Why, in my late 30s, I don’t want to get married | Tuko TV

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  • @Tuko
    @Tuko  Рік тому +9

    What message do you have for Diana Obondo? You can reach her through her Facebook page: Diana Obondo (facebook.com/diana.obondo.54)
    To share your story with us, send an email to yvonne.kawira@tuko.co.ke or eucabeth.mukami@tuko.co.ke.

  • @Ki-l7s
    @Ki-l7s Рік тому +25

    Her English is okay; I can understand her perfectly 🌟. Diana you did very well 🎉. Thank you for exposing this vice and may God bless you 🙏🏾❤

  • @martharinebiseko1457
    @martharinebiseko1457 Рік тому +17

    Grace to you our guest.
    Whoever is talking about her English.... There is nothing wrong with her English

    • @morynemiendwa5408
      @morynemiendwa5408 Рік тому

      Aki huyo nikama anamjua Sasa anasikia wivu vile madam anajieleza na kizungu,watu sijui huwa wankuanga na shida gani,coz ata the interviewer alianza na kiswahili tu make the story easier bt she chooses to talk in English and her English is very well sentenced any way...ata wewe umeona ako sawa

    • @rosrynqmiregwauh3673
      @rosrynqmiregwauh3673 Рік тому

      The English is in englishing me l don't know about the story

  • @bellaki4392
    @bellaki4392 Рік тому +22

    My sister Diana..you are beautifully dressed... looking modest and holy... May God give you strength ❤

    • @ovrsdianaobondo
      @ovrsdianaobondo Рік тому +4

      thank you so much please

    • @BridgetMayuni
      @BridgetMayuni Рік тому

      I also feel the same. so adorable dressing with natural looks. Nice

    • @EuniceKamauw
      @EuniceKamauw Рік тому

      @@ovrsdianaobondo mum. Thanks.im blessed.

  • @dorisgesare7707
    @dorisgesare7707 11 місяців тому +2

    Sorry diana for what you went through you are wonderfully and beautifully made God loves you so much

  • @RuthOtieno-z1w
    @RuthOtieno-z1w Рік тому +23

    Her English is not bad, she can express herself and even the interviewer is able to understand her very well.

    • @joycenyambura4907
      @joycenyambura4907 Рік тому +2

      The accent is that of a Ugandan

    • @annewangari3466
      @annewangari3466 Рік тому

      ​@@joycenyambura4907That's true my sister. Infact Ugandans use English .so I'm wondering how she could to another language, Nyambura, we cannot agree with the perßon complainiñg . She's Ok..

  • @ninawaryaro9415
    @ninawaryaro9415 Рік тому +10

    This interview was very informative.I totally agree that we should stay close to our kids

  • @liliankemy6739
    @liliankemy6739 Рік тому +7

    Waaaah the stories I hear in Tuko are so shocking, why do relatives behave like this surely. God help our girl child.

  • @GodschildjesusisLord
    @GodschildjesusisLord Рік тому +23

    Hi Yvonne. l love your show. l notice they are so many stories of children being sexually abused by men especially family members. Its so sad. Im just wondering if Tuko could facilitate some education and awareness in communities and also in schools. Especially on how to prevent these occurances but also for abused children to report it to someone and not be scared to due to threats given by the abuser. Like diana said the world is so wicked.

    • @fifidedutchess9815
      @fifidedutchess9815 Рік тому +1

      Woow. I second this

    • @VeronicaDunbar
      @VeronicaDunbar Рік тому

      True let the host do so. But this should be done by collective effort. Kawera or the host na program yake pekee can only do so much. Wewe pia fanya part yako na, utuonyeshe success yake imefika wapi.
      Km. unafikiri nikununua microphone yako na kwenda barabarani kusema "Tangazo, Tangazo.... Basi wewe fanya hivyo since ni rahisi kwako, turned.
      Kisha, uwache Ms. Kawera afanye kazi yake kadiri ya uwezo wake as she is and has been doing.

    • @fifidedutchess9815
      @fifidedutchess9815 Рік тому +1

      @@VeronicaDunbar mbona umekasirika… she is just sharing an opinion.

