Horror Short Film "FRAGILE.COM" | ALTER

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  • @charliewegner
    @charliewegner 2 роки тому +5716

    I loved how she acted when she was clearly trying not to cry in front of her friends, it was so accurate! How she avoided eye contact, even avoided talking because she knew she'd cry. Great actress :)

    • @piaschlomer8630
      @piaschlomer8630 2 роки тому +31

      she is a tough woman, she is able to look in every eye just talking and she does not need to cry!

    • @lightofheaven787
      @lightofheaven787 Рік тому +8

      ​@@piaschlomer8630 sorry 🗿 you Don't have to say what should she do 🗿
      I cry like baby in front of everyone 🗿

    • @Weluvvarmanii_
      @Weluvvarmanii_ Рік тому +8

      me on the daily lol

    • @JiaPia3
      @JiaPia3 Рік тому +13

      @@lightofheaven787 i don’t think you understood that comment, dear.

    • @JaydragonM
      @JaydragonM Рік тому +4

      I went through the crying phase.... when it doesn't stop for long enough, the crying does stop I guess... it got replaced by grief wails, and growls.
      I can still cry occasionally... when I think someone cares about me. Otherwise the tears don't flow anymore.

  • @StarrChild.
    @StarrChild. 2 роки тому +7525

    A lot of people really looking at the horror aspect being the crying/fetish side and hardly anyone is pointing out how this is a clear story on grooming. She's in high school and a 30 year old man is manipulating her as entertainment for other, mostly older, men.
    In the end when she can't cry a lot of comments seem to be talking about how it's empowering for her and worked as a twisted way of therapy, but in reality it was taken away from her. A human response to let out emotions was twisted and manipulated to be pleasure for others that she feels she can't even have a private cry to herself because crying is no longer for her. It's for others.
    This is one of the best horror shorts I've ever seen. A near perfect depiction of manipulation, underage grooming and touching on a part of cyberbullying. I hope this actress will be going places.

    • @caprisun437
      @caprisun437 Рік тому +62

      I think there is a bit of everything in it

    • @Amanda-cv7vn
      @Amanda-cv7vn Рік тому +152

      And then that man moved onto another young girl

    • @brunobailly7013
      @brunobailly7013 Рік тому +51

      I saw that too. That's precisely why I didn't like it. Too cynical, too harsh, too hopeless. The grooming is clearly apparent the first time she does her livestream on the site and she reads "client", and everything that happens next just confirms how manipulated she becomes.Yep... Didn't like this.

    • @MeganKugs
      @MeganKugs Рік тому +44

      I agree completely. I actually watched this quite some time ago and it just popped up again so I decided to take a look at some of the newer comments. (I think it really says something about this piece that two years after it’s release people are still watching and commenting, ALTER really showcases some insane indie talents). Yours is one of the best comments I’ve found. Very insightful and I think you grasped some aspects that passed others by, which is unfortunate, I wish everyone has seen the themes that you did. I’m really glad to see the grooming and cyberbullying being pointed out. Also the fact that this incredibly important emotion has been robbed from her is such an important part of this and invoked a very visceral reaction in me. I think this was written and directed extremely well and I too hope this actress goes on to better and better things because she did an amazing job. Loved your critique!

    • @ashokwwf
      @ashokwwf Рік тому +42

      If you think about it, it is not so dissimilar from the life story of p0rn st@rs. They do the act for others, they make money out of it, they may or may not enjoy it that much, their expressions and emotions are fake. But when they really find their true love, and want to get physically close to them, do they enjoy it or "feel it" as much as they should? I don't know. They lose one of the most human feelings - the feeling of physical intimacy towards our loved ones.

  • @reneebrady8389
    @reneebrady8389 4 роки тому +6859

    What is really scary is that you *KNOW* that there are people that have fetishes like this...the internet has something for everyone, no matter how weird or creepy....
    Very well acted!

    • @sulosky
      @sulosky 3 роки тому +22

      I don't know that.

    • @natasha4440
      @natasha4440 3 роки тому +138

      Dacryphilia is the proper term for it

    • @reneebrady8389
      @reneebrady8389 3 роки тому +19

      @@natasha4440 lol..oof and it has a name 😲 man people are weird!

    • @ceebbees12345
      @ceebbees12345 3 роки тому +194

      The fetishes aren't that scary, the real scary part is not realizing how far is too far when you get sucked into something like this, how being vulnerable for a moment can ruin you

    • @baguette4607
      @baguette4607 3 роки тому +26

      Fetishes are...hard to explain. If somebody wants to hear my take on it go ahead

  • @j.8028
    @j.8028 2 роки тому +1858

    the way i, as a girl, knew the second he said he was a director looking for people to cast that it was going to be bad. casting directors don't just get a person off of their looks, NEVER go with someone who randomly approaches you talking about casting you to an "audition", its not safe

    • @ciaraautumn5389
      @ciaraautumn5389 Рік тому +21

      sana from twice

    • @klownivore
      @klownivore Рік тому +33

      Ok but there are literally people who do that it's an actual job what you just described is called talent scouting and it's where scouts will look for someone who has any defining qualities they're looking for and judging based off of first impressions whether or not they're worth scouting if they are then they will get something (can be a phone number or just anything that can be used by the casting directors to know that they were found by a talent scout next would be normal auditions and often those who were scouted receive more attention from the casting directors because they have specific qualities that are aligned with their idea of whatever the audition is for

    • @LED816
      @LED816 Рік тому +13

      Uh… yes they do. Like that’s EXACTLY what they do lol

    • @gh02tdu2t
      @gh02tdu2t Рік тому +18

      @@klownivoreyou should probably specify what is and isn't normal for talent scouts so people dont just go trusting random people that come up to them willy nilly

    • @brandiarmstrong2902
      @brandiarmstrong2902 Рік тому +11

      Definitely look into the person and their agency before you go anywhere or give them any money. Best-case scenario of getting played: check out Robert Barone's experience in Everybody Loves Raymond. Worst case in these type of stories? Check what happened to Phoebe Hallowell in Charmed. Hopefully, if you guys have a bad experience, it'll skew closer to the Robert end of things. But in a story like this, my money's on something a bit closer to Phoebe's fate.

  • @OISHIROSE
    @OISHIROSE Рік тому +699

    I'm surprised some people are taking the ending positively. Sometimes you should cry. Sometimes you need to cry. If you can't do it at those times, it's not a good thing.

