi I agree she should have done her homework to see if that life style is for her it's not to say like this is back in the day and she couldn't find out the internet exist the thing I don't like is how she consistently keeps on attacks him about this he didn't create the religion that is a fact she wants to live there and do want she wants to do if she wants to go around looking like Sandy Duncan in 1973 LOL that's not going to work she might as well get a divorce and move back to California.
Apparently she thinks she can change the culture of him an everyone he knows. Shes ignorant AF
They both married the wrong person
Happens all the time.
Here is what I don't understand, why are these two even together? They are like North and south. Nicole is a free spirit and independent, Mahmut is traditional and has certain traditional expectations from his future wife, fair enough, but why not marry a traditional, conservative, Egyptian woman then? Nicole whats to be with Mahmut, but also wants to remin herself, understandable, but she also converted to islam without really thinking about it or doing any research about the religion before converting, kind of a dumb move ngl. Mahmut also doesn't accept Nicole the way she is, instead he wants to change her into the kind of wife he wants her to be. It just seems....conditional to me, like ,,I'll love you, but only if you become who I want you to be." For her part, Nicole made him some promises she couldn't keep, which also doesn't sit right with me. Real love is respect and I don't see much mutual respect between these two.
This looks like a very stressful, tortures relationship and for what? Just seems to me that they would both be much happier if they went their separate ways.
Totally opposite why the girls from West even Tak to these Arabs Africa s pakis tani etc mus lim men they are rigid hi ghly religi ous and can become cr azy
She's a mess. She needs therapy not a husband
They dont even seem to be in love, I dont get their relationship at all. They show no chemistry or affection🤦🏻♀️ why not just divorce and move on?
I think they are both uncomfortable. He is nervous Orr even scared and she is in shock
Just separate already...this isn't ever going to work. Two completely different cultures and she's trying to be picky about what she wants to follow in his religion and that's not how it works. She obviously can't convert fully, so this relationship is just bound to fail. 💀
This ! U said it all. Although she can’t be made to wear the hijab and this has to be her own choice as to when she wants to start wearing it . Hijab is mandatory in Islam. So she is not fully accepting Islam when she says I won’t wear it . Unfortunately she converted too fast and he didn’t guide her properly . So they are both at fault.
Yep... totally agree
They should just both go to America
I think he's so adamant that she wears a hijab because of his family's pressure
I think Nicole was not genuine about who she is before they got married. She knew the culture of his family and what he wanted. She pretended to be what he wanted while she was cosplaying his culture, now she is done pretending to be part of the culture.
That says exactly what it is.
She didn't realize that making all these changes would be difficult. She thought she could do it before marriage.
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@@deelaljee9176 she didn’t realize changing everything about herself would be hard? If she was a teenager that would be understandable but she is an adult.
@@lilmanyellow8652 its not controlling he just wants her to do what she said she would be for they got married. It like if you and your spouse agreed to having kids before marriage than after getting married one of you changed your mind. It would cause problems. He takes the modesty part of his religion serious. The religion is a big part of the culture and since she went to Egypt on spiritual trip in the first place then she knows how important his spirituality is.
Our society has odd ideas about religion. Religion is not culture. It involves belief, conviction. If she doesn't feel personally connected to the religion, it is just a performance. She'll be perpetually acting in bad faith, and that's never a recipe for happiness.
Your second sentence...
Thaaaaaank you!!!👍🏾
Religion in this culture IS culture
Islam is plauged with culture. I've met true believers who cut out the culture and follow the Quran. I analyzed different countries Islam when I found out Somali girls start wearing hijabs as early as age 2 but don't have to on their wedding day it puzzeled me....then found how strong culture is over actual Religion. Like Saudi Arabia the royals practice a more secular Islam than their people and use Religion to maintain their power by allowing strict cultural practices.
Their not a good match
Totally opposite why the girls from West even Tak to these Arabs Africans pakistani etc muslim men they are rigid highly religious and can become crazy
Totally opposite why the girls from West even Tak to these Arabs Africa s pakis tani etc mus lim men they are rigid hi ghly religi ous and can become cr azy
So many women have been abused by their make partner and afterwards they're told "I only did it because I love you" the sweet words don't replace horrible words and actions.
