There is a maturity crisis among women right now. Even women well into their 40s act like entitled little girls, and yet we are told they are the more mature sex. I cant blame any man for not wanting to marry
It’s like betting half of my assets at a casino in an open ended contract that extends over an infinite timeline saying I’m going to die before or after the bookie does but the bookie has full veto power over the bet and can cancel it and win your wager for any or no reason at all. Furthermore if you die before the bookie, she still wins your wager. Even furthermore if you lose your wager you have to pay the casino a monthly penalty for having been allowed to play in the casino.
I don't want to do to my kids what was done to me as a child. Divorce guts children. I felt hollow for years after that as a child. Not to mention the countless other, very real reasons not to trust a woman with your life, future and family. Especially when backed by a tyrannical state.
Hey, there were a couple of simps in there, plus the guy at 9:30 who got reamed and is asking for seconds saying who cares how risky it is just go for it
Untraditional women wanting traditional things isnt going to happen. And Women are hard wired to love men that dont love them. Getting married is the quickest way for her to fall out of love.
And traditional males asking working women for traditional. 🤷🏽♀️ seek your own like minded folks and you’ll be ok , but yea women know there’s nothing in it for them to be married except indentured servitude
The majority of these are people in the statistical minority of people in 'successful' marriages saying it cannot be that bad. Platitudes and talking down from a position of privilege.
That long ass explanation ending at the 30 minute mark- not a single mention of alimony lol Most men don't have issues with asset division but rather, needing to make continued payments to someone they are no longer in a relationship with. Especially for BS reasons like "needing to maintain the partner's standard of living they have become accustomed too" (I think that happened in Canada for common-law marriage)
That's one the main reasons for sure, the only way I've ever convinced women how fucked up alimony is, is by telling them the female equivalent of alimony would be like if after the divorce the judge told the woman that they have to have sex with their ex-husband once a week every week and have his children until they remarry, and they have a live in girlfriend that they will never marry.
Most marriages don’t end with Alimony lol 😂 and if she gave up her own ability to earn to work for free as a servant to you and kids then hell yea she deserves it
@@amazinggrace313 No, not if she was an abusive parent and a destructive member of the household. But she’ll get it anyways, it’s called entitlement and legal privilege.
99% of people will say its because of the unjust family laws, child support and alimony system. It shows that marriage just for a title and a golden parachute for the woman at the expense of the man. Why would any reasonable man accept that sort of risk?
@@amazinggrace313 I have a maid who comes by three times a month and is usually only here for 15 mins per visit because I keep my house clean by default. I spent my GI Bill on culinary school so I don't need a woman to cook. I do my laundry when I start to run out of stuff (I have A LOT of clothes), usually on a Saturday morning. Indentured servant? What exactly is a woman going to do if she's at home and all of this is in place already? What benefit is she providing me to make up for the cruises, trips to places she can't even point to on a map, and gifts she's getting?
I'm personally never getting married ( it's stupid in my eyes) nothing that I want in it. People say it has its ups. Maybe for them (most people like company I'm not one of them) so a long time lover seems annoying even in conversation ☠️ i don't think otherwise so deal with it or debate it (that's where I'm at)
10:01 someone deciding to fuck you up just because especially when this person was "the one" is far far worse than one of life's inconveniences. Talking about something stupid...
Because the marriage contract can’t make her respect you, honor you, or support you. But the marriage contract can take everything you have, and force you into financial subservience.
by his logic, he can go to his own path of hell all he wants. don't involve me on it. his entire beliefs is why he is divorced, yet he won't learn. in a sense, Tom Leykis (yes the talk show host telling men not to get married) married 4 times. he had to make the same mistake 4 times before finally learning. this guy may as well learn 4 times as he did.
13:56 if 50% of all car rides ended in an accident I wouldn’t drive a car. I get your point but there’s too much risk with too little reward in marriage
There is no reward (at least in the US). What are you getting if you marry the average American woman? Exclusivity? Sure, after 20+ men have already had her. Peace? Hell no, peace is *_boring,_* according to them. Only rancor keeps them calm, like smoke with bees.
I choose not to. Being tied down to one person can get boring if you guys know each other for a long time. No real rewards as a guy. Im just want sex and that's it. I dont care about the extra stuff. I tried being the gentleman but it has gotten me no where. So im in my toxic arc.
