This just confirms how important it is to get out and vote and get these extremist out of office! Not just in Florida, not just regarding the lgbt community, but for all communities that are being impacted. This has gotten absolutely ridiculous! People please get out and vote every chance you can!!! Love you guys ❤
I was born and raise in Florida. Over 30 years living in Florida. My entire family live in Florida. I got tired of the discrimination. I got tired of being one of the best and hardest worker but yet paid less than my white coworker. So I made a decision to leave Florida in search for better opportunities. I applied to a number of jobs out of state. The company I liked relocated me to Alabama. At that point-A voice in my head said, "You will never move back to Florida". That was kinda strange b/c I did in fact miss my family and I miss living in Florida. Within 1 year of living in Alabama, the company relocated me to LA for a new opportunity. I have been living in LA since. Yes, the housing and taxes are higher but Floridas cost of living is now damn near close to California. It's scary moving to a new state but experience is memorable. At this point-I will not move back to Florida. You and your family is welcome in LA.
Bruh, Cali is hemorrhaging residents to Florida and Texas and other conservative states. Unaddressed crime is OUTRAGEOUS in LA. You jumped out of the frying pan and into the damn fire, moving to Cali. L.A. in particular.
This is such a brave and powerful video. Thank you both for your "rant". We as a community have to speak up and shed light on the evil and hate being propagated in your state. I felt great sadness watching the hurt and disappointment on the faces of two such beautiful people. When Brian spoke of the fear in his heart for Alec making a simple two minute drive to Walmart it brought tears to my eyes. Stay strong. You guys are loved by more people than you even know. Keep spreading your love and kindness. Together as a community we will get through this. While in the storm, it is sometimes hard to remember the night is darkest just before dawn. ❤️🌈
People will look at what’s going on in your state and think it does t have an effect on them. But like you said, it’s not over. He’s on a roll and the only way to stop him is vote him out. Texas missed our chance. Now we’re suffering…
Part of the reason this is happening is because Democrats didn't bother to Vote in the last Election. Over a Million+ Registered Democrats did NOT VOTE last November! They didn't like Charlie Crist as a choice so they didn't bother and now we are seeing the consequences of that.
After hearing about all the charges in Florida's legislation you two were the first to come to mind and how you would be affected . I pray that God is going to lead you to make the right decision for your selves and your family. ❤❤
Thank you all so much for the conversations that you all have and for being so vulnerable. It hard sometimes to think about the burdens we must carry. You all are amazing and great thing will happen for you all and protection will always be around you!
First of all, you two make a beautiful couple. My teenage years I lived in Sabal Park, Longwood, Orlando, Florida. When I decided to have a child, I decided to move out of Orlando. My husband and I are a same sex , happily married couple,and we have a son. I found Orlando to be dangerous, as the laws are quite dangerous. My husband, and I encountered some challenges that I still can’t believe we had to live through. However , it’s an beautiful city, but I really didn’t realize the mentality, and how the laws are set up against you.The mentality is from the past, we are a mixed race, gay couple, we encountered so many laws against us. We just wanted to live our lives, and keep to ourselves, but the laws were always in our business . I found myself realizing we were not equal. We’ve moved to a state that we love. Where our sexuality is not questioned, us being parents is not an issue, being a gay couple, nor the color of our skin. None lof these things are an issue. You should not have to worry about what happens if you get pulled over, or what happens if one of you gets sick, or what happens if you live in a neighborhood and your neighbor does not like you because you’re a gay couple. If you have a moment, please get in touch with us. There is so much I’d love to share with you that you need to know about the state you live in, as well as there are other wonderful places to live in this country that you will not have the same challenges. Please, know no state is perfect. However, there are certain challenges that you should not have to encounter. From our family to yours we’re sending you love and happiness. Once again, please take a moment and get in touch with us. We have some very important information for you, as my husband and I are both working professionals. I am the American citizen working for a very major international airline, and my husband is the immigrant that now works at one of the biggest banks in the United States. We look forward to speaking with you. Adam, Maxime, and Lorenzo
Thanks for this video. I didn’t know all this was going on. Those laws are so wrong. I hope they don’t go through with those laws. It’s so sad that people have to go through this.
Wow, Guys this video was sobering . You are so right about the hateful laws that are being passed not only in Florida, but other states. I live in Connecticut just outside of NYC. Connecticut is a VERY BLUE State. I am proud to say, it is VERY LGBTQ friendly. The school system is good. The weather is diferent that what you are accustomed to, we have four seasons. Taxes are high, but that is why we have so many great services for families, children, and great medical coverge as well. I will always keep you and your son in my prayers. Please let me know if you need any further info on this area of the country. :)
A tough, but necessary video to watch. Thank you for sharing this video because as someone who typically avoids all news related to Florida, because it’s very triggering I appreciate all the information and facts that you shared in the video!
What an unexpected turn of events. Thanks for sharing the up dates with us.what is happening is unbelievable. CONTINUE to stay safe and always pray 🙏 you guys can move to NEW YORK. After every storm there's a calm.much love ❤️ 💜
Hey fam. I'm watching this from South Africa, and I believed the situation in African countries was the worst. Turns out life fucks us all. But I like what Brian said, basically alluding to the fact that we are not going anywhere, so since they are never gonna get rid of us, they are gonna have to make some provision at some point. Love and light gang❤❤❤
That's because the lgb peoples are trying to take over the world and acts like it's all about them children are too young to be learning about it they are confusing a child let them grow up and be children and stop throwing that in there faces let them breath and have fun if that your life style fine but don't try to throw it children face like I said god made Adam and Eve those laws are going to be passing in different states soon it's only a matter of time before god take over the madness that going on all over the world.
Hey Family…. I moved here in 2023 from New York and it has been hell. The changes are unbelievable. I felt so free in New York. It’s cold as hell there but I think it’s time to return home.
You guys are stressing me out :( but I appreciate you guys bringing these topics up. I am currently waiting for my partners K1 Visa to be approved. We have been waiting since October 2022 and sadly we have a long way to go. I just hope things don't get worse for our community and these immigration laws. Btw, I'm in Texas
We’re sorry Elio! You know our intent isn’t to make you worry at all. We always just try to keep people informed through our lives experience where we can. In regards to your K1 visa, we hope everything goes as quickly and smoothly as possible. We heard that delays shouldn’t be as extensive when we did ours so hopefully you hear from them very soon! Any questions you have with that you are free to ask too and we will try and help where we can. We really are hopeful as well!
@@MeetTheMazelins I appreciate all you guys do and how open you are about share your love and experience. As far as the K1 visa estimated wait times today, they estimate around 16.5 months. I am hopeful that by the end of the year it would have been around 14 months and that we will have some news. As you know USCIS is terrible at updating people in the process but we remain hopeful.
So depressing. As Brian says, all of our progress is in the process of being taken away and has reverted 10 steps back. I don't know that it's safe in any of the southern states. Perhaps the west coast, northern central, or northeast states may be better choices for relocation. I wish you well in whatever move you guys make. Sorry that this will affect BJ as well, but ultimately, he needs to be in a more welcoming and safe environment. My best to the 3 of you. 🙏💟
It really is. And what makes it worse is that most options that are viable are seemingly much more expensive or doesn’t work out with Brian’s current job. But we will have to see what can be done!
