Ye, be kind or bugger off. Mantra for life. We are with you Mandy on your new journey of discovery. As a woman who has braved and overcome the difficulties of menopause, I salute you with love 🙏🙏❤️
Really looking forward to seeing where this channel goes, Mandy. One thing I do know is that it will always be an enjoyable watch because of who you are - a kind hearted, open and honest human being. That alone will bring plenty of us along with you. 🙂
I don't very often comment but I have so enjoyed watching you blossom. The menopause has given you wings and courage to be your lovely self. I'm looking forward to watching your channel and see you evolve.
I’m so glad I’ve just found this channel. I’m excited to see where it goes & excited to come along. As (another) woman that has been through some difficult challenges & menopause I’m with you on all those topics.I have a little microcamper and it has literally been the best thing ever for my mental health. I’ve found freedom and adventures. Wishing you well 💕
Subscribed!! Ofcourse we would!! 🥰Nice to see you have your own van build project too!! .. looking forward to seeing what you do and how you are getting on! Sod all the not so nice comments, ignore, dust yourself off! Learn, grow and more importantly BE YOU and HAVE FUN!!! .. We will follow, laugh, share the good and bad times with you and support where we can!! We just know you will be great, hope you do too!!
Good luck with your Chanel. I do need to learn how to cook a bit more so looking forward to that part of your Chanel. Van build will also be very interesting, give us a mini van tour of the new van 👍🥂
I'm so excited for this. Currently I feel such contentment at seeing other people happy when they've had a struggle. Life throws some crap at us, but we're a resilient bunch.
More adventurous Mandy can be your new handle once the new van is finished.👍... I'm sure all of us would love you to name the new van Bumble II ❤❤❤ Subscribed on my viv-i-van and Kenny channels so I'll follow you and comment using both depending on which one I'm on. wishing you a fab new channel where you can share more than van stuff. Mental health is important so that subject-especially as menopause affects mental health ( it did with my mum) should be helpful to others going through it. Mainly though, it should be a channel expressing everything you need to get off your mind. As ever, many best regards and massive respect-Kenny
Be kind or bugger off, love it Mandy! Like the F word I don't use it nearly enough when it's appropriate. I am through the menopause now (I think!) still have space cadet days, where I have to just go with the flow as fighting it results in tears. I started when I was 48 but continued to have periods until I was 60 and then a cancer scare forced me to have a full hysterectomy and then the real fun started, some days I would swear an alien had stepped inside my head and body as some of my decision making was downright dangerous. However, I am in a much better place now, much more like my old self used to be, I didn't have any help or support, as it wasn't deemed life threatening. So I helped myself, read and listened to everything I could about it, changed my diet, got more exercise and stopped the anxiety of "what ifs". I am no expert as I realised one size doesn't fit all and you don't always follow the same pattern as your Mum or other women. I can honestly say it does get better and you will come through it stronger, wiser and happier. Sorry this is a bit long. 💪😊 Xx
I can’t wait to see you Mandy build your camper van…..talking about the menopause on this channel will be amazing to I’m going through it big time not getting any sympathy from my husband…but I’m working on him ….you are amazing….
Good luck Mandy! I for sure will be (continuing to be) following all 3 channels, and as my better half has also been going through the Big M, I’m looking forward to learning and gaining understanding about it all, from both a male and female perspective. Good luck!! ❤
Its so nice to see more people talking about peri-menopause, its so important. For too long people have hidden 'illnesses?' that shouldn't be hidden. Well done Mandy for speaking up. xx
Love the colour of the van Mandy. Look forward to watching your progress. Take your time with the name. Something will pop into your head at some point that's perfect. Love and Big Hugs to You Both X
Been following you two for ages. I always do enjoy your vids so much Mandy. Looking forward to this new channel. The travel, the build, And the cooking. Ive tried some of your peevious stuff. I'm especially looking forward to the menopause chat, it's about time the taboo of this subject was put in the past. I've Davinas book on my Santa list so I can try figure things out a bit but your chats so far have helped me think I'm not going barmy. I think it'll help my husband too, so I've told him subscribe as well. Good luck with the channel, the build and everything ❤️
Well, isn’t this fabulous ❤. Without talking, how do we come to know anything. Me and Suze love you and John…. And we now have 3 channels to watch. 🙌🙌🙌🙌☕️. Looking forward to all that’s to come ❤️
Good luck with the new van build Mandy, I’ve watched you both for a while. Your new channel sounds great, you are an awesome courages woman I take my hat off to you doing all the solo van life trips while dealing with the stress of the menopause. I really felt for you when your where feeling upset and down. You now seem like a new butterfly spreading its wings and ready for new adventures Looking forward to your new channel
Looking forward to this channel Mandy . Looking forward to the van transformation from a women’s perspective,looking forward to your cooking snippets,looking forward to menopause discussions.
So fab to see you on your own channel. All the best for the new van build you are awesome to take that on. Will still watch all 3 channels now. It will be wonderful to see more of both of you and how things are getting on. Stay strong and power on!!! You have got this!!! ❤
Hi Mandy , been following you and John for a while now. You have been an inspiration for us and a great help with how the van life works... looking forward to watching you build ... bumble version 2. ? And then following your... un-adventures. See you down the road, Nuts on Tour.
Late to the party but finally here! So proud of you both and we will be following all 3 channels. We are particularly interested in pizza in the air fryer #upgradingtoecoflow As you may know Trudy is doing the menopause thing to and oh wow is it kicking arse! So 100% on board for a support network for everyone effected. Be kind or bugger off. Please turn that into your first piece of Merch and we’ll have a couple of hoodies please!