@@nickASK1 I apologise if my selection of words was rude, but maybe rephrasing the title would help, or perhaps the problem is me who spots enemies everywhere.
Ahh, the classics. Women arent looking at men and men acting like they are the ones doing the walking away from dating and marriage. Men are pathetic liars and it is hilarious.
I noticed. They seriously think women will miss being indentured servants and literally never having their needs met 🤷🏽♀️ we can’t fire them because they quit
18:33 as you woman you have the least skin in the game when it comes to marriage. Can’t give your perspective as much weight. I’m happy yall have a great marriage tho
This is comedy. Women have way more skin in the game than men. When married men become lazy entitled horrible partners who think they never have to raise children or do a domestic chore . You going to work is something we all do single or taken so miss me with that shit. Men are now experiencing women turning you down for life long misery because we can make our own money .
Why asking something so obvious? It's 2025, pointless and meaningless
Have you heard of undeadchronicXIV
@@lunard8690member of the warband I see
AVE Brother @@Profitglutton90
I mean who hasn't heard of him?
There is a maturity crisis among women right now. Even women well into their 40s act like entitled little girls, and yet we are told they are the more mature sex.
I cant blame any man for not wanting to marry
It’s like betting half of my assets at a casino in an open ended contract that extends over an infinite timeline saying I’m going to die before or after the bookie does but the bookie has full veto power over the bet and can cancel it and win your wager for any or no reason at all. Furthermore if you die before the bookie, she still wins your wager. Even furthermore if you lose your wager you have to pay the casino a monthly penalty for having been allowed to play in the casino.
I don't want to do to my kids what was done to me as a child. Divorce guts children. I felt hollow for years after that as a child. Not to mention the countless other, very real reasons not to trust a woman with your life, future and family. Especially when backed by a tyrannical state.
I wouldn't want to get married nowadays because then ill have to share joint custody of my PS5. Screw that!
No ps5 pro?
@riasgremory80 I'm not buying a console for 200 more dollars that does the exact same thing the original does.
Smart man, I lost my ps5 in my divorce smh
Notice how the only positive comments were from women😂😂😂
Hey, there were a couple of simps in there, plus the guy at 9:30 who got reamed and is asking for seconds saying who cares how risky it is just go for it
Untraditional women wanting traditional things isnt going to happen. And Women are hard wired to love men that dont love them. Getting married is the quickest way for her to fall out of love.
And traditional males asking working women for traditional. 🤷🏽♀️ seek your own like minded folks and you’ll be ok , but yea women know there’s nothing in it for them to be married except indentured servitude
I see a lot of risks.
I see only marginal reward.
Men are expected to keep the vows, even if she breaks them.
Name one reward.
Not worth it. The juice just aint worth the squeeze
The majority of these are people in the statistical minority of people in 'successful' marriages saying it cannot be that bad. Platitudes and talking down from a position of privilege.
That long ass explanation ending at the 30 minute mark- not a single mention of alimony lol Most men don't have issues with asset division but rather, needing to make continued payments to someone they are no longer in a relationship with. Especially for BS reasons like "needing to maintain the partner's standard of living they have become accustomed too" (I think that happened in Canada for common-law marriage)
That's one the main reasons for sure, the only way I've ever convinced women how fucked up alimony is, is by telling them the female equivalent of alimony would be like if after the divorce the judge told the woman that they have to have sex with their ex-husband once a week every week and have his children until they remarry, and they have a live in girlfriend that they will never marry.
Most marriages don’t end with Alimony lol 😂 and if she gave up her own ability to earn to work for free as a servant to you and kids then hell yea she deserves it
How many marriages end with the woman getting alimony? It can't be all divorces now.
@@amazinggrace313 No, not if she was an abusive parent and a destructive member of the household. But she’ll get it anyways, it’s called entitlement and legal privilege.
"contract that rewards one party for breaking it" gee i wonder what ever it could be?
Too risky, and it is meaningless at this point. Even with prenups. Those get thrown out and disregarded all the time.
99% of people will say its because of the unjust family laws, child support and alimony system. It shows that marriage just for a title and a golden parachute for the woman at the expense of the man. Why would any reasonable man accept that sort of risk?
Have you heard of undeadchronicXIV
@@lunard8690M.P.R hammerhand and undead chronic are the goats
Why would you expect an indentured servant as well ?
