They have been dating for three years. There is nothing wrong with a women expecting to be married after she is proposed to. The villainization of Matilda is abhorrent.
Exactly, this is her culture, nothing bold , I'm from South Africa, nothing animal here...she has invested that time and she is right on wanting a wedding
They have been in a “relationship,” for three years. He said he couldn’t wait he just had to propose to her 5 months prior, and she has been talking to him about the planning literally every day. He knew even before the trip they were supposed to have the ceremony. Not once did he say ANYTHING. That’s not his autism, that’s a man who doesn’t want to risk losing someone so he goes along with it until he can’t then blames it on her- anger, personality, taking advantage of him,, not being able to read his mind, whatever makes her feel guilty enough to call it off but still stay with him.
Let's give him some grace. He did explain that he was nervous about telling Matilda that he wasn't ready. He is also on the Autism spectrum which might be creating additional communication issues.
He asked her to marry him yes. He didn't ask her to marry the first time he went there to meet her. That's what he wants for her to wait to know each other better. Yours and others comments are disgusting
@@loredanadincu4300 I’m talking about timing. He is within his rights to slow down, agreed but he started it and didn’t do anything to slow the train down. The responsibility is on him. I can’t be angry with her for believing him. He made the mistake of proposing to her before meeting. That is on him not her. Pray tell what is disgusting about my post?
He didn't ask her to marry the first time they met. There are a bunch of clowns in this comment section. He wants to wait to get to know each other better. This is the first time he has met her in person. Who from all of you commenting shit will marry after they just meet someone. You people are a bunch of hypocrites.
Right! Like he could have told her straight up he wasn't going to get married the first time he arrived. Better yet not even propose in the first place.
@@satansbbyYes, why propose if he felt the need of knowing her in person first? I think this whole issue is a made up drama to spice up their storyline.
If you don't understand African culture, don't insult her, to be sincere. Africans spend a lot on money on weddings , and we don't date for like a duration of time to get married, so please it's culture
Exactly. People need to understand her. Besides he proposed first so he knows what he’s doing. He’s playing dumb. My fiancé lives in Accra and we are having a royal ashanti wedding at his village and I understand the culture . It has some similarities to my Mexican culture. I understand the submission and I’m still learning Twi because my mother in law can’t speak English so we communicate by me trying to speak the language. I love the culture and my Ghanaian man
@@cia6566 Well aware of Akini, but Kenya has also been featured. The most commonly-known African countries are Nigeria, Kenya, S. Africa, and North Africa -- there's more to explore on the continent, so excited for that to be shown.
@@Rogueviewer1 cMaybe because those other countries don’t use dating apps as much.so take it into consideration these people date on-line before meeting
Emily's mother needs to see that he has to pay the bride price. It is not selling your daughter. I don't know why people marry others outside their culture and then don't learn about their partner's culture. African weddings are big. He should have done his research or asked her ahead of time how big will the wedding be.
Please don't use the word 'everyone'. I assure you not every African thinks like that . Africa has a lot of exposed humans . TLC just picks a select few
@@AmaruEssilfie correct, but I’m just saying when anyone meets an American there’s an assumption they have money when in reality more and more we are struggling here….and I’m not saying all because of course there are wealthy people here just as there are in other countries
He should have told her the wedding is postponed before he went there. It sounds like a lot of planning and preparation has already happened and now it’s too late. Matilda has been upfront with him this whole time about getting married when he arrives, now he has cold feet.
He said he wanted to know her better to make sure she was the person he thought she was when he proposed. Normally, people propose after they've met their love interests the first time. But he proposed over the phone, before they met in person.
I really like her! She seems sweet and fun and way more into him that i thought she was going to be. So far they are my fav couple which surprised me because I didn't think I'd like her. Guess we'll find out if she's sincere or not soon enough!
Niles, Niles, Niles. You should have done the homework. I married a man whose culture has a bride price. He didn't do so the traditional way (mainly because he doesn't have a good relationship with his parents and THEY were supposed to pay the bride price for me) but he still paid his $10k to my mom. I respect it a lot. (even though technically it was OUR money since we were atleast 5 years into marriage by the time it got paid)
I went to a wedding in Ghana, it was so cool and different. We also went to Kumasi... I think Matilda should start the process but not rush it because there's so much Niles has to do to come correctly.