    • @victoriashiko7172
      @victoriashiko7172 Рік тому +1

      Many’s thanks 🙏🏽 peoples families needs to be Educated about this sexual abuse of children’s through different ways

  • @mercymutambakusuka4424
    @mercymutambakusuka4424 Рік тому +3

    Sending love ❤ to you my sister Diana,From Zimbabwe based in SA

  • @damariszuckschwert9489
    @damariszuckschwert9489 Рік тому +3

    Both ladies are natural beautiful 😍 🤩 ❤

  • @gracezoe
    @gracezoe Рік тому +12

    😢😢a story very close to mine,I feel you Diana,but for me I was able to overcome by the grace of God 🙏

  • @marytv01
    @marytv01 Рік тому +8

    So sorry Diana about that incident. ❤

  • @nancyogola1004
    @nancyogola1004 Рік тому +1

    Uyoma Rageng'ni is my home.

  • @lukasokothmcomweke6706
    @lukasokothmcomweke6706 Рік тому +2

    I feel your pain Diana,May the Almighty Comforts and bless you wherever you are.

  • @philian_16
    @philian_16 Рік тому +3

    So so sad. May God heal her.

  • @DorotheaSantiago-xo4jc
    @DorotheaSantiago-xo4jc Рік тому +4

    Each an everyone of us has a different dialogs in speaking English, remember it's not our biological heritage, so whatever pronunciation that's not clearly spoken, it's our own nature 😢😊

  • @MyJOSE2013
    @MyJOSE2013 Рік тому +5

    Wow , more peace to her for making peace with her life. at my childfree 38 years i cant even sleep well juu ya stress of lack of marriage( go ahead and judge but God knows I wanted to get married since age 26). i wish im her

    • @majamaja8136
      @majamaja8136 Рік тому +1

      Am 41 not yet married but stressfree

    • @carolgathoni3212
      @carolgathoni3212 Рік тому +1

      May God fulfill your heart desires 🙏

    • @Beingme2024
      @Beingme2024 Рік тому

      God will full fill your desire

    • @EvelineWandera
      @EvelineWandera Рік тому

      Wacha kungojea chukia ule Mwanaume ananitaka usonge Bora sio bwana WA mutu

    • @kadzo6614
      @kadzo6614 Рік тому

      42, no child, no man but I'm at peace. May you get the desired of your heart ❤

  • @carolegitahi
    @carolegitahi Рік тому +4

    So sad.. Most Children are molested by Family members and friends well known to their families 😢😢😢😢

  • @esthermbithi1174
    @esthermbithi1174 Рік тому +11

    When there is lack of family support and Lack of good parenting, it makes children suffer especially the girl child get abused. Lets learn to communicate with young children and get involved in their daily lives then empower them.

  • @UnniojuliusJulius
    @UnniojuliusJulius Рік тому +5

    Please my learned friends, in nyanza we spread English, we don't talk "please let diana breathe " diana God has your back Jaber. 😢😢😢

  • @Cess519
    @Cess519 Рік тому +4

    I like how Yvonne interviews😘😘😘

  • @crazykids5779
    @crazykids5779 Рік тому +9

    Mnajifanya amuelewi venye anasema nini amjaelewa hapa sasa,she's okay

  • @eldabettanabucha9130
    @eldabettanabucha9130 Рік тому +2

    This is so sad, most children even in this generation, go through all this in the hands of people close to them

  • @kamilyababi7997
    @kamilyababi7997 11 місяців тому +1

    Tafadhalini tunaomba muongee kiswahili kwani hicho kingereza si lugha yenu na pia hamkijui vizuri kwa hiyo inakua vigumu kuifahamu vizuri hiyo simulizi. Asnte ❤❤❤

    • @lilianagunda9382
      @lilianagunda9382 11 місяців тому +1

      Everyone is not fluent in Swahili!
      I am damn sure,her Swahili ain't that good too!

  • @wanguimwash7326
    @wanguimwash7326 Рік тому +3

    Africa Kama luga ya mzungu pia inafanya mtu amseme Mwafrika mwezake wah...mama Dont mind them mfugwa ni mfugwa sio lazima awe jela.