By leaving she's protecting her own mental and emotional health.
I am completely in agreement with Mamoud.She already left once and came back knowing what would be expected of her . She is a middle aged woman who should have thought about what would have been expected of her living in a Muslim country and what she would have to change to live there. If she couldn't do this then why marry him?
This is all about his ego and he's embarassed that he can't 'control' his wife. He's actually doing something against his religion as the hijab is a woman's choice - the fact that he's trying to force her shows it's just about the power dynamics. Many muslim women don't cover their heads, except in prayer/in the masjid.
Yes exactly!
What are talking about ? Im a muslim woman and a muslim woman that does not cover her hair in public is sinful. Hijab is fard (obligation) upon us not just during the prayer. Its not a " choice" . Its and obligation from Allah to us women.
Dont spread misinformation.
She married a Muslim man and moved to a muslim country. She’s balking about “style”. No one cares about her “fashion”. She’s destroying her relationship because of clothes and playing stupid. She’s manipulative and toxic
@@muslimah42 it's not miss information it is indeed va woman's choice to wear a hijab men are not allowed to force a women to wear a hijab and men are also not allowed to force a woman not too wear a hijab if she wants to wear one.
It is really a choice 😃
I think it's the issue with the society in that country. His parents even asked when she was gonna cover her hair again. And they also told him to get her on the right path.
The same thing with the restaurant, he felt uncomfortable to go there because of the rules of society.
He thinks about what the others think and view him!
So I wouldn't say that he is necessarily controlling.
He is scared to be alienated by his community!
He’s not annoyed that she’s not wearing it, he’s annoyed that she stopped wearing it and agreed to something before they got married.
You are 100% correct. She agreed and than did a 180. She is an annoying dingbat. "oh my problems stayed here after I left" duh brat its called their culture..smh..
Still boggles my mind that some people see a hijab as a positive thing for women….
Look at what is happening in the west with only fans and 304s. I’d take a traditional hijab society any day.
@@LanDominiq I understand that she got herself into this mess so I do feel for him since she lied but come on a chick from LA doesn’t want to be told what to do. I hope they both find peace and love
Totally opposite why the girls from West even Tak to these Arabs Africans pakistani etc muslim men they are rigid highly religious and can become crazy
There is nothing wrong with it.
Don't bash other cultures because you don't understand or agree with it. Other people can say the same about many things of American culture. Don't be ignorant
Always excited for an upload
What is telling in the preview is at his uncles, they are telling him he needs to “teach/train” her to do what she is supposed to. Only woman in the room is covered in a outfit that looks like a bag with slits for her eyes. Nicole take a good look your husband is planning on you looking like that!!! Run girl and come home get a divorce!
@Lilman Yellow Agreed!
A burka.
it s the niqab find it beautiful that only their husband and family see their beauty . not for the word to comment on .
@@bluelight8664 Fine if they choose that but not everyone does nor should they be forced. Looks more like control, oh look honey I am the only one that can see your beauty, ok hubby I feel the same way here you wear one too. Egypt is a very hot country and it isn’t uncommon to be on a local bus and the women that are covered head to toe are throwing up into a bag or pan, under their covering outfit but hey no one is seeing their beauty except their husband.
@@danasandoval624 yep agreed. My hubby is from Egypt, and I spend time there and it does get super hot. I am lucky in that, my hubby is not like this guy. My hubby doesn't force me to wear a hijab and I don't wear one while I'm there, and he didn't try to force me to convert to Islam, granted Nicole did this stuff willingly, because she didn't think it was going to be enforced by him all the time, that was her fault for assuming this and also rushing into her decision without becoming educated first. I think people get this misconception that is law for women to wear a hijab in Egypt, it is not. Oh and the person who said burka, a burka is one that covers the face as well, and that's not that popular there among the women, while some there do wear a complete burka I can say all the places I've been to in Egypt most of the Muslim women only will wear a higab not a complete burka. Egypt also has a Christian population there, and the Christian women I've seen there don't wear any higab and even some Muslim women don't all wear one. Egypt is not as strict as some other middle eastern countries. A woman can go without a higab or an abaya and not be arrested.
