'Nitakukatakata na nikuweke kwa fridge!' Those words from my ex husband led my son to depression.

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  • @peninahnganga781
    @peninahnganga781 11 місяців тому +23

    Hey darling hio story yote ni yaukweli na ukweli mtupu,mimi kama wangari Ng'aNg'a your friend Nime ya shuhundi,Na kubuka kuna siku Nikiwa Kapsoya ulilala kwangu all most 3days,after hapo ukarundi kwako na ukanishow unaenda kusamehe mume wako licha ya kumpata na makosa,a salute your dr ulikiza kuona ndoa yako isimame Big up dr ❤❤❤❤ your strong 💪 women in this world, God bless you,you have toti me alot in this life,once more Big up❤

    • @charitywangare4844
      @charitywangare4844 11 місяців тому +1

      Namesake God bless you so much for the big role you have played in the life of glado

  • @amosnjagi9804
    @amosnjagi9804 11 місяців тому +25

    Baaaaass...can't wait to see her again with someone besides her wakitoa testimony. Wishing her the best. She is cute and young.

  • @catherinegithaiga7004
    @catherinegithaiga7004 11 місяців тому +38

    God created women with golden hearts and a whole bag of forgiveness, we forgive so much until we run out of patience, but once a woman is done..she is done..DONE...

    • @joycemaina2126
      @joycemaina2126 11 місяців тому +1

      sure

    • @janewamaitha3407
      @janewamaitha3407 11 місяців тому +1

      Done done done kabisaaa....
      No one just leaves
      N no one is convinced to leave her home

    • @agnesnjeri8402
      @agnesnjeri8402 11 місяців тому

      Azn DOONE yes

    • @irynejames5161
      @irynejames5161 11 місяців тому

      ​@@agnesnjeri8402yes... Completely done

    • @gladysmukami9445
      @gladysmukami9445 11 місяців тому +1

      With insecurity is dangerous, don't allow to die to save a marriage.

  • @wanjiru-usa1
    @wanjiru-usa1 11 місяців тому +25

    Can’t wait for the guest to come once again with a big testimony. Thanks Monica for hosting her. ❤

  • @randombeb
    @randombeb 11 місяців тому +13

    I hate insecure men ,they are angels kwa public but devils in the closet, nice to know you saved your life,hugs

  • @carolwahu8096
    @carolwahu8096 11 місяців тому +6

    One thing I came to understand, when another woman gets in your husband's life to a point they live together,only God can save that marriage...never beg him to stay.

    • @rosewairimu2108
      @rosewairimu2108 8 місяців тому

      Sure I went through hell because of another woman but today I have testimony God rift me very high

    • @carolinemuthee1322
      @carolinemuthee1322 7 місяців тому

      Very true n u go thru hell wondering what ua doing wrong u try u pray

  • @peterchege3911
    @peterchege3911 11 місяців тому +8

    Ladies please learn about narcissism, that is the only way you will be able to know yourself and your man.

  • @njerinyambu6769
    @njerinyambu6769 11 місяців тому +4

    She's such a courageous young woman, she saved her children from traumas which would have affected their adult life

  • @lucywambui3469
    @lucywambui3469 11 місяців тому +3

    Gladys God is good all the time , nimeskia umenitaja hapo Wambui , aki kumbe ulikua unapitia mengi hivo 😭 as I always
    say we hide our problems in a smiling face, anyways God is God of many chances I know soon God will make it happen and you'll have a testimony ,

  • @mburulucky9580
    @mburulucky9580 11 місяців тому +48

    When ever you see single mother try to ask what happen walk a mile to there shoes before you judge them

  • @NancyWangui-r3d
    @NancyWangui-r3d 11 місяців тому +6

    Wah sorry mama.. umepitia...bt pia mm nmepitia kukuliko😢😢😢... watching from Saudi

  • @Oliver-h5n5t
    @Oliver-h5n5t 11 місяців тому +3

    Kairitu pole sana bt kama uko tayari na onother relationship ,tell that other man kama atakupeda apede yr kuds first.i was in a relationship that died aloong time.pole girl

  • @Famera_Sweet_treat
    @Famera_Sweet_treat 11 місяців тому +6

    Best interview not blaming inlaws in her failed marriage straight to the issue and problem's facing her marriage

