Very Cool, I made my daughter make this type of a list and Baruch HaShem she hit her list.... your list appears very good, but do not be affraid to aim even higher... enjoy and can't wait to hear the good news soon! G-d Bless you! ;) Love it!
I really appreciated this video. I know you said you feel differently about certain things now but I really did love your list. Of course as we go through life what’s important to us may change but I think it’s always good to know in a general sense what our priorities are Thanks for another great video!
It's good to know what your priorities are but that doesn't mean your priorities are good. The fact that women today push for gender equality but then the vast majority of them still place money near the top of the list of things they want in a partner is having negative consequences for everyone. We in Western society have stigmatized men's natural attraction to physical beauty as being shallow but we have not done the same with women's desire for high status and wealth in a man. I read that 80% of the time when a married woman is promoted at work to a position earning more than her husband, she files for divorce within 5 years. A woman simultaneously demanding to earn equal or more than men while requiring a mate to earn equal or more than she does is an obvious mismatch in priorities and is a recipe for unhappiness for everyone - ex-wives, ex-husbands, and children in broken homes. Women either need to stop demanding that traditional gender roles no longer apply to themselves or else stop expecting men to conform to men's traditional gender roles. One or the other. The way it is now simply does not work. You cannot seek to marry up while simultaneously demanding that the opposite sex not be above you. Just doesn't work. You need to pick one. It can be either one and work out fine, but it can't be both.
Odd comment: I read an article a few weeks ago about Amar’e Stoudemire’s quest to find a Jewish wife through a shidduch. When I read that, I instantly thought of you 👀 😂. Who knows what’s possible! Hahaha. I’m glad to hear that you’re looking for a partner in a more organic way that fits your style. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences with us. Your journey to return home has inspired me.
I watched some of your videos in the past but recently it grabbed my attention and I am going back watching all of them and reading about you. I had assumed you were much younger and less accomplished. I was surprised that you were married and divorced and had been a CEO of a successful company.
Okay, but toss the list out when you find your soulmate! 😄 I honestly don't think about this list anymore, most of it's irrelevant to me now like the financial stuff. I want to be with the person who makes me scrap this list altogether. 😌💜
Love erases all those criterions you scribed. When you're in-love you're just grateful to be in the presence of the one you love, everything else is nonsense.
Since your ex-husband Mr. Moshfegh had an Iranian Jewish father, how did this affect your Jewish quest? Were you attracted to him because of the Jewish connection?
At first I did not recognize your middle name Bethia but looking at the Hebrew בתיה I realized my sister had an Israeli nursery school teacher named Batya and Basye was a relative killed in the Shoah. Looking at the Tanach, it would be transliterated in Israeli Hebrew as Bitya and it is usually translated into English as Bithiah. Where did you get the spelling Bethia?
But doesn't HaShem use other people to help you? Actually, I think you WOULD get a better selection of men because the prejudiced people and the ignorant people would almost all be weeded out!!!!! I think you should really RECONSIDER shidduch because I think that it could be as simple as having a neighbor invite some nice, multicultural friends over for Shabbat and you meet a nice guy there. The next time you go to Korea, I think you should attend Chabad shabbats and also, I think you should also join a group of Asian and Asian American Jews. In that way you will open up all of your options. I'm looking forward to seeing who HaShem has for you!!!! Barbara
Since your ex-husband Mr. Moshfegh had an Iranian Jewish father, how did this affect your Jewish quest? Were you attracted to him because of the Jewish connection?
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Very Cool, I made my daughter make this type of a list and Baruch HaShem she hit her list.... your list appears very good, but do not be affraid to aim even higher... enjoy and can't wait to hear the good news soon! G-d Bless you! ;) Love it!
Please, do an orthodox conversion. Just do it, you will feel more comfortable. Your options will be so much bigger.
I really appreciated this video. I know you said you feel differently about certain things now but I really did love your list. Of course as we go through life what’s important to us may change but I think it’s always good to know in a general sense what our priorities are Thanks for another great video!
Thanks!! 😊💜
It's good to know what your priorities are but that doesn't mean your priorities are good. The fact that women today push for gender equality but then the vast majority of them still place money near the top of the list of things they want in a partner is having negative consequences for everyone. We in Western society have stigmatized men's natural attraction to physical beauty as being shallow but we have not done the same with women's desire for high status and wealth in a man. I read that 80% of the time when a married woman is promoted at work to a position earning more than her husband, she files for divorce within 5 years. A woman simultaneously demanding to earn equal or more than men while requiring a mate to earn equal or more than she does is an obvious mismatch in priorities and is a recipe for unhappiness for everyone - ex-wives, ex-husbands, and children in broken homes. Women either need to stop demanding that traditional gender roles no longer apply to themselves or else stop expecting men to conform to men's traditional gender roles. One or the other. The way it is now simply does not work. You cannot seek to marry up while simultaneously demanding that the opposite sex not be above you. Just doesn't work. You need to pick one. It can be either one and work out fine, but it can't be both.
