Analyzing the ESFJ

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  • @seventhsheaven
    @seventhsheaven 6 років тому +315

    *ESFJ Mom:* lEt mE teLL yoU eVeRY LIttlE dETail aBouT ~mY daY~ 💁‍♀️
    *ENTP kid:* 😣

    • @SaraMBTI
      @SaraMBTI  6 років тому +38

      And my friends sons day. Oh, and his girlfriend... 😁🙆

    • @elpensadorrene2824
      @elpensadorrene2824 6 років тому

      D8? Jajajajajajajaja

    • @page__kevon7038
      @page__kevon7038 6 років тому +3

      my mother’s an esfj and Im an entp.....

    • @seventhsheaven
      @seventhsheaven 6 років тому +7

      cory mcblowy Same!! It’s...interesting to say the least. Our conversations are 99% her talking and 1% me going “uh huh”.

    • @page__kevon7038
      @page__kevon7038 6 років тому +1

      klj788986sbb that so weird though? how is that possible

  • @JustaRandomDude
    @JustaRandomDude 6 років тому +386

    Beep. Boop. Bop. INTP collecting knowledge. Adding "Category: ESFJ" to mainframe.... Analysis Complete. User has become 74% human.

    • @SaraMBTI
      @SaraMBTI  6 років тому +35

      Hahaa! Gotta love Intps!

    • @enfpflower5751
      @enfpflower5751 6 років тому +24

      I love your sense of humor

    • @seventhsheaven
      @seventhsheaven 6 років тому +39

      INTP E R R O R C O D E: TR011
      User:/ENTP has accessed the database “INTP”
      File name ‘Useless Trivia’ has been added under Category: General Knowledge
      0b of free space remaining out of 6TB

    • @enfpflower5751
      @enfpflower5751 6 років тому +2

      Just Some Guy you’re welcome 😊

    • @user-jb2dd2hd8i
      @user-jb2dd2hd8i 6 років тому +6

      Daaawww you guys are huggable androids!😍

  • @prima2589
    @prima2589 6 років тому +145

    I'm INTJ.
    Why am I doing this to myself.

    • @timothyo718
      @timothyo718 6 років тому +42

      Prima
      You know you secretly like these girls.

    • @KrypticKiss18
      @KrypticKiss18 5 років тому +27

      @@timothyo718 seriously. People think Esfjs chase Intjs when it's the other way around lol

    • @_productivity__nill_1131
      @_productivity__nill_1131 5 років тому +4

      INTP here

    • @idiotslife8508
      @idiotslife8508 3 місяці тому +2

      @KrypticKiss18
      TRUE

  • @cloudspotting8451
    @cloudspotting8451 4 роки тому +72

    My friend's Mom is an ESFJ, and she always asks a billions questions about everything

    • @joshuapowell3526
      @joshuapowell3526 4 роки тому +7

      It's like, please think a little about your questions and filter the ones that could be obvious from the ones that aren't.

    • @JohnnyjayV
      @JohnnyjayV 3 роки тому +11

      I think that's more of a personality trait rather than a personality type.

    • @vj21oq27
      @vj21oq27 2 роки тому

      It doesn't matter how many questions she asks, she will still make poor decisions and probably has a low IQ.

    • @TaxingIsThieving
      @TaxingIsThieving Рік тому +1

      ​@@JohnnyjayVNope, ESFJs are nosy as hell.

  • @enfpflower5751
    @enfpflower5751 6 років тому +146

    She seems so warm and motherly

  • @_angelindisguise_
    @_angelindisguise_ 6 років тому +59

    She is too sweet. In a good way :)

  • @Mayakran
    @Mayakran 6 років тому +57

    Even her mannerisms are like my mom’s.... freaky XD

  • @sagaxion7455
    @sagaxion7455 6 років тому +166

    Me (INTJ): Is watching MBTI videos with headphones on.
    ESFJ mother: Just begins to talk to me out of nowhere about whatever.
    Me: Stops video and takes headphones off.
    ESFJ mother: Proceeds to talk about what they want to talk about but never gets to the point talking in circles about details that don't matter, ends up talking about an entirely different subject.
    Me: Interrupts to say "So... About that thing you were going to tell me about."
    ESFJ: "Oh right!" Gets to the point but gives way too many details in the process.
    Me on the inside: "Oh my god."
    Me on the outside: Is already watching the video again, nodding as he pretends to listen.
    Happens everytime xD

    • @lunadigioia1824
      @lunadigioia1824 4 роки тому +8

      Intp with esfj mom = relates.... BADLY

    • @janelucas5996
      @janelucas5996 4 роки тому +3

      Lol not for every esfj tho

    • @palmeamasya4084
      @palmeamasya4084 4 роки тому +6

      You described my relationship with my mother.