    • @Notyourbiggestfan1
      @Notyourbiggestfan1 Рік тому +42

      if you can’t cry at times your meant to it’s said that your heart is so used to depression it can’t produce the tears anymore.

    • @Diamond-rl2on
      @Diamond-rl2on 11 місяців тому +2

      @@Notyourbiggestfan1🤧true

    • @Lucid_high09
      @Lucid_high09 7 місяців тому +1

      I relate 😔

    • @MrDarkSammy
      @MrDarkSammy 5 місяців тому +5

      I know this is a year old comment but I personally somehow lost the ability to cry, idk if it were the meds I was on (a lot of antipsychotics mixee with antidepressants and benzos), and it doesn't matter.
      What matters is that after crying, your brain releases the Good Feeling, the rush of sudden calmness and even happiness.
      The weight that has driven you to tears lifted a little. You get to breathe easily for a while longer.
      I can't cry. Anytime I feel it coming it's like my brain slams the door, and I suddenly stop. The feeling remains. And it pilles up.
      I used to think people who don't cry in shows and movies are cool as hell, and I aspired to be like that. To be strong. This is not strenght. This is my greatest weakness because that weight is going to suffocate me eventually.
      I want to cry so bad

    • @bigseanprice
      @bigseanprice 4 місяці тому

      she stood up to life. she finally fought her right to party!

  • @jesiah5556
    @jesiah5556 3 роки тому +4676

    She really said “Ain’t got no tears left to cry”

    • @bischwester8619
      @bischwester8619 3 роки тому +37

      I didnt think of that 😭😭

    • @BLUEBDAWG
      @BLUEBDAWG 3 роки тому +6

      Lmaooo

    • @gemmakenyon6046
      @gemmakenyon6046 3 роки тому +11

      @@rubymargetts9838 no u

    • @moniqtl
      @moniqtl 3 роки тому +7

      @@rubymargetts9838 someone learned the f word 😮

    • @morgan7728
      @morgan7728 3 роки тому +2

      @@gemmakenyon6046 you😀😐

  • @iamvenom1352
    @iamvenom1352 4 роки тому +11600

    Alter would be dangerous with a bigger budget 😃

    • @Heroinedown
      @Heroinedown 4 роки тому +59

      I am Venom Dangerously good then...

    • @MercilessMrBrooks
      @MercilessMrBrooks 4 роки тому +385

      You do know Alter dont produce or fund any of these shorts right? They're only a platform for indie shorts like MTV for music back in the days.

    • @RadioForYahweh
      @RadioForYahweh 4 роки тому +174

      What budget? They host other people's content.

    • @AlleyCryptid
      @AlleyCryptid 3 роки тому +243

      Alter doesn't make all the short films, Alter is a way for indie film makers to show their film's to a larger audience. CryptTV makes their own films, effects, etc. Alter exhibits film makers. It's like Alter is the museum show casing the art, the museum didn't paint the art pieces. No one running the museum had anything to do with the galleries. It's just a spot to show case smaller talent.

    • @yourroyalhighness6297
      @yourroyalhighness6297 3 роки тому +5

      @@Yatukih_001 I suggest you take a look at Crypt TV. They are a lot like Alter, but has some major difference like @Clovilah said. I always binge-watch there.

  • @RubberHoseToons
    @RubberHoseToons 4 роки тому +1445

    As someone with a lot of hidden anxiety and the need to cry a lot, this girl is way too accurate

    • @Pax_Mayn3
      @Pax_Mayn3 3 роки тому +23

      Social media leads to those problems.

    • @Fruidish
      @Fruidish 3 роки тому +3

      @@Pax_Mayn3 who the fuck asked

    • @nikita-vp7ms
      @nikita-vp7ms 3 роки тому +4

      @@Fruidish they true though. it often is the case

    • @adorableadory
      @adorableadory 2 роки тому +2

      Ikr

    • @Soliloquy-gy6zf
      @Soliloquy-gy6zf 7 місяців тому

      ​@@adorableadorylapodballe. LA feraillyniouf

  • @Black_Catz_725
    @Black_Catz_725 Рік тому +371

    "he's almost as hot as Edgar Allan Poe" what😭😭

    • @jeonghanism
      @jeonghanism Рік тому +41

      i think it's touching on how edgar allan poe was as disgusting as this guy, as he married his wife when she was 13 and he was 27.

    • @malinasworld
      @malinasworld 7 місяців тому +20

      That character Molly is a writer. Pretty fitting that she’d romanticise a long dead poet.

    • @user-zn5ou9kr3e
      @user-zn5ou9kr3e 2 місяці тому +3

      @@jeonghanismHis wife was also his cousin 😭

    • @Joshuabean-ox4mr
      @Joshuabean-ox4mr 2 місяці тому +1

      nah i search him up nah what the fuck no hes not hot like Edgar Allan Poe

    • @abstract5249
      @abstract5249 Місяць тому +3

      So I looked it up and, yeah. Edgar Allan Poe was regarded as attractive back in the day. Women described him as darkly handsome, elegant, intelligent, and a gentlemen.
      The more you know.

  • @thecottageatwoodlandcorners
    @thecottageatwoodlandcorners Рік тому +259

    What's weird is how this actress kind of was crying for a job. And it's amazing how she can both cry and have trouble crying--really good acting.

  • @homunculi0408
    @homunculi0408 4 роки тому +4131

    Me at the end: This would be a good time to go full Carrie on them, Mara.

    • @JetBlack2024
      @JetBlack2024 4 роки тому +43

      Darn I was hoping so. Oh well

    • @Clauds71
      @Clauds71 4 роки тому +9

      😂

    • @c-dawg2763
      @c-dawg2763 4 роки тому +69

      Yeah. The ending is a little disappointing.

    • @JeenieJolie
      @JeenieJolie 4 роки тому +8

      IKR! lol

    • @shinmiyatasb6923
      @shinmiyatasb6923 4 роки тому +26

      Ikr....I wish it could've been like Carrie at the end!🤔

  • @quoteworld3375
    @quoteworld3375 4 роки тому +6185

    That moment...she can't cry... Thats the real horror!!

    • @markanthony1004
      @markanthony1004 3 роки тому +74

      I read this a real humor...sorry tired long day at work and now I’m heading to night class so yaay

    • @LifeInPink999
      @LifeInPink999 3 роки тому +139

      Or maybe she just saw what a trash is the man who made her cry and got over him and that shady director. Maybe it’s good she is not crying I believe she moved on and now can go with her life knowing who are worthy to include in it.

