I’ll Spare You the Details: Chapter 19 Harry’s Identity Becomes Hinged on Meghan’s Approval

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  • @megpaterson7613
    @megpaterson7613 Рік тому +379

    Am I the only person on earth that had never heard of Meghan before she started dating Harry or had even heard of Suits???
    Honestly, I can’t be can I?
    I never knew who she was or had seen her at all before Harry!!
    She has caused so much hurt 😔

    • @angelaantonio2447
      @angelaantonio2447 Рік тому +45

      No your not. I never heard of her or suits and I watch the USA network all the time. There was a video I saw of her on the red carpet for something and u hear 2 women photographers saying “ who is she I don’t know who she is” LMFAO

    • @lilyliz3071
      @lilyliz3071 Рік тому +34

      Definitely not , I’d never heard of her or the show like most people

    • @maryannsy4129
      @maryannsy4129 Рік тому +29

      You aren't the only one. I also didn't know what she was mixed race. I am missing many puzzle pieces, but the picture is still clear

    • @keithmichael112
      @keithmichael112 Рік тому +21

      The Suits thing is such a brilliant lie because you just question yourself if you don't know. Like maybe there are roving bands of Suits fans and you just missed out on it

    • @avagrego3195
      @avagrego3195 Рік тому +20

      No. I never heard of her or suits until just before the wedding. After Megxit I tried watching suits abt 3x but lasted for only abt 5 min and then watched something else.

  • @pusbanton
    @pusbanton Рік тому +193

    We never heard William and Catherine complaining about living in Nott Cottage for several years.. this woman is ridiculous, it’s so frustrating!

    • @corvettedm1
      @corvettedm1 Рік тому +9

      I think that the difference is that Bill and Cathy are actually in love! They would have lived anywhere.

    • @rachmunshine9474
      @rachmunshine9474 Рік тому +3

      Thank you exactly

    • @margaretsmist7140
      @margaretsmist7140 Рік тому

      I don’t think they ever lived there. The lived in wales before they were. married.

    • @GurjitKaur-q1g
      @GurjitKaur-q1g Рік тому +17

      ​@@margaretsmist7140They lived there after the wedding, even after they had George, then moved out, for obvious reasons, the growing family. Lived in Wales, when he was a pilot, working the search and rescue.

    • @ursularyan7652
      @ursularyan7652 3 місяці тому +5

      And William is taller than Harry and Catherine is way taller than Meghan AND they had a baby (George) while living there.

  • @karashea7823
    @karashea7823 9 місяців тому +104

    A grown man obsessing over the woman he’s seen 3 times. So sad. So toxic. She knew exACTly what she was doing.

    • @sulamcclain8532
      @sulamcclain8532 3 місяці тому +2

      He'd fantasised over her character in Suits, he told his friends in 2014 that his ideal woman was Rachel Zane, so he was perfectly primed to fall for his crush.

  • @jmoore1939
    @jmoore1939 Рік тому +91

    i personally dont believe she 'liked' him ...she thought he was wealthy

    • @judywright4241
      @judywright4241 Рік тому +15

      She should have done a deeper dig on Royal money. It’s not like she’s the first gold digger that the family had met.

    • @catco8644
      @catco8644 6 місяців тому

      Jokes on her, he is is as big of a loser as she is! Grifters on parade!

    • @shiva_productions
      @shiva_productions 3 місяці тому +1

      Same.

    • @m.h.6499
      @m.h.6499 7 годин тому +1

      Agree. And thought her childhood dream of wearing a crown and bossing her friends around could come true.

  • @littleannie390
    @littleannie390 Рік тому +255

    No one in the UK knew who Meghan Markle was until she started dating Harry. I am pretty sure Botswana Airlines staff would not have recognised her but even if they did they would not have asked a passenger for photos or an autograph that would have been very unprofessional.

    • @AJA-ie5uu
      @AJA-ie5uu Рік тому +19

      She was probably going round the crew offering them photos with her

    • @DebbiSmithDC
      @DebbiSmithDC Рік тому +16

      @@AJA-ie5uu She was probably carrying a slew of her headshots!

    • @mikeswife5298
      @mikeswife5298 Рік тому +29

      No one in the USA knew she was either

    • @lindap.9231
      @lindap.9231 Рік тому +16

      I doubt many in the US knew of M.M.

    • @elinstar6034
      @elinstar6034 Рік тому +9

      It's just a bijou Meghan-storyette, never happened.

  • @littleladyd1
    @littleladyd1 Рік тому +58

    For a Vegetarian she sure eats a lot of Chickens!!

    • @LG-nb5ur
      @LG-nb5ur Рік тому +3

      Exactly!!!

    • @cathwalsh9921
      @cathwalsh9921 3 місяці тому +6

      What gets me is the ‘trying to roast a chicken’ in the engagement interview. 1 why ‘trying’. What’s hard about it 2. Isn’t she a foodie, why would she be ‘trying’ to roast a chicken. 3. The ‘trying’ is them trying to appear as a naiive young couple just starting out in life as if they got together at 18 and just left their parents. Urgh. Irritating people.

    • @AntivenomAdams
      @AntivenomAdams 3 місяці тому

      Look up Roast Chicken in the Urban Dictionary

  • @jenniferbailey5914
    @jenniferbailey5914 Рік тому +85

    I am a survivor of NPD abuse and Harry is so trauma bonded to the wife I’m not sure he will ever recover when he is discarded and believe me, he will definitely be discarded.

    • @judywright4241
      @judywright4241 Рік тому +10

      Certainly won’t help that he’s a drug addict, accidental overdoses happen often enough.

    • @LG-nb5ur
      @LG-nb5ur Рік тому +4

      Agreed

    • @jaimekennedy5750
      @jaimekennedy5750 3 місяці тому +5

      I think she'd rather be a widow...