    • @palmeamasya4084
      @palmeamasya4084 4 роки тому +1

      Sarah can you guess which type i am i heard you are very talented about guessing the types. :)

    • @giovannaagnelli6752
      @giovannaagnelli6752 3 роки тому +2

      As an ISTP with and ESFJ mother I know exactly what you're talking about

  • @Julia-ey4zd
    @Julia-ey4zd 6 років тому +188

    Everybody's mum

  • @stevester9148
    @stevester9148 6 років тому +52

    ''Judging unconventional ways despite being intrigued by them'' You NAILED that one. It's actually the calling card of an ESxJ. Like they find something either dumb or too weird but then......''Tell me more?'' You rarely see that with us ISxJs. When it's too weird, we just want to shift the topic to something we know inside and out and crow about our extensive knowledge on it. Ne things make us feel dumb and inadequate. It's like asking an INxJ out of nowhere to throw a baseball as far as they can. No thank you, what will that prove?

  • @nguoinhat3621
    @nguoinhat3621 6 років тому +18

    Awesome analysis, i've learnt so much from you and your videos, Sara!
    keep up the great work!
    From an INFJ male

    • @SaraMBTI
      @SaraMBTI  6 років тому +3

      Thank you, brother type 💕

  • @user-vw6xp5nl6t
    @user-vw6xp5nl6t 6 років тому +37

    Great analysis! :)

    • @SaraMBTI
      @SaraMBTI  6 років тому +2

      I am glad you enjoyed 💕

  • @John99lm
    @John99lm Рік тому +1

    Good analysis Sara! Keep em coming!

  • @verasundstrom8114
    @verasundstrom8114 6 років тому +17

    These videos are super helpful!
    I'm having some serious issues on trying to type my friend. (she's either an ISFJ or an ESFJ) It's usually not very tricky for me to type people, but MAN her personality seems to change literally multiple times per day...
    is there any super distinct difference between the two types so that I could find her type for good.

    • @SaraMBTI
      @SaraMBTI  6 років тому +4

      Thank you :)
      You may contact me, I could try to help

    • @AislingVT
      @AislingVT 11 місяців тому

      Probably its unrelated, she probably have BPD

  • @saragamma4019
    @saragamma4019 6 років тому +13

    Damn. Two in a day! Nice!

  • @Marissa.99
    @Marissa.99 6 років тому +18

    This vid is nice, but Sometimes i dont get it why people sees esfj as if they sees shit, and i'm sad.

  • @bafbaas1210
    @bafbaas1210 6 років тому +5

    okay this my mom and clearly a friend of mine whom i thought was enfp or esfj but now i'm sure she's esfj.

  • @AImighty
    @AImighty 6 років тому +52

    Pretty much everyone’s mom 😂

  • @elpensadorrene2824
    @elpensadorrene2824 6 років тому +5

    My parents are ESFJ. I am ENFP-ENTP. It is like Penny girl and Penny boy living with Sheldon Cooper/Peeta Mellark big part of the days...

    • @YEDxFILMS
      @YEDxFILMS 4 роки тому

      That’s an easy fix. Do you think more analytically -true/false- or more morally -right/wrong-

    • @elpensadorrene2824
      @elpensadorrene2824 4 роки тому

      @@YEDxFILMS Morally.

    • @YEDxFILMS
      @YEDxFILMS 4 роки тому +1

      Elpensador René it’s been a year, so you probably have already deduced this, but if morality is something you care more about, then I’d say you are an ENFP.

    • @elpensadorrene2824
      @elpensadorrene2824 4 роки тому

      @@YEDxFILMS 👌🏻👌🏽👌🏼

  • @YEDxFILMS
    @YEDxFILMS 5 років тому +8

    The most overprotective mom there is, but the most loving mom as well

  • @myrtila
    @myrtila 3 роки тому +20

    I Adore esfjs and they’re soooo underrated

  • @akaboo69
    @akaboo69 6 років тому +13

    Jessica alba? Or am I wrong

  • @madladiesscientists6894
    @madladiesscientists6894 4 роки тому +6

    I think my mom maybe and esfj, lol. This sounds like her 😂😂😂 I'm an infp. I wonder what that means about our relationship?