@@meggie423 both the man and the woman but most of the contribution comes from the man's family. Certain wedding rituals is the woman's responsibility like gift for the man's family especially that "hollandis" cloth for the man's mother. Food is normally paid by the woman's family and also the dress but her dress to be precise.
if he canceles the wedding she better block him from her life,what a player !! three years in men's life are nothing compared to women,she lodt three years of her youth waiting for him to come and he wants her to wait more!!
Stop throwing words about!!! He isn't a player. He said he wanted his family to be there and also make enough money, so he just wanted to visit her first. She's clearly being manipulative. Besides, his family doesn't approve of their relationship.
@@patienceacheampong9542 why has he proposed then😅 nd they both joined the 90daysfiance show thats why she thought they will be getting married on this trip, maybe he should think b4 asking women's hand for marriage 😅
@@patienceacheampong9542 hope things work out for their best interest! I agree with you, i think officially dating someone sfter the first date is very hasty move let alone marriage lol
I am from Africa but live in Canada the problem is people in Africa thinks everyone abroad is rich…go figure. I also don’t understand why hey didn’t discuss all these b4 I think it’s TLC story line
I live this couple and you can see they are very much in love. I hope they can survive the challenge of this wedding. It's not that he doesn't want to marry her but he has other people talking in his ear and saying it's too soon. If it's right, it's right. However, Matilda needs to learn about his triggers and how he handles his neurospicyness
It’s been some time so I definitely understand her wanting to be married but they aren’t on the same level mentally. I don’t see her as someone that’s in from the long run. She took him to all the high end stores when she doesn’t normally buy $80 clothing. I believe he should’ve traveled with someone and not alone.
To be honest I am starting to like her bubbly personality, but I still fear that Niles will be overwhelmed by her relative’s list of demands for him to pay for the items.
Look guy has autism, but he needs to get himself together. You decided to propose to this woman no well her culture is different from yours Nigerian culture once you propose it is not for you to put your big pants on and prepare to get married if he’s not ready for the wedding, either financial situation or he feels like he’s being pressured then he should not have proposed to her. He shouldn’t have because now she’s preparing for a wedding by the end before the end of his trip to go back home if he wasn’t ready, he should not have proposed to her. It is not America, when you propose to somebody y’all set a date for when y’all are ready to get married in different countries before he even proposed to her, he should have did some research. He should have done some research to figure out how does marriage work in Nigeria I know he feels overwhelmed and that’s probably part of his autism, but he needed to be a little bit smarter than what he’s doing right now, this goes for anybody who decides to marry somebody African country if you decide to marry somebody especially From a different country especially African country do some research on how marriage works over there because once you get married, they take marriage very seriously and they have a whole different way of how they do marriage so they need to get together
I wouldn't say "taking advantage." I think she's a little naive to think that Niles bears all the financial obligations, including taking care of her and her family. It's kinda absurd but common for a lot of cultures stuck in the past.
@@lovethehandle What do you mean by "stuck in the past"? So condescending. The fact that a desperate and poor village girl is trying to exploit her American boyfriend doesn't mean every woman in Africa is like that. It's very myopic to put all African women in a box, especially coming from someone from a so-called "civilized" country.
@lovethehandle why are you saying that she is taking advantage of him. He proposed, and she accepted. The issue is that due to his autism he turns to shut down when he feels overwhelmed making the communication not effective. Also, she should have tried to learn more about autism to have a better understanding of her boyfriend.
@@patienceacheampong9542how is she actually trying to take advantage of him? Because she accepted to get married to him? Or Because she expects him to pay the bride price and the wedding ceremony expenses? That's a normal thing in most African countries. He should have googled how are weddings done in her culture to know what is expected of him. Additionally, they should have discussed about finances ( taking into consideration the cultural differences e.g in most African couples living in Africa men are expected to support their families financially , i thing in America things are done differently).
In his defense this man is autistic he doesn't fully understand exactly what's going on. All he know is he feels love & don't know how to process all this. Matilda know he's special needs & still put all this pressure on him. I think she want to come to the USA by any means necessary.