  • @margaretmuriithi6975
    @margaretmuriithi6975 11 місяців тому +5

    Thanks for sharing your story Gladys. Mimi my daughter at below three years aliambia the dad "usipige mama yangu" and I directly knew am not subjecting her to such a life. My story was almost similar to yours. Kudos on putting your kids first.👍

  • @paulinebarlow396
    @paulinebarlow396 11 місяців тому +6

    Wakagoni, mine was a similar situation. But I’m analogue, so there was nothing like walking out in my time.Nilivumilia for 18 yrs with 3 kids, nikajaribu kuenda transfer niondokee mbaara, juu I was a civil servant, lakini alikuwa anakuja wherever I went. Violence was too much. Mimi nikatafuta passport, nikatafuta visa, nikatorokea US instead of death. But I regret my 18 yrs went to trash. I left 24 yrs ago. Ladies, if you get certain red flags, don’t waste your time. Take off. I’m who I’m because I left that violence. Kuongea ama kuendanisha nyumbani na male coworkers warranted a whole nights beating- ta ndarama. Keep up lady. You’ll be just fine.

  • @lucymburu155
    @lucymburu155 11 місяців тому +5

    Thumbs-up for the guest. Many stay bcoz of children. Learn today that you are traumatising them instead. Leave allow them to have a healthy mental state

  • @Lucillewairimu
    @Lucillewairimu 11 місяців тому +6

    You're such a courageous woman. 👏🏿 👏🏿 👏🏿 Men should try and resolve their childhood traumas before marrying someone's daughter.

  • @mikek9158
    @mikek9158 10 місяців тому +1

    Heeee mah...na vile nikarembo. Good piece of advice there that as parents we shld always tell our kids we love them else wataambiwa na wrong pple...

  • @faitharisson7002
    @faitharisson7002 11 місяців тому +2

    You are a beautiful strong woman life has to continue don’t stay there move on there is a God of a second chance

  • @janemuringo4643
    @janemuringo4643 11 місяців тому +3

    Kudos Gladys for taking such a brave step,, this is un imaginable coz i know your ex husband ,, he was employed at our farm for close to 10yrs then got promoted to be our shop attendant at OJ… my mum n dad would be shocked to hear that he turned out to be a different person ,,them having taken him in from when he was a very young boy , we used to be disciplined together if we made any mistakes .. surprising i met him at one of the hotels along Kiambu road and we interacted very well in 2014-2015 and he made us go to that hotel for so long coz he was one of the best attendants till he left 😢😢…. Stay strong and am really happy for you..

  • @teresiatnjeri
    @teresiatnjeri 5 місяців тому +1

    Strong Gladys. Flowers to the very wise and blessed Headmistress. I have watched this several times.

  • @mburulucky9580
    @mburulucky9580 11 місяців тому +5

    Empathy is the ability to emotionally understand what other people feel, see things from their point of view, and imagine yourself in their place. Essentially, it is putting yourself in someone else's position and feeling what they are feeling.

  • @annnjenga9754
    @annnjenga9754 11 місяців тому +3

    Such a beautiful lady with full of wisdom! That guy was true narcissist 😢

  • @johnkanyua5582
    @johnkanyua5582 11 місяців тому +3

    She's so cute and strong...she looks like leah of ithaga riene

  • @mburulucky9580
    @mburulucky9580 11 місяців тому +5

    She have good mam unlike the previous poster who was rejected by her mam

  • @WanjiruMwangi-y2y
    @WanjiruMwangi-y2y 11 місяців тому +6

    This kind of people are called Narcissists, I have stayed with one for over 30 years, they never change.

    • @ggathoni35
      @ggathoni35 11 місяців тому

      How do you manage?

    • @WanjiruMwangi-y2y
      @WanjiruMwangi-y2y 11 місяців тому +3

      @@ggathoni35 , it is by God's grace, you see he's the father of my children but honestly we don't communicate, I'm just here for the sake of my children

    • @rosemutinda3076
      @rosemutinda3076 7 місяців тому

      ​​@@WanjiruMwangi-y2y30 yrs your children are grown up for now

  • @janenyambura1103
    @janenyambura1103 11 місяців тому +6

    Athuri agikiyu makoragwo mahana ngoma,,, I was once married na tuliachana akadai hawezi somesha watoto hawako kwake

    • @andrewmuigai6573
      @andrewmuigai6573 11 місяців тому +1

      Aiiiiii stereotype why

    • @andrewmuigai6573
      @andrewmuigai6573 11 місяців тому +1

      Other tribes wote ni malaika

    • @peterchege3911
      @peterchege3911 11 місяців тому +2

      Don't blame Kikuyu men, narcissist are in all tribes and race.