Hari OM Yes, here I am... had tech trubs last night so got delayed getting here and signing on! Very excited for you Mandy, love the idea of this channel and your thoughts for it. At 63 I am finally (with some points of qualification) coming out the other side. 20 years of ggaaarrrkkkk.... if you were to read a manual on all the possible effects of peri/menopause, I'd tick every box. Sigh. Only those who are experiencing it can understand. My mother, (may her old socks in heaven be blessed) declared she never knew she had menopause. Nonsense, of course, but she is one of several in my acquaintance who apparently have had no trouble at all. 😵 Hey ho.... YAM xx
Been following you for a while now and it’s lovely to you grow in confidence. Applauded you for actually speaking about menopause and how we have changed since and how we can’t go back to how we were before. I’ve never thought about it like this and have been beating myself up about it for many years. Nice to know that John understands a little and he is trying. Wish all husbands were like that!!! Looking forward to your new van build and will watch with envy. Be proud of yourself on how far you have come. As my My Mum says “sock it to them sister” ❤❤
You are doing a great job, Mandy- hats off to you :) 'Be kind or bugger off' is it going to be your first van sticker? Go on, I'll be the first to order one! We have been following you and John for a long time now and enjoy your vlogs. What a brilliant idea to have a camper each, looks like you found the perfect solution :) Looking forward to more vlogs from both/each one of you :) Trying out your cinnemon roll tomorrow, Mandy. I'm drippling already :D
We absolutely adore you Mandy, and this new channel will be just as wonderful as you. We are with you 100% on your new journey of discovery, fun, challenges and learning…about time I learnt to pull up my big girl pants as well (from Cassie…not Derren 🤣) Go for it girl, and enjoy the next chapter 😍❤️😍x
Mandy I just wanted to say Thank you, without watching the struggle that you have been having I wouldn’t have even thought about menopause and thinking while watch you oh I’ve have that and then listening the Davinas menopausing book on audiobooks I’ve got my self on HRT and feel so much better it’s not 100% sorted for me but it’s a work in progress, so thanks 🥰
BE KIND OR BUGGER OFF said in a true manc way bloody love now subbed and as kiddy as a kipper to follow your adventures and van build it will be like having a pocket mandy with me x what else could ya want ❤
Hi Mandy, I have so enjoyed watching you find yourself over the summer in Bumble and making your own way. It is great however that your relationship with John has remained strong and supportive of each other. I cannot wait to see how you get on with your new van and wish you all the best with your new channel. I love the recipes, keep them coming - can we have the macaroni cheese recipe with a link to your cooking pots please.
We will be with you Mandy on your exciting new venture, after all you guys inspired us to go full time and we are loving it, so thanks and good luck 🙏👍🥶
Good for you, you got this, ☺️😉 congratulations, what's going to happen to Bumble, I saw that you sold Bumble,xx congrats you're going to have fun and will get a lot of enjoyment out of building your own, then it will be how you want it xx ❤️, we love you guys, I went through Menopause at 37 , had a prolapse, and had a little bit of mood swings not a lot, but I do understand and get this, It does get better 🙂😉👌
Totally agree with you keyboard warriors can bugger off love the recipes after losing my husband earlier this year I sold our beloved Autosleeper and bought a campervan so am now going solo with my little dogs so maybe meet you for a coffee one day if we happen to be in the same part of the world I need to get out you are certainly not rubbish love the vids I wanted to say love the chicken and bacon dish I do sort of the same but I chop chicken and bacon fry off take out then peppers go in then mushrooms with garlic oil and onion substitute as I cannot eat either then when softish add the chicken and bacon and stock bring to simmer then add pasta and cover making sure it does not boil dry and then when pasta done add yogurt or soft cheese to make sauce all in one pan I normally make enough for 4 servings of the sauce and freeze 3 so I have some to take out in the van sorry for long post love the veggies stock as well take care can’t wait to see your van build take care xx❤
Nice to see you looking happy. I am a fellow peri menopause friend, trying to work it out. I work in the hair industry and trying to educate stylists of a young age on how to deal with hair changes. I love that you too are trying to get the conversation started. Enjoying your blogs, keep going 😘
Ohhh hair changes. I didn't know what was A Thing. Mine has driven me demented for years (am confirmed peri since tests in 2017). I do be so tempted to use the dog clippers to shave it all off at times. Do you know if hair goes back to "normal" or if this weirdness stays forever?
@@GTiRGurlie Yes! Have you had your bloods done? I’d look at taking a hair supplement, it will really help. The best thing you can do for your hair is to eat a balanced diet. Lots of good nutrition and hydration. Also if your hair has gone finer relook at your hair colour (if you colour it) I have stopped having hilights with bleach as it was snapping. Hope that helps 🧡
@@LadyBMotorhomeAdventures Yeah I'm monitored a lot coz I've severe Endometriosis. But my GP is useless with women's health tbh. Any suggestions on a hair supplement? My nails are in bits too - they tear in layers instead of break. I've started on Source Of Life stuff just for general well being coz iron and sodium are very low. I do try eat a balanced diet but I've found that the more meat I eat, the less the endo acts up. I'm an awful shambles
Hi Mandy, great to see how supportive you and John have been towards one another over the year. Also, you showing great courage to understand, change and accept the 'menapause warrior' inside yourself. I thought and often still do, think I was going crazy when my body and moods changed. Diagnosed constantly by thr GP as depressed...when it was all logical and understood once I watched Davina McColl documentary. Good to grt the elephant out of thr room (Hope it doesn't become an agony channel though - your positive attitude towards everything is what's made you different. Yes air, explore, adapt and move on 😊. Hope to catch up one day in my moho at a Meet Up - woukd be great to see a Facebook page with events on - so people can feel part of a female community in vans, safely. 😊. Will be watching and learning along the way with you. 👍.
