Having toxic parent was a disaster for me. Lost self-confidence , Focusing ability, became emotionally weak and lot more..... but i am dealing with it everyday and one day i Will make my life better and best...🙏
Bro just wanna say that I'm so proud of you for helping yourself to be the best version of you ... I'm glad sending u lot of best wishes and super successful life in the moment itself
All mental suffering is somehow connected to our childhood. You may call childhood trauma as the original wound or cause of other forthcoming traumas later on. Learning about the basics of trauma was informative. It would make the video thousand times more beneficial & if childhood trauma was covered here.
@VladtheImpaler Indeed, that's very true. It's a fact & it has well researched evidence. Psychologists like Freud, Erich Fromm & many classic psychoanalysts have also said so.
I faced trauma or PTSD after my breakup and it's long lasting effects are still present. For example, according to my parents, unlike me, youngsters of my age get a job to settle down with their partners and some even have a kid. Infact sometimes I feel if I start taking fines from people for insulting me/misbehaving with me then I will become the richest person on earth 😂.
Log paise leker wo education dete hai jo ki useless hai (exception is always their )yaha per wo knowledge milti hai jiski value hi nahi lagai ja sakti wo bhi free me Thank you so much sir ❤❤
To all those who believe sandeep Maheshwari is Motivational speaker.. He is not.. He is Psychology himself. Lots of respect sir.. You have changed my life and my perspective. I am way happier than before.❤❤❤❤
*SESSION HELPER:* 00:02 What is Trauma? What are its types? _( Acute, Chronic, Complex and Secondary/ Vicarious)_ 03:22 What is *PTSD* (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder) ? 04:15 What is it's root cause? How can some bounce back but some don't? 05:36 What is *Resilience* ? 08:13 How can we develop Resilience? _( Find a Support, Face Your Feelings, Self Care)_ 09:37 What is the exact definition of Resilience? 11:37 What should be it's definition by Sandeep Sir? ( 14:11 Example 1, 15:03 Example 2, 16:49 Example 3) _(There is always a way out. Stop Trying, Start Thinking)_ 17:35 Is Hard Work= Resilience? How can I feel happy even when I am stressed up or stuck in problem? 26:24 Why is *discussion* better than a support or authority ? 30:00 When Sandeep Sir solved my(your) problem? 31:00 _Resilience= Adaptability+ Creativity(solution oriented mindset)_ & *Adaptability* v/s *Creativity* 35:32 Psychologist's take on Sandeep Sir's opinion _( Resilience means Intelligence and Emotional Intelligence)_ _CBT-Stress Inoculation_ _(__39:51__ Einstein's Example)_ 42:12 Topic for Next Session: *Fear* Remember: *Solution doesn't mean entire solution but it can also mean a step closer to solution.* *AASAN HAI?AASAN HAI!* 😊
Have seen so many videos of motivational speakers/ life coaches But there is actually no one like him.. Blessed to have Sandeep Maheshwari in this generation 🙌🙌
Those who have toxic environment in their life.. And they are in school or college.try to study hard or join library for study near by your locality. You will find peace in library and also find new people same as your age. You will learn new experiences. Faith in urself and patience.. Results takes time.
☘️ understand the problem ☘️ Discuss the problem with someone ☘️ Don't be compromise ☘️ To be intelligent ☘️ You are the best person understand, how to handle your situation. ☘️ Relax and peace of mind.. ☘️ Work on your stress ☘️ Find out and research your actual problems
The way they both explain the things just make me so calm and relaxed. This was something I was looking for so many days . I am so grateful to both of them to clear up my mind ❤️
Thank you Sandeep Maheshwari for doing this session. I even consulted a psychologist. But didn't find anything helpful. This conversation was really helpful. It's a guide for me. Thanks a lot!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Dear Sir, Aapka yeh Quote baar baar mujhe Trauma se bahar nikaal laata hai.."Jab log Aapko Daud karke hara nahi paate toh Tod karke harane ki koshish karte hain "Thankyou Very much Sir.. Dil se.. Bhaut saaraa Pyar .. :)
Summary of today's session is : 1) Understand what the problem actually is 2) Keep in mind that every problem has many solution's, so find easiest solution. 3) Adapt(compromise) that problem for sometime untill you find that easiest solution. 4) When you wil adapt or say will make a compromise to that proplem untill you find thatbeasiest solution, you will be in stress and to be stress free, do meditaion i.e listen to sound of silence and surrender yourself to it.
Biggest Take way from session, let Sandeep sir to plant a seed in your mind deeply that “Every kind of problem has MULTIPLE SOLUTIONS” when this thought will grow, you will rise up again and again, whenever life falls you you fight back every single time. cheers🙏
Thank you so much for this. I am going through trauma and exactly what you guys said I am waiting to become financially independent and just rush out of this toxic houses as soon as possible 🙏
Sir bohot baar apne boundaries ko maintain karne k liye stand lene se fayada nahi hota balki log aur zyada impose kar dete hain...iss haal mein kuch innovative sochna bhi mushkil ho jata hai magar innovation hi nikale ga..
I hv watched almost all of your video.but this one is the deepest and most important and needed topic u hv touched, discussed and brought out the one and only effective approach to deal with the life's most deadliest problem.everybody says we need a god to save ourselves to give us strength moreover right direction,I basically don't believe in existence of God but we hv u sir.that could be the most perfect example of God.thank you sir for guiding us with ur knowledge without any selfish motives.nd thats the perfect definition of God to me.thank you again.
