The Weight Of Infertility On African Women │ Gugulethu Msezane

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  • Опубліковано 14 вер 2022
  • Host: Ursula Mariani │Instagram: / ursulamariani
    Co-host: Bonga Botha │ / bonga.botha
    Guest: Gugulethu Msezane
    Co-producer: Sibonganjalo Bonga Botha │ Facebook: / bonga.botha
    Co-producer: Babaland
    Editor and Technical Director: Given Masilela │ Instagram / givenillustrative
    Assistant Technical Director: Silosamanzi Boiboi
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  • @phindileskhosana4818
    @phindileskhosana4818 Рік тому +46

    Gugu is my daughter I am married to her babomncane, she's been doing amazing things ever since I was introduced to her. She's one of the people who put family together. whatever she does, she does at her best. To me she is a daughter, sister and friend and I thank God for being part of my life. Sharing your pain gal is not easy. We thank you for being so brave. We love you as your family and we proud you bby girl please don't drop the ball ❤️

  • @sdudlasesexy9933
    @sdudlasesexy9933 Рік тому +15

    I was diagnosed with Endo, fibroids and some other things i cannot even remember back in 2016. I had to accept i might not have kids, 2020 went to get rid of my fibroids and 2021 fell pregnant. I still had few more but the dr gave me meds to dissolve them. Im blessed with a beautiful baby at age 32. Infertility is hard but im a living testimony that God is a god of miracles. Love and light to u Gee. A great interview this was.

  • @Ntjitube
    @Ntjitube Рік тому +23

    I have met Gugulethu before, such a wonderful person. We spoke very briefly and she told me that I am very lucky to have a child but I she did not tell me why she felt that way. This is probably 2 years ago, she had a strong presence that is why I did not forget her.

  • @nomxhosapekani7966
    @nomxhosapekani7966 Рік тому +12

    Great interview Ursula. I know our country is overwhelmed with GBV, but I feel this is a topic that has to be pushed during women's month too. Our government clinic do not allow women under 35 who are not pregnant to access gyneas and by the time such illness are detected it's too late.

  • @nkhen_c357
    @nkhen_c357 Рік тому +13

    I had flat stomach even though I am plus size and after fibroid operation It took time for me to recognize my stomach...the Gynae said it will never go back to before because it was a hectic operations.....I cried and worse part my scar is visible. Still no child and made peace with it...I am grateful God gave me the peace about it.

    • @melvamahashe5777
      @melvamahashe5777 Рік тому +1

      I worry about that,I wish you all the best,may God grant you the baby you so deserve

  • @alma-nalishacele9029
    @alma-nalishacele9029 Рік тому +9

    This was a beautiful conversation. Thank you Gugu for being so honest and so vulnerable. Infertility is a topic that requires black communities and spaces to be so much more gentle with each other. I hope we are learning to be kinder to each other. #NoInvasiveQuestionsAtGatheringsPlease

  • @masechabamakola4181
    @masechabamakola4181 10 місяців тому +2

    What a touching conversation, thank you Gugu for your life. You are such a beautiful human being.

  • @LinkyPful
    @LinkyPful Рік тому +1

    Ooh I just love her, I’m 40 this year and I really wanted to have a baby but my chances are zilch… and hearing her speaking about what she’s been through… aaaah it makes my hear my sink. Thank you for opening up and letting us in your life

  • @tfa4782
    @tfa4782 Рік тому +4

    May God bless her soul.

  • @keletlhokoe
    @keletlhokoe Рік тому +1

    Ah! What a BEAUTIFUL conversation. Gugu is my homegirl, I've got so many fond memories of our conversations while we walked each other home with our childhood friends - the twins. What a phenomenal woman she has become. Thank you for sharing your story Gugu - so empowering!
    Keep up the amazing work Ursula!

  • @lezelranala1029
    @lezelranala1029 Рік тому +2

    Gugu is so loveable 🥹

  • @busisiwekamolane-kgadima5655
    @busisiwekamolane-kgadima5655 Рік тому +3

    Thank you Gugu for sharing your story. And indeed, YOU ARE ENOUGH!

  • @shokiemaboa9029
    @shokiemaboa9029 Рік тому +5

    My own story...

  • @katlomolefe7946
    @katlomolefe7946 Рік тому +3

    Man, this is so touching. Grateful for these conversations

  • @simelanehlalelwe4209
    @simelanehlalelwe4209 Рік тому +4

    Beautiful interview. Thank you so so much

  • @hulisanimanenzhe4772
    @hulisanimanenzhe4772 Рік тому +4

    This is a beautiful Interview babes, proud of you that you have the strength to share and I know & trust that God will defs bless you abundantly ❤️

  • @happym3585
    @happym3585 Рік тому +2

    Shuuuu what a conversation. Thank you for sharing ❤

  • @katlegoMatlala78
    @katlegoMatlala78 Рік тому +2

    Thank you Gugu for sharing your story ❤️ Love and light ♡

  • @nomsamatabane5013
    @nomsamatabane5013 Рік тому +3

    Thanks for sharing your story Gee. Lots of Love❤

  • @paleraluswinga
    @paleraluswinga Рік тому +1

    Such a lovely interview, I thoroughly enjoyed listening to hear.

  • @user-cf7oi2yt6h
    @user-cf7oi2yt6h 3 місяці тому

    Thank you for sharing this and educating people, i have the same situation with less information and I thought I was the only one and I had to question God why, where did I go wrong. Tumelo yaka was questioned. The pain was too much it took me a very long time time to accept this. Thank you so much for sharing. To be honest the thought of it brings back the pain, bad memories and the fact that I don't have a choice as a woman 💔 , so proud of you my lady. Please continue to educate our fellow women 🙏

  • @tinytomas3773
    @tinytomas3773 9 місяців тому +2

    I was declared fertile...I wanna be a surrogate mom but I have a daughter and I have concerns on how the society would perceive me after seeing me pregnant and not see me with the baby😊

    • @seodimthembu6276
      @seodimthembu6276 2 місяці тому +1

      If you are clear on WHY you want to do it, you will do it regardless... people will always talk. God put this in your heart for a reason

  • @nozizwenuku8905
    @nozizwenuku8905 Рік тому +1

    Being infertile feels like failing 🥲🥲🥲even as an adoptive people still ask those hurtful questions in front of my child -humans are 🚮🚮🚮

  • @Sedzani.N
    @Sedzani.N Місяць тому

    Only after a year I could be able to watch and finish this episode.
    Thank you for bravely sharing your journey with us. Your honesty and strength are truly inspiring and provide hope and comfort to many who are facing similar challenges. Your story is a powerful reminder that no one is alone in this struggle. Sending you love and support Gugu ❤

  • @melvamahashe5777
    @melvamahashe5777 Рік тому +1

    Gugu did the Dr explain what caused the pus and do you mind sharing your Dr's details.You are so brave and I wish God can grant you the miracle you deserve

  • @makasamwamba5238
    @makasamwamba5238 Рік тому +3

    ❤️❤️

  • @temah1107
    @temah1107 Рік тому +3

    ♥️♥️♥️

  • @mnlesego
    @mnlesego Рік тому +2

    Gugu 🤍,
    I am so sorry this happened to you. Thank you for sharing 🙏🏾.

  • @makwenavanessa36
    @makwenavanessa36 Рік тому

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @madamtt2090
    @madamtt2090 Рік тому +1

    Wow I thank God that this video popped up 😭😭

  • @charmainekuvare7108
    @charmainekuvare7108 Рік тому

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @gugumdluli2158
    @gugumdluli2158 Рік тому

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️