Bored with your relationship? Do this!
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- Опубліковано 3 лип 2024
- BORED With Your Relationship? Here's What To Do....
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Hi, I’m Jessica Boss. As a relationship expert, I’ve seen so many amazing couples who have let their happily ever after become as boring as waiting in line at the post office. I’m here to make sure that doesn’t happen to you. If you want more advice about relationships and dating, please like this video and subscribe to my channel so you’ll be updated whenever I have new tips, tricks, and lessons for you.
TIP #1 Drop the attitude
When things go stale, it’s easy to get wrapped up in resentment.
“My partner is boring”
“I’m not attracted to them anymore”
“They’re not making an effort”
“We’re no good together”
“I need someone new and exciting in my life.”
The truth is, you’re never going to convince your partner to be excited or exciting by nagging and complaining. This isn’t like telling them to do the dishes or be nicer to your mother. Excitement is a fragile thing that can’t be faked.
TIP #2 Add excitement
If you’re looking for a reason for your boredom, you’re not going to find one. That’s because boredom is the absence of excitement.
What you need to do is inject some new activities into your life. Think of hobbies that you’ve always wanted to try. Doing new things together means working together towards a common goal and changing how you interact. This will bust you out of the old routine.
TIP #3 Don’t stop dating
No, I’m not talking about seeing other people. Wrong kind of exciting. What I mean is, just because you’re in a relationship doesn’t mean you have to stop dating each other. Make time once a week to go out to dinner, walk through the park, or even just go for a drive. If you’re having trouble making conversation, try an activity that doesn’t require you to talk. Go white water rafting, rock climbing, the sky’s the limit! Hey, what about skydiving?
Remember the feeling you had when you first got together? It seemed like you were the only two people in the world. Then real life got in the way. If you set aside this regular time for just the two of you, you can feel that way again.
TIP #4 Be the person you’d like to date
Sometimes boredom comes from feeling like our partner is no longer making us feel special. It’s tough feeling like we’re being taken for granted. The two common responses here are to lash out in anger or to bottle up our feelings.
What I want you to do instead is treat your partner the way you’d like to be treated. You wish they would dress nice? Lead by example! Put on your nicest outfit and get all dolled up at the next opportunity.
You wish they’d buy you flowers? Buy them flowers and send them to their work. It really is that simple to shake things up.
TIP #5 Unplug
Take regular time to unplug and connect with your partner. If you’re making dinner together, leave your phones in the other room. They’ll be there when it’s over and you’ll have had some quality facetime.
Instead of watching TV, take a walk around the neighbourhood.
If you find you’re constantly talking about work, family, or other people, make a concerted effort to spend this time trying to learn more about your partner’s past, their interests, and the way they see the world. We tend to feel like we know our partner so well that there’s nothing new to learn but if you ask unexpected questions, you’ll be surprised what comes out.
Sit down and take stock of your relationship. Look at what’s working and what isn’t. Be honest with yourself about what you want that you’re not getting and what they’re doing that hurts you, even if it seems tiny and petty.
Now, put the list aside and talk to your partner. See what they’re going through that may be keeping you two apart. Ask them what you could be doing differently that would make them happy. This conversation may or may not result in a breakthrough but the important thing is is to show them that you’re thinking about your relationship and how it can be better. Pretty soon, they will be too.
There you go. These are surefire ways to get your relationship from boring to exhilarating. In relationships, as in life, it takes work to keep things exciting. Who knew?
If you have other tips to keep things fresh in your relationship, please comment below and maybe you’ll inspire my next video! If you liked what I had to say, please like this video and subscribe to this channel for more content about how to navigate the complex world of modern relationships. I’ve been Jessica Boss, the original boss baby. Thanks for watching! Bye! - Навчання та стиль
why... is the thumbnail like that
Josh Fenn gotta be click bait. It’s the reason why I clicked on the video. Weird
Chisa Trenice It’s because that’s what it fucking feels like. It’s so sad bro :(
@@ChisaTrenice Same here man!
@@Jimbo1221 yea, i really love her and we're in a healthy relationship but im just bored...
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1. Drop the attitude!!!!
2. Add excitement!!!!!!!
3. Don't stop dating each other!!!!!
4. Treat well, care for them, listen!!!!
MS BOSS LADY omg thank you.
The thumbnail is creepy as heck. Made me think twice before clicking.
same
- HEY BABE LAST NIGHT WAS CRAZY 😩😩😩
- _Are you ok ?_
Good point I think it's helpful
THANK YOU
Cheating cause its more painful while boredom can be fixed !!
Thank you very much ma'am
Youn gave me so much hope. I got soooo anxious that i cant sleep and have an axiety disorder just because my relationship isnt working anymore. I wish do my best to fix it as to brake is easy. To brake it would mean to give up on all the amazing things that we went through.
Pliz listen to juice wrld -life's a mess . I hope that song will give you hope and I wish you the best ♥️, alwsys hold onnn
We don't share a single interest. I'm an Adrenalin junky , she is scared if it is raining too strong. But we have the purest love I ever had... but how long will it last... It was going to be good if she can share some of the experiences that i have, but she prefer staying at home. Many years have past and we are still together. We still don't do thing together. But the love is strong. Still bored tho, but i love her.