My heart goes out to yall. You are right about texas, i live in houston, its rough out here and im a straight female so i know it would be hard for yall. I just worry if yall move and face this same thing in another state. It hurt me when bryan said hes not comfortable, that was so sad to hear.....i wish i could help yall, but i can ask God to keep yall covered, keep yall protected and safe! This whole video had me in tears! I love you guys! Yall are beautiful! Literally yall are💜💜💜!!!!! Stay safe and be careful. Reach out if you need anything!!!! #heartbroken💔💔💔💔💔
Words cannot express how much I appreciate you guys having this conversation. I can concour with your views. What is happening in Florida and soon texas then which ever state next is out right disgusting. I am jamaican and straight but trust me Alec I KNOW how you and Brian feels. Never liked Florida and now I HATE there even more, not even a vacation I would take there. New York is horrible but I would much rather be here. I am so sadden that you guys have to be considering leaving you home. I wish I had suggestions about where to go, but this is a hard one.
We here in North Carolina are experiencing the same issues with bills and laws being presented/up for vote in regards to drag/trans/ and lgbtqia+ . It is so sad that in 2023, we have taken so many steps forward, to then take leaps and bounds back. And it amazes me how someone can get upset about what someone else decides to do in their home, with the kids and family - and then feel the right to make a blanket decision on how to rule other adult lives.
Florida is in full dictatorship, no longer creeping. I have been so worried and you two, your friends and BJ because of all the craziness of DeSantis. I am sure the Governor has family members that are gay, imagine what they are thinking about him. Brian and Alex he is forgetting that his ancestors were also illegal immigrants when they arrived in America. Tomatoes have already started rottening in the fields, construction workers have left their jobs, he is also attacking Disney, it's the State of Florida and it's citizens that are suffering. How sad. Sending love ❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏
I’ve been aware, somewhat, of what’s going on in Fl. This brings it to life and is very depressing. No, you don’t want to move to Texas. Our people of authority drank from the same tainted fountain… I’m praying for God’s intervention. You shouldn’t be forced to leave your home. Stay safe. Love to you both. ❤❤❤❤
Thanks so much for the reassurance Sally. Damn, it really is sad. Kind of feel like we're in a hole looking up but not sure how to get out of it. If it isn't one thing it's another. And there are so many other factors to think about, from weather conditions, to cost of living. We appreciate you always supporting us! 💜
I stayed in my state because of these same exact problems. The county I stay in is predominantly a well controlled democratic space. Not saying that the Democrats are the better option but it’s been working so far for me and the individuals in our counties.
It's a sad, sad world we live in!! SMDH!!!! I've always said, every time I've been out of the country, I have been treated better than I'm treated in my own. Especially in Europe. I've never been judged on my race, sexuality or anything. I have always felt so free there.
This is chilling and a sad reminder of growing up in Jamaica. I agree that the possibilities of him becoming President is very real. We in NY is very aware of the implications of he does . Then this morning another issue with Target removing Pride merchandise ..pandora box has been open…
Good afternoon Guys. Florida is so disgusting. It get cold in new Jersey,, so if you don't mind the cold ,we in New Jersey would welcome you with open arms. We stand proud in New Jersey. Angela from Jersey
It's hard seeing these changes coming in having grown up with Section 28 in Britain. It made it hard to accept ourselves growing up and it's still in us today. Although we don't believe all Floridians would agree with the changes we would worry about changing attitudes towards us in the future if we visited again. Thanks for the video and sharing your views.
Hey guys. Of course when I was your age coming out as gay would likely cost you your job. And I was in the military at the time so it also meant at least a dishonorable discharge, or even federal prison. I know you have a lot of considerations to weigh if you're opting to move, such as cost of living, gay friendly, Black friendly and even immigrant friendly. That's why I'm going to recommend Las Vegas. Yes, it is hot and dry. And although it's been a "red" state, it's changing in recent years. It's affordable and there is always employment opportunities. (BTW I don't live there, I'm just proving you with personal analysis). Also, I have lived in many states in my 68 years, and find it's easy to find the good in life no matter where you go.
We know how you feel to some degree being that I'm coming from a country where it really is the current reality. It's a shame though that things we thought were of the past are apparently still very much of the existing reality. We appreciate the suggestion and information to back it! It is definitely something we will have to put more thought into. Thanks Jon 🫶🏽💜
Sending lots of love your way, Alec and Brian! As someone who is also a same-gender loving man of color, this truly breaks my heart. I wish things could be much simpler for us all. I would suggest looking up LGBTQ friendly cities and go from there. It's great that you (Brian) get to travel for work and so you get to experience most cities during that time. Portland, Vegas and The DMV area would be a few good suggestions for ya! Vegas (tax free) btw! Wishing you all the best, of course I'll be watching and following your journey. Love your channel! Love you brothas!
New York city could of been great for you guys , we have 4 seasons . It's very diverse and full with people all over the world. There are no laws like the ones in Florida
Guys, only you can decide what is best for you but I think you have made a positive step forward by making and sharing this video. This could encourage others to demand change! I agree with many others about voting and becoming involved. I refuse to let anyone run me away from my home where I am happy because that is just what they want you to do. I say give it some time to see how things go. No matter where you go, there are going to be challenges..My advice to you is if you decide to move, decide on a place that feels right to you. Don't base it on what others say because whatever is right for them may not be the case for you. But whatever you decide, think it through. If enough people file legal actions in Florida over these laws, changes will come.
Gd day! Blessings to you and your families. Shame and truly discussed that we still are dealing with this type of behavior,as you said Brain we are not progressing at all WE ARE TAKING TWO STEPS FORWARDS AND THREE BACKWARDS just disgusting
@MeetTheMazelins Yup, unfortunately so. The best way I think to look at it is to look at cities instead of the whole state. The only thing is that the best cities that are more open to immigrants and LGBT are also the most expensive ones in the country. Honestly, though, I believe everyone should have a plan to move to another country as things get more unfriendly towards people freedom.
My wife and I feel the exact same thing. She is from Trinidad and I want us to be safe. It’s very scary. We are in the process of her getting her visa we applied over a year ago but still waiting. I pray for you both. I pray for us all 😢🙏🏾
I’ve been worrying about you both (and your gay friends - and other LGBTQIA in FL and other states taking retrograde steps). I’m following the news as best I can from this side of the Atlantic with horror. How can the country that claims to lead the free world allow the dreadful things that are going on? Including the book banning (medieval for goodness sake) and withdrawal of women’s rights to choose. De Santos seems vile, but there are so many people who empower and encourage him. And they call themselves Christian! Not the Christ I’ve read about and still - atheist that I am - still revere in terms of his radical teachings. Stay safe. Do what you have to do to keep safe for you, BJ and everyone you love. 🥰🥰😘😘😘
We appreciate that Dugald. It really is baffling that for such a “progressive” nation that we are moving in this direction. We definitely will do the best we can to stay safe! Thanks for the love and support 🙏🏽
That is all kinds of crazy. This video guys are superb important and I do hope everyone that is gay or just all minorities sees this. Truly we all have to get up and vote when the time comes. On the other hand guys. New York welcomes you. Stay strong and keep posting.