    • @cerealsauce4639
      @cerealsauce4639 3 роки тому +7

      @@nickimillennium are you talking about the horror film or her ACTUAL career?

    • @Bella-gg4oz
      @Bella-gg4oz 3 роки тому +20

      @@cerealsauce4639 I know you didn't ask me, but I assume they are referring to her character, as in what Mara did on camera, similar to that of porn stars being filmed.

    • @Bella-gg4oz
      @Bella-gg4oz 3 роки тому +6

      @@nickimillennium Really interesting take, I quite like this.

  • @kakalibhose6605
    @kakalibhose6605 4 роки тому +1743

    Imagine how much she had to cry for the audition as well.🤧

    • @chaeratonic
      @chaeratonic 4 роки тому +117

      Ik 😭 omg her face is ✨hydrated✨

    • @wenloom
      @wenloom 3 роки тому +14

      Become HUMID

    • @AlleyCryptid
      @AlleyCryptid 3 роки тому +26

      She never had to cry, she never actually cries. It's so fake the entire time, it's almost frustrating. This is what someone who wants attention looks like. Fake crying, fake emotions. This is what that girl at the party who wants the guys to look at her, looks like. She whimpers and pretends to be upset so others will comfort her and she thus becomes the center of attention. I'm not saying that was what this was about, just that this girl has no acting skill at all. It's literally at a high school level. I cannot believe all the compliments people give to "actors" in every Alter short that comes through, as if it's just a given they are great because they were in something.

    • @kakalibhose6605
      @kakalibhose6605 3 роки тому +5

      @StarSimp bahahaahaha

    • @awhxscar-9223
      @awhxscar-9223 Рік тому +2

      my sister wrote the movie and told me she threw up.

  • @Lrbrz
    @Lrbrz 3 роки тому +3755

    This short film is great commentary on how older men prey on younger impressionable girls and manipulate and exploit them. Based on the comment section people seem to be taking the crying website too literally.

    • @lilscenechick1995
      @lilscenechick1995 3 роки тому +106

      That's UA-cam comment sections for you. Most people only take away surface level interpretations.

    • @clarie4497
      @clarie4497 2 роки тому +22

      idk I'd be fine letting the guy playing the director prey on me >_>

    • @djrydell
      @djrydell 2 роки тому +102

      @@clarie4497 woww youre so funnyyyy

    • @andrewallison4287
      @andrewallison4287 2 роки тому +13

      You know woman do too

    • @dariozacchino8100
      @dariozacchino8100 2 роки тому +145

      I love how there are Always men under this type of videos or comments that go "men too" "women are bad too". I mean calm down dude, of course men are abused too and women are evil, not specifyng this everytime does not mean this doesnt happen. Thats no point on going under videos of abused girls saying that men are abused too, under videos of abused men saying women are abused too, or videos of human violence in general to Say that animals are abused too. Thats clear as hell that in this world nobody Is safe and literally everyone can be a dangerous bastard, but this thing of "yes but men too/women too" Is getting cringy, and for what, to feel Better in your own genre everytime a bad thing come from someone with your same reproductive organs? Reality Is this, everyone sucks

  • @davidlahaye1202
    @davidlahaye1202 Рік тому +62

    That reaction at 1:39 was absolutely fantastic. The quick turn to hide and movement of the facial muscles to distract one from their emotions was done spot on!

  • @journeymansmitty8283
    @journeymansmitty8283 4 роки тому +900

    Sometimes it's wiser to stay alone then to be around people that are bringing you down🤔

    • @trishsleeps
      @trishsleeps 4 роки тому +26

      I agree a lot with that

    • @Scarshadow666
      @Scarshadow666 4 роки тому +7

      Same with me, though I understand that it wouldn't be everyone's cup of tea whether society is involved or not (some people are built to be comfortable with being alone, and some people wouldn't be able to stand it)! ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

    • @Dramadonia
      @Dramadonia 4 роки тому +19

      So very true. I'm glad I enjoy my own company, they say I'm weird etc but I'm cool with that

    • @journeymansmitty8283
      @journeymansmitty8283 4 роки тому +13

      @@Dramadonia no that doesn't make you weird you just cool have a good spirit type of person🤔👊

    • @IvorPresents
      @IvorPresents 4 роки тому +1

      Amen

  • @damien2316
    @damien2316 4 роки тому +437

    i think she has no tears left to cry

  • @rhia-2251
    @rhia-2251 4 роки тому +4579

    While it has a premise of being sold as a fetish, I don't necessarily think it's a sexual transaction between her and the men watching her. For example, the tear ratings and them wanting the emotion to be authentic; in a growing society where we get more and more emotionally calloused, we crave intimate emotions. Hypothetically, we could get to a point where we don't even remember what those emotions looked like or felt like. Certainly everyone Mara runs into acts this way due to the consistent cruelty. She is marketing an emotion and eventually runs out just like those who view her

    • @neiltappenden1008
      @neiltappenden1008 4 роки тому +145

      Interesting point of veiw

    • @WatchALTER
      @WatchALTER  4 роки тому +564

      Really well said and great insight Rhiannon. Thank you for watching!

    • @akillianhammersley
      @akillianhammersley 4 роки тому +99

      So well put, thanks for checking it out.

    • @lorieakin1771
      @lorieakin1771 4 роки тому +10

      🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟👍

    • @amandaroman3471
      @amandaroman3471 4 роки тому +111

      Very good point.
      Sadly I had dabbled in online fetish word during the throws of a heroin addiction. I’m now 6 years clean but I’ll never forget the things told you me by some of these guys. I mean some real sickos who literally want you to hurt. This is a thing- they want actual pain. Most will degrade you- yell and make you feel like total shit so you’ll cry more and they don’t like the ones who appear fake either. They like the control the power being overtop someone and knowing for sure there won’t be any coincidences - they have a fetish for everything from toes to sneezing.. it’s a bizarre and often dangerous world. Many of these men go way too far- and I was always wondering if one was going to track me down and murder me but I did it anyways right. They get into your head and the money seems easy at first. They demand more and more to keep getting new thrills. I didn’t do the crying scene but I had been in one on ones awhile with a certain man who likes the submissive girls so I played along. Fun at first really- light stuff like lightly slapping myself - was weird but the money was good.... but... it got more and more dark as it progressed. One day he asked me Well demanded really - that i should hold my arm up and cut myself and no Hollywood blood bull shit was his words. He said he would pay me 1500 to slice open my arm hold it up and pull apart to show its real. I mean... that’s disturbing. The even more disturbing part..... I have a 4” scar on my arm from the stitches.