Sandeep Ji, I am suffering with Trauma for last few months and it really made my life terrible. I am searching for the solution for a long time but could not find the right place. But today you explained everything in a very easy way how one can come out this trauma. Thank you sandeep ji once again. God bless you always.
No Words to express feelings i had after watching this video, open my eyes and now am able to see that I am fighting with me only so called never give up approach, In true now I realised there is no problem only thing it is how I seen and interprete all situation, Now automatically answers coming from my mind. I feel that we First really want is clarity. I finding solutions for problems ,which are not actually a problem😧
What I felt or learnt from this episode is " when you are announcing at the end that next session will be about this or that topic. I feel that in subconscious mind I am alert to know something exciting and I feel happy inside. May be this is because a loop of learning or happiness is created in our mind which then eventually becomes our habit. "😀
...The best and positive thing about 🙏Sandeep sir🙏 is that many do not promote any wrong things... ...In today's time, these things are found in very few people...
I m going exactly this situation in my life N i have got all my practical ANSWERS THIS SESSION THAT U DISSUESS WITH MAM IT WORKS LIKE THERAPY FOR ME... Thank u sooo MUCH SIR... ALL PRAYERS TO U EMENESE RESPECT. WAITING FOR UR NEXT DISCUSSION . ♥ ♥ ♥
This type of psychology is a conglomeration of many different psychological strategies. Essentially, it is referring to the use of psychology to yield a practical result. For example, if somebody is experiencing awkward mental state such as that which is caused by ADHD, or if they are bipolar, many different psychological strategies can be applied at the same time to create the desired result. These are administered by trained psychologists that have years, if not decades, of experience in this industry. Their goal is to always create a practical outcome for those that are suffering from different mental or emotional problems.
मैं अच्छे लोगों का सम्मान करता हूं और करता रहूंगा। अगर मैं दरिया न बन पाया लेकिन मैं वो किनारे जरूर बनूंगा जिस में आप जैसे दरिया बहते हैं, अगर किनारे भी ना बना तो वह पेड़ जरूर बनूंगा जो इन किनारों को बांध के रखे। क्योंकि आप जैसे दरिया बहते रहने चाहिए। क्योंकि अच्छे लोग हमेशा अच्छा करते हैं और सबी के लिए अच्छे हैं This is dedicated to Sandeep sir ua-cam.com/video/mVg8PlsN8lA/v-deo.html Good people do best for the welfare of yourself and others also.
Exactly the as sir said we can't bounce back instantly I am also suffering from trauma alone litrely alone no family members arre supporting me and what no one There is an family pressure N I think what about my dream I think what about my studies I feel what about the responsibility on me Litrely alot of things Iam breakdown now at this moment in my life 💔 Inshallah my best days will come soon Aameen ❤️
Sir,I got it now! Learn lot of greatest things in discussion and In my stand point of view,"luckiest lady" looks like 'Monalisa'. Sir,Thank you both for guiding all of us in right direction.
Those who are ongoing through such thing or their near & dear ones have such thing would understand this session differently than those who are not undergoing through such issue.
Sandeep maheshwari sir has really get the practical vision or approach to the reality through his experiences. Sometimes, experts also not get exactly the problem and approached through their knowledge. Changing perspective and mainly focusing on the exact problem can only lead to right solution. I have totally connected to everything whatever sir has described. I've been trying to overcome my past trauma from one year and still didn't figure out what exactly the problem is or cause is. I've been trying so many solution by my own without telling anyone as I've get no one who can just be mature enough to just dicuss or patiently listen to me. But this video has really helping me to think in new ways and perspectives and for the time being just to get believe that the solution to my pain is there but 'Abhi tak bas Muje mila nahi hai '. I need to just stop trying and firstly get the exact cause of my pain and suffering then I will be able to get the right direction and approach to end my suffering. I no that no one will read my so long msg, that's why I am feeling little relax after sharing some go through thoughts by listening such an amazing video and knowledge by sandeep maheshwari sir. Thank you for your existence and for your deep way of experiencing every situation in different perspective. ❤👍
After this second wave of covid 19, third wave is of trauma, PTSD and depression followed by suicide. Which no one talking about these at all. Many small children, teenagers, young adults have lost their mom or dad and in worst case have lost both their parents. The person who is suffered will find extremely hard to talk about, may because of trust issues and other reasons, and mostly the who have not suffered, will don't give a shit. It is very sad and insensitive of those people throw statistics, data, mortality rate. Each and every person who have suffered have their own individual stories. Its been one year since i lost my mom, and the trauma and ptsd still haunts gives me panic , i feel afraid of thinking all those traumatic events happened to me but it is inevitable.
For all those asking what they can do if someone is toxic Based on Sandeep sir’s sessions - 1. If someone is talking badly with you, you can tell them that it is not making the situation better in any way 2. Until you’re not able to be financially independent and get your own home, you can keep your distance from people who you think are toxic. And in case physically it’s not possible for now, then you can stay away mentally by reading and watching videos like it’s good that you’re watching this video. And side by side, keep working to make yourself financially independent so that you can get your own home.
sir i am wordless to praise your magnificient intellegence. what have happened in my life because of you is just incredible. thank you so much all of your efforts to make all this possible. May God bless you & your family. You are gonna life forever in lots of hearts 💓💓💓
I have had trauma. September to dec 4 years ago. I feel same symptoms Every year in these months. I don’t know how to come out from this circle. Now this situation is over but my feelings r still stucked and repeat every year. It was trauma for a mother. I could take my life in this situation. But I won’t. I am Thankfully healthy and out of trauma. Living normal life. Only this scary symptoms same months every year, weather all that reminds me this trauma
@@vlogz9732 ganje se jyda sandip sir ke videos ka nasha jyda huaa hai...kuch karu na karu lekin harek video jarur dekhne ki itchya hoti hai, sandeep sir ne ispe ek video nikalna chahiye
@Darshan Kawalkar you view are right for other motivational speakers but sir videos are like water which we should drink daily it is not addiction, if we still feel we are adicted to Sandeep sir video, sorry my friend sandeep sir videos are for learning and we never stop learning that why we wait for next video, same like we do daily exercise we are not addicted to exercise, Sorry but what I felt I told you.