Its so crazy this now has given me so much to think about. Because im scheduled to move to Florida this week. My bf lives in Georgia and we we talked about heading to Texas in the future. 😮 So this is really not good at all. Im glad yoi guys are using this platform to talk about this. Im praying for our country. Hate is real and its not cute. Some Things have changed in our country for the good and for the bad..... But we took so many steps forward on many levels just for use to take many steps backwards. 😧😡🤨😔
Yes, I agree with your conversation 😢. My legally immigrated husband has been in The Bronx visiting family this spring. I'm constantly worried that some crazy Karen 🤪 will cause him distress, and I won't be there to intervene. We can apply for his citizenship in August 2023. Literally, I already have the paperwork completed and am waiting to send it. These are difficult 😕 times. I keep reminding myself that "God is Love ❤" and fortunately, God is still in control 🙏🏿. If we were going to move anywhere down south, we would consider the suburbs of New Orleans. We spend weeks down there each summer for the last three years. Gilbert says that parts of the city of New Orleans remind him of being home in The Caribbean. Plus, he could garden year round there and not have to winter prep our soil 😮. Whatever that means 😂. Happy House Happy Spouse 😀. I bet at some point we will end up NOLA 😉 🎉.
Hello guys! The situation in Florida takes me back to the days of Anita Bryant, a former beauty queen during the 70's whose platform was to rid, not only Florida, but the entire nation of the LGBT plus community. It would appear that the basic civil rights that so many people have fought and literally died for are on the verge of being dismantled! The only tool that we have now at our disposal is the ability to vote. This is not simply hyperbolic, but truly a matter of life and death! As for you contemplating relocating to another state, Brian, if we collectively fail to do what is necessary to prevent either of these "characters" from getting into office, we run the risk of Florida's legislation becoming nationwide. Heaven forbid this occurring!
I feel for you but you need to be safe and Florida will not give you that. We sold are home is Florida last year because I did not like the direction the governor was taking Florida in. So we left and I wouldn't go back there for any reason!!!! I will not pay taxes in a state I don't feel safe in. I am a person of color so I much happier not living there and I won't vacation there ever!!!
I couldn’t personally live in a state where hate is literally being turned into law. I would move to a way more tolerant and excepting state like California or New York
My boyfriend and I have been together now for four years and three weeks and we were thinking about getting married and moving to Florida but watching this video together. I don’t think Florida is the place for us.
Come to NY or NJ...Am in a state of hurt of what's happening in Fl😢.This is sickening...Ik it will not stand.Things will change FL can't keep this up at all..
I really can't believe all that is happening, it really does seem unreal. When it comes to uprooting, I know it's the hardest thing to do however you have to do what you have to do. I'm in Oklahoma but they may be headed in the same direction. It's not here yet but who knows. Kids are resilient and understand a lot more than some give them credit for, I bet if you sit him down he'll be on board because he wants the best for you and he knows you wouldn't just put him in a situation.
It really does. You know years from now when we talk to generations after us about all we experienced in our lifetime it's going to make for a hell of a story. But in present day that's really not the concerns we want to be battling. Yes, it's funny how childhood innocence really does make the clarity of a young person sometimes so much more beautiful than dealing with other adults.
BRIAN & ALEC… thank you so much for always sharing good times and things that people need to be aware❤❤❤❤…This is not just going to go away. It’s time to stop falling for the Large companies celebrating PRIDE; they don’t care about PRIDE they care about your dollar and MOST companies are only tolerating LGTBQ+ not genuinely accepting. WE have to think smarter there are to many brilliant people of color to be thinking you are untouchable just because WalMart/Target/etc sell PRIDE paraphernalia. Less we forget we are BLACK and who you think will be held to the fire first definitely not our non-melanin folks. Stop letting the “machine” create our narratives, such as picking one particular LGTBQ+ REP to speak for us all, those handpicked celebrities don’t speak for everyone’s experiences. Back to the subject; you have to take care of yourself and that starts with getting out and voting instead of gearing up for PRIDE or partying… Take care of the business then party… its not that hard but for some reason we forego our security and freedom to attend a concert… you have to open your eyes and see what’s MORE Important. Only GOD can save us and protect and even if you don’t belong to a church you need a relationship with God He will take care of you, but we have an obligation to help ourselves as well. To often we take for granite the murders and the sacrifice those before gave just so we can drink out of a water fountain not labeled COLORED… but we ignore that because “the man” has told you that was in the past and you should forget about it; no you shouldn’t forget about it because it still exists… TS MADISON forewarned people that its gonna start with the gays then the black and unfortunately our own blacks don’t support the black gays and it has begun and we are in the middle of it … what affects one will ultimately affects us all. So you need to make a decision as a great of a entertainer Beyoncé is she can’t save you remember she is an entertainer and that’s her job and she does it well… but you don’t live with her or any other celebrity. Serious household decisions need to be made for your future. We’ve done enough talking about its been time to be about it. Get up and do something! A body at rest stays at rest and ultimately will perish because there’s no activity. Don’t perish I need everyone to survive, but you gotta take care of your business and worry about celebrating later after you solidified safety/security for you and your loved one. Lastly you’re focused on your pronouns you can identify as a broom or a mop but don’t you dare forget you are a HUMAN BEING 1ST, BLACK, and all the rest is for paperwork purposes. Again thank you Brian & Alec for sharing truths and sharing your life May God continue to keep and bless you both and all of your family and all of your followers ❤
Came across this commentary. Catching the replay. Where does the LGBTQ+ORGANIZATION, stand on all that is going on in this country. I hadn't heard nor seen anything whatsoever from them about this situation 🤔 Pray, Keep the Faith. "Trust in the Lord with all thine heart and lean not unto thine own understanding, but in all thy ways acknowledge him and he will direct thy path ". Put your faith and trust in God, not in man . BLESSINGS , PEACE AND MUCH LOVE 🙏✌️💞
I'm from the Netherlands and live in Chicago with my American husband. I watch the news here and am horrified by the persecution of people here by the Republican party. You're a beautiful couple....stay strong!❤
Often times the majority sit back because they think the minority won't reach to the top. So vote like your life depends on it and vote for your close friends and family.
Hey guys I understand being gay white and married to a black man in Texas it's not as bad as Florida yet but it's headed that way when you find a safe place to live Post-it please love watching y'all
You both are welcome to come move to the DMV to live. I heard about Florida laws which they suck. Please move forget FL, they dont deserve your family. FL, want to exclude you out. Come 2 DMV is great. ❤❤
I am a hetero black and an immigrant. This is really interesting, as just today I had a family member call me from another state ask what the heck is going on in Florida. We have lived here since 2000, and the governors of Florida were all republicans. And they never came out with the way desantis is. I want to say that his replacement won’t be as bad as him but I don’t know ? I think it’s too soon to move but I don’t know ?
Just because some people do not like or do not understand something does not mean that that which they dislike should be removed. Growing up in the 1950s I was taught that there are all kinds of people in the world and have the right to live as they want. These simpletons think that they should destroy those who are different because they do not like them, such behavior appears to be childish .
News. Sorry to hear of your problems. I just read the the new mayor elect of Jacksonville defeated the Republican so could this be a positive sign for you two beautiful people
Desantis must no longer be Governor for these bills to be overturn . People who are heterosexual can also be affected in some way . There must be protestation for what Desantis is doing to Florida 😣
Thank you so much for sharing this. As someone who has lived in Florida but no longer there, I think about what is the LGBTQ community doing to oppose the legislation and discrimination. People need to vote. 900K plus voters in Florida did not vote in the last election..its sad. We have the right to vote. Its the only way these legislators will listen..when we vote them out of office!
