I remember the day I went from liking Meghan Markle to distrust her, was the day that I read that she left her dog behind. I remember thinking "Oh that is not a good person". And I was right.
Re: Diana and therapists, what I do remember is that at some point in time she and Fergie used to go for some weird sessions which involved sitting in a small tent like structure and reciting some mumbo jumbo stuff! Subsequently I believe Diana had fallen out with this woman but she was not what I would normally classify as a “therapist” but more as some trendy wacko type who credulous women used to go to for “therapy”. I can’t recall her name now but there had been numerous stories in the press to that effect!
Camilla has a wicked sense of humour apparently. I’ve never been pro-Camilla, I have to admit. I’ve always thought she could have bowed out of Charles’ life and given Diana a chance at a real marriage. But with quips like this, I find myself liking Camilla a bit more!
The Royal family never received David and Wallis in England again after abdicating. They were written out of family all together although David begged his whole life to get Wallis that HRH title which remained a big NO . Queen only received Wallis was at David’s funeral. They also had Nazi sympathies l Be interesting to see what happens to the Harkles after coronation……
It's so funny how in 54:20 Harry completely missed the point of what Charles is saying to him. When Charles asks if Meghan plans to continue acting and says he doesn't think there's enough money, he is being very reserved and British. What he is actually saying to his son is :"Try telling her you've got no money of your own, and see if she still marries you!" Harry completely misses that, or doesn't want to hear it.
Wow, that’s an excellent observation. I had never thought of it from that angle, but I believe you are 100% spot on. The family knew he was on a collision course. But they also knew that Harry has extremely arrested development and basically stopped emotionally maturing at the age that his mother died. And with children that age, if you tell them not to do something, it’s just going to make them wants to do it harder. So the royal family was stuck between a rock and a hard place.
@@lwm2374 I think that's pretty much why the Queen said what she did when Harry asked permission to marry Meghan. What would have happened if she'd said no? He'd have defiantly announced he was going to do it anyway, and would have made it into a public Romeo and Juliet mess. So yes, she 'had to say yes'.
It's so funny that the Royal family, who have met the best of the best for decades, are bowled over by Mehgan!!! 🤣🤣🤣 More likely they couldn't believe how excessively self-centred, self-aggrandising, self-congratulatory she was for so little reason.
Or that HMTQ was ‘intimidated’ being around a ⭐️😳I cannot wrap my brain around that, Queen Elizabeth II, met with Sir Winston Churchill, huge INTERNATIONAL STARS of film and sports were thrilled meeting HER, she outlasted TEN USA Presidents, but she is ‘intimidated’ by a D-list mattress actress? Both of these people were made for each other in their delusions.🙄😏
@@jvmlucky13 Yes, that's what I heard. He wanted to leave, he left and they didn't need her in the series. That was it. He was from season 1-7 and came back as a guest star (without Nutmeg) in season 9.
Has Harry EVER not found something to be upset about; anyone who hasn't offended him in some way? He is just pathetic. His life must be sooooo hard being soooo perfect, yet no one ever acknowledges that perfection. 🙄🙄🙄🙄
King Charles is the same. Filthy temper, even on TV! You would think he could control himself. It's said that King George was the same. I believe that both of them were always contrite afterwards, but it must be awful in the moment. Think Harry has inherited that trait?
The idea that he has no clue about any of the royal protocols is beyond amazing. He really is either a dunce or self-absorbed living in a Hazmat bubble.
I believe the sessions with the Therapist were not as useless as he claims. Instead of looking at him blankly, I'm sure they were telling him strategies to deal with his fears and his perpetual self-indulgence. Harry didn't hear any of it because he chose not to hear it. He only looks for validation.
@@meyrickkretschmer260 realising what his problems were/are is the only way to move forward. Therapists aim to guide you into realisation, however, H seems to think he knows better and it looks like he rejected any guidance. Sound familiar?
Harry is basically shocked about everything because he let us know that he doesn't have a very good memory. He may or may not have been involved in the writing of this book of quips.
He talks about 'Pa' and Grannie as if they're acquaintances or work colleagues. He also seems to have trouble reading basic human interactions -- in social scenarios especially. He somehow distorts Kate's dinner table banter into an attack on Meg, even though he's known and liked Kate for over a decade at that point.
Yes. He seems incapable of understanding that his father and grandmother are the Queen and heir to the throne. Therefore, their every interaction with him is not simply on a personal level. They have to work within the framework of the monarchy. I can't with Hazmat. He is incredibly ignorant and just plain dumb. If I a born and bred American can get it, why the hell can't he?
The general public has turned Dianna into a saint. But she definitely had issues. After reading multiple books about her and hearing some of the stories about her I think she was a lot like Meghan. I’m not saying she was a bad person. But was far more nuanced than she is portrayed now.
Yes. When I first heard the headline that Diana was dead, I assumed she had died by suicide. I believe she was well-meaning, unlike Markle, but she was also exhaustingly immature IMO.
It's beyond unbelievable how H - all by himself - made his mom look irresponsible and immature and his brother wise and fit for king in a book clearly meant to sanctify Diana and destroy William. And he still doesn't get it. Oh, boy.
Some people are just crazy! I'm no celebrity but I had a random psycho threaten to shoot me dead when I was living in New Zealand! It may have been mistaken identity because he sent some more texts that made no sense at all! Eventually I reported it to police & they gave him a call & scared him off.
To my knowledge Diana never was betrayed by any therapists or psychologists, the palace tried to get her to see someone in her early marriage and she kept rejecting the help until she hit rock bottom. She really needed the help before she married Charles because she had a lot of issues growing up from her parent's divorce as it turned ugly, her father was considered abusive to her mother and her mother tried to get custody of the children but her own mother (Diana's maternal grandmother) betrayed her so the kids could have the luxury of living with someone so well established (the Spencer family has a huge history in the English that why Diana was seen more English than any of the Windsors at the time.) Diana was too young to keep track of what was going on and thought her mother just abandoned the whole family and it traumatized her, it likely was worse that shortly after her father married a new woman that made Diana distrust her step mother that she attempted to push her down the stairs! As much as her step mother attempted to bring in some discipline to the Spencer children, they were really left in free reign so Diana had very little tools to work with on being manageable as a parent or a partner. That said, she was still wonderful in that she was very attentive and put her focus on her children, people had only experienced the Queen's interactions as a mother but as a Queen she had obligations that unfortunately her children were not her sole focus like how she probably wanted it to be. In some ways Diana's youth helped her connect to her sons that probably was a big contrast to how everyone else the boys would meet have interacted with them probably too formally. It's this aspect I think is what grew others to like her too. The tragic part is she was probably finally resolving a lot of issues that festered her whole life and was attempting to carry on and live her life with the hope of a more stable future only for her untimely death. Diana probably was betrayed at certain points that did not help her mental state, the biggest example is Martin Bashir who planted stories that even her own private secretary was working against her in favor of Charles. Diana was likely very unstable while she and Charles were at the mist of leading up to their divorce because of her worry that she would end up like her mom and be separate from her sons. However, her hostile behavior stopped when the divorce was finalized and Diana was permitted to see her sons that she mended her issues with Charles and they were learning to be friends, and then she died the next year. Hopefully this can clarify a few things to your questions.
Diana had been prescribed Valium right after their honeymoon and she hated the way it dulled her and made her sleep all the time..She was over the moon when she found out that she was pregnant with Wills because that meant she could flush it down the Loo..
Her Bulimia came from her teenage years before she met Charles. Bulimia can lead to serious mental Heath issues including depression, anxiety, attention seeking and paranoia, I don’t think as a young person she had access to the help she required. After she was married Charles tried on a number of occasions to seek medical intervention but she would not agree for many years . Her story has so much more to it than people think. She was also blamed by her parents for being the third girl and not the longed for heir, Diana, like her son believed she was a huge disappointment to her parents.
@@kimarmstrong1814 There’s more to it than just longing for an heir. Diana’s parents had lost a baby son, John, hours after his birth in 1960. He would have been the heir. The following year, Diana was born. It’s not unusual that her father, then Viscount Spencer, had hoped she would have been a boy, after the loss of baby John. However, there is no documentation that either Diana’s mother or father ever expressed disappointment to Diana, that she wasn’t a son. It is more likely that it was Diana herself who created that story in later years, in order to embellish her narrative as a damaged child from a dysfunctional family. Ironically, she didn’t need to embellish because the damage was evident.
Correct. A man doesn't say that. They are confident in their own person. One also understands that "boy" is his relationship with pa, and a term of endearment.
I doubt Catherine was "dressed to the nines." I do believe she was dressed appropriately for the occasion, read not in ripped jeans or barefoot. The Harkles just can't stand any situation where they look foolish because of their behavior and try to smear others instead of sucking it up and admitting they made a mistake.
His own father had been forbidden to marry Camilla so many years back - starting the whooole Drama. And him beeing offended having to ASK and not once considering how his dad and Camilla must have felt - instead he is hating on her the whole time.. He can really see only himself.
as the mother of the future king, Diana was offered police protection after the separation and divorce, but turned it down. That speaks volumes about how under threat she really felt. Just as with her son, she wanted to have it both ways.