  • @shazzysymon6835
    @shazzysymon6835 Рік тому +13

    One thing l know is that l hate POVERTY in JESUS NAME. DIANA receive healing in JESUS NAME

  • @brezeleanamani857
    @brezeleanamani857 Рік тому +2

    This is heartbreaking 😢

  • @puritykai3528
    @puritykai3528 Рік тому +24

    Those complaining about language are you after massage or language?!.

  • @lizopee4711
    @lizopee4711 Рік тому +1

    So sorry Diana. May you find healing.

  • @MadeleineAsundo
    @MadeleineAsundo Рік тому +1

    I love you Diana ,may the Lord give you healing.

    • @ovrsdianaobondo
      @ovrsdianaobondo 10 місяців тому

      Thank you so much much blessings please

  • @MisszippyOtieno-di5qg
    @MisszippyOtieno-di5qg Рік тому +6

    Overseer Diana,,,I know you right from siaya main Altar,,sorry for what you went through,,,to me, thought that you just set yourself apart for the service of the LORD,,but if this is the reason I assure you through therapy and counseling you can still change your mind because it's still not late with you,, beautifully and wonderfully made,,you can do this,,don't be too hard on yourself,,,you can heal,, marriage is also a calling,,wishing you the best,

    • @ovrsdianaobondo
      @ovrsdianaobondo Рік тому +1

      Thank you so much

    • @kadzo6614
      @kadzo6614 Рік тому

      My story, I wish I had the courage to speak. Told my mum after 13 good years. 😢😢

  • @cyprianphiri84
    @cyprianphiri84 10 місяців тому

    My relatives thing I'm selfish cause I don't allow my children going for holidays.i have been living by your code mama well spoken

  • @vero57
    @vero57 Рік тому

    Jamani kaeni na watoto wenu, hii mambo ya kuacha watoto kwa ndugu sio nzuri kabisa, hata wababa pia wanatembea na watoto wao, wamama popote mulipo chunga watoto wako hata kama umeolewa, wababa pia wanatembea na watoto wao, nampa pole sana huyu mama

  • @selinahshidogo3045
    @selinahshidogo3045 Рік тому +1

    Really Sad! Men are beast!! Why do this? Diana , God will see you through! All these will be history, Trust Him.

  • @nelimajudy280
    @nelimajudy280 Рік тому

    This is eye opener for us parents we should be careful with the so called men relative around our kids anyway sorry Diana 4 what u went through

  • @joanchepkemboi1685
    @joanchepkemboi1685 Рік тому +1

    Overseer please am sorry for what you went through 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 please just let the LORD have your way in you, forgive them so that you may be healed in your heart,i pray that you will get married my dear.its Soo painful story

    • @ovrsdianaobondo
      @ovrsdianaobondo Рік тому +1

      Thank you so much please the Lord is on control of everything he is our God HE knows us by our name

    • @joanchepkemboi1685
      @joanchepkemboi1685 Рік тому

      @@ovrsdianaobondo Yes,He has power to make you happy again.i couldn't hold my tears watching this story

  • @catherineriungu4451
    @catherineriungu4451 Рік тому +1

    Sorry to the lady happy shes strong and happy

  • @sarahmakhanu491
    @sarahmakhanu491 Рік тому +2

    God is your defender, Stand of your firm ground and Serve this GOD

  • @gatwiridoris58
    @gatwiridoris58 Рік тому +2

    Dressing code very smart

  • @lilianagunda9382
    @lilianagunda9382 11 місяців тому

    May the grace be sufficient 😢

  • @JynelleKadenge
    @JynelleKadenge Рік тому +2

    Wenye munalalamika kuhusu English yake tafadhali muache hiyo tabia pengine hata hicho kiswahili hakijui vizuri bora ujumbe umepata kama unaona haukufai ni shauri yako yatakapokupata kwa mtu wako wa familia

  • @reverendarchitectchristoph8384

    This session is very educative, Girls should stay with their parents. All these men who were defiling her most of them are dead, Our society should think about embracing GOD, to be freed from this bondages of sexual sins and increasing poverty instead of Thinking about starting a business, farming and increasing economically

  • @dorisgesare7707
    @dorisgesare7707 11 місяців тому

    Diana you are dressed modestly be blessed

  • @share-love
    @share-love Рік тому +1

    I guess swahili would have been suitable madam. I advise the host also to give guests chances to speak the language they are comfortable with.

