Ep.2 | Caitlin & Leah talk IVF, Surrogacy and First Crushes with Stuart & Francis 👶🌈 | The 3AM Club

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  • Опубліковано 28 лип 2024
  • Caitlin and Leah are joined by their very first guests on The 3AM Club, Stuart and Francis! 🧡 Together, they delve into the nitty-gritty of surrogacy, spill the beans on why they decided to share their parenting escapades with the world online, and dish out some juicy tidbits about their very first crushes! ✨🫶🏼☕
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    0:00 Teaser Clips
    0:35 Podcast Trailer
    1:37 Introducing Guests
    2:52 Relationship Timeline
    3:50 Children
    5:30 Quality Time
    7:20 IVF & Surrogacy
    17:01 Children & Social Media
    21:03 Coming Out
    24:34 Midnight Mail
    30:21 Advice
    31:54 Outro
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  • @StuartandFrancis
    @StuartandFrancis 3 місяці тому +54

    Guys you are so natural, You were born for this ❤❤❤ Thanks so much for having us on the pod xx

  • @SnowyRatXx
    @SnowyRatXx 3 місяці тому +17

    I absolutely loved watching this! I follow Stuart and Francis too so it was so fun to see two couples I see regularly online finally chatting together! It made me think it would be amazing if Camilla and Julie came on to the pod for an episode in the future! ❤️

  • @jazsira_bgl
    @jazsira_bgl 3 місяці тому +13

    I’ve been wondering about when someone says “They need a mother” or “They need a father”, and I really do think those views are just so outdated. Honestly, people just need to grow up
    This was a very lovely conversation to watch❤️

    • @ballunko2591
      @ballunko2591 3 місяці тому

      Outdated....lol

    • @cybremystica93
      @cybremystica93 2 місяці тому

      I think it’s sad that Caitlin and Leah feel like they need to turn off their comments because they keep getting negative ones.

    • @evettwalsh2016
      @evettwalsh2016 24 дні тому

      Sorry to break it to you, but the nature is timeless. A child needs both a father and a mother. It has always been like this and it won't ever change.

  • @lauralizzied8985
    @lauralizzied8985 3 місяці тому +4

    So nice how chill you are unlike a lot of people you seem to actually listen to guests/ each other and hear what they are saying and then respond in such a natural way. Such a lovely podcast and I am not someone who enjoys a podcast. I have been invested!

  • @amandabrittenden
    @amandabrittenden Місяць тому

    I have never wanted kids for myself but back in high school when Phoebe Buffay was a surrogate for her brother I thought it was the most beautiful thing you could do for someone. It must be so hard for two dads to find someone willing to do it for them

  • @Its_Hallie1
    @Its_Hallie1 3 місяці тому +3

    Omg this is so amazing to watch both stories and experiences !❤

  • @pantastic200
    @pantastic200 3 місяці тому +2

    I absolutely love watching you guys. You both are such an example for the young LGBTQ+ community, and I really like that! Never stop doing what you want to, especially when it comes to parenting. You 2 are really great parents, even if we all make mistakes sometimes ❤

  • @Taypandy
    @Taypandy 3 місяці тому +2

    The things you guys do for your children is honestly so incredible. you guys are so sweet 💖

  • @SophieLouise2401
    @SophieLouise2401 3 місяці тому +2

    I'm loving your podcasts! It was lovely to see Stuart and Francis and listening to their IVF journey xx

  • @kiraamyplayz
    @kiraamyplayz 3 місяці тому +11

    two of my fav ticktockers the same room omg
    💜💙❤

  • @livvvyy8660
    @livvvyy8660 3 місяці тому

    Loved this so much 🥹

  • @kirstyr2354
    @kirstyr2354 3 місяці тому

    Loved this guys 💞 xx

  • @Samandcolbyobsessed0
    @Samandcolbyobsessed0 3 місяці тому

    So exited! ❤❤

  • @jessicafeinik
    @jessicafeinik 3 місяці тому

    I loved watching this, you guys are just too amazing!❤

  • @maritkleijweg
    @maritkleijweg 3 місяці тому +2

    i love your content caitlin and leah. you make my day when im sad or when i had a bad day. thank you for your videos and i wish you sooo much luck in you guys lives.❤