    • @smartmarketing173
      @smartmarketing173 28 днів тому

      Grieving widow plays right into her victim narrative, she’d get instant sympathy and media coverage, and hasn’t been able to earn public affection any other way… Add to this that she’d get all his money AND be free to find another rich sucker, er, husband. For all these reasons, combined with his thick brain, drug use, and no close relatives nearby…Harry is potentially in grave danger.

  • @sylviadonoghue2195
    @sylviadonoghue2195 3 місяці тому +43

    4:43 Doroty Parker, the iconic American writer, had a great quote, " Beauty is skin deep, but ugly is clean to the bone."
    Perfect description of that woman.

  • @PJ-Sparkles
    @PJ-Sparkles Рік тому +51

    Suits was filmed in Canada and most Canadians had never heard of it.

  • @blueskyeyes7
    @blueskyeyes7 Рік тому +39

    He comes across as so needy. The predator recognised her prey!

    • @m.h.6499
      @m.h.6499 7 годин тому

      💯💯💯

  • @lynettefinnigan9540
    @lynettefinnigan9540 3 місяці тому +81

    I used to think MM was pretty, but the evil oozes out of her now, she doesn't even hide her cold dead shark eyes anymore... I don't see any real beauty any longer, not like the natural, warm, glowing real beauty you see in Catherine !!!

    • @laurasalo6160
      @laurasalo6160 3 місяці тому

      Same. Just like Amber Heard, mm is repulsive now that we see who she really is.
      We all know somehow that there is an integral facet to beauty, however difficult to pinpoint, that exudes only from someone with a truly radiant core.

    • @alternativetext5262
      @alternativetext5262 3 місяці тому +5

      I agree. All of her beauty has faded and she looks more and more like Wallis every day

    • @voyaristika5673
      @voyaristika5673 3 місяці тому +5

      I know what you mean. Once you see an evil soul physical looks change.

    • @smartmarketing173
      @smartmarketing173 28 днів тому

      She’s aged & deteriorated, despite cosmetic procedures, and has smoker’s face. She’s usually lit with professional lighting, hours of professional makeup, and lenses that soften her look, but when you catch a close-up of the real her in bad lighting😮it’s like a jump scare! She looks like a different person in unfiltered pics.

  • @deborahvanwijk1052
    @deborahvanwijk1052 Рік тому +76

    This is is man-boy. He is incredibly emotionally immature. The fact that she is so incredibly busy but can text and FaceTime 24/7 doesn’t ring a bell in his head that maybe its made up? Shame shame shame. He totally doesn’t get that HE is the PRINCE here and she is???? She absolutely HAD to have him believe she is someone very accomplished and important because that was part of the manipulation tactic. She also had to expunge her past because none of the family fitted her narrative and someone could possibly let the cat out of the bag. It’s like hearing a story about two teenagers. Not two people in their 30’s!!!!! I love your narration and interpretations. Well done!!!

  • @run4cmt
    @run4cmt Рік тому +43

    Harry is as shallow as Meghan. I do not think he feels he has done anything wrong. I never liked him even before Meghan. He was the party prince leading an empty life.

  • @thomasinavolkman4456
    @thomasinavolkman4456 Рік тому +56

    She was like the 5th girl he has bought to Botswana and they were definitely glamping,, not as glamorous as Harry was used to but still all the amenities of a great Hotel, with less people and press. Harry has a reputation for being an oaf and not very romantic. All his previous girlfriends had dumped him and he was lonely. She pretended to like all the things he liked and her narcissism was held in check during the love bombing phase. She literally had studied everything about his mother and was smart enough to present herself as his mother's replica. She played him like a fiddle and though he was warned against her by his family who saw her as the gold digger she was, the dummy prince fell for her grift.

    • @kaken3137
      @kaken3137 Місяць тому +2

      Can you imagine if Harry was born first??? The thought is terrifying.

  • @nuthinbutluv4u142
    @nuthinbutluv4u142 Рік тому +30

    Professionals do not approach celebrities for photos or autographs.

    • @Germania72
      @Germania72 3 місяці тому +1

      I worked on cruises. We were not allowed to ask for autographs or photos. I didn't have my phone with me. Oh, it was a luxury cruise, so we had some celebrities onboard.

  • @tibouzankor1997
    @tibouzankor1997 Рік тому +82

    For a couple of passionate nature lovers, how many more times have they returned to Africa since then? And no, let’s not blame “the kids”. They’ve left those alleged children at home for days and weeks at a time before. Not that they couldn’t take them along and introduce them, while they’re still young, to the continent they claim to love so much.🙄

  • @KimberlyFairchild58
    @KimberlyFairchild58 Рік тому +57

    “He didn’t notice the Prince shaped lump under the duvet”. Eye roll… 🤣🤣

    • @sidneybales9062
      @sidneybales9062 Рік тому +8

      The assistant manager was Marcus Anderson. Those two knew exactly what they were doing. Marcus knew who was under the duvet.

  • @CK-wc8ow
    @CK-wc8ow Рік тому +43

    She said he didn't know who he was, yet when she told Doria, doria said, Prince Harry!!! So Doria knew who Harryvwas but Megan didn't 😅😅😅

  • @lostcontrol1981
    @lostcontrol1981 Рік тому +31

    She really thinks ANYONE will believe that anyone on Botswana Airlines knows who MM is? Oh come on! No one in Botswana has a clue who you are Meghan!

  • @arribaficationwineho32
    @arribaficationwineho32 Рік тому +36

    Why is me-gain ALWAYS on the floor…….sobbing, vomiting…..faking medical emergencies……???

    • @marywrobel3781
      @marywrobel3781 3 місяці тому +1

      Who takes a photo of their spouse crying, vomiting and having a nervous breakdown? Wouldn’t you be too concerned about your spouse to be thinking about taking inappropriate pictures?