@jodievukmir3187 Crazy thing is he knew they were fan of her but he didn't know who she is!!! 🤔🤔🤔 He thinks we are all in the frozen time zone, where he is since mummy died & living as a 12 year old boy in a 31 year old man's body!!! Total idiot!!! 🤣
I don’t believe that story about Diana driving crazily through traffic with William and Harry in the backseat. At best, Harry is piecing together different memories (Mummy driving with him and W; Mummy crying in the car; paps driving behind them; clicking of photographers), and at worst, he’s telling a blatant lie here because it’s sensational and tugs at the heartstrings. But I don’t believe Diana ever drove recklessly with the boys in her car. She had bodyguards until the last year or so of her life - royal protection that SHE GAVE UP (it wasn’t TAKEN from her) because she was convinced they were spying on her and reporting back to Buckingham Palace. Secondly, and most importantly, whether or not she had royal protection herself, when the boys were with her THEY ALWAYS had royal bodyguards. William is now first in line; he was second and Harry third all through their childhoods and beyond. The bodyguards would never have allowed Diana to drive recklessly (they’d drive instead, but also, Diana, for all her immaturity and rule-breaking, understood royal hierarchy (unlike Harry). She knew how important her boys were; she loved them; no matter how the paps harassed her, she never let their behavior affect how she protected her sons. When she was alone, of course, that is a different story with an ending we know all too well. These are fantastic! Trying to get through these so I can get caught up!
My brother was walking across a side exit at Buckingham Palace, suddenly came gunning out in her Audi and almost knocked him over. I think by that time her paranoia had probably taken hold. He said she looked frantic.
In the engagement interview they both said H proposed whilst they were cooking roast chicken. Now the book says they were out on the lawn under the stars when he proposed. Which story is it?! Crazy lying fools !!
'I'd ask for a hug but you''re cold so I won't' 🤣 I've been all over these two for years now, your Harry voice makes me laugh, and your quips, like the one above, don't go unnoticed. Thanks for your thoughts, the rest of the room agrees.👍
Right, no wonder he has some issues with cognitive dissonance when he remembers the Tiggy he grew up with, and the stories his wife has likely since told him about Tiggy being his mother's enemy.
Not prepared to spend time with her children yet resentful when they become attached to someone who shows them love - nasty - I remember that at the time - lost all respect for Diana after that
@suzannekirkwood6392 yes, that is all over the place. Remember when she allegedly said to Tiggy 'sorry about the baby' alluding to the fact she has lost Charles baby. I think she was terrified she would be replaced by her. Fact is someone like Tiggy would probably been a better match for Charles.
Okay so I am watching the rest of this. So he is saying not to dehumanize people but yet he calls the Taliban chess pieces on a board. We have now learned they were civilians, not soldiers, and he dehumanized them knowing exactly how that feels. No empathy for them but he wants empathy. The hypocrisy knows no bounds for real.
I have to say, I loved Princess Diana, although in saying that I do feel she was an absent mum, after Princess Di and King Charles divorced I vividly remember Princess Di virtually reverted back to acting like a young 20 year old. She travelled the world non stop and had several different boyfriends, I remember always seeing the boys with King Charles a lot and not very many times with their mum. I also remember the times the boys were with their mum it was all fun and games, not doing the usual mum things ie going to watch the boys play sport or dropping them off to school (I realise they were at boarding school but I still don’t ever remember seeing photos of her dropping them off to boarding school, remembering that Princess Diana’s life was actually hunted non stop by the paparazzi so you’d think we would of seen photos like that) I don’t for one second think she’s wasn’t a loving mum, she 100% was, but, she played the no responsibility visitation parent role. When my ex husband and I broke up, because he saw our children every second weekend he got to play the fun, no rules parent role while I had custody and had to assume the disciplinary role ie do your chores and homework etc although I obviously still had fun and loving times with them (they are in their mid 20’s now) but because I was their only full time parent it was my job to make sure they had routine and were taught manners etc. I honestly feel King Charles role in their upbringing was as their primary carer so he had the job of teaching them right from wrong while Princess Diana got to play the secondary fun parent role. Again, I absolutely loved and adored Princess Di so much but I feel King Charles was the boys mature role model. Secondly I just want to point out that as a parent (especially as a parent of children who are now adults) I would never write a memoir filled with so many swear words and drug use (although I have never taken drugs so it would never contain drug use anyway) as when Harry’s children get older his children are going to read his memoir and it disgusts me that the legacy Harry is leaving for his children and future grandchildren etc is an immature and disrespectful (the way he refers to women throughout Spare is actually horrible, except when his references Meghan of course 🙄) memoir which will go into the Royal history books. Harry honestly does act like he still is 12 years old!! I hope that all makes sense, sorry my comment is so long.
Yes, I think Harry's bitterness is because his mother was always away, by choice, and blames it on other things and people- he might not even realize it
Charles was just as absent as Diana was. Before the divorce he was off with Camilla a lot of the time. I think after the divorce Diana probably thought it was her turn to muck about the Charles always did. Was that the best choice? No. But Charles was not innocent or the perfect father.
When you lose a parent at a young age, it is so common to 'idealize' them. They were perfect. A friend of mine who lost her mom when she was 3 years old constantly talked about how amazing she was - when she was barely old enough to even remember her.
Great vid, Cheere! Interesting point you made about Diana not knowing how to be a Mom. When Diana was just a young child, her own mother left the family. Later, when she was a teen, her father remarried, but Di wasn't fond of her stepmother. So I think you're right about Diana not knowing how to fill the role of mother, and mirroring her own mother by being absent much of the time.
@@cheeredenise I enjoy them too, thank you for adding spice to this plain book... I was thinking about listening to it through audible but it is sooo much better with your personality💕 Love you, keep the long videos comming🌞
Does anyone remember a picture of the boys strapped into the backseat and Diana weeping in the front? That would have been splashed all over the papers
Diana would cry on Williams shoulders when her affairs ended. What kind of mother does that to their child. Diana was immature just like Harry and can picture him whining and complaining to his children about how hard his life has been 🙄
I wonder if there's ever a time where he realises that when his mother died, she was two years younger than he is now. it feels like it's time to grow up.
He is really trying you. Thanks for making this horrendous book worth listening to. You do it in such a way that I just love and with you, I can tolerate it. Lol I don't understand why ANYONE would let him release this book. It blows my mind. They probably paid someone to release it. I don't know but I have heard they pay for allot of things like awards and whatever else they buy to make them seem popular. These two are nuts. I really pity those children if they are real 🙏
When his mother is driving like a maniac, where are the boys body guards? There is no way they could have gone out as two high ranking Princes without body guards.
It would be great to be able to forensically follow that text. He only knows of it because she told him. It must have been in her phone. But how did it get there? She could have typed it up to show him, maybe she never actually received it. I realise only a psychopath would play that game to unnerve their intimate partner. I'm only speculating about the source of the text.
Not to mention she said that reporters and paps were knocking on her door all day and all night? The Toronto police were called many times and found nothing.
I have been in therapy on and off for decades and cannot remember rarely ANY detail from my sessions. So ridiculous. His whole thing is what he perceives as slights, makes up what others are ‘truly’ thinking, makes up events in his head. My adopted mom died when I was 9. For years I held her up on a pedestal as perfect until I became an adult. Then I saw her more as another adult who wasn’t perfect, bc no human is. When I became a mother I understood the things I was upset about with how my father handled things when I was young after my mom died wasn’t fair. Parents aren’t perfect. My father was also grieving and made mistakes that affected me as a child. As a parent myself I could forgive him and show him grace. Harry is a selfish narcissistic Man Boy. I had an evil sociopathic stepmother who made my young life hell. I got an illness at 12 that I had to deal with alone bc my stepmother didn’t give a shit. Ppl all over the world have something going on that is worse then what I was going through. He cannot seem to understand true empathy for anyone else. He creates drama and pain for himself bc he mostly has Royal problems, not real world problems. You would think that someone who loves Africa would understand that others have truly hard traumatic lives, some without water & food. He needs to grow up.
Diana refused to have royal protection after being 'taken in by Martin Bashir', for his documentary about her. An ex S A S soldier 'Robin Horsfall', gave a lecture at Surry university, apparentatly she started out having ex S A S soldiers as body gaurds, but they're were no incidents where they called upon. So she employed ex Militarly Police instead (presumably they were cheaper) again nothing happenend. So when she started going out with 'Doddi', they started using different protection that the 'Fiad family', used including 'Henri-Paul'.... & everyone knows what happened. The video of the talk has unfortunately been taken down. Keep up the good work with the read alongs.
Thank you for another excellent summary of these insane chapters. You're a trooper. You have some astute and compassionate insights. Also, you're able to spot a lie which is so refreshing. Oh, and that colour looks so good on you!
There are at least 3 stories how Guy broke his front legs! 1) he ran away in Toronto 2) he run away in London and was run over by his/her security car 3) he was thrown by either her or him against a wall during one of their fights 4) he was thrown by either her or him out of a window (2nd floor) during one of their fights Such rare tipes of fractured bones on both! front legs are hinting in 99% of the time to animal cruelty and abuse!!!
Is it me or does harry say I'm sad all of the time especially since Diana died.therefore I can take lots of drugs and no one can criticise me. I think the palace must have worked over time trying to keep his drug and alcohol use hidden but he's such a fool it's not always possible.a picture paints a thousand words
I think the alleged "aggressiveness" from her dog came from their animal cruelty! Some will only suffer that much until the rarest instinct will kick in: their survival instinct!!! And both are known to be very "passionate" in their abuse of every living creatures!!! 😤😡😠🤬
Diana was a lovely, spirited, compassionate woman. Diana was also, troubled, selfish, and short sighted. She chose to not see the boys as much as she could have. She chose to be in that car that night. She called the paps. She had a terrible need to be seen. Whatever happened between her and Charles. Which admittedly sounds awful. It was between her and Charles. Harry does see the world through a mirror. Only as a reflection of himself. I do feel sorry for the 12 yo little boy he was. But, he’s not Peter Pan. He has to grow up. All the therapy, drugs, and Markle glitter in the world cannot make that fact go away. Supposedly he has childhood now. For all his talk of not perpetuating generational trauma. He seems intent on bringing them up as the children of addiction.
