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Exactly, so many people hate on others just because they've finally found the confidence in their body after so long, all because they're insecure about themselves. Society can be so cruel nowadays and I feel bad that most people still haven't learned to be happy for others, where they've found their peace and own happiness in themselves.
That's true I had JUST started to be a bit secure about myself after being insecure my entire life and some people just HAVE to say something to make me feel worse again
People think they have to be perfect, but its not true! Everyone Has weaknesses, but most important is to love yourself! Be happy the way you are, be happy for others, it doesn't matter on your body! It matters on how you feel, sometimes you don't have to care what others say! They are just gold digger, manipulation, mean, selfish, unloving people! I hope people can see how they matter❤
Frrr i got called a boned figure because im a skinny boy
@@Hunterxtessforlife I'm sorry that someone did that to you, but as long as you learn to love yourself and not give a crap about what other people think of you physically, you'll be more beautiful than their ugly personality ❤
@ameliat6975 ty for being there for me if u need someone to talk to abt anything im here for u
Damn right. Bringing others down to make oneself seem better is disgusting 😡
Thank you I get abuse all the time. Im very thin and told not to pet the cat. Going got through cancer scare rn. House mate mate a bad day even worse. Another kilo lost.
@@soniczforever5470I’m so sorry. I believe in you and am praying for you ❤❤
Frrr
The absolute win of being "flat" is that I don't have to spend money on bras, but the absolute loss is to buy XXS clothing 😂
I'm skinny in a country where curvy and heavier women are the standard. Since I was a child I've been told that no one will ever like me. I've even had people laugh at the idea that someone could find me attractive.
what country
Br and same
I am a curvy girl and my mom told me "thank god you got a good body, not like the other girls" and like... you have no idea how insecure she made me, i am so insecure of my thighs and not being able to like hide myself, because i want people to take me seriously, not just "a girl", because no one understands i cant just love the body i'm assigned, i wanna be myself, not be forced into someone im not, it's a weird point of view, but there somewhere is trustworthy people, and they have my heart.
sorry this is two weeks later but, I feel the same on the "no one understands I cant just love the body I'm assigned", people always make assumptions because "others want it" it automatically means it's 'easy to love'. for me, im struggling with body imagery, but, I think it's fun to find things that, even if they still cover, slightly make me a little more comfortable with them. for example: i don't like my thighs either, I hated how I either had no thigh gap or barely did, still kind of do, but I found wearing cute skirts (if you like that dont force yourself to) or thigh-length socks made me feel a little less bad. it made me feel pretty, unlike the typical, and I felt less "people are judging me". obviously this does NOT mean you'll automatically feel better just because of it, and it doesn't always help (some days just suck worse). for me, comments on "other girls" and me being "different" from that, made it worse. I hope that at some point, I don't have this issue, and I feel better. for now, for you at the very least, I'd recommend trying to find some form of accessories you feel make you feel more comfortable with YOU! :D
Maybe stop watching cartoons for toddlers if you want people to take you seriously
@@Grumpy_Liri lol cope
Even though I’m not flat, Clara makes me feel so confident in myself. She so beautiful and kind, Javi is so lucky to have a queen like her 😙
ily2 girl😭💖✨
Her boyfriend got lucky! SHES BEAUTIFUL, SHES KIND, SHES FUNNY, SHE HELPS PEOPLE FIND THEIR CONFIDENCE! SHE PUTS PEOPLE BEFORE HERSELF!
HES MORE THAN LUCKY!
HE GOT A MIRACLE!
❤😊
You have a beautiful body show it off!(That sounds weird sorry) But still a, I wrong?
She's like a ray of sunshine, brightening the world with her beauty.
“Where are ur curves” uhm where are ur manners?
When people are insecure they talk shit about you ❤
i dont even get why people are so obsessed with what Clara looks like. she even gained weight recently too, like she's not even that skinny anymore but ppl stay making the comments lmao
you’re actually so pretty I can’t believe it 🫶🏼✨
"Men will never find your body attractive"
"I feel sorry for your boyfriend"
Huh? 😃🤚
These are all my sayings, i hope i get pinned! I know it's long, but it will make sense!