    • @Lavender0810
      @Lavender0810 3 роки тому

      Sometime we need to know if we/them in demon mood or in normal mood

    • @someonesomewhere6123
      @someonesomewhere6123 3 роки тому

      @@me_lero I wish mbti types were inherited. I imagine life to be easier if at least on of our parents had the same type as ourselves.
      When someone has a perent who is the same type as themselves the parent with the same type could lead the child into becoming a healthy and succesful version of their type just like they are. Of course that would only work if the parent is a healthy and succesful version of their type. But at least they wouldn't make it worse for their child.

  • @absinthesesotericadventure7631
    @absinthesesotericadventure7631 5 років тому +8

    I love her! She acts like me :)

  • @Kyrojii
    @Kyrojii Рік тому +3

    Is it me? or everyones mom is an esfj..

  • @lauraf.e2788
    @lauraf.e2788 2 роки тому +12

    As an INFJ, spending more than 10 minutes with an ESFJ is literal hell. Please spare me.

    • @TaxingIsThieving
      @TaxingIsThieving Рік тому +2

      You're both FJs

    • @AislingVT
      @AislingVT 11 місяців тому +1

      I'm ENFJ and I'd say its unbarable. I'd hope my ESFJ mom would think a little before asking questions, and get straight to the goddamn point!

  • @timandersen8030
    @timandersen8030 6 років тому +22

    Really need to be adding the name of interviewee, actor or character in the description or in the video.

    • @SaraMBTI
      @SaraMBTI  6 років тому +12

      Tnx for the idea. I need to organize my channel :)
      This is Jessica Alba on Conan's tv show

    • @KrypticKiss18
      @KrypticKiss18 5 років тому +6

      You must be living under a rock if you don't know these people lol

    • @TaxingIsThieving
      @TaxingIsThieving Рік тому

      ​@@KrypticKiss18No we're just INTPs

    • @KrypticKiss18
      @KrypticKiss18 Рік тому +1

      @@TaxingIsThieving my Dad is an NTP of some sort and knows about random celebrities lol

  • @chelseamiracle128
    @chelseamiracle128 5 років тому +4

    My mom is also an ESFJ lmao

  • @AK-jt7kh
    @AK-jt7kh 4 роки тому +13

    I love ESFJs. I wonder what the ESFJ males are like?

    • @VipulSingh-00033
      @VipulSingh-00033 4 місяці тому

      I am ESFJ male ...popular with women ,, always broke into fights with idiots /incels ,, hate to fight and beat and wield power...but have to do it anyway ,,, Though very much liked and respected by ENTJs , ESTJs , ENFJs ,INTPs , INTJs of both genders ...And somehow hated by ENTPs of both Genders like anything for NO REASON mind you .With ESTPs we have mixed relationships it depends,,,and ISTPs think we are shallow and we think of them as dictatorial but develop great liking and Respect when we know each other more...that's pretty much like being an ESFJ .
      And one more thing many people think we get everything so easily like hey you why you get everything so easily...unnecessary hate and competition and Fights which we DO NOT LIKE but ARE LEFT WITH NO CHOICE BUT TO FIGHT and beat out or Cast Out people . That's it.

  • @fatimaalansari674
    @fatimaalansari674 6 років тому +29

    Lol I'm esfj and my mother is isfj😂

  • @littlethoughts2405
    @littlethoughts2405 5 років тому +5

    My mom’s ESTP....

  • @13.carlosm.58
    @13.carlosm.58 7 місяців тому

    As an ENTJ I really like the average ESFJ. I suppose it has to do with their INTP ego

  • @Olivetree80
    @Olivetree80 6 років тому +8

    now I'm really thinking my mom is an Esfj not Enfj. My parents are the hardest for me to type...🤔I picked up a lot of Fe-Si mannerisms from my mom, and she's very similar to her.

    • @SaraMBTI
      @SaraMBTI  6 років тому +6

      As an Enfj with an Esfj mother, I can tell that we are very different in many aspects. The only thing that is similar is strong sense for caring about the people. Ok and we like to talk 😂
      Inferior Ti manifests in a different way for these two types, me lacking Si and mom lacking Ni makes us very different.
      Many other little things too, but I won't bother you any longer, dear Infp 😄 :)
      I hope you find out and I understand your struggle, I typed so many people but I am never sure about my grandmother :O

    • @Olivetree80
      @Olivetree80 6 років тому +2

      Sara MBTI it's no bother :D my mom is just so intuitive and wise, but also very in touch with her physical needs, and can seem annoyed with my Infj sister when she's too intense or not grounded. I'm thinking she has good tertiary Ne and inferior Ti :)

    • @morningstarhomestead
      @morningstarhomestead 6 років тому +1

      @@Olivetree80 , Davesuperpowers always talks about how people can have a really strong secondary or a really strong tertiary function. I know ESFJ's who have stronger Ne and others who have stronger Si. The Ne ones generally like to research possibilities, find one to implement, and then get really knowledgeable/talented in that subject by collecting research or implementing it physically in their lives (Si). The ENFJ likes to research theories as well, but will generally cling onto one idea to develop in a deep Ni manner. They will have trouble making the idea a physical reality in their lives (id block Si/Te), especially if it requires implementing mundane daily habits. I would also research Ni/Ne eyes.