It is being spoken about a lot more now which is how it should be and it really needs to continue and get much better too..! Every woman will go through it at some time so it’s criminal that it’s not better. I’m learning how to just listen or try and fix so hopefully lending a virtual ear will be helpful and others reading lovely comments and helping too will be amazing There are lots of women’s campervan groups on Facebook - my favourite is facebook.com/groups/634312691244033/?ref=sharefacebook.com/groups/634312691244033/?ref=share&exp=7ffb but maybe something else might come from this channel, one step at a time 😁❤️
Love it be kind or bugger off!! Menopause I completely broke 3 years ago and was put on antidepressants in hindsight this was probably not what was needed. I now can't get off them. Yes they helped but was unsure of my route to deal with the menopausal issue.
Anti depressants are really commonly prescribed during menopause - it was the first thing I was offered too.. I know many people on them and they do help ❤️
Awwww it made me sad when you asked for people to be nice. I honestly really really don’t understand how anyone could be anything but nice to you Mandy. We’ve met you a couple of times and you were so warm and friendly and a real genuine soul. Mandy I wish you so much luck with your new channel. All the best to you and John xx PS going to try your cinnamon rolls when we head off to Scotland on Boxing Day xx
Hi Mandy 👋 I’m Em, 50 & also menopausal☺️ So I’m looking forward to watching this and getting involved in the discussions. Btw you are far more adventurous than you think, get this, I’ve NEVER been abroad 🤣 good luck with everything, you’ve got this! Team Meno! Em💛
Yey Mandy, great to see you here! Looking forward to joining you on your 'non adventurous' adventures. You will be kinda epic I know. And as far as menopause goes ... been there, done that and out the other side all without medical intervention ... I went the herbal route and thoroughly recommend it. You do get the old you back when it's buggered off and life is wonderful again, I promise you. Good luck with the build and the fab new channel 🚐 Oh and btw, I've just bought myself a Mirider!!! Bring on the MiRider ride out ....I ❤️ it !!!!!!
That is so good to know and hopefully you won’t mind joining in the discussions in the comments and tell that to others too ❤️ it’s very comforting to hear
Go Team Mandy !! 😂 Looking forward to seeing Bumble 2 take off, your continuing adventures from here in the West Country, and your recipes. I went throught the menopause 20 years ago in my early 30s, so if I can remember that far back....... ! Glad I'm well past it is all I can say. xx
Awesome! I hope you address women’s travel issues, especially traveling solo. Things like feeling secure alone in a park up or boondocking. I find I stay inside my little rv when I travel alone. I have a small dog that needs walkies, so how to feel safe away from your rv. How to handle roadside emergencies when you don’t have the safety net of a spouse to rescue you. Basic rv maintenance. I find if I take my rv in for service, I have to be firm in saying no I don’t want all the extras you want to add on, just do what I asked for. But if I take my son and have him talk to the service rep, it gets done no problem. Maybe address female hygiene issues. After menopause, the old plumbing starts to develop leaks, especially when lifting ebikes or kayaks into your rv. I can’t wait to see where you go on your un-adventures! I’m along for the ride!
They are all good points, I felt the same when coop was with me in bumble but I found parking in well lit places helped a lot there. I’ve got a list going so I’ll add it to that ❤️
Glad to hear things are on the up for you both. It’s a good mantra is that…….Be Kind -Or Bugger Off……with you on that one. Your a lovely lady and the times we have been in your company we have really enjoyed. Really looking forward to this channel as we do the other channels ❤️
Well done, Mandy. I take my hat off to you and John for how you've both handled the changes. But this... this is bloody brilliant! "Be kind or bugger off!" needs to be a bumper sticker or something. We'd definitely buy it! Maybe even a tee shirt! Love it! And always remember, you are always worthy. Sending so much love to you as you embark on this new part of your journey
As a male, and living with my partner who went through the menopause, without sounding nasty, was an absolute nightmare. Somehow we got through it. Separate rooms etc, lots of space, and above all, learning how to understand what she was going through. My advice for any men out there who are going through the nightmare that these ladies have to endure, is to do a bit of research, learn how to manage the changes, but above all, reach out to people who have been through it, or going through it. And don't forget, it doesn't last for ever. Perseverance and understanding are key.
Exciting times, good luck! Speaking as someone who's too scared to drill a hole into a wall I look forward to seeing you build your new van and may even be inspired to pick up a drill myself!
My name is John, and my Wife is going through the peri menopause, and has been for 2 yrs. I can say it's put a strain on our relationship, but mainly it has been hard for ME to get my head around this and try to understand it. Therefore from a male point of view I can identify exactly what you are both going through. Looking forward to many chapters of your new channel and think you are so brave to speak out so very well done xx
Three-way subscriber here and looking forward to all your ideas, especially the menopause stuff. After a brush with breast cancer and a chemical menopause at 52, natural menopause hasn't happened. I've now got to have my ovaries out to kick-start it and (due to the cancer) no HRT. I'm dreading doing this a second time and all advice will be gratefully received!!
