My tyrant of a husband threatened to take my daughter from me if I left him. And I took that risk!
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- Опубліковано 18 жов 2024
- #sadstory #howtoescapefromhome #howtoloveahusband
The heroine of this sad story found herself in a difficult situation: on the one hand, everyone envied her successful marriage, but on the other hand, no one knew how she was literally fighting for her life every day.
Our heroine was envied by many: her beauty was indescribable, her successful husband made others swoon, and their family life seemed perfect. But when the couple were alone, his true face replaced the mask of a perfect husband.
The heroine didn't know how to love her husband who was insufferable and acting disrespectfully. He followed her everywhere and banned her from seeing her friends and even visiting her mom. The husband suspected his wife of cheating, although she wasn't even leaving the house - such was the atmosphere they were living in...
Soon the heroine got some happy news: she was expecting a baby. But when her husband found out that she was pregnant with a girl, he was beside himself and started treating his wife even more coldly. And when the heroine decided to leave him, her husband threatened to take her daughter away from her. Why? He didn't even need her... He knew how to take revenge on his wife.
The heroine came up with a cunning plan to escape from home. You'll find out what exactly she thought up if you watch our short animated video till the end.
Don't stay in a violent relationship, It will never end unless you end it yourself. But there is those who are good to us in this world. The kind old lady did that. My advice is always help someone in need
The moment a man tells you to quit your job and pretty much cut ties with your family leave immediately. That's not a man that's a control freak never doubt your own worth!
No,he's a little boy
Yes i agree 👍
@Robert Koch! Exactly if somebody told me I couldn't see my mother I would have went off and threw them out there is no way in hell no man would make me cut ties with my family or ever be a doormat!
Not just husbands. anybody !
A moment the partner tells you forget about the things you are doing and preventing you from going out that is a sign that you should leave now. No one should be brought down for who they are. Tyrants do this to make themselves have more power because they know that they are lower than their partner or anyone else. Everyone has insecurities but some take it the wrong way by hurting others to make them feel worse.
He's verbally abusive, manipulative & controlling. 3 things I hate in a person. I'm glad she left him cause had she stayed, both she and her daughter would have been miserable
what a good turnout though after she left her hubby.
@Robert Koch! ppl like him should stop existing
@@VixenVulpix266 that was the best thing she did
Lily its the same way to Gay people not only straight the same sex too!
@@sutterpark it happens to many no matter what the relationship situation is. At the end of the day, it's wrong to abuse the person ur supposed to love
God will always takes care of everything, because God is good all the time
And all the time God is good
Amen
Hi there star light; I’m agreeing with you that God’s Always on time for us all and his Love is Awesome and Unconditional for us. God Bless you and your family always
That is so true amen
Always look out for signs, even tiny part of it, can shown the part of that person's personality. Sometimes even their clothes, depending on how they acted.
Dont fall in love quickly because its will blinded u to see their true color and they (abusers) will take advantage of it and used it against u.
This guy is emotiomly unavaliable, and always will be.
He never would have been able to just take her baby and give her up for adoption without signed papers from her 😠
And somehow women are allowed to give their kids up for adoption, without the father's consent.
@@Courtney19751 not if they are on the birth certificate
It is very easy to take a signature.
Iamdoing OK how is everyone there doing.
That other lady at the cafe was very kind and helped the young mother and her baby daughter!
God bless her .
I agree he is a control freak & she just takes it because she really believes that he loves her, but instead he is steadily controlling her but she doesn't see it
The moment she married him she was trapped, not letting her see her mother before she died, don't even care about the baby and didn't even make the effort to take care of them that was a sheer cut sign she should have left him a long time ago I don't care if he tried give her gifts she should have said no because that's was a manipulation tactic right there
That's one of the I chose not to marry . Especially as of what's going on in this world . I love my independence .
She should never have married that tyrant in the first place because it's very clear that he was planning to show his true colour after their married and start to violently control her life. The truth is he doesn't value love 💖or family at all and I don't know why the hell would he want to threatened to take her daughter away from her if she's planning to leave her since he doesn't want anything to do with their daughter at all. Well I'm glad she finally have the courage to leave with her daughter because she doesn't deserved to be treat that way by her tyrunt controlling husband who thinks he can get away with this behaviour and ruin her lifes.
To you and I, it was clear. But when you're in love...
Her mom warned her about that guy. She didn't listen
@@ladyfire44TIME TO PLAY GRIT BALL
The guy is so cold 🥶! He says all of the things that are negative to her! Why don't she understand that the words coming from his mouth are very horrible sounds! This means that the man doesn't have any sympathy for her! How cruel? 🤔
It's good to see there are still kind people in this world who will lend a helping had
What a mean man!
It's very important to know the signs of an abuser immediately before it gets worse!!! It's better to be alone than in bad company!!
My mom when I was 12 allowed me too watch What's Love Got to Do with It, an then we talked about the movie regarding Tina Turner's earlier life.
It helped my Mom before I was though of volunteered in Battered Shelters for Women.