Apke har ek video pe kuch aise baat hai jo logon ki dimag shaant karne ka bohot ache kaam karta hai .. I'm bengali so agar Hindi bolne me koi galat hua so don't mind 😊...apke haar baat bohot acha lagta hai sir..main bohot jyada motivate hui hu apse...😌apne career karne me...bohot respect and dil se bohot bohot Thanks aur pyar apke liye....🙏🏻🕉️
True Ayush 😂 but believe you me, uptil now, I did not like his videos much but this one, is bang on right interpretation to PTSD, that is developing solution oriented mindset.
Trauma is nothing but a feeling which was suppresed by u, feared by , u kept running and it caused a huge damage to u, u never realized what it was, why it happens . My dear friend if u want get well, understand ur trauma forget ur past memories or experiences
I have experienced secondary trauma ... I don't know I have experienced this but after watching this video I can say yes I did experienced it .. So it's not important to feel secondary trauma through friends only you can feel it through any fictional character too !!! Yes you heard right! I remember reading books in which main character goes through alot and had traumatic experience.... I never expected but it effected me very much ... I use to cry whole night thinking about that because I use to think it happened to me !! In reality that things never happened to me !! Soon I realised this and I stopped reading books for sometime then I realised stories in books are for entertainment purposes it's not real and I don't have feel anything for it !! Then whenever I read books again I feel bad whenever character is going through something but I don't feel too bad and move on from that part and start reading futher!!
As he said, we don't need to run behind solution. Call it another way to see the problem. Or every problem has different ways to tackle it. There will be other way always, but is it working or not, let's just try to find that. We stop after finding the solution. Which is not true, solution at a stage could be working, while on another not much. So, just call it way.
“Trauma is a fact of life. It does not, however, have to be a life sentence.” This quote by Peter A. Levine who is the author of many best-selling books on trauma highlights the fact that about seventy percent of people around the world experiences at least one traumatic event in their lifetime. Trauma can be due to: a) Depression. b) Substance Abuse. c) Physical Abuse. d) Verbal Abuse. e) Painful Childhood. f) Death of a loved one. g) Natural catastrophe.
Thankyou thankyou thankyou......first thanks to Allah for reaching me out here...second thanks to that di and obviously Sandeep sir...sir you are amazing and you know that. Aapki tarifein kabhi aur karenge. Next topic ke lye waiting.
I'm surprised that modern methods like Somatic Experiencing, EMDR etc. haven't been discussed in this video. Trauma, Depression etc. need to be addressed in a different way than the usual methods like CBT (talk therapy), because they get stored in our bodies / nervous systems and can't be healed just on the surface level of thought/emotion. Tweaking the nervous system is the key!
my learning - identify your problem then relax and calm the mind so that multiple ideas and thoughts come . have a belief that there are multiple solutions for any kind of problem
Financial freedom to 23 years old son makes A great deal with toxic family & negihourhood When I being to elder I do this as my business to every younger good blood. Give his world
We always said about gov but we don't recognise our own dust for nation not for nation even for us .. if we do real n right way than our nation also be as lik other .. bcoz main things of their ppl are active n responsable ...but here anything happen all r watching to gov only ..
यह वो institution hai yaha sab पड़ने आते, संदीप जी वो दरिया है यहां से सब अपनी प्यास बुझाने आते है, जहा पर स्टूडेंट तो क्या टीचर भी पढ़ने आते है। संदीप जी को भारत रत्न पुरस्कार मिले या न मिले, लेकिन ये भारत के रत्न कहलाते है। और एक बात कड़वी but सच्ची, ऐसे लोग सदियों बाद धरती पर आते है After Viveka nand, welcome to world sir, भारत की तरफ से: आप अनमोल हो I I love you, This video for you, आपको ये वीडियो define karti hai. मैं अच्छे लोगों का सम्मान करता हूं और करता रहूंगा। अगर मैं दरिया न बन पाया तो मैं वो किनारे जरूर बनूंगा जिस में आप जैसे दरिया बहते हैं, अगर किनारे भी ना बना तो वह पेड़ जरूर बनूंगा जो इन किनारों को बांध के रखे क्योंकि आप जैसे दरिया बहते रहने चाहिए चाहे मैं और कुछ ना करूं लेकिन ऐसी वीडियो तो बना सकता हु जो आपको define करती है। I am not best but I tried. आप जैसे लोग इसके लिए deserve karte ho। यह वीडियो अच्छे लोगो का मतलब समझाती है। अच्छे लोग हमेशा अच्छा करते हैं और सबी के लिए अच्छे हैं। ua-cam.com/video/mVg8PlsN8lA/v-deo.html Good people do best for the welfare of yourself and others also.