  • @florenceky9889
    @florenceky9889 Рік тому

    May God heal you and bless you ❤

  • @lindaabraham5365
    @lindaabraham5365 Рік тому +1

    Ivon ulikuwa na haraka ya kwenda wapi hata unakatisha story hutaki kumwelewa kwanza. Na sikiliza pia akiongea

  • @gabrielgachiriga4194
    @gabrielgachiriga4194 Рік тому +9

    Why judge this. Lady is aluo from the lake hawajui kiswahili..kusema ukweli

    • @vincentomondi5612
      @vincentomondi5612 Рік тому +1

      Noo I speak good Swahili , when I speak Swahili you can't notice that I'm aluo.
      I was very good in Swahili back in school and I was the best.

    • @kadzo6614
      @kadzo6614 Рік тому +1

      ​​@@vincentomondi5612*did you become the president of TZ with your good Swahili? Guok! Sit down!*

  • @linahmutende-zv4ns
    @linahmutende-zv4ns Рік тому +3

    My sister you look very beautifully dreased serve God he will blz you no matter what happened in your life

  • @victoriashiko7172
    @victoriashiko7172 Рік тому

    💯Never come and trust any families ,members ,or person ,peoples ,neighbours will your child children’s this world 🌎 is wickedly 😭😭😭😭😭

  • @jamlecknganga4192
    @jamlecknganga4192 Рік тому +1

    The world is evolving the days where you would send children to your relatives are long gone. The perpetrators of this vice are within family members. Parents please let us be alert our boys are also not safe, both boys and girls can be victims. Let us also listen to our children even when they are not talking to us.

  • @kezzybett1142
    @kezzybett1142 Рік тому +16

    What english are people complaing about surely?????

  • @HloiMollo
    @HloiMollo Рік тому

    This is very sad😢

  • @nishamillicent614
    @nishamillicent614 Рік тому

    This is heartbreaking to watch,our children need protection and especially girls, predators are out here to destroy our children.

  • @rosenduta4203
    @rosenduta4203 Рік тому +3

    The complainers about language, please note that the guest in luo and they don't know Swahili. Decipher what you can and leave her alone

  • @carolinevijedi9139
    @carolinevijedi9139 10 місяців тому

    Only God can do greater thing's to u

  • @JaneHealth-wg2ig
    @JaneHealth-wg2ig Рік тому +1

    Ms. Diana Obondo, why are you still protecting the names of your violators after 15 years of physical pain and emotional suffering from your newphews and uncles who sexually violated you. Your aunties are accomplices to this crime.. You should do a part 2 and name them. Expose them, they ate a disgrace to family and society. They should get the full shaming for their actions. You are suffering emotionally and relation wise because of them. You have taken a drastic decision because of the abuse you suffered. 2) Please visit Kakande ministry in Uganda or Prophet Alan in Nairobi which ever appeals to you for deliverance and blessing. So that you may be released from that bondage. May the Lord bless your life greatly.

  • @Innocent-vq9tx
    @Innocent-vq9tx Рік тому +2

    Why do kenya like criticizing surely whoever is complain can not even speak good English she is speaking badala you console with her ni negative vibe.

  • @maggyfelister7981
    @maggyfelister7981 Рік тому +3

    Forget about the language. .. Which People will be happy to be watched while doing intimacy??? People are mad.

    • @Nonek214
      @Nonek214 Рік тому

      Hapana na massage?😢😮😮

    • @lilianagunda9382
      @lilianagunda9382 11 місяців тому

      This world is full of narcissistic , sociopaths etc!

  • @elizabethmwalo8424
    @elizabethmwalo8424 Рік тому +2

    But why did the aunt leave this men sleep near the one girl.

  • @wanguwangu3927
    @wanguwangu3927 Рік тому +2

    I want to say sorry for that and remaind her GOD'S PLAN IS TO MARRY AND MULTIPLE.