I think what stood out for me was the constant gift giving along with the emotional and isolation the Spouse used against the Wife.
In the early 90's a comedy series on ABC "Grace Under Fire" starring comedian Brett Butler dealt with the gift giving aspect that tends to happen with Abusers.
Brett Butler in the Show dealt with Alcoholism, Depression, and Domestic Violence being a single mother raising three kids by herself.
A man like him doesn’t deserve her. He should be charged with abuse and be locked away. I hope one day this woman finds an ideal man and divorced that monster once he’s in jail.
The minute he said to quit my job that would've been our first fight and tell me I couldn't see my mother yeah that would've been the divorce right there and then . I have been in a few abusive relationships but I never let any man come between my mother and my job .
That man should be forbidden from seeing her daughter.
The young mother will need a good attorney so she can file for divorce , full child custody , and terminate the father's parenting rights .
I love this story
Beautiful
Sometimes you wonder what kind of heart some people have or if they have any, such wickedness, yet that old lady had shown her so much love.all is not lost there are still some good people out there.
Glad you got safely away. Very dangerous man.
Same here . He ain't worth it as I wouldn't be surprised if he ends up on the streets .
This relationship was exactly what happen to me. My husband was so controlling and i did everything he wanted which was to stay home and a house wife and then he stated saying things to fegrade me. Then I trued to have a baby hoping to help dave the family, but it did not work, so I ended up divorced him and left with the baby. He was a narsisist. He wanted somebody to control and serve him, not marry you to love and care for you.
I'm so sorry that happened to you. If you need a friend, we're here for you.😔🤗💜
Oh my God, thank you! You always working all the time..❤👍
That man should've gone to jail! If he's like this toward his wife, I can't imagine how he acts toward other people. It's abundantly clear that he's dangerous!!
She did the right thing; he didn't deserve to be called a father.
Honestly she should had realize the moment the way how he was talking to her. Always be aware of red flags and stay two steps ahead. Moment he threatened her taking her daughter she should record it take it too court. If your in a violent relationship call the cops before it gets even worse.
This was alowdown, violent, manipulative jerk who wanted take custody of his daughter by terrorizing his spouse. She would file for divorce and get even with him eventually!!!
I enjoyed watching this video! Thank you. I love these stories. God bless you. Stay safe.
So glad that there are good people in this word 🥰
If I were her. I would rather move to a women's shelter Right after giving birth to a daughter !
and the worst part. is that it's not just the Husbands either.
That happened to me.. i got out of it.. don't stay in a relationship if it's going to be abusive..
Well, the 80s, that's when it all started.
See the small first signs in a violent relationship from the beginning and dont be pathetic!
Complete circle... 😉
Amen, God got it!
Don't Stay in A Violent Relationship. It Will Never End Unless You End it Yourself. But There is Those Who Are Good to Us in This World And The Kind Hearted Lady Did That And My Advice is Always Help Someone in Need Who's Been involved In Dating Violence & Besides Abuse & Violence Both Aren't Always The Answer For Anyone That Really Matters The Most in The Entire World And This Lady Has Done The Best Desicion Of By Taking The Courage To Walk Out From An Unhappy Marriage With Someone Who's They're Not Claiming To Be in A Way And To Realize That The Kindly Mask Suddenly Ripped Off And Besides This Gal Can Finally Sign Those Divorce Papers Signed Which Matters The Most & To Have Another Person Who's More Worthy Caring Loving Of Her Than Her Own Ex Beau Which Matters The Most in The Entire World And Most Of All Kindness Shall Be Awarded in Every Single Ways?
This is a heart touching story
Excellent job on this story!!
Amazing story
If I'm around I would have help the baby and feed her with milk and bring them to my house for shelter
that just pretending. 😎😎😎
Good
@@maryhappy1 I don't pretend ok
"You couldn't even give me an heir!"
Excuse me, the 15th century called... it wants its opinions and believes back.
That i dont want get marry
Lady take time to man
That why i dont want get marry
I would have been like 'don't you mean that YOU couldn't make a boy'?
@@lonsdalebowman2757
I don't blame you at all .
Leaving is not easy when you have no family who will take you in, no car, and no money. Trapped.
Well thank goodness (even though it was difficult thanks to the threats) it could’ve gone more violent and not only would he take her daughter he could’ve lied and said that she’s the bad guy. And likely used his daughter as a punching bag if she were to grow up in the same place as him.
I could see in his face from before she married him what he was going to turn out.
I am happy for her she left him and find wonderful life. he do not deserve her.
That jerk has failed being a husband , father , and a man ... he deserves none of the three above . I'm sure that he will end up living in the streets or go to jail .
I'm glad she left as she took the baby with her for a better life . Thank God for the elderly lady who took them in as she became a second mother and grandmother as a whole new family . Good story .
