Sista Says BW Fear Wearing Their Natural Hair To Special Events Because Other BW Will Clown Them
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- Опубліковано 5 лип 2024
- There's nothing wrong with the hair that naturally grows out of our heads as Black people. Anyone clowning you for that is lost and a self-hater. We need to embrace every part of our essence.
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It's 100% black people's responsibility to love and value themselves...it's no one's responsibility to make black people value and love and appreciate themselves ....
Words of Truth And Knowledge. I'm glad Someone ,calling this Bullshit Out.!!!!!!
@@TheTyperboi I bet you work at one of them Arab stores and I'm sure you are not a melanated person, but if you are you stupid. It's time for us to wake up some of us are so I just want to let you know about the bullshit!!!!! that's coming out your mouth, and yeah you try to have a bad day okay.😂😂😂💪💪 I won't respond back
Stop saying black people black men aren’t altering our appearance . Black women need r fix their self hatred issues
THANK YOU... AGREED.
Word been rocking my locs for 24 years gotten my compliments on my hair than any other time in my life keeping 💯!❤
When people still care about what complete strangers think and say that means that their middle school & high school experiences never left their mindsets!
True, but in all fairness, a lot of people stop maturing around high school, especially if they peaked during that time.
that says all I need to know! 😂😂😂😂😂 Al Bundy Syndrome is real!
@@joemomma3208Al Bundy syndrome 😅😅
That mindset came from their mothers.
it’s a feminine mindset!
And that dark skinned woman in the video is gorgeous
I strongly agree
Absolutely a beauty
Especially in her natural hair
@uncannytheos2454 Ikr. It represents their own uniqueness
Yes she is!!!
Look at the Black women in the 60's and 70's. What happened?
I agree
The crackhead, greed is good, rap video, 80’s.
We’re still here and this 74 year old has worn my natural hair in every decade even the ones where I rocked my relaxer for parts of those decades.
@thewanderer6388 Black women became WS.
@@aprilclover2429 Do you ever take accountability for anything in your life?
When i see a black woman comfortable with her own hair it just exudes confidence.
You must be selling something?
My daughter's friend wore her natural hair to school one day and weave wearing female students made fun of her. Smh
Natural beauty is the best beauty
I said it before and will say it again, black wearing wigs, lashes, getting them BBLs, and etc is all to compete with other black women OR to get the approval of other black women or to fit in with other black women. Thats why I stopped trying to befriend them.
No it's not.
100 % and 50% 50%
Rock your natural hair sisters! 💪🏽🤎💯
They have to have it to do so
@@moneychaser2430 Who told you they don`t have it?! Unless you have alopecia, then you have hair. Stop being spiteful. Its unbecoming. 😏🙄
@keturaequalizer Mix race doesn't count sista! 😂
No one gets to tell black women how they can wear their hair. Period.
@@Novem3ber11 Nope! Our natural hair is the best! I live in scandinabia and you should see how the white women are in awe when I rock my natural hair. They can`t get enough of of it. And the white men just druel. 😛😝
I always noticed its the women who really be having hatred and envy lol
It is and they know but can never responsibility for being that way. Look at what they said about Gabby Douglas, Simone Biles etc.
Its the women that are the haters 💯 of other women.
They will clown them for real. Just like they did to the gymnastic medalist Gabbi Douglas during the Olympics. It was shameful. They need to cut that behaviour out and get some self-worth.
They did the same to Simone biles
NATURAL HAIR is the ONLY WAY TO GO...!!!!!
I recall how women (some) criticized Gabby Douglas. Some women made harsh comments about her hair.
And Gabby was only 16 at the time.
I got teased at my 4c hair in high school; then I went through my weave faze ; now I’m wearing my natural hair; most men like it !
I've been natural 3 times and I couldn't do a thing with it and it was extremely hard to comb through.
black men love natural hair thats all that should matter
Usually when blk men say they love “natural” they mean cancer causing relaxed hair
Right on! We sure do.
Lol😂
Some do... Not all. So it's dishonest to say "black men."
@@LoneRanger-et7gq Yall some weirdos then 🤷🏾♂️
I always get compliments on my skin and my natural hair
It was frowned upon in a professional work place and now with the most recent laws that passed regarding natural hair being accepted is why we are seeing more women with natural hair with women.
Should have been building your own work places instead of waiting on your enemy to approve of your hair so you can stay as their wage slave.
F them and their "acceptance".
Naturally, is the only way I go for my beautiful black ladies ❤❤❤
Where?
That's your choice.