@@hameorah תשמרי על עצמך בתקופה הזאת,בסוף כל הרע והפיגועים יעברו,בורא עולם בוחן אותנו אני מאמין שהגאולה קרבה הרבה נבואות התגשמו
Odd comment:
I read an article a few weeks ago about Amar’e Stoudemire’s quest to find a Jewish wife through a shidduch. When I read that, I instantly thought of you 👀 😂. Who knows what’s possible! Hahaha.
I’m glad to hear that you’re looking for a partner in a more organic way that fits your style.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences with us. Your journey to return home has inspired me.
I admire the way you deal with this issue. I wish you a wonderful partner for life Beezrat Hashem soon.
I got like 2 out your long list :) Speaks Korean/understands the culture and kids/animals :) peace from Macau.
Oh man have I never seen this channel? What a Kiddush HaShem. Hatzlacha!
i love these q&a videos! it’s so interesting to see your opinions on things and also learn about judaism, like the three times for daily prayer. :)
Thanks! 😊
Now a days with IVF and various things to help older women have babies is helpful too.
I watched some of your videos in the past but recently it grabbed my attention and I am going back watching all of them and reading about you. I had assumed you were much younger and less accomplished. I was surprised that you were married and divorced and had been a CEO of a successful company.
Your positive attitude and spiritual outlook are very impressive.
ברוכה הבאה לעם ישראל
This is a cool video. I feel like I need to make a shidduch list like this.
Okay, but toss the list out when you find your soulmate! 😄 I honestly don't think about this list anymore, most of it's irrelevant to me now like the financial stuff. I want to be with the person who makes me scrap this list altogether. 😌💜
@@hameorah For sure! It's a good start though as something to think about initially.
Love erases all those criterions you scribed. When you're in-love you're just grateful to be in the presence of the one you love, everything else is nonsense.
Thank you for sharing it (also for being honest)!
Exactly more Organically!
I'm your future husband!!!
Have you thought about becoming a tour guide for Korean tourists?
Someone actually suggested that as well but I don't think I'd enjoy it-and in any case, my Korean is sadly not at that level! 😬
Since your ex-husband Mr. Moshfegh had an Iranian Jewish father, how did this affect your Jewish quest? Were you attracted to him because of the Jewish connection?
At first I did not recognize your middle name Bethia but looking at the Hebrew בתיה I realized my sister had an Israeli nursery school teacher named Batya and Basye was a relative killed in the Shoah. Looking at the Tanach, it would be transliterated in Israeli Hebrew as Bitya and it is usually translated into English as Bithiah. Where did you get the spelling Bethia?
With regard to getting married in Israel, are you concerned that the Israeli rabbanut does not recognize Conservative conversions?
Might be too late for the Q and A, but have you thought about going to Uman?
Tbh, as much as I love Rebbe Nachman, I've never really felt called to go there but I'm sure I'd enjoy it if I have the opportunity to visit someday.
I met my husband in Jerusalem ♥️ the Israeli synchronicity runs strong there...
But doesn't HaShem use other people to help you? Actually, I think you WOULD get a better selection of men because the prejudiced people and the ignorant people would almost all be weeded out!!!!! I think you should really RECONSIDER shidduch because I think that it could be as simple as having a neighbor invite some nice, multicultural friends over for Shabbat and you meet a nice guy there. The next time you go to Korea, I think you should attend Chabad shabbats and also, I think you should also join a group of Asian and Asian American Jews. In that way you will open up all of your options. I'm looking forward to seeing who HaShem has for you!!!! Barbara
Shalom ❤️
Proverbs 31:10🕊
Hi,
What is happening which your orthodox conversion?
Is it still happening?
Hashem may have different plans for you that displaces your long list of material desires.
Most certainly. And I've really grown out of materiality the last couple years!
בע"ה
Why would you marry someone whom you wouldn't look at twice if he were poor? In that case you don't need a partner in life--you just need a bank.
Since your ex-husband Mr. Moshfegh had an Iranian Jewish father, how did this affect your Jewish quest? Were you attracted to him because of the Jewish connection?