I’ll be doing a little video about the things I’ve learned so far and will cover the supplements I take so hopefully that’ll give you a bit of info - plus if the John and Mandy videos are anything to go by, make sure you check out the comments section as there are so many lovely people who will offer advice for what they’ve found helpful too ❤️❤️
Mandy when I first discovered the John & Mandy channel perhaps over a year ago, you guys were half way around Europe I think, what your previous Vlogs have, is what I will get/get from the 3 separate except more of …your right 3 for the price off…chanel I love Johns gadgets stuff, geekie but awesome …you two together hilarious and a great partnership, you and bumble on your travels brilliant …your like a great friend…….so looking forward to your chanel, good luck you are awesome ❤
I wish you both all the best, you and John seem to be dealing with things in the most sensible way. Giving each other space to change is wonderful. My marriage broke down during Peri (should have done it years before) and the man I'm with now had a couple of years of 'peak me' then broken me. He's a keeper tho because he accepts whats going on and is so supportive, I am very lucky. I think I'm coming out of the fog now and trying to rebuild the person I was/am. Happy travels and i look forwards to future vids. x
Hello Mandy. Been watching John's channel for a while and he mentioned your new channel, so here I am. Just wanted to mention the Zoe Health Study video on menopause in case you did not know about it.
Looking forward to more content, especially cooking in the van - (spotted a recipe with the Ridge Monkey already) and watching you become Ultimate-Adventure Mandy 😉
Very well done you. My wife did your van conversion with the only participation from me was to participate in discussions about layout and an extra pair of hands for those jobs that needed it. We have both gone through the menopause (only three months between us in age) together and have come through to the other side, still together and happy. #bekindorbuggeroff ❤️🤣
I love the “Be kind or bugger off” that should be in everyone’s minds every day, as a bloke I can’t understand what living with the menopause is like, but what I can understand is what it’s like for a bloke being with his wife during that period of time. It puts such a strain on relationships and very strong relationships, guys don’t understand what is happening and initially neither did my wife. Until we understand what’s happening we don’t talk about what’s happening, add this to the rest of stuff that goes on in our lives, it is very easy for a downhill spiral to escalate. Rest assured there is light at the end of the tunnel and you will both be stronger together, we are. Keep safe and positive and I look forward to the future instalments.
Ah thank you ❤️ it’s lovely to hear a man’s perspective on things. It really is hard but understanding and communication are key (not too much communication and it has to be the right time of course or we might get mad or cry or both.. 😂) seriously though, it’s nice to hear a positive outcome too ❤️
Already love following "John and Mandy". So excited to add your new channel too! Thank you!
Ye, be kind or bugger off. Mantra for life. We are with you Mandy on your new journey of discovery. As a woman who has braved and overcome the difficulties of menopause, I salute you with love 🙏🙏❤️
Really looking forward to seeing where this channel goes, Mandy. One thing I do know is that it will always be an enjoyable watch because of who you are - a kind hearted, open and honest human being. That alone will bring plenty of us along with you. 🙂
Well said ! Couldn't have put it better.
Thank you so much ❤
Well done Mandy, the new van build is certainly not unadventurous….Go for it !! The process will give you a lot more than a new camper….Enjoy😅❤❤❤
Good luck with new channel looking forward to following the new van build, the cooking and obviously the travels 😀
I don't very often comment but I have so enjoyed watching you blossom. The menopause has given you wings and courage to be your lovely self. I'm looking forward to watching your channel and see you evolve.
Thank you so much, you can leave comments like that whenever you feel like it 😁❤️
I’m so glad I’ve just found this channel. I’m excited to see where it goes & excited to come along. As (another) woman that has been through some difficult challenges & menopause I’m with you on all those topics.I have a little microcamper and it has literally been the best thing ever for my mental health. I’ve found freedom and adventures. Wishing you well 💕
Subscribed!! Ofcourse we would!! 🥰Nice to see you have your own van build project too!! .. looking forward to seeing what you do and how you are getting on! Sod all the not so nice comments, ignore, dust yourself off! Learn, grow and more importantly BE YOU and HAVE FUN!!! .. We will follow, laugh, share the good and bad times with you and support where we can!! We just know you will be great, hope you do too!!
Sorry to see Bumble go, but what an Amazing Adventure, to start your own Van Build, I for one will enjoy following your new channel.
Good luck with your Chanel. I do need to learn how to cook a bit more so looking forward to that part of your Chanel. Van build will also be very interesting, give us a mini van tour of the new van 👍🥂
I'm so excited for this. Currently I feel such contentment at seeing other people happy when they've had a struggle. Life throws some crap at us, but we're a resilient bunch.