Well Niles you asked tge young lady to marry you. So she said yes. And now yiu should marry her thats all there is to it. And then youll have yourself a lively young wife ❤
ben and akini and davide and anni both did bride prize and they're still together. matter of fact both couples are expecting their first baby. they're still friends and live in the same state. they visit each other from time to time.....i know americans don't do dowry or bride prize but a lot of countries do. this is their culture. someone should tell him, this isn't a red flag.....and anytime there's a african on the show there's this triple standard of the american getting scam. the usual double standard for other foreigners but there's more when it's a african......haven't we learned from the past? i don't see anything wrong with her.
All she's concerned is marriage with 200 guests knowing very well about his condition instead of thinking how to get to know him better and see how you will adjust to his kind hello... you just there talking about only marriage is he the one marrying u or the way run,😏😏😏
This is one of the FAKEST storylines I have seen on TLC. Matilda and Niles are a cute couple, but watching them interact, I doubt this is the 1st time they have met. They seem like they are faking their entire storyline for the TLC paycheck, I doubt there is much truth to anything they have said. I believe they are simply a normal couple looking for a little fame and money, and created a lot of interesting details just for the show.
Nah, they wouldn't be on the show, especially on before the 90 days , if they'd met before .. this is what before the 90 days is all about, the first meeting.. And no way Niles would be able to lie his way thru this ..
@annicklagace7414 You are wrong. Jibri and Miona from season 9 had already met before the filming and had already gotten married. There were videos of him way before the show filming that confirmed that. They are a real couple, but they faked their first meetings, and Miona's diva attitude was fake.
This girl is a proper artist. She’s a con artist with a T. It’s too much. This poor guy is so confused. I don’t understand why she’s rushing him to get married girl go and sit down.
Americans are so self absorbed it's embarrassing 😳. Imagine proposing to an African woman and not following through with it. Then because said African woman is excited (Africans take marriage, weddings seriously) Americans call her a con artist. 😒.... the guy here is the problem. He shouldn't have proposed
@bambinaforever1402 she's also attracted him. She like most women, wants to get married 🙄, fortunately a guy proposed. Unfortunately he didn't tell her the whole truth
Welp. Looks like he's getting married since he won't say he doesn't want to get married then. 🙄 Truly absurd to arrange all that & not consult your husband-to-be. Same for him to let her & not share his not wanting to. Maybe they deserve each other.
He said "I think we're past the point of snowballing here. At this point, it's turning into an avalanche... the kind that swallows all of the skiiers up AND THERE'S NO SURVIVORS." That. Sounds. HEEEEKTIK!😂 I feel bad for Niles. He's clearly anxious and his lady is moving too fast she's making him feel anxious.
They have been dating for three years. There is nothing wrong with a women expecting to be married after she is proposed to. The villainization of Matilda is abhorrent.
Absolutely! Well said!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i agree
Villain she's no villain but she's to bold for me
Exactly, this is her culture, nothing bold , I'm from South Africa, nothing animal here...she has invested that time and she is right on wanting a wedding
I meant this is nothing abnormal
They have been in a “relationship,” for three years. He said he couldn’t wait he just had to propose to her 5 months prior, and she has been talking to him about the planning literally every day. He knew even before the trip they were supposed to have the ceremony. Not once did he say ANYTHING. That’s not his autism, that’s a man who doesn’t want to risk losing someone so he goes along with it until he can’t then blames it on her- anger, personality, taking advantage of him,, not being able to read his mind, whatever makes her feel guilty enough to call it off but still stay with him.
People go to other countries to get married and don't know anything about getting married there? Wild.
Let's give him some grace. He did explain that he was nervous about telling Matilda that he wasn't ready. He is also on the Autism spectrum which might be creating additional communication issues.
He didn't go there to get married, he went to visit his online girlfriend for the first time.
Who pays for this wedding? They just want stuff and call it culture
Exactly. Niles had a responsibility to learn his future wife's culture of marriage and all that entails. Anybody could Google that, not hard.
@@meggie423 we learnt from the great whites
"But you asked her for marriage !" What you expect? 😳
Niles is starting to get on my nerves, just tell her the truth!
What truth? I'm new here, please
@@amaantredu3803 he doesnt wanna get married... yet
@@amaantredu3803 gaslight
You do know he’s autistic. It’s not that easy for him
I like her personality.
I think she actually loves this goofy guy lol
I don't know if she loves Niles. But she definately has the hots for him.
No she doesn’t. Most of these people are scammers. They will put on WONDERFUL ACTING to get to the states.
He asked her to marry him, totally mean of him to not have cleared this up before going there.