1. No hate, but don't you have something else to do? People have weaknesses, and so do you!
2. Well, too bad, we don't care! Everyone is beautiful! Even if no one is perfect, no one said we HAVE to be perfect! Now start working on yourself and be nice, I'm not harsh, just saying!
3. At least she has one, I'm pretty sure last time i checked, you are still single and begging for random guys to date you!
4. Of course, she is inspiring! People think they HAVE to be perfect, but it's not true! No one is perfect, we have weaknesses, but all to do is to love ourselves!
How could u hate she looks so cute and pretty and confident and i think u helped a whole lot of ppl who are insecure about there body
GIRL YOU ARE GORGEOUS ❤❤❤❤❤
I wish I looked like you I was diagnosed with pcos and it's a struggle. You are a beautiful lady don't let people get you down
❤❤❤❤
Personally, I think your bf is one of the luckiest men on the planet. You’re freaking gorgeous 😍
Poeple who relized the blue eyes?😅
👇🏽
Exactly like why would you feel sorry for her bf? If he date her he definitely like her!
I only feel sorry for people in toxic relationship
I feel like if your “as flat as a door” they want you to make it seem like you have curves, but when you do have curves you need to cover up because your “showing off”?! Like, hellooo, this is MY body we are talking about..
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“men will never love you for your body” i mean are they supposed to? im a lesbian so maybe im confused? idk i thought they were supposed to love you for you not your body and looks. same for women towards men.
Righttt
“How there you be happy, then I am less flat but still miserable” kind of mindset 😂 losers stay losers.
First you are very unique beautiful, second one, when I see how confident you are I feel like I have a lot of work to do with my inner self, and therefore confidence! Thank you cutie❤ You made me more confident to not give a fuck about beauty standards! Confidence come from inner peace, and inner beauty, so we better all work on that and not butts!
When I first saw you, I wished I was as skinny and flat (no offense bestie❤) as you, but when I actually watched your videos, I’m happy to be me. ❤
It's all about the personality most guys care about the body which is messed up Bth I'm a boy
Fr, this guy in the comments of her recent videos low key said “I just care about mouth and pussy” like what the hell? That was so rude. These boys need to grow up and realize women aren’t objects.
Beauty begins in the depths of your heart and soul, not your outward appearance!
She is a lovely, pretty,delicate girl. She loves her bfriend like crazy . Thats what matters❤ Men should realize s*x is not the priority in life......There r plenty of perfect bodies but to find a soulmate is a miracle 😢😢
People like this are literally the meaning of bullies 🙄🙄
Its better to have confidence instead of perfect body
I am also a girl but literally I'm obsessed with your body ❤❤
It’s so funny because everyone saying that Clara “looks like a door” or “should gain weight” telling her that she needs to get some curves said the opposite to me (I have the body they say Clara should have.) I’m mid-sized. Size 12 to 14 in dresses and tops and size 14 to 16 in bottoms (American sizing.) I have a typical pear shaped body. I am perfectly healthy inside and out as my doctor always tells me. Yet, I’m still not thin enough, I need to lose weight, I’m too “fleshy” etc etc. The point of me telling you this is as women, we will never be viewed as beautiful in this society no matter what we look like. If we are big, we need to lose weight. If we are skinny, we need to gain weight. And if we are in the middle, we aren’t too big but still need to slim down. I was berated daily by my own family when I was overweight and now that I lost the weight I’m told “yeah, you look ok, but you could always be slimmer.” Can’t win either way. And even if every woman in the world had the “perfect” body, society would still find something to criticize us for.
I have started being confident on myself, I’m sure it’s a journey but eventually everyone should find it, and I realize that sometimes it’s better maintaining the people that make you feel bad out of your journey and surround yourself with people that will help
Okay so they’re insecure that’s fine! But talking bull crap about another persons body to let your insecurities out in f-ed up!
Love you clara 💗😁
love you tooo💖💖
Even if Ur flat doesn't ppl won't like U, so don't listen to haters BC pretty id actually in the inside not outside
“I feel bad for your boyfriend..” Girl how do you think they got together?!