@@letstalktoyou7975 यह वो institution hai yaha sab पड़ने आते, संदीप जी वो दरिया है यहां से सब अपनी प्यास बुझाने आते है, जहा पर स्टूडेंट तो क्या टीचर भी पढ़ने आते है। संदीप जी को भारत रत्न पुरस्कार मिले या न मिले, लेकिन ये भारत के रत्न कहलाते है। और एक बात कड़वी but सच्ची, ऐसे लोग सदियों बाद धरती पर आते है After Viveka nand, welcome to world sir, भारत की तरफ से: आप अनमोल हो I I love you, This video for you, आपको ये वीडियो define karti hai. मैं अच्छे लोगों का सम्मान करता हूं और करता रहूंगा। अगर मैं दरिया न बन पाया तो मैं वो किनारे जरूर बनूंगा जिस में आप जैसे दरिया बहते हैं, अगर किनारे भी ना बना तो वह पेड़ जरूर बनूंगा जो इन किनारों को बांध के रखे क्योंकि आप जैसे दरिया बहते रहने चाहिए चाहे मैं और कुछ ना करूं लेकिन ऐसी वीडियो तो बना सकता हु जो आपको define करती है। I am not best but I tried. आप जैसे लोग इसके लिए deserve karte ho। यह वीडियो अच्छे लोगो का मतलब समझाती है। अच्छे लोग हमेशा अच्छा करते हैं और सबी के लिए अच्छे हैं। ua-cam.com/video/mVg8PlsN8lA/v-deo.html Good people do best for the welfare of yourself and others also.
Continuous highly energetic efforts towards upwards direction at the scale of self level or with the assistance of a person on whom you can have full trust and he/she should be as trust worthy as the Almighty , who will stand by you in every type of circumstances untill the complete victory, definitely produce marvellous results. And the beautiful thing is that such divine persons exist on this planet also.
Resilience is mental strength, in adverse situation. It’s not waiting in a dal dal or jumping out of pot. It’s about not falling apart quickly. Keep pushing or holding your ground.
Greetings from China 🇨🇳 ✓ Thank you very much Sandeep bhai and anonymous psych ! You guys are doing amazing work . So helpful, specially in COVID days .
Having toxic parent was a disaster for me. Lost self-confidence , Focusing ability, became emotionally weak and lot more..... but i am dealing with it everyday and one day i Will make my life better and best...🙏
Bro just wanna say that I'm so proud of you for helping yourself to be the best version of you ... I'm glad sending u lot of best wishes and super successful life in the moment itself
@@JD-je1sw thanks brother 💗
all best to you brother we all are facing this
Can we just connect and share and get out of trauma?
@@shreyagoyal6173 we can..
All mental suffering is somehow connected to our childhood. You may call childhood trauma as the original wound or cause of other forthcoming traumas later on.
Learning about the basics of trauma was informative. It would make the video thousand times more beneficial & if childhood trauma was covered here.
@VladtheImpaler Indeed, that's very true. It's a fact & it has well researched evidence. Psychologists like Freud, Erich Fromm & many classic psychoanalysts have also said so.
Exactly
I faced trauma or PTSD after my breakup and it's long lasting effects are still present. For example, according to my parents, unlike me, youngsters of my age get a job to settle down with their partners and some even have a kid. Infact sometimes I feel if I start taking fines from people for insulting me/misbehaving with me then I will become the richest person on earth 😂.
“We suffer more in imagination than in reality.”
- Seneca (Roman Statesman & Stoic Philosopher)
True, that's happening to me 😔
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Sakshi Singh bewafa... Hgf
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@@mysa4380 me also have any solution bcz I haven't
@@mysa4380 same as me and i dont know how to get out of it 😭
Log paise leker wo education dete hai jo ki useless hai (exception is always their )yaha per wo knowledge milti hai jiski value hi nahi lagai ja sakti wo bhi free me
Thank you so much sir ❤❤
To all those who believe sandeep Maheshwari is Motivational speaker.. He is not.. He is Psychology himself. Lots of respect sir.. You have changed my life and my perspective. I am way happier than before.❤❤❤❤
*SESSION HELPER:*
00:02 What is Trauma? What are its types?
_( Acute, Chronic, Complex and Secondary/ Vicarious)_
03:22 What is *PTSD* (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder) ?
04:15 What is it's root cause? How can some bounce back but some don't?
05:36 What is *Resilience* ?
08:13 How can we develop Resilience? _( Find a Support, Face Your Feelings, Self Care)_
09:37 What is the exact definition of Resilience?
11:37 What should be it's definition by Sandeep Sir? ( 14:11 Example 1, 15:03 Example 2, 16:49 Example 3)
_(There is always a way out. Stop Trying, Start Thinking)_
17:35 Is Hard Work= Resilience? How can I feel happy even when I am stressed up or stuck in problem?
26:24 Why is *discussion* better than a support or authority ?
30:00 When Sandeep Sir solved my(your) problem?
31:00 _Resilience= Adaptability+ Creativity(solution oriented mindset)_ & *Adaptability* v/s *Creativity*
35:32 Psychologist's take on Sandeep Sir's opinion _( Resilience means Intelligence and Emotional Intelligence)_ _CBT-Stress Inoculation_ _(__39:51__ Einstein's Example)_
42:12 Topic for Next Session: *Fear*
Remember: *Solution doesn't mean entire solution but it can also mean a step closer to solution.*
*AASAN HAI?AASAN HAI!* 😊
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Hats off to you man...🙌
Thanks man.
@@code720 you are good that why you appreciating his, you know the value of work. because good people do best
Thanks
Have seen so many videos of motivational speakers/ life coaches
But there is actually no one like him..
Blessed to have Sandeep Maheshwari in this generation 🙌🙌
This session is so so helpful I can't really explain. I am suffering from depression, anxiety and chronic PTSD this session gave me a ray of hope
Same bro get well soon
@@ankush9056 thank you so much dear 😊
are you guys okay now??