Оh yhea I tried so far most of your advises/
dont give up dude, push thru
Same story...but I'm worried..because maybe she don't like me anymore because i think im too boring...pls advise me
@@skyrunner7779 talk to her
mabye try some stuff that she likes
3 days ago I had a horrible dream , I had gotten remarried and supposedly I was already getting tired of it and was only like a few days after the marriage .😩
Your dp looks like the thumbnail
♥️ awesome
This video changed me. Oh man I hope every couple watches this and I love it.its like ur speaking my mind out . Thank you soo much I owe you❤️❤️❤️
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Hey really good video. It's very honest and simple with very helpful little parts, like "excitement is very fragile, it can't be faked."
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This is actually really good information
We never had a spark? Does this mean we shouldn’t be going out ???
I have adhd my boyfriend Said he never get bored 🤣I feel sorry for him 😂😂
Bruh I’m a dude and tbh I don’t get bored either
Tbh,the girls are the first one to get bored in a realtionship💔💔
what if our physical intimacy is strong, but our emotional intimacy is not? How do I tell my boyfriend that I just want like a normal date as if we just started dating. At some point he keeps getting "you know"..and it's to the point where I keep getting tired of it, but do it anyways... its like after we have it, we get bored easily right after. It feels like sex is the only way to keep excitement, but in my perspective..it is slowly making me feel like tired and wanting more than just that..any advice?..
We have been dating for 16 months
I can understand you!😞😞😞
Sigh....I will never understand why women pester us for comfort ans stability and then when we give it ...complain that the relationship is boring.
Here's an idea, why don't you get a hobby so that the burden of "entertaining you" isn't squarely on your boyfriend's back.
But how do I bring this up to him without seeming like I'm bored with our relationship?
What new things can a couple do? Like I know I can find new things for me but she won’t do what I do. And if I give my time to other things it will ruin my relationship cause she will think I’m fading away
What's With the Thumbnail?
And what if the reason I'm losing interest is because I think he's not good enough for me? He's a gemeni and I'm virgo so I thought it would work out but the relationship just got very boring....help me please
@@hoijamm HAHAHAHAHAHAHGA
Good tips but some tips are not applicable for long distance relationship....like mine.
Me and my partner and say its Circumstance not each other we've been together 16 years and I do think it is sometimes life can get into a same routine over and over and it's good to change it and be spontaneous good spontaneous things.
Thank you for sharing this.
thats pretty cute lmao
I want to send him something but he don't like because he thinks i am wasting money. What should i do?
What about long Distance 😞
I'm finna get dolled up &fuck w the flowers
boredom is worse
Jessica you are really very cute I don't know what was this videos about cuz my whole attention was toured your beauty and your cute smile attract me totally
Feelings just plain disappear !
Wtf is that thumbnail my guy
Clicked only bc of the thumbnail
Cheating it really sucks😭😭
What can a person do if they are in a long distance relationship?
Exactly
Are you even still together?
damn straight sister
I m watchin coz u re so beautiful :)
Every body talks about skydiving, no thanks I like to touch the earth, I don't need to risk my life to add excitement! Thanks for the interesting video Jessica! 😁 👍
You're gonna have a tough time dying mate
Don't worry it happens to every one, you don't need to go look for it 😆
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Actually yesterday I and my boyfriend had trust issues and so we decided to exchange passwords and today he changed his password wht can be the reason!?????
Not a good sign. Ask him if he has something to hide!
I'm so bored with him.. We just living together and I'm already over it, 😂 😂 it's like living with a roommate. Even this I would more enjoy...
@Mira Image that's what I said lmfao.. 😂 😂 I'm happy and single again .. I like living alone though don't need a roommate have nice neighbors 😂😂😂
its not useful for me
its just been 3 months and things are getting boring
Covid-19 makes it super hard to go out on dinners
BBW
But its deferent in Morocco. Girls never let u kiss them .. even what you do or you say ..
But rape is legal there, isnt?
Depends on the girl buddy
@@miembrosgibran educate yourself first
Boredom!
What if she was bored and broke up with you? How could i get her back
i need answers i need my girl back😥😥😥
If she truly loved u then she will come back
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You need help your sick
Keneil Watson I am very sorry that you found my disgusting comment, I chose a relationship in wrong timing and it didn’t work out because the person I was with actually never went well because I didn’t want to emotionally hurt him but later discovered it’s not right because my behaviour wasn’t compatible and my timing for a relationship was a mistake. I again apologize that you found such a comment.
Cute Bun Buns lol I was just trolling. Just hope u let him down slowly and not hurt him. How old are you
Keneil Watson Nah even though you were trolling I most likely agree with you or else I’d have deleted that comment because straight up saying that in public is stupid asf instead of discussing with partner. But I’m jst a teen so. ^~^ (ik I don’t look like one but surprisingly enough I am)
Cute Bun Buns can I have your number 🌚 maybe we can start our own R
Why is this your thumbnail? Weird af
I Know Of a Great Relationship Restorer Who Can Bring Back Your Ex Within 2days Without No Daley 💝
He was the one who helped me restored back my broken relationship of three years without stress nor delay 🥰
Text him on whatsap
Boring, just boring
Wtf is with the thumbnail 😂
I hope my gf see this
what the fuck is up with the thumbnail
He doesn't do... i do the way i wantt o be treated he is jst a plain man
You are right! N so cute too! Love your teeth n smile! I would so buy toothpaste from u if u said to!😁
U are so cute. Lol
you said "fret" im unsubbing and disliking
Wtf😭