Hes autistic... They usually are very emotional and base their actions upon feelings
He asked her to marry him yes. He didn't ask her to marry the first time he went there to meet her. That's what he wants for her to wait to know each other better. Yours and others comments are disgusting
@@loredanadincu4300 I’m talking about timing. He is within his rights to slow down, agreed but he started it and didn’t do anything to slow the train down. The responsibility is on him. I can’t be angry with her for believing him.
He made the mistake of proposing to her before meeting. That is on him not her.
Pray tell what is disgusting about my post?
@@loredanadincu4300 bullshit
@@loredanadincu4300Then he should have asked after he met her. He's wrong.
Not gonna lie, I like Matilda so far! She’s the only one that seems genuinely in love with her fiancé🥺 ❤
The lies u tell😂😂
@@Rubylily2509 How is it a lie if it’s my point of view 🙄
Sad you think so , she is a young virgin woman who is enjoying her way to a fairy tale land .
She is asking it
😂No, she's just great at acting.
You shouldn't propose to someone you're not sure you want to marry. If you propose, you should be okay with a wedding ceremony the very next day.
Right, he give Big Ed vibes
@@KaliyahGriffinyes exactly.. sociopathic for sure
He didn't ask her to marry the first time they met. There are a bunch of clowns in this comment section. He wants to wait to get to know each other better. This is the first time he has met her in person. Who from all of you commenting shit will marry after they just meet someone. You people are a bunch of hypocrites.
@jb-ze1yh learn what sociopath means Bozo
@@loredanadincu4300 google is your friend smh 🤦♀️
Autism is zero excuse for lying sounds more like Immaturity
oh dear :(
Right! Like he could have told her straight up he wasn't going to get married the first time he arrived. Better yet not even propose in the first place.
@@satansbbyYes, why propose if he felt the need of knowing her in person first? I think this whole issue is a made up drama to spice up their storyline.
If you don't understand African culture, don't insult her, to be sincere. Africans spend a lot on money on weddings , and we don't date for like a duration of time to get married, so please it's culture
💯
Exactly. People need to understand her. Besides he proposed first so he knows what he’s doing. He’s playing dumb. My fiancé lives in Accra and we are having a royal ashanti wedding at his village and I understand the culture . It has some similarities to my Mexican culture. I understand the submission and I’m still learning Twi because my mother in law can’t speak English so we communicate by me trying to speak the language. I love the culture and my Ghanaian man
I like them both
@@ronnieg6497 Congratulations baby girl, wishing you a happy married life and a fun amazing celebration on your wedding day!
The same way rings are expensive over there. Our focus is not on the price of the ring, it's the ceremony and bride price.
What a genius 😅
Ask someone to marry u, then freak out because she actually accepted, and organized everything 😅
Warms my heart to see this Ghanaian woman featured on the show! We always see Nigeria on 90DF, so this is a nice change of scenery.
Akini is from Kenya and she was on the show.
@@cia6566 Well aware of Akini, but Kenya has also been featured. The most commonly-known African countries are Nigeria, Kenya, S. Africa, and North Africa -- there's more to explore on the continent, so excited for that to be shown.
@@Rogueviewer1 cMaybe because those other countries don’t use dating apps as much.so take it into consideration these people date on-line before meeting
@@Rogueviewer1 Maybe because people from other african countries don't believe in on-line dating simple.Cause that is the pillar of the show
Is North Africa a country?@@Rogueviewer1
200 people is an average size for a Ghanaian wedding . If he doesn’t want to get married he should tell her and stop leading her on .
That is so small compared to Sudanese wedding where on average it’s like 600 people. The majority of wedding halls are catered for 700 plus.
200 people is normal for African it's actually minimum 😂. Maximum can go up to 500.
Maximum 500? No ive been to a wedding of more than 800😂
I love her 😂😂 she has alot of energy
They need to have more couples from Ghana!! 🇬🇭 🇬🇭🇬🇭
Emily's mother needs to see that he has to pay the bride price. It is not selling your daughter. I don't know why people marry others outside their culture and then don't learn about their partner's culture. African weddings are big. He should have done his research or asked her ahead of time how big will the wedding be.
Everyone thinks Americans are rich man we struggling like everyone else
Facts!