    • @SaraMBTI
      @SaraMBTI  6 років тому +4

      As an Enfj, I disagree with the part ,,having problems with implementing ideas physically in their lifes" and ,,implementing mundane daily habbits".
      Enfjs are usually very driven and they are ,,hidden doers of things". Far away from lazy. What you've said sounds like Enfjs are lazy and stuck in their own projection of reality.
      Si blind spot (Enfjs) looks like this:
      Bad memory (sometimes even remembering details incorrectly), lacking details when speaking, always looking at ,,what could I do next" (Ni, Se) and having hard time looking back, forgiving people who hurt you in the past because you blocked painful memories, strange experience of nostalgia or lacking nostalgia, experiencing stress when we have to do repetitive tasks (for example working on a fabric track or doing ,copy paste copy paste copy paste' computer work (but even then, I would, for example do one more thing while I'm doing repetitive task- I have to do ,copy paste' work? Ok, let's dance and sing while doing that). We have a hard time realising that we have a headache, that we need to sleep, that we need to stop with something (working, talking, exaggerating etc..).
      Physical work, especially cleaning the house, cooking, doing things for others and instead of others (I will speak for myself and Enfjs I know) we care about things like that a lot.
      I am cooking for my loved ones every single day because I need to see them eating healthy. I feel responsible (Fe, Ni, Se).

    • @morningstarhomestead
      @morningstarhomestead 6 років тому +2

      @@SaraMBTI, (fellow ENFJ here) I agree 100% with all the examples you gave of low Si. I think I worded my thoughts badly above. I do not mean ENFJ's are lazy - to the contrary, they are very energetic and low Si makes it hard for them to just sit! However, I've seen ENFJ's (and ENTJ's) who have grand Ni plans, especially in the business world, but who fail to work out every day small sensory details of their dreams, especially with finances. ESFJ's (and ESTJ's) I've seen in business will grasp at one new possibility and go town on the small details without looking at the big overall trend...for instance they will go into a work from home pyramid scheme that is viable financially at the time and has made money in the past, but that is ultimately on its way out. Also, on a day to day basis, ENFJ's (unlike ESFJ's) can have trouble conforming themselves to a dull status quo with no room for their own improvements as they see them. In my own personal life, I recently had to fix some health issues so I found an intriguing diet know to help others with my issues. It was incredibly hard for me though to follow the small details established by the (ISTJ) doctor, especially since they were based on her past experience with patients and not on the big picture as I saw it. I wanted to keep implementing my own innovations based on how I saw the diet. I loved the original concept of the diet, but the small day to day details with no wiggle room felt stifling to me. Ni/Se always keeps us on the lookout for getting the most out of the moment and moving forward. Sticking to a day to day status quo set up by another can be very difficult for us ENFJ's and I don't see this as true for the ESFJ. They may grasp a new idea, but they find fulfillment in working out those small details. We find fulfillment in seeing Se results of our plan, but not necessarily in honing that plan down to small sensory details.

  • @christinemaelutrania3050
    @christinemaelutrania3050 6 років тому +4

    It reminds me of my mom.. 😊

  • @lunangellus
    @lunangellus Рік тому +1

    Wow on point!

  • @Lolopee
    @Lolopee 10 місяців тому +1

    What did you mean "evokening her tertiary" could you please elaborate

    • @danika9411
      @danika9411 2 місяці тому

      Her tertiary function is extraverted intuition ( Ne ). He was using his intuition, which made her respond with hers. But since he uses NE as his dominant function he uses it more often an cosistently. While she uses hers more as a response to his.
      Her cognitive functions are dominant extraverted feeling ( Fe ), auxillary introverted sensing ( Si ), tertiary extraverted intuition ( Ne ), inferior introverted thinking ( Ti )

  • @mari-h7q
    @mari-h7q 2 роки тому +1

    Are male esfj like this when they tell their stories too? :)

  • @JoJo001Jackie
    @JoJo001Jackie 6 років тому +3

    I was wondering, what do you think Blake Lively’s type is?