  • @AltJGirl
    @AltJGirl Рік тому +75

    i think the point that this film is giving is that pain people prey on those that seem weak and will tear them down until they aren't themselves anymore. He took away her ability to express her sadness and fetishized her pain.

  • @kiwikiwi4150
    @kiwikiwi4150 Рік тому +307

    This is the only short film in a while that has genuinely terrified me. Just the idea of a 30 year old man manipulating a vulnerable teen into sex work is SO SCARY. And the fact that it keeps her from having healthy and normal reactions to things? Brilliant writing. Absolutely devastating.

    • @raquelsirkin2730
      @raquelsirkin2730 9 місяців тому

      it was sex work, even though not explicitly its fetishing@@jasonknowskarate6020

    • @JellyShark8
      @JellyShark8 8 місяців тому

      @@jasonknowskarate6020it’s heavily implied

    • @catfan7220
      @catfan7220 8 місяців тому

      ​@@jasonknowskarate6020The "tear fetish" is meant to be a stand-in for sex work and "cam girls"
      Almsot everything about the way that creep manipulated and lied to her is scarily accurate to how groomers prey upon young girls vulnerabilities.

    • @whiterabbit_productions9708
      @whiterabbit_productions9708 8 місяців тому

      @@jasonknowskarate6020 She's crying for guys who 9 chances out of 10 go to that site because it's their fetish
      It's like posting pics of your feet or armpits for cash. You may not be into it, but they are

    • @Glowwyy123
      @Glowwyy123 7 місяців тому +4

      @@jasonknowskarate6020It was for peoples fetishes, so yeah, it could be considered sex work

  • @alexanderkulakov1345
    @alexanderkulakov1345 4 роки тому +1191

    Wow! This short film looks like a new episode of the "Black Mirror" series! The plot, cinematography, directing, casting, and especially the performance of Carly Stewart is very impressive! I'm glad her character, Mara, didn't commit suicide and she stayed alive. But the ending is still very sad. I would even cry if I could 😥

    • @CheezeHead-ps9xf
      @CheezeHead-ps9xf 3 роки тому

      Why can't you cry? Do you have some kind of disease or something bruh?

    • @ZiRR0
      @ZiRR0 2 роки тому

      @@CheezeHead-ps9xf Why can't you cry? Do you have some kind of disease or something bruh?

    • @nickjohnson1178
      @nickjohnson1178 2 роки тому

      Why can't you cry? Do you have some kind of disease or something bruh?

    • @insanelittlefangirl
      @insanelittlefangirl 2 роки тому +3

      wtf are the replies

    • @Ems.creations
      @Ems.creations 2 роки тому +3

      @@insanelittlefangirl wait where are they?!

  • @mounitamurmu4550
    @mounitamurmu4550 4 роки тому +2607

    So seeing crying people is also a fetish ??!! 🤔
    This is just disturbing.

    • @wgtow3434
      @wgtow3434 4 роки тому +168

      Sadism

    • @yourfriendlyneighborhoodbl1520
      @yourfriendlyneighborhoodbl1520 4 роки тому +127

      Dacryphilia

    • @dvdbox360
      @dvdbox360 4 роки тому +163

      How can you get turn on by people crying? nothing sexy about that

    • @micatnono8100
      @micatnono8100 4 роки тому +24

      @Teena Courtney what a weird husband if dat was me ill make u cry of happiness cuz that what partners should do

    • @nisha1636
      @nisha1636 4 роки тому +66

      Same way I felt when I found out balloons was a fetish.

  • @eyesackim
    @eyesackim 3 роки тому +3329

    The director was ingenious in naming the girl Mara. The name “Mara” comes from a Hebrew word meaning “bitter”

    • @AZodiacCancer
      @AZodiacCancer 3 роки тому +214

      It's also Nordic for Mare, it's where nightmare comes from. It's associated with sleep paralysis

    • @joelee5875
      @joelee5875 3 роки тому +34

      Thank you for that bit of information.

    • @RealiTeaV
      @RealiTeaV 3 роки тому +19

      Oooh that’s interesting 👀

    • @dr.ing.salmanstmsc538
      @dr.ing.salmanstmsc538 3 роки тому +33

      In Hindu Mara means Soul

    • @gbrown932
      @gbrown932 3 роки тому +11

      It's also my stepdaughter's name but pronounced Mara like Lara Croft.

  • @ProfJamie20
    @ProfJamie20 4 місяці тому +23

    GOD I have to talk about this. This is genuinely such a beautiful, poignant way to accurately portray grooming and csa in a non-graphic way, but still have it be just as impactful and disturbing to witness... I'm obviously not going to go into detail about my life, but I have to say that this is EXTREMELY accurate in so many ways, and GOD her inability to cry at the end just... my heart sank because that is SUCH an accurate and depressing aspect to this kind of abuse. Taking something natural and human and something that can even be beautiful, and twisting it into something that can no longer be properly experienced, or that has to be forced out of a person instead of being willingly participated in.
    Seriously, when she was getting to the point of hurting herself in order to be able to cry on camera, that hit SO EXTREMELY hard. Because (again, without going into too much detail) it gets to a point where what you're doing is no longer a cathartic, willing action. The only way you can experience it is through force. And it just gets worse and worse the longer it goes on, as was so beautifully (and painfully) portrayed by her having to progress from snapping a hair tie all the way to bashing her knuckles in.
    I seriously could go on and on about how accurate a display of this all is, while still managing to be non-graphic and non-exploitative. Genuinely, thank you to everyone who worked on this!! Everyone seriously did so amazing, and this works both as a fantastic horror film and a genuinely emotional portrayal of csa and other forms of exploitation. Seriously, from the bottom of my heart, thank you!!

  • @abigailrose4
    @abigailrose4 2 роки тому +1094

    I feel like there’s a meaning behind this, almost like a deep, hidden thing lying behind what horror the film is. It’s not scary because of monsters or jump-scares, it’s scary because of the way we can’t find the meaning, but we know it’s there, and we are scared of what we can’t see, or what we don’t know.