    • @arribaficationwineho32
      @arribaficationwineho32 3 місяці тому +3

      @@marywrobel3781 he follows orders. If he took such a picture, she demanded it

    • @SimonCox-d6r
      @SimonCox-d6r 3 місяці тому

      I 'm sure she gets down and fakes so more things aswell

    • @margaretforbes4387
      @margaretforbes4387 3 місяці тому

      She is a malingerer

  • @michaelaharris-sutton9002
    @michaelaharris-sutton9002 Рік тому +78

    Red Flags are flying high the entire time (for everyone else who knows Harry)
    In his book, Tom Bower stated that Meghan was 'on the prowl' for a rich British man and when she met Harry began to change her many aspects of her life including changing her Wikipedia page from actress and model to actress and humanitarian.

    • @judywright4241
      @judywright4241 Рік тому +9

      I especially liked the ‘Model’ part😆I guess she can count the Reitman’s Canadian ad as ‘modeling’ and making off with the expensive shoes, is another aspect she should account for, ‘sleight of hand’ artist😆

  • @corvettedm1
    @corvettedm1 Рік тому +25

    If Africa is so wonderful they should have stayed there!

  • @soulpowerful
    @soulpowerful Рік тому +100

    Thank you for bringing humour to insanity. 🙂

  • @carolynbasham9749
    @carolynbasham9749 3 місяці тому +25

    In answer to your question, I had never heard of "Suits" . Nor had I heard of Meghan Markle ; neither had any of my friends and family.

    • @i.b.640
      @i.b.640 3 місяці тому

      I had only seen her as a one Episode psychopath on castle ;-)

  • @jackymossman6383
    @jackymossman6383 Рік тому +38

    Why is she ‘supposedly’ freaking out about the wild animals ?
    HADN’T SHE BEEN TO AFRICA SOOOO MANY TIMES ON HER HUMANITARIAN WORK, WOULDN’T SHE BE USED TO THE WILDLIFE OF THE COUNTRY THAT SHE WAS SUCH AN INTEGRAL PART OF WITH HER FUNDRAISING????

    • @LG-nb5ur
      @LG-nb5ur Рік тому +5

      I think that part has been missed by Harry in his deluded magical thinking about how perfect she is.

    • @SimonCox-d6r
      @SimonCox-d6r 3 місяці тому +2

      FUNDRAISING
      😂😅😂😅😂😅😂😅😂😅😂😅😂😅😅😅

    • @georgiegirl4103
      @georgiegirl4103 Місяць тому

      No..
      MM came with her hairdresser, make-up "artist"? Multiple changes of clothes! The whole trip was another phony joke...There is a picture while she's there with the poor orphaned children. Her mask slips and she has the most disgusted look on her face! Just like the one in their phony engagement interview when she looks down at Harry's ring! BTW: She changed that ring for much larger diamonds and gold! You really have to pity her and unfortunately Harry unless he gets out soon!

  • @bevcrusher1971
    @bevcrusher1971 Рік тому +275

    A little funny thing about Suits: I really loved to watch it (because of the boys. not because of her 😄) and me and a very dear friend of mine hated it when her character started dating the main character. And once she started dating Harry, my friend said: "She ruined Suits, now she's going to ruin to Royal Family."
    It was meant as a joke but, boy, was she right!!! 🤣🤣🤣

    • @cheeredenise
      @cheeredenise  Рік тому +38

      So interesting to hear from people who watched the show!!! Thanks for the insight!

    • @lostcontrol1981
      @lostcontrol1981 Рік тому +15

      Agreed! I love Patrick Adams and Gabriel Macht - even Sarah Rafferty (one of the main females on the show). I’ve only caught a few episodes (up late at night breastfeeding baby) - after MM and Harry were married - but I can’t imagine anyone who watched the show back at the time it was newly airing was watching it for Meghan!

    • @charliekezza
      @charliekezza Рік тому +1

      😂😂😂

    • @rachmunshine9474
      @rachmunshine9474 Рік тому +2

      I watched it back in the day although sporadically if I was flipping channels but I know I saw a few episodes at least. I neither liked nor disliked her. Then. 😂

    • @merrywalsh2809
      @merrywalsh2809 Рік тому +3

      Haha. I love your friend!

  • @GH5050-SO
    @GH5050-SO Рік тому +22

    What adults in their 30's...late 30's in her case have texting marathons? They are so immature that it's just ridiculous.

    • @Ellieangel777
      @Ellieangel777 4 місяці тому +5

      She's in her 40s, he's 39

    • @detectivefiction3701
      @detectivefiction3701 3 місяці тому +2

      Ellieangel777. Yes, NOW he's 39. But the events he's describing in the book took place in 2016 or 2017.

  • @jenslims
    @jenslims Рік тому +34

    None of us knew Suits or MM before she married Haz. Also - didn’t it turn out later that she was already friends with Eugenie?? Ugh. SMH.

    • @LG-nb5ur
      @LG-nb5ur Рік тому +6

      Yes she cultivated that relationship just like she cultivated the meeting with Hazbeen.

    • @kaken3137
      @kaken3137 Місяць тому +1

      And that friendship makes Eugenie sound very shady to me. The whole SoHo crowd is very suspect.

  • @malindasmith5114
    @malindasmith5114 Рік тому +57

    Completely agree with you that the sandwich was a sweet gesture. An excellent woman could possibly have drawn out the best in him. It’s sad that his immature behavior eliminated the potential for that sort of woman to be interested. He made himself prey and never saw the predator coming.

    • @Anna_Key
      @Anna_Key Рік тому +16

      Right! Sometimes I wonder if his family were suspicious of Mehgan's motives at any time because they might have realised he's an immature arsehole and wondered what she saw in him besides his status. 😒🤔

    • @AJA-ie5uu
      @AJA-ie5uu Рік тому

      Malinda Smith, immature is exactly how he comes across. It's like his emotional/mental development arrested at the age his mother died and never got any further. He reacts to everything like a 13 year old

    • @CarolFremel-my4hs
      @CarolFremel-my4hs 8 місяців тому +2

      Bet there wouldn’t have been any sandwiches for you and me lol😂

    • @ursularyan7652
      @ursularyan7652 3 місяці тому +2

      In a small two man tent in the Serengeti my husband gave me a birthday card….. he’d forgotten to bring a pen with him to write anything in it but had thought ahead to bring it with him before we left Ireland to fly to Tanzania.
      I loved the gesture then and now many years later I love it just as much. It’s the small kindness’s and gestures that show you who a person really is. The chicken sandwich was a sweet and thoughtful gesture.