@@Novem3ber11 Women who aren't natural aren't beautiful.
That’s really sad. I’ve actually received encouragement and compliments from every race and gender and I have 4C hair.
I'm a bm and I have ALWAYS loved seeing bw wearing their natural hair.
So one finally tells the truth and admits black men aren’t the problem with natural hair? We’ve been saying this for years. Most black men want natural hair in melanated women.
Bw just like to make excuses because of self hatred
💯
To be honest many BW are jealous of white and non BW. I’m speaking from experience bc I used to date one.
Last time I said I didn’t like weave I was called gay.
Don’t care what they do now.
Usually when blk men say “natural” they mean cancer causing relaxed hair
As they should
Stop wearing Becky hair
No one wears yt hair because yt hair is usually stringy and thin. They want blk hair and most enjoy their hair. They just want more of it. Remember, our texture of hair was limited because the vendor’s catered to straighter hair. Sistas do good to say their men publicly says tgat foreign and yt women are better and live in a society that demonize their hair with no men to back them though. Other races of women couldnt do that.
100
It’s Asian and East Indian hair.
Their type of hair can handle all the abuse during processing.
@teemay967 That makes no sense I have the same hair lady, most bm embrace our natural hair why would we tear y'all down for being our reflection? Yes there were some bm like that but it wasn't a lot,yall let them ppl once again trick y'all just like they did with feminism. At some point y'all are going to have to admit you were played. Go back and look at pictures from the 70s when afros were the look now tell me how bm hated bw natural hair. We are literally a reflection of eachother
@@Floridabred….what you might be too young to know is that before INTEGRATION hit the Black Community, many mixed race families were also segregated. In other words, all black folks weren’t at the same picnic.
Folks will lie and state the opposite but l remember having to pretend l didn’t speak English so BW wouldn’t kick my azz because l was a lightskin sister with very long “wavy hair” and integrationist blacks said we were all the same. Nonmixed BM pursued us aggressively and sometimes it was scary…🐘🚪
One minute it's becasue raycism, the next is because it's difficult to manage but these 5 ft long weaves be trapped in doors half done..I love BW natural, one sista told me "na , I need my weaves" after complimenting her afro
It can be more than one thing we aren't talking about just one person smh
This truly is The H8 that H8 created!
Never happened to me. Back then, it was called nappy. Now, it's called beautiful.
Natural nappy or kinky hair is also a pookie repellent .....
Men of substance dont mind your natural hair as long as you care for it , their good and more focused on the type of person you are
But pookies and Ray rays want the weave and ratchet look like segsy red
The sad part is a lot of times it was called nappy by our own 😔
@@jaklinhydefacts
@@jaklinhydethat's facts. The black community is the only community who put down each other and don't like to help each other be better.
That was over 50 years ago!
Self hate runs deep.
I wear mine everywhere. Crown Act isn't necessary.
Yes it is. For so many reasons!
Yes, it is. Imagine being sent home or not getting hired because of your natural hair.
The Crown act is needed, discrimination is still going on in reference to black hair.
Sistas wearing their natural hair, no lashes, with minimum makeup or none at all are so winning ❤
Where?
What does that prove?
Approved
Does a man without a nice haircut or dad belly win?
💯%❗Women like iamtiti9658, SoniaBarbieTucker and Misschiamaka_offorjebe.
As a black woman with natural hair, I understand where the sister is coming from, quite a lot of women dislike their hair. However, I wish black women would stop speaking on behalf of all of us. I absolutely adore my type 4a/b hair. Its beyond gorgeous and I wear it proudly. We definitely not a monolith.
Yall surely are a monolith when its against men 💯
But sister why is it that some bw dislike their hair? You are beautiful women! "Those folks" have persuaded some bw to think this way and it's awful. Stop buying into their lies.
@@alwaysblack2436She said women, not bw.
@@Novem3ber11 Yes, but I'm pretty sure she was talking about bw primarily. Who else wears other women's hair at an alarming rate like they do?
@alwaysblack2436 White women do it more than it's advertised. And it ain't other women's hair because black women's hair comes in different textures as well.
Here's what this biracial sister said about our hair and skin, we have a natural tan and our hair defy gravity, what's not to love!!!!
If i see 👀 a bw with a afro im like wow! They have no idea how much attention they would get!
BLACK COFFEE NO SUGAR NO CREAM!!!😍😍😍🤎🤎🤎
Now it’s about male attention???? I thought they didn’t care what we think….