@Who am i? not exactly bro but better
I hope bhai aap sab log zaldi theek ho jao.
Sandeep Maheshwari Sir is one of the greatest philosophers of this time. He is preparing next generations of India in good direction.
@@truePac47 no let me see
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You must listen to Sadhguru ji
@@ritiksinghteam I have listened Sadguru. Sadguru has no clarity whatever he speaks about. Sadguru talks what he has readen from many books.
I have watched all the episodes and believe me I just impressed by that girls patience and understanding while listening to everything...... like wow
Un logo ne itna kuch discuss kiya usse bhi kuch sikh leti, sirf lady ko he observe kar rhi thi🤧😂
Mai bhi kuch past ki cheeze hai jinko lekar pareshan rehti hu...
Those who have toxic environment in their life.. And they are in school or college.try to study hard or join library for study near by your locality. You will find peace in library and also find new people same as your age. You will learn new experiences.
Faith in urself and patience.. Results takes time.
Jo Insaan sabse ladne ka dam rakhta hai vahi aksar apno se haar jata hai 💔🙌
☘️ understand the problem
☘️ Discuss the problem with someone
☘️ Don't be compromise
☘️ To be intelligent
☘️ You are the best person understand,
how to handle your situation.
☘️ Relax and peace of mind..
☘️ Work on your stress
☘️ Find out and research your actual problems
The way they both explain the things just make me so calm and relaxed. This was something I was looking for so many days . I am so grateful to both of them to clear up my mind ❤️
Thank you Sandeep Maheshwari for doing this session. I even consulted a psychologist. But didn't find anything helpful. This conversation was really helpful. It's a guide for me. Thanks a lot!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Sandeep sir knowledge is base on practical experience and psychiatrists knowledge base on book..
Indeed
Dear Sir, Aapka yeh Quote baar baar mujhe Trauma se bahar nikaal laata hai.."Jab log Aapko Daud karke hara nahi paate toh Tod karke harane ki koshish karte hain "Thankyou Very much Sir.. Dil se.. Bhaut saaraa Pyar .. :)
Summary of today's session is :
1) Understand what the problem actually is
2) Keep in mind that every problem has many solution's, so find easiest solution.
3) Adapt(compromise) that problem for sometime untill you find that easiest solution.
4) When you wil adapt or say will make a compromise to that proplem untill you find thatbeasiest solution, you will be in stress and to be stress free, do meditaion i.e listen to sound of silence and surrender yourself to it.
How I kill my perents?
Sandeep Sir explained the true meaning of resilience 👏👏🙏🙏
When mam gave that girl's exemple i felt that😔. Thank you so much to Sandeep sir for being a light for me in the darkness.🙏♥️
I love the fact how Sandeep Sir is not satisfied until the solution becomes simple 😅
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Biggest Take way from session, let Sandeep sir to plant a seed in your mind deeply that “Every kind of problem has MULTIPLE SOLUTIONS” when this thought will grow, you will rise up again and again, whenever life falls you you fight back every single time. cheers🙏
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Right brother
Then, the other person will no longer remain in the business.
Appsalotly
I'm a yoga instructor 🇵🇰🧘✅
Very very important topic
I appreciate you and your Team Sir
Keep it up 🌹🧘🧘🌹
Thank you so much for this. I am going through trauma and exactly what you guys said I am waiting to become financially independent and just rush out of this toxic houses as soon as possible 🙏
Same here🙌& I really wish you become free n independent ASAP !!☺️✨
Same here
Kya aap sach me Ghar diye the aur ab tak Kitna badlav aapko life me
Main same chij se gujar RHA hu lekin Ghar chhode dar lag RHA hai
I'm also suffering through this . Can we talk about this exactly what you feel ? Please
I can't express that this video is sooo soo helpful for me because unknowingly I always live in mentally, socially,and relationship trauma
Sir bohot baar apne boundaries ko maintain karne k liye stand lene se fayada nahi hota balki log aur zyada impose kar dete hain...iss haal mein kuch innovative sochna bhi mushkil ho jata hai magar innovation hi nikale ga..
Sir these episodes of yours and ma'am is extremely good and understandable. Thank you for initiating this.
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Sakshi Singh bewafa... Hgf
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Wow this lady has 3 episode with sandeep maheshwari sir so this lady is very very knowledgeable intelligent and think out of the box..
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I m very blessed to learn from these Videos in my teens
Thanks you Sandeep Sir❤️
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"What Ever Doesn't Kill Me,
Make Me Stronger"
-Neitzsche Frederick.
I hv watched almost all of your video.but this one is the deepest and most important and needed topic u hv touched, discussed and brought out the one and only effective approach to deal with the life's most deadliest problem.everybody says we need a god to save ourselves to give us strength moreover right direction,I basically don't believe in existence of God but we hv u sir.that could be the most perfect example of God.thank you sir for guiding us with ur knowledge without any selfish motives.nd thats the perfect definition of God to me.thank you again.
Sandeep Ji, I am suffering with Trauma for last few months and it really made my life terrible. I am searching for the solution for a long time but could not find the right place. But today you explained everything in a very easy way how one can come out this trauma. Thank you sandeep ji once again. God bless you always.
Sir I am overwhelmed watching this video.
I suffered miserably from chronical trauma.Sir you don't know how you help people like us
absolutely
"Why Sandeep sir is Sandeep sir" is clear now ❤️
No Words to express feelings i had after watching this video, open my eyes and now am able to see that I am fighting with me only so called never give up approach,
In true now I realised there is no problem only thing it is how I seen and interprete all situation,
Now automatically answers coming from my mind.