Please don't use the word 'everyone'. I assure you not every African thinks like that . Africa has a lot of exposed humans . TLC just picks a select few
@@mazubamwale1560 i am aware of that.. It’s a general statement buddy
This would’ve been expected if she married a Ghanaian as well. It’s not because he’s American
@@AmaruEssilfie correct, but I’m just saying when anyone meets an American there’s an assumption they have money when in reality more and more we are struggling here….and I’m not saying all because of course there are wealthy people here just as there are in other countries
Niles and Matilda are EASILY becoming my favorite 90 day couple of all time.
He should have told her the wedding is postponed before he went there. It sounds like a lot of planning and preparation has already happened and now it’s too late. Matilda has been upfront with him this whole time about getting married when he arrives, now he has cold feet.
He should never said marriage if he is not ready or not.
Why proposes somebody just to back out when she gets serious about planning the whole wedding? Like she look generally happy about the whole thing.
Oh he wants to marry her but not just as soon as he net her for the first time, crazy
Niles should have communicated better about his timeline for getting married.
This is why you have the conversation before you fly there. Make it very clear this is a visit not a trip to get married.
I don't remember the reason he said he can't get married right now?.. she actually seems pretty nice. this could only end bad.
He said he wanted to know her better to make sure she was the person he thought she was when he proposed. Normally, people propose after they've met their love interests the first time. But he proposed over the phone, before they met in person.
This is the first time they are meeting in person
I really like her! She seems sweet and fun and way more into him that i thought she was going to be. So far they are my fav couple which surprised me because I didn't think I'd like her. Guess we'll find out if she's sincere or not soon enough!
No pressure then Niles!
NILES
Matilda is NOT in her 20s why is she lying she’s a 35
I really am tho 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Some people look older. It’s called genetics…
He could have proposed but let her know they weren’t going to be married on this trip
So did u not bother to learn about her culture and traditions..... Looks like another case of Angela and Michael...... Kobe and Emily.....
he is autistic dont forget!
Niles, Niles, Niles. You should have done the homework. I married a man whose culture has a bride price. He didn't do so the traditional way (mainly because he doesn't have a good relationship with his parents and THEY were supposed to pay the bride price for me) but he still paid his $10k to my mom. I respect it a lot. (even though technically it was OUR money since we were atleast 5 years into marriage by the time it got paid)
He’s a little touch what do you expect
Run away Niles!!!
🏃♂️ 🏃♀️ 😮
The kind that swallows all the skiers up and no one lives 😂😂😂
Nile is doing it wrong,he would have told her the truth the moment he landed. Now it's too late
I went to a wedding in Ghana, it was so cool and different. We also went to Kumasi... I think Matilda should start the process but not rush it because there's so much Niles has to do to come correctly.
Poor Niles. He needed to speak up when he first got there.
200 people she's inviting the whole village
Ghanaian weddings are big even 200 is small
Who has to pay for it?
@@meggie423 both the man and the woman but most of the contribution comes from the man's family. Certain wedding rituals is the woman's responsibility like gift for the man's family especially that "hollandis" cloth for the man's mother. Food is normally paid by the woman's family and also the dress but her dress to be precise.
Please you have to let her know as soon as possible
oh for goodness sake! somebody help Niles Pleeeease! I feel so sorry for him! Hes a vulnerable Adult.
Wow poor Niles is kind of staggered and surprised. Niles you need to tell her now as its getting kind of out of hand
Tell her to stop now!
LOL this guy is super sweet
you just gonna have to get married bro 🤣
if he canceles the wedding she better block him from her life,what a player !! three years in men's life are nothing compared to women,she lodt three years of her youth waiting for him to come and he wants her to wait more!!
Stop throwing words about!!! He isn't a player. He said he wanted his family to be there and also make enough money, so he just wanted to visit her first. She's clearly being manipulative. Besides, his family doesn't approve of their relationship.
@@patienceacheampong9542 why has he proposed then😅 nd they both joined the 90daysfiance show thats why she thought they will be getting married on this trip, maybe he should think b4 asking women's hand for marriage 😅
@@spiritedaway99 they'll eventually get married all things being equal, but not on their first meeting.
@@patienceacheampong9542 hope things work out for their best interest! I agree with you, i think officially dating someone sfter the first date is very hasty move let alone marriage lol
@@spiritedaway99 Exactly my thoughts 🤔
Matilda wants a green card 🤮
He is wrong, why ask her to marry him and then retract
Matilda is fun. She seems natural. Up front. What they’re not telling us is about all the promises he made her…. His income?
