Why Men Ghost?..... (+The End of Vlogmas)
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- Опубліковано 12 вер 2024
- Talking about why men ghost you?
I will be releasing a series of videos every other day up until Christmas. I didn't manage to do one everyday as I still work full-time and finish work at six everyday.
I literally threw everything in to this series, filming after work, editing until midnight. I don't want to spoil things for you, but things didn't go quite to plan.
I hope you enjoy this series. It's the most rewarding thing I have ever accomplished in six weeks and I have grown so much as a person by doing it. I did all the filming and editing myself. This is literally my baby.
I feel like a different person and the strongest I have ever felt.
I will take January off from posting and just see how my channel is performing, but I'm just glad that I did VLOGMAS, even though the odds were stacked against me.
I have been getting ghosted lots, but not anymore because I'm staying single and safe. ❤❤
Yeah, even if you want a relationship, never tell a man that straightaway. It does put them off, even the good ones.
Thank you for this. It's helpful. It's unfortunate that you have to stay so detached in today's modern society, but you do...at least until you know who you're dealing with. And even then, there are people who get "switched off" and simply walk away. Back in 1990, when I graduated from University, it used to be rare. Now, it's very common because there are no repercussions. For myself, I always do my best to be honest with people and not string them along if I'm not interested. However, there are times when no explanation is warranted (as you mention in this video). I think the prevalence of ghosting says a lot about our society. Thanks for your introspections. All the best to you.
Completely agree with you about the spiritual aspects.
I never missed a Vlogmas video!😊 Merry Christmas (and a happy New Year)!!🎄☃️❄️🥂🎉
Oh wow bless you, you've been watching for a while now. The same back to you. Many blessings to you next year.
Having been at the receiving end of ghosting (by a girl), I don't think it's socially acceptable at all. I think it's a horrible thing to do to someone.
Great job Claire. Your honesty is admirable. I appreciate your willingness to talk of your feelings and we can all share in them in life. Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year! Gary
Merry Christmas Gary!
@@text_ghost_love Thanks Claire! I'm a single, never married man in the United States. Too bad I'm not in the UK.❤️❤️
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I try to be honest and say if it’s time to call it a day. Sometimes there is a natural end if it runs dry. Hope I’m explaining it right.
Would you also say women ghost for the same reasons as men?
Yes, I know what you mean. I think I tend to ghost if I'm just not feeling it anymore, or things aren't progressing and I just get bored or frustrated.
@@text_ghost_love Think my thoughts are to be true before it’s too far gone,
Known the ghosting feeling after I thought there was something great with a lady but they couldn’t get to the stage of meeting and suddenly there was no more contact
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some men also leave women alone when he starts to be more honest with himself and realizes he adds no real value to her situation, and he chooses to shut down and disappear and put whatever extra time and money he has toward solving problems🤔, you won't hear that aspect too much from society because it's not the popular narrative.
That's a good one. I wish men would just be more honest in general. I think some men withdraw and don't work on themselves though and just repeat patterns for the next girl.
@@text_ghost_love that's true also, but what happens with many men who do that (i'll include myself at one time in this scenario) is that at some point this long streak of bad luck and problems come from doing that.
for some of us this is when the honesty sets in and we disappear for a while and make that effort to make small changes and solve whatever problems we can on our own.
@@text_ghost_love I see a lot of men repeating the same patterns for years...but to be fair women do it as well. Although my experience has been women are more likely to see their own patterns and to change them for the better.