I feel that we First really want is clarity.
I finding solutions for problems ,which are not actually a problem😧
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What I felt or learnt from this episode is " when you are announcing at the end that next session will be about this or that topic. I feel that in subconscious mind I am alert to know something exciting and I feel happy inside. May be this is because a loop of learning or happiness is created in our mind which then eventually becomes our habit. "😀
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Thats called your own 'curiosity' to learn about new topics,its not a loop.
@@priyakaramchandani1415 ye bhi ek taraha ka addiction hai :)
@@darshankawalkar9072 OK
Aise guru sb ko mile zindagi zannat ban jayengi☺❤❤
...The best and positive thing about 🙏Sandeep sir🙏 is that many do not promote any wrong things...
...In today's time, these things are found in very few people...
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Sandeep Maheshwari sir- Each problem have multiple solutions you just have to identify the best with a calm mind and avoiding the unnecessary efforts.
You are best sir
I m going exactly this situation in my life N i have got all my practical ANSWERS THIS SESSION THAT U DISSUESS WITH MAM IT WORKS LIKE THERAPY FOR ME... Thank u sooo MUCH SIR... ALL PRAYERS TO U EMENESE RESPECT. WAITING FOR UR NEXT DISCUSSION . ♥ ♥ ♥
Same here...
Resilience mean to be flexible in terms of understanding then there are always multiple solutions to any given problem!
The real truth 🔥
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Being positive and think what better can be done at this moment, mat help to come out of the stage.
This type of psychology is a conglomeration of many different psychological strategies. Essentially, it is referring to the use of psychology to yield a practical result. For example, if somebody is experiencing awkward mental state such as that which is caused by ADHD, or if they are bipolar, many different psychological strategies can be applied at the same time to create the desired result. These are administered by trained psychologists that have years, if not decades, of experience in this industry. Their goal is to always create a practical outcome for those that are suffering from different mental or emotional problems.
मैं अच्छे लोगों का सम्मान करता हूं और करता रहूंगा। अगर मैं दरिया न बन पाया लेकिन मैं वो किनारे जरूर बनूंगा जिस में आप जैसे दरिया बहते हैं, अगर किनारे भी ना बना तो वह पेड़ जरूर बनूंगा जो इन किनारों को बांध के रखे। क्योंकि आप जैसे दरिया बहते रहने चाहिए। क्योंकि अच्छे लोग हमेशा अच्छा करते हैं और सबी के लिए अच्छे हैं
This is dedicated to Sandeep sir
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Nice information
Aise guru sb ko mile zindagi zannat ban jayengi☺❤❤
Wonderful, संदीप की सभी बातें बहुत आसानी से समझ आने वाली और उसके अनुभव से निकली होती है।
सरल और effective
It's very important video for all types of relationship, very nicely explained. thank you sir
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This channel is blessing for many 💞
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Brilliant series. Need to question everything. Thank you so much Sandeep Ji 🙏🥰🙌
Exactly the as sir said we can't bounce back instantly
I am also suffering from trauma alone litrely alone no family members arre supporting me and what no one
There is an family pressure
N I think what about my dream I think what about my studies I feel what about the responsibility on me
Litrely alot of things
Iam breakdown now at this moment in my life 💔
Inshallah my best days will come soon
Aameen ❤️
hello ...are you oky ?
@@iqrahassan3955 hey dud thanks for asking alhamdulillah ism good ❣️
@@nujidmalik6012 actually I am feeling the same way you felt at some point....hope so I also recover soon
Same, just be ur own doctor who treat well
Sir,I got it now! Learn lot of greatest things in discussion and In my stand point of view,"luckiest lady" looks like 'Monalisa'. Sir,Thank you both for guiding all of us in right direction.
You can not change your Future
But you can change your habits
And your habit will definitely
Change your Future ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Those who are ongoing through such thing or their near & dear ones have such thing would understand this session differently than those who are not undergoing through such issue.
True
Sandeep maheshwari sir has really get the practical vision or approach to the reality through his experiences. Sometimes, experts also not get exactly the problem and approached through their knowledge. Changing perspective and mainly focusing on the exact problem can only lead to right solution. I have totally connected to everything whatever sir has described. I've been trying to overcome my past trauma from one year and still didn't figure out what exactly the problem is or cause is. I've been trying so many solution by my own without telling anyone as I've get no one who can just be mature enough to just dicuss or patiently listen to me. But this video has really helping me to think in new ways and perspectives and for the time being just to get believe that the solution to my pain is there but 'Abhi tak bas Muje mila nahi hai '. I need to just stop trying and firstly get the exact cause of my pain and suffering then I will be able to get the right direction and approach to end my suffering. I no that no one will read my so long msg, that's why I am feeling little relax after sharing some go through thoughts by listening such an amazing video and knowledge by sandeep maheshwari sir. Thank you for your existence and for your deep way of experiencing every situation in different perspective. ❤👍
Best podcasts going on this year 👍
After this second wave of covid 19, third wave is of trauma, PTSD and depression followed by suicide. Which no one talking about these at all.
Many small children, teenagers, young adults have lost their mom or dad and in worst case have lost both their parents.
The person who is suffered will find extremely hard to talk about, may because of trust issues and other reasons, and mostly the who have not suffered, will don't give a shit. It is very sad and insensitive of those people throw statistics, data, mortality rate. Each and every person who have suffered have their own individual stories.
Its been one year since i lost my mom, and the trauma and ptsd still haunts gives me panic , i feel afraid of thinking all those traumatic events happened to me but it is inevitable.
Same here 🙂 i lost my mom since 1 year....