Why does everyone hate her hair??? I love it and think it totally fits her. Mine’s the same only a little longer
she looks like a blonde coconut head
looks like H&R Puff N Stuff
Nicole would have been more compatible with an Arab Christian’s e.g the Egyptian Coptic people or an American Arab.
She's not compatible with anyone
@@annwethenorth I feel that is a bit to final to say. I don’t think either of them is truly ready for a relationship. They both need to stop and get real with themselves. They both have growing to do. She needs to take a real hard look at and some responsibility for her impulsiveness. I don’t think she knows who she is.
I feel like he is getting antsy because he feels like he should have already had a wife by now and is saying well the foreign thing worked for my brother. He needs to say this is my life and I need to do it in my time and a way that works for me. I do have concerns that he needs to understand, Nicole as well, that you have to have defined values and boundaries because you need to find a person who fit them. Superficial differences are cool but our core values define how we perceive the world.
@@annwethenorth Totally opposite why the girls from West even Tak to these Arabs Africa s pakis tani etc mus lim men they are rigid hi ghly religi ous and can become cr azy
She doesn’t care. Everyone needs to change for her, she plays the victim, but she lies and knows exactly what she is doing
Not all muslim egyptian men are this strict. It depends on the person. It just happened to be so that Mahmod is like this. Ok.
This can't be real. 2;miserable people
I see no romance just awkward
This was a one night stand that should have been just that.
Honestly if I married a foreign man, I wouldn’t mind compromising and adjusting to his culture but I would expect him to be patient with me. Within five years we could create the relationship we both want.
Be careful. Stubborn & DOMINEERING men run in all cultures.
I don't know why im feeling that she is a SPY 🕵️ and she went there for a mission 😎
Lol," i will never ever cover my hair." "Ok i will give you time about this..."
Mahmoud got angry when Nicole brought up that he told her she didn’t have to wear the hijab because he knows his strict, religious uncle will find out he doesn’t have control over Nicole. This marriage is doomed. Go home Nicole before they really do take your passport !!
Considering his uncle owns at least one large factory I have a weird feeling that his change of mind might have to do with inheritance... As someone who always used to sew her own cloths this would be an opportunity of a lifetime. He's scared his family is going to see it. They are just opposites I feel like I dunno. Not to be mean to her but I'm under 30 and had to light my stove with a lighter when the power went out. That's how gas stoves used to work.
In Islam, there are very specific rules for inheritances, so sorry to burst your "theory bubble," but the two have nothing to do with each other. 😂
@@ladyfallon Thank you for your positive reply. Can you educate me in how how that happened? I'm very interested in your behavior and would love to have the anger explained
@tiajones2576 I am genuinely confused by your reply. You thanked me for my positive comment, but then asked me to explain my anger because you're interested in my behaviour? What?
Also, your original comment (which has been edited), states that you suspect the relationship is still continuing because an uncle owns a large factory, and you "feel" inheritance is the factor for the continued relationship. I'm a Muslim, like Mahmoud, and half my family comes from Egypt. My 1st comment was letting you know that there are specific rules in our religion, in regards to inheritances, and this wouldn't be a factor.
@lilmanyellow8652 Are you based in the United States, by chance? The reason I ask is that electric stoves are generally more popular than gas stoves in the US (estimated only 36%-38% of Americans use a gas stove according to the most recent Cooking Fuel Survey); however, this isn't necessarily the case globally. America has been big about giving incentives, such as tax credits/deductions for people who switch from gas-based appliances to electric-based appliances, in a bid to "go green" by combating both global warming & air pollution - both of which are real issues that should be addressed. The same has been done for going "solar;" incentives such as tax breaks are given.
☆Also, just a quick side note, because I'm a bit of a nerd 🤓: when it comes to fueling appliances, there are FIVE categories of options. They are: 1)"Solid Fuels," such as coal, charcoal, and biomasses like wood & even manure. 2)"Kerosene" 3)"Gaseous Fuels," such as LPG (Liquefied Petroleum Gas), Biogas, & Natural gas. 4)"Electricity" 5)"Other Fuels;" solar is listed in this category, & so is alcohol.
As expected, some options are more environmentally friendly than others. However, other factors are taken into consideration, such as where a person lives. For example, if a person lives in a highly populated area, one can expect a predisposition to high levels of preexisting pollution in the environment; thus, this area may have passed environmentally-backed rules & regulations that affect any current & future zoning & construction in the area. Basically, in situations like this, politics will dictate whether you can or cannot even own a gas stove if you wanted to or not.