1. If you move, don't move to Atlanta. It's played out. 2. This is y democrats and Independents need to run for State legislative offices. Republicans have done a great job creating super majorities in these bodies... especially in da South. 3. I would wait and see for the moment. DeSantis has picked a fight with Disney...so he will end up bottoming for Goofy, Mickey and Iger.😅😅
Yeah we had spoken about Atlanta early on but it was quickly taken off the list lol. Clearly a different strategy is needed for real, let's hope we see them put some of these things in place for the new election. Haha that imagery though! We really do hope this stop soon though.
I don't live in the US but I've heard about the current situation especially in Florida. Sending you ❤ from Germany. It's sad that homophobia is on the rise again. It's happening everywhere. But I believe it will get better again. Stay strong everyone ❤
Thank you Dominic. We hope it resolves itself soon enough. Hoping that you too keep safe as we know things in this world can change at the drop of a hat. Much love 💜
WOW 😳 interesting video today. I don't live in the USA but it was informative, i think people should be allowed to live a life that best suits them n be comfortable wherever, bringing up a child in the union u guys are in is already hard in society n for them to make it so much more difficult is sad. But thank God u already have the support and acceptance from BJ and his little society. Now he can't even say or speak of his family in school or elsewhere that isn't something a child should have to deal with. I pray that you guys find somewhere that is comfortable and accepting of ur love life n family.❤ Blessings
Living in Florida as well, I've been very concerned about whether I'd like to stay or not. I moved here in 2009 to be with my partner, and we've been doing fine until "He who must not be named" took office. My partner was born and raised here, and most of his family is here, who I love and who love me to death. This makes it hard for either of us to just uproot. He doesn't seem as concerned with needing to leave, unless he's just holding it in to keep me calm (I suffer from anxiety). However, if things continue to go backwards, it's a serious conversation we'll have to have. We can always come visit family. Actually, it would be nice to live somewhere new or maybe where I've lived before. I have family & friends in Georgia (where I moved from to be here) and North Carolina (born and raised). However, those 2 options are risky as well, as NC has been trying to pass some similar laws, which some I believe were overturned or are waiting on appeals. I have the same concerns about Texas as you, though I have friends in Dallas and Houston I worry about. I don't think I could take the heat there either, even though I've dealt with this humid heat here for so long....lol I've actually looked into possibly moving to Canada and what the immigration process would be to move there. The main concern about that is the climate. Neither one of us do cold that well (I fare better...lol), but I think Vancouver would be perfect in terms of temps. As far as the US, California would likely be #1, perhaps San Diego or San Francisco, though cost of living is much higher. Seattle could be doable. As far as the East coast, NY would likely top that list, maybe Maryland or DC, but those options come with the cold.
Yes, we have seen where since Florida has gone through with some of these laws that it seemed to just start the conversation for other states as well. It is worrying times for those in our community. However, we have always been a resilient set of people, and I trust that we won't take this sitting down. We have faith that the greater good will prevail eventually, even though the journey will not be easy. We're so sorry to hear that you feel uncomfortable in your own home, know that you have company and community in us! Praying for us all 🙏🏽. Sending love and positivity your way 🫶🏽💜
Florida is like Mississippi to me, you couldn't pay me to live in either of these evil racists states... this should encourage everyone to get out and vote, when we vote, things change... thank you for sharing.
It would easy for me to say move to Nyc or California , But you guys have a Child . And have a great support system in Florida . Make sure you check in with your Son . And see how he feels about what going on .
I really don't blame ya'll go where you're welcome and appreciated!! I used to go to Florida for summer vaca will NOT go back and spend one dime in that state!! It's just pure Hatred and racism & HATE NEVER WINS!!
The passing of those bills by that governor in Florida and the others is not about protecting others coming up but rather to oppress the ones that are coming up that are more accepting of it and the ones that we'll be out in a part of it. Everybody need to just hunker down and fight this, and most of all vote that crazy governor out of office, but most important do not allow Florida and these bills to intimidate you and force you to run somewhere else.
As a lifelong Floridian it saddens me to see you leave. I love Florida too much to ever leave it because of Politics. This idiot of a Governor will be gone in a few years and he can't run again. This is why I Vote in every Election since I was eligible. I wish that you would stay and help fight against these radicals trying to destroy our beautiful State with their craziness! Florida if you go by Registered Voters is not a deep RED state but a Purple one. I truly wish you the best no matter what you decide to do. ❤🩹
I’m just lost for words at this point I’ve been living in Alabama since I was five even younger than that. I’m originally from South Carolina. I’m just in overall disbelief and I know in my bones, my heart, my soul that these laws are coming hell some of them already passed in Alabama yeah it’s time to move I say California, New Jersey, New York, Washington state, Oregon,Maine Because South Carolina and Alabama I feel like they gonna be right behind Florida and Texas, Tennessee and Mississippi, and Louisiana and Georgia too and any other high-powered Republican states as well
First of all let me say that I love u guys like family. Your videos are entertaining and informative. What Florida is doing is a damn shame. You can not tell a person who they can fall in love with. And Florida needs to stop jumping on the LGBT community. I am glad that I live in Baltimore,Maryland where we do not have these outragous laws. Move to Baltimore my sons qe woujd love to have you!
Thanks for the suggestion! We literally took a trip to the DMV two weeks after this and really enjoyed our time there. Was the first place we visited that felt like somewhere we could envision ourselves in the future. So you may be on to something here!
Guys, you have to organize and vote in every election. City, local, state, county, and federal. This is how they got there. You can't only vote in general elections. By then, the horse has already run out the barn and is causing traffic mayhan on the streets.
This just confirms how important it is to get out and vote and get these extremist out of office! Not just in Florida, not just regarding the lgbt community, but for all communities that are being impacted. This has gotten absolutely ridiculous! People please get out and vote every chance you can!!! Love you guys ❤
Exactly! Vote as if your life depends on it, because it does!!
Yep
I was born and raise in Florida. Over 30 years living in Florida. My entire family live in Florida. I got tired of the discrimination. I got tired of being one of the best and hardest worker but yet paid less than my white coworker. So I made a decision to leave Florida in search for better opportunities. I applied to a number of jobs out of state. The company I liked relocated me to Alabama. At that point-A voice in my head said, "You will never move back to Florida". That was kinda strange b/c I did in fact miss my family and I miss living in Florida. Within 1 year of living in Alabama, the company relocated me to LA for a new opportunity. I have been living in LA since. Yes, the housing and taxes are higher but Floridas cost of living is now damn near close to California. It's scary moving to a new state but experience is memorable. At this point-I will not move back to Florida. You and your family is welcome in LA.
Bruh, Cali is hemorrhaging residents to Florida and Texas and other conservative states. Unaddressed crime is OUTRAGEOUS in LA. You jumped out of the frying pan and into the damn fire, moving to Cali. L.A. in particular.
This is such a brave and powerful video. Thank you both for your "rant". We as a community have to speak up and shed light on the evil and hate being propagated in your state. I felt great sadness watching the hurt and disappointment on the faces of two such beautiful people. When Brian spoke of the fear in his heart for Alec making a simple two minute drive to Walmart it brought tears to my eyes. Stay strong. You guys are loved by more people than you even know. Keep spreading your love and kindness. Together as a community we will get through this. While in the storm, it is sometimes hard to remember the night is darkest just before dawn. ❤️🌈
The NAACP issued a travel advisory today (5/21) against traveling to Florida, what a shame, they won’t win. Fight. #Vote
We need to all work at getting people to register and vote next election. Together, we can make a difference. It’s going to take a joint effort….