  • @vivic2606
    @vivic2606 3 місяці тому +1

    You guys are amazing ❤

  • @user-in5ey3fm2m
    @user-in5ey3fm2m 3 місяці тому

    What an amazing episode! ❤

  • @TaylortheBarbie13
    @TaylortheBarbie13 3 місяці тому +2

    I've never heard of these guys before!!These two are so fun, definitely going to follow them

  • @conlon4332
    @conlon4332 3 місяці тому +2

    I do understand the laws about surrogate mothers having rights, but I don't think their husbands should, and I also don't think it should take months to get it switched over to the intended parents. 13:14 Yes, that would make so much more sense.

  • @tj15k32
    @tj15k32 3 місяці тому

    Being able to watch this in the evening after a long week is such a relief, amazing to get some time to just relax, adore the podcast ❤️

  • @Samandcolbyobsessed0
    @Samandcolbyobsessed0 3 місяці тому +5

    Love you both so much, can’t describe how much I live you both. I’ve watched every single one of your videos and watch you for at least 2-3 hours a day

  • @LaurenMackay24
    @LaurenMackay24 3 місяці тому

    Cant wait ❤

  • @Theprivatestory-withemilyrose
    @Theprivatestory-withemilyrose 3 місяці тому

    I’m so so so exited

  • @user-in5ey3fm2m
    @user-in5ey3fm2m 3 місяці тому

    I loved this ❤

  • @MermaidMaker
    @MermaidMaker 3 місяці тому

    I love this podcast

  • @rhiannongracew
    @rhiannongracew 3 місяці тому +1

    Im so excited

  • @LillianRodriguez-lh2zf
    @LillianRodriguez-lh2zf 3 місяці тому +1

    I absolutely LOVE your content! I’ve been watching your channel for quite a while, and I’m genuinely inspired by your courage to explore the unknowns and share the ups and downs of your relationship!
    I’m honestly hoping that I can have a healthy and happy relationship like you all some day

    • @3AMClubPodcast
      @3AMClubPodcast  3 місяці тому

      Thank you so much! This means so much x

  • @jennyavison-ph7dm
    @jennyavison-ph7dm 3 місяці тому +1

    So happy for this my two favourite couples ever ❤

  • @averyream1196
    @averyream1196 3 місяці тому

    2 of my favorite couples.

  • @notasouthernbelle6633
    @notasouthernbelle6633 3 місяці тому +1

    I love this ❤ My favorite Mama's with my absolute favorite Dad's. Get Connor and Liana, Cole and Abbie, and Julie and Camilla. I love this Podcast ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @livyharris8463
    @livyharris8463 3 місяці тому

    proud-of-you-girls

  • @Majas_vlogs1
    @Majas_vlogs1 3 місяці тому

    My to fav tiktokers❤ luv you guys😂❤ this episode was so funny and kinda sad😢❤

  • @user-si1ns8sp1k
    @user-si1ns8sp1k 3 місяці тому +1

    I LOVE YOU GUYS SO MUCH UR SO CONFIDENT AND SO INSPIRATIONAL EVEN THO IK NIT GAY/LESBIAN I STILL LOGE YOU SM X

  • @Theprivatestory-withemilyrose
    @Theprivatestory-withemilyrose 3 місяці тому +9

    It’s Stuart and Francis

  • @IsabelleTurner19
    @IsabelleTurner19 3 місяці тому

    This is amazing my two favourite gay parents I can’t wait to see who is next

  • @katrinarees9397
    @katrinarees9397 3 місяці тому

    I love this!!
    To me, having same sex parents makes no difference as long as you are loved.
    That's all that matters.
    Thank you for sharing.

  • @jemmalemmaa
    @jemmalemmaa 3 місяці тому +1

    Me and my partner (although a hetero couple) also went through surrogacy. We went overseas and it was such a complicated process, but the pro was in the other country we were the legal parents. We lived abroad for 4 months whilst waiting for our son’s British passport (He is also called Oakley 🥰) However, when we flew back to the UK we still were not seen as the legal parents despite us being genetically related.. we went to court and finally got our parental order approved 3 weeks ago 🎉.