@@DebbiSmithDCIf that’s true, then his antics probably stem from some sort of repressed guilt. Either that, or he’s just a spoiled brat capitalizing off of his dead mother’s legacy for sympathy and clout.
The boys were at Balmoral playing with their cousins when she called, so his main thought was to get back to playing not talking to her. I am not sure it was that same night, but that was the last phone call. It is in one of his interviews before mexit when he spoke about it
If only he’d read about those in similar circumstances. Look at what Jackie Kennedy did after Onassis died, she moved to NYC, got a job and walked to work everyday. Head straight ahead. She told her 2 kids to do the same. In addition, Ted’s youngest son Patrick (former US Rep or Senator from RI). He got a DUI and resigned and went rehab but then wrote a book. He wrote about saying your depressed in his family. The usual response was this one was assassinated then one was. Even his brother lost a leg to Cancer. So no one wants to hear his depression but it was his state of mind. He never said he had it the worst. However he has alcohol and drug use. He wasn’t whining. Just saying his family’s reaction. Which is typically Irish -“ you don’t know what you have…- but on the Kennedy level. Harry might gain from reading or reaching out to people if they’re still alive. And Diana was a young mother and like all mom’s who are 20 years older than them. As opposed to 40 yrs older. He knew her from 20-34. She’d have grown and changed. But she had no friends so she leaned on Wills. (And H). He started this cr@p at an age older than she ever reached. You outgrow your 20s and if she had more kids in 30s or 40s, she’d be way more conservative. Just how it goes. I wished for a cool fun mom. But my mom was a mom b/c she was closer to 40. Anyway, it’s too bad she struggled in her 20s. And these two are hijacking her tragedy for their own. So he should read a book on his mom too. Despite it being modern times. She was the last of the virginal royal wives and they realized how archaic. And funny how Camilla wants to send them where they sent Wallis and Edward during WW2. In Europe they were visiting Hitler, cavorting with all kinds ti his brother’s detriment. And after Governor of the Bahamas, they never got another assignment. So welcome to exile H. If he knew his own history, he’d get the reference. They must be searching for a place to stash these two. He is unknowingly repeating history. And sounds ridiculous.
Interesting analysis! I appreciate that you bring in knowledge of mental health and improper mothering to the conversation. It’s ironic that M spent thousands of her own money to hire PR firms to get her into the press, then once she got famous, she uses legal action to supposedly keep her from being maligned in the press.
The story about the threat to be shot in the head reminded me of when she was speaking to Serena about her children and suddenly told the story of how Archie was in a room with a burning heater and they had expected her to carry on with the SA tour. Nobody had heard that story before, she just announced it as another dig at the RF
That was another half truth…there was a heater in the baby’s room in SA that burnt out, but Archie and family were not there at the time. She then blew it up into this drama of Archie being in harms way and she still had to have a stiff upper lip and carry on with Royal duties…😂
The more you tell us I'm beginning to think he's very angry with his mother for dying and can't let it come out, plus the guilt for not talking to her because he was having to much fun, at his dad's and told himself she's on a long holiday
I tend to think Harry is a huge twat waffle, but I do have sympathy for him in this area. I had a very close friend who I loved dearly, but she was one of those people who ALWAYS had drama and the friendship could be exhausting. So I made a decision to step back and take a break from the friendship for my own peace, and during that time she was killed in a car accident. At the point she died, we hadn’t spoken in months and I carried that guilt with me for a long time. So I do feel sympathy and sadness for Harry that he experienced this as a child. I was a grown woman when this happened with my friend and it was still incredibly difficult to process. But at some point you have to put in the work and move forward.
So, according to Harry, it's okay for Meghan to talk about Katherine's post baby moods, but heaven for bid Katherine tease William about home remedies!😮
I place my chicken directly in the pan without a rack and add an inch or so of water. That way, when the drippings drip down, they don't hit a hot pan and burn up or harden. The water allows the drippings to stay drippings. I add milk and flour to that mixture. Salt , pepper etc. Making more gravy.
I mean it's the only way, are you going to let it simmer the whole time you're cooking everything else? Come on. Hopefully this puts a fork in #Gravygate
All throughout we have heard Hairbrain calling William "Willy." I find that suspect. Diana used to call William by the name "Wills." Being as Mummy addicted as he was, you would think that he would call William by the name "Wills," BTW, I am so enjoying your reading of this book. You are making a trashy book into a lot of fun. Thanks.
Hi leeleegirl, I feel that Harry only referred to William as Willy because in the UK a willy (self-explanatory) is typical of how a competitive teenager might refer to his brother named William. I believe their parents did call him Willy Wombat around the time of the visit to Australia, when William was only a few months old, and later Wills, but in 2023 England the popular short form of William is Will - for obvious reasons.
@@carolekralova9108 here in the U.S. a Willy is also sometimes used as slang for the male organ. Hmmm Hairbrain does have an American wife. I wonder if that is why William is being referred to as "Willy."
Yeah I’m British and I don’t remember Harry ever referring to William as Willy until recently. He called him Wills. It’s clearly a pathetic dig at William 🙄
I don't understand all the angst over his dead mother that he doesn't even REMEMBER. He was 12 for crying out loud! How does he not remember his mother??
My father died when I had been 13 for just two weeks. He went to sea so was away a lot. Therefore I have few memories but that makes the ones I do have even more precious. When I actually do sit down and really think about him I can remember a lot more than i initially thought. The memories r there but after 50 yrs they r buried under a lot of other stuff but they r still there. Only thing is I can't remember his voice or his smell. There is a tape somewhere of him singjng and playing guitar maybe that has him speaking a bit. I would need to find it. So I understand a bit of what h has gone thru but I didn't have his background, financial security etc so cldnt afford to be totally absorbed in 'oh poor me' but it did give me alcohol and men probs for a lot of yrs. I have recently lost my ex partner who was in my life for 34 yrs, even tho we were apart we were still very, very close. I am not coping with this loss, infact in a way it is worse than losing my father probably because he was the main man in my life for nearly 3 times longer than my father. Life is a strange carry on. Just as u r getting the hang of it and enough knowledge to cope with most things flung at u then wham u r taken away. What is that about?! Honestly, what is that all about?
@@cheeredenise thanks for the confirmation the book says back legs, because their own photographs and Netflix series "proposal" at Kensington Palace definitely have casts on Guy's front legs. Mysterious!
@@dianecampbell6912 it's been said Guy was flung out of a window at Nottingham Cottage while H&M were arguing - thus the two broken front legs - there is a picture out there of Guy with two plaster casts..
This is so very sad. William loved Diana very, very much, but he understood her faults as well as his fathers. He has been brilliant so far in giving the press something of himself and his family while not letting them in too far. That is the mistake his mother made in her war with Charles. She would call the press when she wanted them and then couldn't get them out of her life when she didn't. To some extent, Charles was the same but nothing like the game Diana played. I loved Diana as a true humanitarian. There is no doubt whatsoever that she cared about the causes she championed. I also have no doubt whatsoever that she was the most fun mother in existence. I think her own childhood may have had something to do with that. One thing I thing I believe both William and Harry have is a hot head. Unfortunately, Diana had to spilt time with the children with Charles. Because of this, I don't think discipline was high on her list of things to instill in her children. Then you have Charles' legendary avoidance of any kind of confrontation whatsoever, so it isn't difficult as to how this happened. I don't mean to give more credit or blame to their wives than they should receive. After all, these are two grown men. However, I do think Kate tries to temper William and get him to look at both sides of an issue. If William and Charles have anything like a close relationship, I think that is down to Kate's influence. One the other hand, Meghan's influence over Harry is complete and we all see how this is playing out.
William never got to idealize Diana given she treated him as a pseudo relationship therapist crying over all the men in her life to him by the time he was 5-7 years old. They had a strange relationship, but it did allow William to see the warts in her personality. I think the room and sausages stories are made up because he can’t tell the true stories of Diana watching Telly and eating on tea trays w William while Harry had to eat in the nursery, by himself or w the nanny. Diana had a clear favorite - William - and I have no doubt that it’s something that burns in Harry’s psyche still.
Did they get engaged twice? They told a totally different story about how Hairbrain proposed to Migraine in their official engagement interview. If I recall they were INSIDE the cottage and they were roasting a chicken. Funny how now it was OUTSIDE and they were having a picnic. But then again, when your brain has been fried on drugs of all kind, flashbacks can change I suppose. How sad that even the moment that they got engaged has to be updated and changed.
Kudos for the longer posts. All we've gotten from others is a little snip here, a little snip there, with nothing to tie these words together. The key to your success is your explanations, comments, clarifications and thoughtful cogent questions--the kind of questions common sense folks would ask.
Princess Catherine´s remark about Meghan´s medication was most likely jokingly as the Royal Family are well known private supporters of alternative medicine and homeopathy in particular. It seems to have served them well.
Harry is an arrested adolescent. The truth is he could have been the closest adviser tho the King and future King of England. Untouchable really, but he isn’t. He’s just not smart enough to comprehend it. In contrast just look at Princess Charlotte, that child is a wise soul already. She is a treasure and surely is tight with her brother Prince George.