    • @pepperpie9481
      @pepperpie9481 2 роки тому +2

      I'm getting themes of the commodification of women-especially young women. Through history we've been seen this way- they sell our motherhood, or our beauty, our sexuality, our youth, our virginity, you name it-they sell it right out from under us, back to us and in a worse way to men. They use us to sell cigarettes, alcohol and clothes, Axe body spray. Freaking cheeseburgers. You name it, and they've used women to sell you something. And it hurts in a million ways- makes us change our bodies and buy the makeup and the mani-pedi combo and the wax and the high heels. We find ourselves getting cosmetic surgery-literally cutting into ourselves- to please those who look at us. We develop eating disorders and worse. We get them because we have been exploited and manipulated through our insecurities, told that when we do not please those around us we no longer have value. Hence the end- she no longer has anything left to give. She has become the sum of her parts.

    • @piaschlomer8630
      @piaschlomer8630 2 роки тому

      aja

    • @fwoggityfwog7840
      @fwoggityfwog7840 2 роки тому +39

      Wow you just described most Alter films in the most perfect way possible. I've been trying to figure out how their videos are so eerie, and you explained it so well

    • @smallasiancommunist3306
      @smallasiancommunist3306 Рік тому +102

      There is, its a metaphor for how vulnerable girls and lured and manipulated into the porn industry, exploited, and many times forced to hurt themselves to increase profits

    • @foxlancaster4044
      @foxlancaster4044 Рік тому +9

      Or what we DO know.

  • @reeewind14
    @reeewind14 4 роки тому +159

    i feel so bad for her cause she needs validation but i love how she slowly gets her power back such a beautiful girl!

  • @cinnamonbits26
    @cinnamonbits26 4 роки тому +2541

    The school is just cool with a 30 year old as a prom date?

    • @onyx-og7li
      @onyx-og7li 4 роки тому +195

      I think he climbed through a window

    • @tiffanysmith1993
      @tiffanysmith1993 4 роки тому +85

      A lot of schools are this girl I went to school with her date was 35

    • @FiveMCity
      @FiveMCity 4 роки тому +29

      Legal age is 18 here..so.. technically you can bring 2 of them in 2020

    • @cinnamonbits26
      @cinnamonbits26 4 роки тому +175

      I am so sick of this whole mindset of "it's ok to be 30+ and date 18 year olds cause they are legal!" Shit. Mentally they are still teens. I'm 32 years old. 18 year olds are children to me and most other adults I have talked too. It's just so gross.

    • @evanabbott2737
      @evanabbott2737 4 роки тому +7

      @@tiffanysmith1993 Jesus...😂

  • @caom3i
    @caom3i 4 роки тому +2004

    GETTING PAID FOR CRYING????? WAIT LEMME JUST REWATCH BANANA FISH
    guys- "My soul is always with you" 🙂

  • @QueenBrownShuga1973
    @QueenBrownShuga1973 3 роки тому +241

    This was great! Alter is the kind of psychological thriller/horror I have been craving that's not gory. Thank you so much.

  • @tesstickles5170
    @tesstickles5170 3 роки тому +149

    I think the crying IS supposed to be an allegory for sex and pornography. Her connection with the creepy director guy is like an abusive relationship. She puts out for him, she tries to please him, and she might receive money and praise in return. Even when she's degraded, she tries to brush it off. At the end, I think it was brave for her to stand up to him, but it was too little, too late. The director guy wanted her to cry harder by exposing her, but she just can't... I was thinking that she'd smash the mirror to continue maiming herself. She can't cry even if she wants to... maybe it symbolizes how after enough abuse, a gal just... snaps? Can't love, even if she wants to. Hopefully, she kicks his bitchass!

  • @gregorygrieves2494
    @gregorygrieves2494 4 роки тому +2273

    She is a great actress. I love her look, it's so different from most actresses.

  • @buttercupwalker
    @buttercupwalker 4 роки тому +3014

    but...the therapy worked...she was done crying.....

    • @Atar.comm01
      @Atar.comm01 4 роки тому +192

      The problem is crying can be released for people I’m pretty sure that’s why she was begging herself to cry in the bathroom

    • @sharobb6904
      @sharobb6904 4 роки тому +301

      Or the experiment was so emotionally manipulative that it made her go numb...That's not good either.

    • @sharobb6904
      @sharobb6904 4 роки тому +28

      @@mrteargas8692 Enlightening point of view. There are so many different outcomes lol, any one of them could be true💯

    • @naheemahahmed
      @naheemahahmed 4 роки тому +11

      Or was she

    • @SethXB
      @SethXB 3 роки тому +10

      sir, no one said anything about her needing therapy, let alone going in this short clip... wym

  • @moniquevandeplas5210
    @moniquevandeplas5210 4 роки тому +387

    Damn...all the tears I cried when I was younger and I missed out cashing in!

  • @tsommers3284
    @tsommers3284 3 роки тому +49

    She was a terrific actress!! Very impressed with how she portrayed her emotions!!

  • @jaslanaye6191
    @jaslanaye6191 3 роки тому +175

    it’s giving me black mirror vibes i love it

  • @bren8043
    @bren8043 3 роки тому +123

    The way he kissed her head gave me chills, just really creeped me out.

  • @weeniehutjr9977
    @weeniehutjr9977 4 роки тому +241

    you can get paid for crying? and here i’ve been doing it for free. sign me tf up.

    • @tylerlane4587
      @tylerlane4587 3 роки тому +7

      Absolutely 😂

    • @erikapearl6946
      @erikapearl6946 Рік тому +1

      Me too! I cry all the time as I am in constant mental/emotional torture.

  • @dracawyn
    @dracawyn 4 роки тому +378

    These Alter horrors are getting TOO REAL.
    After this, I need to scroll back through and find one of the older ones with demon clowns or something just to chill out. Frick

  • @elrickaharris609
    @elrickaharris609 Рік тому +11

    Man this has SO much potential! So many learning opportunities for our youth! I see following a stranger into something that you have no idea on what it may be! Fake friends!! Self harm!! Low self esteem!! Empowerment! The guy preys on young females! She’s also so easy to get crushes on people and have her own little fantasy about it! The potential danger of the type of room they’re running!

  • @stephenbruce5431
    @stephenbruce5431 3 роки тому +24

    I was crying by the end because there were ads literally every two minutes.