This session is sooo deep it needs someone to stay calm and then listen to it
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Sandeep Sir is one among Billions
For all those asking what they can do if someone is toxic
Based on Sandeep sir’s sessions -
1. If someone is talking badly with you, you can tell them that it is not making the situation better in any way
2. Until you’re not able to be financially independent and get your own home, you can keep your distance from people who you think are toxic. And in case physically it’s not possible for now, then you can stay away mentally by reading and watching videos like it’s good that you’re watching this video. And side by side, keep working to make yourself financially independent so that you can get your own home.
I used to get bullied a lot in my childhood days. The trauma still does not get over me although I am an adult now
I am 24 year old , maine itna toxic environment dekha h apni life mein ki ab bahr aane ki hr kosis kr rha hun
kya krte hain aap?
At home?
same with me as well🥲
Same here
1. Domestic Violence
2. Parents drinking problems
3. Failure
4. Breakup
My story
Sandeep sir actually catches the point😎
We truly love listening you sir ❤
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sir i am wordless to praise your magnificient intellegence. what have happened in my life because of you is just incredible. thank you so much all of your efforts to make all this possible. May God bless you & your family. You are gonna life forever in lots of hearts 💓💓💓
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I have had trauma. September to dec 4 years ago. I feel same symptoms
Every year in these months. I don’t know how to come out from this circle. Now this situation is over but my feelings r still stucked and repeat every year. It was trauma for a mother. I could take my life in this situation. But I won’t. I am
Thankfully healthy and out of trauma. Living normal life. Only this scary symptoms same months every year, weather all that reminds me this trauma
I loved to hear " manshik shanti " word from Ma'am. Hindi yr😍
HARD WORK AND PATIENCE ALWAYS EARNS YOU SUCCESS ✅
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Ab kitne quote likhega ? Bas kar bhai
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Smart work is more important than hard work
Aise guru sb ko mile zindagi zannat ban jayengi☺❤❤
यहां जो मिलता है पूरे अपने जीवन काल इस तरह की सोच नही देखी great learning
DISCLAIMER: THIS CHANNEL IS HIGHLY ADDICTIVE ✅
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@@vlogz9732 ganje se jyda sandip sir ke videos ka nasha jyda huaa hai...kuch karu na karu lekin harek video jarur dekhne ki itchya hoti hai, sandeep sir ne ispe ek video nikalna chahiye
@Darshan Kawalkar you view are right for other motivational speakers but sir videos are like water which we should drink daily it is not addiction, if we still feel we are adicted to Sandeep sir video, sorry my friend sandeep sir videos are for learning and we never stop learning that why we wait for next video, same like we do daily exercise we are not addicted to exercise, Sorry but what I felt I told you.
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Sakshi Singh bewafa... Hgf
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Apke har ek video pe kuch aise baat hai jo logon ki dimag shaant karne ka bohot ache kaam karta hai .. I'm bengali so agar Hindi bolne me koi galat hua so don't mind 😊...apke haar baat bohot acha lagta hai sir..main bohot jyada motivate hui hu apse...😌apne career karne me...bohot respect and dil se bohot bohot Thanks aur pyar apke liye....🙏🏻🕉️
SM : *invites a counselor* then continues the counseling himself.
Girl : Ach toh Mai chalti hoon. 😂
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#hawkmotivation
Haha
True Ayush 😂 but believe you me, uptil now, I did not like his videos much but this one, is bang on right interpretation to PTSD, that is developing solution oriented mindset.
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The best video on Problem solving till yet
Envy and jeleaosy - would be great to learn about these from psychology
Trauma is nothing but a feeling which was suppresed by u, feared by , u kept running and it caused a huge damage to u, u never realized what it was, why it happens . My dear friend if u want get well, understand ur trauma forget ur past memories or experiences
These kind of videos are very helpful and realistic. Hats off to you, Sandeep Sir!
" Don't Compromise with any problem " ❤
Will you please prepare a video on CBT, OCD & PTSD therapy 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 nice video, you are helping me a lot, with your noble try, 🙏🏻
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you are the only one who saved my life ❤️❤️❤️ sir i can't thank you enough.
I have experienced secondary trauma ... I don't know I have experienced this but after watching this video I can say yes I did experienced it ..
So it's not important to feel secondary trauma through friends only you can feel it through any fictional character too !!! Yes you heard right!
I remember reading books in which main character goes through alot and had traumatic experience.... I never expected but it effected me very much ... I use to cry whole night thinking about that because I use to think it happened to me !! In reality that things never happened to me !!
Soon I realised this and I stopped reading books for sometime then I realised stories in books are for entertainment purposes it's not real and I don't have feel anything for it !!
Then whenever I read books again I feel bad whenever character is going through something but I don't feel too bad and move on from that part and start reading futher!!
Summary of this session : There is solution every problem we just need to find it
As he said, we don't need to run behind solution. Call it another way to see the problem. Or every problem has different ways to tackle it. There will be other way always, but is it working or not, let's just try to find that. We stop after finding the solution. Which is not true, solution at a stage could be working, while on another not much. So, just call it way.
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“Trauma is a fact of life. It does not, however, have to be a life sentence.”
This quote by Peter A. Levine who is the author of many best-selling books on trauma highlights the fact that about seventy percent of people around the world experiences at least one traumatic event in their lifetime.
Trauma can be due to:
a) Depression.
b) Substance Abuse.
c) Physical Abuse.
d) Verbal Abuse.
e) Painful Childhood.
f) Death of a loved one.
g) Natural catastrophe.