Some people don’t know their hair in its natural state because of the generations of straightening combs to relaxers. The negative reactions to my natural hair came from nonblack coworkers and black boomers. I love my natural hair. ❤ Also, the crown act must be supported. Oddly enough there are still some professions that adhere to outdated standards of beauty and specifically black natural hair.
I heard a TV host or guest I can’t remember say she will never allow any lady with natural hair to attend her parties.
The problem is some of our ladies
This is the worst it is so sad. I did not know that because I love love love natural hair on us black women, especially the Afros. Looks like a halo around their face.
@Kiki-jx6by You knew. You rarely ever see a black woman wearing her natural hair.
I’m glad I was born in 1950 and was alive and wore an Afro when it was a badge of Black pride. I had my hair pressed and relaxed at certain times but I always went back to my natural hair.
Shout out to all my natural Queens Real recognize real
she is beautiful
You cant make fun of me with a MOP on your own head 😂
BM have made it obvious for the past 10 plus years that they like natural hair. It's getting to the point that it's clear that some of ya'll don't care what bm like.
🎯
Lol how
Provide examples of how bm "been making it clear for the past 10 years," and I can show the opposite... It's dishonest to speak for an entire group of men who have been instrumental in perpetuating the superiority of European beauty standards.
To thine own self be true!!!💯💯💯💯💯💯💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿😘😘🌹🌹
Other ethnicities talk about blk hair too, not just blk men
Thats all yall care about. The other ones.
@@rastahill748 This video isn't even about black men. She went straight to deflecting to black men.
I’m black and dating a Puerto Rican man. I asked him how he liked my hair when I wear it natural. I never worn a wig but I do straighten my natural hair once or twice a month. And he prefers my natural hair . I’m so thankful for that. 😊😊
Phill, you already told em amd showed em about the cancer perms but I guess let em find out..
Men support natural hair but that does not mean come out looking like you just got out of bed. Grooming and combing goes a long way.
Exactly
Men also need to groom their hair and appearance.
@@BuffyNoir140 Men too. Now you feel better? Most men DO.
I appreciate this video. Thank you💕
Love natural afro texture hair
I love my natural hair! I thank the Most High for every strand! HalleluYah!
Relaxed or being a natural at it. Being a natural woman is a gift from God. Thank him 4 it. He made no mistakes. 🪻🪮🥾🪞
A woman’s hair is her own business. Nobody, especially men should make comments about women’s hair. It does not affect you personally. Live in a manner that is respectful towards others, regardless of race, religion, and culture. Being diplomatic and polite should be the ultimate flex.
Exactly 💯. And it's only done with black women.
As a hairstylist, I approve this message. And it’s silk press Phil, not a hot comb anymore lol.
I've been rocking my natural hair since 2013 and locs since 2017. I have 4C hair and get compliments from all races. I could never go back to relaxers or weaves.
We have to finally admit, no one dislikes traditional black features - hair texture, complexion, noses - more than BW.
They really can’t deny it.
The proof is permanently in videos and in the forums the past 15 years a more.
Couldn't agree more
As a black woman who does what she wants to her hair i will continue to do so with no fs given.
Exactly, me too.
We know. Keep showing your self-hate.
If you are asking which law it’s called the crown act
Baby, you're not talking about me! I was raised to be Black and Pride! Sad, so sad how young Black people's mindset is now. Uh-huh-huh! 😔😟
❤In Love with my natural hair❤I can where so many styles,❤ Its long and healthy straight or curly ❤ blessed
I went through that when I went natural. The elder women in my family were not thrilled but my uncle…. Had my back 200%…. He rocks!!! I will forever be natural and proud✊🏾
And if you wanna wear attached hair, then wear hair that is the same as your texture
Or wear it however u want too wtf
We can wear what we want . Period.
They love wearing other women's hair on their heads. That's nasty.
@@DievestorsNeverLearn The jealousy is a burning a hole through your asz.
@DievestorsNeverLearn Uh, so if you're aware of the different textures, than you can't say that we're using other women's hair. It's our decision, on what we wanna do with our different textures of hair and many hair choices, we have to choose from. What society needs to do, is stop hating on bw altogether. It's jealousy in a lot of ways, because black women look dang good in their hair extensions, makeup and lashes. When ww were the face of cosmetic surgery you didn't hear a peep. But because black women in fact, know how to look, everything under the sun is so called bad for the health. And at the end of the day, non of these folks will never get what they're gunning for. And that's to take bw out of their makeup, extensions and anything else that brings us glamor and edge.