  • @graceooko3778
    @graceooko3778 Рік тому

    Pole sana

  • @eldabettanabucha9130
    @eldabettanabucha9130 Рік тому +3

    She needs deep counselling to heal from her trauma

    • @ovrsdianaobondo
      @ovrsdianaobondo Рік тому

      very true God will open the door for that please

  • @estherwangui9004
    @estherwangui9004 Рік тому +1

    Pole diana

  • @RuthOtieno-z1w
    @RuthOtieno-z1w Рік тому

    36:37 36:37

  • @johngodia4154
    @johngodia4154 Рік тому

    Mos nyamin.

  • @janethKamazima
    @janethKamazima Рік тому

    Roho uliyokuwa nayo ndio ilifanya upitie hayo shetani alikuvalisha kila wa karibu yako akuone unaweza kuingiliwa so my sister Mungu uliyenae na mkuu anaweza yote anakuuwisha tena na ukaolewa usimkubali adui maana wewe si mdhaifu ktk yeye Yesu kristo

  • @JulietGilbert-ok1so
    @JulietGilbert-ok1so Рік тому

    What a wicked world.

  • @susanmadung850
    @susanmadung850 Рік тому +1

    Parents!

  • @estellemoyo-in2se
    @estellemoyo-in2se 10 місяців тому

    The women in her life betrayed her including her mother. Children are not protected for poverty reasons.

  • @EvelineWandera
    @EvelineWandera Рік тому

    Mapepo hao

  • @jenipheroloo4102
    @jenipheroloo4102 Рік тому +1

    The mistake was not for parents .she is the one who refews to share with her mother. Angesema angesaidiwa n mapema

    • @vincentomondi5612
      @vincentomondi5612 Рік тому +2

      Hauskii mamake hakua anam believe ju hao walikua family members.
      Makosa sio yake tena she was very young and nobody was there for her.
      That's why I said mimi mtoto wangu hatawai ishi na mtu if I'm still a live.

    • @crocodilemasala7956
      @crocodilemasala7956 Рік тому +1

      Not easy to share when you are still a child. There are many such cases of incest but many are still silent.

    • @lizznjeri9231
      @lizznjeri9231 Рік тому +1

      She was told by the first abuseer that the reason why her dad died is because of her saying she was abused,So if she opened her mouth to her mother Sher mother would die, brainwashed totally,I shed tears for that little girl.I hope you find healing for your inner child.

  • @auntyp2980
    @auntyp2980 Рік тому

    Whats wrong with her english?she did great

  • @elizabethmwalo8424
    @elizabethmwalo8424 Рік тому +2

    This lady also, what kind of fear did she have? Surely I would tell everyone and go up to the police.

    • @lizopee4711
      @lizopee4711 Рік тому +1

      We are not the same. Children who are abused young, do not know how to stand for themselves.

  • @linetnyanchera6509
    @linetnyanchera6509 Рік тому +1

    I love your dressing very beautiful and holy

  • @immaculateforchrist3518
    @immaculateforchrist3518 5 місяців тому

    Diana ,sorry for what you went through but please ask God about your decision coz maybe God wanted you to have a child that would be great in the army of God in the end times.

  • @EvelineWandera
    @EvelineWandera Рік тому +3

    Watalipa stupid Luo men

  • @budzanichakanetsa9412
    @budzanichakanetsa9412 Рік тому

    Eish so sad 😢

  • @sylvialexy896
    @sylvialexy896 Рік тому +1

    Angeongea tu kiswahili,,she has struggled a lot weuh

    • @YvonneKawira254
      @YvonneKawira254 Рік тому +2

      Thank you for your feedback, Please note that the guest was comfortable with english. Please give her some grace.

    • @erickkwanga1314
      @erickkwanga1314 11 місяців тому

      Yuko sawa. English yake iko poa

  • @judahwillgofirst7964
    @judahwillgofirst7964 Рік тому +2

    Mimi hushangaa,,si kuna vyenye ukiona mtu anang'ang'ana na kizungu you just switch ,,again swahili is our national language and we should be proud stop copying other people's languages.

    • @YvonneKawira254
      @YvonneKawira254 Рік тому +4

      thank you for your kindness. Please note that the guest was comfortable with english. Please give her some grace.

