How to move away from Emotional pain:- Avoid dwelling in the past and be present in the moment Know your worth and live your life happily Love yourself and be confident that things will get better on its own
What sadguru says is definitely good but in practical aspect, we feel drowned in depression when somebody breaks the heart and move on with somebody leaving us crying and sad. It takes a long time to get healed and come out of this mess until somebody takes their place to give a good level of companionship. I had also gone through a very severe depression due to cheating by my loved one and it took years to get healed until I got someone who became the most precious part of my life. I feel blessed and thankful to God.Whenever I look back, I feel far more better today than my past.I learnt to forgive and move on and my life is in peace now.
This is so true. I went through my first break up at the age of 34. It completely shattered me, but eventually I came out of it a stronger, wiser person. I wish I would've gone through a few break-ups and failures earlier in my life.
It can't be expressed in words how much thankful i am being alive with such a wonderful and wise man. You have totally changed my life.Without you,it could not have been possible.
“Greatness is best measured by how well an individual responds to the happenings in life that appear to be totally unfair, unreasonable, and undeserved.” Marvin J. Ashton
Dear person whoever reading this, we may not know each others but I wish you all the best in life!✨ Stop blaming yourself, accept things and go forward. Your smile is precious 🥰 all the keys of happiness is in your hands, so open it up 🔓
These 5 minutes have been of so great impact!! He is THE ULTIMATE GURU of the age and his commitment to adiyogi is going phenomenal.... Has he not been here, there would be a great phenomenal missing the world would thirst out for...🙏🏻 Unable to find any expression to his contribution in the world being role model to many...HATS OFFFF!!!
@@bobcharly8641 i suffer as well bud from bad depression, so I know what it’s like to have good days & bad days. Hope your doing well man! And same here, I’m grateful to be alive! I was so focused on dwelling on what I lost in my life, instead of appreciating what I have in front me & never mind that this channel, is just as good or better than CBT based therapy lol.
I agree but you should think of all the memories and good times you spend together and be glad that the person was in your life which could not even be possible and move on.
@Ayush its very difficult to move on esp when there is no one to take their place and give us the same level of companionship. Time does heal all. But it takes a lot of time..
He is laughing not because he does not take peoples Problem seriously but he is in the touch with the inner dimension which is dimeonsion of unlimited joy and bliss
I swear to God...-some of the most awe-inspiringly great lines by Sadhguru out there in his this video, MUST watch to get over the »self-helpless« cycle!
Thank you Sadhguru for your wise words. It is true I just needed a reson to feel guilt and pain, to turn against myself. But actually all the "bad" things that happened to me are opportunities or life lessons. And I am thankfull for every kick I received from this life. I am on my way to becoming wise and not hurt. Being hurt is of no use to be honest. It is like japanese kintsugi - repairing the broken pottery by filling cracks with gold - the philosophical meaning of it is next: your scars are your beauty. You can never become anything in life without getting hit and cracked a few times. And by the way - remember that other people are not bad, they are just hurt, so accept their scars.
Had a fight at my place people abused me and cornered me mentally by screaming and throwing things around this has been happening from my childhood iam 21 now and today it hurt me bad I practice isha meditations and somehow they pushed me to an extent where I broke down but sadhguru always and always stays in me and even in any kind of moment I feel this endurance for these external things which happen words can't describe how much you mean to me sadhguru as a Savior as a guru as everything to me 🙏🏽
"I'm saying even if you're put through the most horrible situations, either you can come out using that experience as a better human being or you can use the experience to become a horrrible mess." What Sadhguru said was truly satisfying to hear to my soul and on the point. But it's not really that easy to forgive ourselves for any of our wrong doings. Even when we choose to become a better human, I don't think we can come out of it that easily.
I don't have words about how grateful I am that this wisdom and guidance of Sadhguru is available for free and at anytime. His wisdom is the only help at the peak moment of chaos in my mind.