    • @m.h.6499
      @m.h.6499 6 годин тому

      @@Anna_KeyI think his family totally saw her coming. I believe the Queen and Prince Philip saw her from a mile away. I think they had seen many people in their long lives and knew exactly what was going on.

  • @ritafairclough6470
    @ritafairclough6470 3 місяці тому +14

    I think the saddest thing is How old is Haz at this time? I can see the King still cutting his food for him.

  • @mimib323
    @mimib323 Рік тому +122

    Anyone recall when Harry called her out for being late for their second meet-up? Boy, she did not like that!😄
    Also, I would describe Meghan as cute. Pretty but not stunningly beautiful. My personal opinion aside, it does become difficult to recognize a person's physical beauty once you realize how ugly they are on the inside. Especially when they use that "beauty" to manipulate people and use it to get whatever they want.
    Also also, I completely understand that you need to worry about time, but I could listen to you go on about H&M all day. You're taking subject matter that would normally make me feel physically ill and making it entertaining and palatable. Thanks for that.🙂

    • @cheeredenise
      @cheeredenise  Рік тому +34

      I love that you and others are ok with the hour long episodes! I’ve worried about putting out such long videos; the confirmation is great!!

    • @spritelybird
      @spritelybird Рік тому +19

      I also thought her cutesy. She thinks she is a ravishing goddess. I say she reminds me of Scarlett O Hara but then she'd think she is on par with Vivien Leigh. No not Leigh. Scarlett was a user that mistreated everyone she came across because she was denied the one thing she wanted. In MMs case it was to be Queen for some reason thinking herself equal to W and C. Ha.

    • @cleanslate9620
      @cleanslate9620 Рік тому +15

      Well said! I cackle whenever they act like she's some rare gem, no beauty comparable to stunning grace. Nah. Girl next door cute at best and isn't aging well since she couldn't leave that alone. What beauty she did have has eroded.

    • @cleanslate9620
      @cleanslate9620 Рік тому +6

      ​@@spritelybird 😦🎯🎯🎯

    • @andrearoyd2942
      @andrearoyd2942 Рік тому +2

      There is no doubt that some images of Meghan, ie the Jubilee and Funeral - there were some stunning facial images, I would imagine a lot of makeup, certainly false eyelashes and the horse's tails she has hair tied up out of the way and without the rats tails on around her face. They were model quality images, but I'm sure apart form the professional makeup artist, the images were touched up. Images of her seem very controlled - few seem that spontaneous and those that are you'll only see the same one time and time again.

  • @anneprendergast7834
    @anneprendergast7834 3 місяці тому +16

    The only thing that made her special was the carefully constructed notion that she wasn’t aware of and didn’t care about his position and status, ( dear reader, she was and did) this must have been so unusual that it made her stand out. He was so desperate to be loved for himself that this was the perfect strategy.

  • @happytoday333
    @happytoday333 3 місяці тому +21

    Australian weighing in - never heard of suits or meghen markle until reports daring harry. What was with Gayle King making out the show was sooooo successful?

    • @kaken3137
      @kaken3137 Місяць тому +1

      American here. SAME! Never heard of Suits until Harry started dating MeGain. She was famous in her mind...not in reality.

  • @CMinorOp67
    @CMinorOp67 Рік тому +23

    Who packs a yoga mat for Africa???
    I’ve been to Africa. I’ve slept amongst the rats, the scorpions, and the puff adders.
    I was happy to get a pup tent with no holes
    And she’s packing a yoga mat.

  • @gabbyb4493
    @gabbyb4493 Рік тому +21

    If Harry felt that afraid she was going to lose her tree and get mad and dump him because he didn’t text her every 10 minutes. Already that shows she was controlling him! He should have taken those cues and ran for his life!

  • @megpaterson7613
    @megpaterson7613 Рік тому +111

    You are making this so fun and funny, thank you so much Cheerie ❤

  • @judithhall6683
    @judithhall6683 Рік тому +14

    Any woman would know exactly what she was doing. Hysterical 😂

  • @elby6217
    @elby6217 Рік тому +18

    I'll protect you!!!!!! She's going to be mad!!!!! So this is their whole relationship.

  • @LollyJ
    @LollyJ Рік тому +29

    South African here - firstly, it is a long flight BUT I guarantee Meghan “private jet” Markle flew business or first class, so she probably got a solid 8 hour sleep - no wonder she wasn’t grumpy. Second - cutoff shorts are fine culturally but you are right that if you’re going to the bush they aren’t practical cos of thorns & ticks.

  • @zoompt-lm5xw
    @zoompt-lm5xw Рік тому +24

    "Is he kind?" asked the spider
    FFS I was like him when I met my first girlfriend
    I was 15

  • @SRowan-fr1nl
    @SRowan-fr1nl 3 місяці тому +16

    Somehow I don’t believe that Prince Williams and Catherine were huge fans of Suits. How could he tell that and get away with it? Not a lot of people had heard about Meghan.

    • @Germania72
      @Germania72 3 місяці тому +3

      Nobody heard of Suits in the UK. That's a lie. It's so obvious that her paws are all over this book from the moment he says that she was recognised on the flight to Botswana. No, even before when he describes her face as "Never seen such a symmetrical face in my life". All this flowery vocabulary and odes to Meghan as if she is a heavenly beauty never seen in the history of humankind.

    • @SRowan-fr1nl
      @SRowan-fr1nl Місяць тому

      @@Germania72 Almost one half of Spare is devoted to the CAPTAIN OF HIS SOUL - Meghan. That is so sad .

  • @hemacdonald400
    @hemacdonald400 3 місяці тому +8

    I live in Canada and never watched the show, nor had I heard of it.

  • @cysusa
    @cysusa Рік тому +28

    If what he says is true, then his family made up the majority of the Suits audience. lol
    He was out of his depth with her from the get go.