4 am here in southeast Louisiana and I'm just getting home from a crazy night tending bar in the city. You are an excellent way to wind down and relax. Also I'm loving these long videos.
Diana gave up her security however,if she had the boys in her custody you better believe Scotland Yard was behind them..I personally do not believe that story because out of all of Diana's imperfections she would never place those 2 boys in harms way..I can tell your not a fan of Diana and that's fine but I just wanted to say that part of the divorce agreement was that when Diana would travel she would have the boys security detail around her ..The sad thing is that if she had kept her security personally then what happened that night in the tunnel would have never happened..
I just want to apologize for all of the typos in my comment above..I am on some pain killers due to having a kidney stone 😭..I promise I can read and write most days .. 😆
I've subscribed!! You make a tremendous effort injecting humour into this exercise in callous treachery. Its unbelievable that they don't understand what they're exposing about themselves. Poor William and poorer Charles.....
Why do you not understand about making gravy in the UK for Meghan and Harry and how it's done !! . I can guarantee it was made with the netflix crew or the Kensington cook 😂😂
@@cheeredenise Does it say back legs in the book? If so that’s another mistake- It was his front legs - I just googled it and found the pic from the NF docuseries. She took picture of PH on one knee and then of themselves with the dog (of course, documenting every merchandisable moment for future sale). During the proposal. Who does that? BTW I loved when you whispered to the camera “how do you know they were blood free diamonds they could have told you anything” …I laughed out loud at that. Thank you!
'Tig' is short for Tignanello wine - a wine that Cory introduced to her! Just like she stole his roasted chicken recipe :) and became this amazing 'foodie'. I just want to say that maybe Charles was being cheeky when he said he couldn't financially support them? I could see him saying that. Maybe he was concerned about her $1M a year wardrobe? I so look forward to your videos!
She was a millionnaire when she entered into Harry's life, so cut out your nasty stuff. Denise, there can't be much money in just reading Spare out loud. Are you trying to set yourself up as the new Audible. .
@@corryjookit7818 You can always tell a sugar. They will always call people a bunch of names if you don't like their 'girl'. . IF Meghan was such a millionaire why was she looking for a rich guy? Oh, that's right - her career was over and that $2M wouldn't last very long. Go to another channel - no one likes you here.
Cory was part of the bigger scheme when Meghan started “operation bag a prince “ Nutmeg knew she would need an award winning roasted chicken recipe to win helly with bagging the prince. Everyone knows Harry was obsessed with Kate’s roasted chicken and always highjacked their dinner plans when he knew roasted chicken was on the menu .
@@corryjookit7818Go and do some research. Meghan was no where near as rich as she made out. She rented a property and had quite large bills to pay in Canada, she liked a high standard of living and bought good quality 50:08 clothes. Meghan , as now lived beyond her means. Also read the room , people are really enjoying this lady reading Spare, she has made a terrible book interesting and is largely spot on with her analysis. Don’t like her don’t listen but I can guarantee that she is far more knowledgeable than you on the subject as she has taken time and researched the book .
It’s funny how he doesn’t remember Mummy but when talking on the phone with Thomas (before he saves him) they talk about the fun they would have with Mummy and the burping competitions. He also remembers the sweets she gives him at school
Oh my goodness I’m so happy you posted this tonight, I sent my small children to grandmas! Yay I can listen in peace! 34.02 hahahaha I laughed so hard!
Wait, so he talks about not thinking of people as animals here, but thought of the 25 people he supposedly killed during the war as chess pieces? Make it make sense. Was there absolutely no editor for this novel?
It is reported that one time, when Harry (aged around three) was walking past reporters with his parents, he stuck his tongue out at the reporters, threw handfuls of gravel at them, and shouted “Go away men!” Now, who would have put him up to that but Diana? She was as manipulative as Meghan when it suited her.
He was also filmed running his trike into the legs of his security personnel and Diana never stopped it. Basically, he was allowed to do exactly as he wished while under her supervision, and she never told him "no" as he was the favorite.
Is he nice? An odd question from someone who already at that time scorned and completely was horrible to an x boyfriend, husband and father, amongst childhood friends. My mom always quote this "if they accuse you of things, it's because they know the signs and betrayals they inflict". Now she plays dumb about not knowing anything but she sure knows the rights and loopholes to every law there is in England and elsewhere when benefits her and her children!
It didn't matter if she gave up her security detail, when she had Harry and William their security would be with them at all times. As for the dog with the broken legs, his front legs were broken...they have photos of it, is the only reason I know. His story about the engagement doesn't make sense either because on Netflix they have 'video' of him proposing. This all such a made up crap show.
I remember the day I went from liking Meghan Markle to distrust her, was the day that I read that she left her dog behind. I remember thinking "Oh that is not a good person". And I was right.
Funny how suddenly all went bad with the dogs when the proposal was on the table, eh?
Yes, I can absolutely see that.☹️
Of course the dog was distrustful of her - she was leaving him behind every two weeks for two weeks! Dogs need to feel safe and have consistency.
Absolutely, that's such a big sign of character
Re: Diana and therapists, what I do remember is that at some point in time she and Fergie used to go for some weird sessions which involved sitting in a small tent like structure and reciting some mumbo jumbo stuff! Subsequently I believe Diana had fallen out with this woman but she was not what I would normally classify as a “therapist” but more as some trendy wacko type who credulous women used to go to for “therapy”. I can’t recall her name now but there had been numerous stories in the press to that effect!
That is hilarious how Camilla suggested they go to Bermuda. That’s where David and Wallis were exiled to 😂
🤣🤣🤣 true!
Haha
Camilla has a wicked sense of humour apparently. I’ve never been pro-Camilla, I have to admit. I’ve always thought she could have bowed out of Charles’ life and given Diana a chance at a real marriage. But with quips like this, I find myself liking Camilla a bit more!
The Royal family never received David and Wallis in England again after abdicating. They were written out of family all together although David begged his whole life to get Wallis that HRH title which remained a big NO . Queen only received Wallis was at David’s funeral. They also had Nazi sympathies l
Be interesting to see what happens to the Harkles after coronation……
Actually, the Duke of Windsor was governor of the Bahamas, not Bermuda.
It's so funny how in 54:20 Harry completely missed the point of what Charles is saying to him. When Charles asks if Meghan plans to continue acting and says he doesn't think there's enough money, he is being very reserved and British. What he is actually saying to his son is :"Try telling her you've got no money of your own, and see if she still marries you!"
Harry completely misses that, or doesn't want to hear it.
Wow, that’s an excellent observation. I had never thought of it from that angle, but I believe you are 100% spot on. The family knew he was on a collision course. But they also knew that Harry has extremely arrested development and basically stopped emotionally maturing at the age that his mother died. And with children that age, if you tell them not to do something, it’s just going to make them wants to do it harder. So the royal family was stuck between a rock and a hard place.
@@lwm2374 I think that's pretty much why the Queen said what she did when Harry asked permission to marry Meghan. What would have happened if she'd said no? He'd have defiantly announced he was going to do it anyway, and would have made it into a public Romeo and Juliet mess. So yes, she 'had to say yes'.
KC3 is very old and wise.
Yes subtlety is very english but with harry you need to spell it out and then he does not still want to understand!!!
Oh snap. You are right!
It's so funny that the Royal family, who have met the best of the best for decades, are bowled over by Mehgan!!! 🤣🤣🤣
More likely they couldn't believe how excessively self-centred, self-aggrandising, self-congratulatory she was for so little reason.
So true!
Or that HMTQ was ‘intimidated’ being around a ⭐️😳I cannot wrap my brain around that, Queen Elizabeth II, met with Sir Winston Churchill, huge INTERNATIONAL STARS of film and sports were thrilled meeting HER, she outlasted TEN USA Presidents, but she is ‘intimidated’ by a D-list mattress actress? Both of these people were made for each other in their delusions.🙄😏
No one had ever heard of MM before Harry. No one had heard of Suits either.
My guess is the BRF were bowled over. Just not in the way Sparry wants to believe, or have us believe.
It is simply not true. No-one in the Royal family ever thought her special or “the best”.
The Suites producers were going to write Meghan out of the show because of her constant demands.
I always heard that Patrick J Adams wanted to leave the show and thus they were already going to write her out.
@@jvmlucky13 Yes, that's what I heard. He wanted to leave, he left and they didn't need her in the series. That was it. He was from season 1-7 and came back as a guest star (without Nutmeg) in season 9.
Has Harry EVER not found something to be upset about; anyone who hasn't offended him in some way? He is just pathetic. His life must be sooooo hard being soooo perfect, yet no one ever acknowledges that perfection. 🙄🙄🙄🙄
He’s a huuuuuge underachiever for someone so perfect in every way 🫤
He and Markle deserve each other.
King Charles is the same. Filthy temper, even on TV! You would think he could control himself.
It's said that King George was the same. I believe that both of them were always contrite afterwards, but it must be awful in the moment.
Think Harry has inherited that trait?
The idea that he has no clue about any of the royal protocols is beyond amazing. He really is either a dunce or self-absorbed living in a Hazmat bubble.
@@janking4645I do think he inherited his temper and obtuse nature but he got it from his mother not his father
I believe the sessions with the Therapist were not as useless as he claims. Instead of looking at him blankly, I'm sure they were telling him strategies to deal with his fears and his perpetual self-indulgence. Harry didn't hear any of it because he chose not to hear it.
He only looks for validation.