Sadhguruji is doing fantastic work in answering repositories of questions we have in our mind, which sometimes become nightmares for us.Atleast somebody is thinking about the solutions for these country and not scratching the age old problems.I have never met him but he is like what Dronacharya was for Eklavya(except he didn't ask me for such gurudaksina👍😂)
His laugh was more than enough for my sad feelings to vanish. Sadhguru I will meet you in 4 years and come to isha ashrama for a year. I want to feel happy.
I know this completely but after hearing this....it has made me feel much better knowing that what I'm thinking is also the same as what sadhguru sir is speaking ,❤️
The one with the Intelligence and the World turning against around you helped me a lot in connection with the Quote of Marcus Aurelius: "Objective judgement, now, at this very moment. Unselfish action, now, at this very moment. Willing acceptance - now, at this very moment - of all external events. That's all you need." Being Objective and understand all you perspectives that you have and the other person. Much Blessings! Thanks!
Two things I learned and I am grateful to hear: 👉Speak in such a way that you will never regret. 👉Choose to be wise than wounded. Thank you for these words... I am trying my best to be wiser.
We do not wanna become wounded, and that's why we watch your videos Sadhguruji! Becoming wounded hurts ourselves more than anyone else, so it's wise to become wise! Thank you for the amazing story! Thank you! 🙏
The POWERFUL message is much needed today in April of 2020. This nightmare will be over soon, I pray, and WE ALL have to ask ourselves . WHAT IS THE LESSON here? What can I/we learn from this to be BETTER and STRONGER. Both MENTALLY and PHYSICALLY. This too WILL pass and I/we will be STRONGER, IF WE LOOK inside ourselves . We learn our greatest lessons through failure and pain, unfortunately . It is a part of life, and as a country song by Gary Allen says "Life Ain't Always Beautiful But It's a Beautiful Ride". It's a song he wrote of his wife who committed suicide . Thank YOU Sadhguru. You are truly a BLESSING!!
Good point, however, for some ppl it's not a matter of not looking on the bright side it's a matter of truly being overwhelmed and not being able to get past!
But if you just keep watching videos only then you will only get entertained. All the purpose of this is that you take up the tools that he is trying to offer. I insist you to go for Inner Engineering Program
Dear loved one, It's ok to feel pain. It's Oki to feel hurt. It's ok to feel angry. It's ok to feel any emotion. Cry it out, scream it out, paint it, draw it, FEEL IT. Please do not numb it... You deserve to feel the pain, even though it feels a lot. Feeling is healing, I promise you. Sending you love and strength to allow the pain to move through you, with out judgment against it 💗
In last few years i have lost my mother and father both. My fiancee left me after 7 years of relationship. But sadguru words are calming, life is really tough i will try to keep going forward.
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I know that the pain and void you feel inside yourself may be unbearable at times. Never give up on yourself. Universe will guide you forward for sure. Focus on yourself and do small things that bring joy to you.. happiness is within you. God will bless you with a wonderful life partner :)
TOP TOP MOST IMP. For me.VERY NICELY Said by Sadnhguru on meeting with other people and If you get hearted then think wisely and understand it fully by yourself.
This guy was actually a reason I’m depressed because he says you can only find happiness in yourself. Why can’t you find happiness in another person? I’m sure it’s 100x easier finding happiness in a good lasting relationship than all by your lonesome depressed self. Either climb Mount Everest everyday or find the one then climb a 1 foot ladder with just the same or even more happiness.
Why do people see everything that bothers them as a problem? True strength is knowing your limits and accepting your current state then learning to live with it
We need to learn how to not let our wounds take over us- because it has a way to of casting a spell on us-kids are not wise enough without the right tools to know logic from their pain
Wow what a lines he said We always have two choices 1- either you can become wounded 2- either you will become more wise. Summary In the whole world every body is facing everyday this kind of unwanted situation but what makes diffrent from others their choices ❤️ to become wiser🤗
The best take away from this-
" After A breakup- you can either become wounded or u can become wise"
Stitch yourself up and back on the horse ..stronger then ever
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How to move away from Emotional pain:-
Avoid dwelling in the past and be present in the moment
Know your worth and live your life happily
Love yourself and be confident that things will get better on its own
Thx mam
"When the world is against you, isn't it your intelligence that stands for you "
Koi bikhar jaata h, koi nikhar jaata h ✌
OMG!! You just gave me the most precious line at the right time. Thank you. ✌
This is beautiful brother
I searched for this video coz I was feeling totally devastated.....by the end I feel so much stable...... Namashkaram 🙏
Listen to different corner song n numb song
Same here(kind of)
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It's one year since you commented this Saumya. How are you feeling now ?
