I Don’t Want To Be A Good Woman 🙅🏻♀️
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- Опубліковано 27 чер 2024
- #feminism #feminist #bodyimage #womenempowerment #womenempoweringwomen #womensrights #girlspower #girlpower #feminismisforeverybody #POV #girlsstruggles #selflovejourney #selflove #selfacceptance #claradao
being a good woman can have so many different definitions. society has created such enforcing stereotypes 😞
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Yes or you can try to be a good woman like generally a good human:))
@@Oderoderuchte youwe the to memy
@@Oderoderuchte Exactly! Someone with good moral values and a nice caring personality!
@@JustAGirlieOnAMission nono onyou
the poor baby being chucked away 💀
dat kid ded💀
The baby not making it out alive 💀
I loled
Poor baby lmaoo
Yeetus to the feetus
You ate this up so hard. Keep going- we all needed this 🌟
So true
The world has so much bigger issues than her flat body, 😮😂😂
For anyone who needs to hear this:
I love your hair or lack of
I love your forehead
I love your eyebrows or lack of
I love your eyelashes or lack of
I love your tummy
I love your skin
I love your face
I love your hands
I love your legs
I love your arms
I love your neck
I love your heart
I love your confidence or anxiety 😟
I love your cheeks
I love your eyes
I love you mouth
I love your teeth or lack of
I love your lips
I love your moles or marks
I love your scars
I love your chin
I love your shoulders
I love your chest
I love your muscles or lack of
I love your thighs
I love your hips
I love your voice
I love your shins
I love your personality
I love the way you act
I love your figure
I’m proud of you when your happy
I love you when you where makeup
I love you when you don’t where makeup
I love you on your good days
I love you on your bad days
I love you when your in a good mood
I love you when your in a bad mood
I love you when you love me
I love you when you hate me
I’m proud of you when you sleep in
I’m proud of you when you wake up early
I’m proud of you when you feel comfortable
I’m proud of you for showering
I’m proud of you for getting dressed
I’m proud of you for getting out of bed
I’m proud of you for brushing your teeth
I’m proud of you for TRYING to eat
I’m proud of you for being alive
I won’t judge you for your looks
I won’t judge you for your race
I won’t judge you for your background
I won’t judge you for your voice
I won’t judge you for your family
I won’t judge for your life
I won’t judge you for your years
I won’t judge for your language
I won’t judge you from where you come
I wont judge you for your age
I won’t force you to tell me things
I won’t force you to study
I won’t force you to not be yourself
I won’t force you to go with ur of your comfort zone
I won’t force you to where makeup
I won’t force you not to do makeup
I won’t force you to wear what I choose
I won’t force you to pick a religion
I won’t force you to choose me
You aren’t ugly
You aren’t to fat
You aren’t to skinny
You aren’t to buff
You aren’t to annoying
You aren’t to mean
You aren’t to harsh
You aren’t a doormat
You aren’t a bug
You aren’t any less then someone
You aren’t to crazy
You aren’t to evil
You aren’t to selfish
You aren’t to feminine
You aren’t to masculine
You aren’t not feminine
You aren’t not masculine
You aren’t to young
You aren’t to old
You aren’t to tall
You aren’t to short
You aren’t to broken
You aren’t disgusting
You aren’t a toy you
You aren’t a monster
You aren’t worthless
You are pretty
You are handsome
You are unique
You are kind
You belong here
You are beautiful
You are meant to be here
You are not a mistake
You are a leader
You are human
You are just a great as everyone else
You are cool!
I love you in every single way!
Don’t ever doubt yourself I care about you!
I needed this❤ thank you 🙏 ❤
I really cried when i read ur words, thanks really a lot.
I feel more like me boe
im not tearing up you are
That's so sweet ❤
Thanks 😢
I don’t want to be a “good” woman
I want to be myself 💕
The baby needs Justice 😔
This is why ily Clara, you show that women are more than a certain standard, and you show real beauty, your heart and you are absolutely beautiful 💕🫶
Yes, it’s nice that Clara is pretty, although it’s really her heart, vibe, and personality that draws me to her.