  • @justanotherhappyhumanist8832
    @justanotherhappyhumanist8832 Рік тому +22

    No one in the U.K. knew Suits. No one in the world did.

    • @cheeredenise
      @cheeredenise  Рік тому +4

      Thank you for the confirmation!!! The way he goes on and on and on about it in the book is CRAZY!

    • @justanotherhappyhumanist8832
      @justanotherhappyhumanist8832 Рік тому +1

      @@cheeredenise No problem! It’s insane, isn’t it? I wonder if he knows that she played him, or if he really is as stupid and naive as he comes across. I’ve given him the benefit of the doubt before, only for him to prove me wrong, and show just how unethical he truly is. Surely he must know by now, right?!

  • @mikeswife5298
    @mikeswife5298 Рік тому +16

    He just can’t seem to build her up without putting himself down!

  • @emv1237
    @emv1237 3 місяці тому +6

    Eugenie and Will & Catherine both loved, loved, loved Suits, but Harold didn't know who Meghan was.....mmmkay

  • @rosiewells475
    @rosiewells475 3 місяці тому +16

    I don't think that Prince William will forgive him so easily. King Charles might not either as Harry was so cruel with insults about his wife the Queen.

    • @kaken3137
      @kaken3137 Місяць тому

      The should keep Harry as far away as possible. He has NO idea how this woman manipulated him, and he was 100% ok with doing everything they could think of to destroy the RF. Harry is a fool to be so played and an idiot to show no love for the people who so dearly loved him. At this point, he's shown himself as a person who can NEVER be trusted.

  • @blueskyeyes7
    @blueskyeyes7 Рік тому +11

    Most Brits didn't know who she was until she walked down the aisle!!🇬🇧

  • @uptick888
    @uptick888 Рік тому +13

    In a relationship the one with the power is the one who cares the least..

  • @annsearle9275
    @annsearle9275 Рік тому +27

    He and megan make such a huge deal about Nottingham cottage ,how opera was shocked when she saw it ,he even said in that programme how low the ceilings are and God knows who lived here , he knows William and Catherine lived there for nearly 3 years and it was prince George's first home ,I'm from the UK and nobody I know had ever heard of suits let alone seen it

    • @SMRT79
      @SMRT79 Рік тому +5

      H and M lived together there during the pandemic and described it as cozy, never a disparaging word…but after she had that ring on her fever she started holding her hand out for more and more. She’s disgusting.

    • @barbraluce5706
      @barbraluce5706 5 місяців тому +1

      ​@@SMRT79, actually they had stepped back and were living in LA during the pandemic

  • @aniketsawant2240
    @aniketsawant2240 Рік тому +11

    Whipped is the perfect title

  • @leona2222
    @leona2222 3 місяці тому +10

    If only her Google search history was exposed back then…so much would have been revealed

  • @lisaleyendekker8305
    @lisaleyendekker8305 3 місяці тому +9

    Not MM treating Nott Cottage like it's a doublewide trailer out in the sticks. It is a literal royal residence!
    Plus, Harry having an aneurysm every time Meghan is merely thought of is far too toxic and seems very exhausting.

    • @dianaroach3093
      @dianaroach3093 16 днів тому

      Harry received an allowance. Why didn't he fix it up? Because he was used to living with Charles.

  • @lostcontrol1981
    @lostcontrol1981 Рік тому +32

    As a Canadian I’d seen MM’s Reitman’s Ads but had no clue she was an actress - and her show was filmed here! Having now watched a bit of Suits, she had a VERY small role in the first few seasons - she’s basically a para-legal who gets a line or two every show - usually something flirty like “I’m not wearing any underwear”. She certainly could go out in public and not be recognized. In fact - even the STARs of Suits could have gone out in public and would have been virtually unknown.

    • @GradKat
      @GradKat Рік тому +4

      Didn’t somebody say her total screen time on the whole show was 53 minutes?

  • @gary5693
    @gary5693 3 місяці тому +8

    Can anyone honestly believe that she would have given him the time of day if he was just a normal middle aged ginger balding dim man/child with no money??? come on!!!! she would have run a mile if he even tried to talk to her!!!!

  • @kidcharlemagne926
    @kidcharlemagne926 Рік тому +70

    I don't normally listen to hour-long videos but you are so insightful, you just explained the full cycle of Harry's narcissistic abuse, right from the moment she manipulated him into fearing losing her, to where he is now, feeling trapped because of the children and the knowledge that she will use them as pawns. She will blackmail him, and triangulate and alienate the kids from him. The guy is a complete shell right now. He was an easy target for a zen-level master manipulator like Meghan. Great analysis and review.

    • @annaassk7138
      @annaassk7138 Рік тому +2

      He was great liked kids cant see howcit oosdible he not proud if he had kids he be showing them off like PC does occassionally he chosen addiction buddy &lying for her not no,shes horrid mommy dearest

    • @pennylando3145
      @pennylando3145 Рік тому +8

      I'm a bit late to this video, but I agree with you 100% that Harry was terrified of losing her. I remember thinking on his wedding day that, for someone so used to being in the public eye, he appeared unusually nervous. Nervous beyond just wedding jitters. As I learned from Tom Bowers book, some of Harry's actions had been undertaken out of fear that she would end the relationship. It made me wonder if, on his wedding day, Harry was still so insecure that he wasn't altogether sure MM would turn up. Hence this unusual nervousness.
      He gave up his friends because she didn't approve, he allowed staff to be mistreated, he gave up his country and then his family, all - I suspect - for her approval and fear of losing her.
      I didn't watch his book interviews, just a few clips or articles about them, but I did hear him say that he didn't want to be a single parent. I don't know the context but what an odd thing to say, especially as in the summer of 2022, they were talking about being "soulmates", wanting to renew their vows and hoping to tell the world (via Netflix) of their love story to end all love stories.