Unfortunately, many Americans are misinformed about the different types of gases that are used to fuel appliances, & how some are actually "clean," while others are indeed "polluting." Instead, ALL gas-fueled products have taken a bad reputation.
• Some examples of "clean" gases include: Biogas, natural gas, LPG. Biogas is great because it's a renewable source of energy, plus it is made by fermenting organic matter, like food scraps & animal manure. This is great for farmers because they can use the 💩 from their cows, for example, & convert it to a renewable source of energy.
• Some examples of "polluting" gases include: Kerosene.
As for globally, a recent survey shows that the "use of gaseous fuels as the main cooking fuel increased consistently from 31% in 1990 to 49% in 2020, overtaking unprocessed biomass fuels as the dominant main cooking fuel type in the last decade. Use of electricity as the main cooking fuel also rose, from 4% in 1990 to 8% in 2020, with a considerably larger increase in urban areas where infrastructure tends to be better established."
Both gas & electric-based stoves have increased, but as you can see, globally, 49% of the world population was reported to be using gas-based stoves (as of 2020), whilst only 8% of the world population was using electric-based stoves (as of 2020).
Half of my family lives in Egypt, & the other half lives in the UK. In both places, gas stoves are used for cooking. My sister, who lives in Northern UK, has a giant tank that has to be filled fill gas for both heating the home & using her stove. It gets quite cold up in Northern UK, so fireplaces are also utilized (not electric fireplaces though. Actual, real fireplaces). As for the houses where she lives, and for a great portion of the UK, they almost all have solar panels on them, for their electricity.
*Additional source: Population data from the United Nations Population Division
Thanks love
I do not feel bad for Nicole..." google exists " lol 👍
She's pretty immature for a 38 yr old but so are many of the 90 day fiancé ppl
why doesn't she go with her husband to his work at the fabric store? she can learn and have more exposure to things... culture, fashion, etc. rather than sitting around at home being bored, as she claims. she just complains and complains.
Tbh I doubt he'd let her
Totally opposite why the girls from West even Tak to these Arabs Africans pakistani etc muslim men they are rigid highly religious and can become crazy
Totally opposite why the girls from West even Tak to these Arabs Africa s pakis tani etc mus lim men they are rigid hi ghly religi ous and can become cr azy
You think it's that simple? It's Egypt not America. His family is extremely conservative. Women have no rights and they just sit at home.
All this could have been avoided if she didn’t convert. As a Christian woman they wouldn’t expect her to wear the hijab.
4:08 iconic exchange
And why is it always the non muslim who has to change, why doesn't the muslim change in the relationship between non muslim and a muslim? .......And there goes the muslim argument that wearing a hijab is a woman's choice, and they CHOOSE TO WEAR IT.......utter joke 🤦♀️
I married a muslim man and went to his country Algeria and I was NEVER told to wear a hijab don't generalize
@@kimmichaud7741 One example from millions, I come from muslim country and muslim family, I think I know a bit more about the subject than you
@@miadodson1938 I literally lived in 3 muslim countries and have 4 friends married to Muslims and have tons of Muslim friends who don't wear one
Girl, he doesn't want you.
He wants a man
Oh he does but only if she agrees
Finally!!!
Somebody said it outloud!!
She's 38 years old, she acts about 12. She doesn't care about anyone. she says she wants friends. Why? You didn't care about your other ones? Your parents, or your husband. She's a narcissist. She literally ghosted him, then decided to call him back when 90 day called. Let him go find anice girl you can go off and ruin more lives you narcissist.
Girl it’s not just her. He could of married some chick from his own country. He looked for trouble and found it
I agree.
Are you blind?
You really opened my eyes to a few things about the hijab situation. I do disagree with you about him walking away. Wouldn't you walk away before things really got heated up. I mean... she was SCREAMING in his face. I was like that when I was younger, in past relationships. If I didn't walk away, I would say things I would regret. Taking a time out to cool off is good for the both of them. I think she knew he didn't mean what he said, don't you think she would be more devastated, than she was, if she took him seriously?? She's the 1 playing games, knowing they would talk things out. She just wanted to scare him to think, she would go. Anyway, love hearing your opinion, as always💜
There is amazing fashionable and modest clothing designers.