    • @judyroth8928
      @judyroth8928 Рік тому

      Dont forget kenya is colonist and we speak English then National language (swahili) etc

    • @steve.njugi.254
      @steve.njugi.254 Рік тому

      appreciate her she is a pastor she has toto train speak to spk kmonimoni

    • @shyllahnekesa216
      @shyllahnekesa216 Рік тому

      Luos hawajui Swahili let her be pls

  • @dianangethe7839
    @dianangethe7839 Рік тому

    Aki hii kizungu kushikanisha inakua hard, please swahili next time ndo tuelewane haraka

  • @vimbaigraciousmavhima
    @vimbaigraciousmavhima Рік тому +2

    We live in a cruel world.

  • @justineakyusa6511
    @justineakyusa6511 Рік тому

    kawira looks good

  • @franceen2549
    @franceen2549 Рік тому +5

    English is not our first language,just shut up whoever is talking of ooh English,even some wazunguz from france,Finland,Spain don't speak fluent English, give us a break,them know it all

  • @vimbaigraciousmavhima
    @vimbaigraciousmavhima Рік тому

    Whats wrong with her English ,,its perfectly fine i can hear perfectly fine ,,,,is she now forced to have an accent or something ,,the words are coming out fluently we can hear what she is trying to say ,,,

  • @vincentomondi5612
    @vincentomondi5612 Рік тому +1

    People are evil 😢😢

  • @amyjoy5077
    @amyjoy5077 Рік тому +1

    Please allow the guest to use kiswahili

    • @YvonneKawira254
      @YvonneKawira254 Рік тому +5

      Please note that the guest was comfortable with english. Please give her some grace.

    • @sophianjenga8120
      @sophianjenga8120 Рік тому +3

      Maybe ata iyo kiswahili hajui many luos struggle with Swahili.....

    • @Innocent-vq9tx
      @Innocent-vq9tx Рік тому +3

      What is wrong with her speaking English I think her English is well spoken

    • @judyroth8928
      @judyroth8928 Рік тому

      @@sophianjenga8120 what of kikuyus,kamba'luhya etc

  • @rahabmwaura1990
    @rahabmwaura1990 Рік тому

    The English is Englishing sasa hii ndio ngani aki

    • @MercyDiana-or2cu
      @MercyDiana-or2cu 7 місяців тому

      We kwenda uko yet you can't construct a full sentence in English

    • @rahabmwaura1990
      @rahabmwaura1990 7 місяців тому

      @@MercyDiana-or2cu 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @abisalomwasike8280
    @abisalomwasike8280 Рік тому

    Allow guest to speak language of kiswahili

  • @carolyneogutu6489
    @carolyneogutu6489 Рік тому

    😭😭😭😭

  • @alekymuthiani2823
    @alekymuthiani2823 Рік тому +4

    Atumie tu kiswahili too poor English

    • @ovrsdianaobondo
      @ovrsdianaobondo Рік тому +1

      It is well I hope you got something ama umetoka bure

    • @MondestaNyakango
      @MondestaNyakango Рік тому +2

      What is this that you don't understand, don't be arrogant to her please

  • @alekymuthiani2823
    @alekymuthiani2823 Рік тому +1

    The story is boring because of the language

  • @euniceowidi9806
    @euniceowidi9806 Рік тому

    Stopped watching coz there is no flow of story coz of poor English.....next tyme use Swahili pliz

    • @steve.njugi.254
      @steve.njugi.254 Рік тому +1

      msomi wewe ugeturn cc

    • @godsgal9640
      @godsgal9640 Рік тому +1

      Eunice do you know how us luos struggle speaking Kiswahili?

    • @Nattynice
      @Nattynice Рік тому +1

      Eunice Owidi et al, if you want to listen to good English go to mainstream media. Social media platforms are for today’s world to accommodate everyone.
      It is wise to get something out of the bigger picture and not always criticize. This story is very informative despite a few errors in tenses.

    • @peninahgitamo8717
      @peninahgitamo8717 Рік тому

      You have a very negative mind

    • @janewanjiko4381
      @janewanjiko4381 10 місяців тому

      It's not about good or bad english language, she's giving an eye opener lesson.

  • @emilynatoh8433
    @emilynatoh8433 10 місяців тому

    @elizabeth kimuyu

  • @RuthOtieno-z1w
    @RuthOtieno-z1w Рік тому +2

    Her English is not bad, she can express herself and even the interviewer is able to understand her very well.