Stay strong
Question: why do we fall? Answer: to rise again as a better person. 😊
So that we can learn to pick ourselves up
As a stronger person with thicker skin.
Watched Batman begins? You will get it
ANUP MITTAL has
Exactly - While going through your comment one quote popped up in my head of D. Washington which says "Fall down Seven get up eighth"
*"Is it not very very important that your intelligence stands up for you?"* *Amazing*
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You are great satguru I am facing breaku now and your speech helping me to overcome through out it
What does this mean? Can I know about it little more? I didn't understand it earlier in the video.
What sadguru says is definitely good but in practical aspect, we feel drowned in depression when somebody breaks the heart and move on with somebody leaving us crying and sad. It takes a long time to get healed and come out of this mess until somebody takes their place to give a good level of companionship.
I had also gone through a very severe depression due to cheating by my loved one and it took years to get healed until I got someone who became the most precious part of my life. I feel blessed and thankful to God.Whenever I look back, I feel far more better today than my past.I learnt to forgive and move on and my life is in peace now.
This is so true. I went through my first break up at the age of 34. It completely shattered me, but eventually I came out of it a stronger, wiser person. I wish I would've gone through a few break-ups and failures earlier in my life.
And how do you feel now ?
@@priyankmohan6474 r you ok?
Exactly
Im going through this . How did you manage?
Same here just hard a bit because she left me with a child
It can't be expressed in words how much thankful i am being alive with such a wonderful and wise man. You have totally changed my life.Without you,it could not have been possible.
He gives life to many
"You can be wounded or you can be wise" ❤
When you are fully shattered ...you should think about your best moment in life and make yourself smile because that's why God has given us memory
It's not that easy
All Dark was once Light. The Light is still in there. The Dark is only what you allow it to be!
“Greatness is best measured by how well an individual responds to the happenings in life that appear to be totally unfair, unreasonable, and undeserved.”
Marvin J. Ashton
Thank you Sadhguru. I am at the lowest point of my life so far and this video gave me some comfort.
Dear person whoever reading this, we may not know each others but I wish you all the best in life!✨ Stop blaming yourself, accept things and go forward. Your smile is precious 🥰 all the keys of happiness is in your hands, so open it up 🔓
Thank u
Thank you
❤️❤️❤️❤️thank u for these lovely kind words.
Thank you 😊
thankyou so much 🙏
"you can either become wounded or you can become wise"
That's the choice 🙌😌
So much wisdom from one Man. Thanks for giving answers to the most pressing issues people face. You're a blessing to the world.
❤ From Nigeria
Either you can become wounded
Or
You can become wise.
Really really thankyou Sadhguru.
These 5 minutes have been of so great impact!! He is THE ULTIMATE GURU of the age and his commitment to adiyogi is going phenomenal.... Has he not been here, there would be a great phenomenal missing the world would thirst out for...🙏🏻 Unable to find any expression to his contribution in the world being role model to many...HATS OFFFF!!!
Love you Sadhguru! I'm going through a broken heart and suffer from bad depression, but when I watch your videos, I feel better. Thank you.
i hope after two years you’re doing well! keep pushing beautiful human
@@MsGlamourish that was so sweet thank you! You are an amazing person and I hope all your dreams and wishes come true 🙏🏼 happy new year!
@@bobcharly8641 i also hope u are doing well bob, go BOB! =D
@@user-bk6vq3xm1t that’s super sweet! Thank you 🙏🏼 ! I’m okay I have my good days and bad days, but I’m grateful to be alive!