    • @bancywaithera2673
      @bancywaithera2673 6 місяців тому

      But kukuyuscare worso and pro in the game

  • @sarahngugi2779
    @sarahngugi2779 11 місяців тому +6

    Situation ya Gladys ni similar to mine although mine was a cold war which made me scared

    • @wambuimbugua8948
      @wambuimbugua8948 11 місяців тому

      Cold war is bad because it kills yourself esteem and that is what the man want you to believe that you are stupid and afool

  • @susannyambura9634
    @susannyambura9634 11 місяців тому +4

    This lady is so beautiful and she really tried her marriage to work but having a narcissist person in your life can never work...big up Mama jilelee watoto wako God is always there for you dear

  • @mburulucky9580
    @mburulucky9580 11 місяців тому +5

    When I ever you listen to this stories always try to see if they are happening to you and your partner? You can lean from them .

    • @shikuliz4134
      @shikuliz4134 11 місяців тому +2

      This has happened to so many of us all this stories relate with eachother expecially from kagoni. Tuko and Lynn Ngugi show that's tell you we have a very high breed of narcissist men around that's why killing has raised in this year's . women let's be cautious because sio kuzuri

    • @mburulucky9580
      @mburulucky9580 11 місяців тому

      @@shikuliz4134 what do you think it contributes to this problem

  • @joycemaina2126
    @joycemaina2126 11 місяців тому +3

    Women pass alot .Hugs grace❤ its well n God be with u..

  • @modestapparells3802
    @modestapparells3802 11 місяців тому +4

    The things that happen in our family directly affect our children, say no to gender violence! Bravo girl, bring up your children and they shall be mighty in the land

    • @ggathoni35
      @ggathoni35 11 місяців тому

      Very true...If we truly love them lets avoid violence however small.Its impact is vast .

    • @Ann-sm6pz
      @Ann-sm6pz 11 місяців тому

      Kagoni please kua unaleta psychologist after a story like this to analyze the story. This way many women will stop tolerating nonsense

  • @hannahwambui4433
    @hannahwambui4433 10 місяців тому +1

    Good lessons I'm learning everyday

  • @MonicahKamau-vg5ys
    @MonicahKamau-vg5ys 9 місяців тому

    I have learnt so much from this and uko strong sana because umeheal na thats why you can give your story with a big smile

  • @janekogi6442
    @janekogi6442 11 місяців тому +2

    Uuuii,we think when we tell them tunakatiwa they will feel great,but they start thinking that men like you

  • @njerinyambu6769
    @njerinyambu6769 11 місяців тому +2

    That's an inspiring story. We learn everyday from your informative sories

  • @elizabethwamuyu7136
    @elizabethwamuyu7136 11 місяців тому +2

    Similar case to mine hapo kwa insecurities,kuachiwa bills

  • @mburulucky9580
    @mburulucky9580 11 місяців тому +8

    When you marry for wrong reasons. She married cz of pregnancy, she got married without life experience, can you do research those marry immediately after school there marriage never work cz they marry for wrong reasons

  • @kabuinjoroge1056
    @kabuinjoroge1056 11 місяців тому +2

    This lady is so mature and l see Moni hooking her up 😊 Monica she has talked about talking to young girls in school she can be a good speaker with your along side your viewers l love her English. Can we do something for her???

    • @ggathoni35
      @ggathoni35 11 місяців тому +1

      Thanks for your comment,That has my desire for so long,i would be glad to inspire young girls, teenagers that pregnancy doesn't mean the end of life,they can still pursue their education and achieve what they want in life.Provided they remain focused.Thanks for your positive thoughts

    • @kabuinjoroge1056
      @kabuinjoroge1056 11 місяців тому

      @@ggathoni35 you are going places l can see it happening dear

    • @ggathoni35
      @ggathoni35 11 місяців тому

      A big Amen to this.Thank you.