Harry wanted to be told what his problems are, his therapist was trying to get him to recognize them himself.
@@meyrickkretschmer260 thanks for the explanation.
@@meyrickkretschmer260 realising what his problems were/are is the only way to move forward. Therapists aim to guide you into realisation, however, H seems to think he knows better and it looks like he rejected any guidance. Sound familiar?
I think Harry is always shocked when the same rules that apply to everyone else are turned on him. Which is very fitting to the rest of his character
Harry is basically shocked about everything because he let us know that he doesn't have a very good memory. He may or may not have been involved in the writing of this book of quips.
He talks about 'Pa' and Grannie as if they're acquaintances or work colleagues. He also seems to have trouble reading basic human interactions -- in social scenarios especially. He somehow distorts Kate's dinner table banter into an attack on Meg, even though he's known and liked Kate for over a decade at that point.
He interpreted Kate's banter as an attack because thats what Meghan told him it was.
Yes. He seems incapable of understanding that his father and grandmother are the Queen and heir to the throne. Therefore, their every interaction with him is not simply on a personal level. They have to work within the framework of the monarchy. I can't with Hazmat. He is incredibly ignorant and just plain dumb. If I a born and bred American can get it, why the hell can't he?
Narcissists do that, they provoke you and then make you question your sanity after you react to them.
Yes, and even small challenges or differences in opinion are seen as attacks.
So he went to therapy when he had an argument with Megan but couldn't find help for Megan when she was " suicidal "?????
Excellent point!!!!
On that point, don't forget his therapist attended some of his court appearances with him.
Pathological liars the pair of them
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The reason why Meghan had to use a ready made mix/ gravy was because she was too busy crying on the floor to attend properly to the pan juices.
Yes, u feel like sending her half a dozen, CAUTION wet floor signs
I thought Meghan was so proud of being a vegetarian? She wouldn’t be eating roast chicken or making any gravy.
No foodie would use a prepackaged or jar gravy.
Especially if she stole the roast chicken recipe from her ex-boyfriend Corey Vitello
@@LouisaWatt 😂😂😂
Exactly.
The general public has turned Dianna into a saint. But she definitely had issues. After reading multiple books about her and hearing some of the stories about her I think she was a lot like Meghan. I’m not saying she was a bad person. But was far more nuanced than she is portrayed now.
Yes. When I first heard the headline that Diana was dead, I assumed she had died by suicide. I believe she was well-meaning, unlike Markle, but she was also exhaustingly immature IMO.
I love your Harry voice😂
Meghan not interested in the trappings? One wonders how she ends up with such an extravagant wardrobe and jewellery box🤔
One does indeed.
It's beyond unbelievable how H - all by himself - made his mom look irresponsible and immature and his brother wise and fit for king in a book clearly meant to sanctify Diana and destroy William.
And he still doesn't get it. Oh, boy.
Thank you!
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But William and Catherine did not watch Suits because the show was not broadcast in the UK at that time.
Wasnt it on cable? We watched it in Australia on one of the cable.channels
I never watched it -
Yes wasn't it on cable TV?
Unless the death threat was sent to a random phone number or numbers, there's no way that it happened!
I love the longer videos. Thank you.
Thrilled to hear the longer content works for you!!
Some people are just crazy! I'm no celebrity but I had a random psycho threaten to shoot me dead when I was living in New Zealand! It may have been mistaken identity because he sent some more texts that made no sense at all! Eventually I reported it to police & they gave him a call & scared him off.
@@delphoeneevenhuis5199 whoa!!!! That’s terrifying!!
To my knowledge Diana never was betrayed by any therapists or psychologists, the palace tried to get her to see someone in her early marriage and she kept rejecting the help until she hit rock bottom. She really needed the help before she married Charles because she had a lot of issues growing up from her parent's divorce as it turned ugly, her father was considered abusive to her mother and her mother tried to get custody of the children but her own mother (Diana's maternal grandmother) betrayed her so the kids could have the luxury of living with someone so well established (the Spencer family has a huge history in the English that why Diana was seen more English than any of the Windsors at the time.) Diana was too young to keep track of what was going on and thought her mother just abandoned the whole family and it traumatized her, it likely was worse that shortly after her father married a new woman that made Diana distrust her step mother that she attempted to push her down the stairs! As much as her step mother attempted to bring in some discipline to the Spencer children, they were really left in free reign so Diana had very little tools to work with on being manageable as a parent or a partner.
That said, she was still wonderful in that she was very attentive and put her focus on her children, people had only experienced the Queen's interactions as a mother but as a Queen she had obligations that unfortunately her children were not her sole focus like how she probably wanted it to be. In some ways Diana's youth helped her connect to her sons that probably was a big contrast to how everyone else the boys would meet have interacted with them probably too formally. It's this aspect I think is what grew others to like her too. The tragic part is she was probably finally resolving a lot of issues that festered her whole life and was attempting to carry on and live her life with the hope of a more stable future only for her untimely death.
Diana probably was betrayed at certain points that did not help her mental state, the biggest example is Martin Bashir who planted stories that even her own private secretary was working against her in favor of Charles. Diana was likely very unstable while she and Charles were at the mist of leading up to their divorce because of her worry that she would end up like her mom and be separate from her sons. However, her hostile behavior stopped when the divorce was finalized and Diana was permitted to see her sons that she mended her issues with Charles and they were learning to be friends, and then she died the next year.
Hopefully this can clarify a few things to your questions.
Thanks for the insight!!
Diana had been prescribed Valium right after their honeymoon and she hated the way it dulled her and made her sleep all the time..She was over the moon when she found out that she was pregnant with Wills because that meant she could flush it down the Loo..
Mental illness runs in the Spencer family.
Her Bulimia came from her teenage years before she met Charles. Bulimia can lead to serious mental Heath issues including depression, anxiety, attention seeking and paranoia, I don’t think as a young person she had access to the help she required. After she was married Charles tried on a number of occasions to seek medical intervention but she would not agree for many years .
Her story has so much more to it than people think. She was also blamed by her parents for being the third girl and not the longed for heir, Diana, like her son believed she was a huge disappointment to her parents.
@@kimarmstrong1814 There’s more to it than just longing for an heir. Diana’s parents had lost a baby son, John, hours after his birth in 1960. He would have been the heir. The following year, Diana was born. It’s not unusual that her father, then Viscount Spencer, had hoped she would have been a boy, after the loss of baby John. However, there is no documentation that either Diana’s mother or father ever expressed disappointment to Diana, that she wasn’t a son. It is more likely that it was Diana herself who created that story in later years, in order to embellish her narrative as a damaged child from a dysfunctional family. Ironically, she didn’t need to embellish because the damage was evident.
“Don’t call me a boy I’m a man!” Yeah that’s what my 11year old says too. Makes sense if H is stuck as a 12 year old emotionally
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Correct. A man doesn't say that. They are confident in their own person.
One also understands that "boy" is his relationship with pa, and a term of endearment.
If Katherine had dressed casually, she would probably have been criticised for deliberately disrespecting M by not doing justice to the occasion.
I doubt Catherine was "dressed to the nines." I do believe she was dressed appropriately for the occasion, read not in ripped jeans or barefoot. The Harkles just can't stand any situation where they look foolish because of their behavior and try to smear others instead of sucking it up and admitting they made a mistake.
His own father had been forbidden to marry Camilla so many years back - starting the whooole Drama. And him beeing offended having to ASK and not once considering how his dad and Camilla must have felt - instead he is hating on her the whole time.. He can really see only himself.
as the mother of the future king, Diana was offered police protection after the separation and divorce, but turned it down. That speaks volumes about how under threat she really felt. Just as with her son, she wanted to have it both ways.
During his engagement interview, he said he never heard of her.
Oh but William and Catherine were well aware from watching suits😂😂😂😂
@jodievukmir3187 Crazy thing is he knew they were fan of her but he didn't know who she is!!! 🤔🤔🤔
He thinks we are all in the frozen time zone, where he is since mummy died & living as a 12 year old boy in a 31 year old man's body!!! Total idiot!!! 🤣
I don’t believe that story about Diana driving crazily through traffic with William and Harry in the backseat. At best, Harry is piecing together different memories (Mummy driving with him and W; Mummy crying in the car; paps driving behind them; clicking of photographers), and at worst, he’s telling a blatant lie here because it’s sensational and tugs at the heartstrings. But I don’t believe Diana ever drove recklessly with the boys in her car. She had bodyguards until the last year or so of her life - royal protection that SHE GAVE UP (it wasn’t TAKEN from her) because she was convinced they were spying on her and reporting back to Buckingham Palace. Secondly, and most importantly, whether or not she had royal protection herself, when the boys were with her THEY ALWAYS had royal bodyguards. William is now first in line; he was second and Harry third all through their childhoods and beyond. The bodyguards would never have allowed Diana to drive recklessly (they’d drive instead, but also, Diana, for all her immaturity and rule-breaking, understood royal hierarchy (unlike Harry). She knew how important her boys were; she loved them; no matter how the paps harassed her, she never let their behavior affect how she protected her sons. When she was alone, of course, that is a different story with an ending we know all too well.
These are fantastic! Trying to get through these so I can get caught up!
I wonder how much time she actually spent with her children - seemed to be more involved with running after men
@@CarolFremel-my4hsthe Gym was her personal tinder
My brother was walking across a side exit at Buckingham Palace, suddenly came gunning out in her Audi and almost knocked him over. I think by that time her paranoia had probably taken hold. He said she looked frantic.