Ah that’s lovely ❤️ I love that too.. we are blimmin resilient aren’t we? 💪🏻
More adventurous Mandy can be your new handle once the new van is finished.👍... I'm sure all of us would love you to name the new van Bumble II ❤❤❤ Subscribed on my viv-i-van and Kenny channels so I'll follow you and comment using both depending on which one I'm on. wishing you a fab new channel where you can share more than van stuff. Mental health is important so that subject-especially as menopause affects mental health ( it did with my mum) should be helpful to others going through it. Mainly though, it should be a channel expressing everything you need to get off your mind. As ever, many best regards and massive respect-Kenny
Looking forward to see the van build and your new adventures 😀
Be kind or bugger off, love it Mandy! Like the F word I don't use it nearly enough when it's appropriate. I am through the menopause now (I think!) still have space cadet days, where I have to just go with the flow as fighting it results in tears. I started when I was 48 but continued to have periods until I was 60 and then a cancer scare forced me to have a full hysterectomy and then the real fun started, some days I would swear an alien had stepped inside my head and body as some of my decision making was downright dangerous. However, I am in a much better place now, much more like my old self used to be, I didn't have any help or support, as it wasn't deemed life threatening. So I helped myself, read and listened to everything I could about it, changed my diet, got more exercise and stopped the anxiety of "what ifs". I am no expert as I realised one size doesn't fit all and you don't always follow the same pattern as your Mum or other women. I can honestly say it does get better and you will come through it stronger, wiser and happier. Sorry this is a bit long. 💪😊 Xx
love the ethos Mandy, the world needs more kindness and people just like you.
Go Mandy. Nice to “partially“ see ‘Bumble V2’. Can’t wait to carry on following your unadventures! x x
Thanks Dave, I can’t wait to get stuck in 💪🏻
I can’t wait to see you Mandy build your camper van…..talking about the menopause on this channel will be amazing to I’m going through it big time not getting any sympathy from my husband…but I’m working on him ….you are amazing….
Good luck Mandy! I for sure will be (continuing to be) following all 3 channels, and as my better half has also been going through the Big M, I’m looking forward to learning and gaining understanding about it all, from both a male and female perspective. Good luck!! ❤
Nice to see your new van I hope your bumble present from Plymouth willl also go in your new van xx
Wonderful Mandy, we can be unadventurous all together, perfect.
Love your new van, let the journey begin 🥂
Its so nice to see more people talking about peri-menopause, its so important. For too long people have hidden 'illnesses?' that shouldn't be hidden. Well done Mandy for speaking up. xx
Good luck Mandy on your new adventure, looking forward to your van build as I've been following Johns 🙂
Looking forward to all the new content. Best of luck with your new channel. ♥️
Love the colour of the van Mandy. Look forward to watching your progress. Take your time with the name. Something will pop into your head at some point that's perfect. Love and Big Hugs to You Both X
Been following you two for ages. I always do enjoy your vids so much Mandy. Looking forward to this new channel. The travel, the build, And the cooking. Ive tried some of your peevious stuff. I'm especially looking forward to the menopause chat, it's about time the taboo of this subject was put in the past. I've Davinas book on my Santa list so I can try figure things out a bit but your chats so far have helped me think I'm not going barmy. I think it'll help my husband too, so I've told him subscribe as well. Good luck with the channel, the build and everything ❤️
Well, isn’t this fabulous ❤. Without talking, how do we come to know anything. Me and Suze love you and John…. And we now have 3 channels to watch. 🙌🙌🙌🙌☕️. Looking forward to all that’s to come ❤️
Good luck with the new van build Mandy, I’ve watched you both for a while. Your new channel sounds great, you are an awesome courages woman I take my hat off to you doing all the solo van life trips while dealing with the stress of the menopause. I really felt for you when your where feeling upset and down. You now seem like a new butterfly spreading its wings and ready for new adventures Looking forward to your new channel
Looking forward to this channel Mandy . Looking forward to the van transformation from a women’s perspective,looking forward to your cooking snippets,looking forward to menopause discussions.
So fab to see you on your own channel. All the best for the new van build you are awesome to take that on. Will still watch all 3 channels now. It will be wonderful to see more of both of you and how things are getting on. Stay strong and power on!!! You have got this!!! ❤
Hi Mandy , been following you and John for a while now. You have been an inspiration for us and a great help with how the van life works... looking forward to watching you build ... bumble version 2. ? And then following your... un-adventures. See you down the road, Nuts on Tour.
Your wonderful love you to bits 🤗 good luck with the new channel and the new build 😍👍 van looks lovely ... 😘🤗❤👵🐾🐾🐾🤠 xxxx
Thank you 😁❤️ I can’t wait to get started on it
Late to the party but finally here!
So proud of you both and we will be following all 3 channels. We are particularly interested in pizza in the air fryer #upgradingtoecoflow
As you may know Trudy is doing the menopause thing to and oh wow is it kicking arse! So 100% on board for a support network for everyone effected.
Be kind or bugger off. Please turn that into your first piece of Merch and we’ll have a couple of hoodies please!
Ah sorry meno is causing trouble there too ❤️❤️ love the idea of hoodies like that - I’ll have to look into them.. thank you
Best of luck with the channel Mandy, great that you two will keep working together.
Good luck with the new channel Mandy and the van build x
I always enjoy your vids Mandy. Looking forward to following the van build and watching your travels. Hope to see you on the road. Cheers 😊
Thanks Gaz, hope to see you soon too
Good on yer Mandy for talking and tackling these issues.....and you will love you're new van more than ever doing it yourself, trust me !
Hari OM
Yes, here I am... had tech trubs last night so got delayed getting here and signing on! Very excited for you Mandy, love the idea of this channel and your thoughts for it. At 63 I am finally (with some points of qualification) coming out the other side. 20 years of ggaaarrrkkkk.... if you were to read a manual on all the possible effects of peri/menopause, I'd tick every box. Sigh. Only those who are experiencing it can understand. My mother, (may her old socks in heaven be blessed) declared she never knew she had menopause. Nonsense, of course, but she is one of several in my acquaintance who apparently have had no trouble at all. 😵 Hey ho.... YAM xx
Been following you for a while now and it’s lovely to you grow in confidence. Applauded you for actually speaking about menopause and how we have changed since and how we can’t go back to how we were before. I’ve never thought about it like this and have been beating myself up about it for many years.