  • @23BlessedLady
    @23BlessedLady 11 місяців тому +5

    Mrs Kagoni uko 👌👌🔥

  • @Sweetrose7349
    @Sweetrose7349 3 місяці тому

    Am so sorry for your experience. I hope you find God's peace and blessings in your life.

  • @charitywangare4844
    @charitywangare4844 11 місяців тому +1

    Gladys always smiling as you carry on with your daily duties weuh sisemi meeengi you and know but God knows better..much love sister sister

  • @gikonyo__3505
    @gikonyo__3505 11 місяців тому +4

    This is very encouraging and i wish Gladys will fall on the hand of a loving n responsible Man.A widower who is a God fearing like Alex wa Sussie,would be a better option.She needs someone who will also love and accept her children.
    Pls Gladys take your time.

    • @queenexellent9854
      @queenexellent9854 11 місяців тому

      😂😂😂😂😂😂 you already matched her with someone?

    • @muriithijohnmaina
      @muriithijohnmaina 10 місяців тому

      @@queenexellent9854 c poo

  • @ngaruiyahenry4293
    @ngaruiyahenry4293 11 місяців тому +2

    Yaaani kwa barabara we are all smiling but deep down us we are all sick.... She was my manage back then I know her very well we used to call gladys sholei

    • @ggathoni35
      @ggathoni35 11 місяців тому

      Thanks soo much Henry ...A smile keeps away all other difficulties...It hides a lot.

  • @mercywanjiru-ig6jr
    @mercywanjiru-ig6jr 11 місяців тому +1

    Hi kagoni na guest wa wetu Wah! Mundurume maraya onaga niguo mutumia wake ekaga. Shindwe kabisaaa.

  • @njengawinfred
    @njengawinfred 9 місяців тому

    This lady is beautiful and her story is very inspirational. We all walk into a relationship or a marriage with the hopes of growing old together. Wishing you all the best life can give you ..

  • @bethwairimu1663
    @bethwairimu1663 Місяць тому

    Ngai arorathima mutumia uyu...ni mutumia wa hinya muno❤

  • @VeeMso
    @VeeMso 11 місяців тому +1

    My friend Gladys
    You are a strong woman

    • @ggathoni35
      @ggathoni35 10 місяців тому

      Thanks gal..Ni God tu

  • @Waithiravillage
    @Waithiravillage 11 місяців тому +1

    Strong, beautiful lady....

  • @Dee_the_blessed1
    @Dee_the_blessed1 11 місяців тому +5

    Gathoni and Kagoni you somehow look alike 🎉

  • @Luxury52items
    @Luxury52items 10 місяців тому +4

    Stay Single, Be Happy💜

  • @ruthwilliams7371
    @ruthwilliams7371 11 місяців тому +2

    My dad also was a narcissist,womanizer ed a violent to everyone from my mommy upto children,my mom got ulcers since I was 10 yrs upto date,I have that violence trauma till today if I hear commotion from a family my heart beats 180 rates ed shaking..it’s awful experience 😢

  • @shikuliz4134
    @shikuliz4134 11 місяців тому +4

    Wanawake learn more about narcissist they never change .

  • @lufapavifapavi6277
    @lufapavifapavi6277 11 місяців тому +1

    For many of us who are singles. First we persevered a lot. But I don't encourage anyone to live under such toxic marriage. KIURA RUGA.

  • @wachairman7657
    @wachairman7657 11 місяців тому +4

    Then you will see irresponsible keyboard worriers bashing single mothers..yet you have not walked half of her journey

  • @RechalWanyoike
    @RechalWanyoike 10 місяців тому

    Gladys u r very strong u hav exact my story,we r many mum

  • @Ann-sm6pz
    @Ann-sm6pz 11 місяців тому +2

    Watching these stories confirm that marriages harm women. How about you stay single,make money and raise your children? These creatures do not deserve you.😢

  • @paulinekawira4524
    @paulinekawira4524 11 місяців тому +2

    I respect single mothers n father's too,I can't stand an abusive marriage

  • @mbairemwangi6669
    @mbairemwangi6669 11 місяців тому +1

    This is so informative. Thank you for sharing

  • @mburulucky9580
    @mburulucky9580 11 місяців тому +6

    Marriage is not bed of roses but when it becomes both physical abuse and mental emotional abuse that trauma is not good for one heath….some time it’s good to let go and choose your life it’s called self care