The Duke of Todgingham is trying to distract us from all His Wife's Bad Behaviour during her Time in the RF
In the engagement interview they both said H proposed whilst they were cooking roast chicken. Now the book says they were out on the lawn under the stars when he proposed. Which story is it?! Crazy lying fools !!
Those dogs 🐕 can’t run away fast enough!
'I'd ask for a hug but you''re cold so I won't' 🤣
I've been all over these two for years now, your Harry voice makes me laugh, and your quips, like the one above, don't go unnoticed. Thanks for your thoughts, the rest of the room agrees.👍
Oh thank you!!!!!
Glad you focused a bit on the dogs. You can tell a great deal about people when you know how they treat their pets.
Diana was jealous of Tiggy’s close relationship with Wills and Hawwy.
Right, no wonder he has some issues with cognitive dissonance when he remembers the Tiggy he grew up with, and the stories his wife has likely since told him about Tiggy being his mother's enemy.
It is said the the third person she referred to was Tiggy. Tiggy was awarded compensation from the BBC a year or so ago for that.
Not prepared to spend time with her children yet resentful when they become attached to someone who shows them love - nasty - I remember that at the time - lost all respect for Diana after that
@suzannekirkwood6392 yes, that is all over the place. Remember when she allegedly said to Tiggy 'sorry about the baby' alluding to the fact she has lost Charles baby. I think she was terrified she would be replaced by her. Fact is someone like Tiggy would probably been a better match for Charles.
She should have spent more time with her sons then.
Princess Catherine was a super fan of Suits and Meghan! So funny! I love your eye expressions.😂😂😂😂😂
So excited about the ring she had it redone, to be more similar to her previous husband's ring...
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But she redesigned the ring later.
Which I find so hateful!
Love that you make this into such a comedy, almost ( but not quite )makes it worth reading. 😂😂😂
Glad you enjoyed it!
Okay so I am watching the rest of this. So he is saying not to dehumanize people but yet he calls the Taliban chess pieces on a board. We have now learned they were civilians, not soldiers, and he dehumanized them knowing exactly how that feels. No empathy for them but he wants empathy. The hypocrisy knows no bounds for real.
I have to say, I loved Princess Diana, although in saying that I do feel she was an absent mum, after Princess Di and King Charles divorced I vividly remember Princess Di virtually reverted back to acting like a young 20 year old.
She travelled the world non stop and had several different boyfriends, I remember always seeing the boys with King Charles a lot and not very many times with their mum.
I also remember the times the boys were with their mum it was all fun and games, not doing the usual mum things ie going to watch the boys play sport or dropping them off to school (I realise they were at boarding school but I still don’t ever remember seeing photos of her dropping them off to boarding school, remembering that Princess Diana’s life was actually hunted non stop by the paparazzi so you’d think we would of seen photos like that)
I don’t for one second think she’s wasn’t a loving mum, she 100% was, but, she played the no responsibility visitation parent role.
When my ex husband and I broke up, because he saw our children every second weekend he got to play the fun, no rules parent role while I had custody and had to assume the disciplinary role ie do your chores and homework etc although I obviously still had fun and loving times with them (they are in their mid 20’s now) but because I was their only full time parent it was my job to make sure they had routine and were taught manners etc.
I honestly feel King Charles role in their upbringing was as their primary carer so he had the job of teaching them right from wrong while Princess Diana got to play the secondary fun parent role.
Again, I absolutely loved and adored Princess Di so much but I feel King Charles was the boys mature role model.
Secondly I just want to point out that as a parent (especially as a parent of children who are now adults) I would never write a memoir filled with so many swear words and drug use (although I have never taken drugs so it would never contain drug use anyway) as when Harry’s children get older his children are going to read his memoir and it disgusts me that the legacy Harry is leaving for his children and future grandchildren etc is an immature and disrespectful (the way he refers to women throughout Spare is actually horrible, except when his references Meghan of course 🙄) memoir which will go into the Royal history books.
Harry honestly does act like he still is 12 years old!!
I hope that all makes sense, sorry my comment is so long.
You are right. People have said that the boys preferred to spend their holidays with Charles than with Diana after the divorce.
Also Diana tried to play the press exactly like Harry is doing
Yes, I think Harry's bitterness is because his mother was always away, by choice, and blames it on other things and people- he might not even realize it
Charles was just as absent as Diana was. Before the divorce he was off with Camilla a lot of the time. I think after the divorce Diana probably thought it was her turn to muck about the Charles always did. Was that the best choice? No. But Charles was not innocent or the perfect father.
When you lose a parent at a young age, it is so common to 'idealize' them. They were perfect. A friend of mine who lost her mom when she was 3 years old constantly talked about how amazing she was - when she was barely old enough to even remember her.
You seem to have better insights into these two than most of the professionals who post on these subjects thanks for posting.
Wow!!! Thank you!!
I don't think of Meghan as a human being. I think of her as a snake.
Great vid, Cheere! Interesting point you made about Diana not knowing how to be a Mom. When Diana was just a young child, her own mother left the family. Later, when she was a teen, her father remarried, but Di wasn't fond of her stepmother. So I think you're right about Diana not knowing how to fill the role of mother, and mirroring her own mother by being absent much of the time.
You know she lies about her cooking skills ! For all we know her chicken dishes were bought already cooked.
I love watching your videos especially the super long ones.❤
They are perfect to relax after a stressful week.☕️❤️
That’s awesome to hear!! I’m thrilled you’re enjoying the longer videos!
@@cheeredenise I enjoy them too, thank you for adding spice to this plain book... I was thinking about listening to it through audible but it is sooo much better with your personality💕 Love you, keep the long videos comming🌞
Does anyone remember a picture of the boys strapped into the backseat and Diana weeping in the front? That would have been splashed all over the papers
Yup. Never happened.
Diana would cry on Williams shoulders when her affairs ended. What kind of mother does that to their child. Diana was immature just like Harry and can picture him whining and complaining to his children about how hard his life has been 🙄
I wonder if there's ever a time where he realises that when his mother died, she was two years younger than he is now. it feels like it's time to grow up.
Oh wow, gosh. What a good point!
Good point. Someone should ask Harry what memories Archie will have of his childhood?….and of his Dad?
He is really trying you. Thanks for making this horrendous book worth listening to. You do it in such a way that I just love and with you, I can tolerate it. Lol I don't understand why ANYONE would let him release this book. It blows my mind. They probably paid someone to release it. I don't know but I have heard they pay for allot of things like awards and whatever else they buy to make them seem popular. These two are nuts. I really pity those children if they are real 🙏
"I don't know if the two women can get along since one wears shoes and one doesn't." 😂 omg, you crack me up!!
When his mother is driving like a maniac, where are the boys body guards? There is no way they could have gone out as two high ranking Princes without body guards.
In the car following them.
His mother wasn’t driving Dodi’s drunken chauffeur was, sadly Diana wasn’t wearing a seat belt
It really doesn't seem plausible that you would receive a death threat via text, if she had said it was online I might buy it
It would be great to be able to forensically follow that text. He only knows of it because she told him. It must have been in her phone. But how did it get there?
She could have typed it up to show him, maybe she never actually received it.
I realise only a psychopath would play that game to unnerve their intimate partner.
I'm only speculating about the source of the text.
@@Anna_Key wouldn't it be easy to have someone call or trace the number from the text? If she wanted to follow up, it could be done.
Not to mention she said that reporters and paps were knocking on her door all day and all night? The Toronto police were called many times and found nothing.
What was the reason someone wants to put a bullet in her head? They loved H, so much?
The boys would have had their own security, even if Diana didn’t 😳
I have been in therapy on and off for decades and cannot remember rarely ANY detail from my sessions. So ridiculous. His whole thing is what he perceives as slights, makes up what others are ‘truly’ thinking, makes up events in his head.
My adopted mom died when I was 9. For years I held her up on a pedestal as perfect until I became an adult. Then I saw her more as another adult who wasn’t perfect, bc no human is. When I became a mother I understood the things I was upset about with how my father handled things when I was young after my mom died wasn’t fair. Parents aren’t perfect. My father was also grieving and made mistakes that affected me as a child. As a parent myself I could forgive him and show him grace.
Harry is a selfish narcissistic Man Boy. I had an evil sociopathic stepmother who made my young life hell. I got an illness at 12 that I had to deal with alone bc my stepmother didn’t give a shit. Ppl all over the world have something going on that is worse then what I was going through. He cannot seem to understand true empathy for anyone else. He creates drama and pain for himself bc he mostly has Royal problems, not real world problems. You would think that someone who loves Africa would understand that others have truly hard traumatic lives, some without water & food.
He needs to grow up.
Diana refused to have royal protection after being 'taken in by Martin Bashir', for his documentary about her. An ex S A S soldier 'Robin Horsfall', gave a lecture at Surry university, apparentatly she started out having ex S A S soldiers as body gaurds, but they're were no incidents where they called upon. So she employed ex Militarly Police instead (presumably they were cheaper) again nothing happenend. So when she started going out with 'Doddi', they started using different protection that the 'Fiad family', used including 'Henri-Paul'.... & everyone knows what happened. The video of the talk has unfortunately been taken down. Keep up the good work with the read alongs.
You are so right about the darn gravy!!!
Thank you for another excellent summary of these insane chapters. You're a trooper. You have some astute and compassionate insights. Also, you're able to spot a lie which is so refreshing. Oh, and that colour looks so good on you!
Thank you so much for your comment and I’m so glad you enjoyed this episode!!