@@bobcharly8641 i suffer as well bud from bad depression, so I know what it’s like to have good days & bad days. Hope your doing well man!
And same here, I’m grateful to be alive!
I was so focused on dwelling on what I lost in my life, instead of appreciating what I have in front me & never mind that this channel, is just as good or better than CBT based therapy lol.
World has enough problems the best you can do is be a solution for yourself 😇
But it's very tough not to be wounded when you lost your most precious persons
I agree!
I agree but you should think of all the memories and good times you spend together and be glad that the person was in your life which could not even be possible and move on.
@Ayush its very difficult to move on esp when there is no one to take their place and give us the same level of companionship. Time does heal all. But it takes a lot of time..
True 😔
In same situation bro. I hope time will heal everything 🙏🏻
He is laughing not because he does not take peoples Problem seriously but he is in the touch with the inner dimension which is dimeonsion of unlimited joy and bliss
I swear to God...-some of the most awe-inspiringly great lines by Sadhguru out there in his this video, MUST watch to get over the »self-helpless« cycle!
As of now, my life seemed strucking but after watching this i won't to be wounded at any rate ... And i want to be remember this in my life... Pranams
Simply wow , i bow sir 🙏
o Saif Ali Khan
Exactly. I love this man. Since i discovered him i have changed the way i look at life in general. I hope he has a very long life ahead of him.
@@gaurav362 😂😂
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You used your energy to improve tha pain in your singing 😄
First view of this man changed my life.thank you
Thank you Sadhguru for your wise words. It is true I just needed a reson to feel guilt and pain, to turn against myself. But actually all the "bad" things that happened to me are opportunities or life lessons. And I am thankfull for every kick I received from this life. I am on my way to becoming wise and not hurt. Being hurt is of no use to be honest. It is like japanese kintsugi - repairing the broken pottery by filling cracks with gold - the philosophical meaning of it is next: your scars are your beauty. You can never become anything in life without getting hit and cracked a few times. And by the way - remember that other people are not bad, they are just hurt, so accept their scars.
Thank you for this comment .Life is rough and it makes me see it different
"Even you put through a horrible situation either you come out by experiencing it or you can become a horrible mess".. awesome line's.🌸🌸
Had a fight at my place people abused me and cornered me mentally by screaming and throwing things around this has been happening from my childhood iam 21 now and today it hurt me bad I practice isha meditations and somehow they pushed me to an extent where I broke down but sadhguru always and always stays in me and even in any kind of moment I feel this endurance for these external things which happen words can't describe how much you mean to me sadhguru as a Savior as a guru as everything to me 🙏🏽
God bless you with the best of all good things the world has :)
Be stronger with each day. Universe will show you your path. Focus on yourself :)
Must say these 5 minutes can really change your mindset👍👍
"Is it not important that your intelligence stands up for you." - Sadhguru thank you!
I'm so jealous of this man's laugh .. 😂 it is such a beautiful and whole hearted one.. ✨
Sadhguru's laugh fills the world with Joy !
"I'm saying even if you're put through the most horrible situations, either you can come out using that experience as a better human being or you can use the experience to become a horrrible mess."
What Sadhguru said was truly satisfying to hear to my soul and on the point. But it's not really that easy to forgive ourselves for any of our wrong doings. Even when we choose to become a better human, I don't think we can come out of it that easily.
I don't have words about how grateful I am that this wisdom and guidance of Sadhguru is available for free and at anytime. His wisdom is the only help at the peak moment of chaos in my mind.
His laugh is enough❤️
Sadhguruji is doing fantastic work in answering repositories of questions we have in our mind, which sometimes become nightmares for us.Atleast somebody is thinking about the solutions for these country and not scratching the age old problems.I have never met him but he is like what Dronacharya was for Eklavya(except he didn't ask me for such gurudaksina👍😂)
🤞😂
👍
"Many things that don't work out in early life later on it seems to be GREAT BLESSING" - so true
@@ishakanyavee240 yes Isha
One of the wisest discourse I have ever heard. what a beautiful conclusion
Deeply impressed by that holocaust story....those people went through hell and how they came out of it blows my mind
I am crying but when he laughs I can’t help but smile.