    • @chloep8808
      @chloep8808 3 місяці тому +1

      Congratulations!! 🎉

    • @jemmalemmaa
      @jemmalemmaa 3 місяці тому

      @@chloep8808 thank you!

  • @tamarafogarty5930
    @tamarafogarty5930 3 місяці тому

    I have really enjoyed watching this video, I'm a lesbian and I'm saving up to have a baby and willing to have one on my own as I'm single but I do have these thaughts about when I have children of people treating them differently because they will have a lesbian mom. Thank you for this video, I love watching your videos and now the 3am club ❤

  • @ortegareina293
    @ortegareina293 3 місяці тому

    05:30 when Leah said that she was falling in love again>>>

  • @thejumpygirls7226
    @thejumpygirls7226 3 місяці тому +4

    Your next guest’s should be Conner and Lianna

    • @Rebecca_Bailey
      @Rebecca_Bailey 3 місяці тому

      I’m subbed to those two and they’re so nice

  • @Harlowlunawhite677
    @Harlowlunawhite677 3 місяці тому +4

    PIN PLS 2nd xxxx So excited for baby girl xx Lilia Anne Sheil.

  • @emaanhassan_2004
    @emaanhassan_2004 3 місяці тому

    I want to see the story behind their kids name and also the story behind Oakley and Lylas name

  • @aestheticgoalss
    @aestheticgoalss 3 місяці тому +2

    what is the craziest thing oakley has said to you. ill say mine i have a baby called freya and her first word was hairdryer so whoever she met shed say hi hairdryer!

  • @LucyLive91
    @LucyLive91 3 місяці тому +1

    Just need to get Cole and Abbie on now as I think their experience as same sex parents is similar and different at the same time

  • @LucyLive91
    @LucyLive91 3 місяці тому

    The experience these guys are going through is like why Diver Tom Daley and his husband Lance went through surrogacy in the US to have their children

  • @conlon4332
    @conlon4332 3 місяці тому

    28:06

  • @Seasidesquard
    @Seasidesquard 3 місяці тому +1

    You should get your best friend on here

  • @LindseyVu-is6px
    @LindseyVu-is6px 3 місяці тому

    Where solo I send midnight mail

  • @Preppy-E-
    @Preppy-E- 3 місяці тому

    In upcoming podcast mattew and ryan should go on and camila and julie❤

  • @gemmawilkinson4222
    @gemmawilkinson4222 3 місяці тому

    I🩷 your video

  • @caitlingoodwin4238
    @caitlingoodwin4238 3 місяці тому +1

    Upsets me to think you feel like when Oakley is older you’d tune comments off. You shouldn’t have to feel the need to do this 😢

  • @supersoline2832
    @supersoline2832 Місяць тому

    If your kids in the future wanted to find their donor would you let them?

  • @Stitch22
    @Stitch22 3 місяці тому

    I am your biggest fan please pin 📌

  • @Jadeedits-271
    @Jadeedits-271 3 місяці тому

    Ekkk

  • @Scarlett-ne4dy
    @Scarlett-ne4dy 3 місяці тому +2

    i thought it was emma i’d it emma or lila or lillia?

  • @cybremystica93
    @cybremystica93 2 місяці тому

    The fact that the surrogate and her partner are the legal parents on the birth certificate and the intended parents is messed. It’s a problem lesbian couples don’t have because they are the ones carrying their own babies

  • @ballunko2591
    @ballunko2591 3 місяці тому +1

    If a woman gives birth to baby, she's the mother.... I don't know why that's a problem.... This is stupid lol

    • @emmatripl
      @emmatripl 3 місяці тому +1

      And biologically the sperm donor is the dad no matter what the birth certificate says....

    • @Emma-wm9jg
      @Emma-wm9jg 3 місяці тому

      Why are you here? This doesnt have many views which means you either searched it and made a hate comment which is EXTREMEMLY embarrassing and shows you have nothing to do with your time or you got recommended it and considering its a small video i have something to tell you... 🏳️‍🌈

    • @Emma-wm9jg
      @Emma-wm9jg 3 місяці тому +1

      ​@@emmatriplthat means nothing. You fail to realise that you are also saying that adoptive childrens parents are not their real family 😦