Very nice story I loved it 👍👍
I once watched a movie called the burning bed. It was about a woman being abused by her husband, she'd take her kids and leave but that man would get her to come back again and again. Eventually she'd felt her only recourse was to wait until he was passed out drunk, get her and the kids clothes into the car, get the kids in, and then she went back and dumped gas all over him and their bed. She set him on fire and left. She had to face trial later and was found not guilty. It was based on a true story if I remember correctly.
It was tough to watch but if girls of a dating age were to watch it I think they'd be able to see the warning signs and avoid becoming a victim too.
God is good all the time
New Subscriber! Great video 🙏🏽❤️
I'd like to see what later becomes of Leon in a sequel to this story
Never envy people just because they look happy or pretend to be people who are weak can emotionally abuse others thank God she broke free from him
He had a lot off issues and hid well untill they got married glad she left with the baby and found help.💯👍💯💕💯🙏💯🍀💯
U make the right decision.
This story is like my real life story.
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The husband is the worst, he treated his wife like she is some kind house maid, after watch this I feel pity for the wife is she have to know about her love one then she could marry if he's truly love her back and in the end she couldn't file the divorce on him so she have to run away with the baby on her. In the end she got help from a kind stranger and have a happily life.
I would have help I love helping people 🙏🙏🙏🙏
This was very good lesson thank you. Maybe i am 10 haha
XD
I'm 13😂
Am 11
Nice ages of 10,11,12,13 are in this comment , that's very nice 😂 , I am 12
@@tlpranav6668 lol
I pray that all abused women n children have a happy ending. Inshallah ameen
A GIRL CAN BE AN HAIR!
I made a change to my life five years ago.
Why would anybody think getting pregnant is the best solution?
So many women think this way…
I love your videos
There must be a lot of women wjo identify with this story.
Domestic violence is hidden.
it's important to talk about it! if more people will be involved, this situation will change faster
I love the music 🎶
A man accusing you of cheating is usually the one cheating.
People look down at old people,but its da old who are selfless.
It's a good thing that nice loyal woman took that risk because she shouldn't be treated like that. All she wanted was for her husband to love her. Is that to much to ask?😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
wonderful
Get your daughter with her
Unfortunately there are men who are so in secure n controlling n afraid that they treat women this way ( it goes for women too ) if you truly LOVE a person you would never treat them that way ,this type of behaviour only turns to HATE n resentment,
Well since the old lady lost her daughter and the mom lost her own mother
The baby may eventually call the old lady grandma
Good old soul❤️❤️
That man is an actual monster it was not actually clear to me that he was a tryant
This is the kind of relationship, women get tripped up in. Stupid people say" well you married him!" " You CHOSE him!" No! That's wrong!!!, Most of us choose to be with a good guy, which these guys pretend to be! We don't know it's pretending till it's too late! We wind up being forced to file for divorce, because of the abuse. Most men are real good at putting on an act! They should win an oscar for their performance! Life is good & beautiful, without relationships. Sweet FREEDOM!!
This story is just like mine except without the baby part I got away from my abuse of x and my life is so much better now
I think I see the other problem. Leon wanted his wife all to himself. He didn't want her seeing anyone else, because he thought she'd leave him. Well, now we've seen that she would've left him either way.
It's just unbelievable & amazes me how much a woman will put up with when it comes to men. Don't get me wring, l love men but l know some of them can be stinkers. I wish these women had enough courage and self respect to see a red flag way b4 they do. I don't know how long she knew him b4 she married him but a lot of pol do not show their true forms until they feel secure about being abusive. That little older lady is in several if these stories and she is almost always helping someone. Those boys took her bag but l wonder where her suitcase was.
We do hope that our videos will help women become more attentive to their future husbands. There is no need in rush when we talk about family and marriage
Some a them just damn wicked that's it!!!! straight up wicked!
I know how that was for me but I get out and I live happy ever after
I think the husband didn't even bother trying to search for her or the baby and was like " Good riddance who needs them ? I can find someone else to be my slave."
Amen
He is like Aubery Kung, but Aubery loves nina very much and too obsessed for her, this is a little different too
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Comment #100 to say “sometimes angels keep their wings hidden” 💙🐱💙
change. say it's easy. doing it is difficult and many challenges. we live in the real world. not in movies or novels
I wonder where her ex husband is now, but I hope he gets what he deserves
Sad ..to tell..but the same thing happened to me and she could not get divorce as it was very difficult in our country and everything...😭 And I still see my mok like that ...I hate it....my father is t he same .. possesive and shamefu..i know it's wrong for me to tell this bit could n t keep it to myself..no offensel
Maybe the old lady is her grandmother?
Ahhh.
The garden variety abuser.
He can't put a baby up for adoption unless you give up your right. You would have to not be around to do it on his own.
To steal from a lady with a baby is a new kinda low.
He's just an insecure puppy!
My ex-husband did the same thing. I dropped him after 5 years
"The 1% who is reading this,
God bless you"
The man is not good at all
Where was this year's a go to open my mind up
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I aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaas m so happy these information are out.
Just wanted to know where is the police 🙄
Tell them to come to my house I also have a brother and she can be my sister
God always as have a sameritain
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