There are at least 3 stories how Guy broke his front legs!
1) he ran away in Toronto
2) he run away in London and was run over by his/her security car
3) he was thrown by either her or him against a wall during one of their fights
4) he was thrown by either her or him out of a window (2nd floor) during one of their fights
Such rare tipes of fractured bones on both! front legs are hinting in 99% of the time to animal cruelty and abuse!!!
Is it me or does harry say I'm sad all of the time especially since Diana died.therefore I can take lots of drugs and no one can criticise me. I think the palace must have worked over time trying to keep his drug and alcohol use hidden but he's such a fool it's not always possible.a picture paints a thousand words
I think the alleged "aggressiveness" from her dog came from their animal cruelty! Some will only suffer that much until the rarest instinct will kick in: their survival instinct!!!
And both are known to be very "passionate" in their abuse of every living creatures!!! 😤😡😠🤬
Diana was a lovely, spirited, compassionate woman.
Diana was also, troubled, selfish, and short sighted. She chose to not see the boys as much as she could have. She chose to be in that car that night. She called the paps. She had a terrible need to be seen.
Whatever happened between her and Charles. Which admittedly sounds awful. It was between her and Charles. Harry does see the world through a mirror. Only as a reflection of himself. I do feel sorry for the 12 yo little boy he was. But, he’s not Peter Pan. He has to grow up. All the therapy, drugs, and Markle glitter in the world cannot make that fact go away. Supposedly he has childhood now. For all his talk of not perpetuating generational trauma. He seems intent on bringing them up as the children of addiction.
Am I correct? I recollect reading that Diana phoned the boys that night before the fateful car ride and Harry refused to speak to her!
So true, raising children in an atmosphere of addiction is a very disordered upbringing and usually leaves the children with various lifelong issues.
@@DebbiSmithDCIf that’s true, then his antics probably stem from some sort of repressed guilt. Either that, or he’s just a spoiled brat capitalizing off of his dead mother’s legacy for sympathy and clout.
@@DebbiSmithDChe was probably resentful that she preferred to spend time with her current boyfriend than her children
The boys were at Balmoral playing with their cousins when she called, so his main thought was to get back to playing not talking to her.
I am not sure it was that same night, but that was the last phone call. It is in one of his interviews before mexit when he spoke about it
Ok here is my confusion.
As a member of the Royal Family...wouldnt any dr, therapist, dentist ect...have to be cleared by like MI5 or the like?
I can totally see Meg going to the show writers saying “the palace says blah blah blah “ to make herself more important!
Meg has paid 10k in legal fees to who & for what ? I think Meg is grifting Charles ! For 10 k
It was probably $100,000 a picture because it was so rare. Paparazzi were never really following them. All the shots of Megs are from her own people.
If only he’d read about those in similar circumstances. Look at what Jackie Kennedy did after Onassis died, she moved to NYC, got a job and walked to work everyday. Head straight ahead. She told her 2 kids to do the same. In addition, Ted’s youngest son Patrick (former US Rep or Senator from RI). He got a DUI and resigned and went rehab but then wrote a book. He wrote about saying your depressed in his family. The usual response was this one was assassinated then one was. Even his brother lost a leg to Cancer. So no one wants to hear his depression but it was his state of mind. He never said he had it the worst. However he has alcohol and drug use. He wasn’t whining. Just saying his family’s reaction. Which is typically Irish -“ you don’t know what you have…- but on the Kennedy level. Harry might gain from reading or reaching out to people if they’re still alive.
And Diana was a young mother and like all mom’s who are 20 years older than them. As opposed to 40 yrs older. He knew her from 20-34. She’d have grown and changed. But she had no friends so she leaned on Wills. (And H). He started this cr@p at an age older than she ever reached. You outgrow your 20s and if she had more kids in 30s or 40s, she’d be way more conservative. Just how it goes. I wished for a cool fun mom. But my mom was a mom b/c she was closer to 40. Anyway, it’s too bad she struggled in her 20s. And these two are hijacking her tragedy for their own. So he should read a book on his mom too. Despite it being modern times. She was the last of the virginal royal wives and they realized how archaic.
And funny how Camilla wants to send them where they sent Wallis and Edward during WW2. In Europe they were visiting Hitler, cavorting with all kinds ti his brother’s detriment. And after Governor of the Bahamas, they never got another assignment. So welcome to exile H. If he knew his own history, he’d get the reference. They must be searching for a place to stash these two. He is unknowingly repeating history. And sounds ridiculous.
We here in South Africa had all episodes of Suits and Meg was written out long before Harry came on the scene! 😳
Interesting analysis! I appreciate that you bring in knowledge of mental health and improper mothering to the conversation. It’s ironic that M spent thousands of her own money to hire PR firms to get her into the press, then once she got famous, she uses legal action to supposedly keep her from being maligned in the press.
The story about the threat to be shot in the head reminded me of when she was speaking to Serena about her children and suddenly told the story of how Archie was in a room with a burning heater and they had expected her to carry on with the SA tour. Nobody had heard that story before, she just announced it as another dig at the RF
Classic Meghan!
That was another half truth…there was a heater in the baby’s room in SA that burnt out, but Archie and family were not there at the time. She then blew it up into this drama of Archie being in harms way and she still had to have a stiff upper lip and carry on with Royal duties…😂
The more you tell us I'm beginning to think he's very angry with his mother for dying and can't let it come out, plus the guilt for not talking to her because he was having to much fun, at his dad's and told himself she's on a long holiday
I tend to think Harry is a huge twat waffle, but I do have sympathy for him in this area. I had a very close friend who I loved dearly, but she was one of those people who ALWAYS had drama and the friendship could be exhausting. So I made a decision to step back and take a break from the friendship for my own peace, and during that time she was killed in a car accident. At the point she died, we hadn’t spoken in months and I carried that guilt with me for a long time. So I do feel sympathy and sadness for Harry that he experienced this as a child. I was a grown woman when this happened with my friend and it was still incredibly difficult to process. But at some point you have to put in the work and move forward.
He said that he could not remember his mom's laugh and voice......
If only there was some magical device that I don't know.... Recorded her. 😂😂😂
All these stories from Harry strike me as things MM has told him and he just believes it all.
Me too
I love the longer video's! I was hoping there'd be an episode today 😊Thank you , Cheere!
Glad you like them!
I completely agree with you, only the Lord can truly redeem humble and help him but he is so full of himself, I don’t think he could ever see it.
So, according to Harry, it's okay for Meghan to talk about Katherine's post baby moods, but heaven for bid Katherine tease William about home remedies!😮
Personally I make gravy at the end of cooking to use the juices from the cooked meat etc
I place my chicken directly in the pan without a rack and add an inch or so of water. That way, when the drippings drip down, they don't hit a hot pan and burn up or harden. The water allows the drippings to stay drippings. I add milk and flour to that mixture. Salt , pepper etc. Making more gravy.
Maybe it came from a jar.
I mean it's the only way, are you going to let it simmer the whole time you're cooking everything else? Come on. Hopefully this puts a fork in #Gravygate
I love the way you read this book and playing the parts.
Chelsea Davy must be breathing a major sigh of relief…Harry say’s he “loved her ease that she wasn’t complicated “…..traded that
All throughout we have heard Hairbrain calling William "Willy." I find that suspect. Diana used to call William by the name "Wills." Being as Mummy addicted as he was, you would think that he would call William by the name "Wills," BTW, I am so enjoying your reading of this book. You are making a trashy book into a lot of fun. Thanks.
Thank you for the compliment!!! (And I agree….the nickname “Willy” makes no sense)
Hi leeleegirl, I feel that Harry only referred to William as Willy because in the UK a willy (self-explanatory) is typical of how a competitive teenager might refer to his brother named William. I believe their parents did call him Willy Wombat around the time of the visit to Australia, when William was only a few months old, and later Wills, but in 2023 England the popular short form of William is Will - for obvious reasons.
@@carolekralova9108 here in the U.S. a Willy is also sometimes used as slang for the male organ. Hmmm Hairbrain does have an American wife. I wonder if that is why William is being referred to as "Willy."
Yeah I’m British and I don’t remember Harry ever referring to William as Willy until recently. He called him Wills.
It’s clearly a pathetic dig at William 🙄
I don't understand all the angst over his dead mother that he doesn't even REMEMBER. He was 12 for crying out loud! How does he not remember his mother??
Trauma?
She did not spend much time with her boys. TRUTH!
My father died when I had been 13 for just two weeks. He went to sea so was away a lot. Therefore I have few memories but that makes the ones I do have even more precious. When I actually do sit down and really think about him I can remember a lot more than i initially thought. The memories r there but after 50 yrs they r buried under a lot of other stuff but they r still there. Only thing is I can't remember his voice or his smell. There is a tape somewhere of him singjng and playing guitar maybe that has him speaking a bit. I would need to find it. So I understand a bit of what h has gone thru but I didn't have his background, financial security etc so cldnt afford to be totally absorbed in 'oh poor me' but it did give me alcohol and men probs for a lot of yrs. I have recently lost my ex partner who was in my life for 34 yrs, even tho we were apart we were still very, very close. I am not coping with this loss, infact in a way it is worse than losing my father probably because he was the main man in my life for nearly 3 times longer than my father. Life is a strange carry on. Just as u r getting the hang of it and enough knowledge to cope with most things flung at u then wham u r taken away. What is that about?! Honestly, what is that all about?
This reading is great. It's coming alive in your hands. Funny too. I 😘 ve your " voices."
So glad!