How does a western woman marry a Muslim man from Egypt, move there, and be all up in arms over the expectation of following their cultural beliefs and customs?! You covered your body and hair for your wedding. OMG girl you moved to Egypt, what else did you expect?!
It's not going to work!! That is so obvious!!!
So i know in one of your videos you mentioned it's odd that she mispronounces hijab cause she says hi-gab BUT her husband said it like that. Episode 4 they're on the bed, she's wearing her dark coloured suite and white turtle neck talking about rules and he says it that way
actually in egypt the j is pronounced g!!! it s the dialect
I DON’T feel bad for ANY of these fools on this show!😂 dude they put themselves in these situations and then cry about it!!😂😂😂😂 you all clearly didn’t do your homework 😂
I love that he doesn’t give a fuck if she upholds the bare basic of Islam, prayer. Just cover up. SMH
if Nicole was with other good looking and fluent English speakers in Egypt who are Egyptian
They would have treated her better than that uneducated guy
no sympathy for her she has reaped what she has sown lol
The only thing saving her is the tv production crew. She's clueless.
Nicole is getting on my last nerve. Just because you changed ur mind, that doesn’t give you the right to assume that your husband will do the same. Being a devoted islamic man, i dont see that happening EVER this man grew up in the religion so it’s much more important to him.
Why did she ever go back?
Does she think that she will change his ways?
I also think that he has a bad temper and is trying to keep it under wraps.
That's what i'm saying, she thinks she can change something that has been that way for millions of years. Now I see why they think of us as stupid americans. She's dreaming.
She went back because she is on the show. Remember these people have motive to be on the show
I say it again read fatwa book about whirlwind romances with eygptian men.anyway this woman nic says she's bored.jacki had to graft all day and he ended up beating her so bad that she fled with two daughters.she had to bribe officials to escape.he stamped on her stomach when she said she was pregnant and she miscarried 2 hrs later.
1. He has an obligation to teach her BEFORE she agrees to something... and 2. even when he does, he cannot FORCE her to wear Hijab.
He is not being fair to Islam or his wife
Exactly 💯 even there's Egyptians commenting on here calling him pushy and he's uneducated
Why are these two even together? Neither one is willing to compromise.
It’s crazy, the things that we do when we are infatuated… Or think we are in love. How about asking him to do some thing that goes against his religion… For you?
Totally opposite why the girls from West even Tak to these Arabs Africans pakistani etc muslim men they are rigid highly religious and can become crazy
I think it’s exactly what she’s asking him to do when she expresses she doesn’t want to wear a hijab I think…like she already dresses modestly and covers up a lot, that’s a good compromise imo!
She did, and he obliged
He did, he allowed to be there and stayed without doing any Muslim things the whole time she was there. You and Nicole simply don't see it because of ignorance to their culture.
@@AltraTara I think the idea that Nicole has already dresses modestly and is enough is stupid, that is like if you go to work with half of you uniform after signing a contract to work there, and saying "I don't wear uniforms and I know i agreed to wear the whole thing but, i've worn half and i've compromised!" It just plain stupidity and selfishness. If you don't dress the same, society like that WILL shunn you. I believe you haven't experience other cultures like that one they're before, so you don't know anything.
If you marry a Muslim and live in their country. You must respect the rules. He did tell her. She's got no idea he will be ridiculed by others for his wife being like this. It's not nice for western women but it's their culture... She's non stop argumentative
I’m sorry but there is no way you can convince me that Mahmoud isn’t gay.
I think that’s why he’s so adamant about the Hijab/halal clothing. Because this entire marriage is him trying to honour his family & make them proud and what would be the point in him marrying a woman if they don’t approve of the woman anyway?
I could be wrong about that, he could just be pushing this in the hope that the culture overload will get her to cave in and move them both back to America, after she refused to do that. In America he could eventually divorce her & finally find the man of his dreams, something he can’t do in Egypt.
Either way and I say this as a fellow queer: the blokes gay.