Definitely agree with this! Voting is the way and next election season we definitely will be trying to motion people as best we can.
People will look at what’s going on in your state and think it does t have an effect on them. But like you said, it’s not over. He’s on a roll and the only way to stop him is vote him out. Texas missed our chance. Now we’re suffering…
Part of the reason this is happening is because Democrats didn't bother to Vote in the last Election. Over a Million+ Registered Democrats did NOT VOTE last November! They didn't like Charlie Crist as a choice so they didn't bother and now we are seeing the consequences of that.
After hearing about all the charges in Florida's legislation you two were the first to come to mind and how you would be affected .
I pray that God is going to lead you to make the right decision for your selves and your family. ❤❤
Thank you all so much for the conversations that you all have and for being so vulnerable. It hard sometimes to think about the burdens we must carry. You all are amazing and great thing will happen for you all and protection will always be around you!
First of all, you two make a beautiful couple.
My teenage years I lived in Sabal Park, Longwood, Orlando, Florida.
When I decided to have a child, I decided to move out of Orlando. My husband and I are a same sex , happily married couple,and we have a son.
I found Orlando to be dangerous, as the laws are quite dangerous. My husband, and I encountered some challenges that I still can’t believe we had to live through. However , it’s an beautiful city, but I really didn’t realize the mentality, and how the laws are set up against you.The mentality is from the past, we are a mixed race, gay couple, we encountered so many laws against us. We just wanted to live our lives, and keep to ourselves, but the laws were always in our business . I found myself realizing we were not equal. We’ve moved to a state that we love. Where our sexuality is not questioned, us being parents is not an issue, being a gay couple, nor the color of our skin. None lof these things are an issue.
You should not have to worry about what happens if you get pulled over, or what happens if one of you gets sick, or what happens if you live in a neighborhood and your neighbor does not like you because you’re a gay couple. If you have a moment, please get in touch with us. There is so much I’d love to share with you that you need to know about the state you live in, as well as there are other wonderful places to live in this country that you will not have the same challenges. Please, know no state is perfect. However, there are certain challenges that you should not have to encounter. From our family to yours we’re sending you love and happiness. Once again, please take a moment and get in touch with us. We have some very important information for you, as my husband and I are both working professionals. I am the American citizen working for a very major international airline, and my husband is the immigrant that now works at one of the biggest banks in the United States. We look forward to speaking with you.
Adam, Maxime, and Lorenzo
Thanks for this video. I didn’t know all this was going on. Those laws are so wrong. I hope they don’t go through with those laws. It’s so sad that people have to go through this.
Wow, Guys this video was sobering . You are so right about the hateful laws that are being passed not only in Florida, but other states. I live in Connecticut just outside of NYC. Connecticut is a VERY BLUE State. I am proud to say, it is VERY LGBTQ friendly. The school system is good. The weather is diferent that what you are accustomed to, we have four seasons. Taxes are high, but that is why we have so many great services for families, children, and great medical coverge as well. I will always keep you and your son in my prayers. Please let me know if you need any further info on this area of the country. :)
You all do the right thing. Congratulations babies
A tough, but necessary video to watch. Thank you for sharing this video because as someone who typically avoids all news related to Florida, because it’s very triggering I appreciate all the information and facts that you shared in the video!
What an unexpected turn of events. Thanks for sharing the up dates with us.what is happening is unbelievable. CONTINUE to stay safe and always pray 🙏 you guys can move to NEW YORK. After every storm there's a calm.much love ❤️ 💜
Hey fam. I'm watching this from South Africa, and I believed the situation in African countries was the worst. Turns out life fucks us all. But I like what Brian said, basically alluding to the fact that we are not going anywhere, so since they are never gonna get rid of us, they are gonna have to make some provision at some point. Love and light gang❤❤❤
That's because the lgb peoples are trying to take over the world and acts like it's all about them children are too young to be learning about it they are confusing a child let them grow up and be children and stop throwing that in there faces let them breath and have fun if that your life style fine but don't try to throw it children face like I said god made Adam and Eve those laws are going to be passing in different states soon it's only a matter of time before god take over the madness that going on all over the world.
Hey Family…. I moved here in 2023 from New York and it has been hell. The changes are unbelievable. I felt so free in New York. It’s cold as hell there but I think it’s time to return home.
Honestly didn't think that this would be reality in 2023.... Thanks so much for sharing guys and I sincerely hope you're able to find a safe space
You guys are stressing me out :( but I appreciate you guys bringing these topics up. I am currently waiting for my partners K1 Visa to be approved. We have been waiting since October 2022 and sadly we have a long way to go. I just hope things don't get worse for our community and these immigration laws. Btw, I'm in Texas
We’re sorry Elio! You know our intent isn’t to make you worry at all. We always just try to keep people informed through our lives experience where we can. In regards to your K1 visa, we hope everything goes as quickly and smoothly as possible. We heard that delays shouldn’t be as extensive when we did ours so hopefully you hear from them very soon! Any questions you have with that you are free to ask too and we will try and help where we can. We really are hopeful as well!
@@MeetTheMazelins I appreciate all you guys do and how open you are about share your love and experience. As far as the K1 visa estimated wait times today, they estimate around 16.5 months. I am hopeful that by the end of the year it would have been around 14 months and that we will have some news. As you know USCIS is terrible at updating people in the process but we remain hopeful.
Send you guys moral support. Be yourself no matter what, then stay healthy and happy.
So depressing. As Brian says, all of our progress is in the process of being taken away and has reverted 10 steps back. I don't know that it's safe in any of the southern states. Perhaps the west coast, northern central, or northeast states may be better choices for relocation. I wish you well in whatever move you guys make. Sorry that this will affect BJ as well, but ultimately, he needs to be in a more welcoming and safe environment. My best to the 3 of you. 🙏💟
It really is. And what makes it worse is that most options that are viable are seemingly much more expensive or doesn’t work out with Brian’s current job. But we will have to see what can be done!
I’m so sorry about this mess😟. Much much love and I hope a solution comes quickly for you all and others.❤❤❤❤
My heart goes out to yall. You are right about texas, i live in houston, its rough out here and im a straight female so i know it would be hard for yall. I just worry if yall move and face this same thing in another state.
It hurt me when bryan said hes not comfortable, that was so sad to hear.....i wish i could help yall, but i can ask God to keep yall covered, keep yall protected and safe! This whole video had me in tears! I love you guys! Yall are beautiful! Literally yall are💜💜💜!!!!! Stay safe and be careful. Reach out if you need anything!!!!
#heartbroken💔💔💔💔💔
Words cannot express how much I appreciate you guys having this conversation. I can concour with your views. What is happening in Florida and soon texas then which ever state next is out right disgusting. I am jamaican and straight but trust me Alec I KNOW how you and Brian feels. Never liked Florida and now I HATE there even more, not even a vacation I would take there. New York is horrible but I would much rather be here. I am so sadden that you guys have to be considering leaving you home. I wish I had suggestions about where to go, but this is a hard one.