    • @rachmunshine9474
      @rachmunshine9474 Рік тому +2

      Penny, you just stated, basically exactly the things I listed to my best friend too we have different views on this whole thing.
      My sympathy for Harry has definitely lessened. He gave up everyone that supported him through his whole life, including hiding what a brat he was. I hope she at least has a decency to stay shackled to him.

    • @rachmunshine9474
      @rachmunshine9474 Рік тому

      Oh penny that comment was regarding what happened to Princess Diana. Just in case, the paparazzi actually ever seeks Meghan out.

    • @SMRT79
      @SMRT79 Рік тому

      @@rachmunshine9474 what?

  • @margaretforbes4387
    @margaretforbes4387 3 місяці тому +3

    Texting so much simply demonstrates she was unemployed 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @DeborahCountryman
    @DeborahCountryman Рік тому +21

    believe the reason Harry fell so fast & hard for "M", was because all his previous girlfriends that he fell in love with, broke up with him. He was in his 30's & was afraid that he would never find someone who was willing to marry him. That is why H has put up with so much abuse from M.

  • @aussienana
    @aussienana Рік тому +20

    Nott Cott was Prince William & Princess Katherine's former home that was renovated for them. It's gorgeous and the ONLY thing I think upset him is that he wasn't taking her back to the Palace instead of just a normal beautiful home.... Plus I can't imagine it being that tiny from the pictures OR the fact a family with kids lived there & Prince William is just as tall as he is if not taller...

    • @Ariadne-cg4cq
      @Ariadne-cg4cq Рік тому +3

      @aussienana. Prince William is 2” taller than Harry. He is 6’3”.

    • @jaimekennedy5750
      @jaimekennedy5750 3 місяці тому +2

      It's also a heritage listed building designed by famed architect Christopher Penn!
      The utter contempt for history is breathtaking...

  • @lucyhidayat9063
    @lucyhidayat9063 Рік тому +38

    He s been royally played...astounding for a man his age being pulled in so easily by such basic level of a manipulation. He didnt seem to ever question her narratives, stories...when it s easily accessible for him to find out for example how well-known "suits" really was.
    I had a 1min glimpse of it years before M met H, and i was immediately uninterested when i saw her acting (she & the other male character appeared in the 1st few min of the pilot). It s a bit much & she already seemed snooty annoying🤣

  • @DebbiSmithDC
    @DebbiSmithDC Рік тому +7

    As an American, I had never heard of her or of SUITS!

  • @SunnyJoinAZ
    @SunnyJoinAZ 27 днів тому

    Your assessment of the prospect of Harry returning is exactly spot on. Thank you for your insight

  • @kadygirlforever
    @kadygirlforever 3 місяці тому +13

    I thought she was a 6.5 when I first saw her. Not ugly but I had nothing against her, I felt neutral swaying positive. After seeing her behavior over the years she’s a 4 on her best day. Funny how personality shines through and changes beauty.

  • @joledo2264
    @joledo2264 Рік тому +35

    I had totally no idea who MM was when she was introduced to the British public through the royal family and I had not heard of the show either. I wasn't even aware MM was a mixed race woman until on the day of their wedding, I followed it from start to finish and saw her mum at the church when the mixed race penny dropped. I thought her mum who was 'just a mum' was so brave and amazing, to be there in THAT situation and clearly alone. As a true royal loving Britt, I cheered that couple on throughout the whole day especially. I was pretty shocked when they accused the British people and the royal family of being racists towards MM‼️ On the whole, us Britt's as a nation are not racists so at that point, I instinctively knew everything coming from their mouths was all total bollocks. Totally loving listing to your show, I thank you. ❤️

  • @Anna-Bernadette
    @Anna-Bernadette Рік тому +16

    If we were some what questioning if Megs had a hand in writing this book, are questions are answered with the passage about her fan base on her flight over then complains about them. That was totally Megs.

  • @creenataylor8070
    @creenataylor8070 3 місяці тому +9

    OMG! How old are these two, why are they acting like spoilt teenagers? Get over yourselves!

  • @jilltagmorris
    @jilltagmorris 3 місяці тому +10

    I've been Harry role. You either get out or die. I got out and am free.

  • @venicawood3894
    @venicawood3894 3 місяці тому +2

    You're amazing. Thank you.

  • @user-lu9hq6jv4v
    @user-lu9hq6jv4v Рік тому +26

    Your insight is highly appreciated!

  • @horsedesigns
    @horsedesigns 3 місяці тому +6

    I could listen to you for hours. Love your commentary and insights.

  • @jeannetteduette6704
    @jeannetteduette6704 3 місяці тому +4

    Yeah, pretty with makeup only!

  • @elle28390
    @elle28390 Рік тому +10

    No way they had USA network in UK.

  • @Hannahxx1971
    @Hannahxx1971 Рік тому +22

    I couldn't bear to read that book....certainly couldn't listen to that twonk read it himself, but it's so funny the way you do it. Thanks 😆

  • @karencap1690
    @karencap1690 Рік тому +5

    She’s a grifter, played him so much…..he fell for it

  • @catco8644
    @catco8644 6 місяців тому +12

    If she really had food poisoning, she would’ve had diarrhea just as fast as she was throwing up. I can’t believe we didn’t get to hear all about that!?!?! Must not have been food poisoning!

  • @maryrebekah6218
    @maryrebekah6218 3 місяці тому +4

    The self importance to act like she needed to hide her incredibly recognizable face from the adoring public 🙄

  • @marlenewolffe4613
    @marlenewolffe4613 Рік тому +9

    Actually all he had to do was take the sim out of his phone and borrow a phone. What a self obsessed todger!!!

  • @Tiger89Lilly
    @Tiger89Lilly 3 місяці тому +5

    This made me feel so sad for Harry hes so beaten down already by date 4. I agree with you cheree he needs to find jesus

  • @KristinaLJohnson
    @KristinaLJohnson Рік тому +18

    Even without your delightful sass I see the red flags from thousand of miles away. Harry. Mate. There’s being blind in love then there’s being a male take on Helen Keller. 😂
    Seriously loving you sparing me from the spare’s greatest hit. Waaaagh.