I agree with you and I think yes that's true
It's the same thing in Russia also
Lots of guys in countries like conservative about gay rights some guys can't come out of the closet and feel that they might be gay
I just found your channel yesterday… I’m quite enjoying all the videos from the past and current seasons. Nicole was crazy to think she could go from Liberal Los Angeles to CONSERVATIVE EGYPT and not follow their religion and culture. Then, she converts to Islam but didn’t know what she was fully getting into. CHILEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!
He’s WAY TOO CLINGY AND CODDLED by his Mom & Nicole is WAG TOO LIBERAL! Theae two are the most suffering since Daniele and Mohammad!
This girl should go home
There's no problem finding clothes that are fashionable and modest by the way. They're everywhere. She just doesn't want to adapt. A really odd couple who need to just split up.
SHE DOESNT LET HIM TALK & OPEN UP TO HER. SHES A TOTAL LIAR..
Mahmood is a big crybaby.
Nicole is 100% not the brightest bulb in the shed
Normally I’d be on her side. But she promised him she would, he communicated what he needed for the relationship and she apparently didn’t do any research about the culture she was moving into.
Well his personal culture anyway, that his family goes by, I agree. My husband is Egyptian, and I wasn't told I had to wear a hijab or an abaya. I wear jeans and longer t shirts when I spend time there, so I'm still modest, but I am free to dress how I want. Not all Egyptian Muslim households are like Mahmoud's though either. Egypt is conservative yes, but not all women have to wear hijabs and abayas there. I also didn't convert to Islam either, but my husband is not like this guy and respects my choice on that. Nicole is very immature in her behavior, and it proves it when you see that she didn't do a lick of research on their religion before deciding to convert, and she made promises that she broke now.
yeah, but they both were silly for thinking you could meet, convert her religion and totally change her lifestyle and get married with in the matter of weeks. If he was so serious then he should have given her time to make sure she could handle it before marrying her.
A foreigner decided to follow a new religion in 2 just weeks? Knowing how serious his people take this religion he should of known a 2 week decision from a foreigner, is not enough time to fully comprehend the commitment. He is also to blame.
@@Turquoise4eva absolutely! But if I at my young age can understand that I wouldn’t move to a foreign country and marry a foreigner unless I understand the culture and expectations…..she can too
@@SB-fh3sv Yep, exactly!
Just like it is haram to force someone to convert to Islam, its also haram to force or bully someone into wearing a hijab, someone needs to remind Mahmoud of that as he seems to have forgotten
He of course would not tell her off for wearing a short sleeve top in front of him, Those rules are for stranger males, not ladies and one’s own family
HE WAS CORRECT...SHE DIDN'T LOVE HIM. OR RATHER HER LOVE IS ABUSIVE..SHE CANT GET ON WITH HER OWN FAMILY AT ALL, SHE CANT GET ON WITH ANYONE..
Nicole and Mahmood have ONE thing in common, far as I can see. ONLY ONE. They are both skinny.
My theory on this is if he likes them so much he can wear it. Some of my female friends who are Muslim wear them, at least when they're in this town or nearby ones. When we toddler off on our little trips they don't wear them. They say it's just not worth the hassle and bad feeling at home to refuse to wear them.
I remember one of them sat in a city centre mini park, leaning back on her arms, a huge grin on her face, her beautiful hair loose. A huge smile on her face, she said the warm sun and soft breeze on her skin & face felt amazing and she felt so free.
It's not always as simple as a woman or girl's choice sadly.
Their families would have a fit if they knew they sometimes go in the pool at spas in a swimming costume. 😂
This guy is way too controlling, and he doesn’t want to compromise.. and I think she already comprised a lot. Living your life and family for someone is a huge commitment!! It’s not joke to live with your in laws , so yeah he should be lenient and ease her into it instead of pressuring her
that is how Egyptian men are like unfortunately. She is better off leaving before it gets more abusive
She kind of pulled a bait and switch tho....
He doesn't think she will "cave in an wear one." He thinks that she will eventually see the beauty in Islam and embrace the Hijab. I don't know how he can think that she will ever want to wear the Extra Heavy duty Heafty bag like his sister in law who wears a full Burka.... but she is also being very dramatic by refusing to wear it to his uncle's house, just because it is "too hot"... 🙄
She should wear it in his uncles home to show the uncle respect. Not Mahmoud.