We here in North Carolina are experiencing the same issues with bills and laws being presented/up for vote in regards to drag/trans/ and lgbtqia+ . It is so sad that in 2023, we have taken so many steps forward, to then take leaps and bounds back. And it amazes me how someone can get upset about what someone else decides to do in their home, with the kids and family - and then feel the right to make a blanket decision on how to rule other adult lives.
Florida is in full dictatorship, no longer creeping. I have been so worried and you two, your friends and BJ because of all the craziness of DeSantis. I am sure the Governor has family members that are gay, imagine what they are thinking about him. Brian and Alex he is forgetting that his ancestors were also illegal immigrants when they arrived in America. Tomatoes have already started rottening in the fields, construction workers have left their jobs, he is also attacking Disney, it's the State of Florida and it's citizens that are suffering. How sad. Sending love ❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏
Thank you for this information, I pray over your family
I’ve been aware, somewhat, of what’s going on in Fl. This brings it to life and is very depressing. No, you don’t want to move to Texas. Our people of authority drank from the same tainted fountain… I’m praying for God’s intervention. You shouldn’t be forced to leave your home. Stay safe. Love to you both. ❤❤❤❤
Thanks so much for the reassurance Sally. Damn, it really is sad. Kind of feel like we're in a hole looking up but not sure how to get out of it. If it isn't one thing it's another. And there are so many other factors to think about, from weather conditions, to cost of living. We appreciate you always supporting us! 💜
I stayed in my state because of these same exact problems. The county I stay in is predominantly a well controlled democratic space. Not saying that the Democrats are the better option but it’s been working so far for me and the individuals in our counties.
It's a sad, sad world we live in!! SMDH!!!! I've always said, every time I've been out of the country, I have been treated better than I'm treated in my own. Especially in Europe. I've never been judged on my race, sexuality or anything. I have always felt so free there.
This is chilling and a sad reminder of growing up in Jamaica. I agree that the possibilities of him becoming President is very real. We in NY is very aware of the implications of he does . Then this morning another issue with Target removing Pride merchandise ..pandora box has been open…
NY or CA. I love you guys and hate this is happening. I pray for both of you and that these bills will overturned. Keep the faith!!!🙏🙏🙏🙏
Thank y’all for sharing this and opening eyes today to what’s going on around us ..seen and unseen ‼️‼️💯💯💯🙏🏾🙏🏾
We are so glad you appreciate it!
Good afternoon Guys. Florida is so disgusting. It get cold in new Jersey,, so if you don't mind the cold ,we in New Jersey would welcome you with open
arms. We stand proud in New Jersey. Angela from Jersey
LOVE YOU ALL SOO MUCH. SENDING YOU LOTS OF LOVE ❤
It's hard seeing these changes coming in having grown up with Section 28 in Britain. It made it hard to accept ourselves growing up and it's still in us today. Although we don't believe all Floridians would agree with the changes we would worry about changing attitudes towards us in the future if we visited again. Thanks for the video and sharing your views.
Hey guys. Of course when I was your age coming out as gay would likely cost you your job. And I was in the military at the time so it also meant at least a dishonorable discharge, or even federal prison. I know you have a lot of considerations to weigh if you're opting to move, such as cost of living, gay friendly, Black friendly and even immigrant friendly. That's why I'm going to recommend Las Vegas. Yes, it is hot and dry. And although it's been a "red" state, it's changing in recent years. It's affordable and there is always employment opportunities. (BTW I don't live there, I'm just proving you with personal analysis). Also, I have lived in many states in my 68 years, and find it's easy to find the good in life no matter where you go.
We know how you feel to some degree being that I'm coming from a country where it really is the current reality. It's a shame though that things we thought were of the past are apparently still very much of the existing reality. We appreciate the suggestion and information to back it! It is definitely something we will have to put more thought into. Thanks Jon 🫶🏽💜
Sending lots of love your way, Alec and Brian! As someone who is also a same-gender loving man of color, this truly breaks my heart. I wish things could be much simpler for us all. I would suggest looking up LGBTQ friendly cities and go from there. It's great that you (Brian) get to travel for work and so you get to experience most cities during that time. Portland, Vegas and The DMV area would be a few good suggestions for ya! Vegas (tax free) btw! Wishing you all the best, of course I'll be watching and following your journey. Love your channel! Love you brothas!
New York city could of been great for you guys , we have 4 seasons . It's very diverse and full with people all over the world. There are no laws like the ones in Florida
Guys, only you can decide what is best for you but I think you have made a positive step forward by making and sharing this video. This could encourage others to demand change! I agree with many others about voting and becoming involved. I refuse to let anyone run me away from my home where I am happy because that is just what they want you to do. I say give it some time to see how things go. No matter where you go, there are going to be challenges..My advice to you is if you decide to move, decide on a place that feels right to you. Don't base it on what others say because whatever is right for them may not be the case for you. But whatever you decide, think it through. If enough people file legal actions in Florida over these laws, changes will come.
Gd day! Blessings to you and your families. Shame and truly discussed that we still are dealing with this type of behavior,as you said Brain we are not progressing at all WE ARE TAKING TWO STEPS FORWARDS AND THREE BACKWARDS just disgusting
You are right about Texas and Georgia.
And we see so many others in line to follow suit. So it really is such a difficult decision.
@MeetTheMazelins Yup, unfortunately so. The best way I think to look at it is to look at cities instead of the whole state. The only thing is that the best cities that are more open to immigrants and LGBT are also the most expensive ones in the country. Honestly, though, I believe everyone should have a plan to move to another country as things get more unfriendly towards people freedom.
Stay and vote and fight for your rights
My wife and I feel the exact same thing. She is from Trinidad and I want us to be safe. It’s very scary. We are in the process of her getting her visa we applied over a year ago but still waiting. I pray for you both. I pray for us all 😢🙏🏾
I’ve been worrying about you both (and your gay friends - and other LGBTQIA in FL and other states taking retrograde steps). I’m following the news as best I can from this side of the Atlantic with horror. How can the country that claims to lead the free world allow the dreadful things that are going on? Including the book banning (medieval for goodness sake) and withdrawal of women’s rights to choose. De Santos seems vile, but there are so many people who empower and encourage him. And they call themselves Christian! Not the Christ I’ve read about and still - atheist that I am - still revere in terms of his radical teachings. Stay safe. Do what you have to do to keep safe for you, BJ and everyone you love. 🥰🥰😘😘😘
We appreciate that Dugald. It really is baffling that for such a “progressive” nation that we are moving in this direction. We definitely will do the best we can to stay safe! Thanks for the love and support 🙏🏽
That is all kinds of crazy. This video guys are superb important and I do hope everyone that is gay or just all minorities sees this. Truly we all have to get up and vote when the time comes.
On the other hand guys. New York welcomes you. Stay strong and keep posting.
Its so crazy this now has given me so much to think about. Because im scheduled to move to Florida this week. My bf lives in Georgia and we we talked about heading to Texas in the future. 😮 So this is really not good at all. Im glad yoi guys are using this platform to talk about this. Im praying for our country. Hate is real and its not cute. Some Things have changed in our country for the good and for the bad..... But we took so many steps forward on many levels just for use to take many steps backwards. 😧😡🤨😔
Yes, I agree with your conversation 😢. My legally immigrated husband has been in The Bronx visiting family this spring. I'm constantly worried that some crazy Karen 🤪 will cause him distress, and I won't be there to intervene. We can apply for his citizenship in August 2023. Literally, I already have the paperwork completed and am waiting to send it. These are difficult 😕 times. I keep reminding myself that "God is Love ❤" and fortunately, God is still in control 🙏🏿.