the baby was just violated 😭😭
the way she just chucked that baby at the end im dying
thank you clara you ve inspired me so much love ya girl
Praying so we get this for men one day like : i don't wanna be a good man, i don't want to be told i'm never enough don't wan't to be told i'm not strong enough don't want to be told that i'm crying too much, don't want to be seen as a wallet or an ephemeral accomodation, i don't want to be seen as a body you use one night, i don't want to be scared of which path i take when i walk at night cause there might a girl in front and i'm gonna look strange if i walk there, i don't want to be told i'm too nerdy that i like my passion too much, that i don't love myself enough but when i do i end up being told i have too much confidence and that i'm a dick, i don't want girls to stare at me outside like i'm just meat, i don't want to not be able to say hi to a girl without it being taken as flirting, i don't want to be abused and when i report it to the police getting laughed at or accused that i should've defended myself cause i'm a man, i don't want to be groomed and being called lucky cause an older woman is intrested in me, i don't want to be called a demon and names just cause i'm born with XY chromosomes, i don't want to be forced to have sex and if i don't loosing the only person i love, i don't want to be cheated on and be told it's my fault for not being enought
Would be cool if they did that for guys wouldn't it ?
I feel you ❤
Someone should make one like this.. people should spread awareness especially this month, mens mental health awareness month which is not appreciated enough
This is understandable, men should get together and make awareness for thier mental health more and even make a sound about it
Men are going to have make a sound like this one, a women one for women, so men gotta do one for them to spread awareness more
“Praying” my guy you already wrote a bunch of it just make it
Don’t wait for other people, progress isn’t made by waiting. Progress is made by taking action
Workshop this a bit and go for it!
I’ve been struggling with a mindset lately. A mindset of how I should be the ideal woman because I was raised in an Asian family that enforced those standards (like, stay a virgin, take care of kids, always obey men, etc.) After seeing Clara’s channel, I slowly started to become more appreciative for myself and I’m slowly losing my internal misogyny.
You need a man who respects you like a human being...that doesnt see you as less. Its not worth to have a relationship any other way. Otherwise you"ll played. Yeah make your own path. Dont listen to nonsense.
I agree. But just saying girls don’t always need a man. They could want a women too. Or just be independent queens. Even if ur not single ur still a queen. Don’t let others control ur life and don’t let them make u follow a one-sided opinion
You don't have misogyny, you have standards placed on you that a good man wants, just like as a man, I have standards placed on me that attracts a good women. That's what these evil misogynistic standards are there for. To help you deal with what men instinctively want. A woman who sleeps around has bonding issues and Will end up alone later in life.
What you are really doing is becoming a misandrist. See, this though process this woman is pushing comes from a bunch of ugly women in the early 1900's who couldn't get men, so they decided to become feminist, and women, who love to tear down other women try to convince women who can get men to turn against them. Its a revenge against society. Women to day, compared to 100 years ago, are very unhappy and suffer from mental disorders.
My wife does the exact opposite of this woman, she got me, and because she did the exact opposite, she drove me, without nagging, to provide a better life for her and myself. I went from no money to having a mid engine super car in my house I am buying next to her muscle car next to her SUV. She no longer needs to work and all she needs to do is follow her gender roles, make me dinner and keep the house clean.
But by all means, follow this koolaide hair dyed woman, and you will never get a man like me.
@@NoneYaBusiness336 people can want a lot of things. Doesnt mean its the right way
@@etcwhatever I know. I’m not saying that every choice people make is the right way. We make bad choices too. That’s part of life. So if u misunderstood what I was trying to say then sorry if I didn’t put it clearly
Bestie really went “YEET”
You are perfect the way you are girl! Be yourself!! We love a confident queen❤👑💗✨ much love Clara!!!
Thank you Anna Clara❤😊
❤❤❤❤
She is so beautiful ❤
Same ❤❤❤❤ I feel so bad for her
I DONT WANT TO BE A GOOD WOMAN. I WANT TO BE A GOOD PERSON.
All women need this positivity in our lives because not a lot of us have it.
This is not positivity, this is sabotage. I showed this to my wife and she rebuked it. She knows if she had this attitude, we would have never been together or if we were, I would have never told her I would make life better for us. Which I did in spades, she has two cars, I have a super car and we have our own house and she doesn't work.
I think Black Sheep said it best, you can get with this or you can get with that...
You are absolutely beautiful I love your videos so much!!! You look amazing in every outfit and your hair is sooooo pretty you look amazing no matter what, I am on your channel almost every day but I just wish I looked like you😭💗💗💗 you always know how to make someone’s day better
I dont want to be a woman! I want to be myself!
How many cats do you have already?