    • @breefinn2284
      @breefinn2284 3 місяці тому

      Let's not bring Helen Keller into this. An accomplished lady in a totally different category from the gruesome twosome. No offense...

  • @1rsalc
    @1rsalc Рік тому +19

    OMG, the voice impersonations are great, especially meeeeghan's and prince Waaaaagh's whiny voice!
    Your book reviews are a lot of fun!

    • @cheeredenise
      @cheeredenise  Рік тому +2

      Glad you like them!!! I appreciate you taking the time to comment! 😁

  • @sagrammyfour
    @sagrammyfour Рік тому +13

    Were Mike Holding and Tania Jenkins, his beloved friends, at the wedding, and have they been a part of his life since then? And, what do they think of Methane?

  • @romarobbins270
    @romarobbins270 Рік тому +11

    When I first saw the Duchess of Narcissism, which was after she became engaged to Hypocrite Harry, I thought she was beautiful too. However, once her true colors were unfurled, I find her to be much less lovely, and much more plastic looking.
    Also, you’re a much better actor than MM.

  • @Polopony
    @Polopony 3 місяці тому +27

    H dated Chelsy Davey for 7 years. During that time she got two degrees, in economics and law. She was an incredibly beautiful Zimbabwean-born girl who was absolutely the outdoorsy, go-getting, no-nonsense type that H professes to find so attractive about M, and equally as cultured, intelligent cosmopolitan and creative (she later started her own jewellery designing business). Yet H treated her increasingly casually, cheating more than once, until she dumped him. At no point does he ever seem to have been in awe of her in the way that he was of M, or desperate for her approval. Cressida Bonas, his only other long-term girlfriend, was equally as pretty as M and on about the same level of minor accomplishment as an actress, but socially impeccable with extensive connections to English aristocracy, very much at ease in H's world. Yet H took her completely for granted. It is hard to understand therefore a) his apparent complete lack of confidence and self-esteem with M, given his boorish behaviour with previous, equally accomplished, girlfriends and b) quite what M had to offer that so bowled him over compared to them.

    • @katelyns8844
      @katelyns8844 3 місяці тому +5

      I think he liked the idea of throwing his family for a loop …

    • @mariawynne
      @mariawynne 3 місяці тому

      It was the filthy bedroom activities. Apparently she is very skilled and caters to his predilections with enthusiasm ….

    • @isabelofmar2113
      @isabelofmar2113 3 місяці тому +1

      Such good points!!!! As to 'the why of it,' that's a very good question too! IMHO, his earlier girls were respectful and knew (and observed) the unwritten rules.
      M deliberately breached the rules - if she knew or cared about them at all - and had a whiplash way of alternating between scorching seductiveness, passive/aggressive shaming and faint praise. That would've been a heady brew for H - he likely found the putdowns, disrespect and boundary trampling absolutely thrilling! Add to that, her scorn and dismissiveness exponentially amplified her very occasional praise (ref. Pavlov's 'intermittent reinforcement'). Long story short, she baited the hook, cast the line and reeled him in. Poor clueless dupe!

    • @brieanneallen4216
      @brieanneallen4216 3 місяці тому +1

      Oh but he wanted to get married so bad and why wasn't it his turn?! The injustice of it all! Dude, you have to have someone to marry and you keep blowing them off. Yikes

    • @sulamcclain8532
      @sulamcclain8532 3 місяці тому +2

      It's an interesting question but the only thing I can think of is that he'd spent so long watching her on Suits that she'd become a fantasy figure. He'd admitted to his friends in 2014 that his 'ideal woman' was the character of Rachel Zane. This was written in an article at the time but nobody had heard of Markle so it was just recorded as an off the cuff comment. I bet she saw that article too. Anyway, I think the gap between reality and fantasy meant she was unattainable to him, he'd spent a long time with her in his head already as a character so to move from that into reality might have been difficult. I'm not expressing this very well! It's interesting how he pretends Will and Kate were overwhelmed by meeting her and wanted her autograph; Harry is like meghan in that he projects his own flaws onto others, so I bet it was him who was overwhelmed and he never quite got over the thrill of dating his fantasy and couldn't see why everyone else wasn't as starstruck.

  • @Rando15
    @Rando15 Рік тому +9

    I never heard of Suits and I don't even know where to watch it. However, I'm not looking because the woman disgusts me.

  • @atmoms2
    @atmoms2 Рік тому +8

    I'm pretty sure Meghan memorized the book "The Rules" and doesn't make a move without consulting it.

  • @Me-zn3nx
    @Me-zn3nx Рік тому +8

    If I'm throwing up and someone rubs my back I feel worse, all I wanna do is throw up in peace. It doesn't help, I've sworn at people for that 🤮

  • @margaretforbes4387
    @margaretforbes4387 3 місяці тому +1

    Cheere Denise, you are a delight to watch. I love your portrayal of the D & D od stupidity.

  • @Midgiemoon
    @Midgiemoon 3 місяці тому +2

    i’m listening again, you are so spot on with your commentary!

  • @marierex8490
    @marierex8490 Рік тому +5

    He was so needy to gain a wife like his brother and friends, and his antenna was off if it was ever turned on. He'd not been successful in any prior relationship. Lapdog Harry was grateful.

  • @johnpritchard1754
    @johnpritchard1754 Рік тому +74

    In the UK it was only possible to watch Suits if you subscribed to a certain streaming service. I think it was HBO. So for Harry to assume that everyone knew who Meghan Markle was is absurd.

    • @lucyhidayat9063
      @lucyhidayat9063 Рік тому +5

      Mmm...nah. HBO would ve never made such a cheesy tv show. It looks more like slightly more elevated telenovela...at least that s my take from the 1min looking into the pilot

    • @JREwing-Dallas
      @JREwing-Dallas Рік тому

      Pretty sure it was a late night BBC2 show

    • @valgardener7656
      @valgardener7656 Рік тому +1

      It first 6 seasons aired in the UK on Dave, a free channel, beginning in 2011. The seventh season was picked up by UK Netflix. Meghan was a huge surprise hit at a 2013 speaking engagement in Dublin, revealing that Suits, though not well known, did have a cult following.