If we were going to move anywhere down south, we would consider the suburbs of New Orleans. We spend weeks down there each summer for the last three years. Gilbert says that parts of the city of New Orleans remind him of being home in The Caribbean. Plus, he could garden year round there and not have to winter prep our soil 😮. Whatever that means 😂.
Happy House Happy Spouse 😀. I bet at some point we will end up NOLA 😉 🎉.
Hello guys! The situation in Florida takes me back to the days of Anita Bryant, a former beauty queen during the 70's whose platform was to rid, not only Florida, but the entire nation of the LGBT plus community. It would appear that the basic civil rights that so many people have fought and literally died for are on the verge of being dismantled! The only tool that we have now at our disposal is the ability to vote. This is not simply hyperbolic, but truly a matter of life and death! As for you contemplating relocating to another state, Brian, if we collectively fail to do what is necessary to prevent either of these "characters" from getting into office, we run the risk of Florida's legislation becoming nationwide. Heaven forbid this occurring!
I would love to hear your thoughts about TN. My husband and I are experiencing some of the same concerns.
I feel for you but you need to be safe and Florida will not give you that. We sold are home is Florida last year because I did not like the direction the governor was taking Florida in. So we left and I wouldn't go back there for any reason!!!! I will not pay taxes in a state I don't feel safe in. I am a person of color so I much happier not living there and I won't vacation there ever!!!
That’s really such a sad reality that we also have to consider Rose. Thanks for sharing 🙏🏽
love u guys so much ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
Thank you Alan! Sending love your way too 💜
Same here.
I couldn’t personally live in a state where hate is literally being turned into law. I would move to a way more tolerant and excepting state like California or New York
Maybe you should try New York. Trust me the 31:24 weather isn’t as good as it is in Florida, but the laws are different.
My boyfriend and I have been together now for four years and three weeks and we were thinking about getting married and moving to Florida but watching this video together. I don’t think Florida is the place for us.
You are Sickening period!! Gods got you! Stand by!
Come to NY or NJ...Am in a state of hurt of what's happening in Fl😢.This is sickening...Ik it will not stand.Things will change FL can't keep this up at all..
I really can't believe all that is happening, it really does seem unreal. When it comes to uprooting, I know it's the hardest thing to do however you have to do what you have to do. I'm in Oklahoma but they may be headed in the same direction. It's not here yet but who knows. Kids are resilient and understand a lot more than some give them credit for, I bet if you sit him down he'll be on board because he wants the best for you and he knows you wouldn't just put him in a situation.
It really does. You know years from now when we talk to generations after us about all we experienced in our lifetime it's going to make for a hell of a story. But in present day that's really not the concerns we want to be battling. Yes, it's funny how childhood innocence really does make the clarity of a young person sometimes so much more beautiful than dealing with other adults.
Stay safe guys we love you what ever you thinking of doing ,just know your safety comes first 3 of you stay safe🇿🇦🇿🇦
BRIAN & ALEC… thank you so much for always sharing good times and things that people need to be aware❤❤❤❤…This is not just going to go away. It’s time to stop falling for the Large companies celebrating PRIDE; they don’t care about PRIDE they care about your dollar and MOST companies are only tolerating LGTBQ+ not genuinely accepting. WE have to think smarter there are to many brilliant people of color to be thinking you are untouchable just because WalMart/Target/etc sell PRIDE paraphernalia. Less we forget we are BLACK and who you think will be held to the fire first definitely not our non-melanin folks. Stop letting the “machine” create our narratives, such as picking one particular LGTBQ+ REP to speak for us all, those handpicked celebrities don’t speak for everyone’s experiences. Back to the subject; you have to take care of yourself and that starts with getting out and voting instead of gearing up for PRIDE or partying… Take care of the business then party… its not that hard but for some reason we forego our security and freedom to attend a concert… you have to open your eyes and see what’s MORE Important. Only GOD can save us and protect and even if you don’t belong to a church you need a relationship with God He will take care of you, but we have an obligation to help ourselves as well. To often we take for granite the murders and the sacrifice those before gave just so we can drink out of a water fountain not labeled COLORED… but we ignore that because “the man” has told you that was in the past and you should forget about it; no you shouldn’t forget about it because it still exists… TS MADISON forewarned people that its gonna start with the gays then the black and unfortunately our own blacks don’t support the black gays and it has begun and we are in the middle of it … what affects one will ultimately affects us all. So you need to make a decision as a great of a entertainer Beyoncé is she can’t save you remember she is an entertainer and that’s her job and she does it well… but you don’t live with her or any other celebrity. Serious household decisions need to be made for your future. We’ve done enough talking about its been time to be about it. Get up and do something! A body at rest stays at rest and ultimately will perish because there’s no activity. Don’t perish I need everyone to survive, but you gotta take care of your business and worry about celebrating later after you solidified safety/security for you and your loved one. Lastly you’re focused on your pronouns you can identify as a broom or a mop but don’t you dare forget you are a HUMAN BEING 1ST, BLACK, and all the rest is for paperwork purposes. Again thank you Brian & Alec for sharing truths and sharing your life May God continue to keep and bless you both and all of your family and all of your followers ❤
We have to get out and vote!!!
100% stan this!
Came across this commentary. Catching the replay. Where does the LGBTQ+ORGANIZATION, stand on all that is going on in this country. I hadn't heard nor seen anything whatsoever from them about this situation 🤔 Pray, Keep the Faith. "Trust in the Lord with all thine heart and lean not unto thine own understanding, but in all thy ways acknowledge him and he will direct thy path ". Put your faith and trust in God, not in man . BLESSINGS , PEACE AND MUCH LOVE 🙏✌️💞
I'm from the Netherlands and live in Chicago with my American husband. I watch the news here and am horrified by the persecution of people here by the Republican party. You're a beautiful couple....stay strong!❤
Often times the majority sit back because they think the minority won't reach to the top. So vote like your life depends on it and vote for your close friends and family.
This hurt my heart and honestly I’m actually moving from Louisiana bc we’re going through the same here so for me I’m considering Chicago or LA 🤦🏾♂️
Hey guys I understand being gay white and married to a black man in Texas it's not as bad as Florida yet but it's headed that way when you find a safe place to live Post-it please love watching y'all
You both are welcome to come move to the DMV to live. I heard about Florida laws which they suck. Please move forget FL, they dont deserve your family. FL, want to exclude you out. Come 2 DMV is great. ❤❤
I am a hetero black and an immigrant. This is really interesting, as just today I had a family member call me from another state ask what the heck is going on in Florida. We have lived here since 2000, and the governors of Florida were all republicans. And they never came out with the way desantis is. I want to say that his replacement won’t be as bad as him but I don’t know ? I think it’s too soon to move but I don’t know ?
Go where you're ACCEPTED
And NOT where you are just tolerated and not wanted.
San Fran, NYC, DC, San Juan.... Palm Spring, San Diego.....
Oh my goodness!!!!! This is unbelievable!
It really Is Ijah
Just because some people do not like or do not understand something does not mean that that which they dislike should be removed. Growing up in the 1950s I was taught that there are all kinds of people in the world and have the right to live as they want. These simpletons think that they should destroy those who are different because they do not like them, such behavior appears to be childish .