Thankyou thankyou thankyou......first thanks to Allah for reaching me out here...second thanks to that di and obviously Sandeep sir...sir you are amazing and you know that. Aapki tarifein kabhi aur karenge. Next topic ke lye waiting.
I'm surprised that modern methods like Somatic Experiencing, EMDR etc. haven't been discussed in this video. Trauma, Depression etc. need to be addressed in a different way than the usual methods like CBT (talk therapy), because they get stored in our bodies / nervous systems and can't be healed just on the surface level of thought/emotion. Tweaking the nervous system is the key!
Can you please tell me more about it
my learning - identify your problem then relax and calm the mind so that multiple ideas and thoughts come .
have a belief that there are multiple solutions for any kind of problem
Sir I understand this seminar..Also I learn from mam, how to be a good listenar and stay patience. Fear is right choice for next seminar.👍
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Sab phychologist ek taraf Sandeep sir ek taraf
Sir please " how to find your target audience for new startup? " or ek video bana dijiye please
Constitution of India se upar sandeep maheswari.
We should recover mental Trauma . Love you Sir 💞
Financial freedom to 23 years old son makes A great deal with toxic family & negihourhood
When I being to elder I do this as my business to every younger good blood. Give his world
Once again thankyou very much sir for the learning attitude you teached me. I changed myself. You're important person of my life.
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Bollywood actors is actors and..sandip maheshwari is my HERO...LOVE YOU SIR
Happines in all situation, self belief and hard work will always earn you success
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Solution orientated mind always find a way to solve a problem then tangled minded person this the main soul of this video
आपके ही जैसा सच्चा ईमानदार हमारे देश के सभी नेता होते तो आज हमारा भी देश 🇮🇳अमेरिका , जापान और चीन से बहुत आगे होता,,,, 💪💪🙏🙏🙏
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We always said about gov but we don't recognise our own dust for nation not for nation even for us .. if we do real n right way than our nation also be as lik other .. bcoz main things of their ppl are active n responsable ...but here anything happen all r watching to gov only ..
यह वो institution hai yaha sab पड़ने आते,
संदीप जी वो दरिया है यहां से सब अपनी प्यास बुझाने आते है,
जहा पर स्टूडेंट तो क्या टीचर भी पढ़ने आते है।
संदीप जी को भारत रत्न पुरस्कार मिले या न मिले,
लेकिन ये भारत के रत्न कहलाते है।
और एक बात कड़वी but सच्ची,
ऐसे लोग सदियों बाद धरती पर आते है
After Viveka nand, welcome to world sir,
भारत की तरफ से: आप अनमोल हो I
I love you,
This video for you, आपको ये वीडियो define karti hai.
मैं अच्छे लोगों का सम्मान करता हूं और करता रहूंगा।
अगर मैं दरिया न बन पाया तो
मैं वो किनारे जरूर बनूंगा
जिस में आप जैसे दरिया बहते हैं,
अगर किनारे भी ना बना तो
वह पेड़ जरूर बनूंगा जो
इन किनारों को बांध के रखे
क्योंकि आप जैसे दरिया बहते रहने चाहिए
चाहे मैं और कुछ ना करूं लेकिन ऐसी वीडियो तो बना सकता हु जो आपको define करती है। I am not best but I tried. आप जैसे लोग इसके लिए deserve karte ho। यह वीडियो अच्छे लोगो का मतलब समझाती है। अच्छे लोग हमेशा अच्छा करते हैं और सबी के लिए अच्छे हैं।
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@@letstalktoyou7975 यह वो institution hai yaha sab पड़ने आते,
संदीप जी वो दरिया है यहां से सब अपनी प्यास बुझाने आते है,
जहा पर स्टूडेंट तो क्या टीचर भी पढ़ने आते है।
संदीप जी को भारत रत्न पुरस्कार मिले या न मिले,
लेकिन ये भारत के रत्न कहलाते है।
और एक बात कड़वी but सच्ची,
ऐसे लोग सदियों बाद धरती पर आते है
After Viveka nand, welcome to world sir,
भारत की तरफ से: आप अनमोल हो I
I love you,
This video for you, आपको ये वीडियो define karti hai.
मैं अच्छे लोगों का सम्मान करता हूं और करता रहूंगा।
अगर मैं दरिया न बन पाया तो
मैं वो किनारे जरूर बनूंगा
जिस में आप जैसे दरिया बहते हैं,
अगर किनारे भी ना बना तो
वह पेड़ जरूर बनूंगा जो
इन किनारों को बांध के रखे
क्योंकि आप जैसे दरिया बहते रहने चाहिए
चाहे मैं और कुछ ना करूं लेकिन ऐसी वीडियो तो बना सकता हु जो आपको define करती है। I am not best but I tried. आप जैसे लोग इसके लिए deserve karte ho। यह वीडियो अच्छे लोगो का मतलब समझाती है। अच्छे लोग हमेशा अच्छा करते हैं और सबी के लिए अच्छे हैं।
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Sandeep Maheshwari is my hero.....I love you sir..☺️☺️
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Continuous highly energetic efforts towards upwards direction at the scale of self level or with the assistance of a person on whom you can have full trust and he/she should be as trust worthy as the Almighty , who will stand by you in every type of circumstances untill the complete victory, definitely produce marvellous results. And the beautiful thing is that such divine persons exist on this planet also.
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Resilience is mental strength, in adverse situation. It’s not waiting in a dal dal or jumping out of pot. It’s about not falling apart quickly. Keep pushing or holding your ground.
Thank you so much Sandeep sir.
Lot's of love
Shivam
❤️😀🙏
🙂मान लो तो😃 मोज है !
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