Trueee bro ❤❤
True
I love your energy and your attitude, you helped me to love myself more ❤
awww love that for you💖💖💖
@@ClaraDao I was lucky - I'd only started seriously hating myself when I came across your channel. This way, not a lot of harm was done yet, and you helped me get even better and now I help my friends stay body positive. Also you replying to my comment made my day 🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶
You're very pretty so fuck the haters
she writes these comments to herself in order to be content and to elicit empathy
To be honest I think you have a good body I’m not just saying it I mean it
Ur beautiful no matter what you look like so don't let those haters win
I don't know why people like big boobs anyways
i wish i had ur confidence😭
First, second and third comment are right btw
You look amazing and if people don't see that they should look away you shoulded change yourself just be yourself ❤
Yea clara is a.door when shes opened she is full of love and beauty ❤❤
People hate on others because they are insecure about themselves❤
I only hate myself because a lot of people look better than me. And they look skinny so that makes me feel fat.
Tbh, beauty isn’t a fact, its a opinion, everybody has their own opinion of what os beautiful and what is not, u should make ur body ur opinion of what is beautiful
And your boyfriend is very lucky to have you and you are also very luck I am jealous 🥰🥰🥰
Love how people say no one will find her attractive when she has a boyfriend then say they feel bad for him like it wasn’t his choice and like he didn’t find her attractive 😂😂💀💀
எங்களால் அதை வச்சுக்கிட்டு சமாளிக்க முடியல... உங்களுக்கு அது இல்லன்னு நினைச்சு ரொம்ப சந்தோசப்படுங்க❤❤❤
You can do squats because that's what I do because I'm just like you. I hate my body here and I hate my legs and my arms are so hairy and skinny like a bone and everyone tries to tell me to love myself, but I just can't do that in a snap of a finger ya know? It's hard I see so much other people taller bigger. And more beautiful than I am, and that makes me feel insecure compared to them.
Nooo it's the best body type ever you don't need to get bras and put up with heavy sacks of cement dangling from your chest that look so ugly without a bra. I'd kill to look like this! I'm trying. My only hope is to lose a bunch of weight or get surgery. I'm scared of surgery so getting really skinny it is then :(
Kinda hard to do when you love food. I may brave surgery one day
Girl you are stunning dont let anyone make you think otherwise
Your beautiful dont let those people get you down😊
Like if you think so too
I really appreciate your confidence, some people are afraid to go to school they just scared of body shaming 😕 you need to teach us to be bold at every time and love yourself like you do.... 😊 god bless you all ❤
Yep I hate this I mean I’m insecure but I try to feed myself stuff like “I’m worth it”
“I’m pretty” I don’t hate on other ppl I bring them up I’m trying to make a new community and a happier one a safe place for ppl to vent on my vids
You have no bolls😅
I used to hate myself for being flat. After watching ur channel, I went around saying I'm as flat as a chopping board and I'm proud of that ❤. Thxs a lott clara
Commenter :“ I feel bad for your boyfriend”
“ I feel bad for your bathroom mirror”
U R super beautiful and inspiration to others who thinks about their insecurity
UR BOYFRIEND IS THE MOST LUCKIEST MAN EVER WITH A GIRLFRIEND confident,loving,famous,BEAUTIFUL,and supportive
First!! I LOVE your vids!! They give me so much confidence!❤️❤️❤️
Here’s how to answer hate comments:
👏why👏don’t👏you👏just👏fkn👏scrooooolllllll👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Also for the where are your curves, somebody asked me that. I just said “they are ✨nonexistent✨ just like your respect
You're my favourite youtuber ever ❤😘Such a cutie
Yes Clara! That's really how they feel about themselves. They want to push others down to make themselves look good. 😢
“I feel sorry for your boyfriend”
I feel sorry for your mirror
I love your videos so much cause they dont js accommodate ppl who are underweight but make everyone love themselves js that lil bit more ❤
I gained a lot weight after my teenage years. I felt bad about not being able to lose and I tried everything…always had comments from the family and relatives “too late you can never go back to ur original weight” and “you look like a couch”
It’s been nearly 25yrs 😭.
In 2022 summer I started to lose weight by accepting myself ❤️and after 2yrs I lost 20kg feeling. The same
People are now saying I look sick and my doctor said to me “I’m perfectly normal!
you can always to love yourself and love your body, but people always have the choice to love you and your body.