Nice to know that John understands a little and he is trying. Wish all husbands were like that!!!
Looking forward to your new van build and will watch with envy. Be proud of yourself on how far you have come. As my My Mum says “sock it to them sister” ❤❤
It's been a journey for us both, that's for sure.. he is a good un which is why he's still here 😂🥰
You are doing a great job, Mandy- hats off to you :) 'Be kind or bugger off' is it going to be your first van sticker? Go on, I'll be the first to order one! We have been following you and John for a long time now and enjoy your vlogs. What a brilliant idea to have a camper each, looks like you found the perfect solution :) Looking forward to more vlogs from both/each one of you :) Trying out your cinnemon roll tomorrow, Mandy. I'm drippling already :D
Looking forward to the van build 😀 👍
We absolutely adore you Mandy, and this new channel will be just as wonderful as you. We are with you 100% on your new journey of discovery, fun, challenges and learning…about time I learnt to pull up my big girl pants as well (from Cassie…not Derren 🤣)
Go for it girl, and enjoy the next chapter 😍❤️😍x
I thought Derren kept his big girl pants for weekends? Ah I love you guys too..!! We should all be brave together 💪🏻💪🏻
@@unadventurousmandy 100% 😍x
Good luck with your new channel Mandy. Looking forward to you watching your adventures X
Mandy I just wanted to say Thank you, without watching the struggle that you have been having I wouldn’t have even thought about menopause and thinking while watch you oh I’ve have that and then listening the Davinas menopausing book on audiobooks I’ve got my self on HRT and feel so much better it’s not 100% sorted for me but it’s a work in progress, so thanks 🥰
BE KIND OR BUGGER OFF said in a true manc way bloody love now subbed and as kiddy as a kipper to follow your adventures and van build it will be like having a pocket mandy with me x what else could ya want ❤
Aww thanks chick 😁❤️ at least UA-cam has an off switch eh? 😂😂
Hi Mandy, I have so enjoyed watching you find yourself over the summer in Bumble and making your own way. It is great however that your relationship with John has remained strong and supportive of each other. I cannot wait to see how you get on with your new van and wish you all the best with your new channel. I love the recipes, keep them coming - can we have the macaroni cheese recipe with a link to your cooking pots please.
Thanks Sue, I certainly will 😁
We will be with you Mandy on your exciting new venture, after all you guys inspired us to go full time and we are loving it, so thanks and good luck 🙏👍🥶
This is so exciting and I’m delighted for you. You go girl!!!
Thanks Elaine
Hi looking forward to the van build it a lot of work but it’s worth it mine took 12months after work and week ends look forward to next video si
Good for you, you got this, ☺️😉 congratulations, what's going to happen to Bumble, I saw that you sold Bumble,xx congrats you're going to have fun and will get a lot of enjoyment out of building your own, then it will be how you want it xx ❤️, we love you guys, I went through Menopause at 37 , had a prolapse, and had a little bit of mood swings not a lot, but I do understand and get this, It does get better 🙂😉👌
He’s been sold ❤️
Well done you, will be following all three channels as I love your content, look forward to seeing how your van evolves as well ❤
Thanks Vivienne 😁❤️
Marzipan!? Ha ha ha. Love the van and the colour!
Totally agree with you keyboard warriors can bugger off love the recipes after losing my husband earlier this year I sold our beloved Autosleeper and bought a campervan so am now going solo with my little dogs so maybe meet you for a coffee one day if we happen to be in the same part of the world I need to get out you are certainly not rubbish love the vids I wanted to say love the chicken and bacon dish I do sort of the same but I chop chicken and bacon fry off take out then peppers go in then mushrooms with garlic oil and onion substitute as I cannot eat either then when softish add the chicken and bacon and stock bring to simmer then add pasta and cover making sure it does not boil dry and then when pasta done add yogurt or soft cheese to make sauce all in one pan I normally make enough for 4 servings of the sauce and freeze 3 so I have some to take out in the van sorry for long post love the veggies stock as well take care can’t wait to see your van build take care xx❤
Nice to see you looking happy. I am a fellow peri menopause friend, trying to work it out. I work in the hair industry and trying to educate stylists of a young age on how to deal with hair changes. I love that you too are trying to get the conversation started. Enjoying your blogs, keep going 😘
Ohhh hair changes. I didn't know what was A Thing. Mine has driven me demented for years (am confirmed peri since tests in 2017). I do be so tempted to use the dog clippers to shave it all off at times.
Do you know if hair goes back to "normal" or if this weirdness stays forever?