@@darksideblues135she could have 50 if she wants it doesnt concern you better with cats than someone like you
CGGG FOR 4M Clara ily❤
You're gorgeous 🥰❤
love the you Clara
You are Rocking clara ❤❤❤
I just found you and your boyfriends Chanel, and I have to say that you guys are so cute and you are so lucky to have found a guy who adores you for being the women you are 💗
Us women deal with a lot and that almost made me cry because I know what it feels like and it hard
God bless everyone
Yes we do and men should understand because they deal with problems too
Ur gonna make me cry
Men have higher suicide rates, homelessness. Lose almost always in divorce court, get paid less than women now, told they must make 500k a year, be six foot to even get the attention of a 3.. You are right, women have it so hard.
Sad that Motherhood is looked at as a burden now.
For some, it is.
Not having a kid is a choice. It’s not always looked as a burden. A good mother would love herself like Clara does so she can love her child unconditionally. Some people just choose not to have a kid. Some think it’s a burden, some think their not ready yet, and some just don’t want to have them! That doesn’t mean kids are terrible. We were all kids once. Not everyone will say they want to have kids. Respect their opinion and they’ll respect yours
Your outfits are so cute
It's incredible how you can make us see the beautiful in simple things! Thank you for your amazing stories!
You are so cute 😊
Congratulations on 4 million subscribers🎉🎉
@claradao I love you’re content you help us girls/guys learn to be confident and comfortable in our skin and you teach us right and wrong, that’s what I love abt you and your content❤️❤️❤️
ur so inspiring clara ❤
You go girl!!! But.... What da poor baby do to deserve this... 😢😂
The baby being thrown aside 😭
IKR I ACTUALLY GASPED WHEN SHE THREW IT 😭
Claraaaa you hit the 4 million subscribers🎉🎉🎉
You deserve it
Yes! Being a woman is so hard sometimes!
Finally someone who understands me!!!
This is exactly how i feel right now,my parents dont understand that when i grow up i don't want kids and they are saying thing like:"every adult needs to have kids,thats the purpose of life,if you keep that up no man will want you...oh so you want to take care of us when we'll be on our 60s you want to pamper us...(my dad said that last one)
If i saw too much skin they will say:"where you going like that"even though there are girls who wear more reviling clothes than mine(like almost nothing is covered) which its not bad for me i dont really care actually its their life not mine but still...
My mom in her head thinks that when i grow up im going to be a GOOD MOM just like her(she is always talking nonsense and im not saying this because:"oh its your mom of course you think she is stupid"she literally talks nonsense,always pressuring me,not wanting me to become a model because(her words: That's not a good job,not just for you but for everyone,you should focus on something else,you should also go to college!!(i dont want to go there to waste my life)
My dad thinks that just because he is my DAD and my mom is my MOM,i have to be puppet for them!!!!We are moving out next month and dad found that house that we are going to(its my dads mother house,she has 2 houses so she gave us one and we are going to be neighbours with her)
He wants grandkids from me,he wants me to ALWAYS listen at everything he says, EVERYTHING,he wants things to always be in his way and if something change he is getting mad(he also have anger issues).
In few years,when i become and adult im pretty sure we are going to have arguments and also pretty sure that if THEY STILL DONT UNDERSTAND propably i will never talk to them again.They can't pressure me,they can't ruin my life!!! so ofc if things are wrong im leaving them!(they won't understand i already know it)
For the last months my confidence is up because im watching Clara obviously,and i also had a friend who cared for me and supported me BUT she was always pressuring me,my confidence was getting up but at the same time i was feeling broken inside so i left her(she was also doing and still doing some things that i dont like)
My goals are:Find some REAL friends in the school that I'll go in 3 months.
Saving money so i can buy the things i want and need.
If I'll get a boyfriend i make sure to treat him right and want him to treat me right(and not cheat on me).
If I'll get a boyfriend I WON'T CHEAT ON HIM(never had a boyfriend in my life but always saying that when i find one i won't cheat!!).
Try to be better at school.(in most subjects atleast,i cant deal with math at all😂)
Try to not listen to my parents that much because as i said they are making me feel like shit(they care for me,they want the best for me but they always making me feel bad, always saying things i MUST do in life even though they are not necessary or i hate them, saying or doing things that making me feel uncomfortable,they are always arguing so i always feel like...a pain inside of me because i cant take it when they sre arguing for literally every stupid thing,and more which i can't explain).
I wana learn volleyball,i want to be better at it!
I want to lose a bit fat that i have in my belly,im doing this for my self not because of others!!!(my parents propably want me to be fat like them because everytime im working out or im trying to eat healthier or some times, SOMETIMES skip a meal because im already full from earlier they dont support me!!)