  • @winniejoy3858
    @winniejoy3858 11 місяців тому +3

    Sa hyu mwanaume alifikiria gladys atawai kuwa working class,,, wivu itaua men

  • @elizabethkariuki6424
    @elizabethkariuki6424 11 місяців тому +5

    People say they are staying in a toxic marriage caz of children not knowing they are causing more harm to the children than good

  • @ngaruiyahenry4293
    @ngaruiyahenry4293 11 місяців тому +2

    Gladys woooiii what is it😢😢😢😢😢

  • @alicengondi6728
    @alicengondi6728 11 місяців тому +2

    When a woman is fed up there ain’t nothing anybody can do.

  • @kk-xl2pp
    @kk-xl2pp 11 місяців тому +1

    All the best for you Madam ,,

  • @Joylynw
    @Joylynw 11 місяців тому +1

    Nyandarua girls are beautiful and disciplined...Guess ni ile kazi ngumu ya kulima tuliofanya😅😅

  • @shikumwithiga3252
    @shikumwithiga3252 11 місяців тому +1

    This lady has a very good heart n muture ❤

  • @faithkoi2193
    @faithkoi2193 11 місяців тому +2

    My Son also got Ulcers when he was in class 1 so i had to leave and he got healed...

    • @ggathoni35
      @ggathoni35 11 місяців тому

      Pole,save the kids

    • @ggathoni35
      @ggathoni35 11 місяців тому

      Pole,save the kids..they deserve a beautiful life

  • @WanguNjoroge
    @WanguNjoroge 11 місяців тому +5

    Have you ever listened to a story and wish you could see the picture of the culprit?😂😂

  • @gracejoe9487
    @gracejoe9487 11 місяців тому +2

    Monica this is exactly my story ten years back the same same town,,my life affected my son very much he got trauma mtoto born 2006 amemaliza class eight 2023,,hizi violence za nyumbani zikianza kimbia

  • @CateWachera-i4b
    @CateWachera-i4b 11 місяців тому +2

    Waiting upon God my take home

  • @joyjoy140
    @joyjoy140 11 місяців тому +1

    Wee Gladys 🙆 , thank you kagoni for bringing this golden Lady, I have learned not to envy someone blessings without knowing the journey they have gone through, I salute you baby girl I have never know you went through this, you are a 💪 kudos

    • @ggathoni35
      @ggathoni35 11 місяців тому

      Thanks a bunch my dear.Lets trust in God and always place the intrests of our kids first.We might loose them when protecting marriages.

  • @webnejs5365
    @webnejs5365 11 місяців тому +1

    Uuuuiii naithui tureretwo mucii wa haro kurara nja kuhuta na no twanenehire no tiwega kuonia ciana uguo niimenaga kihiko

  • @hellencatt
    @hellencatt 11 місяців тому +1

    What woman go through.....weuh.. it's only God knows ❤

  • @shonkairu228
    @shonkairu228 11 місяців тому +3

    She was my class mate a very humble lady

  • @njerinyambu6769
    @njerinyambu6769 11 місяців тому +1

    Monica, you are a gem👏👏

  • @andrewmuigai6573
    @andrewmuigai6573 11 місяців тому +3

    Apo amesema Kikuyu men don't accept kids wa single mums huo ni uongo am dating a single mum with a girl and I love her sasa hiyo steeotype yako stop it

  • @virginiamuthoni700
    @virginiamuthoni700 11 місяців тому

    Gladys our girl from oj God of single mums will always provide for us ,,,,counting yrs of single life too

  • @mercymathenge5742
    @mercymathenge5742 11 місяців тому

    Wooooi maa wakwa ndamutumanira aririo anjeraga andu acio njeraga mathina ndimatwarire mwana

  • @andrewmuigai6573
    @andrewmuigai6573 11 місяців тому +1

    Itabidi niede huko mexico ama Columbia wanaume wengine wametuchomea sana wallahi mpaka nikijaribu kutafuta bibi wanaogopa woiiiiiii 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @ggathoni35
      @ggathoni35 11 місяців тому

      Character developments tumepigwa huku nje.. Good men/women are there but rare.Keep praying and maintaining a positive attitude towards life

  • @waruhiucas
    @waruhiucas 11 місяців тому +2

    😂😂😂soko mapema utoke mapema.He lost such a gem!