Sorry to comment so often. But didn't Guy have casts on his front legs in the 'second' engagement story ???????????
The book says the casts were on his back legs but I don’t know any of the other stories floating around 😆
@@cheeredenise thanks for the confirmation the book says back legs, because their own photographs and Netflix series "proposal" at Kensington Palace definitely have casts on Guy's front legs.
Mysterious!
How did the dog, Guy, break his legs?
@@dianecampbell6912 it's been said Guy was flung out of a window at Nottingham Cottage while H&M were arguing - thus the two broken front legs - there is a picture out there of Guy with two plaster casts..
This is so very sad. William loved Diana very, very much, but he understood her faults as well as his fathers. He has been brilliant so far in giving the press something of himself and his family while not letting them in too far. That is the mistake his mother made in her war with Charles. She would call the press when she wanted them and then couldn't get them out of her life when she didn't. To some extent, Charles was the same but nothing like the game Diana played. I loved Diana as a true humanitarian. There is no doubt whatsoever that she cared about the causes she championed. I also have no doubt whatsoever that she was the most fun mother in existence. I think her own childhood may have had something to do with that. One thing I thing I believe both William and Harry have is a hot head. Unfortunately, Diana had to spilt time with the children with Charles. Because of this, I don't think discipline was high on her list of things to instill in her children. Then you have Charles' legendary avoidance of any kind of confrontation whatsoever, so it isn't difficult as to how this happened. I don't mean to give more credit or blame to their wives than they should receive. After all, these are two grown men. However, I do think Kate tries to temper William and get him to look at both sides of an issue. If William and Charles have anything like a close relationship, I think that is down to Kate's influence. One the other hand, Meghan's influence over Harry is complete and we all see how this is playing out.
William never got to idealize Diana given she treated him as a pseudo relationship therapist crying over all the men in her life to him by the time he was 5-7 years old. They had a strange relationship, but it did allow William to see the warts in her personality.
I think the room and sausages stories are made up because he can’t tell the true stories of Diana watching Telly and eating on tea trays w William while Harry had to eat in the nursery, by himself or w the nanny. Diana had a clear favorite - William - and I have no doubt that it’s something that burns in Harry’s psyche still.
Did they get engaged twice? They told a totally different story about how Hairbrain proposed to Migraine in their official engagement interview. If I recall they were INSIDE the cottage and they were roasting a chicken. Funny how now it was OUTSIDE and they were having a picnic. But then again, when your brain has been fried on drugs of all kind, flashbacks can change I suppose. How sad that even the moment that they got engaged has to be updated and changed.
Apparently and they also got married twice if you believe them 😂
@@angiedavies5530 so true
“Recollections may vary”
Kudos for the longer posts. All we've gotten from others is a little snip here, a little snip there, with nothing to tie these words together. The key to your success is your explanations, comments, clarifications and thoughtful cogent questions--the kind of questions common sense folks would ask.
Glad you enjoyed it!!
Princess Catherine´s remark about Meghan´s medication was most likely jokingly as the Royal Family are well known private supporters of alternative medicine and homeopathy in particular. It seems to have served them well.
Harry is an arrested adolescent. The truth is he could have been the closest adviser tho the King and future King of England. Untouchable really, but he isn’t. He’s just not smart enough to comprehend it. In contrast just look at Princess Charlotte, that child is a wise soul already. She is a treasure and surely is tight with her brother Prince George.
I think Charlotte will be to George what Princess Anne has been to King Charles.
Haha
LOVE you sort of calling out the ready-made gravy!
4 am here in southeast Louisiana and I'm just getting home from a crazy night tending bar in the city. You are an excellent way to wind down and relax. Also I'm loving these long videos.
Sounds like a loooong night!! So glad you’re enjoying the videos!!
Fellow Louisiana girl here too ❤
Diana gave up her security however,if she had the boys in her custody you better believe Scotland Yard was behind them..I personally do not believe that story because out of all of Diana's imperfections she would never place those 2 boys in harms way..I can tell your not a fan of Diana and that's fine but I just wanted to say that part of the divorce agreement was that when Diana would travel she would have the boys security detail around her ..The sad thing is that if she had kept her security personally then what happened that night in the tunnel would have never happened..
I just want to apologize for all of the typos in my comment above..I am on some pain killers due to having a kidney stone 😭..I promise I can read and write most days .. 😆
She was her own worst enemy
I've subscribed!! You make a tremendous effort injecting humour into this exercise in callous treachery. Its unbelievable that they don't understand what they're exposing about themselves. Poor William and poorer Charles.....
Why do you not understand about making gravy in the UK for Meghan and Harry and how it's done !! . I can guarantee it was made with the netflix crew or the Kensington cook 😂😂
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Made well in advance so that it is nice and firm and easy to cut to serve.
@@meyrickkretschmer260 🤣🤣🤣
Gaslighting 101
A dog's back legs can be easily run over but the front legs? That sounds so fishy. Wonder if the vet would ever explain the injuries
No my dog got ran over right infront of me and it was her front leg that broke it was horrifying . The car kept going too smh
Did I say front legs? Uh oh! I misspoke! It was his back legs!!!!
@@cheeredenise Does it say back legs in the book? If so that’s another mistake- It was his front legs - I just googled it and found the pic from the NF docuseries. She took picture of PH on one knee and then of themselves with the dog (of course, documenting every merchandisable moment for future sale). During the proposal. Who does that? BTW I loved when you whispered to the camera “how do you know they were blood free diamonds they could have told you anything” …I laughed out loud at that. Thank you!
@@SpringVioletta the book says back legs!
'Tig' is short for Tignanello wine - a wine that Cory introduced to her! Just like she stole his roasted chicken recipe :) and became this amazing 'foodie'. I just want to say that maybe Charles was being cheeky when he said he couldn't financially support them? I could see him saying that. Maybe he was concerned about her $1M a year wardrobe?
I so look forward to your videos!
Thanks for watching!!!!
She was a millionnaire when she entered into Harry's life, so cut out your nasty stuff. Denise, there can't be much money in just reading Spare out loud. Are you trying to set yourself up as the new Audible. .
@@corryjookit7818 You can always tell a sugar. They will always call people a bunch of names if you don't like their 'girl'. . IF Meghan was such a millionaire why was she looking for a rich guy? Oh, that's right - her career was over and that $2M wouldn't last very long. Go to another channel - no one likes you here.
Cory was part of the bigger scheme when Meghan started “operation bag a prince “ Nutmeg knew she would need an award winning roasted chicken recipe to win helly with bagging the prince. Everyone knows Harry was obsessed with Kate’s roasted chicken and always highjacked their dinner plans when he knew roasted chicken was on the menu .
@@corryjookit7818Go and do some research. Meghan was no where near as rich as she made out. She rented a property and had quite large bills to pay in Canada, she liked a high standard of living and bought good quality 50:08 clothes. Meghan , as now lived beyond her means.
Also read the room , people are really enjoying this lady reading Spare, she has made a terrible book interesting and is largely spot on with her analysis. Don’t like her don’t listen but I can guarantee that she is far more knowledgeable than you on the subject as she has taken time and researched the book .
Whats with the gravy?
I thought she was vegan.🤔
She hasn’t told us one vegan meal she’s eaten. Salmon, roast chicken, calamari…I don’t think these are vegan meals 🤣
@@cheeredenise wait.....calamari isn't a plant?!🤯
@@jacksonmahr8915 🤣 only if it’s not some Frankenstein creation to help vegans pretend they don’t resent their own life choices
It’s funny how he doesn’t remember Mummy but when talking on the phone with Thomas (before he saves him) they talk about the fun they would have with Mummy and the burping competitions. He also remembers the sweets she gives him at school
She's an occasional vegan 😂
Laying on the couch is such a Trope, never seen anyone with a couch to lay on!
Right? Been to therapy and there was not a couch in sight. 😅
Oh my goodness I’m so happy you posted this tonight, I sent my small children to grandmas! Yay I can listen in peace! 34.02 hahahaha I laughed so hard!
Yah for some peace while the kiddies are visiting grandma!!!!! 😆
Wait, so he talks about not thinking of people as animals here, but thought of the 25 people he supposedly killed during the war as chess pieces? Make it make sense. Was there absolutely no editor for this novel?
It is reported that one time, when Harry (aged around three) was walking past reporters with his parents, he stuck his tongue out at the reporters, threw handfuls of gravel at them, and shouted “Go away men!” Now, who would have put him up to that but Diana? She was as manipulative as Meghan when it suited her.
He was just a brat and she was a bad mother
He was also filmed running his trike into the legs of his security personnel and Diana never stopped it. Basically, he was allowed to do exactly as he wished while under her supervision, and she never told him "no" as he was the favorite.
Is he nice? An odd question from someone who already at that time scorned and completely was horrible to an x boyfriend, husband and father, amongst childhood friends. My mom always quote this "if they accuse you of things, it's because they know the signs and betrayals they inflict". Now she plays dumb about not knowing anything but she sure knows the rights and loopholes to every law there is in England and elsewhere when benefits her and her children!
It didn't matter if she gave up her security detail, when she had Harry and William their security would be with them at all times. As for the dog with the broken legs, his front legs were broken...they have photos of it, is the only reason I know. His story about the engagement doesn't make sense either because on Netflix they have 'video' of him proposing. This all such a made up crap show.
Excellent point! Didn’t even think of that!
Prove it Harry. Show us the Text😂😂😂😂😂. Is she giving the Paps her phone number?
This is his biggest problem in life?
The press?