I want to have a glow up to show those stupid ex classmates that i had for the last 3 years that im full of life,i can have friends and REAL friends unlike those fake brats that they have,i can get a boyfriend if i want(there were girls who were calling me ugly thats why im saying this)and THAT I CAN BE A MODEL(a girl laughed in front of my face when i said i would like to be a model in the future).
I wana show my brother that im actually really strong and that i can handle situations(he is always calling me a dumb introvert and I can't really blame him for that😂😂)
And more things,A LOT
Thank you so much if you read all that you are the best.
Also a massage for everyone: don't listen to dump people,you are enough,dont let them bring you down!!!
In case you are wondering im 15 and a half years old.
(English its not my first language so there might be mistakes)
Also i want to thank Clara because she is also boosting my confidence with her videos,She is the best and very pretty on the outside and the inside!!❤❤
If you read all that you are a legend to me
Thank u for sharing. Now others can relate to how u feel. I’m srry u had to go through this
@@NoneYaBusiness336You are a legend❤
@@e-girl6969 ❤️
You dont need to fel insecure about your body as long as you have a pure soul your beautifull so stop listening to haters your’re perfect!❤️
Amazing!! How said that originally ?
Clara: raising children is not my duty *𝐜𝐮𝐭𝐞𝐥𝐲 𝐭𝐡𝐫𝐨𝐰𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐛𝐚𝐛𝐲*
Me:THE POOR BABY!
Guys do you know that if you double click any comment it automatically likes the comment 😂❤
You are so freaking inspiring to me
Everything is well said i agree you go gurll we got your back
I’m so tired of trying to fit into everyone’s idea of me
YOU ARE AN ICON 🔥❤
The baby went ooooooooof😂😂😂😂😂
Btw I love your video not because they are funny they are inspiring to ke❤❤❤
Hey can u pls make wardrobe tour video plssssss ❤❤
Btw love ur channel 😊😊
The video and the message are both true and amazing, I love the way you and whoever made the audio speak about this problem that definitely needs to be more talked about, but I love the way you threw the baby on the floor😂
This is so true 😢
I know this is serious but I’m cracking up about her yeetusing the “baby” on the floor 😭😭
I love you so much❤️you give me so much strength and I don’t now how I could live without you. You are my fav UA-camr💞💞
shes making it seem like these things are bad
These things aren't bad but they're not something great or praiseworthy either. They're just normal things
She just doesn't want to do them
They’re not, what’s bad is making those things the standard for every woman.
She’s saying that we should not only be noticed because of these things. There’s more to a woman than what meets the eye.
@@keerthi0613 they are great and praise worthy
I needed this so much tbh
Thank you❤ for every single video you post
the worst part is when people tell us to sit like a lady but it’s uncomfortable or our legs are hot and rubbing together it’s so annoying
Thx for keeping our spirits up when we need it most. I know a lot people who actually want to have a body like yours. Including myself. But we’re all beautiful just the way we are
Love this video 🎀🎀🎀 (but I died when you chucked that poor baby 💀)
Be yourself because u are perfect the way you are. We all love you❤️
“I don’t want to be a good woman”
*throws baby on the floor*
you mabe me cry l was very sad adout your situati on Do not be sad you are a wohderful and amazing girl Do not be sad we lliw always😢
Raising children or "Motherhood" is the greatest job in life that women have the honor to undertake.... I genuinely feel very sorry for you for having a distorted image about this matter .
She’s allowed to believe what she wants to. Yes I agree childbirth/raising a child is a beautiful thing but if she doesn’t want to experience it then it’s completely fine! Let people choose what they want to do with life. It’s their life. Not yours.
Raising children is indeed a beautiful and important job for both men and women. The problem here is that women are expected to handle this job alone and it causes them so much stress and it affects negatively in the child's education due to lack of care from the other parent.
@@NoneYaBusiness336 Of course, it is her life, not mine. I did not say that she should change her mind. I said that I personally feel sorry for her.
@@parkfifi7026 sorry for misunderstanding. I just wanted to share how I feel about the situation. I thought based on what u wrote u were saying she was having a wrong image of childbirth
@@NoneYaBusiness336 well I personally believe she does
U r my role model u really motivated me ❤
Tossing the child in the end tho 😭 imagine if it was an actual child 😱
I don’t want to be a good man. I don’t want to hide my emotions. I don’t want to cry alone on my room. I don’t want to always be the best. I don’t want to be fearless. I just want to have fun and be myself but I can’t. I’m just 14 years old. Think about this and tell me that being a woman is the hardest thing in the world
Men have struggles too, obviously. She has other videos where she talks about that and I think you should watch them. They could make you feel seen. Everyone should feel empowered as long as they’re not putting someone down or belittling someone else’s struggles.