They are very nasty, quick to call something "nappy" and imply that it needs something did to it. I've had more men tell me they liked my natural fro than women. Like to throw that backhanded compliment "is that really yours?".
Wooly hair with the fist ✊🏽 pick in the back 😂 Sistas wear your natural hair and let that vitamin D ☀️ hit your head
Men need to embrace black women natural hair.
That is the problem!
Wth ARE YOU talking about? Black women need to embrace their own dam hair! You don't see Black men with hair issues.
Lost my hair to chemotherapy from several reoccurrences,trying to get my natural hair to grow.Sisters out there,what can I use to get my growth going?? Respond please sisters❤
✊🏾Glad you're recovering! God bless you!💯
@@suzanneabner3008there are no magic products. Get your body healthy. Eat nutritious food high in protein. Drink a lot of water. Establish a consistent care routine, keeping your hair clean, conditioned and moisturized, and dont mess with it too much. Give your hair time to regrow.
I believe in natural hair.
I make my own hair care products, soaps, moisturizers and makeup. If I can’t eat it, it won’t be used.
Ok so it's black women judging themselves and not men being mean. Got it 👌
Been natural for 15 years 🤷🏽♀️
🖤👏🏽🖤👏🏽🖤👏🏽 Yes! I agree with you 💯 Phil. Put aaaaall them folks out of business. I grew up being taught that I had to have straight hair to be successful. Good thing about being middle age is getting to know and love yourself the way you're made. And yes! Let's promote the right kind of attention. I adore a man who loves my natural hair when I don't silk press it. Thank you for this one.
Natural hair can compete with a weave if it’s as long as a weave. Zazie Beetz in Deadpool 2 is a perfect example.
Im here rn at work, fully natural. Been natural all my life, been walking outside the house with my natural hair for decades. Wearing a straight wig to me in self h8ing and delusional.
That’s funny because everytime they need to justify doing or not doing something it’s always black men that are their issue. So it’s surprising she would go against the sisterhood.
Back in the day it was natural hair for man and woman.
Yep 💯 ive been telling black women for years that most brothas prefer the natural look when it comes to their hair
No they don't
Lets you know women do everything for another woman's approval
I rock my natural hair, wigs, weaves and whatever else style I feel like on that day lol. Mind ya business lol!!
I wonder how when the obsession with wigs and weaves and extensions really took off? 1990s?
Wigs been a thing in africa for centuries pick up a book
That’s crazy black women do not like to wear their natural hair because you worry about what somebody else is saying about you but black women take pride and wear somebody else hair
Listen, she has that type of hair she has around me, I'm approaching. All there is to it.
Don’t let the haters discourage you, my sistas. Wear your natural hair with confidence. 💜🙌🏿
Even Type 3 hair gets looked down on. Sometimes you get criticism for your natural hair by people in your own race. I wear my natural hair texture for life.
Becky runs Keisha.
How sad
I for one support natural hair 100%.
Thank god my mother taught me to love my curly/wavy hair because I'm mixed.😊
Nobody cares half breed
Same ❤❤❤
Because ur mixed lol let me guess it's nappy or zendaya hair lol
Ok, some BW don’t like natural hair but they can walk around with mops on their hair
I love my natural hair I have no problem wearing it anywhere and I don't care if you don't like it or not baby what you eat don't send me to the bathroom
Those hair stores are making a killing.
Black woman can either uplift you or break you down to the ground.
Put them out of business!
I get hit on more wearing my natural hair 😊
Be proud of who you are!!
Then Black Women need to learn to Stop Clowning each other.Encourage Themselves as a Collective to like,love and Appreciate Their Own Hair and Natural Beauty.
I agree with you 100 percent!
Natural hair ftw. I can't stand weave and wigs. Why would I want to date someone that has some else's hair on their head. Braids are an exception of course. At least it fits the look and is part of our history.
It's an accessory smh.
Wigs are apart of our history too smh
Who cares.
@@l.austin2371 Not wigs made out of women of other race's hair.
she's fine. good lawd
It’s the mothers and fathers job to make there daughters love there natural hair program there minds while their young
I don't know much about hair products, I do see tons of hair products at the supermarket and can only imagine how many processes and methods to alter ones hair.
I wear mine natural.
I do not think that is true unless the Black person has an immigrant background. Many black women now are wearing their natural hair.
I don't know when was the last time I seriously dated a woman that didn't have natural hair. It's a beautiful thing!
As my mother calls them "They Are a Lie And The Truth Is Not In Them"!!
Accountability Is a Real Thing With Them. So How Can You Trust It, Cause You Can't!!