Depending on different factors, 200 guests is still considered a small event in Africa, am I right, somebody?
They are the cutest couple !!
She should marry her… I like her…she shows him affection and love 💕
Bro looking like what am getting myself into I wanna watch this episode where can I find it
TLC, Max app.
It didn't aire yet. Tomorrow on TLC 😊
He should have been honest with her before he got there
I am from Africa but live in Canada the problem is people in Africa thinks everyone abroad is rich…go figure. I also don’t understand why hey didn’t discuss all these b4 I think it’s TLC story line
💯 facts. It's the truth for all third world countries. But can you blame them when all they see is what Hollywood shows.
Just because you say you are from Africa doesn't mean your statement is true. It would have been better to say " some people," not people in Africa.
Well it’s obvious who will wear the pants in his home.
they are a beautiful couple.
He should not have proposed before coming if he was nervous & overwhelmed. He could at least tell her I'm overwhelmed I need some time to think.
I live this couple and you can see they are very much in love. I hope they can survive the challenge of this wedding.
It's not that he doesn't want to marry her but he has other people talking in his ear and saying it's too soon. If it's right, it's right. However, Matilda needs to learn about his triggers and how he handles his neurospicyness
They’ve been talking for 2 years 😮
She is going to beat him down. Lol
Put us on the map o! Love Matilda
I got this feeling Niles is leaving Africa married whether he chooses to or not.
It’s been some time so I definitely understand her wanting to be married but they aren’t on the same level mentally. I don’t see her as someone that’s in from the long run. She took him to all the high end stores when she doesn’t normally buy $80 clothing. I believe he should’ve traveled with someone and not alone.
It's the twirl for me 😅
At this point he is a punk.
No he's not.
To be honest I am starting to like her bubbly personality, but I still fear that Niles will be overwhelmed by her relative’s list of demands for him to pay for the items.
They do not seem like a couple with chemistry
If you have money I don't know what is wrong with you Niles not letting the wedding to be cos the girl loves you 😊
He has already ate the fruit marriage may not matter after all 😅
She knows he's on the spectrum but alas certain traits/personal agendas are prevailing..I wish she'd stop and check in with the man I feel for him 😢
If he can get a good looking partner there is still hope for me lol
Look guy has autism, but he needs to get himself together. You decided to propose to this woman no well her culture is different from yours Nigerian culture once you propose it is not for you to put your big pants on and prepare to get married if he’s not ready for the wedding, either financial situation or he feels like he’s being pressured then he should not have proposed to her. He shouldn’t have because now she’s preparing for a wedding by the end before the end of his trip to go back home if he wasn’t ready, he should not have proposed to her. It is not America, when you propose to somebody y’all set a date for when y’all are ready to get married in different countries before he even proposed to her, he should have did some research. He should have done some research to figure out how does marriage work in Nigeria I know he feels overwhelmed and that’s probably part of his autism, but he needed to be a little bit smarter than what he’s doing right now, this goes for anybody who decides to marry somebody African country if you decide to marry somebody especially From a different country especially African country do some research on how marriage works over there because once you get married, they take marriage very seriously and they have a whole different way of how they do marriage so they need to get together
Matilda, you are truing too hard.....and Niles, shut the hell up ..
Hope you can afford to feed 200 plus people
I feel like she is taking advantage of him
yes
I wouldn't say "taking advantage." I think she's a little naive to think that Niles bears all the financial obligations, including taking care of her and her family. It's kinda absurd but common for a lot of cultures stuck in the past.
@@lovethehandle What do you mean by "stuck in the past"? So condescending. The fact that a desperate and poor village girl is trying to exploit her American boyfriend doesn't mean every woman in Africa is like that. It's very myopic to put all African women in a box, especially coming from someone from a so-called "civilized" country.
@lovethehandle why are you saying that she is taking advantage of him. He proposed, and she accepted. The issue is that due to his autism he turns to shut down when he feels overwhelmed making the communication not effective. Also, she should have tried to learn more about autism to have a better understanding of her boyfriend.
@@patienceacheampong9542how is she actually trying to take advantage of him? Because she accepted to get married to him?
Or Because she expects him to pay the bride price and the wedding ceremony expenses?