She’s not a man so she can’t possibly understand fully about what ur going through. Since she’s a woman she’s sharing her experience. Not yours because she’s not a man. I do understand that not just women go through troubles. Maybe find some channel that talks mostly about men supporting men. Or watch her other videos that have things about boys too.
I'm sorry for what you and other men are going through. I think there should be a lot of channels that encourage men to express their selves and their emotions. No one has it harder and both men and women face struggles, and we can't say that women's are more difficult than men's or vice versa. I respect you for being brave enough to express those struggles since most men chose to hide them. Be yourself and don't pretend to be someone or something that you aren't just for other people's sake, and don't hide your feelings no matter what. Those who love you will stick with you for who you truly are.(But don't underestimate women's struggles, their just as though🙂)
🙄Bro..!! These problems are faced commonly by men, women and trans as well.. Mention gender specific problems like clara to spread awareness❤
@@SriSri04395 are you called weak if you cry?
They just tell us to be proper but they always win if you’re a child😢
Lol my friends and family gave up on me doing a “normal well mannered” girl a LONNNNGGGG time ago I don’t need to worry about people expecting that from me anymore. My parents say the pray that I’ll hopefully find a guy who can take care of me bc how “lazy” im am 💀
Also- rip the child 💀
Everybody in here listen! You are all pretty and if you trying to do plastic surgery, don’t do it you are still so pretty🎉 and if somebody says you like this? Omg you are so ugly. If somebody says like this don’t be sad, cause you know you are not ugly ok?😢
*raising children is NOT ONLY my duty
It's a duty for both wife and husband
Omg the first outfit was stunning you looked so pretty you slayed
GUYS WE NEED FANDOM NAMES FOR HER
I luv ur smile sooooo muchhhhhh❤❤❤❤
THE BABY GOT THROWN 💀
Tysm 😢❤💖✨️
It was so powerful till she just dropped the baby😂 love you Clara🫶🏻
You are beutiful don't think you are not beutuful❤
Your beautiful the way you are
You are the reason because of whom i gain my confidence ..❤heartedly grateful to you ✨
Your videos give me confidence thank you for this video
Why is no one talking about the kid she threw at the last? 😅
You are on fire🌸🙌❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥
If you chose to give birth to a baby then it IS your duty to take care of your child
It's both parent's duty
The throw was personal 😭
HELP I THOUGHT THAT WAS A REAL CHILD
(but clara you are an inspiration)
Thank you ❤❤❤❤😢
This made me cry😢
I love this!!!!
I really wanna have a body like you 😢😢
Really 🥺
ewwww i dont
Your own body is just as beautiful as hers! ❤
@@Robin_hood.100 Thank u 🥺
@@Awesomefriendlykid825 u should learn to respect other peoples beliefs. They can wish to have her body if they want to. There’s nothing wrong with it. Idc if u have a different opinion. If u don’t have smth nice to say then shut up. Respect their opinion.
people don’t listen to women when they say no but when a man says no they scream and we leave but woman can’t scream and say no because we will be judged and be told that we need to listen to me and act like a lady more and be more petite and everything
True ❤
Girl killed the baby
You go girl.
So truee
Clara I have hairy legs and u make me feel secure Abt them thank u so much for doing these u keep me going ❤
I feel bad for the baby 💀
luckily it was fake
My family is still really close-minded so they alwayd expect that I act like a lady and get married and have babies,all my sisters wanted to study universitie,but my parents didnt let them,they are all maried now and have children,I hope i am able to break this toxic cycle,you are my motivation Clara❤
I’m so sorry u had to experience that. I hope ur family changes their minds about life for their grandchildren and u.
So greatful I don’t fit any of these standards. I’m myself and that’s all I need to be. Not an object but a living being.
I love but when u threw the “baby” I couldn’t help but laugh
Ok but the baby throw was too violent for me 💀
Rip baby 🕊️
That kid’s gonna start his villain arc early on
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* Baby *
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2024-2024
Rest in piece.
You are beautiful just the way you are
THE BABYYYYYYY😭😭😭😭😭
why does this sound like it'd be a lin manuel miranda song😭