Actually let him wear veil and niqab if he loves it so much
Nicole knew what was expected- even changed her religion to Islam. This is all on Nicole! This is the 2nd attempt in Egypt! I’m on Mahmoud’s side
She looks sooo good for 38!
Wdyk shaeeda is also 38 and she looks good
This is so tough. Of course he should be with someone with the same beliefs, but I bet he fell in love with her because she was different than the girls there. She converted and promised him she will follow the rules that are important to him. I agree that he should have provided a better guidance to her during that process, but if she was going through that herself, she could have asked, do a research. Now after all this time she became stubborn and talks badly about the rules she promised to him before. He was transparent, she switched. I know that for us, who are not following this strict religion or any at all, it’s baffling that a piece of clothing can break this marriage. I don’t agree with the way he’s pushing it on her and he isn’t changing his approach either. I don’t know if it would be a compromise for him that she would wear it at least sometimes, probably not, and she hasn’t even offered it. They won’t meet in the middle. I don’t think she actually even loves him that much, it’s just that she wants to win this fight about the hijab it seems. Neither of them communicate properly, she expects him to be like American boys, but he’s from the other side of the world, used to different things. She sacrificed a lot, but he’s trying too for what he is used to. She could use the time there and try to make friends, there must be other foreign/American women perhaps going through the same issues of not having friends. And I agree she could make her clothes, try to do something, instead of sitting at home waiting to argue with her husband about hijab.
They either start really working on it or stop wasting each other’s time.
Are you from Czech republic
Me,as a muslim woman could never function well with him. He doesnt have understanding for her,and he doesnt wanna put him self in her shoes. She should find someone that loves her
This woman needs to leave and stop all the foolishness she is doing in egypt.
There will be no more passion for fashion Nicole, if you're going to stay married to Mahmoud. Your interest in expressing yourself through fashion and clothing has to be over now. Accept it or move on. There is not going to be a middle ground solution.
Why's it always ok for the man to show his hair and wear what he wants but a woman can't?? Glad I'm born in America cuz fuck that.
Bottom line don’t marry a Muslim
Besides that I lived in Egypt for 8 years and had Egyptian friends. They did not wear higab and went out frequently without their husbands. His family seems extremely strict.
Run girl run
As I have said before in 90 day relationships these fools need to learn the difference between love and lust.
"I'm never going to change" *except that one time*
I think Nicole is being completely unfair. She essentially lied to Mahmoud by flippantly agreeing to all of these things then saying she made a mistake. I don't think Mahmoud would have married her knowing she was going to go back on her word. Life isn't The Sims, Nicole
She may have carelessly agreed to things she didn't fully understand but regardless, she's allowed to change her mind.
To me, both are immature and insecure. They would be better off to go their separate ways, in my opinion.
My Islamic, Egyptian, boyfriend would have never ever swore at me like that.
I think it's so Sad that Nicole doesn't know what she wants out of a relationship because if she did she wouldn't be settling for this nonsense. She would Love and respect herself enough to NOT deal with a relationship that doesnt allow her to simply be who she is and who she wants to be.
I do also agree that it's not fair that shes not understanding that she agreed to be all the things he expected her to be in order for him to have the type of partner he wants.
She should've find better people in Egypt who are open minded but not people from a fabric store
She agreed to wear it. She moved to Egypt. She needs to cover that terrible haircut anyways
It would be to her advantage to find Christian Prince on UA-cam and talk to him via Skype. He is from Egypt and studied Islam and shows Muslims the history of their Islam. Actually many Muslims are leaving Islam when they learn about the history of many of these practices. This covering up of women history has a twist as to how it got started that she shouId hear. My advice to anyone who wants to convert is to listen to him first, you won't be sorry later.
Mary Mother of Jesus wore hijab but of course everyone knows that. Hijab is not new it's from the monethestic religions It looks beautiful too.
A queen wears a crown for a reason. It's centuries that women wear something on their head or cover their head...Indian culture too..Hindu..Men in gulf wear their head covering.. Nuns wear head covering.. as if it's just a Muslim thing
Thank you! I like your commentary!
Nicole leave him! pls be a smart ass. a muslim is always toxic!
This is so ridiculous. 😮