  • @izzieb.2926
    @izzieb.2926 3 роки тому +400

    My question is where are this girl's parents in all this?
    And also how dare they call her ugly she's so pretty😡

    • @cosm1c.pearls
      @cosm1c.pearls 3 роки тому +12

      I think so too like i could only wish i was pretty like this

    • @luisanve3259
      @luisanve3259 3 роки тому +11

      Yeah ,she's beautiful but his eyes are weird and sad.

    • @lowkey-obsessed27
      @lowkey-obsessed27 3 роки тому +2

      lel

    • @iamthequeenb1979
      @iamthequeenb1979 3 роки тому +4

      She is average

    • @mnirwin5112
      @mnirwin5112 3 роки тому +14

      I wonder if calling her "ugly" isn't a trick of sorts to get her into a tearful mood ...

  • @hazchickgames2840
    @hazchickgames2840 3 роки тому +430

    My theory behind what the clients get from seeing her cry is confidence. If someone who is deemed pretty or beautiful by your own standards is crying and you manage to console them, then I imagine that could be a big ego boost. Of course, different people may get gratification from the same thing for different reasons; the school friend who saw her just thrived on the idea of someone experiencing emotional pain.
    Reading into the scene where Duco makes her eyes bleed, that's effectively the pretext for what happens; she's bled dry of tears and emotion in exchange for his money. "Selling your soul" as it were.
    The paradigm of being "the centre of humiliation in front of the whole school" is generally the worst nightmare of most teenage girls that would result in endless tears. The shock on her face when she realises not even that could make her cry was palatable. The attempt to burn herself under the water was cherry on the cake.

    • @daintydalmatian
      @daintydalmatian Рік тому +16

      They are sadists who like hurting women

    • @g0zuu
      @g0zuu Рік тому

      @@MrListerTheTittyTwisterwhat even got u to ts point

    • @ruairicorrigan3582
      @ruairicorrigan3582 8 місяців тому

      Doll I think it's just a fetish

  • @rosiecherub6773
    @rosiecherub6773 3 роки тому +54

    Horror isn't all about ghouls, poltergeists, or any other spirits you can think of. Sometimes the real horror lies in the reality and truth of life. Not being able to feel a certain emotion can ruin someone's life mentally, and eventually lead the person to harming one's self physically. Now *that's* the true horror.

    • @IdislikeTechnology
      @IdislikeTechnology 8 місяців тому +3

      Exactly. True dangers lie within living itself.

  • @CoverBydAn
    @CoverBydAn Рік тому +5

    Her no crying, then cry, after getting rejected… so so good… made me cry!

  • @mkg2124
    @mkg2124 3 роки тому +22

    Lots of people go weeks or even months without crying, so pressure on you to cry at least once a week would be really hard, I feel.

    • @glendamcdaniel7287
      @glendamcdaniel7287 3 місяці тому +1

      I never saw my ex husband ever cry. No tears when his mother, 2 sisters and best friend died. He was very materialistic, couldn't relate to our four children, was a racists to certain ethnic groups and didn't identify with the race he was born into. Very sad.

  • @levelist7304
    @levelist7304 4 роки тому +254

    ALTER always produces great videos on youtube, hands down.

  • @tats763
    @tats763 4 роки тому +60

    I thought it was amazing. Her desperation to be seen as "legit" drove her to such lengths, to feel like 'someone,' instead of part of the background.

  • @glennparker9059
    @glennparker9059 4 роки тому +266

    Awww no more tears for Molly. Soo is this the part where she discovers her special powers and everyone dies?

    • @tomsdottir
      @tomsdottir 4 роки тому +3

      So that's what Pickering is up to these days?

    • @MWorsa
      @MWorsa 4 роки тому +21

      “They’re all gonna laugh at you!”
      *flames ensue

    • @1bossofbosses
      @1bossofbosses 4 роки тому +11

      Carrie reference i see what you did there.

    • @tomsdottir
      @tomsdottir 4 роки тому

      @Teena Courtney "No tears for Molly"

    • @nzingabascombe7991
      @nzingabascombe7991 4 роки тому

      ok but like carrie did went feral on those people tho

  • @amypond7631
    @amypond7631 8 місяців тому +5

    i think the real horror isnt just in the manipulation of social media and how it drives you to do terrible things to yourself, but in the "mara, im 30... but we can find a way". that hit me like a ton of bricks bc if it wasnt creepy enough already, its also incredibly real... and so easy to skim past.

  • @alessia3500
    @alessia3500 Рік тому +14

    I feel like there’s a meaning behind this, almost like a deep, hidden thing that no one can find and probably never will. L for the tears love.

  • @CalmSoothingSounds
    @CalmSoothingSounds 4 роки тому +335

    Disturbing metaphor... Great acting!

    • @lessliejohnson6932
      @lessliejohnson6932 4 роки тому +16

      This has the elemants of Carrie in it, but yet this short film has much more truth to it. A very good watch. Keep up the excellant work!

    • @CalmSoothingSounds
      @CalmSoothingSounds 4 роки тому +24

      @@lessliejohnson6932 true and a very unique way to portray the adult industry in a high school environment. Hats off for the makers!

    • @akillianhammersley
      @akillianhammersley 4 роки тому +9

      Thanks so much, glad you both enjoyed!

    • @CalmSoothingSounds
      @CalmSoothingSounds 4 роки тому +4

      @Brittany Menjivar well deserved for you both! And thank you for your replies 🙂

  • @ksxksf1447
    @ksxksf1447 4 роки тому +345

    It was so true to form that it was actually difficult to watch. Well written, with incredible acting.

  • @penguinsuit9100
    @penguinsuit9100 4 роки тому +495

    Literally got no tears left to cry. This was a good one 👍

    • @Animelover-ei1wb
      @Animelover-ei1wb 4 роки тому +2

      lmao (;´༎ຶٹ༎ຶ`)

    • @Starteller
      @Starteller 3 роки тому

      Got numb

    • @crashbunks
      @crashbunks 3 роки тому +1

      @Brittany Menjivar Oh wow, you were the writer of this film? Fantastic job!

  • @Nofinator
    @Nofinator Рік тому +29

    Never trust anyone who responds to a text message with a phone call.

  • @pandareijgah3820
    @pandareijgah3820 7 місяців тому +15

    The fact she trusted someone who came up to her while she was obviously and openly having a moment of (emotional) weakness says a lot/too much already

  • @MisterG2323
    @MisterG2323 4 роки тому +119

    Ms Stewart has a strong Shirley Manson vibe. Excellent acting job from this young lady.
    Good short, strong work from all involved. Kudos!