News. Sorry to hear of your problems. I just read the the new mayor elect of Jacksonville defeated the Republican so could this be a positive sign for you two beautiful people
Listen I'm not from America but everytime I hear something about Florida it be some bs
💞 U 2. These laws are out to get a lot of people. We the people need to vote and our voices should matter
Desantis must no longer be Governor for these bills to be overturn . People who are heterosexual can also be affected in some way . There must be protestation for what Desantis is doing to Florida 😣
Thank you so much for sharing this. As someone who has lived in Florida but no longer there, I think about what is the LGBTQ community doing to oppose the legislation and discrimination. People need to vote. 900K plus voters in Florida did not vote in the last election..its sad. We have the right to vote. Its the only way these legislators will listen..when we vote them out of office!
That really is the key right there. To get and make the change where it matter most. Exercising the right to make our voice heard!
1. If you move, don't move to Atlanta. It's played out.
2. This is y democrats and Independents need to run for State legislative offices. Republicans have done a great job creating super majorities in these bodies... especially in da South.
3. I would wait and see for the moment. DeSantis has picked a fight with Disney...so he will end up bottoming for Goofy, Mickey and Iger.😅😅
Yeah we had spoken about Atlanta early on but it was quickly taken off the list lol. Clearly a different strategy is needed for real, let's hope we see them put some of these things in place for the new election. Haha that imagery though! We really do hope this stop soon though.
Continue to live and voice your truth
I don't live in the US but I've heard about the current situation especially in Florida. Sending you ❤ from Germany. It's sad that homophobia is on the rise again. It's happening everywhere. But I believe it will get better again. Stay strong everyone ❤
Thank you Dominic. We hope it resolves itself soon enough. Hoping that you too keep safe as we know things in this world can change at the drop of a hat. Much love 💜
WOW 😳 interesting video today. I don't live in the USA but it was informative, i think people should be allowed to live a life that best suits them n be comfortable wherever, bringing up a child in the union u guys are in is already hard in society n for them to make it so much more difficult is sad. But thank God u already have the support and acceptance from BJ and his little society. Now he can't even say or speak of his family in school or elsewhere that isn't something a child should have to deal with. I pray that you guys find somewhere that is comfortable and accepting of ur love life n family.❤ Blessings
Living in Florida as well, I've been very concerned about whether I'd like to stay or not. I moved here in 2009 to be with my partner, and we've been doing fine until "He who must not be named" took office. My partner was born and raised here, and most of his family is here, who I love and who love me to death. This makes it hard for either of us to just uproot. He doesn't seem as concerned with needing to leave, unless he's just holding it in to keep me calm (I suffer from anxiety). However, if things continue to go backwards, it's a serious conversation we'll have to have. We can always come visit family.
Actually, it would be nice to live somewhere new or maybe where I've lived before. I have family & friends in Georgia (where I moved from to be here) and North Carolina (born and raised). However, those 2 options are risky as well, as NC has been trying to pass some similar laws, which some I believe were overturned or are waiting on appeals. I have the same concerns about Texas as you, though I have friends in Dallas and Houston I worry about. I don't think I could take the heat there either, even though I've dealt with this humid heat here for so long....lol
I've actually looked into possibly moving to Canada and what the immigration process would be to move there. The main concern about that is the climate. Neither one of us do cold that well (I fare better...lol), but I think Vancouver would be perfect in terms of temps. As far as the US, California would likely be #1, perhaps San Diego or San Francisco, though cost of living is much higher. Seattle could be doable. As far as the East coast, NY would likely top that list, maybe Maryland or DC, but those options come with the cold.
Yes, we have seen where since Florida has gone through with some of these laws that it seemed to just start the conversation for other states as well. It is worrying times for those in our community. However, we have always been a resilient set of people, and I trust that we won't take this sitting down. We have faith that the greater good will prevail eventually, even though the journey will not be easy. We're so sorry to hear that you feel uncomfortable in your own home, know that you have company and community in us! Praying for us all 🙏🏽. Sending love and positivity your way 🫶🏽💜
Florida is like Mississippi to me, you couldn't pay me to live in either of these evil racists states... this should encourage everyone to get out and vote, when we vote, things change... thank you for sharing.
We are going backward instead of forward! that is so sad.
It really is André, it really is.
It would easy for me to say move to Nyc or California , But you guys have a Child . And have a great support system in Florida . Make sure you check in with your Son . And see how he feels about what going on .
I really don't blame ya'll go where you're welcome and appreciated!! I used to go to Florida for summer vaca will NOT go back and spend one dime in that state!! It's just pure Hatred and racism & HATE NEVER WINS!!
Thanks for sharing.God s good🙏🏽❤️👍🏿
Alec is so wise and intelligent, I love you both.❤
The passing of those bills by that governor in Florida and the others is not about protecting others coming up but rather to oppress the ones that are coming up that are more accepting of it and the ones that we'll be out in a part of it. Everybody need to just hunker down and fight this, and most of all vote that crazy governor out of office, but most important do not allow Florida and these bills to intimidate you and force you to run somewhere else.
As a lifelong Floridian it saddens me to see you leave. I love Florida too much to ever leave it because of Politics. This idiot of a Governor will be gone in a few years and he can't run again. This is why I Vote in every Election since I was eligible. I wish that you would stay and help fight against these radicals trying to destroy our beautiful State with their craziness! Florida if you go by Registered Voters is not a deep RED state but a Purple one. I truly wish you the best no matter what you decide to do. ❤🩹
I’m just lost for words at this point I’ve been living in Alabama since I was five even younger than that. I’m originally from South Carolina. I’m just in overall disbelief and I know in my bones, my heart, my soul that these laws are coming hell some of them already passed in Alabama yeah it’s time to move
I say California, New Jersey, New York, Washington state, Oregon,Maine
Because South Carolina and Alabama I feel like they gonna be right behind Florida and Texas, Tennessee and Mississippi, and Louisiana and Georgia too and any other high-powered Republican states as well
Y'all be careful and stay bless ❤❤
It's time to go to California ❤
First of all let me say that I love u guys like family. Your videos are entertaining and informative. What Florida is doing is a damn shame. You can not tell a person who they can fall in love with. And Florida needs to stop jumping on the LGBT community. I am glad that I live in Baltimore,Maryland where we do not have these outragous laws. Move to Baltimore my sons qe woujd love to have you!
I suggest The DMV Area, living in the southern MD area is wonderful and welcoming.
Thanks for the suggestion! We literally took a trip to the DMV two weeks after this and really enjoyed our time there. Was the first place we visited that felt like somewhere we could envision ourselves in the future. So you may be on to something here!
Good morning guys just uses wisdom In whatsoever you do Everything Will take care of
Sending love to you all. ❤
Thank you guys. We appreciate the support! 💜
Massachusetts, New York, Connecticut
This is craziness...one reason I'll never move back to Florida...keeping your family in prayers
Our church had to support a family of five for a whole year because they could not get a work permit for a whole year!
Thanks for the info. The fact of the matter is who you vote in is not necessarily who represents you. They change once there.
This is an extreme violation of your first amendment rights not being able to do school projects with your kids is absolutely ridiculous
🤍🤍🤍 Suggestions: California, Nevada, Hawaii
Guys, you have to organize and vote in every election. City, local, state, county, and federal. This is how they got there. You can't only vote in general elections. By then, the horse has already run out the barn and is causing traffic mayhan on the streets.