🌟 Lesedi - Let There Be Light 🌟
His laugh was more than enough for my sad feelings to vanish.
Sadhguru I will meet you in 4 years and come to isha ashrama for a year. I want to feel happy.
I know this completely but after hearing this....it has made me feel much better knowing that what I'm thinking is also the same as what sadhguru sir is speaking ,❤️
Such a Great Intelligent Guruji We have got in this 21st century!! We are really blessed !! 🙏 Pranamam🙏
The one with the Intelligence and the World turning against around you helped me a lot in connection with the Quote of Marcus Aurelius: "Objective judgement, now, at this very moment. Unselfish action, now, at this very moment. Willing acceptance - now, at this very moment - of all external events. That's all you need."
Being Objective and understand all you perspectives that you have and the other person.
Much Blessings! Thanks!
Sadhguru 🙏 This has changed my view of looking at life. I feel myself fortunate that I born in this era when we have mystic like you !
Two things I learned and I am grateful to hear:
👉Speak in such a way that you will never regret.
👉Choose to be wise than wounded.
Thank you for these words... I am trying my best to be wiser.
You opened my eyes.....Thank you Sadhguru......I will always speak to anyone as the the last word.....and learn from my hurts...
It takes half your life before you discover life is a do-it-yourself project.
Nahh, knew it at the age of 20 and realized at 22.
Gone through so much emo pain all the life now hitting the realisation at 24 that it’s gonna become worse unless i become wiser.
@@rashmeetkaur_ its on you , n never forget what you gone through.
No. Life is not meant to be explored alone.
Or maybe more like 3/4 of it, lol
As Sadhguru explains it vanishes completely
thank you so much
This came up after im fired today... lol thanks guru :)
Everything Will be alright
Sending you love and peace. The universe will always take care and provide for you. Keep trusting❤️
💚
That’s google hacking your personal data and recommending you videos to make you feel better
7 months later how is life?
thank you for sharing your wisdom with us. you are a big inspiration🙏❤🙏thank you,sadghuru.
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Maxi van Joy😉 💘
We do not wanna become wounded, and that's why we watch your videos Sadhguruji! Becoming wounded hurts ourselves more than anyone else, so it's wise to become wise! Thank you for the amazing story!
Thank you! 🙏
story from his book Inner Engineering.........Audiobook is amazing ........ Thanks Sadhguru
Whenever something terrible happened to you, use the experience to become wiser.
The more things hurt you earlier on in your life the wiser you should have become 👌🏻👏 it’s an ultimate truth
The POWERFUL message is much needed today in April of 2020. This nightmare will be over soon, I pray, and WE ALL have to ask ourselves . WHAT IS THE LESSON here? What can I/we learn from this to be BETTER and STRONGER. Both MENTALLY and PHYSICALLY. This too WILL pass and I/we will be STRONGER, IF WE LOOK inside ourselves . We learn our greatest lessons through failure and pain, unfortunately . It is a part of life, and as a country song by Gary Allen says "Life Ain't Always Beautiful But It's a Beautiful Ride". It's a song he wrote of his wife who committed suicide . Thank YOU Sadhguru. You are truly a BLESSING!!
Well said. ✅✅🙏
When you are fully shattered......just listen to Sadhguru ,s videos 🙏. You would be refreshed again......
Don't be a victim, be a champion.
Good point, however, for some ppl it's not a matter of not looking on the bright side it's a matter of truly being overwhelmed and not being able to get past!
the moment right when ur heart is shattered that moment is very imp how you take care of those pieces.