That's a normal thing in most African countries. He should have googled how are weddings done in her culture to know what is expected of him. Additionally, they should have discussed about finances ( taking into consideration the cultural differences e.g in most African couples living in Africa men are expected to support their families financially , i thing in America things are done differently).
She is going to ear him alive 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
They look so cute I really want them to work out
Niles, I really like you.... Matilda ain't worth it
Yes I like him not her
Green card strategy😂❤
In his defense this man is autistic he doesn't fully understand exactly what's going on. All he know is he feels love & don't know how to process all this. Matilda know he's special needs & still put all this pressure on him. I think she want to come to the USA by any means necessary.
yes
Well Niles you asked tge young lady to marry you. So she said yes. And now yiu should marry her thats all there is to it. And then youll have yourself a lively young wife ❤
Nice guy but he should’ve told her he wasn’t ready before he arrived and definitely before sex, of course he waited until ….
You got to love this Two
ben and akini and davide and anni both did bride prize and they're still together. matter of fact both couples are expecting their first baby. they're still friends and live in the same state. they visit each other from time to time.....i know americans don't do dowry or bride prize but a lot of countries do. this is their culture. someone should tell him, this isn't a red flag.....and anytime there's a african on the show there's this triple standard of the american getting scam. the usual double standard for other foreigners but there's more when it's a african......haven't we learned from the past? i don't see anything wrong with her.
😮😢😢😢 he lie to her 😢😢😢
All she's concerned is marriage with 200 guests knowing very well about his condition instead of thinking how to get to know him better and see how you will adjust to his kind hello... you just there talking about only marriage is he the one marrying u or the way run,😏😏😏
This is one of the FAKEST storylines I have seen on TLC. Matilda and Niles are a cute couple, but watching them interact, I doubt this is the 1st time they have met. They seem like they are faking their entire storyline for the TLC paycheck, I doubt there is much truth to anything they have said. I believe they are simply a normal couple looking for a little fame and money, and created a lot of interesting details just for the show.
I bet u believe in a lot of conspiracies too
@@janehyden1652 That is a very stupid thing to say. Have you watched this show before? Pretty naive to think that everything you see on it is fact.
I kinda believe this couple. He is too unsophisticated to pull off this type of deception.
Nah, they wouldn't be on the show, especially on before the 90 days , if they'd met before .. this is what before the 90 days is all about, the first meeting..
And no way Niles would be able to lie his way thru this ..
@annicklagace7414 You are wrong. Jibri and Miona from season 9 had already met before the filming and had already gotten married. There were videos of him way before the show filming that confirmed that. They are a real couple, but they faked their first meetings, and Miona's diva attitude was fake.
She's cute
This girl is a proper artist. She’s a con artist with a T. It’s too much. This poor guy is so confused. I don’t understand why she’s rushing him to get married girl go and sit down.
I know, right. Imagine planning a wedding after someone asked you to marry them and you accepted. She's certainly conning him.
She wants to get to America, what is here not to understand
Americans are so self absorbed it's embarrassing 😳. Imagine proposing to an African woman and not following through with it. Then because said African woman is excited (Africans take marriage, weddings seriously) Americans call her a con artist. 😒.... the guy here is the problem. He shouldn't have proposed
@bambinaforever1402 she's also attracted him. She like most women, wants to get married 🙄, fortunately a guy proposed. Unfortunately he didn't tell her the whole truth
She is gorgeous and kind
Welp. Looks like he's getting married since he won't say he doesn't want to get married then. 🙄 Truly absurd to arrange all that & not consult your husband-to-be. Same for him to let her & not share his not wanting to. Maybe they deserve each other.
He said "I think we're past the point of snowballing here. At this point, it's turning into an avalanche... the kind that swallows all of the skiiers up AND THERE'S NO SURVIVORS."
That. Sounds. HEEEEKTIK!😂 I feel bad for Niles. He's clearly anxious and his lady is moving too fast she's making him feel anxious.
Watchumean……
Avalanche🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Okay with no family of Niles joking him on the Knocking part, will it happen???
Smh poor simp i was told not to get married before the age of 30 or it would be the biggest mistake of your life and hes about to make a big one
Is she bleaching?
Niles must be bleaching aswell cause they the same complexion
She is very forceful. She knows she has a man she can control in a sense.
She is doing waaaayyyyy tooooo much!
Why do I think she musty 😅
Too much to pay hundreds of people