@@amazinggrace313 I have a maid who comes by three times a month and is usually only here for 15 mins per visit because I keep my house clean by default. I spent my GI Bill on culinary school so I don't need a woman to cook. I do my laundry when I start to run out of stuff (I have A LOT of clothes), usually on a Saturday morning. Indentured servant? What exactly is a woman going to do if she's at home and all of this is in place already? What benefit is she providing me to make up for the cruises, trips to places she can't even point to on a map, and gifts she's getting?
@ 15 minutes per visit and you pay for that? You could do it yourself! You’re lazy and stupid omg 😂
I can't even get a date at 25, marriage is impossible for me.
I'm personally never getting married ( it's stupid in my eyes) nothing that I want in it. People say it has its ups. Maybe for them (most people like company I'm not one of them) so a long time lover seems annoying even in conversation ☠️ i don't think otherwise so deal with it or debate it (that's where I'm at)
I’m with u on that one and I’m not just saying it either. I personally enjoy my freedom a lot and don’t want it wasted on a women who’s gonna ruin it
10:01 someone deciding to fuck you up just because especially when this person was "the one" is far far worse than one of life's inconveniences. Talking about something stupid...
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20:46-21:40
What a bunch of simps
Yep
Broke men don't see the downsides. 50% of nothing is.....?
Ive so many of my friends relationships fall quickly due to rushing and not liking the person later on, for me im just making my way through
Because the marriage contract can’t make her respect you, honor you, or support you.
But the marriage contract can take everything you have, and force you into financial subservience.
I just bought a house. I don't want to split it like a few friends that I have that had to sell their house.
Get rid of alimony and child support or marriage will continue to slowly go extinct.
Id disagree about the child support. That should exist up until the custody is 50/50.
@@kimjung-un8204 Most fathers end up having to pay money to the woman that stole his kids. I wouldn't pay a dime to someone who betrayed me like that.
@@theguybehindyou4762 so you would punish your kids for the actions of the mother? Got it
@@kimjung-un8204 You're assuming the children see a fraction of that money. Foolish.
@DeadRepublic what's foolish is potentially harming your kid to get back at your ex.
30 and geriatric. where do i even sign up to marry a geriatric? and by sign up, i mean make a mental note of that place and never go there ever again.
8:48 Lmao 😂
by his logic, he can go to his own path of hell all he wants. don't involve me on it. his entire beliefs is why he is divorced, yet he won't learn.
in a sense, Tom Leykis (yes the talk show host telling men not to get married) married 4 times. he had to make the same mistake 4 times before finally learning. this guy may as well learn 4 times as he did.
13:56 if 50% of all car rides ended in an accident I wouldn’t drive a car. I get your point but there’s too much risk with too little reward in marriage
one party is literally rewarded for breaking the contract.........
There is no reward (at least in the US). What are you getting if you marry the average American woman? Exclusivity? Sure, after 20+ men have already had her. Peace? Hell no, peace is *_boring,_* according to them. Only rancor keeps them calm, like smoke with bees.
I choose not to. Being tied down to one person can get boring if you guys know each other for a long time. No real rewards as a guy. Im just want sex and that's it. I dont care about the extra stuff. I tried being the gentleman but it has gotten me no where. So im in my toxic arc.
Why all the titles imply it's men's fault? Who's the woman running ths channel?
Where in the question why men don’t want a wedding did you see their guilt?
@@nickASK1 So many videos of "why men do not [want to be slaves]"
Why not some "Why womenn go after married men/convicted fellons" just for a change?
I'll definitely try, but 99 percent of my videos are men and the channel's theme is more about discussing their problems
@@nickASK1 I apologise if my selection of words was rude, but maybe rephrasing the title would help, or perhaps the problem is me who spots enemies everywhere.
Everything is fine
Ahh, the classics. Women arent looking at men and men acting like they are the ones doing the walking away from dating and marriage. Men are pathetic liars and it is hilarious.
I noticed. They seriously think women will miss being indentured servants and literally never having their needs met 🤷🏽♀️ we can’t fire them because they quit
18:33 as you woman you have the least skin in the game when it comes to marriage. Can’t give your perspective as much weight. I’m happy yall have a great marriage tho
This is comedy. Women have way more skin in the game than men. When married men become lazy entitled horrible partners who think they never have to raise children or do a domestic chore . You going to work is something we all do single or taken so miss me with that shit. Men are now experiencing women turning you down for life long misery because we can make our own money .