A flat body may be someone preference, but lacking the feminine curve is always giving a sense of missing the final piece of puzzle
My older sister was just shitting on my senior pics, which were taken when I was heavier. It was triggering cause after my ED caused weight loss, I'm trying very hard not to hate my body, even my past body. She deserves love too ❤️🩹
Im very curvy, but im a 30B and i do feel flat, and before people come at me please dont bc im going to explain.
I have a latina friend that is a girl she is cury, big breasts, and a flat stomach, but she has a flat butt, she is sooooo beatiful, and the reason that we are friends is bc i have a chubby stomach, small breasts, curvy, but normal sized butt.
Remember you are gorgous and beatiful ❤
Please sister don't make videos of your body you are the most preety girl in the world ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I habe curves ( size m/L ) and some people say I’m fat. My problem is more I’m too tall so I need size L for the length. They will always say something about your body no matter if you’re skinny or curvy
Lookk u r so beautiful i literally comepare myself w/ you i want a flat chest and i apply tape all over my chest cuz my uncle made me feel insecure and I cried so hard cuz i hate having a big chest and now i think i have cancer i am 11 btw
Also sry for bad grammer😂
I will never understand why people insult others. We're all different, with different body shapes and appearances, why souls we be insecure tho? Someone is tall, someone's short and so on. We'll never be the same :/
Hey Clara, i cant tell if my mom is toxic or not.. when she sees flat women she always says that they look like a board ): And then the other things are just personal so i cant overshare- please notice
The beauty of a woman isn't just in her body; there are many other things that count, like her intelligence, her kindness, and her character, which are more important. A woman can do many things without having more curves. Only men with bad ideas in their heads always think about the curves of their girlfriends.
I hate it when people bodyshame people who didnt choose to look like it! But guess what? Your confidence makes you even more beautiful than you already are! Dont hate yourself! Its not your job to have a ton of curves for men walking by!
I have been realising this more and more. Some people smile at you. Some give you a look that you smell like piss. Because they are the ones who are insecure with your body type.
‘Don’t make your insecurity, my insecurity’ is what I would say. But because I’m respectfull enough to not hate someone, I choose to let it slide.
Why would anyone feel bad for her boyfriend? Clearly he finds her beautiful or he probably wouldn’t have chosen her for his girlfriend🩷
Can all these comments does shut up all the bad comments you look beautiful to the top and the bottom and it doesn't matter how you look you look perfect the way you look 🥰🎉❤❤😂 and I love you ❤️
Any man would be jackpot lucky to be your boyfriend! You are very beautiful!
Clara you r so real. I love that you r not only beautiful and smart but confident. You dont need to be fake. Many of these haters r fake as plastic with their silicone breast or fake butt. Girls love yourself and don't change for anyone.
Ypu look good though, idk why other guys would make fun of you, one of my best friends looks like you, just with blond hair, and less asian, lol, but people shouldn't make you feel insecure about yourself just because your chest is flat, or you ass is flat, that just doesn't make sense to me
I love your videos, Clara ❤❤❤
Thanks to you i'm not insecure about my body ☺
I want to have a body like yours, but i'm opposite 😢
I don't have a good figure ☹️
Have a great day! ❤
I have a flat chest but I could breastfeed my baby who became overweight. An organ is an organ. Its value does not depend on its appearance only. 😊
Don’t listen to that as long as you like your body and you are confident that’s all that matters and your Gorgeous ❤❤❤
Gurl stop posting about how flat youare! Your perfect just the way you are ❤
I remember when my body started changing as a teen and during changing in the rooms all the girls were envious, insecure when they saw me- and me being autistic, anything that they said to try and degrade me bounced right off me as i truly love me for who i am, and i promised myself that it isnt their problem if they feel i look prettier? Not my problem.
You are honestly so beautiful. Your boyfriend is a very lucky man. ❤❤❤
Nothing wrong with your body! People that say other wise are just jealous haters!
Someone told me I was as flat as a notebook 😙
Real beauty isn't skin deep it's in the confidence and way you carry yourself.
You are an attractive and beautiful young lady, always be proud of who you are.❤
Your boyfriend loves you for you he’s not one of those trashy guys who only wants one thing
I always find the bonus of being small is that I can buy kids clothes and avoid sales tax
You are curvy enough for the right young man just be you you have a beauty that is awesome 😊😇🤩🤩🤩
As a girl with hourglass figure we often called fat bevause of our curves, no one is perfect!