@@GTiRGurlie Yes! Have you had your bloods done? I’d look at taking a hair supplement, it will really help. The best thing you can do for your hair is to eat a balanced diet. Lots of good nutrition and hydration. Also if your hair has gone finer relook at your hair colour (if you colour it) I have stopped having hilights with bleach as it was snapping. Hope that helps 🧡
@@LadyBMotorhomeAdventures Yeah I'm monitored a lot coz I've severe Endometriosis. But my GP is useless with women's health tbh. Any suggestions on a hair supplement? My nails are in bits too - they tear in layers instead of break. I've started on Source Of Life stuff just for general well being coz iron and sodium are very low. I do try eat a balanced diet but I've found that the more meat I eat, the less the endo acts up. I'm an awful shambles
@@GTiRGurlie it’s a tricky time. I take Glowwa hair food and found them very good. No nasty stuff or bulking agents 🧡
@@LadyBMotorhomeAdventures Thank you very much. I'll see if I can get it here
Brilliant Mandy, I will be watching good luck with van build and your future adventures 🙂
Well done Mandy - brave and inspirational - look forward to your journey xx
How exciting ! Congratulations- so brave of you I’m really looking forward to your channel! Thankyou !😊
Hi Mandy, great to see how supportive you and John have been towards one another over the year. Also, you showing great courage to understand, change and accept the 'menapause warrior' inside yourself. I thought and often still do, think I was going crazy when my body and moods changed. Diagnosed constantly by thr GP as depressed...when it was all logical and understood once I watched Davina McColl documentary. Good to grt the elephant out of thr room (Hope it doesn't become an agony channel though - your positive attitude towards everything is what's made you different. Yes air, explore, adapt and move on 😊. Hope to catch up one day in my moho at a Meet Up - woukd be great to see a Facebook page with events on - so people can feel part of a female community in vans, safely. 😊. Will be watching and learning along the way with you. 👍.
It is being spoken about a lot more now which is how it should be and it really needs to continue and get much better too..! Every woman will go through it at some time so it’s criminal that it’s not better.
I’m learning how to just listen or try and fix so hopefully lending a virtual ear will be helpful and others reading lovely comments and helping too will be amazing
There are lots of women’s campervan groups on Facebook - my favourite is facebook.com/groups/634312691244033/?ref=sharefacebook.com/groups/634312691244033/?ref=share&exp=7ffb but maybe something else might come from this channel, one step at a time 😁❤️
Looking forward to your videos mandy .Good luck for the build. 👍x
Love it be kind or bugger off!! Menopause I completely broke 3 years ago and was put on antidepressants in hindsight this was probably not what was needed. I now can't get off them. Yes they helped but was unsure of my route to deal with the menopausal issue.
Anti depressants are really commonly prescribed during menopause - it was the first thing I was offered too.. I know many people on them and they do help ❤️
Awwww it made me sad when you asked for people to be nice. I honestly really really don’t understand how anyone could be anything but nice to you Mandy. We’ve met you a couple of times and you were so warm and friendly and a real genuine soul. Mandy I wish you so much luck with your new channel. All the best to you and John xx
PS going to try your cinnamon rolls when we head off to Scotland on Boxing Day xx
Camper cookbook. BRILLIANT x
Hi Mandy 👋 I’m Em, 50 & also menopausal☺️ So I’m looking forward to watching this and getting involved in the discussions. Btw you are far more adventurous than you think, get this, I’ve NEVER been abroad 🤣 good luck with everything, you’ve got this! Team Meno! Em💛
Yey Mandy, great to see you here! Looking forward to joining you on your 'non adventurous' adventures. You will be kinda epic I know. And as far as menopause goes ... been there, done that and out the other side all without medical intervention ... I went the herbal route and thoroughly recommend it. You do get the old you back when it's buggered off and life is wonderful again, I promise you. Good luck with the build and the fab new channel 🚐
Oh and btw, I've just bought myself a Mirider!!! Bring on the MiRider ride out ....I ❤️ it !!!!!!
That is so good to know and hopefully you won’t mind joining in the discussions in the comments and tell that to others too ❤️ it’s very comforting to hear
Good luck with the new van build and the new channel. Xx
Well said. I look forward to hearing more from you (all 3 channels!!!) 😊😘😉
Looking forward to watching your videos. x
Go Team Mandy !! 😂 Looking forward to seeing Bumble 2 take off, your continuing adventures from here in the West Country, and your recipes. I went throught the menopause 20 years ago in my early 30s, so if I can remember that far back....... ! Glad I'm well past it is all I can say. xx
Good luck with the channel Mandy 👏🏼 would love to see any vegetarian / vegan meals 🌱
Thank you ❤ There’ll be plenty of those too
Awesome! I hope you address women’s travel issues, especially traveling solo. Things like feeling secure alone in a park up or boondocking. I find I stay inside my little rv when I travel alone. I have a small dog that needs walkies, so how to feel safe away from your rv. How to handle roadside emergencies when you don’t have the safety net of a spouse to rescue you. Basic rv maintenance. I find if I take my rv in for service, I have to be firm in saying no I don’t want all the extras you want to add on, just do what I asked for. But if I take my son and have him talk to the service rep, it gets done no problem. Maybe address female hygiene issues. After menopause, the old plumbing starts to develop leaks, especially when lifting ebikes or kayaks into your rv. I can’t wait to see where you go on your un-adventures! I’m along for the ride!
They are all good points, I felt the same when coop was with me in bumble but I found parking in well lit places helped a lot there. I’ve got a list going so I’ll add it to that ❤️
Looking forward to watching your new build x
Glad to hear things are on the up for you both. It’s a good mantra is that…….Be Kind -Or Bugger Off……with you on that one.
Your a lovely lady and the times we have been in your company we have really enjoyed.