    • @akillianhammersley
      @akillianhammersley 4 роки тому +7

      Thanks for watching, glad you enjoyed!

    • @MisterG2323
      @MisterG2323 4 роки тому +6

      @@akillianhammersley I'll definitely be looking forward to whatever you all come up with next! Separately and/or together.

  • @joeyj6808
    @joeyj6808 4 роки тому +166

    Yikes. Alter never fails to disturb. Well done!

  • @foxblossom16carlsen21
    @foxblossom16carlsen21 3 роки тому +76

    Honestly this is superb! Not only does it show how some times our money and fame make us do things like crying in front of screen but that sometimes we get to far into our minds that we forget and over react to the things that happen around us also the actor Carly Stewart is awesome! Thanks Alter!

  • @TheHoverborad
    @TheHoverborad 8 місяців тому +4

    I love how these vids start off so nice to the point where you forget its a horror film and it gets so so much scary

  • @niharbehere1584
    @niharbehere1584 9 місяців тому +7

    Good horror isn't necessarily scary, but uncomfortable. This captures that perfectly. Well done!

  • @katroamleft4721
    @katroamleft4721 3 роки тому +57

    I didn't understand the reaction of the people at the prom. I mean...none of them reacted, no teachers were around... To be honest I would think it is an art project, or I would ask her if she is OK. I would never think like "oh she is payed for that".
    I guess it was a bit hypercontectualised

  • @Taoteh11
    @Taoteh11 4 роки тому +47

    Brilliant. No more left tears to cry.
    And the message is so clear : Don't trust strangers.

  • @luzonlasagna
    @luzonlasagna 3 роки тому +72

    the way i couldn’t focus on the short cause duco was so fine-

    • @aliceminnie9437
      @aliceminnie9437 3 роки тому +10

      Yeah I hated myself for doing that knoeing that he is bad but, damn he is dashing🤣

    • @grahammc88
      @grahammc88 3 роки тому +1

      For real

    • @Swanxoxoplays
      @Swanxoxoplays Місяць тому

      Honestly

  • @stephaniehabern2813
    @stephaniehabern2813 3 роки тому +44

    As someone who’s terrified that I won’t be able to make art that matters if I heal, this one is def sticking with me

  • @luvforalvaeri
    @luvforalvaeri 8 місяців тому +2

    The prom scene…. The fact that she realised that he didn’t have the ability to cry was shocking!!! And also when she realised that he wasn’t a “movie director” terrified me. Love love loveeee this short horror film!!!

  • @29lookingood
    @29lookingood 4 роки тому +73

    Wow, Carly Stewart is an amazing actress. Thanks for a brilliant movie Alter 💙

  • @MotionlessKnight
    @MotionlessKnight 4 роки тому +83

    That ended rather abruptly. Will this one get a part 2?

    • @WatchALTER
      @WatchALTER  4 роки тому +64

      We agree, would love to see more! Spread the word about the film and follow the director Alison-Eve Hammersley for updates!

    • @Nina.VanRobiart
      @Nina.VanRobiart 4 роки тому +4

      @@WatchALTER this one was shit.

    • @WatchALTER
      @WatchALTER  4 роки тому +31

      @@Nina.VanRobiart Can you provide some specific aspects of the film that didn't work for you? Always curious to hear a variety of feedback.

    • @chillerkiller5462
      @chillerkiller5462 4 роки тому +30

      @ALTER don’t listen to him just a hater, btw good video

    • @MotionlessKnight
      @MotionlessKnight 4 роки тому +10

      @@chillerkiller5462 Agreed. I thought it was great, just left me wanting to see what happens next.

  • @dustlandfairytale974
    @dustlandfairytale974 4 роки тому +710

    A lot of people don’t know crying is an actual fetish? There’s even a name for it.

    • @Oscarlopez12456
      @Oscarlopez12456 4 роки тому +50

      Seriously?

    • @elisabetecristina6188
      @elisabetecristina6188 4 роки тому +30

      Drakophylia

    • @OhmiyaStorm
      @OhmiyaStorm 4 роки тому +93

      @@elisabetecristina6188 Dacryphilia *

    • @JeenieJolie
      @JeenieJolie 4 роки тому +39

      @@elisabetecristina6188 lol the prefix "Drako" is a typo for "Draco" which it means Dragon and philia means strange love, or obsession. Something tells me that's not it

    • @bargerver8796
      @bargerver8796 4 роки тому +18

      Huh? Not really? What crazy shit. But I guess in 2020 nothing really surprises me anymore! 🤣

  • @lolaotter2593
    @lolaotter2593 3 роки тому +24

    For a while I was so emotionally screwed up and on medications, it was impossible to cry and the absolute frustration you feel when you’re upset and can’t cry is unnerving

    • @iHeartPlants1988
      @iHeartPlants1988 4 місяці тому

      Psych meds…. That’s why I battle my BPD without prescription drugs…being so angry that you want to rip something to shreds and you can’t move or cry was a horror show within itself…I’ll never forgive myself for those medicines I put in my body. Thank God for MaryJane❤
      Hope you’re doing better! 😊

  • @ericjourdain892
    @ericjourdain892 3 роки тому +16

    I love this version of Carrie, with tears instead of blood.
    I also love this version of female empowerment, twisted and complex and dark.
    👍

    • @ericjourdain892
      @ericjourdain892 7 місяців тому

      @benjaminollis7621 Whatever you say, Benjy...

  • @deborakusuma548
    @deborakusuma548 4 роки тому +73

    Love the acting, storyline and cinematography!! Poor thing she had no tears left to cry. I got back sore and felt real pain in my heart watching it. 🥺

  • @Oldboyjosephseth
    @Oldboyjosephseth 4 роки тому +37

    How does alter pump out all these and have them be CONSISTENTLY good?! Like they are always so interesting.

  • @JakubWojciechowski933
    @JakubWojciechowski933 4 роки тому +114

    I just adore this moment when he tells her she wants to cast her and she's both happy and sad in the same moment. Jesus, it's so convincing. I could believe that that's how she got the role here

  • @theexpierow8951
    @theexpierow8951 8 місяців тому +3

    as someone who knows how to cry at will super easily (it took some practice) I see this gig as an absolute win

  • @michaeladeleon867
    @michaeladeleon867 Рік тому +12

    3:20 had me dying the way he said it 🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭

  • @smilingvanny8178
    @smilingvanny8178 4 роки тому +24

    “No tears left to cry.”