    • @valgardener7656
      @valgardener7656 Рік тому +3

      @Ginger Nightmare It was a Trinity College event one year before the One Young World Summit in Dublin 2014.

  • @merrywalsh2809
    @merrywalsh2809 Рік тому +12

    She was famous in her own mind, from being on Suits. In reality, it was a legal drama on a cable network. How many people even have cable anymore, and if they do, like me, they hardly watch but a few channels? Content is so spread out now, most people are scrolling their phones, not sitting in tneir living rooms watching TV. A flight crew in Africa were fans? Yeah, right. She convinced the cloistered Harry that she was famous, because she already convinced herself. Remember when she told Ninaki that she could not join her for lunch in LA, a year after joining Suits, because she would be recognized? So deluded.

  • @j-pflaherty8357
    @j-pflaherty8357 3 місяці тому +1

    In my opinion, Mm has never loved H and was only interested in having a title and (in her mind) live in a castle.

  • @baz7055
    @baz7055 Рік тому +6

    It would take a brave brave man to face his family and his country with contrition. You are brilliant, enjoyed everything

    • @LG-nb5ur
      @LG-nb5ur Рік тому +3

      Yep and M and H have proven that they're only "brave" when bullying others or trashing them at a distance of 6-8000 miles.

  • @kazfromtas
    @kazfromtas Рік тому +46

    I live in Australia but I have a lot of friends in the UK & they all tell me that Suits wasn’t on tv (at least at that time) in the UK. They certainly had never heard of her when it came out that Harry was dating her.
    Thank you so much for reading this book so we didn’t have to! I love your commentary & look forward to watching each week. You always make me laugh as well as making excellent observations.

    • @Geordiegirl36
      @Geordiegirl36 Рік тому +7

      @@valgardener7656 on Dave does anyone watch that for anything but comedy. Suits wasn’t popular in Britain

    • @Geordiegirl36
      @Geordiegirl36 Рік тому +5

      @@valgardener7656 Cult as in a small following so it wasn’t popular in Britain

    • @Geordiegirl36
      @Geordiegirl36 Рік тому +4

      @@valgardener7656 so suits had a cult following in Dublin not in Britain

    • @Geordiegirl36
      @Geordiegirl36 Рік тому +3

      @@valgardener7656 so very few brits if any

    • @DebbiSmithDC
      @DebbiSmithDC Рік тому +1

      @@Geordiegirl36 love your comment!

  • @ritag7306
    @ritag7306 Рік тому +9

    Could his crazy attraction have as its foundation the desire to “out do” William-and does his rage come from William’s and Catherine’s disapproval of what he naively sees as an “accomplished” woman, and their correct assessment of her as an empty gold digger?

    • @ritag7306
      @ritag7306 9 місяців тому +1

      I thought that as his true nature started to be revealed-i think that was his motivation

    • @SimonCox-d6r
      @SimonCox-d6r 3 місяці тому +1

      She's not empty...
      Full of evil

  • @VickiMcKee-k1r
    @VickiMcKee-k1r 5 місяців тому +3

    Their first date was the clue.

  • @taniatonnnu1071
    @taniatonnnu1071 Рік тому +21

    That show suits was filmed in Toronto, Canada but we Canadians didn’t know about that show either!
    Thank you so much for your analysis! Love it! 👏👏👏

  • @cameliaberghean1300
    @cameliaberghean1300 Рік тому +15

    I feel so uncomfortable. During every interaction with her his thought process is, "Omg, she's not going to like this/She's going to be mad/She thinks I'm lame/I don't deserve her." He sounds like a battered spouse from the first date. The orgasms must be astral projection level if he's willing to put up with...everything else.
    Regarding Suits popularity: for some reason that show really took off in Romania, but let me tell you, nobody watched it for MM. Her acting was passable because she was just playing herself. Rachel had that same grinding condescension, rebuffing her love interest calling her pretty in that cool-tell me-smth-I-don't-know-not-interested girlboss way and mocking him for not realising she's biracial, just to give a couple examples.
    She wasn't even a decent girlboss. I bet if you asked fans who their favourite female character is, a lot of them would pick Donna. She wishes she were Donna.

  • @EEmB
    @EEmB Рік тому +14

    I think Harry feels as many victims of narcissistic abuse from their spouse, they feel awful, and how something is very very wrong. They have that lump in the stomach, that anxiety, insincerity, and pressed down anger. But here Meghan have managed what many other narcissists do, she has him convinced she isn't the problem, and the reason he feels like that, is not her abuse, domination and manipulation of him, but pointing the finger at his family. And the press. And racism. And her family. And his friends. And everything is else is the reason he feels all this angst, all this anger, instead of the real reason he feels like this: her. But he is so trauma bonded with her, he is channeling everything that is wrong into hate, and Megs help fuling it on, fuling on to further her control over him, and separating from everyone who ever cared about him or everything that has ever grounded him, being part of him. She works JUST as a cult. They use the same tricks. So I think he is so far from happy you can come, but could never see Meg as the cause of that. So he channels all that rage, hate, angst, and all those feelings you have living in a narcissistic abusive relationship, and project them on his family (and the press) instead thinking that it's THEIR fault he is constantly in pain. When it's her.

    • @SMRT79
      @SMRT79 Рік тому +4

      Exactly and the narcissists MO. Amber Turd did nearly exact same to JD - it’s creepy how similar the tactics and traits are between MM and AH, but it’s because they are both textbook narcissistic sociopaths with histrionic syndrome.

  • @rosiemc04
    @rosiemc04 Рік тому +30

    Thank you Denise ❤️ you are a breath of fresh air amongst insanity 😂 xx

    • @cheeredenise
      @cheeredenise  Рік тому +4

      You are so welcome!!! Love hearing that you’re enjoying the videos!!