    • @choco1199
      @choco1199 6 років тому +1

      JoJo001Jackie I wanna know too🙂

    • @JoJo001Jackie
      @JoJo001Jackie 6 років тому

      Also, I would say Ryan Reynolds is an ESTP

  • @asoom_chan1189
    @asoom_chan1189 3 місяці тому

    loovee from ISFP 🥺🥺💙

  • @LolSnimci
    @LolSnimci 6 років тому +7

    Everybodys mom and my aunt :P edit:double trouble

  • @MrTrashcan1
    @MrTrashcan1 2 роки тому

    INTP here. She's adorable. Why don't I see that in my wife?

  • @almightybeanchild
    @almightybeanchild 6 місяців тому

    Conan is so creepy in this

  • @casemaker1
    @casemaker1 6 років тому

    Sorry to be a bit behind the curve, but what do all these acronyms stand for?

    • @SaraMBTI
      @SaraMBTI  6 років тому +1

      Read about MBTI types and cognitive functions :)

  • @NMD03
    @NMD03 3 роки тому +7

    ENFP sends love to all ESFJ 🤗💕

  • @chamelionvibe9426
    @chamelionvibe9426 2 роки тому

    I thought Jessica alba was an isfp. Is she an esfj for sure?

  • @Horizontal_Squishmalllow
    @Horizontal_Squishmalllow Рік тому

    Lol I found myself

  • @holicdoll666
    @holicdoll666 3 роки тому

    This man so funny tho🤣🤣

  • @beyzaerdem7653
    @beyzaerdem7653 6 років тому +1

    What do you think is Henry Cavill's personality type? I thought he was ENFJ but I read on some sites that he was ISFJ or ESFJ but now that I'm watching your videos I don't think he's xSFJ...
    Edit: btw I love your analyzes of people over films and interviews, they give lots of insights, thanks for your videos ^^

  • @parveensehgal5426
    @parveensehgal5426 5 років тому

    She's like Priyanka Chopra

  • @nitishdas22
    @nitishdas22 6 років тому +3

    Conan O'Brien is entp ???

    • @SaraMBTI
      @SaraMBTI  6 років тому +11

      I think he is an Enfp :)

    • @IndieAuthorX
      @IndieAuthorX 6 років тому +4

      @@SaraMBTI yeah, blurting out his feelings despite them not being socially appropriate.

    • @matthewodonnellgavaghan
      @matthewodonnellgavaghan 6 років тому +2

      He seems like a very stereotypical ENTP to me. Him and Jeff Goldblum are the people who come to mind when I think of famous ENTPs.

    • @ThaleiaFantasy
      @ThaleiaFantasy 6 років тому +3

      @@matthewodonnellgavaghan He's too "friendly" to be ENTP, imo. Not enough bite when people are being ridiculous.

    • @matthewodonnellgavaghan
      @matthewodonnellgavaghan 6 років тому +7

      @@ThaleiaFantasy Just because somebody's friendly that doesn't automatically mean they're an f type. That just means that they're an emotionally healthy, well rounded human being. Take a look at Ricky Gervais who's an ENFP yet he seems like a very disagreeable, smug and elitest jerk.

  • @karinaputri3045
    @karinaputri3045 3 роки тому

    This is soooooo meeeee

  • @TaxingIsThieving
    @TaxingIsThieving 3 роки тому +4

    2:00 What on this earth. ESFJs suck

  • @quicksilver1752
    @quicksilver1752 5 років тому +2

    lol, do you ever make any money from these videos

  • @zinasantana
    @zinasantana 6 років тому +3

    Who is this?

    • @SaraMBTI
      @SaraMBTI  6 років тому +3

      Jessica Alba, actress

  • @neoBiteWave123
    @neoBiteWave123 2 місяці тому

    i love this type of girl, i wish my future wife would be an esfj girl

  • @magicacool7059
    @magicacool7059 5 років тому

    This is me:')

  • @kevinfukthezetamale4298
    @kevinfukthezetamale4298 5 років тому +15

    The type that engages pointless small talk and spreading gossip.

    • @TaxingIsThieving
      @TaxingIsThieving 3 роки тому

      Who are worse, ESFJs or ISFJs?

    • @sinamuller4312
      @sinamuller4312 2 роки тому +2

      The point is to connect with others obviously. Don't ask what the point of connecting is.

    • @TaxingIsThieving
      @TaxingIsThieving Рік тому

      Lmao are you sure?. ISTjs and ESFJs are supposed to be good together... 🤔

  • @hannah_marie97
    @hannah_marie97 5 років тому

    Who is this?