  • @rw5258
    @rw5258 4 роки тому +114

    Hump Day Disturbia!
    First she needs better friends, whoever thought your tears can be worth so much.
    Thanks Alter

    • @WatchALTER
      @WatchALTER  4 роки тому +26

      Thanks for watching! Decent friends always help and crying should be a last resort side hustle.

    • @amandaroman3471
      @amandaroman3471 4 роки тому +3

      It’s about dominance. Sooner or later they demand more and more to get more and more thrills. These things are very dangerous. I know as I was apart of it as a heroin addict. There is some very very sick men out there who can and will find where you live and then demand whatever they want or threaten you- many girls had this happen: some had small kids some living w parents and all ashamed of how far it got and tried to keep it hidden. They never realize when you cam it opens a connection and they can easily swipe things from your devices. Young naive girls get involved and then trapped. It’s sad really.

    • @ladyraven2256
      @ladyraven2256 4 роки тому

      @@amandaroman3471 Good Advise esp for younger generations . They use to say a Picture is worth a thousand words but THE INTERNET is Worth Thousands 😢 Also it's is a Lifetime of Embarrassment . This is a Good Short to Show your Kids a Causionary film since most are home for Covid 19.

    • @spiceyseason981
      @spiceyseason981 4 роки тому

      @@amandaroman3471 I agree that noone should have to go through that.

  • @darkbulb367
    @darkbulb367 3 роки тому +7

    The tearless end was waaayyy more painful. Exceptional work. Much to think about how we all need release. That one would be a cutter fast, burner, breaker. Career victim. How many of us are baited into self abuse right now in 2021 today?

  • @user-aesthetichere
    @user-aesthetichere 3 роки тому +43

    Loved this 👏👏👏 It really just showcases how disturbing and deceiving some trends can become over the internet 😢

  • @4aaabriiil
    @4aaabriiil Рік тому +3

    Has anyone else noticed the fact that there are two actors playing roles within the Vampire Diaries universe?

    • @sissyalesch2768
      @sissyalesch2768 8 місяців тому

      What?!? Who/where? I didn’t notice!

  • @patronsttroll5712
    @patronsttroll5712 4 роки тому +29

    Bruh, is there really a market for this cuz I can cry for days.

  • @liamciaran
    @liamciaran 3 роки тому +69

    What a stellar film. Thank you for this, guys. Top tier acting, and stellar directing. You weaved the 80ies feel with the modern social media so well.

  • @TheRealGuywithoutaMustache
    @TheRealGuywithoutaMustache 4 роки тому +136

    This is a pretty messed up movie, I like the message it sends though

  • @CallmeA_B
    @CallmeA_B 3 місяці тому +1

    The method acting into being completely desensitized is completely relatable and that's the scariest part for me.

  • @gathermyself6316
    @gathermyself6316 3 роки тому +48

    This was beautifully put together, the acting was amazing and the cinematography and story was fantastic!

  • @blarmy827
    @blarmy827 4 роки тому +45

    Loved it... creepy, twisted... anchored in reality... altered kills it as always

  • @dalegend5924
    @dalegend5924 4 роки тому +87

    Where I sign up? Think of my student loan debt and stock losses and just cry for $1000

  • @hexmix6383
    @hexmix6383 4 роки тому +11

    that dude who put her on the screen like that going to the 7th circle of hell

  • @rimrick665
    @rimrick665 Рік тому +8

    Really good! Really speaks to the idea of selling ones self to appeal to others and how in the end we've sold more than we thought we agreed to...

  • @morethanahumanbody3339
    @morethanahumanbody3339 3 роки тому +15

    why are all these short films better than most movies :)))

  • @dianawackrow3777
    @dianawackrow3777 3 роки тому +98

    This is another "don't trust a pretty face" lesson. The devil is beautiful...he used to be God's favorite.

  • @nelsonmwenda3539
    @nelsonmwenda3539 3 роки тому +14

    i cant belive it,there were no tears left to cry at the last moment

  • @constantreader4376
    @constantreader4376 3 роки тому +13

    This has the look and feel of a Black Mirror episode. Bravo! 👏👏👏

  • @DaAvocadoQueen
    @DaAvocadoQueen 4 місяці тому +3

    The way that her friends didn’t give a shit about her when she was obviously upset and on the verge of tears :(

  • @yandereskitty
    @yandereskitty Рік тому +12

    I want alter to have their own streaming service lol I'd not mind paying to watch full movies.

  • @krislatoya7556
    @krislatoya7556 4 роки тому +24

    Poor thing was in a state of mind then she ain't had no tears left to cry

  • @julianabarbosa9247
    @julianabarbosa9247 4 роки тому +76

    Karl marx movie about how society is even capitalizing tears

    • @jonathangems
      @jonathangems 4 роки тому +1

      You don't understand Marxism. Check out the House of Rothschild.

  • @tietjen666
    @tietjen666 4 роки тому +35

    Commodifying and monetizing everything is dehumanizing. We have sold our personal authenticity and are thus, starved for it.

  • @leroyj3627
    @leroyj3627 3 роки тому +69

    This is absolutely the creepiest, most realistic, most moving, most... disturbing... "horror" movie I have ever seen... by far! WOW!!
    I just KNEW this would be an amazing production based on the like/dislike ratio. Impressive work. Great acting, great storyline, settings, music, etc. Thank you!

    • @franklinsannicolas2409
      @franklinsannicolas2409 2 роки тому

      FUNNY AND STUPIDEST JUDGE CASES. YOU CALL YOURSELF DOWN PAYMENT SO THEY RENT YOU NOT YOUR HOME? THAT'S FUNNY. PICK HIM UP. HA HA HA YOUR MOTHER AS YOUR DEFENDANT AND YOU ARE? I DON'T KNOW. I DON'T KNOW I MOCK. HA HA HA THEY LAUGH.

    • @insanelittlefangirl
      @insanelittlefangirl 2 роки тому +2

      @@franklinsannicolas2409 wtf

  • @ashokwwf
    @ashokwwf Рік тому +4

    Physical pain doesn't cause as much tears as emotional pain. Emotional pain doesn't cause as much tears as onions.