    • @ggathoni35
      @ggathoni35 11 місяців тому +1

      😂

    • @ggathoni35
      @ggathoni35 11 місяців тому +1

      😂 ..kama itabidi utoke itakuwa mapems

    • @waruhiucas
      @waruhiucas 11 місяців тому

      I love your resilience amidst what he put you through.May God keep showering you with His endless blessings.

    • @njesh9807
      @njesh9807 11 місяців тому

      ​@ggathoni35 you are a strong lady.

  • @tabsangie1035
    @tabsangie1035 11 місяців тому +2

    I'm 28years no kid I learn alot from Metha ya Kagoni atleast when I will decided to get marriage I will be able to handle.I wish wanatuambianga which is the best age to get marriage. Naona kama nimechelewa but atleast I can't regret I'm investing for my life.

    • @gracekariuki6688
      @gracekariuki6688 11 місяців тому +1

      No best time to get married if you have the right person. Wait for God to give you the right person. It can be below or above 30 bora it's the right person.

  • @evelyneva
    @evelyneva 11 місяців тому +4

    Tuned From Qatar

  • @florencegithinji4651
    @florencegithinji4651 2 місяці тому

    Hugs to all women in toxic marriages. May you find strength to love yourselves and know when you cant give more

  • @NaomiWanjiru-f4c
    @NaomiWanjiru-f4c 7 місяців тому

    Will never tell my daughter to stay if it’s time leave 😢😢😢it’s good we learn from these stories

  • @angel.----
    @angel.---- 11 місяців тому +4

    Tuned in❤

  • @monicahwanjiku2524
    @monicahwanjiku2524 11 місяців тому +1

    My schoolmate you are strong

  • @rosemutinda3076
    @rosemutinda3076 7 місяців тому

    Hope God will locate the right person 😢😢😢some men are worse than devil

  • @suzziewilliam3246
    @suzziewilliam3246 11 місяців тому

    Woooi Gladys...hugs mamaa

  • @josephinekamau2162
    @josephinekamau2162 11 місяців тому +2

    That man don't know what he lost

  • @Verokamlas
    @Verokamlas 11 місяців тому +2

    My former youthmate from OJK

  • @SallyKinyanjui
    @SallyKinyanjui 11 місяців тому +7

    Kagoni my favourite

  • @mburulucky9580
    @mburulucky9580 11 місяців тому +2

    From high school pregnant marriage…. No love no experience with life …. Marriage full of insecurity… no love hate fear of loosing someone to someone else jealous at the end beak up marriage and children become single parent

  • @naomykikky
    @naomykikky 11 місяців тому +3

    Woiiii imagine 3 months of dating you are pregnant and you are in high school….it must have been tough

  • @FreshiaKagunyu
    @FreshiaKagunyu 11 місяців тому +1

    Wamama tusikae kwa doa ya vita juu ya watoto,tutakufa

  • @nyobs
    @nyobs 11 місяців тому +1

    Tuned in from Hamburg

  • @VeronicahWambui-tw3zj
    @VeronicahWambui-tw3zj 11 місяців тому +1

    Waaat?? threatening me is enough for me to leave.

  • @annewangui6421
    @annewangui6421 11 місяців тому +2

    Tuned in from Narok

  • @hannahngina8327
    @hannahngina8327 8 місяців тому

    Monica plz bring Maggie N....

  • @tabithakaranja4698
    @tabithakaranja4698 11 місяців тому

    Now this story reminds me of what you went through before you gave up on your marriage...We should always thank God for freeing us Aki saa hii ningekuwa 6feet under or langata women's prison for living with a psycho, Narcissist and a suicidal person... Anyway Wacha tulee watoto

    • @ggathoni35
      @ggathoni35 11 місяців тому

      My dear it was not an easy decision, remember how tough it was, almost getting depressed but God showers us with strength and we cant fall.We thank God we are at peace.Afadhali uwe hai kwa ajili ya watoto.Better safe than sorry,i think next time given an opportunity,we wont wait that long when violence shows up.