Yes sir sadguru is a great spiritual master. We are fortunate that we are listening to him regularly on daily basis to upgrade ourselves. Gd ngt sir
But if you just keep watching videos only then you will only get entertained. All the purpose of this is that you take up the tools that he is trying to offer. I insist you to go for Inner Engineering Program
@@sagargondhali5629 thank you I will try to attend inner engineering program. Gd ngt brother
Since 2012..... One person who always brings some sense into my head....... Namaskaram....
Dear loved one,
It's ok to feel pain. It's Oki to feel hurt. It's ok to feel angry. It's ok to feel any emotion.
Cry it out, scream it out, paint it, draw it, FEEL IT. Please do not numb it... You deserve to feel the pain, even though it feels a lot.
Feeling is healing, I promise you.
Sending you love and strength to allow the pain to move through you, with out judgment against it 💗
Yourself is the most important person to never be damaged by our thoughts and emotions
Thank you🙏
Thank you Sadhguru. I've been crying and you made me smile. 💜✨
Hope this video will come to many people, it's really help me even after many years
In last few years i have lost my mother and father both. My fiancee left me after 7 years of relationship. But sadguru words are calming, life is really tough i will try to keep going forward.
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I know that the pain and void you feel inside yourself may be unbearable at times. Never give up on yourself. Universe will guide you forward for sure. Focus on yourself and do small things that bring joy to you.. happiness is within you. God will bless you with a wonderful life partner :)
Life in such a way, that it's your last few hours.... Just keeping this one thing in mind, and will never think of hurting self or others...
This man is the literally a spiritual hermit🫶🏾
This content is also in inner enginnering book.thanx sadhguru
My heart is shattered rn I don't want to lie😔 2022 has been tough but I also learned a lot🤞 I just hope I find peace
I hope you find peace
TOP TOP MOST IMP. For me.VERY NICELY Said by Sadnhguru on meeting with other people and If you get hearted then think wisely and understand it fully by yourself.
thank u sadhguru g lots of love❤❤❤❤❤
0:29 what a laugh man full of joy🖤
U shed light on 1 question which people always ask. Why me? But u taught us how to rise above and become wise
This guy was actually a reason I’m depressed because he says you can only find happiness in yourself. Why can’t you find happiness in another person? I’m sure it’s 100x easier finding happiness in a good lasting relationship than all by your lonesome depressed self. Either climb Mount Everest everyday or find the one then climb a 1 foot ladder with just the same or even more happiness.
I just love when he laughes, makes me smile and feel happy.
A clear cut answer sadhguru ji, i love the way u reply the solutions..
Pranam maine OM MAA GAURI MANTRA KA UCCHARAN kiya tha apne emotional pain ko sthir rkhne ke liye dhanyawad 🙏🙏🙏
Very teen should listen to SadhGuru
You are such a blessing guruji
Why do people see everything that bothers them as a problem? True strength is knowing your limits and accepting your current state then learning to live with it
You can't categorize problems, sir. There are too many and each problem is distinct and affects each kind of person with different intensity.
Krishna Mathur if only society views it that way :/
Thankyou sadguru now i will only use..good words nd treat everyone a very good way!..😊😊 Thankyou!
I have so much respect for this man ♥️
The idea is very common but the explanation seems very beautiful.💚love Sadhguru.
4:50 great words of wisdom 🙏
came here a mess tonight.. just what i needed to hear... bless you thank you Sadhguru 🙏😎
sadhguru is a genius
Meeting Sadhaguru is a life saving experience
Atleast our intelligence stands up for us👏
The Power of Presence brings clarity even in tough times.
We need to learn how to not let our wounds take over us- because it has a way to of casting a spell on us-kids are not wise enough without the right tools to know logic from their pain
Someone told me the same when my mother passed away, it saved me.
Especially if the world turns against you, isn't it fair enough that your intelligence stand for you ?
🙏
Beauiful and so true. What a wise man.
Greater the fall, higher you bounce!
Wow what a lines he said
We always have two choices
1- either you can become wounded
2- either you will become more wise.
Summary
In the whole world every body is facing everyday this kind of unwanted situation but what makes diffrent from others their choices ❤️ to become wiser🤗