Really looking forward to this channel as we do the other channels ❤️
Thank you
Well done, Mandy. I take my hat off to you and John for how you've both handled the changes. But this... this is bloody brilliant! "Be kind or bugger off!" needs to be a bumper sticker or something. We'd definitely buy it! Maybe even a tee shirt! Love it! And always remember, you are always worthy. Sending so much love to you as you embark on this new part of your journey
Well done Mandy. I think you’re bold and brave. Keep on being you. Good luck with your channel. X
Thanks Anne
So excited for all the future flogs with you. Love you❤️
Ooo, I love a cook book Mandy! I also love your other channels as well. I'll be with you all the way 🥰
Love the ethos ‘be kind or bugger off’ 😁
As a male, and living with my partner who went through the menopause, without sounding nasty, was an absolute nightmare. Somehow we got through it. Separate rooms etc, lots of space, and above all, learning how to understand what she was going through. My advice for any men out there who are going through the nightmare that these ladies have to endure, is to do a bit of research, learn how to manage the changes, but above all, reach out to people who have been through it, or going through it. And don't forget, it doesn't last for ever. Perseverance and understanding are key.
Woo hoo Looking forward to seeing you more. Your heart is solid. You have a beauitful heart. Love your attitude. Take care.
Exciting times, good luck! Speaking as someone who's too scared to drill a hole into a wall I look forward to seeing you build your new van and may even be inspired to pick up a drill myself!
My name is John, and my Wife is going through the peri menopause, and has been for 2 yrs. I can say it's put a strain on our relationship, but mainly it has been hard for ME to get my head around this and try to understand it. Therefore from a male point of view I can identify exactly what you are both going through. Looking forward to many chapters of your new channel and think you are so brave to speak out so very well done xx
Lovely Mandy! look forward to seeing your videos!
Thanks Max
Three-way subscriber here and looking forward to all your ideas, especially the menopause stuff. After a brush with breast cancer and a chemical menopause at 52, natural menopause hasn't happened. I've now got to have my ovaries out to kick-start it and (due to the cancer) no HRT. I'm dreading doing this a second time and all advice will be gratefully received!!
I’ll be doing a little video about the things I’ve learned so far and will cover the supplements I take so hopefully that’ll give you a bit of info - plus if the John and Mandy videos are anything to go by, make sure you check out the comments section as there are so many lovely people who will offer advice for what they’ve found helpful too ❤️❤️
Ah yes, breast cancer and enforced Menopause. What a complete s#!t show that's been for me. It's good to share to help each other out. X
Mandy when I first discovered the John & Mandy channel perhaps over a year ago, you guys were half way around Europe I think, what your previous Vlogs have, is what I will get/get from the 3 separate except more of …your right 3 for the price off…chanel
I love Johns gadgets stuff, geekie but awesome …you two together hilarious and a great partnership, you and bumble on your travels brilliant …your like a great friend…….so looking forward to your chanel, good luck you are awesome ❤
Whoop whoop looking forward to your new channel Mandy 👍👍👍
happy new channel Mandy 👏 ... and woo hoo new van 😍
I wish you both all the best, you and John seem to be dealing with things in the most sensible way. Giving each other space to change is wonderful. My marriage broke down during Peri (should have done it years before) and the man I'm with now had a couple of years of 'peak me' then broken me. He's a keeper tho because he accepts whats going on and is so supportive, I am very lucky. I think I'm coming out of the fog now and trying to rebuild the person I was/am. Happy travels and i look forwards to future vids. x
Hello Mandy. Been watching John's channel for a while and he mentioned your new channel, so here I am. Just wanted to mention the Zoe Health Study video on menopause in case you did not know about it.
already commented on j&g looking forward to the new build and adventures mandy take care lovelies.
Looking forward to more content, especially cooking in the van - (spotted a recipe with the Ridge Monkey already) and watching you become Ultimate-Adventure Mandy 😉
Looking forward to your unadventurous ventures Mandy! Sure John will be a great help, just don’t let him fit the van window 🤦🏼♀️😆 xx Lisa
He’s the only person I’ll let fit my van windows ❤️❤️😁
Brilliant 👍 just going to watch xxxx
Yaaaaaaaaay…!! Thank you my lovely 😁❤️
Think that would be the best title for a book about Menopause, ‘ Be nice or bugger off’ 😂😂
Very well done you. My wife did your van conversion with the only participation from me was to participate in discussions about layout and an extra pair of hands for those jobs that needed it. We have both gone through the menopause (only three months between us in age) together and have come through to the other side, still together and happy. #bekindorbuggeroff ❤️🤣
I can’t wait to see what you get up to all the best and many happy travels to come 😊👍
Cheers Will, hope you’re well ❤️
Wooohoooo! Good luck Mandy, we'll be following along on your new journey. Exciting times :) 😍
Looking forward to following you Mandy, love your humour and honesty x
The van colour is very nice 👍
I love the “Be kind or bugger off” that should be in everyone’s minds every day, as a bloke I can’t understand what living with the menopause is like, but what I can understand is what it’s like for a bloke being with his wife during that period of time. It puts such a strain on relationships and very strong relationships, guys don’t understand what is happening and initially neither did my wife. Until we understand what’s happening we don’t talk about what’s happening, add this to the rest of stuff that goes on in our lives, it is very easy for a downhill spiral to escalate. Rest assured there is light at the end of the tunnel and you will both be stronger together, we are. Keep safe and positive and I look forward to the future instalments.
Ah thank you ❤️ it’s lovely to hear a man’s perspective on things. It really is hard but understanding and communication are key (not too much communication and it has to be the right time of course or we might get mad or cry or both.. 😂) seriously though, it’s nice to hear a positive outcome too ❤️
Well done Mandy. I'm really looking forward to seeing your videos 💚
winner winner chicken dinner . go girl. loving it ,👌👍🧡❤🧡❤